| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 109 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why! | Outer Game | BagEmpty6931 | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 10:49 AM |
| 40 | Man, she went for the kiss after worst date ever (32M, 26F) | Escalation & Calibration | BagEmpty6931 | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Girls give just about 20 seconds to react. Be fast. | Inner Game | BagEmpty6931 | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | After two months of full time Daygame, it's time to change tactics | Outer Game | BagEmpty6931 | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 06:39 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 45 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.But what he said is "you wanna come over"...so he has looks and courage to say that, dont forget. His game is not at 0% regarding of looks. | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Guys who can convert cold leads with no IOIsOftentimes IOI's already mean that you are too late. Like at traffic when someone blows the horn on you because you are late for the green light. If you are not experienced, IOI's put pressure on you and make you think you got it and then you start skipping the steps. Best IOI is - you start convo, she expands it. Thats your IOI you need to go for. | /r/seduction | 27/03/26 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Your classmates and friends aren’t getting girls because they are better looking. They just don’t care and don’t try to get approval.A lot of staff is written here and all sounds nice. And some things may be true, but is more of over-analysing. Those guys, who get woman, are behaving the way woman like. That is all. And that behaviour is learned. This is more true than "being themselves" or "not chasing approval" . Because if they are being themselves and not chasing approval they will go to the work see their good looking boss and say: "do you fuck on first date or you wait for second?"... They wont do that because that beha… | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 10:38 AM |
| 2 | What is the best day of the week to ask a girl out?I like this post. Thursday seems the best day for me too, and you try to set a date for next tuesday. Edit: thursday is day when you try to set a date. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Honesty gets you a very long wayTelling exact truth doesnt seems to get me anything in life. Truth should be packed and delivered in the form that will give me what I want and will not harm other side or give us both what we want. You do not say "Guys, I'm not going out with you tonight because I dont have money", you say: "I'm busy tonight". You do not say to girl: "Come to my place to have sex", you say "lets come to my place to make some dinner". When girl asks you: " your friend told me you are bad swimmer, are you?", you … | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked me out, rejected a second date and now wants to go out againGuys can also lose interest in that scenario. They should accept that and reject second date if ther guts tell them that. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 9 | easy ways to be more attractiveIs this female giving us advice on dating? My oh my :) | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:35 PM |
| 0 | 4th date tonight, but she’s annoyed I didn’t confirm the booking time despite me saying we’re meeting for half 7 a couple of days ago. Was I in the wrong and how to approach it?Tell her that you should have informed her and wont repeat it in the future | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 04:33 PM |
| 5 | 4th date tonight, but she’s annoyed I didn’t confirm the booking time despite me saying we’re meeting for half 7 a couple of days ago. Was I in the wrong and how to approach it?Yeah, you should told her that. That is 2.5 hours (suppose half 7 means 6:30) after inicial plan. Doesn't matter if its your date, friend, brother... | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 04:24 PM |
| 37 | Girlfriend is TO touchy with my assTwo weeks from now your ass will be eaten. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | How to not give satisfaction to others?By not complaining. When you complain you show weakness and they become satisfied. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Haven't dated or spoken to a girl in 2 yearsYou don't get more physically attractive after age 30 so better make the most of it. O yes, yes you do. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Military haircuts (buzzcut, etc): A big no no for women/appeal?Starting to think that finding good hairdresser, spending 40 and more minutes to get a nice haircut and sometimes spending more money for better haircut is just not worth it. Besides that, using haircut to improve mood and confidence is another think that can ruin the same. So, I'm went for short military haircuts few months ago, hope to see nice results in the future. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:37 PM |
| 0 | Why does this girl keep looking at me when she’s in a relationship?Dont see why this is downvoted. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What built YOUR confidence?Expressing boundaries Resolving conflicts with other people (starting tough convos) | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How do keep the tension and interest up before meeting if the meet up can’t happen immediately?Yeah, I had situation where I was not talking much before date but I said one or two information that she was very interested in. Second I told it, I knew I lost. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 08:47 PM |
