BanDeezNutzPlease Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Simps have ruined the dating world. I'd say a bigger problem than individual simping is institutional simping, where entire governments and corporations systematically simp for women. It kind of messed up the hypergamy system.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 04:17 PM
1	What is Your Opinion of Myron Gaines, aka Amrou Fudl? I don't like influencers in general. That goes for all genres. If he was a male feminist women's rights influencer I probably wouldn't like him either. I don't see the point of listening to all these manosphere dating strategy types. If I listen to 70 trillion hours of this guy yapping, will I get to stick my dick in some pussy? If not then I'm not interested. And I wouldn't pay money to go on a Myron Gaines sausage fest boat cruise and dance with a bunch of men either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 04:00 AM
0	There's an overlap between men who struggle with dating and irreligious conservatives. The problem is they bitch about a problem of their own making. I don't necessarily see self-identified right-wing men complain online about being single. Instead they tend complain about the perceived low quality of women a lot. In particular they complain about stereotypical leftist type women with blue hair and nose rings who vote for leftist politicians like Joe Biden and Justin Trudeau. I suspect that some of those men who make fun of leftist women online have gfs or are married. Single by c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 10:21 AM
2	There's an overlap between men who struggle with dating and irreligious conservatives. Keeping it real- I think the some segments of the left, including those in positions of power, went too extreme in certain areas. And MAGA is partly a backlash against that. Some 2010s/2020s MAGAs would've been liberal Bill Clinton supporters in the 1990s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 08:48 AM
1	There's an overlap between men who struggle with dating and irreligious conservatives. The problem with some segments of the "extreme" left is they tend to be anti-heterosexual. I'm not interested in dealing with women or men who automatically hate me cause I like have sex with women and I'm not a homosexual or a transgender. That's probably why leftist men are more likely to be single than right-wing men. I agree that irreligious men with right-leaning views may have trouble cause there are religious women who want religious men. But some men just won't compromise their beliefs (…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 08:45 AM
1	the birth rate topic is silly Okay so then the birth rate just drops and government imports foreigners to replace the natives. Of course certain segments of the native population will keep having kids. The ones who don't, male or female, will just get old and will die off with their bloodlines. I'm not even saying that as a good or a bad thing. That's just what will happen. In a free country women don't have to have kids if they don't want to. They don't have to have sex with men if they don't want. But that just means that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 12:37 AM
1	the birth rate topic is silly Sex is the cheapest most straight forward way to have kids. Artificial insemination is expensive and complicated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 12:26 AM
2	Does anyone care that dating is better now for women? Do you think there's a correlation between young women all banging the same guys and the seeming proliferation of bitter unhappy women in the older age ranges? Cause seems to me that a lot of older women are mad that guys don't want them anymore and/or they can't get the guys they really want to accept them as their primary partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/26 04:46 AM
6	Does anyone care that dating is better now for women? Redditors: "I speak for all young women" Also Redditors: "All women are different". LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 12:41 PM
2	Why do some of you push this pathetic idea that there are legions of sad sack men who will date practically any woman? Men like that exist. But I don't think most men are like that. A lot of single men won't just take any woman they can get. And, frankly, I've realized that not all female juice is even worth the squeeze. Some women can be extremely detrimental. I look at women as a cost-benefit analysis. Basically I have to deal with a bunch foolishness to deal with pretty much any woman. So the question is, this particular woman worth my effort or not? Is she physically attractive enough to justify my effort? A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 09:32 AM
5	Why do some of you push this pathetic idea that there are legions of sad sack men who will date practically any woman? Men aren't sitting around holding hands and emoting their fee-fees to each other cause they're not interested in that shit. If they were interested then they'd find each other and do it. People tend to find what they want. Gay males make up an estimated 2% of the population, but they still manage to find each other. Some heterosexual men fly halfway around the world to meet young women. Or guys who into cars, a specific sport, Star Wars, model toy trains, or whatever other interests. Those peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 09:24 AM
2	why cant you lust after average men? I don't even think most men want to be lusted over by women. I think they want to have sex with women. Male sexuality is active and female sexuality is passive. So women want men to lust over them, whereas men lust over women, and not the other way around. I've never heard men irl say they wanted to be lusted over by women. I've heard them say they thought such and such chick had a nice ass or nice rack, or they wanted to bang this or that chick. But I've never heard them say they wanted women t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/26 09:12 AM
