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Among the 50 or so men I know well enough to be knowledgeable of their romantic life. -Around 5 of them never had any problems to be in a relationship/situationship, because they were chased by women -Around 7 of them only had to set their mind on a woman and work toward her to be in a relationship -Around 20 of them only had 1 to 3 occasions in their life (age from 24 to 30), that they were able to pursue or not -The 18 left never had any relationship/situationship whatsoever (still age from 24…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 06:34 PM
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When men internalize this, they turn blackpill. When men realise these women are finally speaking the truth, they turn blackpill, cause they just figured out how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:58 AM
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One of my female friend : "I don't wanna be just another number on that guy list, he is a jerk with women." 3 weeks later : She sleeps with him and start to date him. 2 months later : "Yeah, he's talking with other girls and doesn't give a fuck but that's just his wild spirit." 1 month later : "He cheated on me ; fucked me one last time and then dumped me, why are all men jerks ?" Worst part is, when you remind her she had the right mindset at the start, to not indulge with a douche, she gets de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:56 AM
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I live in a country where laws are sex based and not income based ; which means that a wife needs to earn like twice what her husband earns to NOT GET a pension or half his stuff ; if the wife gets the kids, she is entitled to a pension and half the possession (+ the house if there is one) regardless of her incomes. If the the husband gets the kids, it is never provided that he could ask for a pension. Personal possessions are considered jointed after a certain amount of time, regardless of who …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:32 AM
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I have absolutely 0 answer to give. They are either lying or being acquaintances with trashy people, no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:57 PM
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"Don't have bad eyes". And that particular style is a classical men frame, it's actually the same base frame as aviators, but when it's a model wearing them, suddenly we don't think of good ol' Jeff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:56 PM
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You din't chose your name. And why do you have to go to a godwin point (god that's old) in order to answer a stupid advice such as "don't have glasses".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:48 PM
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Finally a woman who says this. Where do they find men rocking dry up shit and moist piss in their pants ? Maybe they need to befriend civilised people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:41 PM
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If I speak ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:40 PM
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You need 20 minutes to wet yourself ; lather up soap ; scrub your entire body ; rinse yourself and dry towel ? Personally I find that 5 to 10 minutes is more than enough. (In the shower, I precise, of course styling your hair ; shaving ; putting perfume on or moisturizing will take much longer, but that's not "shower time")
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:40 PM
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I don't know where you find the kind of men that smells like donkeys and have yellow teeth. Never in my life have I been acquainted with men like that, I even know men who shower twice a day ; wear niche subtle perfumes ; dress very well and have 0 success unlike guys wearing cargo pants and brand t-shirts while smelling like the entire nivea line up. Guess which of these guys where taller and had better facial traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:34 PM
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So, a classical sportswear pair of glass. Is it required to not be named jeffrey and don't wear gray polo shirt too or ist allowed somehow ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:31 PM
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There is a universal correct way : be attractive ; don't be unattractive. If you do these 2 simple steps, you can do ; say and act however/whatever the fuck you want, you're never going to be labelled as anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:29 PM
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I mean, there is no point arguing with you anymore, you're gonna tell me next that cooking for the person you love is sexual in some way. I'll say it again, YOU are the one bringing sex everytime, not men ; YOU are the one who can't make a difference between romantic feelings/intimacy and sex, not men and most of all, it's YOUR problem to deal with that kind of views, not men. Peace on you nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:10 PM
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That's what I've been telling her, cuddling isn't sexual, yet she's the one bringing sex in the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:07 PM
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Seems only if youre fucking the person. Again bringing up sex for no fucking reason, we are talking about feelings of love. I’ve held hands with family since I was little and today. Thats doesnt require a romantic relationship to get…unless your family sucked. Me too and I've also held hands with people I loved romantically, it wasn't the same, unless you are in love with your family or you consider your lover as a sibling, which would be very concerning. You are again not capable to understand …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:16 PM
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Humor me, what is a girlfriend providing that a friend cant? Physical and emotional intimacy to a level that a friend could not keep up. That's called love, yep a little hard to understand for you but it exist and men are still trying to chase it. Physical intimacy is just code for sex. And how are we defining emotional intimacy? Why are you bringing up sex again ? Holding the hand of someone I love is sexual ? Cuddling under a blanket during a rainy night is sexual ? Smelling the freshly shampo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:31 PM
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So proving my point: Then there’s the “why are you bringing up sex every time a guy has a problem?!” bullshit. 1. Perhaps when males claim they’re lonely…they should ACTUALLY BE LONELY instead whining about not having a girlfriend. Because they are "lonely" ? YOU are the one who refuse to believe that these men are lonely, but they are, adn they are not talking about sex, but a relationship ... again YOU are the one who is thinking about sex when a man is talking about a girlfriend. They still c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:10 PM
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Anytime a guy does or say something problematic, I call it out, cause that's my belief. The results ? -Never changed their behaviour -Never received any help from the women around, most of the time they say I'm just being annoying to these men ; or patronizing cause I believe I have to call it out for them or that it's simply not useful -Never changed any women's view on any men around and I am still put in the "penis owner" basket anytime some dude does shit that I call out immediately I'm gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:00 PM
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I've never seen a man not shower or take care of his hair in my social circles ; most of them actually perfumes ; workout ; dress well and pay attention, yet I know a dozen of guys who never had any relationships/dates and at least 4 times as much who struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:24 PM
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Granted Chad isn’t a raging fascist Fascist chad is still going to get some, when hotness is involved, all the so called righteous values are nowhere to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:55 PM
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My father is the embodiment of masculinity ; he taught me a lot ; is more supportive and understanding than my mom ; he did a lot for her while she does not recognize it and he showed me how to stay a traditional man while not being a stupid clown show. The only things he taught me that impacted my life badly are his romanticism and the "work first". That's why I don't pursue any girl I have a crush on until I'm sure my feelings are very strong and that's why I didn't act on girls that were givi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:59 PM
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Go through this sub and you will see 99% of "the bar is in hell dudes, all you guys need is to shower ; be kind and stay respectful". The same is said everywhere in the streets. Not my fault if it was just bullshit virtue signaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:13 PM
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The bLuEpIlLs ladies ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:49 PM
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This. Most of us have selective violence that cna be switched. If I'm attacked by a Lion for example, I could shoot him 300 times to death without any heistation or remorse ... while I feel guitly to pull on my dog's leash and I could never hurt him even if he was eating someone alive. If you tell me a guy has done something like molest a child, trust me you've never seen any of the things I could imagine doing it even in the worst horror movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:45 PM
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A place with a younger population, better social infrastructure, and lower cost of living can make it easier to meet, date, and build relationships without the financial or social pressures that exist in high-cost, high-competition areas. If you live in an area of young population and better social infrastructures, the cost of living goes up, it's basic economy. An average man living in a medium city/rural environment will obviously have a harder time socializing and dating than if he lived in N…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:16 PM
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In my views, all pills are wrong and all are true, you can find both the truth and lies in each and every one of them. But the very fact that someone is actually identifying in one or another pill means they have an exacerbate view of all the beliefs that comes with said pill, which means they are in the wrong because they cannot perceive the nuances in their own beliefs and others. Basically the "pill" version of "the truth lies in the middle".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:33 PM
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"ONLY 5'9". Not only is this not even short, since it is average height, and dependeing on your area of living even slightly above average height. But to say that he is "only", like it's a lack of something, while again he is average height, is very audacious ... to say the least and remain polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:00 PM
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I'm totally guilty of this. [...] The path was photoshopped advertisment -> reality shows -> social media with influencers. Would these women put their health in danger by doing extreme diets if they were not constantly exposed to it ? Would men think they need a 6 packs + the bigger chest they can achieve if they weren't constantly exposed to it ? Look even in medias, take the first spider man movies for example, Tobey's physique was considered a "shocking transformation into an exceptional bod…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:34 AM
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Tell that to all the short and/or ugly men alive, ask them and see what they have to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:08 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:08 AM
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Not really, it's all about halo effect. -A socially awkward, reserved unattractive guy is a creep/boring. -A socially awkward, reserved attractive guy is goofy/mysterious/shy Just as an attractive guy who does what he likes without a care for his surroundings is "audacious" ; while his unattractive counterpart is an asshole. That's what men complain about, they don't want "chad treatment", they just want a world where what they do is not judged by how they look.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 01:06 AM
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My husband is only 5'9". The audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:53 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:52 AM
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The point is men complain about “but but she got horny for Chad!!!” Well Chad made her feel horny. Chad aroused her. That’s the difference. The problem is that, most of the time, women claim that all a man needs to be is kind and respectful. While most of the time "chad" is nor kind, nor respectful, but is still treated better than average Joe and will still get associated with good traits because he is "chad" even though he never showed any signs of these traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:49 AM
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(1) What has changed over the last 10 or so years to make height such a big issue for Gen Z? It can't just be that social media tells people what they're supposed to be attracted to. I don't think people are that stupid; that is, they're attracted to what they're attracted to regardless of what other people tell them. Although maybe that's just been my experience. Tallness have always been an attractive trait in men, but social media and algorithm have exxagerated it for most people to the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:11 AM
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Abandon what? How is being harassed to buy something civil? Harrassment is defined by an action of repetition, if someone is going to ask me something for the first time, then I'm going to be civil, if it's the 100th time, I'm going to be annoyed yes. But I doubt that every man you encoutner, you've encountered them a 100 time. So, be civil every first occurence ... that's called being polite and living in society. It's also not the kind of interaction I was talking about. "Most people don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:44 PM
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Most people don't want to be harassed into purchasing something when they're just going about their day. This is a pretty common feeling. Great, is that a reason to actually abandon any for of civilness ? I have to question your experience with the situation I'm talking about if you consider it a simple interaction. At the cafeteria in my uni's campus, the line for coffee is often the ground for any kind of groups to advertise. Sometimes we have musicians ; sometimes we have activists ; sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:23 PM
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Are you in the mood to listen and buy it while you’re in line to get coffee on the way to work? No. If I'm waiting in a line doing nothing ? Yes, why not ? That's one of the problem, we created so much barriers that simple interractions are not even tolerable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:04 PM
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Having said that, if I were 5'4 maybe I'd view things differently. Also, I've lived (mostly) in Latin America for over a decade. Folks here are both shorter and don't seem to care much about height. Anyhow, just some observations. You actually answer your own conendrum. -You are not short, you are average. -You are 58, which means you are not in the generation with the inflation of height requirements. -You lived in a part of the world where people are shorter than elsewhere. So yeah, no wonder …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:17 PM
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It did, many people (women), took it as a personal attack. Any short man who would bring up the movie would be put in the "incel/mano/hater" group and any short man who would since then bring up their struggle would be put in the "materialist" enjoyer group, resulting in them being put in the "incel/mano/hater" group. When you are a short guy, there is no way you can win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:58 PM
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Just surffing on a trend here, it's all for money, nothing more, it's not interesting, it actually led to more backlash against short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:34 PM
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I don't know what you want to discuss about ? Did you need a movie to know how short men are being considered lesser human beings in almost every aspect of their lives ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:16 PM
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Y are u comparing now to 10-30 years ago instead of the majority of history ? Because we do not live in the same society than it was in the 12th century ? Werehas 10-30 years ago was our families generations. If we take in consideration that society has improved in all aspect through history, our situation should be better than it was 10 to 30 years ago. But we see that, in all aspect of society, it is actually worse, hence the many struggles ; hence the generations of young people that have dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:33 PM
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But why do u think that there is such a struggle? Over inflation of standards due to social media. Consuming became a way of life with over production and spread in all aspect of life. Echo chambers creating contradictory behaviours in some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:27 PM
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General population, so no actual generational figures. Though I do think that the Gen z generation has a special struggle though. Yes. That's what I've been saying. So why take examples from "all of history" (mainly before the industrial revolution) and comparing with what actual young men, in the actual time, are facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:49 PM
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Yep, that's the problem, you are comparing situations of young men today to the situation of young men in 1214 when we believed that the planet was flat and that they were no lands in the west. Why are you doing that though ? Doesn't make sense ... would you comapre the situation of a poor family now to a poor family in all of history ? Cause if you do, poor people have really nothing to complain about now, but if you compare with 10 or 20 or 30 years ago, there was a shift with an over inflatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:31 PM
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I don't know what a sophomore is, but I think it is like 15-16 years old right ? So, in other words, you started dating 15 years ago ... in 2010. Not only are you occupying the privilege position in the system, but you also are part of the generation that didn't see the shift happening in relationships. Why are you talking about buying a wife then ? I liked doing it(bc it was successful) and I think more women nowadays take a more active/intentional approach to dating if they want a relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:18 PM
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Okay, but why are you still taking exemples from the first half of the last century (at best, cause in the west, at least in europe, it wasn't a custom to pay for your bride, even in the early 1900's) ? We are talking about a shift that happened from 80's-20's to 2010's-2020's. No one in the early 2000's payed for a bride, the economical situation was pretty similar, even worse with the subprimes in 2008, yet we are seeing more men struggling now than there was in that time, even though they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:12 PM
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I personally think we live sweet spot of sorts for sexual/romantic relationships. That is because you occupy the top of that system. Yes you are right that the looks and personality threshold is the highest it's ever been for men but the financial threshold/commitment threshold is the lowest it's ever been. And it's a lot easier to improve ur looks and personality than ur finances/ commiting to the wrong person for most ppl. So, now, it's not taht men are not "putting enough efforts in their loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 06:57 PM
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Most avg men just don't put a lot effort into their physical appearance to be more attractive. (They would have to put in effort here) The gym/workout/sport/healty diet lifestyle has never been so popular, especially for young people, especially for young men. Skincare has never been so popular among men, even in the early 2000's "metrosexual" era, and we've seen the coming of many brands designed for men that are growing in popularity. The self improvment movement has never been more popular th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:32 PM
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Ok. Then why everytime a guy says he struggles to get dates and it's actually kind of depressing for him (you know, sharing his emotions) ... he is faced with "you must hate women" ; "go take a shower" ; "you just have a loser mindset" ? Cause that's the top 3 answers the guy is given. And yes, I'm actually talking about men specifically here, because it's mostly men who are faced with that kind of answers. All these guys are asking for is to not be insulted everytime they describe a problem tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:47 PM
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Is rhis post trying to imply most good men are ugly? Wild. He did not. “I do want a good person as a partner but I also want to be physically attracted to them and them to not be a socially awkward wet blanket and to have a stable job etc” Are you implying that all unattractive socially anxious men are "bad men" ? See how easy it is to make conclusion like that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:38 PM
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Funny enough, the "bad men" revealed themselves in a few weeks/months top when women complain. But they instantly recognized their soulmate when it was time to settle in their 30's to 40's. So, no, in the way women talk about "good and bad men", it takes more often less than a year to see, it was never a matter of morals and ethics, that are very easy to spot, especially in men, by just analyzing their behaviour ; social environment and cultural upbrings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 10:29 PM
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Example 1 So you wanted to discuss the tea app but didn't want to say it upfront, got you. Well, it's cute of you to think the tea app was anything more than petty women doxxing ; porn revenging and making fun of men without consent. Now, women complains that personal informations THEY WILLINGLY GAVE are being shared on the internet, because THEY TRUSTED FCKING DEV WHO COULDN'T DO THEIR JOBS, after they actually DID THE SAME THINGS TO MEN. Yeah, you have to take accountability. Example 2 Where a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:17 PM
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Never said some men were not doing that. But are you advocating to make it easier and unmoderated ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:24 AM
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Women are going to gossip whether there is an app or not. Like is this news to men that women literally talk about men together? Not only this was and still is a very big problem for most men when they find out their SO is sharing intimate informations that they didn't authorized to share. But the app isn't about "discussing between girls", it's about accusing men of actions, without any verifications or way for the men to answer to. How is that considered normal ? Maybe men need to start doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:15 AM
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I'm not certain that the 20 something men discussed on that app were all involved in the first version of facebook ; ranking harvard women students or even guilty of revenge porn. But I'm fairly certain that 100% of them would have things to say on the bullshit that was discussed without their consent. Btw, punishing an entire group of people, for the actions of a few people of the same nature, actions they didn't do themselves is considered an international crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 10:07 AM
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All of them are conventionally attractive ; most of them have very specific desirable male traits ; most of them have years of practicing hours in the gym ; most of them are presented in very specific life situations. But yeah, apparently these are "obese suboptimal bottom 10% men" according to delusional women ...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:47 AM
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I thought male toys were perverted ; porn was the same as traficking ; ai girlfriends were for losers and prostitution was rape ... Apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:39 AM
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The question is tho- what part of this wisdom that he actually imparts is colonialist or imperialist? Imperialism and colonialism were built on the idea that "western civilisations" were superior to other civilisations or indigenous people. That "superiority" originated in our "wisdom" ; "culture" ; "values" and "ideas". The very same wisdom you find in his words is the "enlightment" that was supposedly brought to these "inferior" people, an onimous general wisdom and school of thoughts. So yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 09:01 PM
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Totally agree with that. But, funny enough, Kipling was an imperialist ; a colonialist and a militarist. He participated in the WW1 prpaganda and made his son join the british army, he only changed on that subject when his son died. Most of the ideas that are present in his poems are also strongly catholic. So ... in other words ... these are traditionalists ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:29 PM
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As men, we agree with that statement. Now go tell that to all the other women claiming that short men are not real men or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:04 PM