| 6 | A woman has to desire you first before you see any obvious hints.No, I can't dig it. I think you should continue your work, find more examples rather then just this "milf story" and write more quality post in a few months. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!I think its downvoted for this: "most loving, fun, caring" part.. Sounds like some girl wrote that. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!One of them asked me for a coffee this morning and gave me her number. I accidently bumped into her when she was at her break outside bakery. Yeah, she is into me. I also thought that they are just doing their job but going ouside and talking to them made me realize how that really works. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 01:36 PM |
| -2 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!Haha.. No, they never just do their job.. Both like me. I know their names, nicknames, hobbies... They know whom they telling all those stuff | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!They know me, I come there often. First one was talking to some women about some meat and I added: yea yea, they have plenty of meat in this store, dont know where they get all that from. Tommorow i came back and cashier started giving me sign of interest just because of stupid "meat convo". Suppose I sounded funny and confident.. Cashier at bakery: I was in the great mood that day i asked something like: "hey, what nice do you have for me today? Surprise me with something. " She responded with … | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 11:18 AM |
| 0 | Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why!Thats true, cold approach from nowhere is something that I would not recommend. I'm flirting with 4-5 girl these days actively so places are: - cashier at the grocery shop - cashier at the bakery shop - girl at the coffee shop, comes few times a week. There are two that like me, but i prefer one over other. - girl that is jogging at the sport center at same time as i do (asked her about her training regime and started lite convo yesterday) | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Did getting a car really changed your dating life ?Not really, having a car is not game changer and it not worth focusing on. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Focusing on self or focusing on game ?Both at the same time | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | ADVICE NEEDED: how did you improve your inner game?Started to be more social, extroverted guy. Talked to every neighbor whenever I got chance. Started to be more "arrogant". My inner voice is more agressive towards dissrespectful people and I'm trying to express it out. Sometimes I set boundaries that Im not even sure of but I stick to them no matter what. And it feels good. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Got ignored multiple times cold approachingI have been ignored few times, too. Bad feeling. You must work on it and make sure you get your response even if you have to repeat yourself. Confidence is all that - I will get my response and deal with it no matter what kind od response I get. | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 10:46 AM |
| 3 | Advice from a girl: don’t always take it personally if you’re rejectedIf I have lost my job and pretty girl comes buy - fuck yea, come here and make my day! | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Whats the ioi (indicators of interest) girls gave ?Few I got last week: watching me then fast look away when I look back. More subtle way then long eye contact. long eye contact without looking away using opportunity to come close without other IOI (eye contact and do on). Very subtle but thats just the way they do. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it right to do cold aproaches in coffes?I cannot tell you what to do, but you must figure out what to NOT TO DO. I often go for clear signs of interest and give up early if there is no chance. You probably pushed to hard when trying to go for another one. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it right to do cold aproaches in coffes?What did you do that scared people away? | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Is it right to do cold aproaches in coffes?Better to do it in coffee shops where nobody knows you. You can do it in coffes where everybody knows you but go for clear signs of interest. If you acted like creep in some situation, just stop doing it for some time and everybody will just forget about it. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 162 | Anyone who got fit and saw huge difference with women?I can tell you, from my own experience, that confidence boost, which happens when you start hitting the gym, it's not enough. You have to, at the same time, practice talking to women and remove fears that lifting weights won't remove. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Man, she went for the kiss after worst date ever (32M, 26F)Interesting perspectives, especially first one. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Man, she went for the kiss after worst date ever (32M, 26F)Yep, that is it... Got a move on and be more "agressive" next time. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Man, she went for the kiss after worst date ever (32M, 26F)We are born and raised at same small town and met there. Now dating in another, bigger city where I work and she studies. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:22 AM |
| 8 | Gym girls2) I feel like approaching girls at the gym is not the best. I feel like at the gym most people want to just focus on themselves. Not true. Sometimes it looks like everybody's doing their own business but sometimes girls give you signals. And want to be approached. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Has pickup artist or dating coach advice worked for you?Listen to them for fun, dont take their advices as "must be". Todd V is interesting to watch and listen. Now I follow Corey Wayne and he is very good I must say. He constantly repeats few advices that are accurate. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:13 AM |
