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If you think about it, every time you do it is because of some type of porn. Either it was instagram, reddit, facebook or just the cute girl in the street. At this point everything is so sexualized that you are constantly stimulated in all directions, without the need of being naked. I am wondering if a man living alone in the woods would lose all urges if he has no access to female images either virtual or in real life.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 09:09 PM
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Pure ones? Dont fantasize or put women in a pedestal, women are women, she can be caring and lovely but the same woman could dump you overnight and never ever look back. She could completely erase you of her mind from on day to the other given the proper conditions. Never lie or decieve, but she is an adult and if she is decently atractive, she has 10x your options. If she stayed with you is because she liked the drama and chasing or because you are a very high value man. They can fell in love l…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/21 06:04 AM
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Think about having chemistry or connecting with someone, basically the more you spend time with that person the more you like her. This does not mean oneitis or puting her in a pedestal. It means you are more comfortable around her and probably you will mind less having her for longer time. You care more, you enjoy it more and feel part of a partnership. We also bond with friends and family in different ways, for example your best friend could stayed with you for hours and you will still enjoy t…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 10:02 PM
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Hard to give you a right answer here, for many people because of Corona it is the only source of meeting ladies. I will argue that once things get normal in your town try to get out of these apps. Dating apps profit from people using the App, the longer you use it the longer it will match you with people that have been using it for long time. There are reasons why certain girls are in the App for many years despite tons of matches.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 08:16 PM
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Your last paragraph, describes it perfectly. No matter how hot, sometimes you are exhausted of meeting new people. You feel you are forcing yourself for the sake of abundance
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 12:16 PM
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When I was at home I will find foreign girls giving the extra mile trying to learn my language and adapting to the culture very sexy. Now that I have been living for many years abroad I feel local women appreciate that I have integrated. I agree with you integrating is key to success.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 05:45 PM
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Something to take in consideration is that this mostly applies to USA which are obsess with race. In Europe and Latin America is a bit different. I will agree that Indians and Chinese men have it the worst, they are not exotic ( added up they make almost half of the planet) regardless if they are in the west. You can see rich Latin American exchange students in american colleges stick with other rich latin americans, regardless of their race. In LA those who thirst for white foreigners are poor …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 10:52 AM
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Are you taking the pill? A lot of women are unaware of the effects in their psyche and emotions, the reason you may find hard to pair bond or feel real lust for men could be your hormones. Try quitting it for a few months and judge yourself, just track your cycle and you don't need to worry about unwanted pregnancies.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/20 08:54 PM
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I agree, what I mean is that almost every girl you meet in real life also have a dating app profile. Probably you will have better results in real life, but trying to find a woman that does not has a profile is unlikely a this point
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 10:00 PM
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To this day almost every single women is on Tinder, this fantasy you will find better women in the real world is just a fantasy. Of course in person interactions are better but almost every girl you meet in real life has or had a dating app account or instagram. Girls are girls, is blue pill to think they will be different, like tradcons feel the same way, at the end is how you interact that matters.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 05:51 AM
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There are no free lunches, whatever time you select for it, it will bite back.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 08:51 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_Union_vs._Google https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2019/03/20/business/google-fine-advertising.amp.html Google has been fined multiple times.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 07:34 PM
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In Europe there are actually strong laws against that, it can still use it against you but there are more resources to defend yourself. Companies are very cautious with personal data.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/20 06:20 PM
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Lets say she didn't lie, her real count is 19.5 because of that time with that guy that did not count.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 04:47 AM
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False, is not as simple as calories in vs out. The type of food, the time when you eat it, the way you combine them affects how much you absorb, your microbiome, and wether you exercise or not also affects! Many studies have shown you can eat the same amount of calories and because of these factors some gain or lose weight. I recommend the book "how not to diet" lot of interesting research
/r/TheRedPill08/07/20 04:11 AM
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The worst part is if that what your sister told you, imagine what she didn't. Lewis seem to be RP.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/19 06:55 AM
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Leider nicht. Her business will continue many years post-wall, thirstiness is just increasing
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 09:46 PM
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Great post!