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Except, in that case, you said yourself that you the 4/10 guys you dated had horrible personalities, so I don't see why it would be other men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:25 PM
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Nope, it is about trusting the words of women you don't know ; about actions you did not witnessed ; taken by men you never met in your life. Don't follow the pleb ; don't take anything people say for granted ; especially when there is an existing passive in the mix. Instead, women should forge their own opinions on men ; witness their actions themselves and listen to what they have to say with their own ears. And really, the "feminist man" etiquette is just weird, you sound like the deadpool 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:34 AM
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Good for you if you are willing to lose energy stating an obvious fact instead of discussing the fact that, in the vast majority of cases, rapes and sexual assaults are perpetuated by men ; which means we should search problems and solutions in that direction to be efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:30 AM
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So, if vetting is dating and women are not a monolith, then there is as much "vetting system" as there are women on earth ? How is that not vague ? A spectrum is composed of two ends, which are absolutes, don't understand why you cannot understand what a spectrum is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:29 AM
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Again, we are talking about a spectrum of 2 absolutes here. If you are considering that the distribution of attractiveness (with ugly on one hand and extremely hot on the other) follows a normal law (which it does) and that the distribution of morality (with bad people and good people as absolutes) follows the same law of distribution (it does). Then, statistically speaking, you will fin absolutes overlapping absolutes. Now you cross that with all the social studies on reinforcement (positive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:26 AM
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Imagine not being able to understand that, when we are talking about vague subjects like "vetting systems", we are under the obligation of talking about a spectrum or at least an absolute and not each and every individual situations. Or are you the one saying "not all men" when we are discussing rapes and sexual assaults ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 12:18 AM
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The problem is always the same : Your vetting system is based on the man attractiveness, not his values ; the content of its character or any other objectively good metrics. You shouldn't be wary of men, you should behave naturally around them and look for their actions ; words and values. If you automatically vet out the average looking ; average height ; somewhat shy and not so confident guy but always give an immediate yes to the opposite of that, you're going to be played by player ... and f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:35 PM
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If you take it as an insult, then go on, it's your problem. And I don't really care how to spell liers, english is not my mother tongue, and judging by your reaction, it didn't prevent your from understanding the phrase and misunderstanding the meaning of it. Now that I think about it, you taking it as an insult may come from the lesser number of figure of speech in english.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:31 PM
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No one tried to insult you sunshine. The you was ominous, it's a figure of speech, not a reference on your apst experiences I don't know anything about. Maybe they should work on being less shy and socialize more. They already socialized a lot, they were still ruled out because they were not enough assertive and pushing like other men, guess how it ended ...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:18 PM
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When 90% of women consider men under the average height as undatable, wtf is the under average height man do ? He will obviously try to go for the 10% women that consider him datable. But these women are not attracted to only short men + there is not enough of them for every under average height men + you still need to be compatible with them. But if women wehre chosing you absed on your choices ; achievements ; goals ; values ; etc, things would turn out better for everyone. The same goes for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:15 PM
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Everyone is telling them that they shouldn't be toxic. But it's like telling a murderer that "they shouldn't kill people", it's a given, but it's not going to change a criminal into a saint. So, if you are faced with that, don't go for the criminal (toxic) person and chose better. And again, you seem to equal all men with toxicity, which tells us more about you than about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:12 PM
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We are saying "give a chance to people based on the content of their character". Why should men give a chance to women who can't even take a good decision in their life or take care of their body and health ? But genuinely good mena re not given a chance based on shallowness instead of values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:08 PM
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More accurately : most of the men YOU are attracted to are liers, cheaters and will fuck anything. That's not the case of the men I know, for example, they want to find one partner, deepen their bonds with them and see where their journey will take them ... they are all single ... why ? They are all short, pretty shy and average looking at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:05 PM
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Here is the trick : most men are still sexually attracted to their wife, even though they accept the little fat they put on (most of the time actually crave for that part). That's not the case for the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 11:00 PM
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Yet you've dated obese men who were neckbeards. So, again, you chose badly. Why did you think a man that doesn't respect his own body and has the starter pack of a child molestor will make a good partner ? It often happens with women into geek/nerd/otaku circles, they think it will be great to be with a man that has a lot in common with her, so she picks the biggest nerd/geek/otaku in the circle and then she is astonished that he is a coomer with no jobs, which was obvious from his lifestyle, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:59 PM
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Most nerd guys who games all day are actually going to the gym nowadays, especially to attract more women with a fit body (what they believe will happen). Funny how it is considered natural that a woman who snacks sometimes and game in her free time will be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:45 PM
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They are not enough "good men" that are 6ft or above with a cute face. There are not enough "good men" that would provide an exciting life to fullfill your dopamine shooting. Etc. That's what we are talking about with "choose better" and "give the men a chance". Start to chose men based on the content of their character and not your immediate urges and shallowness and maybe you won't end up in fucked up situations. You know, like we are telling men to do since they are teenage boys, "dont go sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:39 PM
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Or, you are just not appealing to the vast majority of women because of standard inflation due to social media. Go tell a 5'2 guy that he has to "warm up the grill" when the grill doesn't even let him light a firecracker near it in the first place. And that part "I became much more successful with online dating once I started talking to people first and drawing conclusions second", is pure BS, the only thing that matters on dating apps is your look as a man, it was created like that, intended li…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:33 PM
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"Who did this IRL ?" "I've seen it." "Everything you say is made up." What's the point in asking if every testimony ; witnessing ; studies and surveys will be branded made up or biased ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:23 PM
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With all the testimonies from women ; studies and surveys, it's a large amount of women, especially when they are young. Significant enough that it became a phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:20 PM
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"Their choice to be shitty is respected" By women, not a single man will stay with them. There is always going to be toxic men, as there will always going to be toxic women. But toxic men are rewarded with relationships, while toxic women are left alone or paired with other toxic men. So yeah, choose better, stop rewarding toxic men, stop pointing toxic men as examples to single guys, and maybe you will see a better world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:17 PM
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It does if you already are tall and attractive enough, read her comm. Btw, the "But pretending you’re in a fairytale romance story is fun at 18 or 21." is what most men are talking about when they say they don't want a ran through girl that accumulated so much trauma out of fantasy and shallowness that they will have to spend the rest of their lives fixing her for no actual guaranteed result.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 10:12 PM
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We're not there to educated women on basic social behaviour and decency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:56 AM
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Not gonna argue to much, but if she is in a relationship yet she's still leading men on, he's not a lucky guy. It's more like "Wooh, bullet dodge".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:18 PM
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The second one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:02 PM
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This, she marries and have a child with the fuck up that gave her "the spark" because he was hot, but she know realises that he's not going to change his attitude for her. And she has the nerve to come and complain about society and the infinity of other men she didn't chose. Plus : how is breastfeeding and carrying a child "social gender role" ? It's called nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:59 PM
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Don't try to argue, these are the same people convinced that men chosed ; supported ; loved and defended the "patriarchal" system that degraded ; used ; enslaved and ultimately killed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 01:47 PM
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That he should know just as well as anyone that life isn’t fair and there are no guarantees in life. If he’s done the very best he could and still didn’t get a woman, then it’s very sad, but I’m very glad he truly tried to live his life to the fullest and play his cards as hard as he could. That someone else just like him did do all those things and did succeed, and it’s just bad luck he didn’t get everything he wanted. It is unfortunate, but life sometimes isn’t fair. Some truly great people do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 03:07 PM
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Re-read her own comment, she says she is taking screenshots of the sub to warn women on a facebook group from men in general and that she now has a bias for men in general because of this sub and some posts. How is that behaviour different from an incel pointing at women thirsting over criminal men and telling you all women are like that deepdown ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:22 PM
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Who promised this, anyways? Women and bluepilled everywhere in society, on the internet and especially on this sub. Everytime a guys has struggles, not only is it assume that he doens't do shit in his life, which is very condescending, but he is faced with the same bullshit advices, which gives him the impression that doing all of that is going to get him a relationship, which is not. And we are told a list of things to be and do in order to be rewarded with a relationship since we were boys, es…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:20 PM
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Again with the diversion. Never talked about myself, never said it was futile to be in better physical health ; mental health or having a better job ; a better social life and fullfilling hobbies. I'm just pointing out that, in most cases, it has little to nothing to do with dating, it will not help an already struggling guy to get a girlfriend and that, most of the time, it was by sheer luck that relationships are forming, right place, right time. But as always, you picture the people telling t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 10:04 AM
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Diversion is not the way to go, again : when the guy will have start to eat better ; exercise ; dress better ; have a better job ; socialize ; learn how to flirt ; meet new people ; meet women ; etc (all of that is redpill btw) ... and he still won't have a girlfriend because of criterias outside his reach, such as height ; inexperience or just luck, what will you tell them exactly ? The guy improved himself ; did everything he could ; wnet outside and "touched grass" and then ... nothing change…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:40 AM
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My husband is basically what every incel dreams to be, and I’m basically what they describe as their dream woman. That's pretty much the blackpill in a nutshell, they say it's impossible for them to become something they were not born to be so what's the point ... you're kinda proving them right. Dating for me was like having to wade through huge and HUGE piles of shit. While they make it out like it was the most easiest thing on the planet.. The same goes for men, especially men who wants speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:49 AM
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Out of curiosity, when the guy will have start to eat better ; exercise ; dress better ; have a better job ; socialize ; learn how to flirt ; meet new people ; meet women ; etc (all of that is redpill btw) ... and he still won't have a girlfriend because of criterias outside his reach, such as height ; inexperience or just luck, what will you tell them exactly ? Cause I've seen that dozens of time in my life, the sweetest and earnest guys alive, improving themselves for years, ending up alone fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:46 AM
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If she did she wouldn't be able to produce mysandrist reaction from her facebook group.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:33 AM
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So they do have it easier ; they're making choices that makes it harder for them ; they come to complain about the consequences of their choices AND they want to blame it on men who are not even considered humans in their eyes ? You understand the existence of this sub now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:05 PM
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Men don't wnat women out of their generation ; women who cna't take care of their health and bodies and women who are searching for a real man in replacement of the deadbeat that fathered and abandoned their children, with all the consequences it brings. What a selection, 3 criterias, 2 of them are in your control, 1 is just pure logic. As Patrick said "very nice ... now let's see women's list for selection".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:57 PM
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In my group of around 20 guys, all the guys above 5'9 are in relationships, while all the guys below 5'9 are single and have been struggling for years, some even never had any relationships at 24 ; and yes, it was clearly stated every time that it was for the height. We are very similar in values ; lifestyle ; hobbies, etc ... So, yeah, it's just 20 guys and not a study, but I observed the same in college, at work, among my friends and in the streets. And that is only one feature out of hundreds…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:27 PM
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A letter should be even more appreciated, since you are actually saying things about yourself, way more than just giving your socials, which gives her a more general idea about who you are. That's one of the complains of women on dating apps with men not showing enough in their bio and being "clones". Or are you trying to tell me that women can look 3 seconds at a man and get a grasp of his entire psyche but would not be able to get a grasp with a letter ? Again, the thing is simple : attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:17 PM
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"If you're 5'6 ; bald and have a an unattractive face, you're doing something wrong, hence It is legitimate to not give you the bare minimum of social courtesy and decency that built civilisations."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:43 PM
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Yet most women here are telling you it's better to write a note with your number on it to give an easy choice and easy way out for the girl you are writing too. Reality is simple : you are attractive -> no matter what you do/say, you're gonna get a positive treatment at first ; you are not -> no matter what you do/say, you're gonna get a negative treatment at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:41 PM
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Yep, it's called free wil. If you are aware of the halo effect, you're going to notice its effects happen to you, you then have the choice to indulge in them or actively repress them and keep and objective behaviour. That's called living as a society, it's one of the perks of counsciousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:32 PM
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You don't have to be 6'0". However, being 5'7" will be a disadvantage. Can't change that. You don't have to be the top 25% of looks. However, being the bottom 25% will probably be an immediate deal breaker. Neither that. Your social skills don't have to be perfect or charismatic (although, tbh, this is one that most men can get better at for basically free, and will yield them pretty decent results). However, being a complete introvert is a death sentence. You've got to be able to initiate in so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 03:26 PM
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All the women I know and have known.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:52 PM
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That's the exact 4 points women here and everywhere doesn't seem to understand. We are all for "being friends" with them first, but you don't even get to that point, you can approach with a literal sign stating you don't wanna hook up with them and still be rejected to even interract with them friendly, I've seen that first hand in conventions. So what are we supposed to do ? How can we be friend first if we don't even get the chance to befriend them ? And in the slightest chance you would be, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:52 PM
2

I mean ... did't Trump win the elections ? +Florida ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:44 PM
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Tahnks for that, it's going to be useful. Recently, one of my female friend is coming to our group while we talk ; starts a debate concerning dating/men/women/etc ; disagree with us ; refuse to debate or elaborate or listen to arguments and then accused us of provoking her and hating women ... then she comes the next day and do it all over again. One more reason to only debate on a surface level with them, they are not ready for a real contradiction and will turn it into drama ... that explains …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:43 PM
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What contradictory advices ? -> Don't be overweight -> Be nice and appear open to talk -> (optional) If you navigate in social environments when you are not approached to make acquaintances, just do it yourself That's all there is to date as a woman. For men on the other hand ...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:34 PM
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What if men instead of asking questions day in and day out would just look at reality, at empirical data, and other meaningful stats? Because they would have to face the fact that it is out of their reach and there is nothing more depressing that feeling left out for reasons you can do nothing about. I wonder if that would lead to more results... Nope, we would see more depressed and hopeless men with no will to advance society anymore, understanding the game flaws will not make you win at the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:46 PM
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They listen to what women are saying, especially on here. They don't realise what they express is the most socially accpetable and expected answers for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:01 PM
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Let's say you have 1/1000 chance to find a good partner with every date. That means you would have to go through 1000 dates to get one at the very least. If your sucess to get dates is 100%, all you have to do is keep going on dates and at some point, you'll find it. If your sucess to get dates is 10%, you will have to go through an infinitely more number of dates to find the right partner. So yeah, it's not hard for women, it's just complicated cause you need to be patient, which is an infinite…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:44 AM
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Women have it easy to date, as you said yourself, it's just that they don't find the man who is actually fullfilling all of their wild, unrealistic fantasies. But if we are talking in pure dating, you are stating yourself that they have it easy. So I don't know what you are arguing, except be the devil's advocate to not recognize any easy treatment on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:05 AM
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It takes more thoughts ; efforts ; planning ; knowledge and skill to succeed in a Bloon TD 6 run than to be a woman dating. And even then, you have to enable cheat code to suceed in BTD6.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:03 AM
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So, in short : -Men struggle to even get a date -Women struggle to find the man who will check 100% of their boxes Is that it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:00 AM
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In what way is it "not easy for them either" to date ? All the women I know only had to exist and they got to meet new people, meet men, hookup/date/enter relationships. None of them accept the fact it is easy for them, yet when you asked them what they had to do to ... error 404.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:53 AM
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But, at some point, you still had to ask her out somewhere, or do something to show your itnerest in her, which is trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:52 AM
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Imagine writing all of that because I claimed most women don't give a shit if you are a gamer or not as long as they are attracted to you. Imagine writing an entire history of your dating life ; married life and income because I dare to explain that as long as a woman is attracted to you, she's going to be attracted no matter what. Your masculinity has been challenged so now you challenge mine. Where did I do that exactly ? Stop projecting and accept simple facts, you are the one who felt the ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:48 AM
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As simple as that. But since no one is ready to actually recognize this simple fact, they will go to the largest extents to explain why it's not okay to approach. When they are finished though, it seems like you can't approach any woman anywhere in the world. And that's because approachin is a privilege for attractive men, if you are not, no matter how nice you are ; how appropriate the context is or how confident you appear to be, you will always be in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:51 AM
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I know guys who have all of that, they are still virgins. I know other guys who have none of that and they get 3 dates a week with a high rate of sexual encounters. This doesn't matter, if you are attractive to women, you will get them no matter what, if you are not, you will not get them no matter what. Plain and simple. Stop wasting time on low ambition pursuit like gaming. Lmao, you're this type of guy, empty shell who changed his entire way of life just to appeal to women who doesn't answer …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:41 AM
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To be fair, he is actually blaming the OP for advocating that asking for explicit consent should be a norm and seen as respect and caring from men to women. So, in short, he blames women when they actually are trying to make other men lives easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:47 PM
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It's not doomer like, this is the reality men faces, constant pardoxes that can only be resolve by sheer luck. If you are unlucky ? You assaulted her, enjoy consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:42 PM
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Because it is not, trust me, I've seen it first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:31 PM
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I don't know why it's still so hard for people to understand. Because this is not the general consensus among women ? As you said "not all men/women", but in most men experience, most women want it to be "organic", which means to take the initiative and go with the "flow/mood". But since this flow and mood can really vary, even in minutes, most men have also experience misreading or mistiming and ended up in a very bad situation because of that. So, as the adpating species we are and listening t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:29 PM