1	Would you ever let men penetrate you for money? No cause I'm not gay or bisexual and I never fucked a man and never will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:30 PM
15	Does anyone care that dating is better now for women? Idk if dating is really better for women. It may be better for young women. But I think a lot of older women are bitter cause they don't get attention from men anymore. I get the impression that there are a fair number of older single men who think the juice isn't worth the squeeze and couldn't be bothered to chase "age appropriate" women anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:24 PM
2	Women have it harder in dating. I kind of agree that women may have it harder in dating. I think young women, in general, have a much easier time finding partners than young men. But as women get older their options tend to drop off, so the dating market equalizes. After about 40, I think, the number of single women exceeds the number of single men. Also women's preferences make it harder for them. They all want the same men and they're often attracted to scummy men. So they "have" to basically fight over a small number of men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:21 PM
1	Antiporn is usually motivated by misandry As I saw one person point out online, antiporn feminists are motivated by a desire to raise their own sexual value. And also by bitterness and jealousy towards both men and more attractive young women. They feel men should be pursuing women, and specifically older and unattractive women (but not attractive young women), instead of jacking off to porn. They're basically femcels, and there are a lot more femcels than incels in the "1st world" due to demographics. Moreover, femcels are more dangero…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/26 09:10 PM
4	It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them. If a man does nothing wrong and a woman still feel uncomfortable around him then that's her problem. Some people are fucked and feel uncomfortable for no reason. That's their problem. Not everyone else's problem. If I'm walking down the street minding my own business and some woman feels uncomfortable, then fuck her. I'm not begging for her friendship. I'm asking her for anything. So I don't care about her or her feelings. I'm just minding my own business and handling my own business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 01:26 AM
24	Dating the ugly girl won't save you. Saying ugly men will treat women better than good looking ones is bullshit. Neither ugly men nor ugly women are necessarily any nicer than hot looking men or women. Saying otherwise is pure copium. Some ugly men/women are nice and some aren't, and same goes for physically attractive men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 01:24 AM
2	Dating the ugly girl won't save you. You're right. Natural physical attractiveness has nothing to do with personality. Ugly women aren't necessarily "easier" either. That's why I generally won't waste my time or energy on women I'm not attracted to. I have to put a bunch of effort into pursuing a women regardless of her physical attractiveness and more effort if I'm in a relationship with a woman regardless of her physical attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 01:22 AM
–	Most men are not special enough to be having a selfish nasty attitude. Nope. Some of those women don't seem overtly unpleasant (although I guess women may pretend to be nice more than men do). But there's lots of abusive piece of shit assholes who are neither hot nor particularly rich, but seem to do okay with the females. For example, there was a news story of a cop in, I believe Maryland, who was caught on camera cheating on his wife with his side chick in his squad car. And this same cop was previously accused of brutally beating his wife's baby son (his step so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/26 01:16 AM
10	Most men are not special enough to be having a selfish nasty attitude. I don't like nasty unpleasant people. But a lot of women seem to have a high tolerance for nasty unpleasant men, while hating on nice guys who don't bother them. That's their choice and they can live with the consequences of their choices. I really don't care at all. Just like that guy I went to school with who allegedly grape females and got convicted for mutilating one. Not my problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 02:58 PM
1	Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles. What are you talking about oppression? Nuclear families are the basic social unit in many societies and have been throughout history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 02:55 PM
–	Why should women care that men don't have partners? There's no reason for them to care. And there's no reason for single men not to do whatever they want. Single men can be sex tourists or sexpats banging discount whores in 3rd world countries if they want, approach 18 yo girls at the mall, jack off to porn, etc. They can spend all their discretionary income and free time doing whatever they like- playing videogames, fishing, hiking, building model toy trains, etc. The narrative on Reddit and MSM that single men are all unhappy and single women a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/26 02:53 PM
2	Campaigns such as "Nuclear Family Month" are part of a broader effort to promote traditional gender and family roles. Kind of based, tbh. I'm not really into all of this whatever-month stuff. But it seems to me that there are some people who will be triggered by nuclear family month (Idc one way or another, tbh), and that makes it kind of funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 10:03 AM
