BaiKingu Archive

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2	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. Having CHATGPT answer with “this MAY signal commitment” several times to a prompt YOU literally gave it isn’t a robust scientific consensus. The sheer irony & cringe of you calling yourself a “science pill man” is actually sendingggggg me. I know you don’t get it, because it isn’t an experience you will ever have, but women will by and large agree with my assessment because it is actually their experience. In the same way you will never be able to accurately describe subjective feelings you are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 10:20 AM
2	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. Having CHATGPT attempt to answer how romance is just signs of commit shows exactly that you have an entirely straight male masculine borderline autismo perspective of the romantic genre which in many cases doesn’t have anything to do with commitment, the basis of most romantic literature is tension, total commitment from a man in a direct fashion is not romantic, despite it being factually, the safest most evolutionarily adaptive quality, if you just want a partner who is reliable who will take …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 09:49 AM
2	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. Romance. The entire basis for almost all female centric romantic media is based on the artistic, poetic, limerence inducing, evolutionarily frivolous excesses of romance. It’s something most men completely fail to understand, only men with high emotional IQ do, which especially on this board, is rare. Infact, the cultural concept of “romance” in its modern rendition stems from the art that men created in the Middle Ages to compensate for their lack of ability to either provide resources or be bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/24 09:21 AM
2	Redpill is the result of failing the blue one Sorry but I call bullshit, normal relationship are still the norm in practice no matter what liberal hellscape you’re in. It’s not necessarily advertised as being “cool” but it’s still the normal pattern people follow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 01:22 PM
1	Redpill is the result of failing the blue one Yea they do, depending on where you’re from. If you’re isolating to liberal western spaces, yes. But even in the western world, religious cultural enclaves still exist everywhere, and across the world conservative views of relationships are still the norm, even if slightly modernized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 01:09 PM
7	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. This is a fundamentally male & borderline autistic way of viewing women & their attractions. Most younger women in the western world aren’t thinking about “offspring” and infact many even who do think about that clearly don’t judge on those credentials very actively or we wouldn’t have such an huge amount of single mothers/children born into poverty because, you guessed it, women are attracted to a broad range of traits and any aren’t particularly viable for partnership or children. Like it woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 12:25 PM
0	Redpill is the result of failing the blue one Its always weird when people use the term “blue pill” as if it’s some collective theory on dating and relationship when it really just means “normal people who aren’t part of niche western internet debates” aka 99.99% of humans. Like as if a 70 year old Japanese man, a 22 year old bisexual American woman, a 39 year old Brazilian single mother, and a 45 year old Papuan Jehova’s witness all have the same views to be catagorized and generalized under “blue pill” Touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 11:20 AM
–	LGBT could be the bridge to solving the so called gender war Happy trans people tend not to be very visible tho because we tend to pass so, unless you yourself are actively involved in some type of LGBT community stuff, this checks out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 11:08 AM
–	LGBT could be the bridge to solving the so called gender war No one has the capacity to fully understand both sexes because biologically switching sex is not currently possible. But transsexuals definitely have more gendered knowledge than anyone else. I’m a male but I have years upon years of active knowledge of how females are treated socially because I am regularly mistaken for one, on top of the very real effects of hormones on one’s psychology & sexuality, it’s very easy for me to relate with women in ways regular males just cannot, besides specific …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 11:03 AM
34	It's rare for a man to be with a woman who likes him for who he is as a human being instead of what he can provide. You couldn’t make a more delusional post if you tried honestly. If anything it’s women who are more likely to be truly enamored and enter limerence about a man, even with him being a slobby bumb who isn’t wealthy or sometimes, even very good looking. Like an active joke in female circles is “I swear he looks better in person” or “poor guys have the best D” because women are much more prone to specific, abstract emotional triggers that other people, even other women, find difficult to grasp. Wher…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 10:59 AM
–	"Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren't This just tells me you’re completely disconnected from womens perspective & how much they can vary. First of most women are taught to hide their true feelings/desires frequently so as an outsider who likely isn’t tight into female social circles it’s easy for straight men to theorize (often inaccurately) about what it is women actually like. I’m literally 115 lbs, hairless small framed transsexual & have breasts and I can attract more women than 90% of the men posting to this sub, and I’m not ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/24 10:53 AM
0	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Maybe the difference is that despite me being a person who is discriminated against I toughed it out and take responsibility, so to see men crying at the most mundane of experiences make me laugh audibly because you have it so easy yet you’re whining and crying as if you’re 6 year olds. The old “oh ur just a woman you would never understand the plight of men :(“ doesn’t work on me because I am also male and thus can say, y’all have it easy. Literally just man up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 10:50 PM
1	What's the best strategy for betabuxxers? Most girls into me are bisexual actually, and I attracted straight girls pre transition so. Skill issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 07:34 PM
1	Who should give respect first? Are you that sheltered and indoors you’ve never seen an extremely effeminate gay man before. Touch grass	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 08:02 AM
3	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Good thing no one was talking about you, it’s a hypothetical about men approaching women. Obviously men aren’t approaching women who they aren’t interested in (unless it’s purely platonic) so it’s a moot point. The fact you’re defending not approaching women at all because oooh scary, just screams unlaid energy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 11:06 PM
6	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Why would you consider approaching if she wasn’t someone you would be interested in. Y’all have such insane levels of autismo it’s no wonder you can’t get any	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:55 PM
3	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women And I’m skinny & pretty so it’s allowed	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:54 PM
0	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Low level transsexual vs high level transsexual I guess	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:41 PM
7	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women You have mental health issues if you a woman rejecting you is so bad that when you see a woman you like you say “you know what nah I’m not approaching because the opportunity of meeting a nice, beautiful girl is not worth the risk of her saying no because then I’ll have a mental breakdown” Real men hear no and keep it moving and shrug because they can get over it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:37 PM
3	Who should give respect first? Yes, and most women will visibly relax if they see a man who is clearly gay. Because despite being male, it’s almost always straight men who harass women, because they’re sexually attracted to them and express that sometimes with certain creepiness or aggression. Most women see trans women (provided they know they are trans) as extremely gay men, so, I personally have never had any woman act particularly uncomfortable around me or any other dolls I know because they accurately guess were not int…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:33 PM
1	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women That’s probably because you’re probably American, not talking to dolls (trans women who were previously gay boys) or aren’t in the in crowd. Trans people typically don’t express our true feelings infront of non trans people because y’all get confused & weird about it in public so we just joke amongst ourselves mostly. If you go to Thailand or any other non western nation most trans women acknowledge being a type of feminized male who appears socially as a woman, not biologically female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:30 PM
3	Who should give respect first? I’m not offended by people not liking trans people period. The vast majority of people have never even met a trans person so they have very little valid reason to hate them, so I mentally dismiss it as silly, thus, not offensive. Most women have negative experiences with creepy men bothering & harassing them or worse, so it isn’t just random “hate” it’s a response to the reality of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:28 PM
3	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Yeah it literally just is get over it. People meet people in person all the time. If you can’t handle it shut up and stop complaining or literally readjust your ballsack and do it and accept the fact that in order to make real connections in person with strangers you take risks, deal with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:26 PM
3	Who should give respect first? Well plenty of women are disrespectful (atleast online) to trans women but I’m not personally slighted by that. Most women don’t have negative experiences with trans people because were extremely rare so it’s statistically improbable so I dismiss it as just hateful ramblings which literally exists for everyone and anything online. In person I don’t deal with any overt hate from women, so don’t care. If I were a straight man I wouldn’t be personally slighted by some women expressing distaste with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:24 PM
2	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Well statistically most people haven’t met one at all, but yes there are plenty of us who are confident and happy with reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:18 PM
1	Who should give respect first? The vast majority of women who have negative things to say about men experience what most women experience to varying degrees, which is the insistent, creepy, sexual harassment by men. Often bordering or outright crossing the line into violence or assault. And then we have the men who say negative things about women because…??? “They’re entitled whores” “They literally just do OF and have no real skills” “They call any man creep who approaches them” “They aren’t trad anymore” “They don’t sleep w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:16 PM
8	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Actually I am still a man, if we’re being technical, which I am profoundly succesful and happy with. I am just highly feminine and medically altered to the point of appearing female to others superficially. And I didn’t struggle dating before transition either, so that’s irrelevant. Yes my advice is sack up. I guarantee you if you find approaching a woman so profoundly difficult you’re literally ill equipped to deal with life in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 10:01 PM
4	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Yes, my TikTok is linked if you’re desperate to stalk me. I’m not the one complaining about failing at dating online, I’m merely pointing out how sad & mentally deficient the complaining subpar men are. Couldn’t be me because even despite being trans I have absolutely zero issues dating, or attracting people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:58 PM
5	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Insulting and blaming subpar men* lets correct that for you. Decent men do not have mental breakdowns and make Reddit posts about how impossible it is to approach women. They just do it and have the social intelligence to read signals and the masculine resilience to not take it so seriously if a woman doesn’t express interest in his advances. Literally grow a pair is the solution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:56 PM
4	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Cute little digs but they miss completely because I have never had issue dating ever, pre or post transition, and men (and women actually as well) approach me consistently because I am a model and a bartender, on top of being in a long term relationship. Looks like I am the superior male, maybe y’all betas could learn something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:53 PM
10	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women It’s almost like the literal point of my post is me being male so this was never contested. Yet another deflection by failed males because y’all literally get out masculined by a transsexual	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:44 PM
13	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Yes and somehow I still embody positive masculine traits better than y’all cowards despite being loaded with estrogen? Like it’s comical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 09:35 PM
36	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women My god, you can’t ever approach a stranger without risks. Just get over it. Y’all really aren’t masculine at all and then wonder why you’re failing in dating. Like I think I might be more of a man than y’all and I literally have breasts and weigh 115 lbs because when I see someone I would like to chat to, I just do it. Grow a pair seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 08:53 PM
1	Men should be able to safely approach women without fear of humiliation or being shamed, and there should be more venues other than bars for meeting women Yeah that’s how a man would think but it’s not accurate. Women curb lots of hot men who act creepily as well, infact attractive men sometimes have very specific creepy ick inducing behaviour because they assume their attractiveness lets them get away with any weird sexually forward shit they want, because some insecure women go for it, but the majority find it just as much of an ick as an ugly guy breathing down your neck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 08:51 PM
2	What's the best strategy for betabuxxers? You get called gay primarily by other men who are threatened by men investing time and effort into being attractive to women, which is literally the least gay thing you can possibly do. Women talk, and we talk a lot. Even as a gay boy at age 12 girls are already complaining about how foul smelling and ungroomed most males are. But again just make another excuse why ur failing. Because if your aesthetics were up to par you wouldn’t have issues, and if you did, then your character is severely lack…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 07:33 PM
2	What's the best strategy for betabuxxers? Funny because when I ran an experiment pretending to be a straight boy on tinder years ago prior to transition I also didn’t have any trouble attracting women. It’s almost as if it’s a grooming & character flaw first and foremost. My femininity was concealed because they couldn’t see how I walked, talked or acted besides what I typed. Y’all will make every single excuse in the book, including ones why literal skinny 110 lbs hairless homosexuals out perform you. It’s actually sad. Like wake up an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 07:29 PM
3	What's the best strategy for betabuxxers? You think you need to pay that kind of money to be more attractive? Lmao, men. You know there are literally a million things you can do that cost very affordable amounts of money to look attractive right. It’s things most women are aware of and actively spend time and effort on. Are you eating right? Do you have a skincare routine? Do you work out? What about tretinoin? Eye brow grooming? Dental care? Hair care? Are you using minoxidil on both your scalp and facial hair? Are you using a lash len…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 07:23 PM
4	What's the best strategy for betabuxxers? BABE SAME, I was a little fem twink too with absolutely zero interest in women romantically and even I HAD OPTIONS literally running at me. It’s entirely a skill issue if you as a man can’t get any, given you’re not severely mentally or physically handicapped. It being a skill issue should be motivating to these men, literally just put in work and you’ll see results instead of wasting your time whining online about how rigged and difficult the game is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 03:47 PM
5	What's the best strategy for betabuxxers? Sorry she clocked you because if you already firmly believe in this weird autistic “AF/BB” thing you’re truly self gimping yourself severely. The image was an entirely appropriate response. Men who are actually attractive and likeable, don’t need money/career or status to find success with women. So literally just focus on being socially skilled and attractive. And don’t use poor excuses about how you’re genetically too fucked to make it because in this day and age there are WAYYY too many aesth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/24 02:59 PM
4	How sexually fluid are men? Yes, its very secretive and theyre extremely ashamed. The shame is almost a part of their kink but its incredibly taboo to share. Because these men are genuinely straight and other people will surely never understand that they are just straight men with a fetish for being humiliated by having men who they arent attracted to fuck them. Normal people would just assume they are gay, when they aren't. Gay men are attracted to men, we dont need to feel humiliated to want men because its true attracti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 10:55 PM
8	How sexually fluid are men? They are very fluid, it’s not socially acceptable but they are. People think the ancient Greeks and Roman’s were all gay, infact they were not. They just had a semi acceptable route to fuck sort of feminine boys a lot of the time. I’m a transsexual who still has a penis I’ve found a very high amount of men are fine with it. A lot more than I expected before I transitioned. It’s to the point my friends who aren’t trans are surprised at the men I pull. They really are everywhere no matter where I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 08:47 PM
1	How sexually fluid are men? Women might be more sexually fluid in their actions, but men are more likely to be actually sexually attracted to people who aren’t female. I’m a transsexual who hasn’t had any surgery so even tho I attract mostly straight men because I look, relatively female, I am not one and I’ve found a shocking amount of men who are kinda of fine with that. Far more than gay men, and I’ve dated gay men pre transition so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 08:43 PM
2	Is it easier for the average girl to get laid and sleep with other woman than it is for an average guy? You’re incredibly naive if you think that. Women are generally a lot less rigid about their sexuality. They may be heterosexual, but a lot of the open-minded types experiment. Infact, lots of women claim to be bisexual when they’re really just straight but want a fancier label because they occasionally fool around with women a bit as a “hehe this is fun and interesting and makes me feel wanted and cool” not because they’re genuinely attracted to women in the true way they are to men. Lots of gay…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/24 02:10 PM
3	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience Good thing this sub isn’t about men or woman’s broader societal issues it’s about dating. Your sexual success is your own responsibility, not societies. All the cry baby whiny just makes certain men look more desperate and unsexy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:52 PM
2	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience All your doing is derailing the topic into endless crying about how hard men have it all because some of them struggle to date. Like do better life isn’t fair and dates aren’t a right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:49 PM
3	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience “How men are treated” Somehow some men failing to get dates also goes into some men crying about how they’re treated so badly and poorly when y’all just aren’t. I lived as a man for decades, even as a highly effeminate gay one, it ain’t that bad. A lot of y’all just soft. Start crying when you have real problems that aren’t just “women don’t like me”	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:46 PM
1	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience They are choosing to stay inside and watch porn over socializing. Porn usage ruins some men’s reward center and de-incentivizes them from going out and seeking real life connections. Which is totally fine if that’s what they wanna do, but that is the reality. Men failing to get dates isn’t a large scale moral failure of society because men getting dates isn’t a basic need or human rights issue. It’s your personal responsibility if you want sexual success. If you want to you, there’s a million an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:23 PM
-1	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience If it comes to DATING then yes absolutely the appropriate response to anyone is, try harder. Some not getting dates or laid isn’t a great moral failure of society of human rights crisis. There are real issues that require serious address. Suck it up. I have empathy for men but I also recognize that some things are only going to mended by your personal responsibility, and being succesful in dating is one of those things. And to any decrying how it’s just so hard. Sorry but, boohoo? That’s where m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:17 PM
-2	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience You aren’t a bad person. It’s not a moral issue if you struggle with dating. You don’t even have to be interested in dating really. What is bizzaro to me though is the insane whining by some men and weird sexist theories as to why they can’t get laid when the simple reason is, you’re just not trying hard enough & you’re attractive. It’s not womens fault, it’s not because you’re not rich, or have a Hunter brow or whatever. If you want something work for it like everyone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 06:46 PM
