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| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?I’d agree with all of these except the mental illness. There’s a reason why a lot of people with mental illnesses (especially those left untreated) are in dysfunctional relationships or very short term ones. You’re not gonna find a high quality man who’s gonna put up with that for very long unless it’s kept in check. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think there will be a "bachelor" Tax in the west at some point due to declining birth rates and men opting out and breaking the social contract?Unless the government actively helps bachelors in finding a partner they have no basis to even propose this kind of tax. Most average men would be happy dating average women, the same can't be said with the genders flipped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Men's anger towards women is misplaced: it should be towards other better menGhosting someone who's been nothing but respectful and courteous is most definitely a toxic trait. Nobody is entitled to someone's attention but you're still a dick if you do that to someone who didn't have it coming to them. The women who hate men, don’t hate men for not choosing them. This is hilariously untrue. Lots of high value men will pump and dump women and then they get confused and angry at all men because one guy hurt them. Average women constantly expect well above average men to cho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Men's anger towards women is misplaced: it should be towards other better menOP's entire argument is "Don't blame women's toxic traits on the women who have them, blame them on high value men". So I pretended to have 4 brain cells too and made the same argument with the genders flipped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Men's anger towards women is misplaced: it should be towards other better menWomen's anger towards men is misplaced: it should be towards other better women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you think would happen if men stopped giving so much attention to women?Male desirability would skyrocket, especially since social media has conditioned many women into feeling entitled to large amounts of male attention. This would put many women in a position where they have to decide between cleaning up their act to gain the interest of high quality men or continue to be toxic and grow more and more depressed. Too bad most men now are absolutely pathetic and have no control over their urges so this scenario will never happen in our lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Finding a partner from a happy and abusive-free home with loving parents should be the golden standard when it comes to looking for a partner.No shit, that was never being argued. Improve your reading comprehension. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 01:39 AM |
| 18 | Finding a partner from a happy and abusive-free home with loving parents should be the golden standard when it comes to looking for a partner.Just say you’re an asshole who thinks victims of abuse or people from broken homes don’t deserve to date other decent people or be loved. This sub is so fucking far gone sometimes it’s no surprise a lot of you don’t get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | A lot of you people don't understand what personality isPeople compromise on personality for looks all the time, you hardly ever see the opposite when it comes to women dating genuinely ugly dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Can you honestly say that you have necessary prerequisites to speak on behalf of HVM?As it should be. If you’re complimenting yourself to that degree, especially online, most people would have a really hard time believing you. Even if it’s true, saying it outright instantly diminishes your value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Can you honestly say that you have necessary prerequisites to speak on behalf of HVM?Anyone who labels themselves “high value” and thinks they can speak on anyone’s behalf without their express consent is a complete and utter tool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Do women care about the type of job you have?And most men in those jobs wouldn’t date a woman working a blue collar job because it gives off masculine vibes. They’d strongly prefer a woman working a white collar job or no job at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 05:38 PM |
| 5 | [Q4ALL] What do YOU consider a high N count?25M, straight, n count 2. I’d say more than 5-6 is high for someone my age. Not necessarily a bad thing or a deal breaker when it’s above that number but the higher it goes the less likely your values and lifestyle are going to align with mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Will things ever get better between us?Neither men nor women are solely responsible for the problems plaguing society and the way it’s structured because it is a product of our individual contributions. Take for example men blaming women for being more promiscuous on average, having an onlyfans, etc. Meanwhile there’s a massive population of men who incentivize these decisions in women physically, mentally and financially. There was, is, and always will be a demand for these types of women because even most red pilled men would jump … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | You guys don't understand what social anxiety is“You guys don’t know what social anxiety is” “I go get drunk at nightclubs and have gotten laid” Respectfully shut the fuck up. I don’t have true social anxiety but neither do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 08:02 PM |
| 37 | What are your thoughts on the idea of AF/BB?Are there attractive, confident men who have sex more often with more women on average? Yes. Are there less confident and attractive men who wifed up gold diggers or "ran through" women who maybe don't treat them so well? Absolutely. Do these two types of men make up the majority of the male population? Hell no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Why is there hostility against women for behaving exactly as they should behave?For someone who hates incels you sure do talk like one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 10:34 PM |
