| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 111 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?" | Balloons_lol | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 07:13 AM | |
| 2 | I was thinking about "Nice Guys" today | Balloons_lol | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 07:29 AM |
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| 9 | 6 Harsh Truths that Will Make you a better personHOLY FUCK time to change | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 04:44 AM |
| 2 | How does one deal with a relapse of their one-itis ?right hand side of the window, there should be a little thing that says "Submit a link" | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 06:02 AM |
| 3 | How should you handle "asexual" girls?I don't come here often anymore, so my advice might not be the best, but overal, you should try asking, in seriousness, if she's actually asexual. Prioritize this. It won't "kill the mood" or anything. Just during joking, be like, "okay but I actually want to know... are you really asexual? This kinda matters." Escalation after she's told you she's asexual will result in a rapey sort of outcome almost every time. Do not rape her. That's like the opposite of seduction. | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Usually I don't let this stuff bother me but this time it did.Maybe it's cause you played the race card. Does "Italian" sum up your personality or appearance better than anything else you could have thought of? | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 09:03 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with last minute resistance?That count down thing is so fucking stupid. | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 08:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with last minute resistance?DO NOT RAPE HER. Do not even come close. The way to get past LMR is not to power through it. It's to get her to want you. | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 08:59 AM |
| 2 | I never want to go out! Any tips on changing this habit?Recognize that you've got it in you. This applies to most aspects of life. You've got the brain to learn pretty much anything. You've got the muscles to start going to the gym. Therefore, you can actually just go do it. You're the only thing stopping yourself. Change hurts at first, because you are both the sculptor and the marble. | /r/seduction | 08/11/12 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Super Direct Openersnot always true. sometimes, if you're direct enough (see: apocalypse opener), you look so ridiculously confident that it just works. that said, dhvs are never bad. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 08:15 AM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?be careful man, it's a slippery slope for dealers, people will tempt you with more money to sell crack, meth, etc. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:05 AM |
| 1 | DESPERATE TIMES CALL FOR DESPERATE MEASURESFound it. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:08 PM |
| 1 | DESPERATE TIMES CALL FOR DESPERATE MEASURESComputers aren't exclusively lame, it's just that it's hard to make that hobby work out. Most people are judgmental; it's an unfortunate truth. So if they ask what your hobbies are and you say, "Java," they're going to make an immediate judgment on you. This of course can later be changed after they realize you're a cool guy but making a good first impression never hurts, especially in the /r/Seduction scenarios you'll find yourself in, like trying to get a girl in under ten minutes or when ther… | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 05:10 PM |
| 2 | DESPERATE TIMES CALL FOR DESPERATE MEASURESFirst step. Do you have anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, or any other mental ailment that sets you apart from the average man? Find out. Google some tests to see if you have depression or not. If you have one, this is not the place for you and you should seek professional health as mental illnesses are quite serious and will not work well in conjunction with some material here. But assuming you're okay and mentally stable, you need confidence. Hard, unshakeable confidence. This is difficul… | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 08:24 AM |
| 48 | I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued.And then they both post FRs here about it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 11:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!"That reminds me. How did you say, "Well then why aren't you drinking them, MAN!?" What did you make that sound like? Obviously it worked but I'm confused by it. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 05:30 PM |
| 13 | [FR] "You can be my wingwoman!"You are the definition of the life of the party. I liked when you #-closed the black dude on his birthday. Solid work. | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 10:02 PM |
| 1 | First Date Guide - How to get her to bed every time!I've heard it's easy in Russia. There's a video of a guy touching 1,000 pairs of boobs (that's a total of 2,000 boobs!) in a few days. He just asked. Most said yes. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Is it ever "to late" to approach?DO IT YOU FUCKING wonderful individual. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Strategy with Shy GirlsYou are an extrovert. You just like being alone at times, like a majority of people. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Good Public hookup locations?ROOFTOPS. The rush, man. The rush. Especially if you sneak in. Don't do it in a library though. People are trying to study and shit; be respectful. | /r/seduction | 27/08/12 10:42 AM |