0	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience They’re having less sex because of very obvious reasons, namely porn & not going outside enough. Which weird pill theorists try to obfuscate with strange theories like “oh you won’t have sex unless you’re chad” or “you need to make 6 figures”. It’s a simple problem and it has simple solutions. Whining at women isn’t a solution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 06:44 PM
-1	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive They are a minority, but unfortunately the men who are the worst tend to not have any social awareness so they just approach women over and over so the creepiest men just bother tons of women over the years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 04:13 PM
-7	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive You would get it if you had been approached by hundreds if not thousands of men over the years, many of which don’t take no for an answer. This delusion that attractive men never get curved for being creepy is delulu of the first order, it’s a small minority because attractive men are a minority and also attractive men tend to not approach as readily to begin with. Not because they’re necessarily less obnoxious or horny, which is usually a recipe for creepy behaviour. “She just has to say yes or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 03:55 PM
-2	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive Nah they don’t. Hot guys act creepy too, unless a woman is highly insecure or isn’t used to dealing with attractive men, they can’t get away with just saying whatever they want. I’ve curbed many a hot man for saying something out of line and I’m not alone. Also the reason uglier men get called creepy faster is because obviously it an attractive man talks to you you’re less inclined to find the interaction bothersome. If an ugly man talks to you, it’s pretty clear what he wants and now you’re bur…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 03:40 PM
1	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience Relatively because average is pretty subjective. But yes, truth hurts ain’t it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 03:35 PM
2	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience Yeah I know so. I see them with my own eyes. The most succesful men are men who are highly social, and most of them, as would be statistically likely, are relatively average looking. Most women really don’t have massive standards for looks in person. It’s only when men are too shy or autismo to go out that they land on tinder and then obviously fall under the radar because hotter men eclipse them and they have no other skills to fall back on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 12:27 PM
1	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience Every way. Grooming, physique, being witty, interesting, having a passion or hobby, and most importantly, have sharp social skills & understanding how to talk to women in a non creepy way. Men with the gift of gab get laid way more than any other type of man I see in my very busy, central of Amsterdam bar. Because even the hot men don’t always approach women. Where as averageish looking men with keen social skills have zero issues getting women talking and comfortable. Combined with a fun atmosp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 12:06 PM
0	The narratives pushed in this sub are not representative of the average dating experience Average looking men are absolutely having sex. Average looking men who ALSO lack social skills are not. I work in a bar in a major city. Normal looking dudes are getting laid often. You know who’s not? The ones sitting inside posting to this board about how they’re too ugly to get laid because they actually have to put in effort which they fail to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:40 AM
–	Makeup is basically a pretence and a sign of insecurity. This argument can be made about any type of grooming so it’s insane and autistic. Personally lots of men should be more insecure maybe then they would land more dates because they tried harder in their appearance instead of making weird posts online and giving women collective icks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:29 AM
21	Many women take male attention for granted A woman reminiscing about her youth is going to be about having her attractiveness work for her, 95%+ of male attention in public especially is terrible & not going to become retroactively appealing. Men will never truly understand this until they go through it. Go to a gay bar every single day for years and maybe you’ll get it. But probably not even then because it’s contained to the gay bar + gay men have higher standards than straight men & are patently less aggressive even if they are just a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 07:22 AM
3	why do you all take the manipulative arguments of the opposite sex so seriously? Exactly men, listen to me, a male. Most women on the sub, the few that there are, are much more sensible than you and have far better takes. There we go.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 03:30 PM
1	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted Thats not what you brought up, you called into question if I got hit on. News flash even the ugliest tran gets approached more than most men so, sorry. You don't need to approach women to understand gendered dynamics that exist when you are male. That's the point. I'm the only male posting here who can claim any sort of female centric experience because I look like one and have for years, yall don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 02:33 PM
3	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted Yeah I don't hit on women because i'm not attracted to them, doesn't mean I don't understand male experiences or how males are views. Most of my friends have always been women, im sorry to inform you, most males are delusional and have no courtesy to womens feelings in contexts of approaching.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 02:31 PM
2	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted First of all why are you even derailing the topic about me being T, it's very obsessive behaviour. And obviously it wouldnt matter what kind of delusional opinions you have about the topic because 1. You have zero expertise on the topic. and 2. Even if zero men wanted a transsexuals its a moot point if they approach and bother you regardless because they think you're female.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 02:30 PM
1	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted That doesn't stop them from bothering me though even if that were true. Even if I held a sign above my head that said warning, T-word, they would still chase me down because men who are down for T in major cities are common, infact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 02:23 PM
4	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted And how would you know exactly? A great amount of men are, you just don't know about them. Also, most men who hit on me don't know that I am so null and void point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 02:22 PM
3	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted I live in a major city, am a model and work in night life. I probably get hit on more than 90% of women in public.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 02:21 PM
2	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted Period	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 03:20 AM
9	There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarranted “Sit back and judge without having to be vulnerable” Nahhhhh pipe the hell down with that one. I’m trans I’ve lived both ends, to be seen as a woman in public is to be vulnerable. That’s exactly why most women are pretty against it, in most contexts atleast. This just reeks of insecure male entitlement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/23 03:19 AM
2	If women are attracted to the more party animal type of guys, can guys be like that to attract women? Lmao no you dont understand female friendship circles at all. There’s a literally running gag that women embarrassingly tell their friends he’s ugly AFTER the fact, this isn’t a 90s teen girl movie. Girls aren’t gonna not sleep with a guy because her friends think he’s ugg.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 02:44 PM
3	If women are attracted to the more party animal type of guys, can guys be like that to attract women? No. You think women don’t reject men they find attractive all the time? The nativity is cute tho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 01:32 PM
22	Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it. Men having another fantasy of rejecting women then they don’t have options to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 07:36 AM
13	If women are attracted to the more party animal type of guys, can guys be like that to attract women? If your autism is severe enough to impair social function significantly, absolutely. I work in a bar. I see ugly men get laid, you know who’s not? The people that never leave their house or can’t socialize with others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 05:44 AM
2	Undesirable people today are treated as poor working people in Victorian times How detached are you from reality to think you being undesirable romantically or sexually is equivalent to historical classist societies. Y’all have no real problems in life and it shows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 03:24 AM
6	AF: BB is still the ruling principle Eating rice with a knife also works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 03:15 AM
6	If women are attracted to the more party animal type of guys, can guys be like that to attract women? Most people who are into nerdy hobbies etc, also like to go out occasionally. Social skills are one of, if not the most important aspect to dating succes. Because even if you are ugly, just sheer proximity to people will eventually net you some success. Where as being good looking at completely autistic and shut in will not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 03:01 AM
1	AF: BB is still the ruling principle Yeah you missed the part where you’ve supplanted emotional intelligence for faux masculinity/machismo posturing & thinking it’s the key to success because it generates you some amount of success and then extrapolating your weird autismo theories onto the rest of the populace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/23 02:57 AM
–	People should get off dating apps because they are designed to keep you single They’re really not yall are just bad at using them. They make things a lot easier for a lot of people. Meeting someone in person and online has different rule sets & requires different skills and approach. Many of them do translate, others have to be practiced or learned. I’ve met lots of men online and many truly attractive men in real life have no clue how to present themselves online. It’s only through my own insight I would go out with them because I am aware of the disconnects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 11:28 PM
4	Dear women of PPD, what do you think - is this place suitable for constructive discussion? im not sure what level of autism you possess to fail to understand that dating and literally being able to live by paying your essential bills and buying food are not equivalent like babe u not getting enough vadge isnt gonna kill you relax and go to work	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 09:38 PM
8	Dear women of PPD, what do you think - is this place suitable for constructive discussion? its almost as if dating isn't equivalent to literal survival I swear the insane desperation some of yall men have is pathological please step away and touch grass	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 09:32 PM
9	Dear women of PPD, what do you think - is this place suitable for constructive discussion? Only argument needed is to look at the average level of posting here to understand that some people need friends, hobbies and perhaps therapy instead of trying to theorize about dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 09:28 PM
7	Dear women of PPD, what do you think - is this place suitable for constructive discussion? Um no because poor people participate actively in the economic system. People who just have zero to little experience dating do not have any meaningful experience, and especially here thats why the takes are so horrendously bad like that dude who just said men hug women because it's the closest thing they can get to sex, like, painful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 09:10 PM
23	Dear women of PPD, what do you think - is this place suitable for constructive discussion? Pretty much. Really these discussions only have intellectual merit for people who actually have relationships & date fairly succesfully. If you’re completely alienated from the dating scene like many men here are, you aren’t really a relevant character in the discussion because you’re purely speculating & more often than not, highly emotional about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 12:01 PM
7	The quality of women’s dating app profiles in Europe is far superior to the profiles of women in USA. This is actually very true, I would say the same for men’s though but yeah. This board and lots of online discourse about dating is dominated by American perspective. For example the whole argument about women going for money, if far more applicable than in western Europe. Here women just don’t even think about that typically, or not nearly to the extent that some American women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/23 12:28 AM
2	Are women more biologically predisposed to homosexuality? I’m trans. What I will say is I understand the phenomenon of female “bisexual” (in quotes because I don’t equate the act as being inherently attracted) more now that I’m on estrogen. As a male I was gay as could possibly be. No female EVER has aroused me. However with female hormones does come a sense of sexual attraction being more abstract. I am still just into men, but I have noticed that because I am more drawn to fantasy, atmosphere, character, etc now than I was before (before it was prima…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 08:00 PM
0	Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude... This is a fundamentally autismo way to viewing people. Listing your hobbies and actually expressing character are two very different things and people that can’t read subtext wouldn’t know the difference. But then again maybe most women are just pretending that must be it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 06:43 PM
1	Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude... That’s fair, but you can also fake it until you make it in that respect. It’s requires creativity but taking selfie’s in public can also create very interesting shots, just use the timer feature so it’s not a mirror selfie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 06:13 PM
–	Porn should be replaced with healthy prostitution to restore the power imbalance among genders in modern dating. Another day another man creating a post about how men being less sexually & romantically succesful as woman as a collective is some great unnatural social injustice that must be solved. Thats not how it works and it’s not how it’s ever going to work. If you want to buy sex you already can and always have been able to, if you want a relationship you can also have that but don’t expect it to be easy. Women not choosing to be with certain men (or men ar all) is not a lack of liberty or a humans rig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:44 PM
5	Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude... Thats because a man posting photos he’s clearly made from a single photoshoot or at the very least, a very similar setup clearly made for that very purpose is an ick. Attractiveness needs to seem effortless & in-convoluted or it’s an ick. Social people have a variety of photos because they go out with friends and are in situations frequently where there picture is taken. I’m a model and I have tons of semi professional & professional photos and videos of myself, but I rarely posted any of them t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:37 PM
-1	Taking photos for OLD just feels lame and pathetic for a dude... It’s seems bizarre to you because you can’t do it. It’s incredibly easy to both read & imply personality from photos beyond how hot you are. How are you hot, do you take yourself seriously, what is your background? Lifestyle? Habits? Friendgroup? Aesthetic? Taste in music? Etc I’m wouldn’t match with a man with all semi professional retouched shirtless photos, just to make it simple. Even if he was incredibly hot. I think the answer as to why is very obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 05:35 PM
3	Being a man means you can’t be loved If trauma dumping was a post Please go out and make some friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/23 09:26 AM
21	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it Um, no. Feminism isn’t about dating. Feminism or not dating as a woman will always be easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:14 AM
23	men's dating experience is unfair and feminism has failed to address it There’s nothing unfair about it. It’s the result of nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:12 AM
1	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. Hairless, young, pretty androgynous boys/men. Think Justin Bieber in the height of his era or most boy band types.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/23 11:12 AM
3	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. It’s always funny when men try and diminish my experience as a male when in any other context they’re quick to jump about how trans women are actually men. I actually DO know because, like most gay boys born 30 years ago, I attempted to hide my femininity & perceived gayness from others and pass as straight (even tho that failed and my mannerisms peeked through). There was never a lack of female interest in me as a boy because EVEN with my displayed femininity & constant mockery off others for b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 09:40 PM
6	Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. The double standard is ridiculous. And? Blame it on biology making men insanely horny & women not so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 07:13 PM
1	Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women? It’s a mix of both. Depends on the women. But it’s mainly men critiqueing women for being jealous, when like, lots of women with standards wouldn’t even be into men who would want to date much younger women, because it’s a legitimate ick. Like if as a 30 year old see an older man dating a literal teenager, it tells me a few things. One, he’s attracted to that, ok, fine, we can’t help who were attracted to. But more importantly, he’s willing to date someone who’s is probably entirely lacking in o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 06:42 PM
6	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. I know lots of TS irl and I don’t think anyone says it’s easier, we say it’s easier for us and better because we’re trans & obviously post transition life is preferable or we wouldn’t do it. There’s pros and cons I don’t think there’s a clear easier one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 04:46 PM
17	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. MtF. The hormonal part is massive. Its something I couldn’t grasp fully until I went through it for years myself, I grew up as a gay boy with mostly female friends so we talked about men a ton, and though we had similarities, my hormonal profile vs theirs always disconnects because testosterone just makes you so horny in comparison the way you go about seeing dates is entirely different. In a way the memory of me as a male lingers, I see hot men all the time out and about, and I’m completely swa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 12:54 PM
5	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. A woman entering a mans body would probably go out, women tend to be more socially inclined to begin with. Your gloom & doom about how impossible it is to date only applies to men who are significantly lacking, I was a highly effeminate boy who weighed less than most women with no masculinity to speak of and even I had no issue having girls express interest because I was social & attractive in a twink type way, which is not the preference of most women. Most women are much more skilled at talkin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 12:46 PM
18	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. I’m trans. Realistically y’all wouldn’t like it, because unless your sexuality & entire personhood changes with this magical sex change, you’ll be thrust into a social role you’re entirely unequipped to deal with, few would manage anything of substance. But pretending you somehow did, men would find out very quickly that because of your now lacking testosterone levels, the desire for sexual encounters has now diminished greatly. You’ll probably feel as if you’re essentially neutered in compariso…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:28 AM
0	How much would a month of "be the other sex" for everyone change the game. You think given the magical opportunity to be male for a month they’ll just not make use of it at all? That’s just entirely counterintuitive to human nature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/23 11:23 AM
2	Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women? How do you know it's higher, because youve been with men where you want it more than them? Some women can definitely have higher sex drives but it is excessively rare. Thinking about sex doesn't even begin to scratch the surface of what male sex drive is like. Most men, if given the opportunity, would sleep with most women, any time anywhere in any way, just to climax. Most males who don't regularly masturbate experience a very real physical build up of tension until it gets to a point of abject…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 08:56 AM
2	Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women? It's different, but it is objectively less. I think some women like to imagine they're similar to men in that regard but just brought up differently, trust me, you're not. If males didnt have an insanely power motivator to procreate we wouldn't be here, to a female I imagine the experience of a male typical sex drive would go beyond what you understand as arousal and border on insanity & obsession by comparison.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/23 08:48 AM
4	Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women? It is, the testosterone affects the sex drive the same in both sexes women just have a lot less of it so it’s affect is much less noticeable. Go on testosterone like a trans man would and you’ll see why men are such sex fiends real quick	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 11:11 PM
7	Does organised prostitution indeed prove that sexual intercourse is more important for gynophilic men than for androphilic women? Girl no. You’re over thinking it. Men are just way more horny & women typically aren’t. It’s testosterone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 05:15 PM
