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LifestyleBallislife1313/r/seduction03/02/25 10:12 AM
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ResourcesBallislife1313/r/seduction05/11/24 12:53 PM
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Fundamentals Ballislife1313/r/seduction09/10/24 10:14 AM
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12

Yes I'm mad because I didn't wanna read what goes through your mind as you jerk off for the 12th time today
/r/seduction23/07/26 03:05 PM
8

Sad...
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:59 PM
1

I know but you're literally setting yourself up to be miserable. Imagine how good your life would be if you didn't think about all this and just focused on things you can control. This is not some major problem or something you can't deal with. It's literally just your head creating problems and stress out of nowhere. The solution is clear : talk to girls you like, if they like you back, perfect, keep going until you get what you want. If not, or they're not sure, or they're playing games, or th…
/r/seduction22/07/26 02:31 PM
1

This is some of the saddest shit I've ever read... Some people are willing to go to insane lengths to actively make themselves miserable
/r/seduction22/07/26 10:14 AM
3

I couldn't disagree more. The gym is an insane cheat code for confidence. And I say this as someone who thought for years that it "wasn't for me", but once I sticked around long enough, my biggest regret was not starting earlier.
/r/seduction14/07/26 02:47 PM
1

Wine and some nice chocolate go a loooooooong way
/r/seduction09/07/26 08:42 AM
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25 fucking around with a 19 year old virgin, I'm usually not one to judge but yikes...
/r/seduction07/05/26 05:12 PM
9

They probably see you as one of the girls. Girls tend to do that when there's significantly more of them than men.
/r/seduction30/04/26 02:16 PM
1

If you don't respect your own time and your own dignity, no one will do it for you.
/r/seduction29/04/26 08:59 AM
1

What the fuck are you talking about
/r/seduction27/04/26 07:55 AM
2

I'm nowhere near 100+ bodycount but I've met my fair share of women and the one I will never forget was actually my first time with a prostitute lol 6ft russian redhead, blue eyes, face of an angel and the body of a goddess. Smooth skin, perfect curves, beautiful natural tits, absolute 10/10 if I've ever seen one, and to top it all off she was super nice and had a sense of humor.
/r/seduction21/04/26 02:24 PM
1

GYM. Right now, get off Reddit, search the closest gym to your place and go TODAY.
/r/seduction19/03/26 04:53 PM
6

You always have the option to walk away. And that's better than having your time, energy and money wasted for nothing.
/r/seduction27/11/25 10:37 AM
6

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. It's very simple.
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:05 PM
1

That is somewhat true, you definitely make a solid point. But as men, you and I both know that when a guy says "bro, she was all over me, she wanted me sooo bad", there's a 80% chance that the girl barely glanced at him. And then you have girls who will look and maintain eye contact as a sign of interest but will act completely unbothered when the guy goes up to them, these are the girls you mentioned in your example. I guess it really depends on each individual case but I just think that it's m…
/r/seduction31/08/25 09:46 AM
3

There's a huge difference between finding other people attractive and showing signs of interest. Not to mention that girls are way more subtle in terms of showing their interest because they don't even need to do that to get approached, so if they do, they must REALLY want you, especially if they have a boyfriend.
/r/seduction30/08/25 08:25 PM
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Lmao everyone assuming the girls are making up their boyfriends (which happens a lot, I'm not saying it doesn't) but no one is gonna tell this guy that most "signs of interests" that he sees from those girls are in his imagination only? I think that's more likely than a girl being with a guy and lusting over random dudes in the street.
/r/seduction30/08/25 10:36 AM
5

She definitely appreciates you as a person but not particularly as a potential partner. The words "kind hearted, patient" and especially "sweet" are a red flag in this context unfortunately. I really hope I'm just reading too much into it but based on what I've personally lived (which includes many soft rejections), this doesn't look good. With that being said, it's not over yet. Your best hope would be this weird thing that girls do when you hit a small "milestone", like going on a trip togethe…
/r/seduction08/05/25 03:04 PM
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Let me guess, you paid for the whole trip? Or at least most of it? And you guys didn't sleep together? Her choice of words is typically that of a girl who enjoyed the benefits of being with someone without giving anything in return (yes it sounds lame and borders on incel talk but that's how it is). My guess is that she enjoyed the trip but probably realized you weren't what she's looking for.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:49 PM
14