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 12:37 PM
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One of my biggest red pill moments was reading rationale male blog and he had links of a forum where people ask for relationship advice and these sub-reddits are massive red pills
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 06:06 AM
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Go NoFaP and your life will change for the better
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 06:09 AM
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Find your own inner happiness
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 06:06 AM
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I disagree, at this point most women had their clubbing time. If not is because they don't like loud music or crowded places, she probably engaged in other similar activities in terms of attention seeking.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 01:13 PM
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Hey the myth of the virgin girl is just a myth, a young girl is too inexperienced and will only feel that she is missing out. And older virgins which does exist, are rather problematic at their core. Why are they virgins in the first place at lets say age of 25 in the current times.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 01:02 PM
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Women lie See how she acts not what she says
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 05:24 AM
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Psychologically is not a junk science, the problem is many studies are scientific and others not. What I mean for Scientific, needs to be reproducible elsewhere with the less bias possible. Certain studies can be reproducible and others not, that is why there is so much contradiction, but the reality many researchers failed to do good science or science at all as conditions are hard and money is scarce
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:49 PM
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Run away from girls with nipple piercings!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/19 07:37 PM
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You being a human being save you from a lot of mess. Sometimes when we feel sad for other people our bodies are trying to tell us something, also a way for us to survive.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 03:29 AM
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What do you study? If is not a STEM degree, maybe re-consider not going back to Uni as an option. If you are innocent, then keep the fight on man. Your concience is the last thing you should lose!
/r/askTRP12/09/19 06:10 PM
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There are race and fetish biases many people have.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 05:59 PM
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Exactly! Red pill sub is to talk about experiences and honesty about what we think works at least for each other.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 05:56 PM
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I agree with everything you said, excrpt screen for months. Like Dr Shawn T Smith said screen for years. We are not in a rush.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 05:49 PM
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Hey man good if it worked for you, but to be honest this is very purple pill and bit cringy. Consider this, if you have to plan so much ahead what to say to a woman like she is a complicated creature or a robot that requires a specific input to get a specific output. Then you are somehow still putting them in a pedestal, think about it this way when you go and talk with your friends do you plan what to say? No right, you know your friendship has value and you just talk whatever you feel in the m…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/19 06:32 AM
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Of course it does, imagine a woman giving birth with no ass, her back would be touching the floor and would be harder for the baby to come out. Also glutes are fat storages, same with legs, if she has enough fat there means she can withold mild famines if pregnant = more chances the baby to survive
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:28 PM
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Remember the archetype of the step-mother, there is a reason stories like Cindirella exist. Whatever women you bring to your life, observe her behavior around your daughter. Is there one person you should care about is her.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 02:21 PM
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Or she is in to you, and you are confident enough that she will text you because you control the frame, she is just playing a role.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:32 AM
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Try sometimes, you give her your number. "Let me give you my number, send me a text with yours and we can hang out" you take her phone an write your name and number, if you have an inside joke you could put it as part of your name just don't be cheesy. She could text you immediately or later, but if she never does at least you didn't waste your time.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:56 AM
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Don't force anything, that is dumb you will get in trouble. Even if she is into that and she enjoy it she could always change her mind. Think about yourself, don't do anything stupid, next time of she says the same thing, in that moment freeze yourself, put your clothes and leave. And go no contact for a few days and don't answer her anything, then act like nothing happened. Your attention is what they want from you and it seems she is not doing her part. Also don't give her oral if she is not d…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:39 AM
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Read the Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins This with a red pill lens will go give you a better perspective of how we evolved, hypergamy and the reality that we are just animals and we played by the same rules.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 05:29 AM
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The Spanish speaking, to be fair I have not been to Brasil. Would you say Brasilians will kiss you, and mean absolubtely nothing? Like she is at least interested I guess, in the US I felt girls will do it but a few min later she will forget about you.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:35 AM
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Build discipline in other parts of your life, for example waking early to work out, goals in your job, good grades if that is your goal, stop drinking, stop smoking, stop masturbating to porn or in general, stop junk food. Once you master that which will significally make your life better, other things will com easier. Also read about stoicism, remember these two phrases "memento mori"= remember you will die and "amor fati"=love destiny or love of one's fate. Repeat this in your head everyday ev…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 08:32 PM
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Girls are always talking to other guys, if she is hot she will be hit by guys almost everywhere she goes