1	The negative reactions to this man having the mildest, basic standards is proof that women is proof that men are not supposed to have standards at all and should just be happy to have any woman interested in them. And this is why women complain because y’all don’t take it serious even though on a busy night I can LITERALLY be harassed & sexualized by hundreds of intoxicated men in a night because I work in a busy bar in a major city, all while smiling, working, and serving them while the eye fuck you, make sexual comments about your body and and what they wanna do to you. And that’s not even mentioning the walk home at 4 AM through the city center.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 05:56 AM
–	Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth Well aren’t you just a bundle of insight and joy, I can’t imagine how YOU could be unsuccessful with women. If capturing normal social cues & inferring basic knowledge of the people around you is something you constitute as basically having to be “psychic” I think we have established the problem. Being single doesn’t mean one is unsuccessful with women, single isn’t a permanent status. Infact, it should be assumed one will have more than one relationship before you find someone to settle with, i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 10:39 PM
33	Men would have been more accountable had they actually been told the truth Sorry but how can you as a boy/man miss the obvious messaging in basically every form of media that women like attractive & confident men. Parents will typically say “be nice” because it’s assumed you already understand intuitively that OBVIOUSLY, everyone likes physically attractive people & confidence. Like some people will always slip through the cracks, and in this case it’ll mostly be men because women are very rarely romantically or sexually starved. This isn’t new and it won’t change, man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 10:10 PM
–	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Girl good damn day. “You have to agree with women during communication or they label you selfish, uncaring, manipulative” Just stop with autism & misogyny & realize that women are just regular humans not some meme you’ve created in your mind based on Twitter threads you like to read. Jeeze.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:24 PM
3	The negative reactions to this man having the mildest, basic standards is proof that women is proof that men are not supposed to have standards at all and should just be happy to have any woman interested in them. I can go out on a busy night at the bar I work at and have more men cat call me in that night then women commented negatively on that Twitter post. Would it be reasonable to assume that’s a clear representation of men or not, because if so, y’all pigs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:18 PM
–	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… It’s not literal. But the entire subtext of the post is “see, women just do bad things to men, don’t you agree fellas” Yeah dude I’m sure women just en masse all pretend to want sex and then withhold it later to force their man to do more chores That seems totally reasonable, but then again the point is to paint women as unreasonable, as per usual. And then y’all wonder why you’re having sexual & romantic failings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:15 PM
–	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… Wow articles about couples having communication difficulties. You cracked code there. Seriously we need a “been in one or more long term relationships” flair. Everyday y’all find new ways to complain about the evils of women when you don’t even have any experience with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:11 PM
–	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… “I’ve seen time and time again..” “A Twitter thread I saw-“ There’s your issue. Imagine the quality of the sub if you were only allowed to post if you had substantial romantic experience. Then again, then it would probably die out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:07 PM
17	The negative reactions to this man having the mildest, basic standards is proof that women is proof that men are not supposed to have standards at all and should just be happy to have any woman interested in them. Random Twitter user said a thing so it must be gospel. Like stand up and think for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 02:57 PM
-1	Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day? Again just ignoring that bars exist somehow.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 04:34 AM
0	Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day? That doesn’t apply to most bars. This sounds like the take of someone who doesn’t like to socialize and if you don’t like to socialize you’re going to have a hard time dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 02:19 AM
-1	Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day? Yeah exactly, OLD is wayyyyy easier, especially if you‘te cutting out bars & clubs because of “billigerent guys & annoying dramatic women” (red flag, probably anti social no tea no shade)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 06:05 PM
–	Men don't get it. Women have moved on ??? Doing your job is being treated like a subhuman nobodies. Please seek help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:55 PM
–	Men don't get it. Women have moved on Women are gaining standards with the additional freedom & responsibility of having to work. Woe is truly men, some of them might not be able to get dates. Honestly how will they survive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:40 PM
10	Q4A: Are women more responsible for divorces? Yes there’s no further nuance in the relationships she just wants better cock Honestly I’m Glad some of yall can’t get dates	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:38 PM
3	Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day? Right?? Lets get back to basics first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:25 PM
-3	Best strategy for approaching women out and about during the day? No tea no shade but if you can't get online dating OR bars & clubs to work you're probably not gonna be equipped enough to make it work anywhere else. Golden rule, don't approach women in a way that makes it obvious you're talking to her because you have romantic or sexual interest. Find a way to talk to women where there is an actual friendly moment possible or theres a reason that goes beyond ''oh this guy is clearly trying to pick me up because this is very out of the ordinary to randomly t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:24 PM
–	Men don't get it. Women have moved on Good thing most men are doing just fine then and not getting sufficient dates doesn't qualify as being psychologically bereft of some basic need.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:22 PM
–	Men don't get it. Women have moved on Yeah because its almost as if they get PAID to do those things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 05:19 PM
–	Men don't get it. Women have moved on Good thing you don’t need to date or fuck men to have them do their jobs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 04:21 PM
-1	[Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”? I have used men for free food. Typically only if they sexualized me weirdly online, I give them hope and ghosted them after the check was paid. Would do it again tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 03:46 PM
–	Why don’t the men who constantly complain about women dating based only on appearance just go after better women? So find one. Truly it’s shocking how low some men set their standards. It’s giving desperation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 12:13 PM
–	Why don’t the men who constantly complain about women dating based only on appearance just go after better women? women are able to demand more than men So, that’s just the nature of reality, not a fault of anyone or a true injustice. Men are more thirsty by nature, and every single person is allowed to have any standards they want. If you can’t find a mate you aren’t owed one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 12:12 PM
11	Politics defines modern dating. “Women are brain washed that’s why they don’t want me” You’re literally talking about women as if they are cattle that need to be trained to your liking & benefit. Ew. Do these men really convince themselves with these elaborate theories on why they’re not as sexually successful as they would like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/23 11:00 AM
4	A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partners I’ve said it before I’ll say again, a lot of men who are resentful of women are extremely jealous of women’s sexual selection power. For the women reading, you have no idea how much testosterone drives a man to be focused on sex, it almost encompasses their whole world in some ways, everything is connected to sex to them. So when they see the average woman having options they could only dream of in their wildest fantasies but never realize, they imagine your life as being incredibly easy, becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 03:01 AM
0	A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partners And how would you know exactly, just because dating is easier doesn’t mean it’s easier in general. Lived as both for years, it’s really a mixed bag. Men are insanely jealous of womens sexual options because they are very sex centered mentally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 02:55 AM
6	what is this notion "society" is supposed to magically "create" spaces for you to socialize if youre an abnormal teetotaller who cant just do what everyone has always done socially? True. This is less so In Europe tho, but I’ve lived in the US for years so I know it’s a big problem for earnest socializing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 11:24 PM
18	What are women's motivations for wanting casual sex only? “Women are just too stupid too understand themselves unlike I, an enlightened man I know better” Textbook misogyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 10:48 AM
22	What are women's motivations for wanting casual sex only? Because just because a guy is hot doesn’t mean the sex is going to be good, especially as a woman. This is something most men will never understand. Women typically don’t get off and very aroused like men are easily, a guy just being hot is a good start, but a woman needs to feel comfortable & have some degree of trust in the man she’s with or the sex risks being really terrible & potentially painful or even dangerous. Putting your dick inside someone is easy, letting a guy penetrate you is not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/23 10:46 AM
29	The reason high-functioning autists struggle with attracting women is that they don't conform to the rules of hegemonic masculinity as women generally like bravado men Or you know, them not reading simple social signals often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 03:26 PM
3	POV: Women use men for relationships like men use them for sex Another day another absolutely autismo take by a PPD man. Men can & often have sex with women they don’t like, a woman entering a RELATIONSHIP with someone she doesn’t like at all is rare and reserved mostly for actual golddiggers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/23 12:50 AM
5	If you’re autistic, you’re not the intended audience for blue pill advice Did he lie tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 10:36 PM
11	It’s women fault men are such trash Hurrr durrrr the men are shit cuz the women raised them Oh and WHERE are their fathers exactly? What are they doing? Or did these women magically conceive these men as if they’re the mother Mary herself. Y’all are so insanely delusional I swear. It’s super obvious why some of these men post here because you’re incredibly repellent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 03:18 AM
4	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. It’s just a matter of fact? Women have WAY more sexual power than men, there’s no value statement. That’s just the way it is. You’re reacting emotionally to facts that aren’t even meant to be inflammatory because again, salt.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:45 AM
3	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. It’s just a weird comment, it’s giving salty energy. Like if someone says “men have it easier with XYZ in life” and then some woman pops in and says “ha see this why I don’t care if men have mental health problems or homelessness epidemics because they’re privileged” Like yeah ok you don’t have to care but JUST STATING that you don’t care because said group has something is weird Like just don’t care then and keep it moving	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:34 AM
6	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. It’s seems odd to even state you don’t care, thus it seems like revenge fantasy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:28 AM
5	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. Revenge fantasy but go off	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:19 AM
1	There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriate What if, and hear me out I’m gonna say something crazy You approach women without the obvious “I’m into you and I’m trying to pick you up” intent/energy and instead just socialized them like it was friendly Oh wow poof now suddenly everything becomes incredibly easy, you’re welcome. And before you say “no you can’t do that anything you say to a woman will be seen as thirsty” No, no. I work in a bar, been around women my whole life, been approached by thousands of men. Trust me, women know the di…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:09 AM
2	All of men's dating issues are caused by men they just need a functioning vagina and you’re blinded They don’t even need those nowadays purrrr Dating as a man isn’t for the weak & never was, but if you want a way out then take some estrogen	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 01:05 AM
48	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. Women hold the sexual power and men are insanely jealous of it. That’s really the end of the story. Ain’t womens fault men are so thirsty.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 08:33 PM
6	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. There’s no such thing as “too high” of standards. Basically all women have millions of options, then they set a bar for what they do want and what they don’t. If the natural consequence is that you are single or that it might take a while to find a suitable partner, then that’s literally what they chose to do over the alternative (which is to lower standards) It’s a subjective opinion. Men shaming women for having high standards are doing so because they are desperate & sad. Instead of leveling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 08:32 PM
7	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. Where?? Literally everywhere. This is just a way of saying you don’t go outside. As if literal obese balding men never have girlfriends. Have you been to the south like???	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 08:27 PM
–	What’s the Most Romantic Thing You’ve Seen or Done? My ex boyfriend went to jail & while he was in jail for 2 & a half years, he wrote a single page everyday about what he would’ve done if he was with me and how we would’ve spent the day on the outside together. He turned all the collective pages into a book and gave it to me. We didn’t work out, but I still have the book and I can’t read even half a page without bursting into tears. Not sure if anyone will ever top what he did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 08:21 PM
2	Are men more romantic? Weeeew chile ok we got a lot of very male very never been in real relationships perspectives here. Women are far more romantic than men on average. All I see is “no women are just receivers of romance” only in the initial stages of a relationship and in the very superficial ways nigh everyone posting here understands romance as “flower giving” When a woman is in love with you, acts & words of love, true love, are much more likely to come from her. Women will give their very soul & being to you i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 07:56 PM
–	Cold approaching doesn’t work It does have to do with emotional intelligence because it means being able to read others emotions and intentions as well as your own. If you approach women in weird contexts you’re going to have bad results. Like why do you think women wanna be approached when they’re at school working. That’s so bizarro and tone deaf. Talking to a person means understanding when and how to do that to begin with. Running after some woman on the street going somewhere for example, isn’t the best idea because in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 09:40 PM
–	Cold approaching doesn’t work That’s because approaching with an explicit energy of trying to pick her up in many contexts, IS CREEPY, because it’s inappropriate but that’s just WAY too high level of emotional intelligence for some men. I work in a bar, I’ve literally seen thousands upon thousands of social & romantic interactions. The problem is, socially awkward men are creepy because they don’t know how to not be. It’s really that simple. Going up to a woman and striking up conversation is so extremely easy but yeah if yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 09:24 PM
–	Cold approaching doesn’t work No, that’s just cope for being socially incapable. Women aren’t going to call the cops if you act normal. Y’all should really get female friends before you think of dating if that’s so difficult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 09:16 PM
1	What has worked for you in terms of getting a woman to date you? Maybe it shouldn’t be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:38 PM
–	Cold approaching doesn’t work You wouldn’t have to hear “I have a boyfriend” if you talked to women like normal people. Like it’s no wonder so many men find approaching women so difficult, because you barely see them as people you can actually talk to and more so just bodies with the genitals attached that you want to get inside of so you have to rehears and play games to try and get into one. Talking to a woman in a bar for example in a friendly manner is literally so easy and low effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:33 PM
6	Cold approaching doesn’t work This. Just talk to women like normal people, makes it easier for yourself and doesn’t set anyone up for awkward situations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:27 PM
–	Cold approaching doesn’t work If you think you’re gonna get arrested or thrown out of a place you don’t know how to talk to women without seeming creepy, aggressive and/or thirsty. So actually, yeah valid you shouldn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:27 PM
5	What has worked for you in terms of getting a woman to date you? Men will really do anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:19 PM
5	What has worked for you in terms of getting a woman to date you? Ummmm what	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:13 PM
8	Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself? No, he’s was a twink Source: transformer	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 08:10 PM
1	We need more “sassy” men That’s.. not what a sassy man is lmao. Assertiveness isn’t a stereotypically feminine trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 05:18 PM
6	Besides physical unattractiveness what are the most unattractive qualities in a man? Lack of (sexual) self control. I’ve rejected so many men who were extremely attractive purely because they expressed sexual desire (usually in a crass way) too early or inappropriately. Like I probably would’ve slept with some of them, had they been able to keep their cool & build tension. It’s a combination of inability to read social cues & inability to understand women’s arousal patterns. Aka makes you look like you have no game. Lack of emotional intelligence. Kind of goes hand in hand with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 03:49 AM
30	I've never understood why famous male celebrities chose to date/marry other female celebrities Everyday I’m more convinced this sub runs off undiagnosed autism. That’s not how normal people think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 09:44 PM
–	The average woman is more attractive than the average man True. It’s not even something that couldn’t be changed but most men are insanely complacent and/or lazy with their appearance. As a transsexual who puts in insane amounts of effort to be attractive & does so succesfully, I’m sorry I can’t take any man seriously who cries about being too ugly to get dates when you can’t even clip your toenails or do basic skin care. Let alone the plethora of expensive & time consuming beauty procedures women and transsexuals especially get on the regular.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 08:24 PM
13	JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat) I mean in general yeah, but keep in context, a fat woman still has more dating options than the vast majority of men so, whatever you wanna do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 05:31 AM
16	JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat) POV youve never been to the south	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 05:30 AM
3	What do men get for paying for the first date? It is? Good will makes you more likeable so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 02:50 AM
-1	What do men get for paying for the first date? No one says it’s a requirement. Women aren’t holding guns to your heads. If you don’t wanna pay the 33.95 or whatever then just don’t. You’re over analyzing a very simple thing with autismo logic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 02:20 AM
4	What do men get for paying for the first date? So be an independent king and don’t do it? Like have standards for yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 02:13 AM
1	What do men get for paying for the first date? As in you’re showing that you’re thoughtful & gracious. It’s like bonus points. Women typically pay a lot of money to get ready, you’re not obligated to pay for anything but it does show you appreciate her assumed effort.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 01:45 AM
9	What do men get for paying for the first date? You don’t get anything, you do it to show good will. If you expect something back then don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 01:36 AM
-1	What do men get for paying for the first date? Period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/23 01:36 AM
0	Most women respect men with larger penises more than men with smaller ones, even if they do not prefer larger penises in a sexual context Women who disagree with me: dishonest Women who agree with me: honest queens Men talk about dick size way more than women do. If you think anything otherwise i don’t know what to tell you. Source: socialized as both genders	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 10:20 PM
