BallerGuitarer Archive

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3	Tips on how to seduce a guy when you're a girl? That's a tough situation. I know a guy who used to be like that. Guys like this can be pretty insecure and don't understand that girls want them to make the first move; like no matter how good at flirting you are, they still don't understand that they need to make the move. A lot of the time it can be because they don't know when the right time is. So, yes, to start off, you've come to the right conclusion that if you don't make the first move, it's never going to happen. A girl I dated for a sh…	/r/seduction	16/09/18 01:06 PM
5	Tips on how to seduce a guy when you're a girl? Everyone here is giving you advice, but no one here actually knows you. What's your situation? Who are you? We can tailor your advice better if we have something more to work with than the fact that you're a girl.	/r/seduction	16/09/18 03:18 AM
2	Women need to ask men out more So, maybe I was too simplistic in reducing my position to simply "men desire more than women." Let me explain it like this. One of my female friends told me about how she first met her now-husband. They were set up on a blind date, the date went well, and at the end of the date, the guy didn't kiss her. She told me this upset her, and she spent the next day wondering why he didn't kiss her. I was kind of confused, thinking "Well, if you wanted the kiss so bad, why didn't you kiss him?" A girl I …	/r/seduction	27/07/18 04:12 AM
2	Women need to ask men out more Women want to be wanted. This will never change. It's practically instinct. It's why all women care about looking pretty, it's why all women like attention, it's why some women do it wrong and act like total drama queens. Men desire, and women want to be desired. That's how the human animal works. Of course women desire, and men like being desired, but the pendulum definitely swings mostly the other way.	/r/seduction	27/07/18 02:27 AM
1	"I hate men" shit test? Not yet, Probably going to make a purchase in the next week or so. I'm just waiting to make sure I can access my hospital's medical records from it. Why do you ask?	/r/seduction	01/07/18 03:58 PM
0	"I hate men" shit test? This is good to make conversation, but not good to impress a woman.	/r/seduction	01/07/18 06:44 AM
15	100 Women in 50 Days, Day 5: Two Solid Approaches What's the consensus around here with OP's strategy of opening with a comment about how cute the girl is? From what OP has been describing, it seems to be working well, but I've always felt that it was too forward and may seem unwanted by the girl.	/r/seduction	19/06/18 01:44 PM
1	[FR] What I learned from a great night out Saturday - STATE and having a WINGMAN are everything! Life is short! Everything in your lives brought you to that moment... you've both travelled thousands of miles, met thousands of other people, could've gone to any of the other 100 bars or coffee shops. Yet, there you are in that moment, and something fun, exciting & interesting happens with another person (who by all accounts was just as unlikely to be there)... and then to just flake on it! The thought alone breaks my heart, thinking of all the missed beautiful, genuine relationships that all …	/r/seduction	12/06/18 02:13 AM
1	Push through approach anxiety, Girls want us to talk to them... I dunno man. The whole point I was originally trying to make was that women want to be wanted. The guy whom you were originally replying to merely want to confirm that with his own experience. You focused on a part of that guy's post that wasn't even the point. And besides, the idea of a woman giving out her number to someone she's not actually interested in talking to is such an infrequent occurrence anyway that it's not worth getting worked up about.	/r/seduction	12/06/18 01:53 AM
1	Push through approach anxiety, Girls want us to talk to them... I guess you interpret the woman's actions however you choose to. Some people view it as positive and others as negative. Whatever works for you in helping you to keep going.	/r/seduction	11/06/18 11:34 AM
1	Push through approach anxiety, Girls want us to talk to them... Well, don't underestimate the power of positive reinforcement.	/r/seduction	11/06/18 12:46 AM
54	Push through approach anxiety, Girls want us to talk to them... Women want to be wanted. Men don't have this desire as much as women do, which is why that thinking of, as you said, "Now wouldn't it just be so rude to go and speak to these girls?" is so common. The mindset of waiting for someone to approach us is a foreign and uncomfortable concept to us. Now, you may not be their type. You may not have the physical characteristics they find attractive. You may not have the personality they find attractive. That's fine. It comes with the job of being a straig…	/r/seduction	09/06/18 06:16 PM