| 57 | [FR] Follow up: Male style PUA tips applied by female > Role reversal reversal and F-close.Don't forget about his callback humor. very well executed. I'd say he was a PUA What if he posted a FR here? that'd be too fucking good | /r/seduction | 24/08/12 09:41 AM |
| 0 | Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test.If you're doing all the work, you need to get better at push/pull balance. | /r/seduction | 22/08/12 04:08 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Mission to get over AA was a huge successExcellent #-close on that old man. THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULD TALK TO EVERYONE! You never know who you'll meet, and maybe you'll get lucky, and some old dude at a bar will help you start a career. | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 10:21 AM |
| 1 | I know I'm not supposed to learn in to hear her, but being 6'3 I just look feel like an asshole.You can lean towards her. The rule itself is only effective in specific situations. If you're in an incredibly loud setting and she's telling you a story, you can lean in a little. But if she's telling you to do something and you lean in, it's almost like you're bowing towards her. These are just examples but don't be afraid to lean in to hear her. If you're doing things right, this won't affect your game. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:51 AM |
| 1 | I need her to stop talking about her ex. How do I do it effectively?Just change the topic. Or tell her to stop talking about her ex. In order to be a strong individual, you must be able to speak your mind without fear of repercussions. That doesn't mean you shout whatever bullshit you think of - there are times and places for certain things to be said - but don't be afraid of reminding her you don't care about her exes. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:49 AM |
| 2 | How many girls have you slept with?Still a virgin, so zero. In many ways, I don't give a fuck. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 10:47 AM |
| 14 | [FR] Day Game -- Allies in the most unlikely of placesVery solid. A question to anyone who can answer this - how do you calm down a nervous girl so you can escalate? | /r/seduction | 10/08/12 09:06 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation?mind if i pikachu | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Show of hands, who has actually gone out and approached solo?Mastered? Hell no. But I've tried. | /r/seduction | 31/07/12 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Being direct vs. triggering ASDYeah, yeah, I know the whole "be alpha" thing. I've read and applied this stuff for several months. But there are little mind hacks you can use. Example - mimicking her body posture, in a subtle way, can make her see you as more affectionate. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Being direct vs. triggering ASDWhere are some good places to learn how to be indirect? From what I've gathered, it's just being alpha, etc., but is there anything other than being direct that I should know? I assume light kino, DHVs, banter, and overall being a cool alpha guy is mostly what's necessary. But the overall question is are there any tricks to this? | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:45 PM |
| 11 | So, seddit: let's play the invent-an-opener game![FR] Used Body Opener on HB8, #-close | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:40 PM |
| 2 | So, seddit: let's play the invent-an-opener game!An unconscious body slumped in the corner of the room. | /r/seduction | 30/07/12 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERYou, too. I learned a few things myself. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERUltimately, both are useless without confidence. I'm certain using mainly kino and confidence you can be a "strong but silent" type and get laid a ton. On the other end, you can be a great conversationalist and be incredibly confident and women will want to fuck you, even if you haven't touched them. They're likely stylistic choices, and whether you're more kino oriented or conversation oriented is simply a preference. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERKino never was a major fear to me. I was always kind of a touchy-feely person. What scared me was talking to strangers. I spent months thinking there had to be some magic opener I could use, some creative, witty, unique line that instantly would set the mood. My approach anxiety held me off from just saying "hey" for a looooong time. I was still shaking off remnants of my AFC past, despite knowing the techniques. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How to feel like I'm not bothering girls?Interesting perspective that I hadn't considered. Do you just say "hey" to her? It seems a bit different because she has to take out the earphones and ask you to repeat yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 02:21 AM |