4	If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman? Most men are attracted to most women to some extent so, in some way yes. But they definitely don’t need to be attracted to be friends. This differs a lot in different cultures but in very egalitarian places such as Amsterdam (where I am from), friendships between men and women are almost the norm. Like it’s odd if someone doesn’t have friends of both genders if they are a Dutch born person and not of an immigrant background who might be less egalitarian. When I lived in the US, I definitely noti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 10:14 PM
0	Most women respect men with larger penises more than men with smaller ones, even if they do not prefer larger penises in a sexual context The demeaning of men with small penises is something primarily derived and done to by other men. Women are very impartial to the subject outside Dona sexual context, y’all made it a big deal so, oops now it is. Also, who cares. Women won’t know what your dick size is unless you slept with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 10:09 PM
9	If women hate men and think we're all predators, why are they in here talking to them? The goal was never to be a woman so, that’s good. Don’t be jealous because some of us have options while the rest of y’all cry on here because women won’t even offer you scraps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 12:37 PM
12	If women hate men and think we're all predators, why are they in here talking to them? I’m still a man, and I have more sexual & dating options then you, by far. Seems like I’m the alpha male in this situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 12:11 PM
39	If women hate men and think we're all predators, why are they in here talking to them? Nah they usually say dusty men (like yourself) are the problem and we don’t wanna be associated with you. At the end of the day, everyone has a right to choose their partners and some dusty men are incredibly mad that women do not choose them because women have superior options. There’s no injustice, cultural issue, no dating decline, just the internet giving the men who’ve been left in the dust because they’re subpar options for thousands of years a loud and annoying voice. It doesn’t change an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/23 08:06 AM
5	Q4M: Are men chasing dysfunctional women? Jesus Christ no wonder you’re salty if this is your unironic view of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 07:43 PM
–	Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ? Actually male prostitutes make more on average, ofcourse you’re just a straight man so you wouldn’t have the faintest idea about it. Again it’s just whining about how women have it so easy made by men who are completely alien to the sex industry. Gay men pay more because there are less men available to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:22 PM
–	Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ? Most women don’t make a lot doing sex work. You can sex your asshole for men on Grindr and makes thousands a day if you’re average looking and willing to do it, but men aren’t. And then they lament how much easier women have it because they can do sex work when they wouldn’t even give a guy a handy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:18 PM
–	Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ? Um	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:14 PM
–	Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ? Period	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:03 PM
–	Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ? This might come as a shock to you, but men can also do OF or sex work. They just don’t want to generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:02 PM
–	Do you believe the wall exist for woman & do you think life is easier for them ? Yeah that’s a cope. Everyone declines after their teenage years, the “wall” is a poor description because a 35 year old woman usually just ages generally. Where as most 35 year old men already suffer from hair loss & they don’t tend to take of themselves so they infact, age faster.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:01 PM
–	If women naturally don't feel like sleeping with someone on the first date , that's okay, but if it's a calculated move it's manipulation The way y’all think women calculate every move like a super villain is actually sending me	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:53 PM
–	If women naturally don't feel like sleeping with someone on the first date , that's okay, but if it's a calculated move it's manipulation Today on PPD, everything women do is bad and manipulative & terrible especially when they don’t sleep with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 02:17 PM
1	CMV: Too many men place their respect for women above their respect for themselves That’s the whole thing about it. It’s actually not difficult at all or an inconvenience to think about womens (or other people in general) feelings & needs. You’re not asked to anything special you’re mostly asked not to act carelessly but the bare minimum is too much for emotionally stunted folks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 01:00 AM
10	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior You can’t switch sexualities but if you wanna suck dick so bad do it and stop crying about women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 12:59 AM
1	CMV: Too many men place their respect for women above their respect for themselves Babe you’ve been crying about misandry on Reddit for how long now. Get it together and touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 12:03 AM
7	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior Unironically no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:58 PM
7	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior That’s pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:54 PM
1	CMV: Too many men place their respect for women above their respect for themselves You do tho. Some things cannot be learned, they can only be experienced. That’s the end of it. Period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:54 PM
16	CMV: women’s high standards are pushing men into homosexual behavior Y’all will make any excuse to suck some ding a ling. Bro if you want it go get it stop blaming women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:50 PM
–	"Just put yourself out there brah! Just shoot your shot brah!" You’re right, you should definitely not come near women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 09:07 PM
0	CMV: Too many men place their respect for women above their respect for themselves POV your empathetic capabilities are zero. You don’t get it because you have no female centric experience, I do, and I can say that as a male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 04:29 PM
0	Are men really not attracted to fat girls? They might be ashamed to admit it, but a significant portion of men love fat women, whether they’ll date her publically is another story. Obviously men are most attracted to conventional beauty standards on average like everyone else, but shame skews our public perception. Like if I asked people how many men they think are into transsexuals they would estimate it as low, but it isn’t. It’s extremely common. If you’re a man, no doubt more than 1 of your friends likes fat women or transsexuals, et…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 03:59 PM
4	Most men who hate women online don't really hate them in real life Women don’t need to settle for men who act misogynisticly in the hope that they’re just “trolling” because most women have a massive selection. So no, nah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:32 AM
6	Men are privileged when it comes to sex. And this here is why women are selective as fuck because some of y’all are psychotic and it’s not even uncommon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:29 AM
2	CMV: Too many men place their respect for women above their respect for themselves It’s not “kowtowing” it’s just basic human decency and understanding that women have specific struggles that are very much relevant every single day if men are present. When men specifically have those same challenges I’ll gladly have the same decency towards them but by and large, those are far and few between and you can’t tell me shit about it because I’ve lived as male probably longer than you have been alive so. Now what. Shit like not walking behind a woman who is alone at night, basic fuc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 05:22 AM
0	CMV: Too many men place their respect for women above their respect for themselves Being mindful of women specific issues is just normal social behaviour, like you do with any person? Men will do anything to justify not being capable of the bare minimum. In all my 25 years of being a boy/man I never made a woman feel uncomfortable or felt inconvenienced by their needs, funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:19 AM
2	Men are privileged when it comes to sex. Ooooh girl they ain’t gonna like this one. You right tho go on gurr	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 02:16 AM
4	CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriends Purrrriodd	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 09:24 PM
3	Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women But I have way more experience than any other male who isn’t also a passing transsexual, and I can speak from your male centric view. So no matter how you slice it I have more to say on the matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 09:19 PM
15	Most men who hate women online don't really hate them in real life That’s an action not an opinion. This thread is so bad lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 08:44 PM
4	Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women Both. It’s also seen as selfish by people especially people over the age of like 35 for a woman to not be in a relationship and have kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 08:26 PM
5	Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women Right. Men might get shamed for not being to get laid (mostly by other men who wanna play masculinity hierarchy games with them) but I’m general the state of being single as a woman is consistently questioned and belittled by others, men and women alike. Because the assumption is women should be able to have relationships easy so if she doesn’t what is she doing, something must be wrong with her, why isn’t she having kids. Don’t even get me started on what happens when women say they don’t want …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 08:23 PM
9	Men are shamed far more for being single for life than women POV you’re completely to ignorant to women’s experiences. Single women are far more attacked and shamed than men. Source: lived & experienced life as both.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:58 PM
33	How Common Is It For Women To Choose Not Hot Men So They Don’t Get Cheated On? Any man can cheat on you, it doesn’t matter what the supposed look gap/match is. Men like novelty and if they can’t control their urges they’ll do it. Women don’t really think about that stuff if they want a loyal partner, they look for men who seem trustworthy if anything. Unfortunately not all women are great at selecting trustworthy partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 06:10 PM
29	CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriends The way you’re coming across with this post is “ugh all these women just date good looking masculine chads with no depth yet I am a distinguish intellectual gentleman who posts on Reddit & watches Jordan Peterson”	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 04:58 PM
2	Everyone’s talking about the rise of male loneliness but not the huge decline in testosterone levels which could be a major contributing factor. So what’s the solution? Someone’s triggered	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 04:56 PM
0	Everyone’s talking about the rise of male loneliness but not the huge decline in testosterone levels which could be a major contributing factor. So what’s the solution? I’m in a long term relationship ♥️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 04:33 PM
10	CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriends It’s definitely a popular flavor of men, and my personal favorite. But most women I know are into regular good looking men, beard & tattoos is already kinda niche for most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 03:27 PM
5	Everyone’s talking about the rise of male loneliness but not the huge decline in testosterone levels which could be a major contributing factor. So what’s the solution? Women are still as interested in men as ever they’re just not into you	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 02:59 PM
0	Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royalty I have more of an idea than any other male	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:54 AM
0	Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royalty Makes no difference if you pass as a woman you’re treated as one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 07:53 AM
4	Do you think you can actually sense misogyny? It’s not a super power to recognize something you’ve experienced over and over and over again. It varies but obviously the older and wiser a woman is the more likely she is to detect certain attitudes she come across before. It’s not difficult or complicated to understand. That being said most men haven’t a clue about misogyny because they don’t experience it and god forbid they ever listen to a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 02:47 AM
7	Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royalty In this conversation it is because I’ve passed as a woman for years, and lived as a male for over two decades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 03:43 PM
1	Man aren't in fact the hornier sex They are. It’s hormonal. Source: I’m a transsexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 03:24 PM
13	Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royalty I’m just gonna shut this whole topic down for any ignorant man thinking woman’s default treatment, especially by men, is somehow greater than your treatment as a man. I’m a transsexual, I’ve lived both for a long time. Women do not get some baseline better treatment. Many men will fake act nice to you when they want something from you, and when you don’t reciprocate that energy, they’ll turn on you as if you slighted them personally. So any treatment from men that is positive is now constantly l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 03:17 PM
4	Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life. And becoming a bartender isn’t very difficult, it just requires social skills. Which is most men’s main issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 11:48 PM
1	Women cannot love men like men love women As a transsexually, I can tell you that’s absolute bullshit. Truly. Both are capable, but IF ANYTHING, women are more inclined with feelings love. It’s hormones and I can tell you that from personal experience. There’s a reason women love artists like Lana Del Rey, there’s a romantic melancholy in female culture that men generally will never relate to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:35 PM
10	Most guys who struggle in dating struggle because they don't have a social life. I’ve worked as a bartender, and I’ve never met a man who was a bar tender who doesn’t get have atleast some success with women, no matter their looks. It’s because being a bartender prerequisites and trains you to be social, so yes. It’s not refutable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 09:32 PM
2	The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP. I always find it entertaining when red pillers try and generalize “blue pillers” when that literally just means everyone who isn’t red pill which is the vast majority and way more varied on opinion & holds no specific identity or ideology except NOT being red pill. Like girl, wha Also “you aren’t entitled to women’s bodies” is an entirely valid point when lots of men, and red pillers especially, like to trivialize women’s agency and instead treat them as if they are bots who will (or should) giv…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 06:13 AM
4	The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP. This is so real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 06:04 AM
57	In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them. Men when they select women purely on visuals: bro why are women so boring Then y’all come on here and say it’s women who don’t care about anything you say when in reality it’s the other way around, if you’re not attractive most men won’t even be polite to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 06:11 AM
17	Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to win People say this but don’t realize it’s literally a meme among women to say “why does the poor guy who lives with his momma always got the best D”	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 06:09 AM
–	Male virginity is a common joke subject, but female promiscuity is not. No female promiscuity is straight up disparaged, there’s no need to conceal it into a joke. Slurs that are based on promiscuous women are some of the most common ones around, far more common than being called a virgin.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 06:02 AM
–	Women have a zero tolerance policy when it comes to socially awkward men It’s not women’s job to be your training grounds for learning how to function socially like a normal person, especially not when women are the main victims of creepy men. They’re not gonna take chances babying you, figure it out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 12:45 PM
–	Why is redpill mostly full of men? Because it’s cringe. Most men don’t even agree with most of the weird stuff they come up with. Some men have such a massive lack in basic emotional intelligence that they get together with a bunch of other men who have that same lack of ability and create complex systems & maps of what they think women are like. A woman is just some computer programma they can analyze and break down into simple inputs and outputs because having fluid emotional intelligence with people they can interact with in r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 07:54 PM
5	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you Clearly not or you wouldn’t all be crying about online every single day. But if you don’t understand why a someone doesn’t wanna sleep with someone they find attractive immediately, you’re just fundamentally inexperienced and/or bad with people and emotions in general, not just women. Not even all men are mindless dogs who just wanna sleep with everything immediately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 07:46 PM
11	45% of men age 18-25 have never approached a woman in person It’s always funny to me when men say this. Like you’re clearly so disconnected as to what harassment from men looks like you don’t even see it if it’s infront of you. Yes, having some creepy dude who’s leering at you, eyes trailing you up and down, sitting on the curb of NYC, is harassment. If you don’t understand how this is different from a mild mannered man saying hi to you in a normal context you have the emotional intelligence of a toddler.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 07:38 PM
2	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you Tension/comfort building. The fact y’all can’t think of this yourselves smh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 07:16 PM
23	The real reason women hate when older guys get with younger girls If a barely legal woman wants to go out with some man who’s 42, she can. But most women have experiences of being with men who are older when we are young & by and large, those experiences teach us that we let them slide with a lot of bad behaviour because we were young & naive, and those men know that because they are much older and experienced. I think there’s a difference in sleeping with a much younger woman & dating one. If you wanna sleep with some 19 year old as an older man, ok, I get it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 01:19 PM
14	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you What part of your dating life isn’t the whole world isn’t clicking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 05:52 AM
7	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you Or maybe they just don’t think the same as men and don’t feel a need to jump on every guys dick who is attractive immediately	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 05:44 AM
19	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you I’m so glad you’ve figured out that your personal dating experience is reflective of the female species in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 05:40 AM
72	CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to you Have to ever considered that maybe not all women on earth think & act the exact same way and that having sex with someone on a first date isn’t always what they find appealing even if they think you’re attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 05:32 AM
14	CMV: If legal, age doesn’t matter Just because it’s legal doesn’t mean it’s completely fine either. I don’t think 30+ dating 19 year olds should be illegal, but I do think those people need to step back and consider for a second the mental state a 19 year old is likely to be in. I dated a 33 year old man as a 19 year old. I think it was fine in theory, but he treated me very questionably at several points and in my opinion IF you are going to date someone who is so far behind in experience and maturity to you, it’s your obligati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 05:46 PM
5	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Difference is women aren't typically forceful and completely blind to mens comfort like men are. If a man seems to not enjoy something women usually just stop all together, men don't always do that and it leads to dangerous and uncomfortable situations. If you don't get how, thats exactly the privilege as a man you have, that you need not worry about actually being in pain during sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 05:41 PM
1	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Sounds like you’re one of the people I’m talking about because you don’t get it. The guys that get it get it, and the ones that don’t, don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 04:21 PM
1	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Just say you’re in-experienced. Sex is a two way street, to have enjoyable sex having rapport with your partner is a good thing. Lots of men, especially if it’s a random fling, will give absolutely zero fucks about what you want. Women tend to not like those types of encounters which I why women don’t randomly sleep with any rando the way men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 04:07 PM
1	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Just proving what I’m saying. Men will immediately make sexual & aggressive comments when they even feel slighted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 04:02 PM