2	Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and Context According to the people of Reddit, men who are single are worse than Hitler because Hitler had a girlfriend. So I guess he must have had a better personality than single guys. LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/26 10:02 AM
1	Weak males need protection like other minority groups Now that I think about it, I cocked down the most and best punani from the beautifulest women in places with the least government. The government shitstem is basically a cockblock, not a help in terms of getting pussy. Expecting the GSPPS government to help you get pussy, or to help you in any way, is ludicrous. Every time the government say they want to "help" they fuck your shit up. That's why I'm on some Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck the Shitstem time. Reagan was right when he said the scarie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 05:08 PM
1	Weak males need protection like other minority groups Frankly I think there should be NO special treatment for ANY group (i.e. women, LGBTQ, Blacks, Jews, Indigenous, Muslims, Christians, Hispanic, Asian, etc.). I don't like the government shitstem in general and think they should have as little to do with administering people's lives as possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 08:34 AM
0	Weak males need protection like other minority groups As soon as the government or society gives privileges to a specific group, suddenly everyone suddenly wants to be part of it. If "weak males" were guaranteed high paying good jobs and hot gfs, then all of a sudden the HS bullies would start identifying as weak males.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 03:12 AM
1	Men and women do not live the same life There are also lots of 40+ men who are perfectly fine living single and don't seek relatonships wth women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 03:02 AM
5	Men and women do not live the same life According to the Pew Research Center, in 2023, 40% of men in the USA, and 44% of women were unpartnered. So there's more single women than single men, overall. From ages 18-39 unpartnered men outnumber unpartnered women. But in the 40-54 age range, unpartnered women overtake unpartnered men in numbers, and in the 65+ demographic there are way more unpartnered women than men, in part cause men die earlier, on average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 08:19 PM
1	People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thing If the women choose this, that's their business. I don't think any passport bros are hanging out in refugee camps in African famine drought warzones, trying to pick up chicks with protruding ribs, holding malnourished babies with distended bellies and flies on their cheeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 08:14 PM
–	The media narrative about AI girlfriends and AI boyfriends is opposite Idk or care anything about AI gfs or bfs, but OP has a point. A lot of MSM and other mainstream narratives are all about men are supposedly dependent on women but women are scrong independent and don't need no man. For example I always see MSM reports and Reddit posts talking about how men need to get married, men benefit more from marriage, whereas women are happier single, etc. I call BS. A recent study showed that marriage provides greater cancer protection for women than it does for men. The…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/26 08:11 PM
2	People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thing That's not what they mean when they say "lower your standards" and you know it. They don't mean "go get a prettier younger woman who treats you nicer". They mean "beg ugly mean women who treat you like trash and have more baggage than JFK for a whiff of their expired vaginas".	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 09:25 PM
4	People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thing I think u/Bruh_zil is saying that a lot of people from higher income countries move to middle income ones like Mexico, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic, Philippines, Thailand, Colombia, etc. so they can enjoy a decent standard of living at a cheaper cost than they could at home. Not to mention the warm weather. A lot of retirees from North America, Europe, Australia, etc., move to warm middle-income countries where they can enjoy a 1st world standard of living at a more affordable price than back …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 09:22 PM
12	People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thing How can you tell the difference? Women everywhere generally like men who have more money than them. I'm not sure how an American guy marrying a Filipina chick is anymore "abusive" than an American doctor or lawyer marrying an American woman with an English degree who becomes his stay-at-home wife, or a teacher who earns a lot less than he does. Adult women in the Philippines or whichever other countries can choose whoever they want, just like women in 1st world countries can. If we're being real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/26 09:18 PM
2	Social media represents how people feel insinde Social media doesn't represent how people really feel. Social media is too heavily censored, moderated, curated, astroturfed, botted up, trolled out, influencered, and segregated to accurately reflect what people really feel. You can't say whatever you want online anymore cause there's so much censorship. Plus the establishment, corporations, special interests, etc. are now heavily invested in influencing people via social media. Not to mention the grifters, bots, and so on. Plus you have chroni…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/26 11:50 PM