Yes you should learn how to dance, but before that there are 2 more important things you need to incorporate, and if you do those, you might not even need to learn how to dance. 1) talk to more girls. If you were talking to 3-4 girls already (just casually, I'm not talking about having 4 relationships), you wouldn't be so fixated on this one, or gotten nervous when she came and talked to you. The result would have most probably been different. 2) don't give a fuck what people think. A pretty gir…
/r/seduction28/04/25 07:49 AM
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Yeah but the facts are also that she left the club with another guy.
/r/seduction25/04/25 08:52 AM
2

It's not awkward at all once you've already established that you're having sex, just say "give me a sec" (make sure you're not stopping anything too suddenly) and go grab some. It's more important to be smooth when you're still building up, aka when you're still fingering her, that's when you need to use her natural lube. Also another tip (pun intended, wait for it) : keep rubbing the tip (there it is) of your penis against her vagina with an up and down motion without entering her. It'll make y…
/r/seduction31/03/25 09:19 AM
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That's the lamest thing to say in that kind of situation.
/r/seduction04/03/25 02:12 PM
2

Yes, there is a chance that she wasn't lying. But there's also a chance that it was an excuse to let you marinate while she makes up her mind (whether or not there's someone else in the picture), which is usually a sign that she's not that interested. And unfortunately the probability of the 2nd option is much higher...
/r/seduction03/03/25 02:36 PM
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I've been in this situation a few times myself and I always had the same thought process as you. Now that I'm the one telling girls I have too much work because I want to keep them around in case the girl I'm really interested in isn't available, I'm telling you to drop it and focus your time and energy somewhere else.
/r/seduction03/03/25 12:57 PM
2

Good. Now forget about her and do the same thing with 20 other women, but try to get a bit further each time, and adapt your approach based on your previous ones.
/r/seduction01/03/25 03:18 PM
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Semi-influencer = she's trying to be an actual influencer = most probably entitled like all of them, it all starts with the attitude. But you're biased because you like her so you don't see it, I wouldn't waste my time on this if I were you.
/r/seduction01/03/25 11:40 AM
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Nobody (including your girlfriend) will respect you if you don't respect yourself, and you're not respecting yourself right now.
/r/seduction28/02/25 02:41 PM
4

You didn't fuck up, Lola cock blocked you. I have 2 guesses : either Lola is the fridge friend and she's jealous of Stacey getting attention, or she's into you and doesn't want you to see other girls, or a combination of both which would be the worst case scenario.
/r/seduction28/02/25 11:28 AM
2

If I had a pussy it would be drier than a desert after reading this comment, holy shit it just kept getting worse with every word...
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:11 AM
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Well if you've heard that specifically from this sub then it must be true.
/r/seduction21/02/25 06:33 AM
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Totally normal, no one gets it right on the first try. Here's what I do : you first put your arm around her, if she agreed to go back to your place, putting your arm around her shouldn't be a problem at all. Then you start gently caressing her shoulder and veeery smoothly pull her closer to you. If by the end of this her head is resting on your shoulder or chest, congratulations, you made it. From this point forward, it's up to you to do whatever you feel is right. I usually start by kissing her…
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:13 PM
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Her slow responses are actually perfect. You also need to slow your responses down and text her 2-3 times a day at most. That way the conversation is technically still going and it avoids the awkwardness of no contact for several days and then just texting her on the day you're supposed to meet, which could make her hesitate or second guess her decision to meet up with you. Don't be too needy in your 2-3 texts per day either, keep it light.
/r/seduction20/02/25 11:52 AM
1

That's horrible advice. I'll bet you that if he doesn't text her from now until Sunday she'll cancel the date when he texts to confirm.
/r/seduction20/02/25 11:49 AM
2

Or what doesn't kill you makes you stronger
/r/seduction20/02/25 09:47 AM
1

Already the best year of my life dating wise, I'm loving it so far.
/r/seduction19/02/25 10:21 PM
1

Once is fine, any more than that and you'll just come off as desperate.
/r/seduction19/02/25 04:16 PM
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I'll even add to that, once you've changed (and grown) enough, you won't even want to ask her out because she already rejected you and you'll know that there's other fish in the sea. The fact that you're thinking about asking her out again is a sign that you still have some work to do.
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:40 PM
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This is the best possible answer for this question. This thread can be closed now.
/r/seduction18/02/25 02:58 PM
1

Enjoy the ride man, why are you in such a hurry? I personally enjoy these moments of "resistance" as much as the sex itself because it feels like you've worked hard for it, especially if you guys already had oral sex (which I also enjoy more than penetration). Don't take these moments for granted.
/r/seduction18/02/25 09:13 AM
3

The Tissot PRX is also an amazing watch, especially for the price.
/r/seduction15/02/25 02:07 PM
1