5	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. No it doesn’t. I’ve had men grab me in public too. So has every woman basically. Men are so far removed from what other men do when they’re with women it’s hilarious. Men being dangerous is not low down on the list, at all. It’s like a main factor to keep in mind if you date men at all. Women are taught to look out for themselves, even by other men like their dads for a reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 03:58 PM
1	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Virginal comment Some men literally will just hold you down and do their thing with no regard for a woman but how would you know	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 03:56 PM
5	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Being in public doesn’t stop a man from doing weird shit, trust. Second, even nice seeming men can flip a script and do rapey or aggressive shit in a different setting. Again this is just a lack of experience men have because they have no clue what that looks like. There’s a reason women are hypervigilant and why domestic violence numbers are the way they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 03:34 PM
2	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. You know meeting a man at a restaurant doesn’t mean the entire time with him will always be there Are you be willfully obtuse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 03:29 PM
5	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. How would you would you know, you’re a man. When you’re with men you Always have to be vigilant, because even men who are nice to your face and flip a switch once you get sexual, or reject him, or don’t act how he expects, etc etc. At the end of the day men are way more physically powerful, aggressive and sexually aggressive, that doesn’t mean every man is gonna hurt you but it does mean you have to be aware and no be a naive child if you’re around them. That’s what fathers teach their daughters…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 03:20 PM
3	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Being valued for more than just looks. I know what being a male is like and I lost most of the advantages when I transitioned so you can’t say I don’t get it either	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 03:08 PM
11	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Men are more violent than women for sure, and women don’t want random sexual encounters the way men do. Also you can’t get a serious relationship without exposing yourself to a minefield of men in casual encounters first. Men just find it really hard to imagine that dealing with them is often dangerous and scary. Because all they think is “B-BUT U GET SO MUCH SEXXXXX”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:50 PM
4	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Dating men is dangerous period and no matter where you meet a man there is risk involved, and it is not an insignificant risk but alas most men have no clue about that at all. All they see is “well ur a chick so everything in dating is just easy because everyone wants to fuck you”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 02:41 PM
0	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. Dating is still more dangerous, because men are dangerous. Also, would men be willing to surrender other advantages over women to have more dating options. Something tells me, many would not. Men just desperately desire the one thing women most certainly have more than they do, sexual power.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 01:50 PM
12	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. That’s still only half of it. I suspect many men will say “ok so some dudes are assholes to you online, but who cares you have thousands of men lining up for you!! Clearly that is worth it!” What is less obvious is how dating beyond the screen is like. Women have to constantly consider safety etc when out with a man. While most men are not going to harm you, enough do threaten it directly or subtly on the regular for you to HAVE to be alert when meeting them or interacting with men, because wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 12:49 PM
24	Here's an experiment: have the profile of the opposite gender in dating apps. This won’t work because men will come back and say “omg I got so many matches, women have it so easy” yeah we have an easy time getting quick mediocore sex, that’s mainly the thing MEN want, hence the jealousy and resentment. If you’re a woman you’re not really interested in a horde of horny randos eager to use your body as a masturbation tool, which is exactly how most casual random hookups would go if we were as eager and non selective with partners as men are. Just ask trans people. We are yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 12:38 PM
8	Do men lie about their physical preferences in women? If women are only looking “8 and up” the vast majority of us would be single but we’re not so with basic math this is false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 05:55 AM
3	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? So do men and women. This is just straight people not getting our culture lmao. I would say dating while straight is far easier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 05:31 PM
4	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? This	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 05:12 PM
3	I want to understand why guys complain about women yet gay guys don’t complain about each other? Gay men have TONS of complains about each other. The gay world is very partial to “tribes” I.E everyone is a different type of gay and there are complex interactions and often anomosities between them. Bottoms, tops, bears, twinks, older, younger, white, black, etc, it’s all a complex competition at times, far too complicated for most straight people to understand. Despite being the same sex, gay men often don’t regard each other as the same at all, based on certain character traits. These just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 05:09 PM
12	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. That doesn’t stop it from happening on the daily and them getting away with it. At the end of the day, even if women may try and manipulate you, that is not physical force. I’ve experienced both as both genders and men’s sexual aggressive is far worse, and societies general distaste doesn’t make me feel any better when a man follows me home and tries to barge through my apartment door because I ignored his advances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 05:06 PM
22	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. There’s no agree to disagree it’s just a fact Men will just come up to you and force themselves onto you physically. Women cannot force you to cater to them emotionally and they definitely can’t if you’re just walking down the street, getting groceries, sitting in a park, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 11:32 AM
24	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. Yea no it’s 100% true Men will be sexually aggressive to women just walking down the street It’s not comparable to women trying to milk you for attention. Women don’t run up to you and demand you buy them flowers or whatever at gun point on the street. Sorry. Also if a woman is a shit head to you, you can block her. I can’t press block when a man comes up to me and grabs my ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 11:26 AM
25	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. It’s way easier to avoid women taking advantage of you though as a man then it is avoiding men who are sexually aggressive. The later is literally impossible to avoid, and is physically dangerous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 11:20 AM
48	Women feel just as entitled to men's minds as they complain men do to their bodies. It’s true. Women feel entitled to have a man treat them like a princess, not all, but a significant portion. The large difference is that men’s entitlement to sex is often far more aggressive and harmful than women need to have a man emotionally support/care for them. One results in men literally following you down the street and groping you or worse The other, while also potentially harmful, is less threatening to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/22 11:13 AM
49	For marriage, it's logical for men to marry the youngest attractive woman they can pull. Imagine marrying someone because of how other men perceive your partner and thus status.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 03:25 PM
1	Every pill fails at properly addressing the biggest issue guys face when dating. Anxiety. Literally this, but how anxiety often works is that the mind will try and find any angle but straight through it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 04:21 PM
2	Women feel entitled to men liking them Some do, but it’s less than with men. In my opinion there’s nothing wrong with a man just being with a woman to sleep with her, but just don’t lie to her and pretend it’s something it’s not and lead her on because you think it’ll land you a lay easier. I help my male friends hook up with women all the time and sometimes women try to cling to them after they smashed and it’s like, no dude actually men have boundaries too and women aren’t entitled to your time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 06:32 AM
1	men are Hornier than women Those women are naive. Like I agree men should practice self control because their natural urges can be so powerful, but realistically, the vast majority of women really just don’t get how hard that can actually be because they will never experience it first hand. I personally do, and whenever a man has restrained himself for my benefit, I appreciate it a lot because I know exactly what he’s going through. Like if I ever went out on a date with a guy and we slept (no sex) together and just made …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 06:23 AM
1	Do women feel that they are competing for a man’s attention the same way guys have to? Yes, constantly. Infact I would wager to say sometimes women can be more combative when trying to fight for a mans attention, women are just more subtle about it. They will try and sabotage other women socially while bolstering themselves. When I transitioned and started to become more and more attractive in a feminine way, men who are primarily into females started to notice me, and my female friends who knew me as a gay boy, a significant number of them started to really resent to sudden compe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 09:10 PM
1	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Yeah, if your dysphoria is fixed thats another story in relation to libido. But on a basic hormonal level, any endocrinologist will tell you, it's basic accepted science that testostone increases libido, and loss of testosterone, lowers it, significantly. If you're a transsexual you know this because every doctor informs you of the expected effects and change in libido is a major one that occurs quickly and significantly. But then again anyone can also open their window or look at anything onlin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 09:04 PM
10	Women feel entitled to men liking them True, and some women do except men to treat them like queens despite not treating their man like kings. But generally, women are a lot less aggressive about their opinions. A woman (or a man) has a right to reject anyone for any reason. Where as men, well, if you're a woman and you reject men, them responding in full aggro mode calling you every name in the book as a result screams of way way more entitlement imo. Most women have experience with this, especially online where men feel safe to say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 09:01 PM
5	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites? First of all, the 80/20 thing is hyperbolic. Women are far too varied to be generalized like that. Second, no? Because women have far easier time attracting men and pretty much any woman besides really offputting, crazy or unattractive ones, can find ''high value'' man to be with if they play their cards right and have patience. Nothing wrong with having high standards, it just pisses off some men because they feel entitled to sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 08:56 PM
24	Women feel entitled to men liking them I think what most women would mean is that lots of men genuinely hate women but will pretend (to some extent) that they don't. Which is kind of shitty. Like if you actively dislike women but just wanna fuck them, stay away from us and find a prostitute or a girl whos specifically totally fine with just fucking and nothing more. But men often don't do that, they cheat and lie their way into womens pants to get sex. Obviously most men DO genuinely like women but some, and i've seen it on this boar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 08:53 PM
5	men are Hornier than women Yes, it's hormonal. Any man, if you were to lose most of your testostone and take estrogen, you would soon understand exactly how big the difference is. Same for women in reverse. Source: Just trust me bro & i'm a transsexual.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 08:35 PM
1	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Thats science. I’ve had both hormone balances in my body and it’s common. It’s scientific consensus and you have to be living under a rock to not see men are far more horny. If you’re not a transsexual what would you really know about the difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 07:53 PM
8	Women are far crueler to men than vice versa, especially regarding looks Idc how cruel you think some women are it pales in comparison to being literally harassed in public or physically groped and assaulted, which is common. Also men make a habit of calling women ugly and other shit, it’s nonsense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 03:06 PM
1	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Yeah. They suddenly feel the thing most men have which is, if you don’t masturbate your horniness keeps going up and up until it is actually physically irritating and distracting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:37 AM
2	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Um bestie it literally is This is common knowledge in the trans community, we literally swap our hormone balances and the change is sex drive is the first and also the most dramatic emotional difference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:18 AM
1	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Yes women are sexual and they watch porn, but most women would be shocked to know how horny most men actually are compared to them. Which is obvious because most of the most depraved sexual stuff is almost exclusively a male thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:12 AM
1	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Most Women do not read or watch porn in the same manner as men. Not even close. Most modern men have an almost ritual like masturbatory urge because it keeps their sex drive somewhat in check, because testosterone. Its not even close to being the same and this is obvious to everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 04:08 AM
1	Men suck up to the “douchebag alphas” more than any woman. They have a skewed sense of what is attractive to women I was a skinny androgynous gay twink as a boy with long hair prior to transition and I got absolutely bombarded with likes and messages when one time I made faked being a straight boy just to see who would match me. The biggest mistake most men make in judging what women are attracted to, is thinking that they they consider to a masculine ideal is what most women like as well, the reality is more complicated and depends on the woman. I’ll tell you right now being a young pretty boy will get you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 03:45 AM
6	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. There’s a million things to do because women are pretty sensitive to things that aren’t just looks. But in general, make sure your social skills are very sharp & you’re very confident. Those are two things which can be very hard to do but they do a lot. Also, be a niche. Any man who has a niche in his looks/aesthetic automatically has a major advantage because there will ALWAYS be some girls who are REALLY into that specific niche so it’s basically like cheating your way into being a lot more at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 02:23 AM
2	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Both. Depends on the individual. But generally, trans women exclusively into men (the ones who were basically Uber gay boys before) usually try extremely hard to look good, in part for men, and it works.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 02:20 AM
5	Why are there so many gendered slurs for women, but not as many for men? Flair checks out	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 02:04 AM
7	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Yeah dog it’s not that hard for most dudes to get something here and there. Its really hard for men who are overly anxious and neurotic aka most men struggling on Reddit in these types of environments. Tap out if you want but there’s literal ugly men walking the streets with girlfriends every single day in droves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 01:51 AM
5	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Not really, most guys can get laid and get girlfriends. But most cannot get as much sex as they would like. Really depends on how much effort you’re willing to exert. Transsexuals go through painful surgeries and a bunch of difficult shit to be able to be attractive. You are either about it or you’re not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 01:42 AM
12	How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man. Its harder as a man for getting initial interest. Im a transsexual. Even with the handicap of being trans while dating my options are more than basically any man who’s not a celebrity. I still have a screenshot of what my tinder looked at like 3 months into transition, my likes were constantly maxed out on tinder gold (10000+) That’s how massive the gap in interest is. That said there’s a lot of things men can do to be attractive that doesn’t involve genetic luck, but most can’t because most peo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 12:53 AM
2	Gynocentric? Gynocentrism is a delusional idea mostly salty men have because they crave some of the things women have, lots of feminism is similar but in reverse. Realistically men and women both have advantages and disadvantages, how those affect you depends on your personal circumstances/what you want out of life. You want a cushy life? Being a woman is better. You want high economic mobility and freedom? Being a man is better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:55 PM
2	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? In general women don't have any where near the same sex drive as men, not that compulsive need to ''release''. In order for a female to really match it you would need to shoot her up with male levels of testosterone. It's not even close and as someone who has had both im not suprised the sexes tend to misunderstand each other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:50 PM
68	Women's standards are giving men body dysmorphia Gay men suffer from rates of anorexia, body dysmophia and eating disorders at around 5 times the rate of straight men so what does that tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:48 PM
1	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? Watching porn and having a male testosterone based sex drive are two different things entirely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 10:44 PM
4	Are you turned off (or made jealous by) men watching porn? No. Pretty much all dudes do it. Women just can’t understand how men feel in that sexual way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 07:23 PM
12	q4w: would it be better if guys just didn't send dick picks, period? They have their time and place. It’s just most men don’t know how to take a good dick pic that women usually -might- like (in the right circumstance & with consent/rapport) Pro tip. Consider having more of you in the photo than just the dick, have the rest in there too and make it look nice. Its usually not dick that is appealing to women alone, it’s the dick in context with the man it’s attached too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/22 02:06 AM
24	Q4W: Would you be mad if a man you liked a lot made you wait for sex? A little waiting and tension is good, too long and I’ll assume our libidos aren’t aligned and I would -probably- dip or atleast ask questions. Sex is pretty important for most people in relationships. Like if I’m dating you I’m probably really attracted to you and 3 months of no sex, I dunno sounds a little like torture unless you see each other like once a month? Waiting until marriage, sorry bye unless he’s magically like the most amazing man in the universe in every other way but I doubt it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 11:53 PM
4	Apparently, women were seen as the hornier sex for much of History Hi, I’m a transsexual on hormones. They’re not, men are. Because testosterone, and it’s not even close.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/22 11:43 PM
10	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: It turns out that Bumble, the app marketed as 'female-friendly' where only women can message first, has a user base of over 80% men in the UK. In the US, where the app is used by far the most, women are less than 1 in 3 users Yeah, but those girls are also less likely to be able to attract the guys they want long term/keep them. Lots of attractive men might sleep with you, even more than once, but looks aren’t consistently gonna get those men falling in love with you unless perhaps the gap in your looks is very high and he’s desperate. In which case, you could probably find better, harsh as that sounds. Any girl who’s not super unattractive can have men lined up to sleep with her. Keeping the man she wants though, it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 06:16 PM
1	No woman is high value Most. You’re confusing things. Succesful men go for women based on looks, but that’s because there are tons of girls who are willing to bank everything on looks and use it, more power to them to be honest. But if that’s all you present, those men will value that in you, because they value looks. Doesn’t mean they don’t value anything else. Those women just aren’t throwing themselves to him everywhere and aren’t as obvious. For example. Secret thing most men don’t know. Women aren’t as afraid of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 06:13 PM
3	No woman is high value This is inexperienced boy thoughts. Lots of men who are experienced & seasoned and don’t feel insecure about finding attractive women to be with, have diminishing returns on the value of sex. Those men value women for other things than just her looks or sex, so do a lot of men. If you’re only pretty, that’s what men will treat you as. Because like, men have emotional needs too, I know shocking and hard to admit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 06:06 PM
3	Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”? Someone’s salty	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 06:04 PM