2	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. My question is who are these internet incels? Because I've been single and I've met lots of single guys, but I've never heard of anyone talking like these self-proclaimed incels online. And nobody has yet addressed my issue of why these people were always posting half-naked photos of "Chads" online. That doesn't seem like something straight men do. Straight men like to look at hot chicks, not at half-naked male models. Nowadays we have the internet. Any guy, single or not, can find 900 trillion …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/26 01:24 AM
2	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. I don't care either. But if I see something being said that's incorrect, then I will simply correct it with facts unless I'm silenced. Mainstream media is a lie machine in general and I don't really listen to it anymore. As for "self-reports of loneliness", I've seen multiple studies online and they're somewhat contradictory. Many studies say women self-report more loneliness than men. But some say men report being lonelier than women. I've also seen studies suggest that it varies by demographic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 10:31 PM
2	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. Which is why they stay chronically single. They refuse the men who are available to them for committed relationships, while going for unavailable/unattainable men. That's their choice and they can live with whatever consequences. People online and in mainstream media love to push this "women don't need no man"/"strong and independent" narrative (while men supposedly need women more than women need men), but studies, surveys and stats I've seen paint a different picture: 40% of married women with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 10:26 PM
4	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. That guy sold his proverbial bunghole to rich bloodsucking vampires for money and fame. Even though he's young, that shows a lack of character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 10:15 PM
5	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. Most men women choose aren't murderers. But being an asshole or even a mass killer doesn't stop men from getting women. Hence the idea that men being single = bad person is stupid and false. The idea that men get women for being good people is also stupid and false.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 10:13 PM
–	The "Men benefit more from marriage" problem When it comes to cancer prevention, women benefit more than men (85% lower risk for married women over never-married women vs. only 68% lower risk for married men over never-married men). And the higher cancer rates for never-married men are partly due to men who have sex with men being less likely to get married. So if you only looked a straight men who never got married, the cancer benefit of marriage would be even lower than the 68% reduction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 11:30 AM
–	The "Men benefit more from marriage" problem The narrative that "men benefit more from marriage" while "women are strong independent don't need no man and are happier single" has been heavily promote in mainstream media and social media. But it is bullshit. I say that based on the data I've found. All the data suggests that both men and women benefit from marriage, on average. It is a lie that only men benefit while women don't. And that lie is harmful to women insofar as it might lead to them avoiding marriages that could benefit them. Ob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 11:11 AM
–	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. Based on the logic I see on Reddit, men being single = evil, bad personality, whereas if a man is successful with women it is because they have a good personality. Which means that OJ Simpson, Ted Bundy, Stalin, Hitler, Rae Carruth, John Wayne Gacey, Genghis Khan, Jeffrey Epstein, Weinstein, etc. were all good people. Meanwhile, single men who can't get women are literally worse than Hitler, because Hitler had a girlfriend. Which means that he must have had a good personality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 08:20 AM
6	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. The narrative that all single women are happy while all single men are unhappy is BS. I've seen a survey that showed that single (unpartnered) childless men tended to cluster in the middle of the happiness scale. Basically happy/content, and neither "very happy" or "unhappy". Whereas with single childless women there were more who said they were "very happy", but also a higher proportion than men who said they were "unhappy". In other words, the survey suggested that a portion of single childles…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 08:14 AM
-1	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. Internet incels are full of shit. It seems that the "movement" online got brigaded and pushes bullshit. I went on some of those forums on Reddit. All I saw was stupid BS and when I tried to call it out, I got permabanned. So I can't take those clowns seriously at all and don't engage with their content. I don't know who they are. Some or most of them may or may not actually be single heterosexual men. For example, I noticed that they posted lots of photos of half-naked male "Chads". That shit is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 07:54 AM
1	We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected. I have nothing against women being single. But I suspect chronically single women are that way because they were unable to attract a man who met their standards. Same goes for men. Also horny men can seek out sex outside of relationships or jack off to porn like the other user said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 07:44 AM
0	Women Generally Can’t Distinguish Between Confidence and Narcissism I don't know shit about plumbing. Explaining the problem to me would be pointless cause I wouldn't understand. I just need someone to fix the thing. I don't need the chit-chat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 07:40 AM