Okay? That has absolutely nothing to do with what I said
/r/seduction12/02/25 06:29 PM
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All I can say is you're lucky you're not a guy with that mentality.
/r/seduction11/02/25 12:14 PM
4

I rarely post on social media but if I did I would definitely post myself with my female friends (especially since most of them are pretty). You have to find the right balance though because if you do too much of it it'll have the opposite effect.
/r/seduction11/02/25 12:09 PM
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They LOVE it. I uploaded a photo of me and a female friend of mine (where I look good) and my matches increased significantly right away. Edit : maybe they don't love it but it definitely makes them want you more.
/r/seduction11/02/25 11:30 AM
3

What's your end goal though? I can totally understand a 3-4 girl rotation to keep yourself busy. But to the point of getting lost in the sauce, what's the point?
/r/seduction07/02/25 07:46 PM
22

50/50 ? This is 100% pure cringe
/r/seduction07/02/25 06:38 AM
34

Move on.
/r/seduction06/02/25 02:14 PM
2

Breathe. Deep breaths. Lots of them. For extended periods of time. Stop overthinking. In order to do that, you have to keep yourself busy. You said you were focused on your studies, keep doing that, go to the gym, play video games, go out with friends, hell, talk to other girls if that can keep you busy from thinking about her all the time. Her not being available the whole time by text doesn't mean she's not interested, she could just be busy or bad at texting. You have to set up another date i…
/r/seduction06/02/25 07:50 AM
10

Are you sure the vegetation process didn't get to your head a little bit?
/r/seduction04/02/25 11:55 AM
2

I couldn't agree more. I thought I had peaked in high school/early years of college because I had plenty of girls interested in me compared to very few in my early-mid twenties. Now I'm almost 27 and I feel like I'm reentering my prime all over again. I love it.
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:08 AM
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Do NOT be rough with her if it's her first time, even if she asks you to.
/r/seduction04/02/25 08:24 AM
2

After being in the same situation as you, I can confidently tell you it'll be worth it. Good luck!
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:55 PM
2

Most girls deactivate the notifications from the apps because there's too many of them. I don't understand what's happening in OP's case but in my experience girls were much more responsive when we moved to Instagram or Whatsapp compared to when we still talked on the app.
/r/seduction03/02/25 12:38 PM
9

You're the one missing the point. Confidence doesn't just skyrocket out of nowhere because you choose to be more confident. The lack of confidence is very often related to something that makes us insecure and only when we take care of it (physically if possible, otherwise mentally), confidence can skyrocket.
/r/seduction03/02/25 12:22 PM
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My confidence skyrocketed thanks to my dental aesthetics so it has everything to do with it. And even beyond confidence, your teeth/smile is one of the first things girls will notice about you so a clean good looking set of teeth will definitely go a long way.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:54 AM
1

This is literally why I wrote this post. All I can say is look into it, you have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:40 AM
0

I can hear the no money argument, although I'm sure you can definitely find a way to take care of it if you're really determined, but as I said in the post, it's never too late. Do yourself a favor and just look into it out of curiosity. There's this girl on youtube that makes very good videos in case you just want some information, her channel is called teeth talk girl.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:29 AM
3

This is literally the best case scenario
/r/seduction19/12/24 10:50 AM
2

That's the worst advice ever. Not only you're giving this man false hope but you're also making him broke...
/r/seduction19/12/24 07:58 AM
1

It's the most generic advice but it's generic for a reason : do it again, and again, and again, and again. It's a good thing you recognize it, so you'll keep it in mind for your next approaches and it'll get better before you know it.
/r/seduction13/12/24 10:27 AM
3

You say you have sexual tension but at the same time you're shy and only see her in group settings. What makes you think you have sexual tension? I'm not trying to bring you down but there's definitely a chance you may have misinterpreted some things.
/r/seduction12/12/24 07:18 PM
60

You don't. You just move on and find someone else who won't waste your time.
/r/seduction11/12/24 07:01 PM
2

Yeah I definitely think it's the unfamiliar situation with a lot of stakes, if this happened on a regular basis it would get much easier, but it would probably be less fun after a certain time.
/r/seduction11/12/24 07:00 PM
9

Classic case of lost in the sauce. Don't beat yourself over it, these things happen to everybody (literally happened to me last weekend, not with models though).
/r/seduction11/12/24 05:42 PM
3