| 26 | As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships.Yeah, modern China is so great that they’re welding doors to apartment buildings shut to “quarantine” people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?Maybe if someone supported you growing up you wouldn't be so bitter about the RedPill community supporting each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?You edited it and it still reads like you’re 9. You get a gold star for effort though sweetie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?Aw, you insult on a third grade level too, how precious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?It must be hard to read at a third grade level as an adult. Now I feel bad for even replying, your mental energy for the rest of the week must be spent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?Don’t worry, I read your uneducated and clearly biased observation. I really wish I didn’t though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?You call that an argument? Nothing you said was grounded in reality. But continue to lie to yourself if that helps you sleep better at night :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?Why would I make an argument against your observation of something you clearly know next to nothing about? There is no "revenge fantasy", just another guy laughing at women self-sabotaging in increasingly more ridiculous ways and then blaming everyone but themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?"Men have been cruel to women therefore women now deserve to be cruel to men with no repercussions" They made their bed, they can lay in it now. The next few decades are going to be very entertaining for men and very eye-opening for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | What are the future consequences of RP going mainstream?Maybe if there were less damaged women the red pill would have never come to exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/22 01:30 PM |
| 5 | What feature would make dating apps better for society?I propose a hard swipe limit on women (left or right, doesn't matter). That way women don't get to be so picky and only swipe right on 1-2% of all profiles and if they still do, it'll take them ages to find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 19 | A lot of average/below average women have terrible personalitiesAny more irrelevant buzzwords in that broad vocabulary of yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menNot surprising at all that the most selfish and entitled men look over women that genuinely struggle with dating. If they're not denying their very existence then they always pull the "you're literally a woman you'll find someone in a matter of days" card. Even if that was true 100% of the time, it's just belittling and oversimplifying their problems when most of your dating pool will consist of men looking to get laid with no strings attached. I think a lot of people are looking for love in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menIt's a fair point, especially considering nobody is (typically) held hostage in a new relationship so if you don't like the terms you're free to leave at any time. Better now than years down the line when one person couldn't get over something that happened earlier in the relationship. Let's be real, the overwhelming majority of men would have had a hoe phase too if the opportunity presented itself to them. I'm not defending or attacking the decision to have one, but for guys to act like it's so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menThe problem is, you’re looking for women whose idea of a good partner is a man with solid figures and cars and plain view success I can assure you I'm not, and never have. All of the women I dated measured success in a realistic way that's mostly based off the decisions we make every day and the goals we're working towards. We are all chasing things we can’t get. Pretty much, and I do blame capitalism and the system we have now for a lot of these unrealistic expectations from both men and wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menWhat’s your idea of successful man? Is it low six figures? Or just a job that pays the bills? I don't put a dollar value on success because having that kind of mindset is exactly what leads to unhealthy expectations in relationships and your own life. I'd much rather date a woman working retail at close to minimum wage who has a balanced and healthy lifestyle than a c-suite executive who runs off red bulls and fast food and can barely utter more than a few sentences between the time she gets hom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menI figured as much, consistently bad dating experiences are probably the leading cause of not wanting to deal with dating again or being very cautious about it. Out of the 5 relationships I've been in I can only look back fondly at one, so I'm not exactly in any kind of rush to be dating again. if I have to pick just one. I’m already picking personality Definitely the best one to pick. I've given people I otherwise didn't find overwhelmingly physically attractive a chance based on their persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menStrawmanning or projecting your frustrations onto me won't work sweetie. I've just seen many men whom I personally know have the same issues with dating that OP has mentioned and they are relatively attractive, successful, and have good personalities. The problem is a lot of women don't just want a high-quality man, they want the top 10% or even higher. There's nothing wrong with that on the surface level, I mean who wouldn't want the best partner they could possibly find? But when you're judgin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menYou shouldn't settle, nobody should. All relationships carry an inherent risk to them though, so if you're avoiding relationships entirely it's less about standards and more about never wanting to even risk investing your money, time, emotions, etc into someone else. The real problem arises when people want to have