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Reactive and observant with total strangers, more at ease with people I'm presented too. But your behaviour in a social situtaion as little to no effect on the outcomes in my observations and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:11 PM
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How often are you experiencing some kind of flirtatious interaction ? Never. How often are you at social events ? Depends on the definition of "social events", if it's something like a party, at least once a week ; if it's any place you can meet people, it's everyday. What are your friend groups composed of ? With my definition of friends, mostly men, some women. To answer your general question "How common it is to have never experienced this ?" Well, most men I know never had any flirtatious in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:42 PM
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An ugly dude who’s big and unpredictably aggressive/violent is not going to turn most women on lol. But the "handsome dude who's big and unpredictably aggressive/violent" is going to turn on women ? Cause if the real problem is the aggressiveness/violence/threat, not matter how attractive the guy is, women should be in a wary mode, whereas we can observe that all displaying of threat/violence/aggresiveness is ignored if the guys is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:35 PM
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"Don't blantly cold approach women, it's creepy. Start with being acquaintance first, then flirt a little to taste the water and see if there is a response, the worst she can say is no." -> Proceed to get offended, cause a scene and block/cut you off her life immediately, probably letting everyone know in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:49 PM
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Share that wisdom, amuse us. Though, considering your etiquette, I don't think it's going to be pleasant for OP or a lot of people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:19 PM
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Where did I say she can't ? But no one is in the obligation to accept this part of her. And more importantly, at one point did you think it was a good idea to date a drug dealer/addict ; known in the all town for multiple arrestations + time in juvenile prison ; with witness of harrassment on young (emphasize on the young) girls at our middleschool gates and assessed violence on multiple occasions, even with adults at the said gates. You can also add the warning of family ; friends and school ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:14 PM
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It's a mix of halo effect ; women brainwashed by years of political nonsense ; growin anxiety in the general population and selective observations. The selective observation is that men who don't care about women will still approach and annoy them, which mean women will largely observe annoying approach and make a link between approach and bad behaviour, thus claiming they don't want to be approached anymore, making normal average men unwilling to approach. The halo effect is that, if a man has …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:09 PM
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One of my pal never had a problem being with a girlfriend since he's 13 years old (he is now 24), the longest he was single was 2 months in his life and he passed the 2 months complaining how "hungry" he was, the guy was practically dying for 2 months without sex, it was pathetic to see. Then, one night at a party in college campus, he took a broken tascam and we went to see a girl sitting next to some friends of her but she was kind of letdown cause they were all with boyfriends. He approaches …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:42 PM
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It's just their "wild phase" guys. It's just "youth experiment". They end up with the good guys who waited miserably for them and they don't even allow them to do half the stuff they did with their past selves, it's part of the "past is the past, let's not tlak about it". Their priorities changed and you are the one paying the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:30 PM
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I've been in Christian school, trust me, the "good environment ; good upbringings ; good family ; rich girls" are also going out with criminals, which actually posed many problems back in the days. It's just that they romantize this personality type and it's the extreme version of what women pursue, like confidence ; assertivness ; authenticity ; risk taking ; excitment. Nothing more profound than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:01 PM
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This, it's like complaining about the taste of the cherry after eating the whole sunday. You had the ice craem ; you had the flavor ; you had the sprinkles, but somehow it's not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 02:57 PM
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So, if we follow that logic, being neurotic or low confident (or the 2 at the same time) is considered to be worse than being mysoginistic ; if you add unattractive traits and characteristics, you are basically screwed. And I've witnessed that before, but isn't it what OP is calling out ? The fact that being an introvert, not so confident or neurotic guy, which are things you can't control, is being as worse than being mysoginistic, which often wome with over confidence and manipulative behaviou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:20 PM
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And instead of acting against the "completely self-interested guys who don't care about women's feelings will try to sleep with everyone and keep pushing even if she initially rejects him", they actually reward this attitude and leave the "nice, empathetic guys who care about women" on the bench. Now, what will be the reaction of these "nice, empathetic guys who care about women" ? Either they resent women for being that way, which is a mysoginistic course of action ; or they maybe pick on the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:45 PM
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Do not revelate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 04:07 PM
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This. The guy struggles but he can have sex with a woman he just met by playing uno ? He never had a girlfriend but somehow had sex a couple of time (implying one night stands) ? Even with the help of extroverts friends, something doesn't add up and in any case, he didn't really do anything, he was set up by friends who had his back. Take the same guy, with no girlfriend, no experience whatsoever and no extrovert friend to carry him and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:22 PM
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He said : "there have always been people who have no friends/do not get invited to parties" You answered with : "always had weirdo nerd friends" and " It’s not just Chad and Stacy who go to parties and have friends". Where did he say that nerds can't have friends ? All he pointed out is that, for some reason, most of the time unrelated with people's hobbies, some people will have a really hard time to socialize and taht these people need more help than just a "go out" or "throw a party".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:19 PM
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I live in a 19m² with a big room for bed room/kitchen/living room/desk and another small one for my shower room and toilets. Honestly, don't understand people who think 30 to 50 m² is small.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:11 PM
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Can't read 10 phrases but wanna argue about the law, why am I not even surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:47 PM
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Orrr mention this as a requirement before seriously dating. So, taht's what I said, you are telling me we need to directly mention we don't wnat to be cheated on and raise the babies of other men. Exclusivity heavily implies monogamy but the situation here is that you guys will ask for a paternity test regardless of having proof of infidelity or not. It’s nonsense. Not really, could be a full DNA verification that allows the doctors to knw about possible desease or problematics, while also provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:41 PM
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This is something that should have been brought up before even getting into a relationship in the first place. So now, we have to sit our female partner down to the table and have a talk on "don't cheat on me" and "don't make babies with other men" ? But even then, I agree, if she wants to leave for something so trivial, no problem, she can do it, I'm not upset ; but in that case, as you said previously, "accept the consequences of your actions" and don't ask for alimony, you decided to quit wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:27 PM
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If a guy goes to Thailand, it's generally not to see escorts who are adults. Or he goes to Thailand for holidays and meet local women, you know, like normal people, but suddenly he's a pedo ? It's not for me, but he's not living his life for me, is he? Never said he was ? But that's strange that people tells you "veryone can do what they want, you can't judge them", but then have an extensive list of things that are supposedly "being a an insecure loser bastard" when it's not suitable for them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 07:14 PM
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I mean, I'm all for repercusions on infidelity in marriage. But how would that actually increase the number of marriage and strengthen it as an institution ? It's just going to result in even less marriages because it's a risk you take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:05 PM
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"I’ve been told it’s because I’m tall" You have it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:01 PM
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And just like that, he disappeared. A guy taht goes in thailand or see escorts is a monster and a loser who can't get laid without tricks. But somehow, a straight guy that had to accept watching "his" woman get banged by other dudes or sleeping with dudes in dresses, is "secured and sucessful".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:58 PM
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It's like saying "money don't buy you happiness, it only give you more options to improve other things that can actually make you happy". Like, yeah, obviously it's not the existence of money but the use of money that helps you, but it's much more simple than that. Take your "sitting in a dark corner / gloomy / lonely / dressed like a bum man", if he has money, he can snap his finger and pay a round of drinks to everyone for example, trust me he's not going to be alone much longer and if does th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:55 PM
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for some people But yeah, I suppose it's not a problem to lift 3 times your weight on your knees growing knees at 12 years old. We have people hurting themsleves with proper precautions when they are adults with years of training but you're going to tell me "it's 90's bullshit" when it's the fucking World Health Organization telling you to not overcharge on teenagers ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:27 PM
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You have inherent advantages in every way possible and like every other normie you credit your success to your work instead of realising most of it has to do with immutable traits that you did nothing to “earn”. On point, and that's actually why it is pointless to talk with these people, they will always tell you they had to do something better than you to get where they are. The funny thing is, most of these people will call out the privileges of others without ever adressing their own privileg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:24 PM
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Or you were just not interested in girls in middleschool / not really popular with them, and no one did your "education" on the subject, except mainstream medias/your parents who are disconnected with the new realities/politically correct groups. And btw, for some people, hitting the gym before the end of their development can be very harmful, it's better to practice bodyweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:18 PM
1

Cool for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:36 AM
1

The fuck are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:38 PM
2

No, we are a small uni with around 200 students in the countryside.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:37 PM
3

Cool bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:36 PM
1

How can I link you to my university ? It's real life, not matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:33 PM
2

That's what I talked about in my first post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:32 PM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:31 PM
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Believe what you want then, why should I care ? But are you as untrusting with the woman above me in comments that related to smiliar situations ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:07 PM
3

Are you really making a link between "get women the right to vote" and "enforce hormonal modifications on pre-puberty children" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:05 PM
2

Come to my university ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:04 PM
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Probably not to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:04 PM
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"fits enough of the bill that we can get along" And again, that's a women's perspective, for men it's more "agreeable to live with among the little options I got in life". But I think 40K in this area is a fair wage, that's about $20/hour at 40 hours or $23/hour at 35. It's not not doable and it will go a long way in this city. I'm genuinely not asking for the moon in that respect. I'm asking for mutual survival. With the decreasing number of men going to college, it's going to be harder and har…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:42 PM
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Really not, I walked in, saw some rally, there were signs, I read them and discussed with some of them. I'm civilised, so I'm not going to attack people over nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:36 PM
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Because we are at uni ; with a security service and they have the authorization from the faculty administration ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:33 PM
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Your point is flawed. You are not "existing", like some are telling you to be. Existing mean going to social settings and show that you are available, not making facebook posts, which no one is using anymore anyway in your age range. Or, if you don't like going outside, just download and exist on a dating app. You didn't do that, you failed the 2nd and last requirement for you to get options, you're halfway there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 05:32 PM
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Men wants to ACTUALLY raise their children ? And donation is not even possible for certain men due to their genetics, such as short men, so not a viable option. All we have to do is to recognize the rights of fathers and authorize surrogacy on a large scale, the men who wnats to be fathers but can't/don't want a wife can get a biological child and raise him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:15 PM
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Propaganda. That's why many people don't want to indentify as feminist, even women in reality. These people are crazy and like all crazy people, they are very noisy and do things that normal people would never do, such as defending eugenism or industrial reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:12 PM
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And a lot of men have a lot of different and valid reasons for why it is so hard for them to find dates, most of them are not even in their control, they were just born like that ; nevertheless, they get a "stop whining, man up and act", so in all fairness, you get a "stop whining, woman up and act".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 04:09 PM
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Because people believe in equality but when they see "feminism" it's often in tv or social media, where you the most craziest people on earth. I had feminist group at my uni advocating for injecting hormonal inhibitors to all the little boys in the country to prevent them from the "sides effects of testosterone". We know it is not "true feminism", but let's be honest, true feminism in political activism is dead, you only hear about the crazy ones, and no one wants to be associated with these.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 03:24 PM
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Didn't read. You don't even have the courage to go on dating apps or walk up and talk to guys but you want a "good match" to walk up to you ; do all the work and commit quickly and eternally to yourself ? Wake up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:47 PM
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So you were married ; then you had a boyfreind ; then you had a rebound BUT you don't want to use dating apps (designed for women to hold the power in dating) AND you are still complaining that it is hard for you ? Life of your male equivalent : 0 match ; 0 phone number ; 0 first date ; alone until he is 30 and the last women who starts to desire "settling" will go for him for his security ... they will deny him all the things they experienced themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:45 PM
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What if I, as a woman who weighs a healthy amount for my height, want a man who weighs the same for his? What if I want someone who cares about the things of the mind, things of culture, not just video games and sports? (Although hockey bros are awesome, and I love Sims 4!) Men want that too, but they have infinitely less options, so if they actually wait for the perfect match to come by, they will never get anything at all, that's why they compromise. I would love to have a woman that is as int…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:32 PM
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Most options men have are going to be "not compatible" too, but ON TOP OF THAT, they get infinitely less options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:23 PM
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We see them, they still have sex and relations ...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:22 PM
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She’s always been fat since middle school. Her responsability. Ugly coke bottle glasses. Easiest "fashion" feature to change. Sure she got some sex. You put it like it's a plural thing, so she had sex. Her male equivalent wouldn't get any action whatsoever and depending on his social situation, he wouldn't even have women friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:21 PM
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But then you actually start to see a pattern in behaviour, which is actually widely shared among women, even among women coming from different countries. So yeah, it's not "every women are identical", it's just a large number of them and men are going to act upon and aknowledge that widely shared behaviour. Hate the game not the players.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:17 PM
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Problem is, some of them are aware of the game ; are willing to play the game ; but they simply cannot play it, it's just impossible for them to act like that and they are the lasts, hence their grudges.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 01:14 PM
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You're in delusion. And I say that while finding her beautiful in the "before". But OBJECTIVELY speaking, most men would find her unattractive solely by the lack of hair. You can wrap yourself in delusion all you want, that woman is objectively unattractive and she became 100% (at least) more attractive through makeup and fake features ; something no man on earth could actually do and/or be accepted to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 12:11 PM
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Modified her skin tone + eye brows + nose shape through shade + eyes shape + lips + cheek shades. But yeah, just covering up acne. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/Z0euZ-6UW5I
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:57 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/UkDiynpBEC4 Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:50 AM
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Where is the misogyny is saying that makeups ; filters ; ai alterations of pictures ; etc is not reality and is actually changing the way women view themselves ? That's the reason a lot of women collectives wanted to ban photoshopped ads some years back. The reality is, heavy makeup can change skin tone ; facial shape and shading, it's something you see everywhere, and filters+ai is just an extension of that, which means you are going to be seen as more attractive, even though, yes, in reality y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:41 AM
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Don't revelate, you're going to be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:29 AM
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The problem is women are confusing makeup/filters/clothes with attractiveness, it's just a nice wrap, nothing more, you are not more attractive, you are perceived as such. There is a reason if we've seen a lot of men targeted gym applications ; grooming tools ; skincare products ; manicures ; etc. Men are taking care of themsleves, much more than 10 years ago, even much more than 50 years ago and this will continue to go on. There is a reason the "looksmax" trend is so popular among young men. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:27 AM
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*Insert the video of the girl claiming Daniel Craig as a dad bod* Their idea of a dad bod is a middle age/old man ; on a strict diet ; on strict supplements ; having a coach managing every aspect of his life ; working out 4-5 times a week ; using TRT or even worse. I don't really blame them when all you have to do to appeal to 99% of men is eat well and let your hormones work or pilates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:20 AM
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Yes, exactly why I said it's a gender thing, the only difference is what is considered the "top percentage".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:06 PM
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Waht straw man ? My personal experience ? Cause you answered with your own personal experience, was it also a straw man or are you immuned ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:22 PM
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Read again, that's what I said. Some people are attracted to some features, and they go for that. The comment I answered to argued taht it wasn't attraction but just opportunity, which I disagreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:21 PM
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Cool for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:14 PM
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That's ... exaclty what I said to her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:13 PM
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So, when a woman date a hundred men 6ft or over, she isn't actually attracted to tall men, it only just happen that short men doesn't ask her out ? When a women actually dated only albino men, she isn't attracted to them, it just so happen that only 5% of the global population asked her out ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:54 PM
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No one ever argued with that, the point of OP was to say that most women claim the only standard they have is a "good men" and argue when we answer it's not the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:28 PM
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Same goals in life, same vision on things, relationship compatibility, pace of life, sexual compatibility are a few examples. That's the problem, he is a "good man", he is not the "right man" for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:13 PM
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I'm pretty sure it came about because of the rampant sexual assault and harassment from men in the workplace. Thinking that "asking someone out" is "sexual assault" IS making a big deal out of it. Idk how a picture of your wife and baby makes your work day easier. 🙄 You cannot begin to understand how being reminded that you have a happy life with your loved ones outside of the company ground that exploit you can make it easier to bear it till you are out ? Libreals ...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:05 PM
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Dudes give a fuck if you insult their girlfriend yeah, that's normal or are youa dvocating we should let anyone walk up to them and insult them ? What they don't care about is if they would want to date/fuck them, taht's not even something we discuss about. You don't seem to understand how exactly men behave with eachother and the kind of discussion/comments that are well received and allowed among us. Are you the kind of women that believe in "men's locker room discussions" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:53 PM
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In America, someone could get fired for asking someone out during work time. Many jobs have rules against dating coworkers. And I'm pretty sure that rule came to life because of the kind of women making a big deal about being asked out. Asking out someone during work hours means it's no longer private. A man asks a woman, it doesn't concern anyone else ? If I ask out a woman in a bar, does the entire bar is concerned ? If I ask out a woman at my biking club, does the entire road is concerned ? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:50 PM
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So, a good person man that is attractive isn't enough ? What are other criterias ? Except being compatible, which is a given for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:44 PM