13	Q4W: Do you care whether or not a man has been “run through”? No, I care if he has impulse control. I find it attractive if a man is experienced/sought after tbh. My current boyfriend has a very high sex drive & he’s been with a very high amount of girls. Enough that it’s a running joke in his friend circles and even with his parents so I know it’s not something he made up himself. It doesn’t make me trust him less, because he’s a very controlled person and communicative/trustworthy. If he wasn’t, I might consider it a bit of a red flag. The key factor is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 05:44 PM
1	Q4W - which of the following two men would you rather have? A. If he’s inexperienced in bed that can be taught. If they’re both otherwise clones, I don’t see why you would pick B unless you really hate too much attention. Which is possible I guess, women will be split on this. Knowing he won’t cheat sounds nice so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/22 05:35 PM
3	How do bluepillers reconcile the two statements "Looks don't matter" and "Most people are dating someone with similar looks"? I don’t think anyone but insane folks say looks don’t matter I think the more common sentiment is that they’re not really the whole picture either especially not in long term stuff	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 09:15 PM
2	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement True to some extent, but depends on on region. Big city and/or liberal cities are better & unfortunately it is highly dependant on how “presentable” you are, aka do you seem like a relatively normal woman or not, it’s a complex dating market for sure which takes effort & knowledge to navigate for a trans women. Lots of men do actually want to date us but they prefer to do so in secret because they aren’t prepared for potential social reprocussions. But yeah there absolutely no lack in mens desir…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/22 01:36 AM
5	Q4W: Without qualifications, which problems do you sympathize with men for in dating that women contribute to? I’m glad to help. I would say core behaviour doesn’t really change from hormones, I was feminine in behaviour mannerisms and interests before hormones and stayed that way after. It DOES make you more emotional, more easily moody and neurotic. It also decreases your physical sex drive, and because it does, you start looking at men (in my case) in more of a broad light. Testosterone makes you very horny and boy me would see a hot guy and be pretty much down to get smashed right then and there in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:25 PM
15	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement I mean that usually ain’t the reason butttttt, it does work because even a busted looking trans woman will get wayyyyy more attention than even an attractive man. That’s how big the gap is how physically desired women are by men, than vice versa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:16 PM
15	Q4W: Without qualifications, which problems do you sympathize with men for in dating that women contribute to? Lots of women expect to be treated like queens despite not being great at treating their male partners with care, they just want to be cared for. Honestly I’ve had really good success dating as a trans woman and I think part of it stems from the fact that I can understand a man better than any female can, and men have expressed that it’s a very nice bonus that I can relate to them and generally know how to talk to them/make them feel wanted and like a king. (Good) men will treat you like a queen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 09:08 PM
9	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement Mixed bag, some are very desperate for attention because they want some kind of validation for being attractive in a feminine way, the attractive ones who aren’t prostitutes are because the ratio of men chasing us to how many of us there are is extremely skewed. For every attractive trans woman there’s like 200 men looking for one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 07:09 PM
3	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement Really starts to stick to the vocab once you use it a few times be careful lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 06:20 PM
3	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement Mostly not, trans people do date each other on Grindr also though. Because grindr is so popular it’s almost a de facto app for any person who’s not strictly a female born lesbian. Also grindr has ease of use over normal dating apps that require you to match which is honestly a more pleasant system but unfortunately women get too bombarded so it typically dies off When I was on Grindr I couldn’t even keep up with the amount of messages I got so imagine if tinder was that open ended	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 06:19 PM
13	ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagement Actually, it’s because there is an extreme influx of men flooding the app looking for trans women, much to the spite of actual gay men who hate seeing tons of on there proclaiming “NOT GAY, only looking for trans women”. Obviously those men want some bussy from us too and they figured out grindr is the best place to find trans women ironically	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/22 06:06 PM
39	If you're struggling to date, you are NOT good looking Dating isnt just getting laid I know a lot of attractive people who get/can get laid but struggle to date succesfully because that involves finding people you mesh with and complex emotional relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/22 08:19 AM
3	The fact that women are immediately drawn to men who are taken and base their attraction on what other people think of a guy, yet most men are immediately turned off when they find out a woman is taken confirms that women have far more impure mating behavior Lmao. No men are more aggressive and pushy. We have to walk around considering violent assault and rape from men btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 05:16 AM
1	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation Yes, he does. We do it together. Personal attacks are not what you wanna do. I can do them better cool guy alpha bro. It's giving lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 03:51 AM
2	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation Didn't say they were better, said men commit most of the most horrorific acts in history to a far greater degree. If that fact makes you rage and feel a need to get even with women somehow you're just insecure. I for example don't feel insecure by that facts and i'm male because I don't take it personal. If you don't believe history thats on you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 03:50 AM
1	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation You pivoting to women this women that because you clearly have a mental beef with them but the simple fact of the conversation was, yes, most atrocities such as murder, rape, genocide, enslavement, etc was commited, directly, by males, far more often than females, throughout human history. This is historic fact. And then men wonder why they can't get laid, have girlfriends and why their hairline is running back so fast when they act like this, lmao. Alpha bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 03:46 AM
2	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation It's not sexist to say men have commited most of the violence in history just as its not sexist to say that men are physically superior to women. You just don't like the facts. Go ask historians to provide you with stats that the thousands upon thousands of wars and the battles were fought almost exclusively by males. Literally autism. If you need stats to understand males have raped far more in history than females again, you slept in history class or you're just mad at reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 03:33 AM
2	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation Your post doesn't have anything to do with what was just said. Males commited most of the violence in history, this is obvious and non-controversial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 03:20 AM
1	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation No. It was primarily the boys/adult men who bullied me for not being masculine as a child, girls and adult women did too, but to lesser degree. Also it was only the males who were violent to me as a result. I call horse shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 03:11 AM
2	'Toxic masculinity' is only half of the equation This is just general truth of history. It’s like asking someone to provide stats if rape occurred frequently throughout history Like yeah, it’s just obvious and asking for stats is a cringe way of trying to scurry around some of the most obvious facts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 03:08 AM
1	This sub just doesn’t believe in love It must be a very sort of specific sort of venomous insecure autism/other mental or experience failures. Every boyfriend (4) including my current I’ve had has had mild to moderate autism, but none of them were unsuccessful with women and despite it being harder for them growing up, they succesfully learned to socialize and attract (more than average) amount of attention & affection from women. Them all being good looking helps ofcourse. Being attractive makes it easier to learn to be social. Aut…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 04:06 PM
2	Transgenders (M to F) and sex drive...the same as a cis man or cis woman? They are somewhat different. First of all, they are harder to achieve, and require more mental focus. This is something lots of females report, including those in my circles. In most cases I need to actively focus my mind during sex on the act and not let it stray or orgasm might not be achieved, but I have gotten good at it and it happens, just not as lighting quick as I could before. I would say feel a bit different physically too, I get very sweaty right before climax, something I didn’t expe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 10:56 PM
6	Transgenders (M to F) and sex drive...the same as a cis man or cis woman? Probably the only real transsexual here, so i'll add what I can. Going from a high level of testosterone to a very low amount, (less than most females) there is a drastric change in physical sex drive. I no longer feel the need to masturbate like most males do in a sort of habit. I can go months, and If I do feel horny, it's more of a mental desire to be with a man and not necessarily to relieve myself by orgasming. I can masturbate, but it's usually just a rare occurence of ''Hmm, I guess it wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 08:04 PM
7	How much do you agree with the following sentence? Don't agree. A lot of is over generalized and based on some weird machismo culture only insecure men could collectively think of. Obviously, there are bits of truth here and there, but in general, it's quesy and the kind of attitude they have is highly unappealing to me and a lot of women. Some women do find cringey machismo attitude attractive (Jersey Shore? idk) but most do not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 08:59 PM
2	Women, how important is finances? In dating: Barely care, unless maybe he's in literal poverty and is starving or something or in massive crippling debt. Most of he men I dated had mediocore incomes, and their income was never something I was interested in when getting to know them. Marriage: Basically the same, completely fine with a dude who has low wage, I personally prefer substance over ability to give us material things. My current boyfriend earns modestly, enough not to struggle and have savings but he's not rich by any m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 08:56 PM
1	What exactly makes women horny? Wow, you're taking it way way out of context. Chill out. First of all Idk why boyfriend is in quotations, weird. Second, he doesn't have to JUMP through hoops and hoops to turn me on. We have an intimate relationship and all he has to do to get me in the mood NOW that were in a long term relationship is literally exist or touch me, because we have an established bond. I'm talking abou our first date, in which, I found him very appealing physically, but women generally don't wanna immediately sle…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 07:51 PM
10	What exactly makes women horny? I would say there is now a sliding scale. I remember being in a situation when I had been on hormones for about 2 months a few years back and they really start to affect my sex drive and emotions. I went to get my blood drawn by some doctors assistant who was not really my type, he wasn't super ugly or anything but he wasn't someone pre hormone me would've noticed as anything sexual. I'm scared of needles and this man was very sweet and comforting and just had a.. thing. Something about him se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 07:46 PM
1	which gender studies and understands more about the other gender? You both understand about as well as the other, which in general, isn't great unless you're very intelligent and emphathetic as a person. I'm a transsexual, lots of shit you just can't get very easily unless you experience it first hand. Like, men know women get cat called generally, what they typically don't know is how that FEELS especially when it's happened to you hundreds of times. Same goes for women, they generally don't understand lots of plights men go through such as insane pressure …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 04:55 PM
37	What exactly makes women horny? Transsexual here. Pre hormones as a 21 year old gay boy when my testosterone was peaking, the things that turned me on generally were mostly just the physicality of attractive (or even somewhat average) men. Pretty similar in how straight men view women I just did with masculine man, I could see one and instantly fantasize about him plowing me basically. Tho, I have always been feminine so things like them treating me nicely or typical shit women tend to like also helped, by appearance was the p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 04:16 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Maybe some folks just got it and some don’t	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 05:13 PM
2	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Then you need to get more social, more attractive or foster some other attractive quality, I.E focus on yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 04:53 PM
1	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind And I’ll do it again Watch your hairline go back with every edgy Reddit post you make	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:46 PM
1	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind Its not personal, I’m not a female, so. It’s just sexist, I said it was sexist. Cry about it “bRo ur so TRIGGURED” lmao grow a pair	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:43 PM
1	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind Poor you can’t be sexist without someone saying something 🥲🥲	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:36 PM
3	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind coldest and most calculating humans ever, backstabbing constantly, lazy, and just overall very annoying. Does this look like normal behaviour to you. If you're a sexist, the answer would be yes, otherwise, it's psychotic. Also i'm male.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:21 PM
1	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind ''coldest and most calculating humans ever, backstabbing constantly, lazy, and just overall very annoying.'' Omg women are so exhausting because they recognize sexist psychosis blatantly being posted by low tier men, so dramatic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:18 PM
17	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind “I had this bad experience with women now I’m gonna try and convince other insecure & vulnerable men that this is the universal truth of all females so you can be just as sad and depressed as me” You’re literally just the opposite of radical feminists	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 11:24 AM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Existing in public and being social. Theres a lesbian bar around the corner from me where my friends hang out, lots of lesbians and bisexuals girls are there obviously, and i'm just there to hang out with my friends, and just talking to them gets them interested more often than I would like (im into men and have a boyfriend) Men don't understand that if you focus on yourself and become socially skilled, women will often make themselves available to YOU without you even trying, especially on ni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 09:25 AM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 09:23 AM
1	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating Women don't want all want ''assholes'' I'm sorry if I can get partners consistently as a transsexual regular straight men with a far greater potential dating pool have no excuse. Women are all different, and some women date differently them others, theyre not all some stereotype you saw in a chick-flic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 07:19 PM
3	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating The best advice I can give which works really well is, either, if you have a niche, amplify it, because someone will always be attracted to your ''type'', or, develope a niche. If you're just an average guy with no memorable qualities you're gonna compete with every man, and that's tough. For example, I have a thing for men with beards & tattoos, that kind of rock & roll, death metal, skater, alternative aesthetic. In my case, I have chosen 5'8'' more or less average ish men over 8/10 conventi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:16 PM
19	Great article about the cognitive dissonance of what women are looking for in dating I'm gonna say something that may come as a shock... but have you ever considered you can select for women... who might not behave the same as the average of a data point? You know considering theres billions to choose from? Like, i'm a transsexual, and data suggests only 2% of men considering dating us, (in my experience it's higher because I live in a highly open minded place) but in my experience it's about 10%. I select for these men, and I have so many men who are interested in me because …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:18 PM
7	What if some people just want to play the field? For fun Just goes to show how toxic some men are here that they're saying ''oh you can't only chads can do that!!'' Go out and live your life boy, just be respectful and if you wanna sleep with a bunch of women, have at it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:15 PM
2	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice I'm a transsexual. In a serious relationship, and have never struggled to date to get interest from both men & women, and i'm only attracted to men. Meanwhile you're on here salt posting, maybe try and learn something. I can go out and have women approach me without even trying and i'm literally trans, what are the rest of you men doing wrong if I can do that. Most of you are just socially inept and aren't lucky enough to have something else that outstanding to compensate for it, but doesn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:52 PM
0	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice You're the one here struggling to socialize, my iphone won't change that. Touch all the grass, good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:44 PM
2	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice No, you can absolutely just talk to women if you know how to actually socialize and not have all your signals scream ''I'm just here to get into your pants'', which yes, if she isn't very attracted to you, or god forbid, not looking to find people to fuck that night, she will avoid. Just act normal, jeeze. Touch all the grass. You just don't know how, and don't feel bad, lots of men don't. Because no one teaches you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:43 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice No you're reading comprehension is just off. Go ahead and approach, just don't cross boundaries if you haven't learned how to navigate them without being creepy yet. You can do that just by socializing normally, you know, be friends with woman, talking to them like humans. Makes it pretty easy to learn their perspective and keep that into consideration. Your parents really should've taught you basic social skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:39 PM
0	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Yep, which is why focusing on yourself doesn't mean don't talk to women, it means stop trying to force intimacy or set every interaction with a woman as trying to sleep with her as your goal. If you do that, unless you're really bad at socializing, you'll probably be fine. Literally just touch grass and act normal, I know that is a lot to ask here but literally a lot of yall need to practice that, so do that before you start approaching women with sex in mind. I know this may come as a huge …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:33 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice This.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:30 PM
3	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice So don't act thirsty? You know women also just like to socialize and don't just avoid every man completely who's not a model. Touch grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:29 PM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Yeah, but if you have social calibration you can minimize it, and that's not gonna happen unless you learn/go out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 12:07 PM
7	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Yeah if you can't go somewhere young women go to socialize you're either in a barren place or you're being blocked by anxiety.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 12:05 PM
0	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Yeah but if you're inexperienced is worth learning about how to approach and not bother people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 12:02 PM
7	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice What? Just go to a bar, a festival, a local fair, a music show, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 12:00 PM
4	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice If it's seen as cringe and creepy it's likely something to do with you, so the advice, work on yourself, in probably applicable. Women and men both like to socialize and theres plenty of places to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:55 AM
5	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice So frequent places women are present and there to socialize? You can also socialize with women without trying to sleep with them you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:46 AM
1	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Yeah, but before you do that I suggest also learning (there are online resources) of how to approach women in a civil and decent manner, it's not that complicated once you hear a few sensible womens perspectives. Also, you don't always NEED to approach. I know plenty of males in my circle who have women approach them, depends on the culture and where you're from perhaps or how attractive/approachable you seem. Also, i'm not attracted to women and was approached by women occasionally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:38 AM
