BadassY2J Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Women are lucky that men tend to have low standards and be simps. "47 F" and "us hotties" - you can only choose one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/07/26 11:09 AM
–	Q4W: If you were giving basic life and dating advice to a man you cared about, what would you tell him to maximise his chances of happiness in relationships with women? It's pathetic trying to mold yourself into someone's desire only to be liked/loved by them. Guys should just find their "unique" selves and maybe right woman would show up or maybe not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 09:15 PM
1	Work on yourself is useless advice But it's not what I mean by wearing hoodies/sweatpants in stylish way	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/26 10:27 AM
1	Work on yourself is useless advice So you have very limited perception	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/26 10:23 AM
1	Work on yourself is useless advice You can wear hoodies nad sweatpants in stylish way. I have weird styles, because one day I could rock grunge/punkush style, one day I style polyester sweatpants, the next day I could wear cool hoodie and camo pants. However I think style should be something unique/natural/intuitiver. Most people wear what is acceptable/trendy or they are dressed by their girlfriends or they wear very basic clothes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 02:38 PM
1	Don’t change who you are even if it gets you results I also think you shouldnt change your authentic style of clothes. I have my own which I love and I many girls like that I dont blind follow how I should dress. I can also wear clothes which are not consider attractive , but I can style them on cool way or/and I feel very good in them and people can sense it	/r/TheRedPill	28/08/24 02:21 PM
7	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience I was dating and was in short relationships with girls out of my league and I have not spent any dollar for them. We just vibed and clicked	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 09:33 AM
6	A guy has a reasonable chance to date a younger woman is he actively tries to, age gap relationships are nowhere near as unusual as the Blue Pillers here say I am 35 guy who is dating women in 20-26	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 04:03 PM
–	Is there a presumption that posters/commenters here are neurodivergent? Why do you think they are broken beyond repair and what do you mean by that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 10:20 PM
1	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. We can already fix baldness and in the future it will be probably even better solutions for this issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 05:41 PM
1	If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways. What if she was attracted to this 30 year and overall he would be still cool guy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 04:50 PM
–	Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own age If you look good and younger and has cool style/niche in your 30s you could easily get women in their 20s. It's your look/vibe/style/personality/swag/whatever, not your age. However if you are 45+ it's probably much harder to get much younger woman. But still it depends from person to person. I am 35 and I have no problem with attracting women in their 20s or even late teens (of course I don't approach teens, they have to 23+,), because I look younger and I have been into streetwear fashion my w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/24 06:40 PM
1	CMV: It's good advice to never settle What about other stuff I mentioned?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 06:33 PM
1	One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY. Arms? :D	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 02:41 PM
1	One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY. 28 is old? Guys don't listen this bitch, she wants to lower your vibrations	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/24 02:35 PM
1	What's the most superficial reason that you have rejected someone in real life, or left swiped them on dating apps? What do you mean by helplessness?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 02:51 PM
1	Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him? No, they won't be happy with average/below average woman if he is not attracted to her. Also did you suggest that he needs money to attract woman in last paragraph?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 10:32 AM
3	Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as default If woman is younger than 30, physically attractive, doesn't have kids and she has the same sense of humour as me, I don't give a fuck about any other things	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/24 11:17 AM
1	I think men are being gaslighted when they're told that a man who has his shit together cannot find a younger woman to date. It depends what age is woman. If she is 20, probably she won't guy in his 30s. But if a woman is 25+ it won't be problem for her. I am still able to attract women in their 20s (I am 35). I can't keep them, but I am loser without adult skills, but it's another issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/24 11:10 AM
2	If you bring nothing worth sleeping with, you should not be surprised when you don't get laid. This is not woman's fault Why do you think 5'10 is short? Also do you get laid with attractice girls?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/24 05:26 PM
2	'Looksmaxing' can't push your attractiveness much above your baseline level. I think that looksmaxxing in terms of surgeries only can really help you. Hair transplant for balding guys who has awful shape of head (but looks good with hair) can do wonderful thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/24 09:09 AM
2	Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get married What do you mean by competence? I am great at faking confidence, but I am extremele incompetent adult and I am afraid it's why women always leave me after 3-5 months	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/24 10:14 AM
3	“Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominant I am that guy. Zero success on dating apps, but I met attractive girls in real and I even form short term relationship (I have too many issues for something long term, but it's another story) with them or have few ONS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 02:21 PM