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I’ve never heard any of my friends or acquaintances say that. There you have it, I've never heard my unemployed ; no diploma ; "freelance artist" ; living off social allowances female friend claim she wanted to date a wellpaid/rich guy, I've often heard her claim "money doesn't matter in a guy". Yet she only dated men that are college educated, earning a lot of money, owning their companies and habitation or coming from really wealthy families, every single time. like women are their own worst e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:42 PM
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Don't know if it's a cultural difference, but in my country it's pretty common to ask people out, comapny hours or not. But even then, just because it happened on company time and ground doesn't mean it's not a private matter, it doens't concern nor the coworkers nor the company, or do you think that if you receive a text on company time, your boss should have the right to read it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:23 PM
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When you understand a lot of women are like that, your choices narrow if you sort them out definitely. And even then, she is actually a sweet person, but that particular night, she was at a party, with a lot of friends, she was feeling insecure, she had a little alcohol, so she behaved that way, on a daily basis she is a great person. So yeah, "choose better", when you witness a problem in a daily basis and decide to complain and act 3 years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:22 PM
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Setting : "Casual party in a theme bar." Him : "Hey, I see you have a keychain goodies about that anime, I also like it too, what did you think about the last episode ?" Her : "GO fuck yourself over there and die in a ditch you piece of trash." You : "Well, you can ask her like that, especially when you are at a party, but don't complain about her response, unless she pulls out a gun with her sentence." You don't see a problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:19 PM
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He will mind yes, he will knock your teeth out because you insulted his woman in public. He will not leave her with a "shit, other men does not desire my woman and will not try to steal it from me with petty mind games, I mus ditch her now to fit with the hive mind". Like, what even do you think will happen if you walk up to a man hugging his loved one in his arm to insult her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:16 PM
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He's absolutely complaining he got rejected. He is not ? Read again, or are you seeing what you wanna see ? She didn't make it a big thing. She told coworkers how weird it was to be asked out on company time by another coworker. So, not only did she not kept a private matter private, but she actually went to see all of her coworkers to tell them he is a "weirdo", even though she didn't give any sign she was weirded out to him, just because he asked her out once and said "cool no hard feelings". …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:13 PM
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Or, they are just drama queens who want to give some "vibes" off themselves. I've seen women reject some of my friends with the most brutal slenders I've ever heard, only to then connect with them on the shared interest he wanted to talk with them about, only to then date them. They admitted they never found them unattractive, but they wanted to actually play as the "unaccessible mean girl" around their friends, while in reality, all of them found my guy attractive. Find the logic in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:11 PM
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Ok, so, if I am at a party, I should never talk to people unless I have something "very important to tell them" ? That goes against the very premisses of our species you know ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:06 PM
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Could you imagine dating a woman whom all of your friends decided was ugly? I think it's a natural social behavior. Most dudes don't give a fuck about what other dudes think of their girlfriend, hell, most guys will actually be happier if their friends find their girlfriend unnattractive, taht means no competition, jealousy, fights or abiguous situations from their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:05 PM
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He's not complaining he got rejected ? He's complaining that, when she rejected him, even thought he thought they left on a good note, he discovered that she actually made it into some gossip/reputation material behind his back. She is the one who made the rejection a big thing, not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:03 PM
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I've declared my love for guys in my friend group (3 times lol), but since all I did was just say "I like you, do you want to go out with me" (and they said "no thanks") there isn't much to gossip about It's also because, in most cases, guys don't talk about that sort of things, especially if it's still fresh, we are not proud that we rejected a woman and we don't crave to be seen as the "winner" in that rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:01 PM
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Again, you don't see the difference between the streets and a social setting, like a party for example ? If you go to a social event, you should excpect that people might want to talk to you, you know, cause it is "social", which means that, as a civilised and respectful person, you should answer with politeness at first. In the streets, you are actually no there to find new friends or acquaintances, so you are not under the same communicative circumstances. But even then, it's still not accepta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:52 PM
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There is no question. This is especially true for men who fall into that “neutral” looks bar - immediately asking a woman puts pressure on her to decide right then if she’s into you. If you give her nothing else to go off of, then looks it is and she’ll likely say no. But if you start a casual conversation, she feels less pressure. You can demonstrate some of your other qualities - charisma, humor, common interests, etc. Your chances become much higher she says yes. You seem to be under the misc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:48 PM
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Cause ugly women still aim for the top percentage of men ? Hypergamy is not a lookwise thing, it's a gender thing ... the same way short women still wnat tall men and that's why tall women complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:41 PM
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So you actually bothered people in the streets to take money from them ? Considering the fact that most of these are scams and/or using moralization to have you pay. How does it compare to someone walking up to another person in a social setting to interact with them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:35 PM
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I've approached around 50 women in my life, for various reasons, about 30 of them were really rude, even when I didn't approach them for relationship/situationship at first, I just wanted to talk to them about something we are both interested in. Bonus : Doesn't count as "aproaching", but last week at uni, we were entering our exam room (800 people) and had to sign to prove we entered and took the exam, we were sorted with numbers and I heard a 2 girls asking "where is our signing sheet", I turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:32 PM
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That would be good advice ... if only the same guy that is "neutral" but "can go in attractive through confidence, humour, charisma, common interests" didn't get the same treatment either he says "hey cutie" or "hey, love your keychain goodies, you're a fan of it too ?".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:21 PM
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So ... you kinda agree with the OP ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:41 AM
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" they’re not as technologically advanced" So now, there are civilisation like preferences to be added to the lot ? What a world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:59 PM
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That popular quarterback? Not only will he tell you how much practice he had to do to BECOME the starting QB, he’ll tell you about how despite all his natural abilities it was thru experience and practice that he actually learned how to become successful. In both sports and dating. Yes, the famously known 12 years old, good looking, no pimples, taller than other kids school quarterback that had to practice 6 hours a day to play in the football team and be popular with everyone, especially girls,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:08 PM
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No one starts out with a manual on this shit. It’s all thru learned experience. Yes, but some will actually start with predispositions and bonus characteristics. For example, I wouldn't ask the natural popular quarterback of the football team who's getting eyed out by the entire cheerleader team since he was 12 (pun intended to all teen movies) how did he "figured out" ; he was born and raised lucky to be there. So just like any self made business man, listening to those who “learned the ropes” …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:48 PM
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I mean, unles you were extremely unsucessful for a long period of time and through your entire early adulthood and then you became sucessful, your "figuring it out" is not really relevant. I wouldn't listen to a big fortune heir how to get rich, cause even though he is rich, he doens't know the first thing about money, in that case. It would be like asking Jesus how to fish when he can just raise his hands above the water and multiply them at will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:51 PM
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What do you mean "drugged up animals" ? They are posting photos of their cats on some mary jane ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:18 PM
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"229 respondants", there you have it, not a great number ; no information on who's actually asked to answer and not a word on the number of men and women in that sample. I've talked with more than 300 men in the last 2 years and the answers were completely opposite to that poll, strange right ? It looks like the politic polls with 500 respondant trying to tell you who's going to be president.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 01:17 PM
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No ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:55 PM
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It's not misandry to say that men, when given the opportuniy, will behave immorally though ? Or do you consider the Milgram experience to be misandrist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:06 PM
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That's what I said : "And this is one of more than a hundred examples I know." I have hundreds of these examples, happening in all the social environment, at different periods, with people from different backgrounds. But I guess we should burry our heads and look away from empirical patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 05:12 PM
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Recognizing a pattern throught experienced behaviour ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:37 PM
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No, he's right, you are privileged, but much like most privileged people, you are actually oblivious and blind to it. You can actually get multiple dates in a year, you are the one actively dismissing them but you are not privileged ? How does that work ? Cause I know guys that put the most effort they can in finding someone and they can't get a fucking phone number, let alone a single date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 03:43 PM
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"Likeable", "that's why he gets hired for parts", clearly you know nothing about hollywood. because why should people want to hang out/work with someone unlikeable etc? A lot of likeable and laid back, cool, unattractive guys, most of the time they make good friends, they're not seeked out as partners, it's just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:02 PM
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Yes we do. You are the one showing us an example of a rich ugly man marrying a probably trophy/forced wife in the 70's thanks to his power/money/status. So, basically, you are the one telling us that unattractive guy cannot get a loving wife in today's world and you give us an example of a forced relationship as an alternative. Really, this says more about you than you might be ready to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:04 PM
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This. Last sunday I was at a friends appartment for a party, I stayed the night cause I was drunk, we hear his neighboors come home in the early morning. The man goes to bed and the women knock on the door, she enters the room already a bit drunk, ask for a beer, starts to touch my friend and ask if they can fuck with eachother, he refuses and listen to her bullcrap. She is already sleeping with her boss ; she asked my friends multiple times if they could fuck and of course, it was because her h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:16 PM
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Okay dude, stop projecting your rotted self on others, it's just cringe. Now if you wanna learn something, go check out the normal laws of distribution in statistics, I cannot replace your failed education system. Peace on you nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:59 AM
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Okay, so you don't understand simple maths. Even if what you said about women dating 'above their league' is true he's now attractive to all the 0/10-4/10 women. That's where you are in the wrong, read again : "Women are valued on the dating market, so they can date in an upper league ; men are not valued in the dating market, so they more than often date in under league. Which mean the average man league is now under average women and the under avegage men league is non existant." Women in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:50 AM
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He is more attractive than he was before, but he is still at the bottom and surpassed by all other men. And there is no "dating pool is bigger", you are under the misconception that people date in a leagues, it is untrue for both men and women. Women are valued on the dating market, so they can date in an upper league ; men are not valued in the dating market, so they more than often date in under league. Which mean the average man league is now under average women and the under avegage men leag…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:40 AM
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If you are attractive enough, without maxing out, to get a relationship, why would you actually max out ? It's like the people with perfect skin using only water teling you "well, I never used any products and look at my skin", well yeah, YOU didn't need it, other people did, simple as that. You just mentioned several things that prove to increase attractiveness. It improves attractiveness, to an extent, if you already have the potential to be improved. Let's be generous and say it can increase …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:44 AM
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Reality : there are plenty of guys that eat well ; workout ; makes effort to dress up ; have lots of hobbies and friends ; go out at least 4 times a week to social events and have a job to afford all of that + on top of that, some actually "looksmax" with skincare ; trained expression ; hair care products and all that BS. And yet they don't interest any woman ... why is that ? Simply because they are not attractive or unlucky, and no amount of working on themselves is going to change that for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:41 AM
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And he was born in 1957, so he grew up in the 60's, a period that is described as the worst for women's right in today's narrative. So, the guy that isn't conventionally attractive (but still has some features that are greatly looked for, such as height), needed to be rich ; a worldwide movie actor and lived in a society where women needed marriage so that he could get a wife. And they don't even see how it contradicts with their own ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:33 AM
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I mean that's exactly what most men have been saying for all these years no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:33 PM
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a victim of your own choices (repeatedly low-value women) Wouldn't that be what we call victim blaming then ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:57 AM
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Reality : Women want men that appears to share their emotions ; struggles ; etc. But they don't want to actually have to deal with it, that's all. Think of your emotions as a valve, women wants you to open and release a little bit of steam so that they can feel "emotionally connected with you", they don't want you to open and see all the steam. Again, it's always about appearances, they want you to be emotional but not so much that they would actually have to do something about it, while, of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:55 AM
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I've seen your other comments and except trying to ragebait people by twisting their words, you are not doing much, so I wish you a good day and hope you take your meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:52 AM
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Did you read the post ? He explains it rather clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:40 AM
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No, the reality is that most orgasm gap happens for casual sex encounters and outside of relationships : -In casual sex, women can't relax themselves as much, it's harder for them to climax in that setting -In casual sex, men don't know the women they have face to them enough to make them reach climax on their own -Most of the time, the men who actually indulge in casual sex are the ones who can "get some", it's a very limited number of men and since they have no problems getting casual sex, why…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:25 AM
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I don't understand because I like cooking and I do it all the time, like this is normal for me, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:30 PM
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Don't know, I do that practically everyday, even though I don't eat breakfast because I'm fasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:11 PM
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All of this is cool and I agree. But we live in a society where men have to pursue women, not the other way around. So if you don't want to "lose" at this game, you do what women want and respond to, aka "grand gestures". Men are not feeding the narrative, they follow it plain and simple. Yes, we could actually try to push back against it ; let's be generous and say we can unite a million men to this cause, that's big, but that's still only a million against all the other men taht are ready to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 10:22 AM
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Here is the trick : We (men) don't want to keep pushing the narrative that we need to "conquer kingdoms" for the women we love. Just as we don't want to be providers, strong, protective, tall, confident, always sure of ourselves and compose in any situation. BUT, that's what is expected of us. So, either we start to fight against these expectations and we live a lifetime of mockery and loneliness ; or, we actually comply and we fit in society, attract women and spend our lives with the woman we …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:45 AM
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Your idea of grand gesture is buying donuts ? And some random dudes made a joke so suddenly all of society is corrupted to believe what you did wasn't romantic ? Waht you did was cute and a proof of love, that wasn't "romantic", which is a word that carries emotions, settings, mood and achievement. Sorry but that's the way society has seen romanticism since the dawn of time, you're not gonna make every human on earth believe another sense to a word. Hell, we even saw men conquering kingdoms for …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:31 AM
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https://www.hiddendominion.com/the-online-dating-pig-experiment/ An experiment that modified pictures of a woman to add body hair everywhere and give her litteral pig features. She had more matches and conversations than the average man in years of dating apps. You take the conclusion you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:21 AM
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Since when remembering your man likes falafel romantic ? It's not a manipulation from medias, it's just inherent to everyone, no man will considered romantic because he remembers his woman love bordeaux wine and bought her a bottle, it's expected of him. making him food, cleaning for him, keeping track of thing for him and many more So, when women requires men that do at least half the house core, these men are actually being romantic ? Cause trust me, you don't even get a thank you when you do …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:11 AM
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If the men you insulted really were dangerous, you would not intend to insult them. You only insult the men you know will not, or at least have the less chance to, physically attack you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:09 PM
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Ok kid, don't forget to brush your teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:17 PM
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If you simply don't know the first thing when it comes to finance and economy, just say so, we won't be angry, but stop embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:44 PM
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my great spermdonor left and abandoned his wife and kids - so you never know how fatherhood may change someone Are you telling me your mother should have watch for signs and chose better ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:18 PM
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You date for marriage, so for the long run. The guy doesn't need a car now, what tells you that, in the future, when you will be married and have kids, he will not actually buy a car for his family cause he will need it at that time and that would make more sense than taking the bus with his wife and kids ? Is everything carved in marble ? Is there no man in the world that changed details in their life to suit with their new father/husband way of life ? Is there not one man that stopped smoking …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:58 PM
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Don't know, I'm Christian and from a western country, but you seem to have some hate and resentment toward blacks, muslims and arabs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:31 PM
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Your discourse speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:27 PM
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So, african and eastern cultures are "failed" compared to western culture ? (which is basically american way of style anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:22 PM
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So, in western countries, you can't find men coming from eastern cultures or african cultures ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:13 PM
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Except if you come from a culture where it is traditional to be polygame for a man and monogame for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:05 PM
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This, like yeah, they may be pick me girls, but ultimately, they're being picked and married, so it's working for them right ? While the "baby mama" type are on apps, forums, tv shows, social media, calling out and raging on the "uncapable men" that simply don't want to take care of another man's child. She's basically upset that this kind of women actually succeed in finding a man, securing him and building a family with him ... but remember, the first obstacle to women's happiness is the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:58 PM
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No, I come from a place where I actually needed a personal vehicule and a 25 minutes route to the nearest grocery store, I've been driving since the age of 14, driving a car since the age of 16, owning a car since the age of 18 and when I moved in a city with good public transport at the age of 24, I just sold my car because it was a financial hussle. The woman I was answering to claimed that a man that doesn't have a license and a car is some kind of uncompetent disabled, I call out this attitu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:51 PM
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So you are a man that believe that you cannot learn anything that was taught as "feminity" to women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:48 AM
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So, in short, you claim that gender is a social construct and that there is no masculinity, but at the same time you are telling us that there is a feminity that is inherent to women and can't be learn by men ? So, in your mind, masculinity=n and feminity=n+1, therefore feminity>masculinity ? That's some level of bullshit that we never saw even in the most radicalized part of feminists movements, makes me wonder if you are actually secure in your feminity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:56 AM
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Competence is : to be able to transport yourself from a point A to a point B. Wether you do that with a car ; a bus ; a train ; an uber or a plane doesn't matter, what matters is that you can actually transport yourself. Or are you advocating that, even though he's living in a city (poluuted) area with good public transportation (fight against pollution), he should buy a car and drive himself (polluting even more) for the sake of women ? You want him to pollute more, exploit underpaid workers an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:42 AM