There are a thousand possible answers to this depending on who you ask. My answer is that girls are weird, it's just impossible for us (or me at least) to know exactly what goes in their minds because some of their actions make absolutely no sense, and here you have a live example. The best way to deal with this is to text her again in a couple of days if she doesn't respond by then. If she leaves you on read again, you move on and you keep this in mind next time you're experiencing the Chad hig…
/r/seduction11/12/24 04:31 PM
10

I can't believe I didn't realize, good catch
/r/seduction10/12/24 05:57 PM
4

Why are you getting downvoted?
/r/seduction10/12/24 04:37 PM
6

You're about to get laid, have fun
/r/seduction06/12/24 05:36 PM
21

I have a list of reasons to comfort myself when I can't get any girls: 1) genetics. If I were taller (I'm 6 foot tall), more handsome, more muscular and with better facial features, I'd get way more girls. 2) I'm a foreigner. Girls are more likely to prefer local guys than foreigners, especially since I come from a way different culture. 3) I don't have a solid social circle. I've lived in different places for the last 6 years so I never really stayed long enough in a single city to actually bui…
/r/seduction05/12/24 03:25 PM
9

No, long distance is (almost) never worth it.
/r/seduction04/12/24 12:38 PM
1

It's harder to find a wingman than a girl in this day and age...
/r/seduction04/12/24 11:56 AM
18

This has absolutely nothing to do with this sub.
/r/seduction04/12/24 11:03 AM
1

It really depends on how much, how often and what you smoke. I often light up a quick joint before going out and it makes me wayyy more social and relaxed, the smile never leaves my face which makes talking to people in general a lot easier. But I definitely know where you're coming from. There have been times where I'd smoke the "light" joint before going out but it's not as light as I thought and I just end up chilling at home. Just gotta find your balance but you don't necessarily have to giv…
/r/seduction04/12/24 07:56 AM
1

Do you have any recommendations for good routines/gambits/scripts?
/r/seduction02/12/24 02:02 PM
3

I would have done the same. Even if it doesn't work, you'll have the satisfaction of taking action and ending things on your terms, instead of a blurry situation that was imposed by her.
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:57 PM
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It's up to you. If you still have the energy and aren't too pissed off, then sure why not. But you have to be firm. If you make a move and she rejects it you tell her that you don't have time to waste and you LEAVE. If you're already too frustrated after this, then just move on, especially if you have other options, which is likely based on your description of yourself.
/r/seduction02/12/24 01:13 PM
5

She invites you directly to her place on the first date. You cuddle naked and you don't make a move. You go back to hers, you make multiple moves and she rejects you. You get frustrated and you want to leave but she asks you to stay and you oblige. You make another move that she rejects AGAIN. You get frustrated once more, you try to leave, she asks you to stay and you oblige AGAIN. All this while talking to you about her past relationships (that include ONS) and telling you she doesn't like ONS…
/r/seduction02/12/24 12:38 PM
2

How did you know she was disappointed deep down? Sounds like that's what you wanted to see, not what you actually saw.
/r/seduction30/11/24 03:14 PM
6

You have to pay to play. If you don't pay for sex, you'll still have to pay for drinks, dinners, shopping etc... That's how men in their 40s with millions in their bank accounts nail 20-something girls.
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:35 AM
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I have no doubt in my mind that you're telling the truth and nothing but the truth.
/r/seduction27/11/24 08:00 AM
1

Keep us posted champ
/r/seduction26/11/24 05:11 PM
1

I've never done that but if I were to do it, I'd at least suggest the idea to both of them before the date to test the waters. If they show up and find another girl there's a 99% chance they would leave immediately.
/r/seduction26/11/24 04:44 PM
2

I have no idea who the guy is but this is the most obviously staged bs I've ever read.
/r/seduction26/11/24 04:41 PM
2

Instagram étiquette summed up in one comment.
/r/seduction25/11/24 10:46 AM
9

You have a little bit of everything, the majority will be girls that are looking for a serious relationship but there are definitely a lot of girls who are more easy going. The thing is you'll have to get your wallet ready because there are lots of gold diggers, really, LOTS. And those are the most likely to hook up with you. Also this goes without saying but do NOT touch a girl without protection, it's seriously dangerous because sexual education does not exist in Morocco. Bonus points if you'r…
/r/seduction21/11/24 11:42 AM
2

That's even better. She doesn't need your pictures since she already knows what you look like. And on top of that she gets to see another side of you that she couldn't see at the gym.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:24 AM
1