4	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice What is the alternative? Cross boundaries women have set? hmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:32 AM
6	Telling men to "focus on themselves" when they are looking to meet women is bad advice Focusing on yourself is great advice, for one, hyperfixating on women or wanting to get a girlfriend/have sex to the point of it damaging mentally means you should probably take a step back. Second of all, focusing on yourself also can mean, go out, do things not necessarily related or intended to be for women, and you can end up making friends or meeting women naturally by coincidence or proximity. It makes for a more happy and fruitful experience for a lot of men who are suffering. You don't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 11:29 AM
14	Are the expectations of young men today way too unrealistic when it comes to TRP stuff? You honestly think the hundreds of millions of average men with girlfriends or friends with benefits all think the people they're with are unattractive? I mean really, wake up. It's not that hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 08:12 AM
16	Are women truly submissive? It entirely depends on how threatening the situation is. If women generally feel comfortable telling you no that is a good thing, it means you are less likely to be emiting a hostile or forceful energy onto women. Women are scared to say no when they're genuinely afraid of a mans reaction, men who are polite, I can politely decline, men who are forceful and follow me on the street, I have to play along or literally run away. After shit like this happens to you dozens of times you get a sense f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:20 AM
1	Are women truly submissive? Bro what is this cringe lmao sO aLpHA brooo	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:18 AM
5	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky Delusions of the highest order, you'll only attract insecure shallow women acting like a fake alpha bro, if thats what you want go ahead, but it aint gonna be me and most sensible women see through and laugh in our group chats about yall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:21 PM
1	How to become the "bad boy" Stop caring what other people think but also try super hard to appear as a ''bad boy'' Yeah no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:18 PM
2	Birth control and Women's Preference Nope, also never been abused, always been attracted to men since concious thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:16 PM
6	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky No, they're not. Most of my male friends are succesful with women and aren't ''redpilled'', they're actually decent people with healthy sense of self and their partner for the most part, nor have any of my partners have been, or my current. Don't delude yourself, you're a fringe minority most people laugh at.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:13 PM
2	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky No <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:05 PM
3	What are good examples of the female gaze in media? K-Pop boy bands probably.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:03 PM
2	Birth control and Women's Preference Abuse takes many forms and suffering abuse has never been linked to shifting ones sexuality to being gay. Thats where the burden of proof is, and you cannot support it. The end.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 10:01 PM
7	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky Yes, the myriad of blatant sexists comments on TRP subreddit that is now banned, was just based on how women ''feel''. You can make ''oh well those aren't REAL redpillers'' no true scotsman fallacies but everyone who has been on the internet for a while knows what yalls community been saying for years. Prime example, AWALT responses to examples of women being bad. How people act when they know they're safe is actually who you are, which if why i've always dodged every single one of yall who tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:59 PM
3	Birth control and Women's Preference It's called burden of proof, you learn about it in middle school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:54 PM
8	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky Prime example. Even expressing lots of men verbally abuse women online for no valid reason is enough to enrage misogynists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:53 PM
3	Do you think they are certain men who just shouldn't use dating apps? They're worth trying for just about everyone but I would say if the experience causes you distress because you're not succeeding the way you want, maybe it's not for you and you should focus on other avenues, because dating online can be very different from dating in person. Some factors like looks or age are more heavily focused on online because the nature of the app forces you to pre select men you want to even give a chance, where as in real life, everyone in your vicinity technically has a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:52 PM
5	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky The majority do not, men who identify as ''red pill'' are 100% far more likely to be misogynistic. You think we never encounter types like you on dating sites? We know what you act like lmao and it's not pretty. It's always some variation of salty behaviour if you're politely rejected or god forbid, don't respond to thirsty messages on instagram, now you're a dumb bitch whore who deserves death (yes, these comments are literally what i've seen some of yall say to me in my dms) Zero misogyny of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:42 PM
7	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky No TRP is pretty damn similar, they talk the same way except they try and intellectualize it, and it all stems because they cannot get the relationships from women that they want, so they come together and form toxic ideas about all women, hence AWALT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:38 PM
2	The reason TRP has to be misogynist is because the feminine imperative is so sneaky ''Men do not hate women'' Ok but literally every experience in life will tell you otherwise, not all men hate women, but a signifcant portion definitely do border on it, if not hate women outright. If you're a woman on any dating site for any prolonged period, men bursting out into misogynistic rants after you reject them (even politely) is common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:34 PM
3	Birth control and Women's Preference Correlation is not causation and has been failed to be proven despite homophobic folks trying to prove it for decades, and every person who is homosexual knows growing up obviously gay puts a target on your back for abuse from adults, sometimes verbal, sometimes physical, in rarer cases, sexual. Because pedophiles can rationalize you ''wanting'' it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 09:31 PM
6	Ladies, how uniform and consistent do you find women's preferences to really be, when it comes to men? They vary. Also the context on which she meets him are relevant. Women have a running joke together which you can find memes about on tiktok etc which goes “haha he’s cuter in person” when she hesitantly shows her friends pictures of a guy she started dated, because even though her friends might consider him unattractive for not being conventionally attractive or having some flaw in his appearance, SHE might still be heavily attracted to him because of other factors that go outside of his appear…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 07:23 PM
4	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe Which is exactly why you should work on your social skills so you actually have the ability to go outside, socialize, and meet people out and about instead of relying on apps because you're too awkward to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 07:06 PM
3	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe It generally is, women aren't so sensitve to looks as men are when you're out and about. Unless you're butt ugly, you're problem is probably social.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 06:44 PM
-1	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe Yeah men hearing they need to focus more on social skills is ''dangerous''	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 06:36 PM
3	Birth control and Women's Preference Why, when youve linked a study that doesn't provide evidence to what you've claimed, homosexuality has been studied and this link isn't found, also it's just common sense. For example, girls are far more likely to be sexually abused yet homosexual men outnumber lesbians. There is no established psychological link as to how daddy touching you suddenly alters the way you display gendered behaviour. Not suprised red pill men are also clueless about sexology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:12 PM
2	Birth control and Women's Preference No, youve not read what you just posted lmao. Getting fucked by your dad doesn't make you gay, we have thousands of studies on homosexuality and it is pre determined before birth, we already know this because gay men have disproportationate feminine behaviour which cannot be taught, and is apparent from age 2-3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:06 PM
12	The other sex really is the opposition. I have a boyfriend but If I even had a SLIGHT hint a man was anything like redpill/mgtow or whatever I would always avoid, doesn't matter how hot, rich or whatever, he was. If a woman ignores those signs shes either just ignorant and will probably have issues with you later, or shes damaged herself in which case, have fun dating insecure headcases and then reinforcing that all the women you date are crazy? lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:03 PM
6	Birth control and Women's Preference ''This study examined the potential relation between childhood sexual abuse and unsafe sexual behaviour in a cohort of bisexual and homosexual men''. Just say you didn't read the study you just linked, this is literally about if childhood abuse results in risky sexual behaviour later, not if abuse ''makes you gay'', are you dumb. This has been studied for decades and homosexuality is determined in utero, no amount of trauma makes a heterosexual gay, or a homosexual, straight. Obviously any…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 05:00 PM
5	A man needs above average sexually dymorphic qualities to be attractive, women don't I'm a transsexual now and did an experiment on tinder recently where I put on boys clothes on went on tinder and tried to look masculine. At best, I look like a suspisciously feminine twink who weighs 115 lbs and is completely smooth and I have to hide my breasts under loose clothing. Getting matches and girls super liking me or approaching ME is actually easy, and getting them to agree to a date (which I wont take in real life obviously) is easy because I know exactly how to talk to women, beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:52 PM
5	Birth control and Women's Preference You dont become gay because you're abused mate, thats not how it works. Thats what im referring to. Hormones dont change your sexual orientation either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:48 PM
24	The other sex really is the opposition. If you see women as an enemy that needs to be conquered don’t be suprised when women avoid you, or you only attract shallow, insecure women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:48 PM
-1	Most men that aren't having sex are otherwise fairly normal dudes, not women hating misogynists like reddit and society would lead you to believe Most dudes not having sex when they want to suffer mostly from: being socially inept and not going out enough. Even ugly dudes can get laid if they just go out and put themselves out there. It’s not like I don’t see 4s on the regular walking around with girlfriends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:46 PM
12	A man needs above average sexually dymorphic qualities to be attractive, women don't Not really. I was a skinny twink at 22 of average height, gay, long hair and an androgynous smooth shaved face and women still wanted me. Maybe y’all are just ugly/socially inept/lack grooming/confidence	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:44 PM
13	Birth control and Women's Preference Lmao, no that’s not how homosexuality works. I’m a transsexual, I’ll tell you hormones ACTUALLY work since none of you have any real experience. If you have testosterone the way most males have it, you’ll be very horny & appearance focused. When you reduce it, you get way pickier and your attraction starts to fragment more into a balance of looks/personality/etc when trying to imagine something that turns you on. What hormones DO NOT do, is change your sexual orientation, like, at all. Birth con…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/22 04:24 PM
2	[CMV] Women get red pilled when they are just slightly above average. Men get red pilled when they are just slightly below average. But it is what red pill is regardless of how you frame it. Back in the day if a man couldn’t get a girlfriend he would just keep trying now you go on Reddit and make a movement out of it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 10:53 AM
0	[CMV] Women get red pilled when they are just slightly above average. Men get red pilled when they are just slightly below average. Red Pill = how mentally insecure men try to rationalize dating in a way that makes them feel macho/worthy Also, you don’t need to be above average as a woman to get smashed lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 05:47 AM
8	Q4W: How often do you make very attractive men wait for sex to vet him? Everytime because a man JUST being attractive isn’t a recipe for good sex even if I was looking for a hook up. I’ve had sex with very attractive men and some of them were really, really bad experiences	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 05:54 PM
1	Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond? Yeah but at some point, like if you were 6’8” and a woman says “you’re too short” you’re just going to think she’s insane/joking/won’t give the real reason. I’m skinny to a point that it’s about as rare as being 6’5”. 5’10” is more a less average in a western context It’s far more likely someone says “I prefer women less skinny sorry” which hasn’t happened but if it did I don’t think it would bother me that much because I like the weight I’m at and also don’t lack options for my weight generally…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:50 PM
3	what do you see as the dividing line between the blue and red pills? “Blue pill” is just essentially everyone who isn’t into/adheres to some fringe dating strategy theory/group. That’s it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:22 PM
7	What's so wrong with being good enough for sex and not a relationship? Women don’t enjoy casual sex as much as men. Depends on context if it’s manipulative or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:21 PM
1	Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond? I would probably think he’s psycho because I’m extremely skinny & a fashion model so If I had to imagine not being skinny and this happening, I would just respect it, but maybe think it’s a little crude depending on the context or how he said it. If you think someone is unattractive and it’s a relatively polite conversation you don’t need to specific why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:19 PM
1	My theory on why men are often so sex obsessed, and why they often equate sex with love. It's about sex obsession, it's because they're horny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:51 AM
2	My theory on why men are often so sex obsessed, and why they often equate sex with love. No, it's mostly testosterone making them horny. Signed, a transsexual. Simple proof is that even feminine gay men, who aren't as bound to masculine ideals and have far less trouble expressing themselves generally, emotionally or otherwise, are also still sex obsessed. It mostly goes away if you remove a males testostone, trust me, been there done that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:38 AM
1	Men should shoot their shot. Always. Sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, women. So shoot your shot without being creepy. It’s not hard, a lot of y’all are just psycho. Don’t think it’s just because you’re hot either, I’ve rejected plenty of very attractive men who probably thought them being attractive could let them talk to me any disrespectful way, and they were wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 04:58 PM
4	Women hate nice guys but respond well to bad boys youre totally right bro, defo go out and act like this and you'll for sure be swamped in pussy lmao men	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 10:31 AM
23	Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative) It is a revenge fantasy and the whole problem with this narrative is the naive belief women in the 20s will just be screwing uber hot conventionally attractive men, which is a male based distortion. Lots of girls in their 20s are out getting their tender hearts broken by men far below what they could get because theyre naive. Women who are in their 30s are often still attractive but have come to not settle for any man giving them the bare minumum	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 10:21 AM
1	Women really dislike autistic men It really depends on how your autisms manifest. By chance, all 4 of my relationships (including my current one) have been or are with men who are mildly/moderately autistic. This happened on accident each time but I’ve figured out that it’s also because autistic men tend to also often possess some positive traits I’m very attracted to, not always, but more than often. All my partners were very open minded, and also didn’t seem to give a fuck about what other people thought, and that is a very pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 05:54 PM
-1	Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common with Would marry A and cheat lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 08:12 AM
0	Q4W: how many compliments do you get per day in real life? If I’m not in my house all day, maybe twice a day. If I go out it can be a lot, couldn’t really give it a number. I guess people start getting more friendly on nights out/when they drink.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/22 08:10 AM
18	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men And this is exactly why women get red flags from dudes like this. The problem wit the “manosphere” is that there is CONSTANT generalizing of women as some sort of math equation that can be solved logically. It can’t, because women varying enourmoialy and you cannot generalize them this broadly. It’s also filled with mentally I’ll men (which is a real problem worth addressing) the problem is when a ton of mentally ill men who feel slighted by rejected or lack of sex come together you get very tox…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 08:30 PM
-2	Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary. Another salty post. Men chase women primarily because they’re super horny. Period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/22 04:20 PM
5	A good looking guy, say 7-9/10, should easily be able to get his equivalent for sex or LTR. The fact that he usually struggles to do this is indicative of the overall problem with dating in 2022. Personality is extremely important in a man as long as hes not butt ugly so	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/22 09:01 AM
15	A good looking guy, say 7-9/10, should easily be able to get his equivalent for sex or LTR. The fact that he usually struggles to do this is indicative of the overall problem with dating in 2022. The very simple explanation is that even good looking men can be overlooked if they’re socially inept/shy/weirdos Women can sleep with attractive men fairly easily there’s no reason to pursue one unless he’s either very attractive or his personality matches/is good	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 10:05 PM
2	What attracts you to men's faces, in the most analytical way you can describe? I think it has more to do with how their faces developed during testosterone. Some men have a very manly face, but it being too chiseled and aesthetic looking, think, brad Pitt, is unappealing to me. Not to say I don’t find brad Pitt attractive but I honestly find lots of men who are 6/7-10 who I see walking the street everyday, personally more attractive facially. As long as they have some semblance of a beard. Even when brad Pitt has a beard it doesn’t conceal the fine features he has that mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 05:29 AM
12	Going to Amsterdam soon what can I expect? I’m an Amsterdam native and I really wouldn’t recommend cold approaching unless the women are drinking. Dutch people are pretty cold to strangers in general. There’s a lot of fun places to drink, I just recommend going out and focus on being social. It’s the easiest way. Also please don’t walk on the cycle paths thanks	/r/seduction	23/07/22 05:11 AM
6	Men, how would you describe the average man? Women, how would you describe the average man? This pretty much. I’ve slept with guys like this because they had a beard & tattoos on top of that tho so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 05:04 AM
3	Ladies, how big of a problem is "Height Insecurity" in men..... So much so that men lie SO frequently about height it is completely safe and reasonable to deduct approximately 2 inches from whatever he states himself to be (in the context of dating). I get the whole height insecurity because it does matter a lot and is largely unchangeable but trust me, it is not a disadvantage you cannot overcome. I am very tall, 5’10’5/179 cm and I definitely prefer & love men a lot taller than me, but yet and still one of the (top 3) SEXIEST and most sexually appealing/be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 04:59 AM
4	What attracts you to men's faces, in the most analytical way you can describe? Everyone is slightly different but I’m probably attracted partially to most of the universally attractive features men ideally possess such as signals of masculinity, clear skin & symmetry. I personally really don’t like men who are too “pretty”. I’m a model and the men I’ve worked around look a lot like this. They’re very “attractive” in an aesthetic sense but not at all in a sexual sense to me at all. I would choose some 6/10 man with a beard over some model type boy every single time. I like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 04:53 AM
1	Male beauty standards are exponentially more critical than female's I am a trans woman, thus I have lived experienced of being judged by BOTH genders beauty standards at different points in time. First things first, the argument you make about how men have less options to improve their looks is true to some extent, but women having MORE options to improve their looks can actually cause a far greater degree of stress. Having to focus your mental & physical energy & finances on a myriad of things like hair, clothes, make up, skin care, beauty precedures, nails, ey…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/22 04:06 AM