2	Men should not be approaching women. Women don't approach 99% of men. Most women likely never approach any man to begin with. So if men don't approach women then the species will go extinct. All the women will just become childless cat ladies and all the men will be jerking off to porn and playing videogames in their bachelor pads. If the guys want to get laid, they might go to hookers, and if they want to get married and have children, they might go abroad to do it. Eventually the culture might just die out and get replaced by les…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 06:29 PM
15	Men Confuse Women Wanting Confident Men With Wanting “Assholes” Its pretty simple. I see a guy who is an asshole and a bully and I see him getting girls. Its not rocket science. In my observation, men can get away with a high level of obnoxiousness around women and women will still like them or like them more. Whereas if a woman is too obnoxious a lot of men won't want anything to do with her. Also if men are assholes towards other men then its more likely to result in violence. Especially if there's no police around to stop it- like in jail, for example.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 06:24 PM
3	Women Generally Can’t Distinguish Between Confidence and Narcissism Fair enough. But I don't do that stuff, so crypto currency has little practical use to me. I like real money that I can use to buy groceries and whatnot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 05:45 PM
2	Women Generally Can’t Distinguish Between Confidence and Narcissism Fair enough. But you still need people who can actually do things properly to make stuff work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 05:43 PM
0	MEN DO NOT NEED WOMEN I agree that 1st world western culture has become extremely anti-natalistic- especially the more "progressive" strains of it. However, you have to remember that this same culture has produced the wealthiest, freest, most stable, and safest countries in the world. The reason immigrants want to come to 1st world countries is, frankly, their countries aren't doing so good. Their cultures have destroyed their countries. So while their cultures may be good at making babies, they're not so good at cre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 05:42 PM
9	Women Generally Can’t Distinguish Between Confidence and Narcissism Maybe I'm a weirdo, but I don't care too much about confidence, either in men or women. I care more about competence. If my sink is leaking and I need a plumber, I want the guy who knows what he's doing. Not the guy who is well-dressed, smooth talking, confident and egotistical but will break my pipes even more. I'd rather have an awkward guy with grease stains on his shirt who is a competent plumber. I don't want a guy who will prance around talking about how great he is, then fuck up my shit c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 10:03 AM
1	It's fine to have a type. Just admit that you do. Do you often see men complaining about the types of women they choose? Some men complain about their baby mothers, or their current or ex gfs or wives. But I'd say the same thing to those men as I'd say to women: they chose those people, so that's on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 09:47 AM
1	MEN DO NOT NEED WOMEN The species isn't at risk. But if certain countries have low birth rates and import foreigners to maintain population growth, then their cultures are at risk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/26 09:44 AM
39	Men do NOT need to “do better”. I'd say the issue is women's standards are subjective whereas men's standards are relatively immutable. Women's tastes can change quickly based on their environment. If women's living standards go up so too do their demands (hypergamy). Whereas men are basically just attracted to the same thing all the time. Men just want a woman who is physically attractive and nice to them (I'm generalizing, of course). That doesn't change much whether they're rich or poor, or no matter what the culture tells …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:42 PM
1	Nice guys should accept being alone Been doing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:20 PM
2	Nice guys should accept being alone I've been doing it. But sometimes the shitstem motherfuckers try to fuck the program like they did during the scamdemic controlavirus. Cancelling my fucking flights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/26 05:20 PM
3	Nice guys should accept being alone Yep. The birth rate is tanking. And that's not just me saying it cause I'm a bitter incel or whatever the fuck they want to say about me. Its in the stats. They're importing a bunch of foreigners to replace these sterile Westerners. I guess all their gender war, transitioning transgender, lgbtq, the-world-is-gonna-end-cause-of-climate-change-so-dont-have-kids, being-attracted-to-women-under-the-age-of-95-is-pedophilia, etc. agenda doesn't lead to people having kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 05:00 PM
0	Nice guys should accept being alone None of that shit works if the chick won't give you the time of day in the 1st place. The major problem with a lot of women is they won't give some guys the time of day. Which is their prerogative. But I've found it much easier to deal with women who are willing to give me a chance to start with rather than ones who are just hostile upfront. I'm not wasting my time with females who are hostile. They can go fuck themselves. I don't beg for no friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 04:56 PM