It really depends on the person. If the girl is respectful all along and doesn't make me waste my time then I'll also be respectful. If she does waste my time, then it's no reply. There have also been cases where the girl seems like a genuinely cool person and in that case I'll suggest being friends (with no intention of trying to seduce her again, I move on immediately I like expanding my social circle even outside of dating and maybe she'll have a friend for me.
/r/seduction20/11/24 06:44 PM
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Lost all credibility at "sucking at a girl's boobs inside a bar with people around". That's really not the flex you think it is.
/r/seduction20/11/24 08:11 AM
3

It's your fault for thinking there's a deeper meaning/explanation to something that sounds this stupid in the first place.
/r/seduction19/11/24 01:14 PM
66

This is the corniest shit I've ever read on this sub.
/r/seduction18/11/24 05:24 PM
1

Yes but this is a very specific situation. From what you described, there's literally no way to tell because it could be either one option or the other (or maybe even something else), only the girl knows for sure. The only advice I can give you is to stop overthinking it, keep talking to her and see how things evolve and try again when you get the chance.
/r/seduction16/11/24 07:04 PM
10

Oh you don't wanna hear it's impossible? well check this out : with this attitude of yours, it's impossible.
/r/seduction16/11/24 06:57 PM
3

Do you really expect someone to have the answer to that question here?
/r/seduction16/11/24 04:44 PM
2

Follow the part that says you have nothing to lose. I don't think this is very good advice but I did it a couple of times and I was surprised by the results so feel free to try it if you really have nothing to lose. Skip all the "hey how are you" small talk and go straight to the point "hey I have tickets for xxx, would you like to go with me?" or "hey I know this is a bit out of the blue but do you wanna get a drink next friday?"
/r/seduction14/11/24 11:44 AM
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As I said, those are just two examples of something that you might notice/find out about a person that could be an instant turn off after initial attraction. It could be something else. But yeah your experience is super weird because I honestly don't know what else it could be.
/r/seduction12/11/24 04:12 PM
2

That sounds extremely odd. I can think of two options : either you're too easily accessible, which can make men lose interest sometimes, or there's a detail about you that instantly turns them off, like a weird smell or maybe something about your life like your body count or some other thing that scares them off (I'm not saying any of this is true, these are just examples).
/r/seduction12/11/24 03:52 PM
7

Damn, good for you for bouncing back! Mine was about 3 years ago so I was 23. It had always worked for me and this was the wake-up slap to tell me that it was time to grow from a boy to a man.
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:50 AM
16

The classic : your friendship means so much to me. Needless to say I left right away and the character development was on.
/r/seduction12/11/24 10:46 AM
27

Wrote one of my best friends (at the time) a huge text telling her about the crush I'd had for her for the past couple of years. On her birthday. The day after new year's eve. She had no idea about this until I told her about it. I get chills from cringe just thinking about it. But I'm glad it happened the way it did because it opened my eyes so much and I wouldn't be the person I am today if it weren't for that.
/r/seduction12/11/24 09:17 AM
0

Keep weed out of this, that plant is as innocent as OP is trying to prove he is.
/r/seduction09/11/24 03:24 PM
9

Either you're incredibly paranoid and you need therapy or you're actually a rapist because there's NO REASON for them to behave like that.
/r/seduction09/11/24 03:23 PM
2

You haven't read/lived enough if you don't realize that sometimes it's just not meant to be. You can be the master of masters in terms of seduction, reading all the books and knowing all the techniques by heart but you'll still get rejected if the attraction isn't there. Now it's time to move on and the good news is that all that work you put in wasn't for nothing, although it may feel like it rn. You're a different person now and this rejection will make you even stronger. Plenty of fish in the…
/r/seduction09/11/24 10:07 AM
1

Not at all, the only bad thing is that the interaction was wayyy more significant from your perspective than hers. Also you mention that you met her for the first time after a few months. Why would you shake her hand? Unless this is in a professional setting, you shouldn't shake her hand, go for a hug or a kiss (on the cheek, european style) depending on where you live. But really the most important thing is stop overthinking. You don't need to constantly analyze every single detail.
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:58 PM
2

You need to have some alcohol in you, it's the easiest way to suppress these useless but very much sabotaging thoughts.
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:50 PM
1

I mean it depends... If we're on our way to my place after a good date, I'll hold anything she wants. If I feel there's no connection and I know it's the last time I'm seeing her, fuck that
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:39 PM
3

Nope. Unless you have plenty of other options and don't mind having her on the side "just in case", but don't get invested into the "friendship"
/r/seduction07/11/24 10:45 AM
1

You're not a 10 at all, just a 9.9
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:36 AM
5

Damn this immediately reminded me of high school.
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:24 AM
2