–	"men don't take good pictures of themselves, men don't dress fashionably, men don't work on their personality" is BS. Truth is, female taste rules the dating market. If you don't wanna put in the effort to get what you want, don't complain when you don't get it, simple, done and done. You can just be be lazy and do whatever but expect women to magically find you attractive unless you got lucky with genetics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 10:31 PM
–	"men don't take good pictures of themselves, men don't dress fashionably, men don't work on their personality" is BS. Truth is, female taste rules the dating market. We're all subject to the luck of the draw of the genetic lottery, and after that, if you want to be succesful, you'll have to put effort in. In my community, I.E, trans women attracted to men, we put in ENORMOUS effort to be attractive to men, because we are working from a handicap compared to females, thousands spent on surgery, always making sure our hair, skin, make up, clothes, etc are are on absolute point just to compete. Also, since you brought me up. I work out twice a day actually, am…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 10:21 PM
3	Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...? Hitting the nail on the head so hard, gay men spend tons of cash on OF, if you market yourself as a masculine straight guy you can make boatloads, and there are a few straight men who do, but most straight men absolutely couldn't handle the feelings they would have, ironically, since they are the same men who typically scream about how unbelievably easy OF is for girls to use.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 09:57 PM
–	"men don't take good pictures of themselves, men don't dress fashionably, men don't work on their personality" is BS. Truth is, female taste rules the dating market. Exactly. I'm sorry but as a transsexual who has to put in far, far more effort to pass as a woman, let alone an attractive one, I truly have no sympathy for men complaining about how difficult it is to groom or increase their attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 09:51 PM
–	"men don't take good pictures of themselves, men don't dress fashionably, men don't work on their personality" is BS. Truth is, female taste rules the dating market. No, the general man is sociall inept, takes very bad photos, objectively, etc. If you claim to not care about it you can't complain when your ability to date is limited. Women don't dictate male beauty standards, many of those standards are inherent and biological, like being fit, having clear skin, full hair. Also, fashion is dominated by GAY men, so. Don't make excuses, just do better or accept that you'll never be able to compete at a high level, which is fine, but just accept it and don't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 09:47 PM
3	CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonism No, thirsty men are the result of their biological traits compared to womens. Stop trying to put everything on women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 07:01 PM
1	Objectively self-rate yourself based on looks and then rate the lowest looks rating you'd be willing to date. I find it very difficult to rate myself and I think other people would also struggle to rate me even semi objectively because of the simple fact that i'm a transsexual, but at the same time i'm a fashion model, so.. If a man is open to dating trans women, i'm considered highly attractive, probably an 8.5, if a man isn't, well, rating almost doesn't apply because the trans factor nullifies the attractiveness, I think when I pass as female, maybe im a 5.5-6? Regardless, I get plenty of men who I c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 12:36 PM
1	Is it me or do dating apps make love feel transactional as opposed to natural? It feels wierd but its really not once you accept it and learn how to work it. I met my fiancé on Tinder, he suped liked me, inseperable since.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 12:20 PM
5	For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind. Sure, being hot is probably the biggest commodity as a woman, but if you are a hot woman people will already assume you are perhaps more bitchy/stupid than average, and if you do things to prove those assumptions correct, well, some people will treat you quite harshly. In order to balance that effect women who are attractive especially have an incentive to atleast act nice, also like, women are humans and humans like being nice because harmony with others can make you happy? Lmao, women are not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:56 AM
3	Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women? Um, maybe, but mostly it's just coz men tend to like young looking women visually, also there is an innonence thing which a fair number also find appealing, atleast for short term stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 11:51 AM
1	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships Thats funny because stats consistently show between 12-20 is most desireable. Not fucking 4% like many chuds in this threads are trying to convince other chuds of. This is what women laugh about behind your backs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:14 PM
1	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships Yes, your lack of knowledge on womens preferences is really irking me. Men really are too cocky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 11:08 PM
1	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships If you're deranged to the point of thinking women don't want guys with 18% bodyfat you're clearly a toucb starved dude bro out of touch with what women actually want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 10:59 PM
-2	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Yeah well if you want to succesful at dating you should be trying to be better than average shouldn't you, woman find it hard to compete with woman who are above average also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 06:33 PM
-7	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Men you know is irrelevant to the sample size and as women we get bombarded by men constantly to a point where we have a reference thousands of times larger than your own. The average man is average at talking to women, I.E, not impressive and not enough to woe most of us into anything, I.E, not good by any measure, good would be noticeably above average. Most men have zero clue how most men talk to us behind closed doors, and whenever I show men how they do, they are appalled, and tell me how…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:27 PM
1	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? The average man isn't good at talking to women, so yes, ''normal''.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:19 PM
-4	Where are these men with the terrible personalities that women talk about ? Lmao, no. Men are so clueless. Honestly, just because a guy seems ''nice'' and decent to you as another man in casual conversation doesn't reflect anything about his appeal or behaviour towards us specifically. I shut down lots of men who are physically appealing but have horrific or subpar personalities. A list of things that are common, being creepy and overly pushy for sex (which they think they can get by being attractive, newsflash, probably only with women far below your value), having zer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:18 PM
1	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships You're coping, women talk amongst each other and we know what is favoured, newsflash, men waste their time trying to be ultra shredded, if you wanna do it, go ahead, but you're living in an illusion if you think it's something most women prefer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/21 04:13 PM
0	Are you someone who cares about a potential dating partner's politics? I'm not into any man whos too obsessed with politics, regardlesss of what kind, tho I guess some might be more tolerable than others. Being a transsexual woman also limits whom I can be around because some people will just flat out hate me or disagree with my existance because of it, even if they find me attractive, so, yeah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 04:06 PM
1	"The default is that a woman is attractive and a guy wants to bang her" probably only applies to men up to mid thirties or so. I get hit up by men up into their 50s just as regularly as any other man in my instagram DMs, so, doubt it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/21 03:59 PM
4	Straight men will not spend a significant amount of time/are not close friends with a straight woman in whom they are not sexually or romantically interested. This is easily possible, anyone who hasn't seen it doesn't likely have a strong & broad social circle. For example, a man i've slept with has a female friend he's very close with, i've grown close to her too. EVERYONE always assumes they are a couple or that they have fucked or will eventually fuck, but, they are both attractive people with various options already, and they met in a time of life where they had partners already, and were strictly platonic, on top of the fact that they are not eac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 04:11 PM
0	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships Literally no, male delusions of what you think we want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/21 01:33 PM
1	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships I really have little hope for men who truly believe that women generally like these body types. These are down right off putting generally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 11:38 PM
2	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships This is a male delusion, women in generally would cringe and wince at how dry he looks, sorry it's not gonna do it for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 10:41 PM
-2	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships No, I know who they are, and actually, I would bet hard money Romeros body is generally the most attractive to women generally. Anything between 12 to as high as 20% bodyfat is preferred by women, and thats supported by a simple google search, if it wasnt already very obvious by us talking to one another for decades.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 10:40 PM
0	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships No, it's neither. Its a cope men use to think that if they manipulate their bodies into an admirable aesthetic that it will also result in an ideal in attraction women, it's doesn't. Many women are repulsed by overly trained bodies, overly lean or overly beefed out. The safest and most general bet is having only slighty below average body fat, with a decent layer of muscle underneath to give the appearance of broadness and mass. Women chuckle amongst ourselves at what gym bros try and do, and on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 10:22 PM
5	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships Are... we looking at the same pictures. You honestly believe women would prefer the 3-4% body fat body... I... Honestly male delusions of what women want	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 10:13 PM
1	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships If you think 5% bodyfat is an aspirational goal because itll attract more women you're extremely off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 10:12 PM
0	Only Having Major Body Composition Changes Has An Effect On Dating/Relationships Thats really off. Men think women prefer men who are ripped and low body fat, when if you actually talk to most women, they like mass to their man, but not necessarily shredded and below 14% BF, thats a mans fantasy more than anything, it's unappealing to many women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 10:09 PM
2	Attractive women, have you ever been treated differently because of your looks? So, i'll give some unique input as a transsexual (Born Male). As the dichotomy between appearing as a feminine boy and a (relatively) attractive woman are vast. Being viewed as female has many benefits on its own, people are generally more kind, considerate of your feelings and needs and are far more willing to help you, and this effect is basically amplified the more attractive you are, specifically when dealing with men. There is a reason women have a culture of putting so much effort into the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/05/21 05:51 PM
2	"Masculine" vs. "feminine" compliments--would you take offense? I call my boyfriend beautiful all the time. He even calls me handsome sometimes, Which is definantely masculine tinged for sure But Its all about how you use it in your personal relationship. Usually he calls me beautiful or princess, but we go outside the box.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 10:20 AM
3	Q4W: Do you find old, powerful men attractive? Oh my sweet summer child, have you even read the books or understand how women fantasize when consuming literature? Him being rich isn't a key, it's a keychain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/18 07:07 PM
4	Q4W: Do you find old, powerful men attractive? Marriage is not just about attraction. If you're just talking about marriage then you just skewed the whole question. Girls are not en masse fantasizing to old rich men, sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/18 05:21 PM
23	My best friend is very successful with women and sucks terribly with them You answered your own question. He's reasonably physically attractive, and he is not afraid to approach women. Thus, he has some success. Those two qualities are far more important than over-analysed minutia. Fundamentals come first.	/r/seduction	29/12/18 04:45 PM
11	Q4W: Do you find old, powerful men attractive? You realise women who literally use old rich men for money aren't actually attracted to them, right? I have absolutely no special interest in men being ''powerful'' or old. It doesn't arouse or excite me and i've been around these men plenty in Hollywood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/18 04:25 PM
10	Q4W: Do you feel you have "life on easy mode" and "everything is handed to you" because of your gender as the manosphere claims? As a trans girl, I think I have unique insight into this. Men and women in general don't understand each other well at all, but insecure and people who feel mistreated tend to be very vocal about the other gender. Boys especially are not really taught empathy as much as girls; their viewpoints are often seen as a default. It's the perfect condition for socially inept and isolated men to collectively create toxic narratives that, in some ways, makes it easier to cope with their reality. To many '…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/18 04:18 AM
1	Feminists Think Sexist Men Are Sexier than "Woke" Men It's seems like you are socially unaware of the use of language in face to face context.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 08:09 PM
2	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? I disagree that women can love men for who they are. Because they do not, and I've never seen a woman actually do that. Case in point. I've never seen or experienced it, thus it must not exist. Women take a utilitarian view to men - what does he do for me, what does he bring to me, what can I get from him. This is just reality. It's not reality, it's your personal experience and feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 04:24 PM
5	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? I can't accept your pie in the sky pipe dreams about what you think life is. Life is fun and joy and exhilaration; but it's also drudgery and pain and mundanity and work. You do your children disservices by telling them the former but not the latter. Complete strawmen. I never said or implied life is all sunshine and rainbows and there is no work or difficulty. I fundamentally disagree that women are incapable of loving for men for their personhood. People are complex beings with a variety of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 04:02 PM
3	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? Saying women will never love a man for who he is, just what he does for her, how is that fostering an authentic view and feeling of love. If someone just loves what you do for them, they don't love you, that's not true love. You know what true love is? Having people in your life who you don't get along with anymore, or see, or who have radically different lives/views to you, but still, somehow, loving them because you truly want THEM to be happy, even if they make you unhappy with what they do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 03:49 PM
5	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? ''Women are incapable of true love, sorry son.'' Ok buddy, good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 03:40 PM
1	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? Honestly, if you think women are incapable of loving a man for who he is, I feel sorry for you. How absolutely emotionally neglected and damaged do you have to be to have such a psychotic view. To then indoctrinate your child with that because YOU have had romantic/sexual frustration in your life and explain that away with a reduction of women to these creatures incapable of true love, only capable of reacting to the correct inputs of men doing things for them like an affection vending machine…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 03:26 PM
2	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? My bad, person above you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 03:16 PM
13	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? women will never love men for who men are; but only for what they do for women. How to emotionally scar your boy, 101.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 03:14 PM
4	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? Teaching people to think criticcally isn't going to garentee they "figure it out." Nothing guarentees a childs life, they're an autonymous being. Freedom comes with costs; critical thinking is the single best tool to give them. Also society is NOT reinforcing gender roles. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 03:12 PM
40	How will you raise your children with redpill theory in mind? Teach them critical thinking sklls and to question what they think they know, always. If you foster that fundamental skill they'll figure it out themselves. Dating and love requires trial and error, and emotional intelligence more than anything else. Reinforcing gender roles that society is already going to harshly impose onto them is not something i'll be complicit in. They can make up their own mind on how they wanna live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 02:51 PM
1	Feminists Think Sexist Men Are Sexier than "Woke" Men Right... and the way you share your opinion matters. Yes, if a woman is the same context says men are trash it's obnoxious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 02:35 PM
1	Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating advice Yeah, you might think so, but it really doesn't. More people are into mature looking women than you might think. Men at that age can compensate by being very succesful, but likewise a woman that age could also just have taken very good care of herself and look a lot younger. A man could also potentially have taken good care of himself and look younger, but women tend to their appearance far more on average, so it doesn't compensate. On average, women are still more desireable at any age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 12:27 AM
2	Feminists Think Sexist Men Are Sexier than "Woke" Men You don't see how sharing an opinion COULD be obnoxious if they act a certain way? ''I don't agree with feminism'' is a lot different from ''Feminists are stupid man hating bitches and they just need a good dicking''. Something more similar to the latter is more common, even if you don't bring up the subject at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 12:25 AM
4	Feminists Think Sexist Men Are Sexier than "Woke" Men Not everything a man does is to get laid. Personally, I find if a man isn't ''woke'' on a topic such as feminism, they'll act obnoxious, aggressive and reactionary. ''Lol feminists are angry, ugly women and beta men who wanna get laid''. Instant turn off for me, which is why I won't even bring anything related to the topic up, especially if i'm looking for something casual. Men have plenty of ways to ruin their own attractiveness in my eyes, I'm not gonna give them another one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/18 04:47 PM
9	Feminists don't seem like to like this woman's dating advice Actually, a woman of 35 still has a significant dating advantage in terms of dating pool than a 35 year old man, on average. They tend to take more of a hit from their peak than a man, but they're still seen as more valuable. Women have a larger dating pool on average than men of the same age, regardless of age. The gap will close a bit, but never completely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/18 04:36 PM
3	Female sexual strategy is partly to blame for the power imbalance between men and women. Men love much more unconditionally. No, not even close. Men find it much more difficult to differentiate between lust and love. The average man is easy to please sexually, so he'll tend to stick around to who can get him off consistently. That is not love. So if you aren’t a super hot guy, you probably have to work very hard to have casual sex. An online dating service is being dominated by physical attractiveness? Shocker. You don't have to be a super hot guy to have relatively simple casual se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/17 01:30 PM
4	Discussion: Banned TRP pick up strategy. "The Gay Friend Advantage." This is why I always laugh at men who act homophobic around me. It's like, dude, you don't even know the gifts I could bestow upon you by being a decent human being to me. Women like gay men, honestly they do. I'm the type of person who will talk openly about any sexually related thing to anyone, anywhere. I can get the low down on most girls info after 5 minutes of talking to them casually, usually. I have about as many straight male friends as I do female friends. They often call it a cheat-co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/17 06:36 PM
2	CMV: Women are inferior to men Haha, please stop. We don't want you, being naturally attracted to the ''superior'' sex is a gift you receive at birth. Stick to fapping to the women you despise, breeder. Peace, love and blessings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/17 04:13 PM
2	Does sounding like a pseudointellectual work? Does it work typically? No. It can work, but that doesn't make it a good idea. If it does work there is a higher chance than not that the girl just likes you for another reason (looks, etc) and is just playing along to humour you and get what she wants. Personally, if I guy did this to me, I would be thoroughly put off and cringed. He would have to be pretty hot for me to continue.	/r/seduction	20/06/17 01:29 PM