| 3 | What, exactly, is a double texting?I dont see problem to text again, send some picture or similar. But you have to show that you are not trying hard to keep convo (for example: avoid stupid questions). | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:25 PM |
| 10 | What, exactly, is a double texting?I think that double text is bad when the intent is to "save yourself" from previous text. You write something stupid or risky and then double text to change topic or lower your intentions from previous text. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:00 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Maybe: Her: I'm so bored please entertain me. Me: Come over to my house, well eat something and listen to the music. Idea: entertaining over text leads nowhere. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:44 PM |
| -1 | Do you agree of disagree with the phrase "If it's not a fuck yes, it's a no"?Just working on that with a girl I dated last night. I went strong for the date, which happened, and then showed no neediness as some kind of surprise. Didnt give her much attention during date, talked to random people and not just with her, allowed pauses during convo which she had to break first... Now Im slow texting, practicly matching hers texting speed and calling for another date just if I see her interest raised - not before. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 06:16 PM |
| 3 | DaygameDo not expect fast results, take your time and make some breaks. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Getting stares at the gymYeah, it's a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 07:34 PM |
| 7 | What are the best spots for a first date? What are the worst spotsOne of my very best: playing frisbee at the park Worst: coffee shop, especially if you sit in front of each other. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Best Game PUA product/ teacher for ENFP mbti type people ??Bro I hope you don't use all those acronyms when talking to girls... | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Fuck the gameMan, totally agree. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:22 PM |
| 21 | The best thing to say to a woman when you approachI'm trying new approach, called "absolutely genuine". Idea is to avoid learned phrases and overthinking and go with whatever my mind says. If my mind doesn't notice anything about the girl except her beauty, Im going to say "hey, you are cute.." If my mind sees girl that has some white socks all the way to the knees and nothing else to point out, Im going to say:"hi, nice socks you have.. Sure you are not cold...". If my mind sees beautiful girl that throws spear as her main sport activity, im g… | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Todd V sucks and here’s whyBeen watching Todd V videos a lot last month, they are fun. His game doesnt look super advanced at the field, seems that hes pretty nervous for someone who is expert but who cares? His videos are very enjoyable and thats enough. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Haha.. I would say lack of practice. First date in a year, got to warm my engines. Set a date at 18h in the middle of hot summer, right after stressful day at job and set across her from huge table... Few logistic mistakes :) | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 09:14 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I have a nice car, Audi, 2014., and I'm above average in looking. Asked girl for a date, she accepted without knowing I have a nice car. Went on a date, sit her in my clean white Audi and drove to the park. I had a lame game, we went trough very boring conversation. She doesnt want to see me anymore, saw her flirting with dude without car and not so attractive. Fk apperance, improve game and overall behaviour. Take a risk with them, if being nice doesnt work be a jerk sometimes and see what happ… | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching a 100 WomenIs your confidence with women much better now? Is your game better? How many dates did you arrange? | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 02:45 PM |
| 39 | Im new to this, i have a question: masksMask should not be a problem if you have natural smile and casual approach. It happens, you should get used to scaring girls if you are begginer at cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 01:57 PM |
| 9 | What would you do if you’re dating a girl and she starts to play like a psychoanalyst on you?Had similar situation last year with girl I was seeing. She used to tell me I had a disappointing relationship with my exes and unsolved problems with them without me telling her anything. Now I see it as some kind of test, and If you can ignore it and tell her to just not bother you with that (not react) - would be a nice solution. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 11:06 AM |
| 3 | How confidence can help in talking?If you lack of conversations skills, you have to practice them, not something else. Go outside and talk to people, start with neighbors and take step further every once in a while. Use every opportunity to talk, leave your phone in the pocket and your earbuds at home! | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 06:54 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]Yes I do. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | MindsetLately I'm trying to avoid overthinking my approach because next chance can be right around the corner so there is no time... Thats something i'm working on in my daygame. | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 12:14 AM |
| 3 | MindsetHey man, thank you for your post. My first thought is that you are using to much of math... Take it easy and do what has to be done. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 11:37 PM |
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