| -3 | How to feel like I'm not bothering girls?Don't approach her if she's got headphones on or is reading. Some here might disagree but you don't have to go after even woman you want. You can. But if you, like me, aren't completely comfortable talking to every single person you see, you don't have to approach. Books/iPods are my general "do not approach" signals. Plus, if you're reading/listening to music, do you really want to be approached by some random person? Not really. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 01:36 AM |
| 13 | Conversational Threading: Never run out of things to say, EVERI would argue this is more valuable than kino. If you only knew this, you could have a conversation. You might not be able to escalate it, but whatever, at least it was an interesting talk. If you only know kino, you're fumbling with words while touching her. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 01:01 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game.confidently looked her in the eyes and said "No." That's no fun though. | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 10:10 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game.YOU DIDNT ACTUALLY GIVE HIM ONE | /r/seduction | 11/07/12 10:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First approach ever...thank you Seddit...so much.Wait, question. Wouldn't the goal to always meet a girl and possibly have sex or a relationship? What other motivation is there? If sex/relationship is desired, approach. It seems as simple as that. | /r/seduction | 08/07/12 06:50 AM |
| 1 | 22 yr. old virgin had the chance to get laid, turned it down.this cruise is an excellent opportunity. OP, you're going to be bad during your first time. Just accept that. but because you're on a cruise, you won't have to see the girls ever again (unless you get one pregnant - don't). So there's little risk. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 07:36 AM |
| 30 | I'm ugly as fuck. It's a huge mental block. I can't just "accept" it, and it's crippling my life. How do I proceed?OP is definitely not ugly, but I don't think you should've posted his pic without permission. | /r/seduction | 07/07/12 07:33 AM |
| 6 | Interrupted by betasWell, you can still leave better than OP did. Might not seem like a big deal but OP's confidence was ruined after that. Of course, if he was more outcome independent, it wouldn't have been a problem, but why not end it a little more lightheartedly? Instead of slinking off, I think OP should've done what onederpatatime suggested and tried to bring a beta out of his comfort zone. The beta could have a few reactions. He could want to fight, in which case OP could sidestep it, act like he was just k… | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 08:16 AM |
| 7 | I'm fed up, but not sure if this is the right place for me.You already sound like you're in good shape for change. Welcome aboard. | /r/seduction | 10/06/12 06:46 AM |
| 2 | An EASY Way of Raising 'Social Proof' in a ClubTL:DR - Be good at dancing. | /r/seduction | 06/06/12 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to socialize at a party.Introversion is not the same as approach anxiety. By taking baby steps (i.e. reading the side bar) and practicing and putting yourself outside of your comfort zone, anyone can become extraverted. An introvert can become more social and adapt better to new environments however it's not something you overcome and it's not a disability either. I would have called myself an introvert before I discovered gaming, but now my friends marvel at my ability to "turn on the charm like a lightswitch". Then I… | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 02:12 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Grocery Store # Closelighten up man, we are just here for entertainment there is no need to be upset | /r/seduction | 05/06/12 01:10 AM |
| -1 | Best ways to socialize at a party.Nice job displaying your ignorance. Being an introvert is a real thing, whether you want to believe in it or not. Yeah, I know you can be a social introvert. I am one. We do not need to get rid of any labels. What we need to get rid of is people who use these labels as an excuse to never approach. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to socialize at a party.Regardless, extroverts will be more prone to conversation. As an introvert, I always consider if talking to the girl is worth the social interaction. How badly do I want her. This leads to me approaching less women but being as satisfied as anyone else. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 07:34 AM |
| 6 | Best ways to socialize at a party.I still approach and am comfortable doing so (wouldn't consider myself different from the average sedditor in that aspect of seduction) but I would still classify myself as an introvert. I like women and I also like being alone. The only hesitation I have before approaching a woman is I think - do I really want this? It's not about if I think I'd mess up or whatever. I only hesitate because is she worth social interaction? Usually yes, but sometimes I think she's not worth the effort. So I guess… | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 07:04 AM |
| 1 | The random Facebook add - where to go from here?you could have your friend wingman for you? | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:59 AM |