You gotta rip the band-aid off. You think you want her as your friend but you know that's not really what you want. You need to move on to other things and minimize the time you spend around her. Maybe the distance will make her miss you and change her mind? We never know, but definitely don't count on that. There are plenty of fish in the sea, this one was just not meant to be for you, and that's okay. I went through the exact same process with a close friend of mine (with the same outcome) and…
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:53 PM
0

That's crazy, was there a reason for banning you? Also how many matches/likes per week did you get with/without the subscription if you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:20 PM
1

How many matches/likes per week did you get with/without the subscription if you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:19 PM
4

That's interesting, could you give us some figures? How many likes/matches per week approximately did you get before/after the subscription?
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:46 PM
4

I agree with everything you said. The only thing you missed in your examples is the "boost" feature that shows your profile to more people, and that's the only thing I'm interested in, I should have specified it in my post. I can do a pretty good job talking to my matches and setting up dates, and an even better job once we meet irl. My problem is the low volume of matches to begin with. That's why I think that more exposure could get me more matches and I can take it from there.
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:44 PM
8

Because I'm objectively not THAT good looking, an attitude switch won't make me jacked with the facial features of a top model. I know I'm not ugly and I know that I can definitely attract girls, but I also know my limits, so I need to be seen by more girls in order to get more of them.
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:22 PM
2

Did the subscription include "skipping the line" to show your profile to more people? To me that's the only aspect of a premium subscription that might be worth it, especially if you're not THAT good looking.
/r/seduction05/11/24 01:08 PM
2

You don't need to do anything other than staying safe because this sounds like a scam.
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:12 AM
0

You're horrible at this. Stop giving advice.
/r/seduction01/11/24 10:29 AM
4

Being used is a huge understatement. That should be your business partner and nothing more, unless you can actually completely suppress your feelings for her, which seems unlikely.
/r/seduction29/10/24 08:47 AM
-6

"your loss bitch, you're ugly anyway" usually does the trick. On a more serious note though, taking a girl home straight from a sushi place sounds really difficult, unless she had an instant crush on you and was already planning on sleeping with you before the date. I can't tell you what to say to try and change her mind (I'm curious to read what others will say) but my advice would be to always go to a bar and get some drinks before you make your big move.
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:07 PM
5

Girls are so fucking weird... You should just move on
/r/seduction28/10/24 07:35 PM
4

That's interesting. While I agree that the pump won't change the end result, I am curious though. How do you maintain the pump for a longer period?
/r/seduction28/10/24 04:16 PM
64

I totally agree with this. The post-workout confidence is so underrated. I wish the pump lasted longer too.
/r/seduction28/10/24 04:04 PM
18

you always want to be thinking 'how does this affect my delivery', 'how does this come across when I'm expressing myself'. You lost me here. That is HORRIBLE advice and probably the number one reason guys hesitate when approaching girls.
/r/seduction26/10/24 12:07 PM
25

Idk what you mean by "got physically involved" but if you got laid with one of your 6 dates I don't think that's a bad ratio at all, especially since you're still figuring it out.
/r/seduction26/10/24 06:07 AM
2

You can look like Brad Pitt and still get this type of reaction. One sample means nothing. If this happened on a regular basis, then you can start questioning if your appearance is the problem.
/r/seduction25/10/24 03:33 PM
1

I can't speak for desi men but coming from North Africa, where a lot of men struggle too, I'd sum it up in three reasons : religion, society and the internet (yes, I believe the internet does more harm than good in this topic). Pretty sure these factors are common for a lot of non western countries but I can't say for sure.
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:42 PM
8

Nice fan fiction (I didn't and definitely won't be reading all that)
/r/seduction25/10/24 02:02 PM
3

Aw man that's a bummer. Just do the best you can while you guys are outside and hope she invites you back to hers. I don't wanna give you any wrong advice on how to invite yourself because I wouldn't know how to do it either. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:13 PM
18

Nope. Super creepy move indeed. Don't ever do that.
/r/seduction23/10/24 02:07 PM
4

Huh? Who and when did I judge? I don't think you understood my comment at all
/r/seduction23/10/24 12:35 PM
4

You're doing good. Her text saying she had fun and her agreeing to a 2nd date are good signs. Meeting halfway for the 2nd date is also a good idea. Here's what I recommend : do NOT rush inviting her back to your place. Make her feel comfortable, kiss her, and keep making her feel comfortable. Find an excuse to go back to your town, like a really good ice cream shop or a park with a really nice view... Make her feel comfortable in that new environment AGAIN, and then you suggest getting a drink a…
/r/seduction23/10/24 10:30 AM
13