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:59 AM
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Actually evolution selected but these traits in opposite, women needed to light switch in order to accept when their tribe was conquered by new men, those who didn't died in battle and their genes didn't reproduce. For men, those who would be harder to change their feelings, got positively selected because they were most likely to take care of the offspring
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:47 AM
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No is not the same. Most men could cheat physically a LTR but not emotionally. This is a female behavior adaptation
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:44 AM
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What is interesting is that most languages have a concept of "mother nature" that is femenine and seems to have appeared individually.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:22 AM
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She can have a happy relationship with her BF and found a new guy very attractive. She might not cheat, but she will have guys around as backup. If you are the other guy, it doesn't mean she does not like you, is just not your turn. Having a mindset of waiting is bad, but keeping low.contact in my opinion is totally fine while you continue with your life. The important thing I will say, just because you are each other's backup plan, doesn't mean you should give your attention for free. Rather pr…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:39 AM
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I'll give you what I think about plate theory what I think makes me happy. Talk to all the girls you want, have sex only with girls you will consider a relationship. That means do not settle and do not have validation sex, basically you have sex to make you feel enough of a man. If you don't enjoy having sex with many girls, but rather prefee one that you feel more comfortable with, stay with her as long as you enjoy it. Chemistry with girls is a thing and does not mean you are a blue pilled for…
/r/askTRP31/08/19 08:40 PM
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Then you know what to do man, she is a plate.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 08:30 PM
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Why don't you believe her? I mean never believe a woman, but it doesn't mean all girls will cheat, rather all girls can cheat.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:44 PM
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Same here. Most women seem extremely boring.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 04:41 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP27/08/19 04:38 AM
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She is leaving to another country, even if she end up liking you what happens next? If you are not emotionally invested, maybe is better not to get into. Happened to mw the other way around, I was leaving and believe me is not fun.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:35 PM
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Muss du dann dein Deutsch verbessen. Es gibt keine andere Option. Benutzt du diese Gelegenheit als ein Tandem termin, vielleicht kann sie dir hilfen. Frauen mogen Akzente und einige finden Cute wann du versucht in andere Sprachen reden.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 09:32 PM
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Best advice is to try it, see if certain aspects of your life are to be improved and see if no fapping can help with this. Try it for as long as you can and see if these aspects improve. Even if is "placebo" which I don't think it is, and it makes your life better go for it. In my case, in great part is about discipline, when you have discipline in one part of your life you can have it on the rest of it. My mind behaves better, I control myself better and overall I feel my brain chemistry is mor…
/r/askTRP25/08/19 02:04 PM
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If you have plans of learning a new language, go for it. Many people do language exchanges where you talk with a native of a language you want to learn o vice-versa, or two people learning a new language. Helps to expand your friends group
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/19 07:53 AM
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Could be also like she needed to bring up a new couch to her third floor apartment, she rang Bob from first floor for help, he did and then went back home. We have no context about the favor or what happened. We are humans for the sake of god, sometimes we can just be nice or people be nice to us because we live in a community/civilization. Bob could be super alpha and did not fuck her, and he just helped her because he maybe is just a good guy. Is not that everytime a man does a favor for a wom…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:21 PM
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Exactly she is with Tyrone while laughing about all the idios that read that shit
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 05:36 AM
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Stop sharing this trash, don't give them clicks or visits. Just ignor3 all this BS all together
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 05:35 AM
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I will also add that if possible try to get some sunlight anyways. Some studies (I need to find the link) have pointed added benefits from sunlight exposure when controlled for vit D levels.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 07:47 PM
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The thing of the Epiphany phase is true, a girl (30 years) I was seeing I told her I didn't want anything serious that I just wanted to take it slow and meet her better and she completely dissapeared and ghost me entirely. No consideration about a guys life's situation, just what they want lol.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:03 AM
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Look at the context, is at a club? She doesn't like you if she say it immediately. Is at a random place? Maybe is true or she doesn't like you. Is it someone you have hang out for a while and feel some chemistry and suddenly drop the line? Could be true, but it is also a way to feel herself better In my experience, hot and quality women are never single, does not mean they are not available. That also does not mean they will cheat on their BF. But the possibility of branch swinging is always the…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:05 PM
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It seems your sister and family holds you back to some extent, at this point you should seek deeper council, but what I can say is to stop caring. Part of the red pill in my opinion is that even your own family can be toxic, is the truth we don't want to see. Also you do not need to tell a girl you are virgin, simple as that. If you get the chance try your best to enjoy it. Sex is always akward the first times with a new person. There is no way she would notice easily, and if she does who cares.…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 05:57 PM