-1	Nice guys should accept being alone You have to be able to create sexual tension. Being in shape, smelling good, dressing well, not being a pushover or a yes man, remaining mysterious. Half of this stuff is vague. I prefer concrete solutions to solve problems. Going overseas is a concrete solution that has worked for me. If I don't get a "gf" I can just pay for pussy and I'll still get a hotter chick who fucks me better for less money than I'd pay at home.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 04:54 PM
-1	Nice guys should accept being alone There’s no miracle pill to fix all your problems Yes there is. Its called a passport. LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 04:51 PM
7	Nice guys should accept being alone Nice guys didn't used to have to accept being alone. Now apparently they do. Which means that a lot of women will also have to accept being alone. Not so much in the younger age ranges, but in the older age ranges. And that's backed up by stats. That's probably also part of the reason why birth rates are tanking in the West. OP's advice on how to get women is mostly BS. Its a bunch of vague jibber jabber with nothing concrete. Sounds like the mumbo jumbo that a lot of politricksters talk. The ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 04:50 PM
2	MEN DO NOT NEED WOMEN There are a lot of horrible destructive women who will make life much worse for their partner. I'd rather be single than with a bad woman. On the other hand, I agree that it is also possible for women to have a positive influence on the life of their male partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 10:09 AM
1	MEN DO NOT NEED WOMEN Agreed. Both men and women can be completely find without the opposite sex individually. There's a narrative pushed on Reddit and in mainstream media that men need women, but women are strong and independent and don't need no man. But that's not true. I'd say neither men nor women really need each other on an individual level- especially in modern 1st world urban Western society, where people are atomized and government services provide a lot of things people need. But men and women not pairing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 10:07 AM
3	Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networks A lot of men who are successful with women are raging misogynists. For example pimps. Redditors really need to stop pretending that there's a correlation between being misogynistic and a bad person and not getting pussy, or between being a good person and getting pussy. That's absolutely NOT what I've observed in real life. I've seen tons of asshole misogynists get lots of pussy and tons of nice decent guys who've never said a bad word about women not get laid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 09:58 AM
5	Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networks I don't think its necessarily the fault of the manosphere. The 13, 14, and 15 yo boys who are dating girls are likely to have direct experience with shitty behavior from girls in a way that their 13-15 yo male peers who just play videogames don't. I think you'd find the same trend in young adult men and older men as well. The men who deal with women a lot will be more misogynistic than the ones who are perennially single and don't have as much interaction with women. If you want to find adult ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 09:51 AM
1	Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networks It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this one out. Misogyny is likely positively correlated with bad experiences with women or with seeing the bad sides of women How do you have bad experiences with women or see their bad sides? By interacting with them- having relationships with them, approaching them, dating them, etc. So guys who date have more bad experiences and therefore develop misogynistic views. Also it should be noted that some views labelled "misogynistic" by progressive types…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/26 09:45 AM
7	unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choices Women choose these men. For all this BS that some women talk about intuition and avoiding certain men cause they can detect their misogyny and bad personalities, they sure do choose a lot of assholes who mistreat them. Apparently I have better intuition than most of these females cause I can spot ahole men 700 miles away and avoid them. And I'm not holding men accountable for shit. That's not my job. How can I "hold men accountable"? Commit some felonies and go to prison for some bird who isn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 09:05 PM
9	unselected men should not feel moral guilt/responsibility for women’s dating choices I agree with OP. If I watch MSM there's always some so-called expert squawking about how men need to hold other men accountable blah blah blah. But I literally never go outside and see other men beating or raping women. I've never seen it. If they're doing it they're doing it privately. Also a lot of men who treat women badly are just assholes in general. When I encounter a man who is an asshole (or a woman who is an asshole) I simply avoid them or don't deal with them. This isn't jail where I'd…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/26 09:00 PM
1	Intimate Partners are doing all the damage. How are unselected men The problems again? [ Removed by Reddit ]	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 08:14 PM
–	Intimate Partners are doing all the damage. How are unselected men The problems again? Idk who these people are. When I saw incel subreddits on this website, I thought the stuff they said and did was weird, fake, and gay. For example, talking about canthal tilt and posting photos of half-naked men. IMO straight men who can't get laid typically get porn or photos of naked/scantily clad attractive women and jack off to it. They're not searching out photos of shirtless "Chads". That shit's gay af. So I think online incels are really probably bitter women and gay dudes who are buttmad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:56 AM
