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I really like the OOP lens because it feels closely related to diet culture, wellness culture, and performance culture. These are all topics I find fascinating, and I’ve been a victim of all of them. I’ve been skinny my whole life. Like my mom, that stopped coming naturally after my pregnancy. I went from believing that being thin was the result of self-discipline (when, in reality, it really wasn’t) to having to reconcile the fact that I no longer fit those standards. The funny thing is that I’…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/26 08:17 PM
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31F. Engaged for the last 3 years. We both know ours’ and each others’ love language. I know I tend to show my love with my own LL and my fiancé does the same. Being aware that his actions are his ways of showing love make me feel loved and I know we both make efforts to speak each others LL.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 11:25 PM
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About the hoe qualities, we had good theory posts during Back to basics September that touched this : First one and second one. About hobbies, I'm not a good example to follow. I'm an introvert and I mostly do things alone. But I would recommend feminine hobbies, so you can meet other woman to look up to. I took sewing classes and I loved it. I am also a big nerd and I used to love participating in book clubs, but I can't find any that suits my interests in my area. I would also suggest a physic…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 08:38 PM
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I was just like you, except I had these realizations at 26-27 instead of 19. You are not too late, you are not too damaged, and I am sure you will become a great woman. You already have the introspective qualities needed to become not only a great human but also a successful RPW :) I would suggest you take the next few months to think hard about the life you want and, as a result, what you are looking for in a partner. Looking for him right now would be useless because not knowing what you want …
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/24 05:16 PM
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Totally agreed !
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/24 12:45 AM
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I agree it’s a good Field Report and it goes well in a topic recently discussed in Back to basics : the madone/whore complex. I think it is totally acceptable to share sexy picture with your husband. It’s a fun way to add some spices to your sex life. I personally enjoy sending sexy pics as I’m taking a shower and my Fiancé is doing whatever with our children.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/24 11:09 PM
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Then I think you should work on trusting his words and not your insecurities more than on being less ‘boring’. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/24 10:50 PM
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I’m the same as you, my hobbies are mostly done alone and quietly. It’s rarely something to talk about with people and it makes me feel boring. I don’t mind though, but if you do here’s a couple suggestions on the top of my head : I personally enjoy video games, so I am biased in suggesting you find one to play together. Me and my Fiancé liked to play games that ask cooperation and communication from us, like We were here and the sequels. Unravel was fun too. you could bake things for him to tas…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/24 09:30 PM
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Have you read secret of fascinating womanhood? Here’s a link to the pdf : https://penelopesoasis.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/secrets-of-fascinating-womanhood.pdf I’m only at secret number 4 and It’s already helpful in my day to day interactions. Especially secret number 2, it helped me understand why my sarcasm and words are even more hurtful than i thought and to be more mindful about them. I don’t know what is the problem with venting about work, but have you tried talking about work but in…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/24 11:29 PM
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I think he lies for the purpose of avoiding conflict, not fighting with and not hurting her.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/24 11:14 PM
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I really like that suggestion, I might try it out ! I have a problem with finding time and energy to be intimate with my fiancé. I usually have energy during the morning and the more the day goes by, the less I have. It created for me the problem that I am always exhausting at night and going to bed early at 9. Our children goes to bed at 8, so I usually have time to take a shower and relax for 30 minutes before crashing. I have been thinking about all of this and I will try to use the fact that…
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 06:34 PM
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As someone who is 5,5 months postpartum and breastfeeding, I am in this vicious cycle where I am not in the mood, but say yes and it ends up being a bad experience for both of us. So I started saying no and we felt disconnected and so far from each other. After reading the post today, I sent it to him, and a bit later we had incredibly hot sex. I think what was missing previously is : 1) my intention of really enjoying it myself and to not just do it to please him and 2) the flirting and emotion…
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 05:10 PM
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Personally, I think he is in a new country and feels a bit lonely and overwhelmed, so he uses you to feel better. He cannot ask his male buddy to go on "dates" to the museum, so he asks you to do these activities. Same for the wine chill quiet time, it's not an activity you do with a male colleague and he has no one else to turn to but you. I think he is being honest when he says he doesn't want anything serious and you shouldn't invest your time and energy if this doesn't align with what you wa…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 01:57 PM
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I don’t feel like this post really belong in RPW. I also don’t see any concrete evidence that you are actually chatting with your ex, but some suppositions or signs that you are. Just a head’s up to make sure you’re not falling into a psychotic episode again. Edit : spelling
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/24 02:47 PM
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Isn’t the point of TRP to understand and celebrate that men and women, while equal in value, are fundamentally different and complementary ? Therefore, how both gender should be respected is totally different. That also applies to a large variety of things in a relationship between a man and a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/24 03:25 PM
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