I'm not sure I agree. If you become the best version of yourself, you'll be able to retain girls' attention more when YOU approach them, you'll get them interested in you. I'm 100% with you on this. But working on yourself will not make girls smile at you and go out of their way to come approach you. Unless you got cosmetic surgery or became absolutely ripped.
/r/seduction23/10/24 10:09 AM
108

Not to be rude, but if you have 9.5s smiling at you out of the blue and 8s "looking for you" after a conversation, you're in no position to give this type of advice because you're not playing the same game most guys (including me) are playing. I'm glad you got this going on for you but this isn't how things go for the average guy so it might be a little deceiving.
/r/seduction23/10/24 08:47 AM
1

Not your fault. I'm far from an expert but I see nothing fundamentally wrong with this. It's just part of the game.
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:17 AM
4

You said you wanted to be more than friends, she said she wanted to be just friends. You folded and met up with her as friends. In my opinion that's where you lost her. I'd move on to something else because this sounds like it'll take way too much time and energy and there are no signs of her reciprocating. Don't settle for something you don't want.
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:39 AM
2

I love the categories that you use for the girls you matched with. On a more serious note, I was literally just thinking about hiring a photographer because my pictures SUCK and that's what's stopping me. Once I match with a girl, I know what to do to go all the way, but my problem is the very low amount of matches (I refuse to swipe right on BBWs). Do you mind showing me the before/after of your profile?
/r/seduction22/10/24 04:51 PM
0

Phew, good thing you didn't tell her you were happy she called 😮‍💨 Surely she has no other way to tell you're too eager.
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:28 PM
6

Comment on a detail in her profile, that should get the ball rolling. Ask her questions about herself and after a few messages, when you feel there is mutual interest, you hit her with the "I'm not very good at texting but I would like to know you better, would you like to grab a drink or some coffee later?".
/r/seduction22/10/24 12:11 PM
5

I was in the same situation a couple of years ago. I confessed my feelings to one of my best friends but it wasn't reciprocated. Looking back at it now, it was one of the best things I've ever done in my life because it really opened my eyes and I've grown so much in the last couple of years, and a big part of it was "thanks" to that rejection. I like the person I am now better than the person I would have been if we did actually get together. Your case seems to be different based on the message…
/r/seduction21/10/24 12:06 PM
3

Girls are just weird. I know that's not the right answer but sometimes their behavior makes no sense AT ALL. I personally stopped trying to figure them out and I just go with the flow with 0 expectations. It works so much better for me.
/r/seduction20/10/24 07:46 AM
2

Smoke some weed or drink some alcohol before you meet her (don't get wasted, just enough to loosen up because it's all in your mind).
/r/seduction19/10/24 03:48 PM
3

Say it louder for the people in the back
/r/seduction18/10/24 01:00 PM
3

If she drinks from the same glass as you it just means she doesn't think you're filthy. While that is a condition for her to be attracted to you, it's by far not the only one and definitely not a good indicator.
/r/seduction18/10/24 12:59 PM
4

I think you're matching too many dots that aren't supposed to be matched. Trust and attraction are two totally different things. They may have a small common ground but it definitely shouldn't be your clue to think a girl is attracted to you, there are much more obvious ones.
/r/seduction18/10/24 08:00 AM
1

You text her in a week or two when you're available again and hope she is too. Ask how she's been and ask her out again. DO NOT try to maintain a conversation through text in the meanwhile, it's guaranteed to kill all your hopes because it'll fade away sooner rather than later.
/r/seduction18/10/24 06:34 AM
2

Forget that this ever happened. Invite her for a drive and ice cream in the next few days. If it works it works, and if it doesn't then you move on, but at least you won't keep wondering.
/r/seduction17/10/24 09:00 PM
49

Yeah so when I share a joint with my homie it means we're attracted to each other
/r/seduction17/10/24 08:56 PM
1

Idk where you live but in Europe parks on a sunday afternoon are a gold mine. They're filled with either couples walking around or single people who wish they had someone to walk around with.
/r/seduction17/10/24 09:01 AM
1

If anything sex should be a higher level of that genuine connection. Connecting on an emotional level then topping it with a physical connection is the most perfect thing you could share with someone.
/r/seduction16/10/24 03:04 PM
1

Literally all the answers you're looking for are in your post. What else do you expect us to say?
/r/seduction16/10/24 07:44 AM
2

This is completely besides the point but I learned to swim in open sea. Guess I'm just built different.
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:32 PM
3