| 8 | You should always be closing (The Hold'em Mentality)I'm 12 and what is this | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:56 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I Thought I Was In, Then Guy Who Was Exactly Like Ex Came In Picture... I Was Still InYour friend fucking sucks, dude | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:56 AM |
| 5 | Best ways to socialize at a party.what the fuck | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Best ways to socialize at a party.I don't think you realize what being an introvert is. It's radically different from AA and you can't really get rid of it permanently. | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 06:47 AM |
| 10 | How weirded out are women of older male virgins?Other subreddits (sup 2x, SRS, almost everyone else) are going to hate us for this, but yeah, I think lying works best here. No victim, really. | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 05:48 PM |
| 10 | How weirded out are women of older male virgins?Nah, I think ComplainyGuy did the best option. If he messed up, then she'd think he's bad at sex. But because he told her he's rusty because he's been busy, it has two purposes. The first part of this white lie is that it's an DOV (demonstation of value - not sure if this is an actual term). Women typically like a driven man. He's been hard at work pursuing a goal. Secondly, any shortcomings (lol) will be covered by the fact that he's been so busy. | /r/seduction | 02/06/12 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Time wasters.If you have fun while talking to them, even if it doesn't work out and you don't have sex, you still had a good time. Some people think seduction is simply a means to get sex, but that's the wrong mindset to have. | /r/seduction | 31/05/12 06:00 PM |
| 24 | Where do I find Girls?I read about a guy who was killed there | /r/seduction | 27/05/12 10:06 PM |
| 22 | This is why we need seddit (x-post about AFC on bus)I was visually uncomfortable while reading that. Seriously, he worried so much about normal things and saw those as creepy (he said "my pleasure" and then freaked out about it) and then did some weird shit without even blinking an eye ("must resist urge to take a picture of this stranger sleeping because she's female redditor"). I think this guy may have lowered the sales of Women's Reddit Tees. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 06:18 AM |
| 3 | This is why we need seddit (x-post about AFC on bus)Who gives a fuck if it was fake? It was entertaining and a plausible situation. | /r/seduction | 26/05/12 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Too awkward and ugly for any woman to take seriously (xpost from /r/depression)Your friends are assholes. | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:48 AM |
| 14 | What's your best response to the "I have a boyfriend" line?Ah, the rapist mentality. "She should be afraid to get fucked." | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:01 AM |
| 2 | What's your best response to the "I have a boyfriend" line?sounds like the girly/gay voice could help out, as long as you don't typically sound like that or give off any "gay vibes". | /r/seduction | 25/05/12 04:00 AM |
| 7 | [FR] we all make mistakesYou should've gone with them, dude. Declining isn't too eager. They wanted your company. What would've been too eager would have been to ask if you could come with. Next time you'll get em. | /r/seduction | 19/05/12 09:56 PM |
| 2 | My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the GirlThis is why you must always have fun with her and create new memories to reminisce. It's like callback humor, but you already know her. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 07:23 AM |
| 3 | My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the GirlIf you're asking her out, you should pay for her. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 07:22 AM |
| 2 | My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the GirlBest thing I've ever read in this subreddit. Especially part A. I see a lot of guys whine about being friendzoned and when you watch them interact with a girl, they're boring and afraid to have fun. TOP NOTCH POST. Sidebar this? | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 07:21 AM |
| 1 | The best advice I've ever read on how to stay, "alpha."How will you know if you want to talk to somebody if you don't try? | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 02:53 AM |
| 6 | The best advice I've ever read on how to stay, "alpha."This is terrible advice and will likely result in somebody being completely silent, wondering why nobody is talking to them. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly wellIf you say, "I'm looking for shoes," and give no further details, desert boots will probably be a response because they are seen as a stylish, casual shoe style. If you say, "I'm looking for a pair of plimsolls," anyone who recommends desert boots will look like a dumbass and will be heavily downvoted. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is the right place... but as a woman, this worked incredibly well/r/malefashionadvice is there for you if you ever have any questions like that. As for your one above, I'd say they're pretty good (though I'm not the female OP). Definitely inoffensive. With shoes, it's hard to go wrong - only Crocs and other bizarre shoes look that bad. That said, I would probably change the laces on these. More contrast so they don't look so much like slippers. | /r/seduction | 13/05/12 05:49 PM |