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Having a car is a personality trait now ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:34 AM
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So, you just sat down with a man at a café, you just met him and you tell yourself "he came with the bus, he doesn't have a car to transport me to the hospital to give birth" ? Either you are already pregnant, in which case what are you doing in a date ? Or you are a maniac that projects to family life with a man you just met. Or even simpler, you are just a shallow human that internalized patriarchal expectations for men and are unwilling to let them go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:32 AM
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So, you believe that inflation and economical projection are as unbelievable as a genie in a bottle or the earth becoming Pluto (which is not even a planet) ? And you dare use "low IQ" or "Moron" as an insult against other people little boy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:16 AM
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So, you do believe that if tomorrow the price of healthy, whole food increase by 240%, it's still going to be easy to be healthy ? You lack basic understanding of economy or you consider undernutrition to be healthy perhaps ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:09 AM
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With the price of whole healthy food rising with inflation, it is actually harder to be healthy now than it was when the 30% of obese people started to be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:51 AM
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This. I don't even live in the US, I live in Europe, where taxes of the stock market assets are really high and even here, I was able to make more profit than ever and it's still going. But when you've lived off the state tax payer's money for over a decade now, it hits you hard to go back to a world where you have to work, sacrifice and invest wisely to get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:47 AM
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Funny thing is, feminism has brought together whites ; blacks ; hispanic and asians men to vote together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:43 AM
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To be fair, I wouldn't give a rifle with live rounds to a guy that immediately thought of mass shooting after another told him that men gamble more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:31 AM
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He gave you the example that men gamble more, you answer with an example of a mass shooting terrorist. Fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:29 AM
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Who said the system was biased against HIM particulary ? Can you even read what I wrote ? I'm arguing the system in general is biased against men, in her particular case, her father should not have custody of any child, in fact he should even be in prison. Does that mean that, because of one example of an abusive father, the court of law should be biased to think that all fathers are abusing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:50 PM
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My country actually provides stats on the actual demands of father during divorces and the actual outcome. It is also written in our laws that the base outcome of divorce is primary custody + alimony to the mother, regardless of the faults in divorce, the demands of the father, the incomes of the father. You pick the example of your deadbeat uncle, cool, just like she picked the example of her deadbeat father, how is it relevant to justify existing unfair treatment in a COURT OF LAW, you know, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:32 PM
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Again, read the rest of my messages, I pointed out the fact that most of the time, it was internalize social and family patterns. If you see that as "blaming women", do you think the social studies on copying social and familial behaviours are blaming people by explaining the cause of their actual behaviours ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:25 PM
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Look the rest of the comments I had with her, I never blamed her stepmother for anything, nor any woman for that matter, and I didn't ignored her trauma caused by her father. I'm merely saying that having traumas from your father is not an argument to justify the lack of recognition of every other father's rights or fair treatment in a court of law. It would be like picking women killing their babies to justify that we don't act on men actually beating their wives, that doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:16 PM
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Ugly or beautiful never had anything to do with evolution, it is a luxury to have an attractive partner, not a requirement. By following your logic, if men only follow biological and evolutionary behaviour, then having a child is more important than having a child with a beautiful woman, considering the fact that the number of beautiful women is actually limited, a lot of men will have to chose to have children with ugly women, taht's the biological law. It's obese women who will have trouble in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:36 PM
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I'm the one with an ideological dogma when I only advocated that systemic discrimination, biased and unfair treatments exists, even in a court of law, and that having a deadbeat father is no reason to dismiss these problems ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 10:28 PM
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They wouldn't prefer them, they wouldn't mind, that's all. "they have lowered their standards instead of being single", how eactly being okay with most people and just searching for connections over physical features lowering your standards ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:44 PM
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You have an actual world wide, multi billion media propaganda to make these kinds of women seen as beautiful as the others and you are shamed to say otherwise. Hell, even the fitness industry is using "plus size model". We even have obese women beauty pageants now. Where is all of that for men ? And these are not arganized by women, they are funded by men that capitalize on that kind of behaviour. So we have multi billion worldwide campaigns to make these kinds of women accepted by society, wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:33 PM
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"I don't need to stop believing men are collectively closeted terrorists", yep, we are on the internet guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:18 PM
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Yes, and how does that have anything to do with the average men ? Or the subject ? You stated that "not caring about women's problem means you have no relations with any women", I asked you if the same could be said with "not caring about men's problems" and you answered that men are basically terrorists who likes to threaten and murder women. And here we are now. Again, did you take your meds ? Are you ragebaiting ? Or do you really believe the average men is a terrorist ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 09:08 PM
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So, as long as it is not a wide world news, it's not relevant, even with the hundreds of women that relates to her in the comments ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:54 PM
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"And you think my stepmom is to blame for being almost killed." Where exactly did I say that ? You didn't even mention your stepmother, you didn't even mention how she almost got killed, where the fuck do you take that I blamed her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:53 PM
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It's not my "retelling", it's just what happened : https://x.com/OneGermanVtuber/status/1922601475626197490
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:50 PM
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So we went from men to murderers to terrorists. Did you take your meds ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:49 PM
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Where is the victim blaming exactly ? You are giving us the example of your deadbeat piece of crap father, to jusify that every men in a courtroom should be treated unfairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:48 PM
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So, because your deadbeat father was abusing, an identity theft and being unfaithful (funny how this type of men are always able to get multiple women while having children and being in relationships btw) ; it is therefore normal that loving, caring, repsonsible father be treated unfairly in family courts ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:40 PM
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So, all men are oppressors, taking away your rights and murdering people in the streets ? That's the kind of statements that actually antagonize people to your cause, but if you want to live in this kind of delusional nightmare, by our guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:37 PM
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So ... If men's issues do not affect you at all it means you have no male relationships in your life ... right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 08:31 PM
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Exactly what I'm saying, but if women collectively agree on that statement, why do they make it men's fault ? There is no amount of "work on yourself" that will make them attractive in the eyes of women, so why are they taken responsible when it is pure luck ? Why do they get insulted when they are not responsible ? Why are they made fun of everytime they try to vent out their negative emotions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:15 PM
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Physically speaking, I could date between 70 to 80% of women I see. Then, to find them "realtionship material", I would actually have to speak to them and see if we connect, that's why I'm not on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:06 PM
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We were only talking about physical features, so yeah I could date them if after talking to them I like their personnality, don't see the point of your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:58 PM
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They did not, they just ended the first date with a "you're too short".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:35 PM
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Again, not my experience or any of my friends. Last week, we were at a party, my friend goes to the toilets, he comes back with another group of people, all strangers, to hang out with us. I don't know how he did that but he managed to befriend them in 10 minutes and he talked all night with a one of the women of the group. When she joined us, she complimented him and asked why we were at this party, she answered she was looking for new people to hang out, and plus if vibing. So we have my frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:37 PM
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I live in Europe, here only 17% of all adults are obese, and only 24% are overweight. Physically speaking, I don't have another really clear turn off, so it's really case by case and you can't have a stat on so particular features. For the rest, I don't care about boobs, ass, height, hair color, eye color ... The only other big thing I dislike is the "dubai model", like I call them, the kind of women with straight black hair ; big lips and surgery on boobs,hips and ass. But these kind of women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:31 PM
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So, basically : "Live a life of loneliness, misery, bad self esteem. Keep having the impression that you are missing your life while others can actually enjoyr it. And at the end of the road, when erveyone will have had their fun and will search for everything else, more stability and less passion, you will maybe have your shot." Great advice. And that's not even considering the fact that inexperienced in dating/relationship/sex is actually a turn off, or even a "red flag" for most women, so ano…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:26 PM
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Not what I have witnessed with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:20 PM
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Not what I have witnessed with my friends. +This : or otherwise height filtered out Height filtering is actually the same between IRL and apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:19 PM
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We see/hear/read stories of women complaining about the men they were in realtionship with everyday. We can see in the streets lazy ass men with no style and no hygiene treating women like granted, because they can, and they are still successful. Hell, we've even had a story about a woman in a relationship with a man who didn't want to wipe his ass properly and was leaving shit traces in their bed, she wanted to change him, every women told her to break up, when she described him, every women st…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:18 PM
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You are under the misconception that dating struggles correlate with dating excpectations, that's not the average man experience. The more dating prospect you have doesn't give you a higher success rate. Most of the time even, the men who find most women attractive are the ones who internalized early that they will have less success and so tried to socialize with a lot more people, hence finding attraction in more physical features.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:00 PM
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Cool bro. Now reread this : The reality is, some men are lucky enough to require 0 efforts ; a tiny minority just have to change habits and the rest can do a million efforts and still be unsucessful, but they will be told it is their fault because it suits the narrative better. As I said, you are going to see people succeed on app, or irl, or the two, and some won't. But when these men will go IRL and won't have success, what are you going to tell them ? They worked on themselves, went on apps, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:55 PM
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I genuinely find most women attractive, like maybe 80% of the photos I'm given. It always shocks my women friends that I find so many women attractive and they are always upset when I don't agree on women the one they find attractive themselves. Most of the time, we don't agree on their friends, so they are probably biased. All of that to just say that I can clearly see men finding most women attractive, especially on apps where most of them have make up + filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:10 PM
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Yet most men are actually turning to apps because of their lack of success IRL and the accessibility to a lot more of people in the apps. So, we have unsucessful men that search for solutions ; they self improve ; they go IRL ; they have no success ; they go on apps ; they have no success. What the hell are they supposed to do ? How is it their fault when they did everything they could ? We just have to accept they had bad luck in life and antagonizing them by assuming disgusting/negative things…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:02 PM
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While this is true that dating apps are actually harming dating in general and men in particular. Do you really believe that this will be different for these men IRL ? If they are rejected on apps, they will be most likely rejected the same way IRL and for the same reasons. You give the example of "a man that had a straight up deformity", do you think he willhave better success IRL ? The reality is we came at a point where monst men won't succeed in dating, period. What is upsetting them is prec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:42 PM
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That's what many people have been saying in this sub and elsewhere. It is pure luck and some people won't be lucky. But when you vent out about it, because you need to vent it out, you are faced with stupid made up phrases ; insults ; mockery ; assumptions on your way of life or thinking. And when the people that get insulted or mocked actually take it badly, fair from them, they are faced with "just come to peace with your situation, it's not that bad". But here's the trick, how people can come…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:32 PM
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Farmers gives you food, highways are a necessity to travel and import goods to your home. So it is actually essential to your life. Single people shouldn't pay taxes because they are not married and don't have kids, that doesn't make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:27 PM
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The comment was answering another comment that was talking about "that if it's available, you (not the royal you, you personally) have access to it. Maybe not right away, maybe not easily, but if you "perform requirement well enough" you will get the thing." Whoch is precisely the just world fallacy, so you are being defensive over someone that was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:23 PM
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So in your culture it is traditional to set up your kids in arranged marriages but not traditional to be a decent human beings and not drink, gamble or take drugs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:23 PM
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If you cannot see how it is pure luck to have : 1. A man that sets you up with a woman, 2. A woman that accept your bad behaviour, 3. A woman that accept your behaviour and still marries you to build a family, 4. A woman that doesn't divorce you when you do not change even when you become a father. Then there is no point. We live in a world where a man can get dump and next over any little detail and you can't understand how lucky your father was, even when he never had to actually do anything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:46 AM
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So, your father had the luck that your grandfather set him up with a woman ; he was lucky this woman got pass his damaging habits ; he was lucky she sticked around just because he offered romantism even though he didn't seem to have provided good parenting. I don't know what you are trying to flex here ? That your deadbeat dad was still able to have a woman getting married to him until the end even when he didn't make any effort to go get her and was just set up with her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 10:07 AM
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But that's the thing, the post and yourself are presenting her as "replacing the man" and the men commenting as "outraged by the replacing". While in reality, she was the one being replaced and rejected, the men in the comments were actually saying she was really insistant by asking out this man 5 times, even when he said no multiple times (funny that btw) and she was the one being hurt and outraged, pushing her to have an irrational behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:59 PM
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I mean, I was on the post you are mentioning and actually, the op was presenting her as replacing the man while it was clear that he was never actually interested in this woman. Most men under the publication agreed that the man rejected the woman who threw herself at him and she was frustrated so she went on tinder with the first match she found. So, no, men are not upset the women they reject are moving on. Though, most men don't have women proposing dates to them and cannot afford to reject t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:47 PM
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That's exactly what I said "buddy".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:56 PM
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Give me one example on this post or even this sub of a man saying "I'm adding you to my rapist list".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:53 PM
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Funny to say "men here are pathetic", when you answer to a woman married to a man who's not even capable to throw the trash, clean his car or eat proper food. But at the same time, each and every time a man comes here venting about his unsucessful dating life, he is faced with "go take a shower you trash bag". For years women gave a list of what men must do to attract women, the men checked all the boxes without succes, they now come here asking why it doesn't work and are faced with disdain and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:55 PM
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The link you provided showed more distribution between racial minorities. So, by following the basic stats on race in the US, either they are immigrants ; poorer or more inclined to drug usage (since drug usage is included in the stats you provided).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:57 PM
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Always funny to see taht some people here cannot come to even imagine the slightest possibility taht these men are actually decent human beings with simply no luck. No, no, no, if you cannot get laid, you must be a piece of trash human being who doesn't even take showers. And you are actually making Op's point, you are assuming something is wrong with them even before assuming they are out of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:46 PM
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Got to the virgin or forever alone subreddit, most of these men are talking about mutilating themselves or suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:43 PM
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When you get mocked, insulted, dehumanized, bullied, abused because of that one aspect of your life, not only do you make it a bigger issue than it is, but you also get more resentment. And when that negative outcome is coming from a lot of women claiming they want to make the world a better progressive place, while still using toxicity, you get an even bigger problem. I had a woman on this very sub, on this very morning, telling me that women should have the right to bully unsucessful men when …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:40 PM
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Imagine hating on all the homosexuals in the world for 20k gay men living in the US, which for the most part are immigrants with no acess/education to STD's protection, that also take in account infection by usage of drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:32 PM
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And yet, it actually makes them flip and hysterical when you claim that. Like it is absolutely impossible to ask a woman to eat well ; restrain her sexual urges (While they claim it's not a vital need btw) and control their hormonal roller coster.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:30 PM
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I went on the UN survey on global HIV transmissions and bisexual and homosexual represent only 41% of the new infections in 2022, the rest were heterosexual, so no, BS. You don't have to hide your transphobia and homophobia behind made up stats, you look like a far right activist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:28 PM
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Exactly, it's not like a pink sign of a stickman with a dress will actually prevent a rapist to commit a crime, regardless of gender. The only point that could be made would be prisons, because you are actively putting biological men with dangerous behaviour in a closed space with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:18 PM
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I mean, if you are both white people, why would you question it if your baby is also white ? But if two balck people have a white baby, you might question things wouldn't you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:13 PM
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OP is claiming to not be homophobic, yet believes homosexuals are spreading STD's because they sleep with person of the same sex ... like wtf, we are back in the 80's with the HIV turmoil.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:08 PM
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Feminist groups have pushed the transgender narrative for years, making it a fight that trans women should be considered as women and women only because "you are not born a woman, you become one". Now that it is practically illegal to say a person with a penis is not a woman, to the point some highly educated, high responsability people are affraid to define a woman in medical/biological term during interviews, you come here and justify that it is "fair for us to be transphobic because ...". It …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:07 PM
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Way to break our balls (pun intended), by overcorrecting a metaphore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:59 PM
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Around 10-14% of men are tall. The number of tall men that are also athletic, as educated or more than the average women and single, is actually way less than that. Then, they would have to meet, click and not be dumped by the guy to be in a LTR. That's why most women are unhappy in their dating lives. Meanwhile, a guy ask for a cute woman that will not get on his nerves, and most guys need to actually accept taking shit from their women to stay with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:52 PM
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If tall is 6ft and above, which is actually the new baseline for tallness in the non metric systems, yes around only 14% of men are tall, varies from regions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:49 PM
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"deserve" What did he do to deserve anything ? He was born that way, he never had to work for it, worse, some people actually had the genes to be taller but were underfed due to the family they were born in. Did short men chose to be a certain height or be born in poor families ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:45 PM