6	“Getting off the apps” doesn’t help when the same mindsets are predominant It's funny cause I am also 5'10, mid 30s and little heavier than you (I am skinny fat with extremely skinny arms). I am also balding. I get NO matches on apps (even from uglys), but I met quite a lot of attractive women in real life who were out of my league. I had short term relationships with them. They like my vibe, style, voice, IDGAF attitude and all said I have some "x factor". All of those traits I am not able to show on apps. I also have very boring, quite sheltered lifestyle, so I don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 10:17 AM
–	Realistic standards are the key to success Balding also destoys your attractiveness. You can be good looking with hair like myself, but badling destroyed my 20s and uncover my weird shape of head. I am Prince William case a little - he was so hot with hair and he lost his attactiveness after losing hair. I did my hair transplant at 28/29, it only helps me a little bit, but I need second (last) surgery to get desirable results. I noticed that most girls really don't care that much about muscles. I am skinny fat (extremely skinny arms, tru…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 08:20 AM
–	What should men do to vet if a woman is safe to be vulnerable with? Do you bottle your emotions? You can fake it at the beginning, but I won't be able to hide it in the long term relationship. I am too borderline and ADHD and my emotions sooner or later will explode. But yeah I try everything to not show my emotions to modern women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/24 03:44 PM
1	Does the modern dating process and relationships quash mens individuality? I am that skinny guy who is not conventionaly attractive, however I don't have effeminate vibe/personality/body language and I have this DGAF attitude which intrigues people and even annoyed strangers. All my exes were out of my league, but I am fucked in many cases, so I am not able to keep them	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 04:01 PM
1	The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless) Hair transplant. It's what saved my in life in every area. However I need the second surgery to get desirable results, but it's still better than what it was before first transplant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/24 02:34 PM
1	Playing guitar is 🔥 What about charismatic guys without any talent? Are they still attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/24 06:02 PM
1	"Having common interests" is one of the most overrated things when it comes to relationships I am extremely boring male and I would love to have boring girlfriend to just chill. The problem I am only attracted to attractive chicks so they have tons of better options. I am 35 and it’s so pathetic to just start finding hobbies/interes at this age. Women probably expect me to be developed at this age/stage, not just startobg literally everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/24 01:20 PM
0	Women always say if men paid attention they wouldn't be shocked by the breakup, but is it even possible for the man to save the relationship? THIS! You should get many votes for this	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/24 08:57 PM
–	Height/Weight/Status/Income do not really matter that much! I fixed balding (partially, I need a second surgery) by hair transplant and I am not that scrawny anymore (but I was) and I was able to get a girls out of my league. However I am 5'10' not 5'6', so maybe why your friend is doomed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 11:55 PM
1	Women who dated out of shape men with no job/career prospects. Does the attraction actually last? What do you mean by "that sort of thing" or "it stresses me out"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 01:09 PM
1	Women who dated out of shape men with no job/career prospects. Does the attraction actually last? Would you able to date a guy who couldn't cook and can't drive (but would be willing to learn it). I am 35 and I still can't do those things because of my advanced ADHD/executive dysfunction and I am afraid I will be forever alone because I may be never able to be functional adult in 100% (it's not only my opinion, my psychologist and psychiatrist said that). It sucks because they are few attractive women into me, but I am afraid to approach because there is a big risk that they will lose intere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 12:19 PM
2	Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted too Ronda Rousey is attractive ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/24 03:57 PM
2	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? So you would be able to date guy without any hobby, but who is willing to find one?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:21 PM
2	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? Ok, what if I found them just recently or still haven't found but he wants to? Is it dealbreaker for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:19 PM
3	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? I try to cultivate those friends, but I noticed they don't have time and willingness to meet me. So I can't force them to do it. I know that hobbies are to enjoy,. But I am afraid that I found them too late. Would it be a problem if guys hasn't had hobbies, but just found them the same time (or few months before) he met you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:18 PM
1	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? I don't have social struggles. I am in my mid 30s and my friends naturally disappears, so in theory I have friends, but practically I am quite friendless right now. In terms of hobbies I couldn't find them earlier, mainly because of my undiagnosed, advanced ADHD. However I started recently discovered them, but I am afraid it;s too late. Women would expect me to be already skilled at something at this age and I am quite suicidal today about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:10 PM
7	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? I don't have social struggles. I am in my mid 30s and my friends naturally disappears, so in theory I have friends, but practically I am quite friendless right now. In terms of hobbies I couldn't find them earlier, mainly because of my undiagnosed, advanced ADHD. However I started recently discovered them, but I am afraid it;s too late. Women would expect me to be already skilled at something at this age and I am quite suicidal today about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:09 PM
5	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? So it's still dealbreaker if he WANTS to get them (hobbies/friends)? Why don't you want to give them a chance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:03 PM