| 5 | 3 Basic Things to Cover on a First DateSidebar, my friend. Sidebar. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:58 AM |
| 9 | [FR] Hilarious situation at a nude beach turns into a threesome"I'm only mildly fatal. Like, 3/5 mortality rate. So that's okay, I guess. I don't think about it too often, actually." | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Quicktips I find ImportantYour further explanation link didn't work. | /r/seduction | 11/04/12 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Quicktips I find ImportantWhen you are drunk you are saying and doing things you want to say or do. Have the confidence to say and do those things when you are sober. I've thought about this a lot and it's not necessarily true. Getting drunk removes your inhibitions, but doesn't always reflect what you want. If you don't express your desires often, then it will likely reveal what you want to say or do. But if you're an average, confident guy, this could mean you just turn into a douche because you feel like you can say a… | /r/seduction | 11/04/12 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Can we stop trying to help foreveralone now?Yeah, that's one of the main things that makes FAs hate us. I was looking through /r/TwoXChromosomes just to see what they like and I saw one post that made some sense. "Women are not machines that you feed Kindness coins into until you get sex." | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 11:11 PM |
| 6 | [FR] First night trying to apply seddit/PUA techniques!Getting laid is cool. But being a respectful roommate is a lot fucking cooler. well done | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 11:08 AM |
| 0 | Can we stop trying to help foreveralone now?This won't be a circlejerk because we constantly educate each other as well as come up with new attraction tactics. It's different. /r/atheism is a circlejerk because you can't discuss atheism for too long without making the same points over and over. Atheism doesn't change. But seduction, like society, is always changing and adapting. | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 10:47 AM |
| 9 | Can we stop trying to help foreveralone now?No, not fuck the ignorant. They're ignorant, not evil - they don't know what they're doing wrong and it is so ingrained into their heads that anything resembling "assholes" - their sworn enemies - is an instant red flag for them. We have tactics for attracting women; we aren't up front about our emotions 100% of the time - things like this go against their beliefs. They know they're failing, but they don't really know why. The still think some sort of integrity holds them back from being like us… | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 10:41 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to booty call (text) from friend-zoned girl.It just said your name? That doesn't sound like a booty call at all. | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 08:35 AM |
| 1 | if a girl texts me about a party and I don't want to go, how to respond?This is bad in many ways. You're trying way too hard. Not to mention, it's obviously not true, so she'll think it's just some lame excuse to get out of hanging with her for some reason. | /r/seduction | 08/04/12 08:17 AM |
| 1 | As a female bartender, what can I do to help male customers with the women they're attempting to flirt with? In return I'll answer any questions you have about picking up cute barmaids!"No one wants his number." Really? That makes him look undesirable. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 11:08 PM |
| 8 | As a female bartender, what can I do to help male customers with the women they're attempting to flirt with? In return I'll answer any questions you have about picking up cute barmaids!I approve of the first paragraph, but the second one is kinda dickish. yeah, bad tippers are bad tippers, but you shouldn't ruin them because of it. That won't make them tip you any higher, and it makes your establishment look bad. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 11:07 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Went out to run errands; number-closed on random chick at sushi restaurantBeautiful. I would totally not be able to do this with my mom nearby. I know random strangers don't scrutinize me in public as much as I previously thought but I know my mom would be nearby, silently judging me. Plus she'd wonder why I left for no reason. Well done though, you played it perfectly. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 11:00 AM |
| 2 | How long did your journey take until you became a success at getting the women you wanted?Last Minute Resistance. It's when she suddenly has second thoughts before you're about to have sex or leave the area or whatever. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad to text a girl or post on her FB wall without her doing so first ? Approval seeking?While we're on the topic of liking, don't be the guy who likes everything (or a lot of things). Your likes should be an occasion, not an expectation. When she gets the notification that you liked something about her, she shouldn't immediately shrug it off. She should at least wonder, even for a second, why you liked what you liked, etc. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 10:41 AM |