1	Don’t Ask How To Get Pussy. Ask How Pussy Can Get You. I feel like fundamentally, though, women wanted to be wanted. I think it's just human nature. Men see something and chase after it, that's our mindset. Women dress up and do things for attention, that's their mindset. Granted men want women they're attracted to, and women want men they're attracted to, so we have to work on ourselves a lot also. But that doesn't change the fundamental mindset.	/r/seduction	31/05/18 11:05 PM
1	Do men like being asked out or pursued by women? Elaborate.	/r/seduction	15/05/18 01:36 AM
1	Do men like being asked out or pursued by women? Can I ask you why you feel you have to ask this question? What has made you think that a guy wouldn't appreciate that?	/r/seduction	14/05/18 11:08 PM
1	KEY TIP TO LAND A BOMB What the hell bars does everyone go to where you can have a conversation with someone that doesn't include yelling over obnoxiously loud music?	/r/seduction	24/04/18 04:20 PM
6	The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further... This is a fantastic analogy.	/r/seduction	22/04/18 11:31 PM
18	The BEST trait a man can have I think a more concise way to say this is, express yourself. Express your opinions, wear the clothes that make you you, essentially sell your personality to the other person simply by expressing that personality. Exactly what OP described. This goes hand-in-hand with other advice like being present in the conversation and taking interest in the activity/conversation. Just don't be obnoxious in this process.	/r/seduction	21/04/18 12:58 AM
9	Shit Test of the Week - When She Says "I don't Give Out My Number" I believe this is the correct answer.	/r/seduction	17/04/18 05:07 PM
1	What happened/how to improve? Bar approach Her: Utah You: Utah! I've always wanted to visit Utah. My friends went hiking there and I saw some beautiful pictures. You must be the adventurous type, huh? Her: explains how she is or isn't an adventurous type and conversation follows Stop asking so many questions and say something.	/r/seduction	08/04/18 03:10 PM
104	Why Are Hot Girls Hard To Pick Up? It's Not What You Think.. I think what he's trying to do in the video is humanize hot women into people with histories rather than things that you pick up. I feel like if he were to take his thinking to its logical conclusion, you would approach these women with the intent to get to know them and appreciate them for the attributes they're proud of other than their beauty (whether its the smarts, athleticism, taste in music, etc.), and then see where it goes from there. I mean, after all, we're all just a bunch of brains,…	/r/seduction	22/03/18 02:38 AM
5	How can you be sure she's into you and not just being friendly. How can you tell whether or not Schrodinger's cat is in the box? You can measure the weight of the box. You can shake the box. You can sit there, look at the box, and contemplate what to do with the box. And you can make a bunch of inferences from doing those things to make a guess as to whether or not there's a cat in there. But the only way to be sure is to actually look in the box. And maybe there's a cat in there. And maybe there isn't a cat in there. But at least now you know, and if there'…	/r/seduction	04/03/18 02:23 PM
31	4 Hard Truths I Learned That Instantly Made Me A More Attractive Man Sorry, didn't watch either, just wanted to agree with you that it shouldn't take 10 minutes to list 4 things. That's being unnecessarily verbose.	/r/seduction	21/01/18 01:25 AM
5	Keep getting friendzoned after dates This has happened to me with the last 3 girls I dated. Went on two dates with each of them and they all said we would be better as friends. My theory is that I hadn't kissed them by the end of the second date. Honestly, I like to take things slow. My process has always kind of been to get to know the girl, which can develop to feelings, which leads to the kiss. Now I'm thinking girls kind of take it as a rejection if you don't attempt a kiss. I remember one of my female friends describing how sh…	/r/seduction	17/12/17 10:11 PM
10	I can talk forever, to anyone my age now. Thanks guys. I have a problem with this also. I'm a pretty good opener, but I always run out of steam, mostly because I feel like I run out of substantive things to talk about. Any more detail or insight on how to keep a conversation going?	/r/seduction	02/09/17 02:59 AM