One simple answer : the gym. Trust the process.
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:49 AM
11

Maybe she's just enjoying it more because you're better at it? This shouldn't even be a question
/r/seduction12/10/24 09:30 PM
1

5 minutes into the movie, wrap your arm around her, keep caressing her shoulder for a good two minutes and pull her closer and closer to you. Once the two minutes are finished, close your eyes and kiss her. Don't think about this twice, she's clearly into you and waiting for you to make a move so go for it.
/r/seduction12/10/24 07:32 PM
11

Another troll. Not as good as the previous ones but not bad either, I definitely smiled while reading your piece. 6.5/10
/r/seduction11/10/24 09:11 PM
2

In my opinion, first times are overrated. Sure it's a special moment and all that, but it's just special because you're doing it for the first time, it doesn't matter how or with who you're doing it. Another thing is you probably won't be that good, which is okay because it's literally your first time. Especially if you've watched porn before, don't expect to last an hour because it's very unlikely. So don't beat yourself up over it. Think of it as the first of many and the best is yet to come ;…
/r/seduction11/10/24 11:46 AM
160

Maybe you're hallucinating from lack of sleep
/r/seduction11/10/24 05:22 AM
4

A lot (not all) of guys who appear nice to everyone are horrible to their girlfriends. Those are the people I despise the most on this planet. They will try to make everyone happy (including strangers), avoid any type of confrontation, and then take it out on their girls making their lives a living hell.
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:56 PM
1

Not really related to the sub in general but clubs are a lot of fun when you go there to have fun. It's a place with a bunch of lights, loud music, and you're most probably drunk and spending the night with your friends. That alone should be more than enough for you to enjoy your time at the club. If by chance you happen to meet a girl, then that's a bonus, but it shouldn't be your number one priority when you go there because you might (and probably will) be disappointed.
/r/seduction10/10/24 11:53 AM
2

I'd do this if I sense she's hesitating. If the words "no" or "sorry" come out of her mouth, then this is useless and it's better to follow OP's advice.
/r/seduction09/10/24 08:17 PM
30

100$ says you're her side piece. She's got an on/off relationship you're yet to discover.
/r/seduction09/10/24 07:00 PM
1

As someone who plays basketball, that is the most convincing thing I've read in this thread, I can't believe I never thought of that metaphor. Although I could use the same metaphor to prove that leagues do exist, someone with a horrible shooting form will need to take 100 shots to make one, while Steph Curry could probably go 100/100. They're definitely not in the same league even if they both have a certain chance of making a shot.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:48 PM
9

I thought he was for real at first but after reading the comments, he's definitely trolling (and he's good at it because I got a good laugh out of this)
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:45 PM
2

I really hope you're trolling because ain't no way
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:41 PM
0

It's a sign that she wants you bad, she wants you to escalate things even more. This is the closest you've come to victory and you shouldn't give up.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:36 PM
1

My experience with dating apps in general has been horrible, which is part of the reason why I believe there's a truth to this leagues thing. But as you mentioned, dating apps only focus on looks and also need a lot of intricacy while creating your profile, which I think I suck at. But as you said, you can make up for the looks with other stuff in real life and I think that's where I have the best chances because it's actually something I can work on and keep improving. Also sick username, it de…
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:19 PM
1

How did you get out of it?
/r/seduction09/10/24 04:17 PM
1

Although I agree with the comment you're replying to, I think this is also a good argument. Maybe it's easier to land girls that are "below your league" because there's more of them and you're more keen to approach them. So more volume translates into more success.
/r/seduction09/10/24 01:02 PM
6

I think this is a great way to explain it. There will obviously never be a direct answer as to whether or not a girl is attracted to you (or vice versa), but it's an odds game. This is how I see it : If you're a 4 on average according to 100 people, and you approach a girl that is a 9 on average according to a 100 people, chances are you'll get rejected. Is it guaranteed? Absolutely not, but it's more than likely. It's like a mid overseas basketball team playing a team from the NBA. The NBA team…
/r/seduction09/10/24 12:57 PM
1

Okay let's say you see Scarlett Johansson ordering a drink at your local bar, how do you suppress from your mind the fact that she's Scarlett Johansson in order to approach her like a regular girl?
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:55 AM
2

Do you wanna elaborate a bit more?
/r/seduction09/10/24 10:52 AM
1

And of course she will oblige because of the implication, right?
/r/seduction09/10/24 09:21 AM
2

Bars, cafes or parks
/r/seduction08/10/24 08:46 PM
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