| 1 | The Alpha BitchYeah, I like yours better now that it's explained. | /r/seduction | 05/04/12 02:17 AM |
| 2 | The Alpha BitchWouldn't it have been less energy consuming to just stop caring? "Why do you look like you just came from a Tommy Hilfiger store?" "Does it bother you? Do you really care that much about my clothes?" | /r/seduction | 04/04/12 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Not giving a fuck - The story of a young man's awakening.This is five months old and had no upvotes, but it's the greatest comment in this entire thread. Just... exist. Interact. Live. It should be so easy. Be. | /r/seduction | 02/04/12 12:19 PM |
| 2 | This stuff really works!I was on such a high on the way out that I high-fived a random girl walking into the store, she looked kinda confused but just started laughing haha. I haven't had this level of happiness in a while. Just a reminder for me to get out there again! | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 08:22 AM |
| 25 | How to Make outas somebody whose ex was obsessed with twilight, I think she actually might be into that type of mess. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 08:18 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Decided To Suck It Up, 2 Make Outs and An Instant DateI'm assuming they were somewhere where they were on the same internet connection and it was being slow or something. So he opened with a question. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 05:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Decided To Suck It Up, 2 Make Outs and An Instant DateAMOG destroying is incredibly draining if you're trying to have a conversation with her too. Urgh. On another note, the airport date thing sounds pretty fun. | /r/seduction | 30/03/12 05:33 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :)As a teenager in LA, I can confirm it's still used as a term for general sex related activities. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 07:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Successfully used the "He's Not Coming" opener from Barney Stinson's Playbook, got called out on being a PUA, and still got the girl :)I think I would've been thrown off too. My response wouldn't have been as quick witted as TofuTofu's. I'd probably ask her what I'm supposed to do next, cause she's so much better than me, haha. Someday, TofuTofu, I'll reach your level. | /r/seduction | 29/03/12 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"I'm still uncertain of just assuming attraction because I'm still friends with her and we have a lot of mutual friends. If she was somebody I just met, I'd have no problem assuming attraction, because there's no risk if she just rejects me. But even if she rejects me here, I'll still be around her and her friends. It might even seem somewhat arrogant to assume attraction here. I've only known her for a few months and she hasn't shown any signs of definite attraction here, only mild interest. Req… | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"Which is why I don't want it to seem like a date. More like casual hanging out that could lead somewhere. It's not oneitis; I'm not going to mope if she rejects me or whatever, but I'm trying to get something going. If it doesn't work out, I'm fine. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 09:26 PM |
| 14 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"She's pretty timid so a sudden display of affection might scare her off. I think this is working though. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 11:42 AM |
| 10 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"So far, I've only been friends with her. I'm trying to be in a relationship with her, so I'm taking her to a movie. She won't be too suspicious because it isn't that datelike, but she might ask. My plan is for this to seem somewhat casual, but I'll up the charm a bit, kino and whatnot. The only reasoN I don't want to specify if it's a date or not is because that's so limiting. If I say no, then it'll seem a bit odd if I make a move. If I say yes, she'll probably act differently or maybe even obj… | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 09:58 AM |
| 5 | Answer to this shit test: "Is this a date?"I like this. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 07:41 AM |
| 15 | Extreme case of the 'bitch butterflies'Dude, you pretty much have her. Send her a message, telling her you wish you'd gotten the chance to talk to her at the party and want to make it up to her by taking her to dinner to catch up. Get her number via facebook chat. Hit it off from there. | /r/seduction | 27/03/12 07:25 AM |
| 9 | Yet another inspirational example for those of you starting literally from scratch [huge story]Excellent how you turned your life around. Have you seen any people from high school recently? I think it'd be funny to see their reaction when they see what you've become. Anyway, congrats on living! | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Currently sitting next to hot chick at coffee shop. I will act like a robot if you tell me what to do.Great success! | /r/seduction | 26/03/12 05:52 AM |