6	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? Why? And also what if he doesn't have hobbies/friends, but wants to get them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 09:00 PM
7	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? What if he doesn't have hobbies/friends, but he wouldn't clingy, didn't get jealous and would not limit you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 08:58 PM
1	At what point is a man "too available" to you? Why is a man who's available to date you a negative? What if he doesn't have hobbies/friends, but he wouldn't clingy, didn't get jealous and would not limit you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 08:57 PM
–	Does Agreeableness Actually Matter? Her face is awful, but she looks like she has athletic/quite muscular body	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 05:34 PM
–	Does Agreeableness Actually Matter? She is far froim being attractive. "Not overweight, straight skin, clear skin" = wow, what a low standard for being attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/24 11:01 AM
0	Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in dating Bullshit. I am much more attractive to woman in my 30s than I was in my 20s. Usually thanks to hair transplant, because balding destroyed my appereance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 01:53 PM
0	Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in dating You would be shocked. My recent ex (who is really hot and out of my league) in her 20s dated (were in relationships) guys 9-16 years older than her. I am 7 years older than her and I was her the youngest boyfriend. And no, she isn't gold digger, she has her own money (good career) and she hated female who dig guys for status/money. Also I was unemployed when we were together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 01:44 PM
0	Women are unfair in dating so there’s no obligation for men to be fair in dating I am in my mid 30s and I am only going to date women in mid 20s. I am competely NOT attracted to women in 30s and above (not because of some redpillers said that, fuck them, I am just not attracted to women in 30s in any possible way) and women in early 20s are usually too immature, so women in mid 20s are perfect for me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 12:58 PM
2	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake What do you mean by "offering anything worthwhile"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:03 PM
2	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake Of course you had to give a suggestion that we should lower our standards. I am not conventionally attractive in any way but trust me there are unattractive women who didn't give a shit about me (I also didn't care about them, but I was just aware of it) and there were really attractive women with whom I had short relationships or sexual encounters. I think most guy should higher their standards and approach any woman they want while still improving themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/24 12:00 PM
1	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex So maybe you are betabuxxing, I have never had any money so it's still weird I could pull girls out of my league	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/24 01:59 PM
2	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex Trust me if you saw me you would never call me Chad :D Objectively I am 4,5-5,5/10	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:48 PM
0	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex Trust me, I always saw a lot of strangers who were extremely shocked when they saw me with my few exes. Some people even asked "how did I do it?" or "sorry, are you together?". Yeah they were that out of my league	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:32 PM
0	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex I can't get them on regular basis. I was always at the right place and right time. But like I said it was good luck and good timing	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:30 PM
2	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex I don't know. However I am extreme loser in every area of my life, but I can be extremely charming at first dates/months, but then all my serious issues in every area of my life pop up, so they quit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 09:28 PM
7	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex I am average looking, average height (5'10'), balding (however I am after one hair transplant, but I need the second to get desirable results), mentally unstable (ADHD + borderline disorder), but I was known for getting girls out of my league. The problem is I couldn't keep them longer than 4-5 months, but at least we had short term relationships and good sexual life. It's still weird, because I know many guys who are much better than me at literally everything and they can't even get average gi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:48 AM
1	If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sex I am average looking, average height (5'10'), balding (however I am after one hair transplant, but I need the second to get desirable results), mentally unstable (ADHD + borderline disorder), but I was known for getting girls out of my league. The problem is I couldn't keep them longer than 4-5 months, but at least we had short term relationships and good sexual life. It's still weird, because I know many guys who are much better than me at literally everything and they can't even get average gi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 11:47 AM
–	Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too high I know it sounds weird, but would you date someone who just started discovering his hobbies/interestes, because they didn't developed them yet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 11:51 AM
2	The Big Difference of Aging between Men vs Women is... Hairline could be fixed by hair transplant. TONS of men in every age range do it all over the world. I am already after first surgery, but I need a second to get desirable results	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/24 11:23 AM
1	Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts? What do you mean by what they do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 11:44 AM
3	Women demand a partner next to whom they can live an influencer lifestyle I hope there are more women like you, but it seems literally every woman loves to travel	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 11:23 AM
3	Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.” Sorry, but some guys don't have many options and many will be rejected many times, so what are other solutions? He has to play number game and wait for someone who will finally say "yes!".	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/24 07:14 PM
