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Get professional help. How many times do you have to keep making alts and throwaways to ask the same thing and get told the same answer? https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/ghb2fx/am_l_different_looking_than_5_years_ago_to_not/fq7sxws/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf https://www.reddit.com/r/Advice/comments/e4rugb/is_this_guy_different_looking_than_a_year_ago/f9ev4hc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/seduction10/05/20 11:11 PM
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In high school and my freshman year of college, I was solely focused on being strong as I played baseball. I didn’t care about my aesthetics as I wanted functional strength more. Due to this, I was chubby, but not quite fat. Eventually, I got fed up with the way I looked so I made some changes and went from a body fat % of ~25% to 15%. There were huge changes! It felt like I changed the difficulty on a video game to an easier setting. Girls would approach me more, they’d be a bit more receptive …
/r/seduction08/12/19 06:30 PM
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I talk a bit more about that here. Some other fun and interesting hobbies that I do personally is playing the guitar and learning how to cook. Consider all the cool things in the world that you wish you knew how to do and then pick a few ones that aren’t too wild!
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:37 PM
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The very worst reaction I had was “Haha no thanks, we’re not interested” when I was approaching a pair of girls at the bar. I won’t lie, it hurt my ego a bit in the moment, but I’m not going to let two girls who are more guarded when they’re out, who may have boyfriends, or who I might not be good for discourage me. Everyone’s worst fear is having a girl make a huge scene out of the approach. When/if this happens, you just have to hold frame by being firm and respectful, “I was just trying to in…
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:35 PM
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I talk a bit more about that here
/r/seduction29/07/19 05:01 PM
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Don’t we all! The past isn’t important now though, we must accept the situation and grow. Attack life with a ferocious attitude and a sense of urgency!
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:35 PM
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While the halo effect is very real, wittiness is not dependent upon attraction. Rather I feel that wittiness is to be sharp of mind and quick of tongue or vice a versa. Think about a common character that we almost all know from life. The guy who’s a 5 and is always pulling girls. We always wonder how, and then you talk with him and find out he’s funny as fuck.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:33 PM
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That’s the wrong mindset. See your game is not good solely because you’re drunk, rather it’s better due to the secondary effects of being drunk. You’re more likely to be confident and bold, which means that girls already like what is there, however your means of delivery when sober is you’re issue. I’m not trying to knock you, I’ve dealt with this exact same problem before too. The biggest thing I can suggest to you is to work more on your confidence and realizing that AA is just walls we put up…
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:24 PM
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Emulating others can be good, but if you do that all your life, you won’t have truly lived. When you’re practicing this reflection, try to practice increased awareness when you start going off these tangents. Reel yourself back in and then continue with the reflection.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:19 PM
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Thank you, I talk a bit more about it here
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:15 PM
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Picking up a hobby such as a sport like softball, pickle ball, rock climbing, etc, or an art like a painting classes, dance classes, etc. Really anything that acts as a medium for you to socialize in a low stress environment.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:13 PM
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Working hard on yourself isn’t putting any female on a pedestal. I’m investing in myself, trying to grow as a person. If anything, I’m putting myself on a pedestal. The reality of the matter is simple: if you aren’t happy because you aren’t getting the results you want, then you must change to grow. What is the alternative? Continuing to fail in a state of stagnation? What is it called when we try the same process over and over again expecting different results only to get the same ones?
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:09 PM
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I’ve only heard good things from people who do these ^
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:37 AM
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For sure homie, write down your goals too, it really helps.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:36 AM
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Teasing them, don’t take what they say seriously then take it literally, call them out on what they do like when they’re being goofy. To me flirting is a lot of that, a lot of observations and assumptions, and then a lot of being strategically suggestive.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:36 AM
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I feel that, just start small and set your goals higher and higher! It is a process after all
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:33 AM
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If you’re going to college it will be exponentially easier. Join clubs, be active, and go out. Also, whenever you’re out and about running errands such as getting groceries or shopping, approach all of the cute girls you see. Day game feels much easier to me because girls won’t have a tense guard like some often do when they go out
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:32 AM
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Thank you homie
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:37 AM
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I mean it with regards that attraction usually mirrors what they value
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:18 AM
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Thank you and yeah I mentioned that here
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:12 AM
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For me it’s been trying to be become more cognizant of how other people use wit and then emulating it. I try to watch more comedy, read, and stay somewhat up to date on pop culture. Most of wit is making unusual and quick connections. Here’s a video I found that I like here
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:09 AM
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Soon to be
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:20 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:18 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:18 AM
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Don’t send requests and delete them. It conveys neediness and is unattractive and probably put her off. Learn from it, move on to other girls
/r/seduction28/07/19 02:49 PM
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Does it mean I should do nothing and hide away, and give up? No, it doesn’t. Since I can't be a "man of value"? No, you can be a man of value however it might be more difficult for you to get there. Now, don't be a politically incorrect witty jerk about it. I'm expecting you to say something like, "You have value at the escort agency, why not head there?" I expect better man. Don't condescend. The fact that you even went to this point shows how lowly you think of yourself. I want answers, alrigh…
/r/seduction28/07/19 05:24 AM
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😂 I do actually use coffee dates for coffee but they do act as a good vetting mechanism for first dates because it’s a low pressure setting. I usually schedule for 11am at a coffeehouse in my city market. If the date goes bad, I cut it off early. If it goes well, we usually end up talking for close to an hour. At that point, I usually suggest extending the date and getting lunch from a Mediterranean restaurant nearby that I highly. The venue change is natural and smooth and I don’t think many gu…
/r/seduction21/07/19 10:31 PM
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That’s what it’s all about! Continually evaluate where you’re at and where you wanna be at, and then list out the steps of how you think you can get there! Never settle for average homie!