1	Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men. A lot of women seem to be attracted to toxic personality traits in men. 1st world western women may be some of the worst offenders in this respect. They go for asshole bully men. But then blame all men for their choices. I don't gaf who women date. Its frankly not my problem if women get abused. Like that guy who I went to school with and never liked who allegedly raped girls and was later convicted for mutilating his girlfriend. Just don't blame me for the shit. Not my problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:41 AM
–	Intimate Partners are doing all the damage. How are unselected men The problems again? I haven't seen these posts of men online saying they wanted to rape women. Also how do we know who these so-called incels are online? The Southern Poverty Law Center just got charged by the Feds for funding white supremacist extremism to justify their funding. How do we know these "incels" online aren't really just feminist activists creating a bogeyman to get more donations? Cause I've never actually met an incel in real life, I've met guys who didn't get laid. But I've never met any who talked…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:37 AM
2	Intimate Partners are doing all the damage. How are unselected men The problems again? Single sexless men have bad personalities. Their bad personalities (which women can detect with their highly developed personality detector glands) cause women to be abused by the bad men that those women choose. Therefore whenever a woman chooses a toxic abusive asshole man and gets abused then a single man who didn't commit the crime should be put in prison by the police.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:32 AM
–	Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life. Men like to fuck pussy. More news at 11.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/26 10:30 AM
3	The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at work Some men enjoy the experience in certain countries much more than their own. That's why they're willing to pay for flights, hotels, and so on. Going to a strip club, brothel, or street walker at home isn't the same for a lot of guys as going abroad is. To put it simply, I think a lot of guys get better looking women who are nicer to them when they go overseas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 01:48 AM
1	The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at work Do top tier men have serious relationships with average to below average women in the West? In other words, maybe top tier men aren't PPBs, but they're also note messing with average or below women in the West either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 01:42 AM
3	The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at work Influencer types online have an incentive to be provocative to increase interaction. When you get angry you're more likely to consume their content, share, and comment. So online people who call themselves PPB's have a reason to say offensive and edgy stuff or do edgy things. Same as influencers who specialize in other subjects.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 01:37 AM
3	People who can't trust others at some point become a liability. This. Not trusting motherfuckers (men or women) has probably saved me from getting ripped off, physically assaulted, etc. on numerous occasions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 12:48 AM
1	People who can't trust others at some point become a liability. It depends on the context. If you're in a high trust society, where social pressure pushes people to be more trustworthy, you can afford to have more trust in the average person. But if you're in a low-trust society, where the culture may actively encourage cheating, scamming, or violence, then it makes sense to distrust the average person more. In my experience neither men nor women can be trusted. But men are more prone to serious violence while women may be more prone to being beachy and emot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/26 12:38 AM
13	A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person. Wrong. The most terrible people in the world are men who can't get laid. It is because women can detect bad personalities and misogyny with their highly developed personality detector glands. So Ted Bundy, John Wayne Gacy, OJ Simpson, Rae Carruth, Josef Stalin, Adolf Hitler, Genghis Khan, etc. were all good and decent people. Whereas men who are single are literally worse than Hitler. Because at least Hitler had a girlfriend. She clearly loved him because she was able to detect his good personal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 04:38 PM
2	Sex isn't worth the hoops many men jump through to get it. I agree with OP. A lot of women have bad attitudes and aren't very attractive to begin with. Then add in the endless demands and its not really worth the effort. That's probably why they hate porn so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 12:18 PM
–	Women don't like assholes specifically, but men at the top So 'creeping on girls' and 'insulting everybody's hobbies' (I don't even know what those things mean, but okay) are worse than actual violent physical abuse? YIKES.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/26 12:08 PM
6	Women don't like assholes specifically, but men at the top Bullying someone for no reason just because they're below you is kind of assholeish. And why would girls hate you if you didn't do anything to them? Mainstream media, politicians and activists say there is a domestic violence epidemic against women in 1st world countries. That suggests to me that a lot of women are choosing assholes who abuse them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 05:09 AM