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So, basically, she threw herself multiple time to a man, he rejected her everytime and to boost her ego up she downloaded tinder and went straight away on a date with the first horny mf she could find ? A man that will probably treat her poorly and, making her rant about "men are trash". And in your mind, it is the man that was replaced and the woman who won ? Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:26 PM
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You can actually call out people who are assuming the worst base on an irrelevant aspect of their lives, that's actually already a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:22 PM
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Yeah. But I'm talking about men that are just posting to vent out that theya re unlucky in dating and want to change their situation. You are telling me that the people who are doing that are hateful antisocial losers. So again, you are creating a narrative around them to rationalize your hate on them, but that narrative does not exist in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:14 PM
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Again, I'm telling you they are unlucky in their love life, you are telling me THEY MUST BE antisocial, hateful and don't take accountability. That's exactly what I said with "disgusting assumptions", you are creating a narrative that doesn't exist to rationalize your hate on people that are just unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:11 PM
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Calling them losers, just because they can't get a relationship, before they even start to say "hateful shit", but still assuming they are horrible human beings, based on the state of their love life. And you don't see a problem with that, incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:03 PM
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"Involuntary celibate". You are talking about misogynists, which can be incels, but are not always the same people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:48 PM
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Basically saying "we cannot be sure", for every little thing is an admission that you don't want to gor beyound the surface of a subject, which is your right, but again, just go to any post about men struggling to date in this very sub and you will see what I'm talking about. Just telling "well, I didn't see them" or "it could be men behind these women accounts" is just a way to dismiss an existing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:47 PM
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I trully believe this is the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:41 PM
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Ok, this is a definition problem. If they don't have a relationship but want one, they are incels, that's what the word means. And if they have a social circle that values them, how is that being socially unsucessful ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:33 PM
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I don't know what you're talking about. The post you shared is not a man innocently venting, so it's not an example. Heck, we don't even know if those were all women making those comments. Some could even be men pretending to be women and punching at other men for fun. Ok, so if a male account posts some fucked up shit about women deserving SA and rape, can we assume this must be a women behind the account, trying to trigger people on the internet ? I mean, we can never know for sure. For the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:31 PM
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We are not talking about being "made fun of", and even then, why do women would feel the need to actually make fun of men venting in forums dedicating to their problems, if they didn't hate them ? But here, we are talking with hateful stuff, it can go from "you must be somegarbage who don't even take showers" to "you are unworthy of life, you should suicide". How is this not ahte ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:18 PM
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So, if a man is unsucessful he must absolutely be agressive and weird ? He can't just be unlucky ? Not all socially unsuccessful men are incels. So you are telling me a man is socially unsucesful but can still get a partner and a relationship ? How does he meet with his partner if he is socially unsucessful ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:15 PM
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I mean everytime a man vent about his struggles finding a partner, he is faced with hateful comments, disgusting assumptions and insults from women. If this is not hate, I don't want to see what they would be capable to do to the person they actually hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:05 PM
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If they were attractive ENOUGH, they wouldn't be incels from the start. And are you really telling me that men who are unsucessful in dating by the time they are 25-30 are equal to murderers ? Cause most murderers were actually sucessful in dating, that's how they approached their victims in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:03 PM
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Error 404 women OP not found.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:18 AM
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How does your education affect it? My parents educated me in a way that put honesty, moral, good behaviour and honor above everything else, while some people are educated with grey moral behaviour being considered ok. For example : When we went shopping at the groceries store when I was a kid and their would be an error on the amount we would have to pay, even the slightest one, my parents would make me go and explain to me that it is very important to report it and pay full, even though the err…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:54 PM
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That’s not morally gray it’s morally wrong. In my opinion, it's more grey than totally wrong, cause even if she said she "wanted a relationship", we were not actually in a relationship, so I can't really demand exclusivity from her. But it still sucks to play on multiple grounds. Everyone does morally grey things. No, not everyone, not me, not many people I know, depends on your education ; culture and personal values. Men also do a lot of morally wrong things like sleeping with other women. Aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:21 PM
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For example : A woman I had a crush on was being very upfront and showed strong interest in me, going on dates, spending time alone at our respective places, she even said she was interested in having a relationship, I started to become really attached. Eventually, before I was too attached, I learned from a friend that she was doing the same thing with a pal of mine, telling him she wanted to be in a relationship with him, going on dates, of course in secret and neither the guy or me knew. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:58 PM
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I'm friend with men that are in relationships and get cheated on or have to suffer some nasty shits. I also have a few female friends that cheated or did morally grey things. And I never said "ALL WOMEN" aare cheaters, I just said that the number of people who cheated or did morally questionable things, both men and women, is too high for it to not be a risk you have to actually think of. And trust me, most of the time, you don't have to extract any confessions, they are either proud/not bothere…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 01:00 PM
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I just want a woman that I find cute and with whom I can share some common hobbies with. The only thing beside that would be loyalty, I can understand that love or the idea of love fades away but in that case, just end things before doing anything else, simple. Unfortunately, all the women I know cheated or did nasty things to men and don't see the problem in that, even when you point it out to them, so this is a risk I'll have to take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:03 AM
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The real thing is, most men that went from 3 to 5 (again we are being generous) would be happy with a 4-5 women, but the 4-5 women is in the dominant position, so she doesn't want a 4-5 guys but above, especially if the guy needs constant work to stay at 5. Add to that makeup + filters + women clothes and you get why most men struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:44 AM
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Don't know how it is in your country, but in mine, college is almost free and different classes are actually only meters away from each other. For exemple, law, art, musicology, litterature and business are actually in the same department, same building, we eat at the same cafeteria, we share the same library, we have shared classes/credits and so we are doing a lot of parties/meetups together. Which on paper is nice because you actually meet a lot of people from a lot of different backgrounds (…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:11 PM
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College, bars, parties, meet ups, shared hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:58 PM
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Simply because dating advices are in 2 categories : Look advices, character advices. -Look : Lets you get the attention, the first contact, the first thing they will see, but it only works if you are already able to attract someone in the first place. Useless for the "bottom" guys, let's be generous and say you can get 2 mor point on your base note out of ten, if you start at 6, you can become an 8 but if you start at 3, you can become a 5. Now a 6 already can attract people, the rest is just bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:57 PM
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I've seen perfectly respectable looking, good income, interesting men lowering their standards to overweight, not so good looking, unemployed, lazyass, neurotic women, that didn't give them any success and we actually saw them get relationships with good looking, fit, high employed, very educated men. The game is just rigged.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:47 PM
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Or maybe your definition of "forcing", is just basically going out and trying to date. You didn't quit on dating/finding a relationship, you quit on the dating game, whish is actually to quit trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:02 PM
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You said you got success when you actually quit the chase, so yeah, you did quit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:31 PM
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Since when being a sex worker = being a criminal exactly ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:58 AM
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The criminal was arrested (most cops are men), tried (most justice workers are men), put in prison (most guards are men). Men already did their part for society, they actively isolated and took the rights of the criminal, in order to preserve social order and show everyone else what punishment awaits this kind of behaviour. Then you are telling us "Women support that behavior.", after men did their job, and you want that support to be the accountability of men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:56 AM
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That seems logical. Until you realise their sucess doesn't stop while they are notoriously known convicts. They may have the personality to pick up women, but how the fuck cna they maintain these relationship when they are known criminals ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:49 AM
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When we talk about lonely men who had/have/will probably have 0 romantic prospects despite being sweet and caring, women always replies that they are champions to feel crazy/creepy/unhinged guys and taht's why they will instantly know something is wrong with him and not date him. But then you see an equal proportion of women claiming their partners are abusers, so, are you able to vet out or not ? If we follow the first assessment, then that means women ignored the signs they sensed and went any…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:54 AM
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So, when you actually quit the chase ? Kinda contradict there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:47 AM
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Same old story, the unsucessful/unlucky one is deemed responsible in every case, and if he says he did nothing wrong, he is lying. Funny how you all act like the redpilled bullshitters who always tell "women are lying, I know better that what they are claiming here." I've seen men, with my own eyes, getting ban from sports club because they asked a woman from the club out ... while all the club was drinking a beer in a bar. No disrespect, no harrassment, no creepy behaviour, the guys just said "…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:43 AM
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Are you really asking "why around 20% of a population that is essential to society will actively lose at the one quest most people has aspired, aspire and will aspire in life would be interesting, or even a problem" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:11 PM
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All the new dietery add has "plus size models" promoting them, just like the sports adds, gym adds, so not really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:04 AM
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Have you seen mutlibillion companies paying for adds stating that being fat is ugly or bad ? Even gym brands have "plus size" models nowadays. Have you seen articles/editos in the news about fat = ugly/bad ? You're not even allowed to say being fat is a health problem in some cases. Have you seen cultural productions promotting bodybuilding ? Nope, never, not even once. Have you seen sates fundings for promotting bodybuilding/fatloss ? Only Japan did that, they were called out by all the western…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:12 PM
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Inferiority complex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:06 PM
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"Niche internet movement" supported by multi billion companies ; mass media propaganda ; representation in cultural productions and of course, states/suprastates insitutions fundings. None of that is at the benefit of any men btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:04 PM
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In a date : "Personally, I don't like fat women." How is that an insult ? How is that a mockery on a particular individual ? How is that discrimnation against all fat women ? Just like a women, in a date, who will say : "Personally, I don't like short men." That means she doesn't want to date short men, that doesn't mean she hates on every short men, mock them, insult them or discriminate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:14 PM
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So you are making up an insult and a state of mind to conform to your little narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 04:17 PM
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Thre is a difference between preference for tall men and actively mocking bald men. Or are you telling us that women who say "I only date tall men" are actually insulting and mocking short men by only saying that ? Thus making us entitled to defend short men from that mockery ? I stand up for my friends when they are actively mocked or insulted, not when they don't correspond to a woman's preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 03:06 PM
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And funny that men don't get "bicurious", only women, isn't it? What are you on with that ? I've seen more bicurious men in my life than I've seen bicurious women. Just as I have known more men doing MMF than women doing MFF.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:35 PM
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Sexuality is a spectrum, yet all of a sudden, we need to label everyone and it's impossible for a woman to have a bicuriosity and wanting to experience with other women without her being in the bi or lesbian case. It must be an enslaved woman doing things she doesn't like for her biggoted husband. The so called liberal tolerant people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:17 PM
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This is some high level of rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:07 PM
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Your problem lies in the "reality" part. What reality ? Whose reality ? You are talking about a general objective reality that must exist somewhere and you deem all the people that disagree with you wrong and tell them to "go walk outside". Well guess what, most of us did, I did, and what I found in "reality" (as in mine) was worse than what is said on this sub. The fact that your own experience is different from others own experience doesn't make it more or less true, nor more or less the "real…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:08 PM
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Maybe because it is a "question for women", so it wouldn't make much sense to ask "Hey women of the subs, does your change on women situation changed when you had a daughter ?".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:05 AM
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Except it's the women that called them "incels", they did not call themselves anything, nor virgin or celibate, cause they believe it doesn't define them, apparently it's not the popular belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:02 PM
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Yeah, I know about this "forum". But what I don't understand is : on one hand, we are told that only the "mysoginistic" will be labelled as incels, cause they deserve it and the others will just be "virgins/celibates" ; on the other hand, as soon as they are virgins/celibates, they are labelled as incels, even though they show no signs of negativity. So my question is, how are you supposed to have normal interactions if you are deemed a bad person just because of superficial minor "traits" of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:49 PM
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Tht's what they said, and they were labelled "incels", with all the stigma that comes with it, for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:29 PM
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Ok, guess you know my friends, their behaviour, their character and their lives better than me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:27 PM
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But if they are not virgin but still involuntary celibate ? That's the case of most men I know and they defenitely have a stigma because of their lack of experience or long period of celibate, some of them are even not that long and yet most women they try to connect with tell them it's been too long for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:18 PM
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Most virgin men I know have no attitudes and are not obnoxious, yet most women still have a problem with that, same old story.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 06:15 PM
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So how do you call an involuntary celibate that doesn't hate women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:11 AM
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But then that doesn't make sense. If you won't have any situationship with a man just because he tells you he is a vrigin but you will if doens't disclose the information, then that means that there were no problem to begin with. So why do you negate virgin men from your life if him not telling you he is a virgin wouldn't be a problem ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:09 AM
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And when they will have ths "fullfilling life" (assuming their life isn't already fullfilled), what will they do when most women will, like you, be repulsed by their inexperience ? You'll tell them "grow the fuck up" then too ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:02 AM
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Nothing really, but at least stopping the "it's all your fault, you didn't do what you should have done", when it's just bad luck ? Edit : BTW, my 2 comments apply for both men AND women, go to the FA sub and see how women are also treated badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:59 AM
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"Love and sex is entirely free will." "There are things you can do to improve your genetic hand" "but your effort also doesn't and shouldn't guarantee you a win." So, if even with all the efforts in the world there is still a chance that you will never have love or sex, then it's not enirely free will ... Which means that there will be losers and winners in romance, implying the losers are victims of badluck. Now cross that information with the saying "aLl YoU nEeD iS tO bEtTeR yOuRsElF aNd Be C…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:43 PM
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The timeline is actually given to us by the day/hours. It is stated that the agressive posts he made were prior to the vents of the first episode, while the bullying happened months before he made these posts. So the timeline that is presented to us : Jamie asks the girl out -> she mocks him -> he is bullied by the girls under every posts he makes -> he starts to have an agressive behaviour under some model's pictures. Again, rewatch the show and tell me how is the bullying a reaction to a post …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:02 PM
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Rewatch the show. The bullying from the girls is not known by the officer in the first episode, when he shows the posts Jamie made under the model's pictures. It is known on the second episode, when the officer's son shows his dad the bullying under Jamie's posts of himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:37 PM
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Actually, the scene shows that pointless violence and abuse is everywhere. Someone was killed, sure, but every day in schools over the country kids beat each other viciously and both schools, parents and police are almost impotent to enact and truly positive change. It's a pretty bleak show, but it reflects reality. Yes, but we would have understand that with just the violent scenes in school and her beating up the boy. No point to drag it on with her crying in the counselor's room and going hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:18 PM
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Ok so you didn't watch it or didn't understand it. The posts the girl form his class wrote was under pictures of him and his friends, calling him ugly, unworthy and an incel, it is never stated that they answered to his own posts under the models picutres. The bullying is brought up by the officer's son, not Jamie, because he doesn't want the people to know he was bullied. You are twisting the events depicted to follow your narrative of "it was fair for the girls to bully him", but they didn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:13 PM
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I actually did, it is stated that he posts some sort of comments, agressive or sexual, under models pictures, but that's not where the bullying is happening. If it was, then the officers would have seen the comments, but he needed his son to show him after. In the second episode, it is stated that the officers didn't know about the comments of the girls ; that it is the officer's son that shows him ; that these comments where posted under pictures of him and his friends and that it concerned him…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:04 PM
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It's actually the police duty to apprehend her after such violence, not the teachers, so yeah, it would have made sense that they at least say something. What's the point to film her beating a boy for nothing ; being talked to by the counselor ; crying with the counselor ; walking out the counselor's room ; walk out the school to go home without any problem then ? What does that show ? What does that add to the plot ? Nothing, so we only have to assume that she didn't get any consequences becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:59 PM
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Watch the first episode again then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:55 PM
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This just isn't true. She's immediately separated from the rest of the school. She tries to go back to class after it's inferred that she'll be sent for counselling. We see her running down stairs to class, but we don't know what happens after that or what other consequences she'll face. She's not the main character, so we only get to see a glimpse. No consequences then, she is just led to another classroom, from which she can leave however she wants, the counselor even pity her. At the end of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:54 PM
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"interpreted the first episode" There is the problem, it's your interpretation, but it is clearly stated that the girl started bullying him after he asked her to go out with him, not because he posted sexual comments on some model posts. And yes, she pushes him to his limits, hence the reason why he repeatedely asks if she is allowed to ask the questions she is asking. Even if you are not here in a case of therapy, as a therapist, you don't use a person's insecurities against them, that's psycho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:44 PM
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At the end of the episode, you can see her walking home without even her mother being called to come pick her up from school. As you say, it is brutal and could have cause grave consequences on the boy she assaulted, before 2 police officers, who did absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:37 PM
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The problem in the show is that nothing makes sense. -The boy is not into redpill/manosphere influencers, he says it himself, he was bullied by a girl that brought up this shit on him, but somehow they try to convince you he was part of this movement, it's sophism by association -The show presents itself as "neutral", not domonizing any part as evil and any part as good, yet a girl can beat the shit out of an innocent boy, with no reason, before all the school's teacher and admins, before 2 poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 01:31 PM