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I would be very careful with the advice other people give you her, same way you vet your women vet your advisors. Same with me. My opinion, is normal you are catching feelings no you have to think what do you want? Do you want to keep seeing other girls or just her? Plate spinning is a full time job, and having so many girls is not always that fun as it sounds. If you want to have a LTR, let her bring her up. I mean you can act like you are having it, but let her ask you to be "serious". There a…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 08:29 AM
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Why would you take risks as a doctor and not send it for lab analysis. Also you cannot just learn medicine with google and wikipedia. Please consider other profession.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 10:05 PM
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Exactly Like Rich Cooper says: " girls wait at the finish line and fuck the winner"
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 10:01 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:45 AM
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By no means go to her apartment without her, as she could use it against you. Also when you go pickup your stuff, go with a friend to avoid incoveniences.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 09:45 AM
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Lets say you meet a girl and get her number, I will usually tell her: "hey lets meet for a coffee next week, when are you free". If she is interested she will suggest a few days and times. Never pay for anything, see if you like her and after few hours you should leave and say "I am meeting some friends after here" or just come up with something interesting. Say it was nice to meet you and leave. If you like her for the second date can be more interesting, if she comes up for a second date she i…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/19 08:23 AM
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"Less than a guys to have kids with", when biologically she is close not to be able to have on her own.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 09:54 AM
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Exactly, is good to be positive but false expectations is the worst thing. People need a point of reference.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 07:59 AM
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For normal things like how is your day, you can validate her as long as she comply in what you are looking in a relationship with her. Rationize your attention as a bargain tool, she'll get use to you answering back but if she is not being a good girl she will notice if you cut this "daily validation". At the end be your own point of origin, texting her should not get into the rest of your life. But to be honest, if your girl text you when you have a stressful day for some people it does make yo…
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:34 AM
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Discussing politics with women is pointless, 1st you do not discuss with women, second is a big turn off for everyone. Partners are for fun and to have in "theory" someone to support you be a better person. Is not for building a better country or society. Either ignore it and as others mentioned just make fun of the topic. If she pushes you to give an opinion you can always say : " I coul'd tell you, but I don't have to" and continue with what are you doing.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 11:26 AM
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Also having patience when applying game is the key. The more you manage yourself and don't rush things with women, the more they will rush to be in your life.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/19 11:00 AM
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I agree with OP Specially if you do make out, should be brief and you should pull apart and show desinterest. Like I tried this apple and was not sweet enough. Let the Hamster spin.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 09:32 AM
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I have realized this is an American thing about giving kisses like candy. While in America girls will kiss easily but meant shit later on. In Europe and Latin America, seem to be rather conservative with kisses, but if they do it means they are actually interested. I am talking when in bars or in the public.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:03 PM
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Same train here. We understand what is wrong with oneitis, but it seems to be that not all girls can give us this excitement and pleasure.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 06:31 AM
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Is rather a common phrase in Spanish, it might be that in English may not sound that good. Have worked for me in both languages.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 06:13 AM
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Tell her "when you are going, I am already coming back" to imply you are ahead of her in everything she does.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:17 AM
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I have gone for the most part alcohol free for the last 2 years, to be honest is the best decision. First you don't sacrifice your week for a night out, no hangovers or drop in performance. Everyone experiences drops in physical and mental performance after a nighr of drinking and the effect may last couple of days. You would be on ease to achieve goals once you are alcohol free, I will add it gives you more control in your life to avoid junk food and bad decisions. In terms lf social life, do i…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/19 09:49 PM
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There is something interesting about what we called positive energy. There are some scientific hypotheses, for example many centuries ago we could not measure radio waves, detect radiation or microscopes did not exist so we could not measure or see bacteria for example. That doesn't mean it does not exist. We can communicate chemically (pheromones, or smells) but before modern chemistry there was no way of testing or detecting it. Some people have the hypothesis that animals, specially humans em…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 05:47 AM
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Is about finding what makes you feel good, following your instincts unapologetically
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 11:01 PM
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The law changed in germany https://m.dw.com/en/anxious-fathers-welcome-new-paternity-test-law/a-3142893 now is not needed any perrmission of the mother or a judge.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 11:02 PM
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I will disagree, while there is a value of meeting in person the state of online dating is a pool of 70-80% extremely blue pilled that do not accept the fact looks is the only way to matches unless you have a high status that can be proved by pictures. So good pictures, your height and maybe a prove you have a carreer and thats all, but without good pictures is hopeless. Women filter a lot more online than in real life, it gives the idea that you are prequalified just because they also swiped ri…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/19 11:55 AM
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