| 2 | How can I be the ultimate wingman?It's almost like what you've learned here, but don't really kino or have sexual intent. Befriend her quickly, then turn her to your friend. | /r/seduction | 24/03/12 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Let me say thank you, seddit by sharing my amazing (long) life story that you have helped shape.But wouldn't the breakfast be cold by the time she woke up? I DEMAND ANSWERS TR_INCARNATE! by the way, nicely done. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 06:42 AM |
| 9 | I would like to thank the living shit out of you, Seddit, as well as share some thoughts.The TL;DR is that your mind, and the limits it creates, are the only things stopping you. But if you don't read this post, you're missing out. | /r/seduction | 22/03/12 06:36 AM |
| 1 | I totally frozeWhen you're slowing down, just shake yourself a bit (interally) and realize it's not a big deal at all. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 02:46 AM |
| 3 | How to fuck things upI think ThrowawayPUA covered it pretty well. Kino escalation. Putting your hand on her hip isn't too drastic, but maybe she likes to take things slow or wasn't expecting you to do anything. This was mostly bad luck, although you didn't react in the best way you could (I don't blame you). | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 06:01 AM |
| 1 | how can I help my friends with their inner game?well... you could introduce them to /r/seduction In the end though, they have to really want happiness. You can't expect happiness to just show up for you; you need to grab that motherfucker and make it stay. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I messed up..."Hey, hold my car keys, wallet, and birth certificate." But in seriousness, pomjuice (OP) should have made a move right after she said "you look great". Strike while the iron is still hot. Sounds better than letting her leave with your glasses. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, Mission Accomplished. I got the girl!Nice comeback. Proud of you for passing that test. | /r/seduction | 19/03/12 12:05 AM |
| 2 | I've been single over 5 years. Have a date next week...Don't bring up anything negative at all. AT ALL! Be only positive; she'll remember you by that. There's a ton of sad things out there so she'll want to go back to things that make her happy - be something that makes her happy. I'd say keep conversation going to the best you can - stay happy with jokes and stuff. If the conversation slows, have at least five backup stories you can tell. Maybe get your friend to laugh and go along with them. If they include that friend, all the better. But best of… | /r/seduction | 18/03/12 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Need some help/encouragement/motivation. Ultimate point of stagnation, need a change.This first girl, let's call her A1, was the first girl I really had true feelings for. I think you like steak sauce a lot more than I do. Kidding, though. My advice is to try and forget about her and A2. It can be hard, but there are girls who will do that. They act interested out of loneliness and perhaps a desire to meet society's standards (oh, I have a boyfriend, I'm not ugly). Then when she finds somebody she's really interested in, she drops the first guy immediately. Hurts. I'd say it's p… | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Hey r/seduction, I'd like some Advice for a new, somewhat unconfident guy. How did I do?A big part of being good at seduction is NETWORKING. If you could everything from this subreddit, it would be these two words. CONFIDENCE and NETWORKING. Confidence for getting out there and approaching without fear, acting without restraint, and just being in control. Networking because you never know what can help you later on. You should've gone as friends. Who knows, maybe she'd be more interested later on? Maybe she's a fun person to get to know, even if it's not a sexual relationship. Mayb… | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Got a number, what do?Have some class. Don't get absolutely wasted in front of a pretty lady, especially if she is more wholesome. Plus, wait a day. If you text the next day you might seem needy. So tomorrow night, after the hangover passes, you can go out with her. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 07:26 PM |
| 2 | "You're such a dick" ResponseI think there are doctors for that type of thing. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 07:25 AM |
| 37 | PSA: Don't fucking overtext.If anything, you should undertext. Flirtation is most effective when using many different senses. If you're texting, she can't smell you, she can't hear the smoothness of your voice, she can't see your smile, etc. You're restricted to tiny little letters on a phone. It's dangerous. Very few people can make progress inside the actual texting. Not worth the risk. | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Amazing opening tip I learned from an experienced PUA. If you tell a girl she's friendly, she will be.I typically don't hit on either of these two. I'm not a necrophiliac and most psychics are into some pretty freaky shit... | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Guys, don't fight being skinny.I'm pretty slim but I think I'm gonna go work out, just a little bit. | /r/seduction | 16/03/12 06:19 AM |
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