–	Women ultimately are attracted to strength I am great at faking self-confidence and many girls AT THE BEGINNING loves me for that, I can even win them over much more attractive guys. However all of them always dumped me after 3-4 months because after that my borderline and ADHD always pop up. I can't hide it for so long and I am extremely emotional and unstable guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/24 04:54 PM
2	Is it true that most people cannot lower their standards biologically? I am your age and extreme late bloomer (but not sexually, in other areas) and it's why I only date women in mid 20s. I am not attracted to women over 30s, it's not about the wall and I just don't feel their vibes. There is nothing more attractive than young, youthful energy and beatiful women in their 20s. I am not ugly and I could be good looking guy, but balding stole my 20s. I am already after first hair transplant (in 2018), but I need a second surgery to get desirable results	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/24 04:42 PM
1	Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boring She threw themselves at me, she even dumped much better looking guy for me. She did everything to go to bed with me at the beginning. However I have tons of problem like mental issues, meltdown, erecticle dysfuction (impotence), unemployed, can't cook and drive. It doesn't matter if she was sexually attractive if I have tons of other issues and she has tons of options	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 03:21 PM
1	Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boring I am also 5'10 (which is not short) and I am balding (I am after one hair transplant, but I need second one to get desirable results) and I was dating women out of my league. Strangers even asked me how I do it. So it's not mission impossible. The problem is they always dump me afte 3-5 months but I am extremely broken loser, but it's not another issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/24 12:42 PM
1	"What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbers It should be more people like you, but you can notice there are some fucked up people who values this apporach (what do you bring to the table). Fuck, world becamed so transactional ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 01:59 AM
1	Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers? What do you mean by "what a MAN brings to the table"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 08:33 PM
2	Using surrogates and egg donors to have kids instead of with a romantic partner I am only 1-2 years older than you and It's why I am happy that I am child free and I have never wanted kids. I don't feel any pressure and I can make up for wasted years	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 03:02 PM
1	What advice would you give to average and below average men who want hookup and not be in a monogamous relationship? Why the fuck you want guys to lower their standard? I am somewhere between 4-6/10 and I fucked up 7-9/10. Of course not on a regular basic, but great timing/luck/natural not giving fuck helped me attracting girls out of my league. I think the secret is that If you are in good place and have confident vibe then you can attract women whom you would not be able to attract otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 03:43 PM
4	Women have so many options that it's hard to sympathize with those who say they can't find a man. I don't give a fuck what I deserve. If I am attracted to someone I am going to take a shot. Will I be rejected many times? Probably, so what? I am not afraid to be alone and I don't want marriage and kids, so maybe it's easier for me. Also I can't force being attracted to someone I am not attracted and also I was able to get a girls out of my league in the past for short term relationship (however they dumped me always after 3-5 months, becasue I am broken loser), which is weird because I am far…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/24 01:25 PM
1	What makes someone boring in your eyes? Why do you think you are highly boring person? Also you are woman, it's more acceptable to be boring woman than being boring man,	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 02:26 AM
–	Men need to be on social media to be relevant in today's dating market & economy What if you have no skills/hobbies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 07:14 PM
0	Can men just not be loved for who they actually are? How can you learn to be lovable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/24 10:08 PM
0	At a 50/50 male to female ratio, why are there so many men left out? If you are such a badass player why don't you pick up above average looking women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/24 02:58 PM
1	What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with? Whatever, I just hope there are women who don't mind that I eat only outise or order food.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 04:26 PM
1	What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with? I hope you are right because I am really big manchild in his 30s. The problem is I can't keep woman in my life so it could be dealbreaker. I hope there are women who don't give a fuck If can't cook anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 04:24 PM
1	What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with? It's too much time to waste and I have to make up for wasted decades of my life in TONS of other areas	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/24 04:22 PM
1	If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up? Is it still good advice if you are already in your mid 30s? I am 34/35 and I just started discovering my first hobbies/developing skills last year. I don't want to wait until my 40s, I still want to to expereince "young love" with younger women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/24 04:51 PM
0	What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with? What about a guy who is in his mid 30s who doesn't live with parents, clean and do laundries by himself, but CAN'T cook anything (he eats outisde or order food)? I can't cook, don't cook and I don't give a fuck about cooking, however I am afraid it will be total dealbreaker for women. Of course I am willing to cook, but only if I enter relationship. Otherwise I am not going to waste time for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/24 04:41 PM