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Where does it talk about "misogyny" in this study ? You are twisting the words to create a narrative that isn't even in the survey. All the study found out is that, the more a man get sex, the more biased he is with women, ie. the more sex a man gets, the more excusable he finds women. And that's totally logical, the more a guy gets to have sex, the more he will defend women, even when they are wrong, just to get sex again. He's not going to call out the system in which he is a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 11:39 AM
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Lots of words to say "I'm neurotic, I was blind and dumb, but that's every XY genes holder faults"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 08:12 PM
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You're twisting it again, it's not "casual sex with attractive women". It's, the majority of women find only the top percentage of men attractive. You can twist that however you want for I don't know what reason, but that's what is actively recorded in surveys. Is it good or bad ? I don't think it's neither, but everyone is free of their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 08:36 PM
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And that's exactly what the "redpill" is actually saying, nothing more, nothing less. Only that, when you just base yourself on look, women only find the top percentage of men to be attractive. Now, not all women only go for look, but if they want to just have a physical relationship, they will only go for that top percentage. But in order to get to show your other qualities as a man, you have to be validated by look first, if you are not attractive to a woman, you are not going to talk with her…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:37 PM
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You can only be a "sex opportunist" if you are given the opportunity to have sex. Again, you approached men (what kind btw ?), you gave them access to sex too early and too easily (I'm assuming because you strongly desired them, thus following emotions instead of reason), without doing the proper verifications of investment on their part. And you blame all the men for that ? And want them to do the approach and do your thinking job ? How does that work exactly ? By the way, if these men had appr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:31 PM
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Where exactly ? All I see is men complaining that women give easy access to sex to the "bad men", while making extremely difficult to access them for the "good men". I don't know if this is true or not, but when you look at what the woman I answered to responded, it does seem that she gave an easy and early access to "bad men" repeatedely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:25 PM
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"Does it surprise you that only good looking men would be approached?" You are telling us that only the very few attractive men would be approached, which most women deny, if we cross this information with the survey and studies made on the subject, we can say that only 20-30% of men are seen as objectively attractive for women. Or are you saying that you believe the vast majority of men are the "attractive one" that would be approach ? In that case, your first statement that women approaching w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:23 PM
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It's not a surprise for me. But you are admitting that only 20% of men are good looking in the eyes of women. So, stop getting mad and out of your way to disprove a theory you prove everyday with your actions ...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:43 PM
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"The 80/20 rule is an incel, misogynist, bullshit rule, go touch some grass." "Yeah, well, no, if women approach, it's only going to be the top 20% men out there." Splendid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:26 PM
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So you actually DID get results, aka "men who said yes". Men when approaching often just receive a "no", most oft he time in a crueler way than just blatant rejection. You had results, you had "yes", you just chose the men badly and gave them sex too early, not trying to see if they wanted to invest themselves first. Are you seriously blaming men for sleeping with you even though they were not interested when you offer them sex early ? Just ask them out, see if it clicks, if it does, tell them y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:20 PM
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Last time I thought a woman liked me, she told me "Come to the party, it's more fun when you're here" ; "I wanna hang out, do you want to hit a movie then a billboard bar ?" and "I need to visit a friend in your city, she wants me to sleep at her place but we can go in a club and then sleep at yours". I liked her and with such desire for proximity, I thought she was "giving me the signals". Turned out she was having two casual sex relationships on the side and was talking to one guy I know, she …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:15 PM
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Youn understood and picked up the cheat code, now spread the word, especially to the "WhErE aRe ThE gOoD mEn" women, you'll see an improve in life quality for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:06 PM
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The famously known "signals", that not one man alive, except for the upper top of the basker, catch. And these men only catches it because it was an obvious approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:44 PM
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These cases for men are absolutely rare. But then again it happens sometimes, and when it happens, most men will just tell themselves "good for him" ; some might go to him for a congrats or a high five ; many will certainly go and ask for advices, for which the only answer they will get is "just exist brah". So yeah, no, we are not jealous of these men, we want to have a similar woman, not their woman eaxctly, I think this is the difference with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:56 AM
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Call out other women who are mocking, insulting, discriminating virgin/inexperienced guys. If you do not already do this yourself, start seeing virgin/inexperienced men as human beings and don't take that factor in account for judging them as persons. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:46 AM
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Sorry to butt in. The services or attention thing? Isnt that just friendship? It goes both ways. I've sewn guys clothes for them and at another point they've fixed my laptop. If a guy friend flirts with me, i don't class him as a friend. He's an acquaintance. That's the point, it reciprocates, thus it is a friend thing. I've seen a lot of women tell "I just want to be friends" with guys that asked them out, the guys agreed, and they then call them to do lots of things or discuss very intimate su…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:37 AM
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We had a thread on that very topic this past week, almost every woman on there upright insulted OP because he refused to "just be friends" with a woman he asked out and rejected him. They called him a creep, a mysoginist, an opportunist and told him he was basically a trash human beings that "could not connect with a woman when there were no sexual prospect". This was a general consensus. When a man asks a woman and she tells him she can only see him "as a friend", he is in fact put in the "frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 11:44 PM
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"Stop cold approaching women, it's creepy, build a connection with them first." -> Guy meets a woman, is attracted, follow the advice, build a connection, connection only grows his attraction, he asks her out, she friendzones him. "That's your fault, you were not clear with your intentions from the start, she took that for real friendship and then you break her trust by lovebombing her and make it seem you only befriended her to get sex, that's creepy." -> Guy meets a woman, is attracted, is cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:18 PM
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Well, when you see you have quotas for women to attend schools and colleges, and they are more place for women than men, it's kinda hard to tell them that girls are not favoured. In countries with no quotas policies, girls are still favoured on non anonymous exams, but when you have anonymous exams, the disparity between boys and girls is not that great and can be explained with the choices of subjects. The "downside", if you see that as one, is that you will have a lot of domains where women or…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:38 PM
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What we call short today was considered above average 200 years ago, where there was less consideration for social studies at the time. So you are telling me that in a world with social studies awareness, we are craving for "genetical proof" that didn't exist before ? Just the same, fat men were considered more attractive because it was a proof of wealth, fat women were considered to be more attractive because they were more fertile. In ancient greece, the first philosophical civilisation of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:46 PM
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You are stating in your original post that these men are "trying to prove others wrong", and now you think they are looking for people to "disprove them" ? Which are they doing ? And yes, most of these guys are actucally able to pass all the initial struggles steps to be able to date a woman and they are still left out after, which is even more depressing for them, and give them an even worse image of themselves and thier worth. So, having experienced the outcome, why would they still try ? And …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:26 PM
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And yet that correspond with the 60-70% of men having no form of relationship between 18-29 years old, today. You are assuming they will get married in that time span on the basis of a last century behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:20 PM
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2023 - 30 = 1993. As I said, how is this relevant for gen z ? Plus, you overlook the fact that, for various reasons, most people, especially women, wants to settle by the time they approach their 30s, which means they are less regardant on physical features and much more on inner qualities for a long time partners. WHich can explain the disparity between 20s and 30s. But even then, half of these marriages end up in divorces, most of them are initiated by women, which means there is insatisfactio…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:54 PM
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I don't want to help or hurt anyone, I want them to find peace, and most of the time, men will find peace in the truth, because the truth negate any of their questions. And the truth is, in this society, for most of the youg women, the drill goes as this : Physical features > gives access to discussion > inner qualities > result in dating. In short, between a tall and a short man, the tall man will be chosen ; between two tall men, inner qualities will make the difference ; but the catch is, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:50 PM
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Your surveys tracks "daters" up to 60 years old in some pragraphs, how is that relevant to the young men of gen z that are starting dating with their own parameters. Are you arguing that young men are single because they’re disproportionately bald, short, fat and have small dicks ? No, I'm arguing that most young men are average in most areas and under average in some, which makes them struggling to date in any sort of way. Second, are you really asking me why short, fat, bald men with tiny dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:46 PM
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You’re arguing that the extreme end of the spectrum is the rule when that’s not supported by the data. Re-read the 2 last paragraphs. If “most men are not able to attract a woman,” 70% of men wouldn’t be in a relationship. You keep asking for datas, where are the datas for that ? What ages are they actually tracking ? What are they defining as a relationship ? Cause last I checked, datas suggested that there was a growing proportion of young men alone and not able to date. And now, before we con…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:31 PM
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In what way are they actually losers exactly ? And you don't really understand statistics, an average is not a representation. The representation of most statistics, when they have a large number of subjects to test, is a normal law of distribution. Or, in this representation, the majority of subjects are at the exact average or under, the more you go beyound the average and the less subjects may be classified in. Wich means that "statistically speaking", most men are at the exact average or und…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:20 PM
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What is actually being said is that [insert trait] isn’t the ONLY thing that matters. And this is objectively true. Don’t confuse them. First of all, most of the posts we see clearly states taht "it doesn't matter", you are actually the one telling "it's not the only thing that matters". But then again, that's pretty much what I said too : "In short, inner qualities is what will make the difference between 2 equally attractive men, but here is the catch, they are attractive to begin with, thanks…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:14 PM
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Penis size doesn't matter ; height doesn't matter ; baldness doesn't matter ; physique doesn't matter ; attractive facial features doesn't matter ; money doesn't matter. "It only matters when asked in a vacuum." Yep, then explain to us why the short, skinny fat, bald, micro penis, broke guy isn't successful, despite all his other qualities and the efforts he makes to succeed and find a partner. The guys that are obsessed with that and make one post a day here to try to prove, well we don't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:57 PM
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So again, if you have great men in your life then why are you making it a "men issue", you see that when you focus yourself on good people, you find them. Same for your ex, there are plenty of good men around in France, I know plenty of them, most women don't want to date them, at least for now. I've seen one of my friend, the sweetest guy in the world, get turned down because, and I quote the woman, "you are sweet, I would like to date someone like you, but I need a taller man, with a bigger fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:03 PM
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From what I've seen in France, except in extreme social environments, it's the norm. Maybe another of your problem is that you tried to be friends with the wrong men and now rant on reddit on every man alive or dead for your bad choices and decisions ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:50 PM
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Again, not my personal experience, I have a friend that was severly depressed for 5 years. We (me and my group of friend) supported him to go to therapy ; we made sure he was not feeling alone ; we made sure he would come to parties/activities with us ; we listened to his struggles ; we helped him get back to college to get his degree and become a teacher like he wanted to be ... We did everything we could. But we also told him on his behaviour, we made him brutally stop drugs and medication ; q…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:05 PM
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I'm from France. Beauty, in the eyes of women, is mostly genetic. A short, bald man, with no cheeks/jaw bones are, can dress however he wants, he's not going to be attractive or desirable, that doesn't means he's never going to find someone, that just mean they will accpet him "despite that". Style and dressing "high value", which basically means nothing, is already a generic and one of the first answer given to men when they want to better themselves. If they don't do it, that means that either…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:51 PM
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For most men, no it isn't. Me and my friends are like brothers, we give each other support, understanding, care and an ear to listen. But we don't want to sugarcoat things or we don't say "I don't want a solution, I just want to feel listened". When I talk to my friends, I want constructive answers, solutions, ways and meand for me to go on forward. So maybe your problem is not other men, but the fact you are not wired like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:45 PM
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I guess that depends on place and countries. But I have a great group of male friends and I've never received more support, understanding and caring than from my male friends. They are my bros, we lived it all together, we will live it all again. Most women on the other hand, even those with which I'm only friend with, have been dimissing most of the time and don't want to listen to anything or help you with struggles, "it's not my role they say", yet they demand us to help them and insult all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:37 PM
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Then say that. Cause when you write : "If you are so unattractive [...] that you have to pay a woman for sex, it should be stigmatized." It sounds like your first problem is them being unattractive and not them paying for a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:35 AM
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Average lifespan of a phone is 5 years. And yes, you can get ethically made digital watches, manufactured in japan, that has alarm clock and even steps counter and heartrate monitoring. If you sleep, you can get a mechanical clock. As for camera, you don't NEED it in daily life, and you can get polaroids or argentics. It's astonishing how capitalism brainrotted you and created needs you never had before, meanwhile you are still blaming the capitalist system.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:54 AM
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You could get emails on early 2000's phones that were still manufactured in Europe/Japan ...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:35 AM
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Not really, it creates a connection between the client and the service provider, which if they are emotionally unstable, can lead to unsafety. In a brothel if you harrass a worker, you'll be dead with the security staff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:18 AM
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" that do what people need a phone to do nowadays" Here is the tricky part, as I said, they are not smartphones. You were taught by companies that you need your phone to be able to go on instagram, play games, take 4k 60 fps videos and other shit. While really, all you need it to do is telephone. And any vintage manufacturer can do that, you have HMD who has factories in Hungary and Finland for example, we also have some niche brand in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:17 AM
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Who said I was upset sweetheart ? I'm just asking why you are labelling yourself as a "promiscuous woman", taht's all, your rambling is on your on love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:14 AM
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So, basically, what you are saying is that unattractive people that are rejected by all women should be stigmatized ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:09 AM
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"Promiscuous woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:01 AM
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It is a better alternative. But while you spend your money on SW, you are not giving money/time/attention to women who are going to use you while perfectly knowing there will be no evolution of your relationship. That's why they defend the SW and stigmatize the client, because they basically have the same lifestyle as the SW but the actual transaction take away the clients from them. Btw, many men I talked with that went in brothels told me that in thei experience, the SW where actually sweeter,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:00 AM
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These are the exact same arguments the men against "high bodycount" women have, yet when they give them, they are deemed as mysoginistic and biggoted, wonder why ....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:54 PM
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In japan, you can actually rent boyfriends to take you out on date, you don't have sex with them, it's just "fluff" and simulating love. There is your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:46 PM
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There are phones manufactured with no rare minerals including child labored, made in western factories with well payed workers. Bu they are not fancy smartphones so you don't want them. They are not an "ugly necessity", they are an "awful luxury", that you actually partake in. But since you cannot emphasize with or recognize yourself in child labour or underpayed workers, you don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:36 PM
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Not really, I'm just telling the truth ? Like, if you are a muslim and you murder someone, are you true muslim ? Cause that's forbidden. Or do you think that the terrorists are "just not strictly following religious rules like all the people do" ? Are they still muslims ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:22 AM
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And they are not true muslims. That's all I am saying. I don't understand what you are trying to prove me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:12 AM
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Having lived in Morocco, Tunisia, Algeria, Egypt, Oman and Emirates, I doubt it but ok. And yes, a lot of people do not follow the religion they say they are a part of, so as I said, there are no true/good muslims. Plus, burqa is not an obligation, if you decide to wear it, there is a spiritual conduct that goes with it, which is nullified if you put make up under it. If you want to put makeup cause you don't want to follow all the rules, then don't put a burqa on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:05 AM
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Make up is forbidden in islam, even with a burqa on, it actually go against the intention of wearing a burqa. The burqa wearing women you saw on the internet with make up on are not true muslim women, they are surfing on the muslim vibe, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:52 AM
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So why not actually say "let's stay cordial with each other, I wish you the best" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:06 PM
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And you want the guy to start this friendship with remnants of feelings he had for you, watching you dating other people while he stays there, deepening bonds with eachother while he is still in crush with you and actually sharing things together while he is still in the "I want to date you mode" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:05 PM
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So if a man talks with you and ask you out, if you refuse, that mean that you don't want to date him, so that mean that you wouldn't be friends with him, so why would you say "I just want to be friends" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:58 PM
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He cares about you, he doesn't want to hurt you, he cares that you are hurt, but he needs to put himself and his well being first so he take the decision to hurt you. That is called taking decisions, or the lesser bad. You stated that for you, crushes where nothing, for some people, crushes are actually strong feelings, so yeah, you just have a different point of view but you can't possibly start to emphasize about other's pov ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:56 PM
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Well, we still wonder, OP have talk with taht woman only a couple of time, he never meant to be friend with her, he stated his intentions, he was ready to just go by but no, she burdens him with "I wish to stay friends". Now, with that, if he refuses, he is the bad one, if he accepts, she is the good one + she has a man on the hook + she can stay in the good role if one day it is too much for him because she stated taht they weren't more than friends. It's just a way to keep the good role.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:52 PM
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You seem to really have struggles to understand how social dynamics works. He can care very much about you, being a very good friend but still make the decision to hurt you, even though he doesn't want to, in order to protect and care for himself. I could also argue by the same logic that if you don't care for him being hurt by staying friends with you, you are not a very good friend, but that would be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:49 PM
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Because they keep it to themselves. And since you don't seem to care enough about them to actually aknowledge their feelings and say goodbye but instead want them to still have unhealthy thoughts to not get hurt, I wonder if you really have their well being in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:47 PM
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That's a you problem then. The guy wants to end the friendship cause he thinks it is too much for him to continue like taht, why should he care that you are hurt ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:45 PM
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He realize it's HIS problem, that is why HE is acting on that and take the lead/bad role and end the frienship HIMSELF.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:41 PM
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But you can't realize how hurtful it can be to stick around someone we have feelings for, knowing that there is no chance, but still thinking there might be ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:38 PM