/r/seduction21/07/19 05:22 AM
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It’s so weird homie, but I think girls can sense it and it drives their internal competition up. Or it could just be the self confidence of fucking 3 girls. Either or, it happens and all I can do is try to learn from it.
/r/seduction21/07/19 05:17 AM
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That’s what it’s all about! Find your passion/mission and pursue it. Then, find a girl who compliments your mission rather than making them it.
/r/seduction21/07/19 04:34 AM
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For some reason girls come to me in 3s. It’s a double edge sword because I’ll get 3 girls all within a short time period and then a month later I’ll begin like a 3 month dry spell. This has happened like 2 or 3 times now. I was just telling my roommate that now I really need to focus on MCAT stuff and 3 girls are going to come out of nowhere. Sure enough I’ve slept with 2 since I told him a few weeks ago.
/r/seduction21/07/19 02:49 AM
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Haha check the edit
/r/seduction21/07/19 01:00 AM
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Ah I gotcha, I only started using it because it seemed common in the posts I read on here.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:22 PM
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I feel that, I agree that the only thing that is important is whether you find them attractive and own that.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:20 PM
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I don’t find it any different then when you rate girls with your buddies but I guess that’s just me
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:11 PM
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A binary system is good because it simplifies everything. I like the 1-10 scale, but everyone rates to their own prerogative and biases. I guess I should clarify that this girl is an 8 to me.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:09 PM
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I’ll usually give them one chance and then after the second time I’ll drop them unless their is some extenuating circumstances.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:04 PM
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Yessir! I am going to try to apply this cycle however it’s late in the cycle so if I end up taking a gap year it won’t be the end of the world.
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:02 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate it!
/r/seduction20/07/19 11:00 PM
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They could be fooling around and not dating. Assume attraction, talk with her being friendly and flirty, build rapport, and make a move. If she says no then move on to bigger and better things. Don’t overthink the process. If you see a pretty girl that you want, you’ll have to initiate and talk with her. If you vibe with her, continue to pursue
/r/seduction08/05/19 09:23 PM
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Talk to her and find out yourself
/r/seduction08/05/19 09:17 PM
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If you’re doing all of the above and still struggling, it’d probably be worth it to go to see a therapist for your confidence issues
/r/seduction24/07/18 04:35 PM
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The best way to do this is to do whatever you need to to get confident. It could be any of the following: • go to the gym • get new stylish clothes • get braces to fix teeth • get a hair cut • develop attractive traits and hobbies such as cooking or learning an instrument • practice being social • Finally, practices good self talk and consciousness of your thoughts When you do these things, you will increase your looks and your confidence which will make you a more attractive person to be around…
/r/seduction24/07/18 09:42 AM
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Hi, my name is bakercat09. Nice to meet you. Or Hey you look like a fun person to around, my name is bakercat09 Just remember that confidence and timeliness make openers work! A half decent opener with a kind, confident smile on your face within 3 seconds of mutual eye contact is better than standing around trying to think of the perfect line to say!
/r/seduction24/07/18 09:22 AM
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I like it, I’ve never gotten this shit test before, but next time I’ll pass with one of those.
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:29 AM
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What would have been the appropriate reaction then?
/r/seduction22/07/18 08:13 AM
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Do whatever it takes to become confident: lift, braces, new clothes, new haircut etc. Work on being more aware of your bad thoughts when think. Then take a second to reaffirm yourself. For example if you do something dumb, don’t say to yourself or others “I’m an idiot” rather reframe that thought into I made a mistake and will learn from it. Another example is “she won’t be into me” change that into “I’m human, I have value, and she’s a human” then treat her as such and assume attraction until s…
/r/seduction09/07/18 11:21 PM
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Always use condoms and get tested every 3-4 months. Bring a girl back with you when you feel comfortable with her. The only real way to avoid false accusations is a judgement of their character. Fucking crazy girls can seem fun in the short term but it doesn’t fly well in the long term. TLDR: Condoms prevent almost all STDs when worn properly. Get tested frequently for the off chance. Don’t fuck crazy girls.
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:16 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights28/02/18 11:08 PM
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Same thing has happened to me, next time she flakes call her out on it and tell her she’s a tease
/r/seduction11/02/18 05:57 AM
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The average age for losing your virginity in the US according to the CDC is 17, therefore, half of 17 year olds are virgins.
/r/seduction16/09/17 07:05 PM
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Consider every guy that she's slept with is all practice just for you
/r/seduction16/09/17 06:58 PM
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