1	If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want? First paragraph was irony? Sorry, if cosmetic surgery can fix something what makes you unattractive or/and makes you miserable, why should I not do it? Because I have to be "natural"? Fuck it. Some of us was already destroyed by balding and the only solution is hair transplant. Also I don't want kids so it's another reason why I don't care about "faking gene".	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 09:26 PM
1	If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want? It's why I think guys should do plastic surgery if they think they need it (if effects look good and natural of course). There are more and more TONS of guys who did hair transplants (myself included), because balding would destroy their attractiveness (no, not everyone looks good bald, more of us would look awful). Some women would say this is "faking you gene". Fuck it, if it works, then it works. My hair transplant surgeon told me that every year his number of clients increase over 300%. More…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 09:17 PM
1	Women who are very experienced in romantic relationships (whether sexually or emotionally) would you date someone who had never been in a relationship? I just started developing hobbies by myself, but the problem is I just started and I am afraid women won't "forgive" me for it. So what should I suppose to do if I have no relationship experience? I had only had few short term relationships who lasted 3-5 months and I can't go back in time. Should I give up and accept being forever single?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 02:22 PM
1	Would you like it or would it turn you off to a person romantically if he or she tried to take up the same interests as you just to impress you? Emulating someone's personality/hobbies/likes is lame as fuck and I would never do that. However what about someone who has no interest/hobbies and tries to find them? I am already 34/35 and I just started discovering my first hobbies/interests. I know many people say "better late than ever", but it sucks I am not skilled at anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 04:08 PM
2	Part 1: The future is female Thanks, you made my day. I was extremely suicidal today. I mean I am not skilled at anything, but I started learning new things. The problem is I just started at 34/35. I have drive license, but I haven't driven car after passing exam, so I need to learn it once again. The problem is I don't need a car when I live in extremely big city and I can't even afford a car. I also don't want to re-learn driving if I wasn't able to get a car after that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 06:04 PM
3	Part 1: The future is female Ok. So I have never cooked even the simple meal. And I am 34/35 years old. I am "outsourcing" my food life and I love it. I just want my partner to accept that I don't cook. She doesn't have to cook for me - I will order something or go eat outside. However If she is willing to learn me to cook I am able to learn. But only with partner not by myself. I am also willing to do cleaning etc. if she is willing to cook for me. All my life I have been living if one of the biggest cities in my country, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 04:47 PM
1	Part 1: The future is female So you are able to forgive guy a things I mentioned?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 03:51 PM
-1	You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier. (Reposted) You can fix 3/4 of this stuff. Get hair transplant, go to The dentist and learn how to drive	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 02:28 PM
1	Men who complain about not getting casual sex don't put themselves in the right environments. How would you react if you met attractive who would be attracted to unattractive you? It was case with my ex	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 02:18 PM
1	Part 1: The future is female If I have nothing to offer should I give up dating forever? I always could create emotional connection with my partner but I am not "practical" (can't cook, drive, never travelled and I just started discovering my hobbies).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 12:45 PM
2	Women who are very experienced in romantic relationships (whether sexually or emotionally) would you date someone who had never been in a relationship? Am I fucked if I am "relationship virgin" (but I had quite good sexual life and I had very shor term relationship) but I also didn't developed any skills/hobbies? However at least I am just starting everything. The problem is I am already 34/35 and women probably don't want to wait for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 04:01 PM
–	Women who are very experienced in romantic relationships (whether sexually or emotionally) would you date someone who had never been in a relationship? What should I do then if I am 34/35 years old with no relationship experience? Suicide? I hate being alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 02:02 PM
–	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? Geez, women here are really bitter and jaded. Even more than guys. Maybe it won't be regular pattern, but I know I would be able to get them. Even now I get some sweet eyes from attractive women in library and cafe, both where I go regularly. I know there won't be a lot of them, but I don't care about quantity, I just want quality, even just one to relationship, but she needs to be really attractive for me. Also I am good looking guy with hair, so I know hair transplant will increase my attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 06:57 PM
–	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? It’s not delusion if I already was succesful with attractive women in The past.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 06:39 PM
–	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? It’s not enough for me so I am going to do tons of things to improve my look/situation. Ex hair transplant. If I was able to get girls out of my league at my worst and I am sure as hell I will be able to get and maybe even keep women of my league in The future	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 06:34 PM
–	How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women? How should I expand my social circle in my mid 30s? All friends are gone. Also the funny thing in real life I was able to pick really women out of my league. On dating apps I am not able even to get a match with uggos. It's weird how much you can experience both extremes based on where you try to meet people	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/24 04:25 PM
1	Do you believe life is generally easier as a single person? What do you mean by "trying to figure out how to adult"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 01:54 PM