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Because we have strong feelings for someone and if we stay around they won't fade away but instead stay and maybe grow even more ? Making us unable to move on and waiting for "maybe it will come" ? Which is unealthy and really mentally hurtful and tiring when you see that person sharing things with you or seeing other people than you while you are still there, beside them, and they know how you feel ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:36 PM
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Seems like a you problem then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 07:10 PM
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Take a car ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:57 PM
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And how having high standards is even correlated with the fact that a coffee date is not enough exactly ? Plus, if the guy is college educated, lives on his own and own a car, I assume he has at least a little bit of brain cells, and if he does, he's not gonna pay extra bucks for a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:39 PM
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Where do you live if you need 2 kilometers + an hour in a bus to get a simple cup of coffee ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:36 PM
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Or maybe they were young and broke and couldn't afford to pay for 2 people for just a second or third date .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:33 PM
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I come from France and here we have a "café" culture, where many people actually attend to like a restaurant or some sort. So yeah, meeting your SO at a café is actually a date for us, or at least a part of a "going in town date". And when you see the price of a coffee in most big cities, especially Paris, especially on Les Champs Elysées, it's a really expansive date at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:31 PM
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What are you even trying to say ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:14 PM
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The men that didn't want relationships before and considered them "balls and chains" are actually the same ones who are able to get women and then ghost them without comitting. The ones who wanted and still want relationships are the one who can't get one and are unhappy. Women are still asking themselves "wHeRe ArE aLl ThE gOoD mEn ?". If in your theory, women are able to sort men out by being pickier and vet more, then the bad men would not have relationships/situationships and women would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:41 PM
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The famous obese neet crackhead that has success with the ladies, I've seen anime tropes more convincing. "Become desirable" ... How exactly ? Enlighten us ? Especially when the most desirable caracteristics are inherent or genetic, humour us. And beside, people are doing less and less babies over the years, yet you are telling us you see babies everywhere on your feed, if we followed you logic, we would conclude that people are in fact doing more kids, since your experience is the furthest from…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:37 PM
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How can you "strive to meet those standards", when they are for the most part due to genetic and inherent caracteristics ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:15 PM
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"You care ? Just stop." Why does no one ever thought of that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:47 AM
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But you cannot gaslight yourself to not care, especially whe it affects you in your daily life or after an entire life of society + media + all the people you meet telling you that you have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:21 AM
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I'm very sure that, as the one who inflicted it, it didn't really bother you much and had no consequences in your life. But okay, bullied people should just accept that it's just part of life and trying out social power and get over it, I guess, their bullies just screwed up. We grow, we move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:15 AM
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"Teenagers are trying out social power, learning social skills and being tribalistic and exclusionary is part of that." We are happy to know that bulliying is just "dumb teenagers trying out". "I wasnt trying to hurt boys or lead them on, though im sure i did at times." So you had an appropriate behaviour that no one ever called out to lead you on the right path of social encounters and you think this is just a part of life ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:44 AM
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Leonardo Di Caprio, the famously known bald creep. The famously known bald creep that can manipulate a young attractive women that has a family, friends and access to attractive young men to date him, probably thanks to his hypnosis powers. When women will stop acting like forever victims and accept that there are women who are perfectly okay for age gap, and actually seek agae gap, you'll be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:38 AM
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So you believe that before anime and sexual content, Japan was a nice country where evevryone was free to do however they pleased and where social/peer pressure were inexistant ? Really ? In what bad way ? You can't just says "it's bad" and not explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:16 AM
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You are straight up crazy man, hope you seek some medical help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:31 PM
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Ok dude, you are the one acting like a creep. Where in my comment do I talk about myself ? I talk about other men, I actually never "cold approached" a woman for example, cause I find that really disturbing to do, but you still come, assume it's my behaviour, assume I'm a creep, assume I need to be corrected, assume you can correct me and come to insult, so not really correcting per say. Straight up weird dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:28 PM
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The guy asked a question, I answered. You come and just say "hn hn hn creeps, losers". Beside virtue signaling, what actually are you doing ? Cause you are not responding to OP about his friend complaining about not being aproached.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:21 PM
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Ok dude, who asked ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:13 PM
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Admitting all of this is true, including her not getting approached by ANY MAN whatsoever while being objectively attractive. Here are a few reasons : -After getting rejected a lot of times, most men actually stop "cold approaching" -They wait to have unambiguous, unmissable signals to go, in order to avoid awkwardness and brutal rejection ; but this kind of signals don't come often so yeah, not gonna work well -After seeing a majority of women having high shallow requirements in men, they simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:45 PM
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The things is, when all the three points are faced, the shaming is deemed "understandable" ; "legit" or even "deserved" by society. Your first example was "being short", well gusess what, short men know they are short ; they have issues being shamed for that, as it gives them struggles in most aspects of life ; they care because it makes them feel insecure and actually impact their lives. Now guess what ? Shaming short men is actually deemed understandable, acceptable and in some cases deserved,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 09:15 PM
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If you have 2 identical men but one has a few inches of additional bones and you find him more attractive than the other for this reason, you must have a reason for that. Especially if this "preference" can be tracked as a widely shared behaviour. You find it "more attractive because" ... Otherwise they would be identically attractive. An often, that reason is safety, assertion and dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:48 PM
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That's actually the second answer, but even that is dumb. How does your height affect in anyway your attractiveness ? Doesn't make any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:25 PM
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"Waiting for the good one". Yeah, well, all the stats shows that women are unsatisfied with the partners they can get and there are hundreds of thousands of women asking "where are the capable good men ?". So, in fact, what we see is you are delusional on what is actually your worth. The guys you are talking about doesn't bring "nothing" on the table, they bring plenty, but it's not enough for you and a lot of women, so you reject them and "wait for the good one". You are not desperate or misera…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:06 PM
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These are measures that existed before any sexualized content existed in japan, I don't see how animes actually influenced that. Now tell me, how an ecchi is actually going to affect the life of a children that won't watch it, in a bad or good way ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:54 PM
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What women are going around saying “I need tall men to protect me” : Every women that asks for a tall man, which is the vast majority of them. As to know if this is actually true or an excuse to not appear shallow, this is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:12 PM
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You are twisting what he said, he wants a caring wife, so someone who cares about him, that's all. He never implied that caring need to manifest in any way. You might be surprised how many men are in relationship with women they love but these women don't love them back and don't even care for them but they don't wanna be alone. But to know that you would have to actually listen to men experiences and stuggles instead of jumping at their throats and twisting their words on the basis of "iMpReCiS…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:10 PM
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It's not a preference if it is perceived as a utility trait, aka "I want protection from a taller man". And if it "just mean a stable job", then why not say that ? Why use the term "good income" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:40 PM
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The guy said "I want a caring wife". You went to "he wants a home and sex slave". But yeah, he's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:39 PM
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You think it's hard to not cheat, not disrespect and actively care for the man you chose to marry ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:53 PM
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People in my college class, they spend 8 hours a day with me, so I talk to them, I'm polite. They happen to be in the feminist association of our university, so they like to ask us things and discuss with us. You don't see the link between "men should not wear makeup" and "feminist who advocate against traditional gender role" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:48 PM
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They were active member of my university feminist association, so I would think they were actual and active feminists yeah. "Male deconstruction", or "traditional masculinity deconstruction", either way, it's the idea that we shouldn't have gender roles and excpectations that we have to comfort to, give it the name you want. But then again, when it came to their own preferences and vision on what was a man, it was straight up a caricature of traditional masculinity, almost toxic masculinity even…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:36 PM
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I asked them for 'just a tinted moisturizing cream", even that was too much. And by your logic, that would mean that "men have the right to put limited make up on them, otherwise it's not good". How is that freedom and deconstruction of gender roles ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:22 PM
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Most of these women were straight up feminist "fighting patriarchy and gender role", advocating for gender neutral education and male deconstruction. But when it came to the men they would like as a partner, it was a carricatural depiction of some 80's action movie virile star.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:07 PM
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I guess all the guys that were assaulted walking the streets with their girlfriends ; the guys that I talked with ; the guys that went to talk about it in social support groups and all the states statistics are a movie trope and not real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:26 PM
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No it's not. The guy that is capable of going against the law to insult ; grope ; assault women in anyway is not bothered because there is a man beside her. Quite the countrary, most of the time this type of men will believe that if they confront the man and "win" the confrontation, they will actually "have a chance" with the woman. So yeah, that is not an uncommon thing, I see/hear that everyday and trust me, in this case, for the vast majority of women, you better act as the sole protector.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:18 PM
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But then when you ask why the guy have to be tall and get good incomes, every answer starts with "security", wonder why ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:12 PM
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Are you telling me that women getting catcalled, insulted, mugged or stalked is an "uncommon" phenomena and that comes under the "boogeyman" analogy ? As like, something that doesn't happen ? And here I thought it happened 3 times a day to any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:10 PM
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LMAO, not gonna say the C-word as this is forbidden, but really. All the women I asked about "what would you feel like if your men started wearing even just a tinted cream" and they all made disgusted faces and told me they would not even respect him. I've even seen plenty of women actually not liking men taht does skincare routine. But yeah, we'll believe you, a straight man putting concealer ; mascara ; eye liner ; blushes or whatever would be well received by most women, that's definitely the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 02:01 PM
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"The girls in Japan going to school can't have their hair done in certain ways, or even wear certain kinds of underwear..." Yeah, just like the boys in japan can't have their hair done in certain ways ; or there was a real debate on the authorization of boxers when they first arrived in japan ; hell, there are even certain schools/families/circles where boys have to shave their heads until they are 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:56 PM
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Admit that you put a simple moisturizing concealer to brighten your skin to any women and watch how your social status sinks to the abyss ... Plus, women are complaining about how time consuming and expensive makeup is, so why would they want more people to wear it instead of just stopping ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:50 PM
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Admit that you put a simple moisturizing concealer to brighten your skin to any women and watch how your social status sinks to the abyss ...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:49 PM
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Yes, of course, 12 years old boys in 2025 are pressuring 12 years old girls to put on makeup at that age. The girls starts to put on makeup before boys are even down with their "girls are gross and dumb" phase, but yeh, they are responsible for that for the last 1000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 12:48 PM
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I 100% agree with that, but that's not what OP seems to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:04 PM
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-Men are controlled by their sex drive -Women control acess to sex -Women have power over men through sexual gratiffication But apparently, we still live in a patiarchy where the average men opresses the average women and have control over them ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:20 PM
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Or this one ? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:26 PM
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182cm + nice traps/shoulders/hips combo + nice cheekbones, bu yeah, you are certainly not attractive cause you wear glasses (a fetish btw) <image> Is this man not attractive because he wears glasses ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:26 PM
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Halo effect all and over again. In no world calling someone "red" or blondie or brunette, should even pass. But immediately telling her she should be in your bed ... and there are still some pretending the average guy can walk up to a bar and say "hey blondie, smoking dress but you're gonna need it off when we're at my place" and get a good response if he is "lighthearted".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 12:03 PM
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And outside boomer type shit comments, do you have something to say ? Working out has never been that much popular amongst young men ; diet too ; most of them try to go out and socialize but for some reason they still don't succeed, but yeah, it's their fault for playing fortnite 1 hour before bed. You also oversee the fact that tiktok and insta, the embodiment of doomscroll, is widely use among young women, women are also less to practice sports and diet and the body positive movement has been …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:03 PM
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You equated short man, which is genetic and not a health problem, with obese women, which are people with no will power and a disease. But yeah, he is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:56 PM
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Since we started, you stated that : -Guys don't take care of themselves/make efforts, I pointed out that most of the guys do that and that doesn't help them, your replay is they must have problem of behaviour. -I pointed out that most guys are not overly shy and try to approach and be assertive and confident, but still not get anything, you replied that they must not be as attractive as they think. So now, here is the final question : Guys that take good care of themselves, makes effort and are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:34 PM
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Dude, be ready : They can even spot a vrigin ; a weirdo ; an unemployed ; a small dick ; a broke bloke ; an uncapable ; a sociopath ; a violent or even a narcissist from across continents. Most of the time that will actually be about how tall or handsome he looks but that's just a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:27 PM
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Or maybe, for most women, male body does very little to attractiveness and it doesn't make you any good to hit the gym 6 days a week ? Which is not the same for women attractiveness, when body and figure is what is most important in male eyes ? Nope, they must have a problem, the vast majority of guys that go to the gym are weirdos who can't keep friends, only possible explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:24 PM
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No, no, no, women are all beautiful creatures, who take care of themselves, are absolutely hygienic, work to improve themselves 24/7 (even if it is not needed from them) and smell like roses in a fresh morning KEKW.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:15 PM
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If you are being realistic "babe", I'll have to believe you I guess. But even then, that's still a stretch to believe that everyone can get their 2 points by just putting efforts in it. As for bullets 2, are you implying that the vast majority of men that are actually improving themselves are all "milquetoast poindexter" ? And even when they are not, you see women everyday, on this sub and alsewhere, telling you to stop feeling too confident and talk to them, so what good does taht make you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:14 PM
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You are really confident if you think that anyone, even yourself, can gor from 5 to 8 by just working out and do your hair. And as you say, skincare and gyms are as big as ever with a lot of men in there, but they are still alone, I wonder why is that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:01 PM
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So, basically, what you are saying is : -You do your best to improve yourself as a women, resulting in you being a 5/6 -You are unable to feel attraction to 5/6 men, so a men of the same category as you are and call him a fucking NPC -You demand him to do his best to do improve to a 7/8, just to get you, the 5/6 -All the while you sit and do nothing except asking for a customized human being You are basically validating all the incels/redpill theories there : -Your base line for a man is a "natu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:49 PM
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a) Yes we have, most of them are in couples or don't want to play matchmakers, so what good does that make ? b) In what universe is it easier to gather the courage to start a conversation with a stranger than to stay in the comfort zone of your established social sphere ? c) WTF is that ? All I excepect from women is to just have the minimum of politeness and civilized behaviour and just tell me "sorry, i'm not interested", but even that seems too much to ask nowadays, everyone needs to make dra…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:49 PM
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If you get approach more often, you kinda integrate the fact that there are other possibilities, thus leading you to reject when it's not going to work for you. The only reason women can reject men is because they know they have other options. But when you never had any options in your life, you're just gonna accept the first that comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:43 PM
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I'm not basing my worth on her, thank god, but as she is one example on dozens I have, I came to the conclusion that, if I'm material enough for a woman (which I doubt), cold approch is not the solution to make it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:40 PM
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1% in my opinion. We both workout and are decently muscular and leaned, we both have the same style of clothes, we both take care of our skin. He is 26, I'm 23, since he is bald he has some more wrinkles on his forehead. Again, except that he is taller than me, I don't see much of a difference, but I'm a straight male and he is my friend, maybe I don't understand the difference. But even with just looking at our behaviour, I went to talk to her and ask her if she would come ; he shouted out from…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:18 PM
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I know, but the difference between me and him is not even that great. Worst of all : he is bald and I do not even have a receding line, he's slightly taller than me though. So in reality, the difference of attractivenes between him and me is like 1%, but that is enough for me to be a creep and him to be "the handsome one night stand in the bar", brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:55 PM
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Yes. That seemed pretty clear, in my eyes, from that part : "Only the incels and so called "alpha male", would tell you that they don't want a single mom or a "slut" ... until a single mom or slut actually hit on them." But if you want me to be clearer so you don't take me for a shit head redpilled manosphere incel : The all redpill/incel/alpha male/sigma male/mgtow community are absolute buffons who are claiming they are done with women or will only accept women of a certain standard only becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:49 PM
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Not sure what you mean, nor to whom it was intended ...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:29 PM
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I have dozens of annecdotes and stories on how "cold approaching" ended very badly. I'm talking litterally the "worst she can say is no" type of meme. But I will just give you the lastest (5 months ago) one : I was in a bar with some friends, male and female, couples and singles, classic. It's a bar where they organize blind tests, if you win with all the songs and artists, you get a free drink round, it's meant to be played in groups. I see this girl sitting alone at a table, I go to see her an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:25 PM
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You're coping so hard. The only universal standard a man have : don't be fat. And we are talking OBESE here, cause you can go on the subreddits for curvy/chubby/bbw, we are talking of millions of guys that folows them, and reddit is only a fraction of the population, and only a fraction of this population is actually sbscribing to subs. But even when obese, we have seen these women having more than one partners. Men doesn't care about height ; boobs ; economic situation ; social background ; eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:12 PM
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This is the "you lack job experience" type of shit, with a recruiter that wants a 3 years exeprience for a "starting carreer/junior job". How the fuck are you supposed to get experience if no one is willing to let you get experience, precisely because you don't have experience ? Plus, it's an illogical way of thinking, they would have to explain to me how a person that never could keep a relationship working be better at keeping a relationship working. Now let's be honest here, it's mostly women…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:11 PM
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