their cake and eat it too. If you center your life around meeting and having casual sex with attractive men you can't expect a high-quality man to show up years later who'll provide y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menGo out on dates with men that I actually like, and still have as much sex as I want Ah yes, trying to chase your youth that's slipping through your fingers while voluntarily choosing to be a single mother. What an amazing example to set for your truly unfortunate future children. Too bad once your looks will fade in your mid 30s (if you're even that lucky) and you'll have to choose between getting pump and dumped by mediocre horny men or being alone. Either way you'll never have a meaningful rom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menAdopt as many cats as you want, it won’t fill the void of having a biological child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menOn the bright side, it'll come back to bite many of them in the ass once they're rapidly approaching their 40s+ with no family of their own and they have to lay in the bed they made for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is a women who cheats worse than a man who cheats?I wouldn't say cheating is quantifiable in terms of how bad it is, you're a piece of shit no matter what. No, being drunk/under the influence of drugs isn't an excuse unless you were assaulted, which isn't cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do most people secretly enjoy watching other relationships fail?I've never met someone like this outside of cases where the relationship is clearly toxic and people are happy/relieved when it inevitably ends. Sounds like you need to find better company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause having somewhere to live should be a basic human right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor men probably 22-30, you're fresh out of school and trying to build your career so your social life declines. Most are probably still living with their parents and that's a turn off for a lot of women. For women probably 30-35+ since more men are looking for younger women and older single women (especially single mothers) are seen as "damaged" or "used goods" by a lot of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Having kids might be a really good option for the average Men, Here's why.No but with the spectacle you’ve created by writing this post I wouldn’t be surprised if you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Having kids might be a really good option for the average Men, Here's why.“Just work your ass off for two decades bro so you can have kids with a woman who’s only with you for money and a green card” Nah I’m good. I would rather fuck escorts and I have no desire to do that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | The Male BurdenAh yes, because paying to talk to someone about your problems is the solution for men not getting enough emotional support from the people who are close to them. Your post reads the same way as men who say women who don't want to be sexually harassed should dress more modestly. Get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:45 PM |
| 12 | There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want toThat last sentence just makes it sound like you’re projecting. Men have preferences just like women, and if someone decides to sleep with dozens of people it is objectively a reflection of their character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 02:26 PM |
| 11 | There’s no reason why a woman shouldn’t be promiscuous nowadays if they want toLot of the guys they don’t want to date now they’ll want to marry later, and a lot of those guys won’t even give them a second glance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 01:58 PM |
| 8 | West Elm Caleb Mega-ThreadPretty sure I have a better handle on the situation than you do. Right, but you just overlooked that minor details where they were trying to dox him, sent him death threats, and got him fired. Too busy to skim through a few articles but you certainly have the time to preach your uninformed opinions on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 8 | West Elm Caleb Mega-ThreadNo, it didn't "maybe" happen. It did happen. They nearly doxxed the guy and he lost his job. This is more petty than pouring sugar in your ex's gas tank. Don't be so quick to attack people's stance on this when you didn't even bother to read into all the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 08:02 PM |
| 11 | West Elm Caleb Mega-ThreadGuess at least one of the women involved in this is an asshole too because she openly admitted to playing the same game he is, and now she's upset that he beat her at it. There's a huge difference between comparing notes and telling people to steer clear of someone because of their toxic characteristics and literally trying to ruin a man's life and take his livelihood away from him. One is rational, the other makes you look like a bitter psychopath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 13 | West Elm Caleb Mega-ThreadPeople get burned in relationships all the time. People who have been together or married for years split up and you know what most of them do? Move the fuck on with their life. These women aren't the main characters of the universe. They can go vent to a therapist or someone close to them instead of making fools out themselves on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:50 PM |
| 18 | West Elm Caleb Mega-ThreadNaming, shaming and trying to cancel anyone for ghosting you is just childish and unproductive. This isn't new behavior and ghosting is inevitable when you're using dating apps where most people are just looking for a quick fuck. Pretty hilarious watching these overgrown children trying to ruin a man's entire life because he beat them at their own game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Why do some people see a decline in SOI with ageWhy do some people use obscure as fuck abbreviations without explaining what they even mean? Guess we'll never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:41 PM |
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