15	Why do you think so many of you guys fall for the "just world" fallacy? If women are so good at detecting hidden misogyny why do they seem to have problems detecting abusive assholes? As a man I've known guys who were often single and seemed to be pretty decent, and never expressed any misogyny. Then I've know guys who I found disagreeable and assholeish, and who have documented histories of committing violence against women (grape, physical abusive, mutilation, etc.). There was one guy I went to school with who I disliked from a young age and who went on to get arr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/26 05:05 AM
1	Men often don’t really know what they’re attracted to OP is wrong. Men have been saying for years that they prefer women who are agreeable (in addition to be physically attractive). They've been complaining about abrasive, unpleasant, shrewish, obnoxious, unpleasant women for years as well. For example, one of the typical things that men from higher income countries who go abroad to meet women say is that the women their home countries are too disagreeable, while the women they meet overseas seem nicer. I've been seeing men saying that stuff long b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/26 01:08 PM
–	Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive? That's not how markers of fertility or fertility (as in fecundity or reproductive potential) work. Based on what I've read and personal observation growing up as a preteen/teen, girls don't just suddenly become fully physically developed the second they hit puberty (i.e. at 1st menstruation). Just like boys don't suddenly turn into 6"0 muscular, hairy, deep-voiced men the second they hit puberty at 13 or whatever. What really happens, in terms of fecundity in girls is the start of menstruation i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 01:38 PM
–	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard Exactly. Take an average Western guy who goes to some foreign country. Let's say the guy meets a woman over there who is 5 times poorer than he is. Now let's say there's a rich attractive man in the USA. Do you think an American woman who is 5 times poorer than he is would have any problem dating him or marrying him? Would the feminist brigade show up to protest that "power gap"? If you went to a lot rich neighborhoods in the USA, you'd find a lot of women who are housewives and homemakers with …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 01:49 AM
–	The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heard What about when young women "betray" men their own age by rejecting them. Idc if women reject me but once they do I don't owe them the sweat off my balls. I can date much younger women (18 and up) if I feel like and I can go overseas and date women in 3rd world countries if I feel like. They can complain all they want and I can ignore them. Just like random chicks don't have to have sex with me or cook for me, I don't have to listen to or care about random females complaining.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 01:41 AM
–	Male sexuality just seems borderline antisocial to me Most men don't leave their wives as soon as they turn 26. There's lots of couples who've been together for 50+ years, and most divorces are initiated by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 01:12 PM
1	The "Nice Guy Finish Last" mindset is inherently misogynistic and shows a lack of personal accountability. Their mental stability and their social skills are too low to hide their true nature. You mean like openly aggressively beachy females? I see youre not acknowledging women are people. I never denied women were people. I just recognize they're inherently different from the male of the species. Unlike the wokeists who pretend that men and women are interchangeable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 01:11 PM
–	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Any man who can afford to fly to Asia can, at very least, afford to fuck a whore in their own country (since a lot of people say ppbs are just sex tourists who go abroad to pay for p). These guys straight up go overseas cause they get better women overseas. By "better" I just mean women whom they find more attractive in terms of looks and behavior. Its not that they can't get any women in many cases, IMO. Its that they don't like the women available to them and prefer their options abroad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/26 01:07 PM
2	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Yep. This is why Western women are buttmad about this. If they could go overseas and marry some super rich guys they'd all be booking flights and jumping ship so fast it would make your head spin. Its not like these Western women have any loyalty to Western men. They're just mad cause they can't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:44 PM
1	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone In order to go to Asia from the USA or other Western countries you have to go to a big city with an international airport. The cost of a flight to Asia is probably going to be at lest $1,000 in most cases, and maybe $2 or 3k or more. Most big cities with international airports in the USA and other Western countries have hookers selling box for about $100-200, sometimes even less. So it wouldn't be hard for these guys to get sex at home. But I can extrapolate, from their behavior (i.e. sitting in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:40 PM
1	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone None of these men have to fly halfway around the world to find women. That's a cope. Some people say that these guys are just sex tourists who are paying for box. Well, if that's the case, then its pretty easy to pay for the cookie at home, and it costs a lot less than a flight overseas. I recently saw a video clip of an American woman who travelled to a foreign country and said she paid $2k for the flight. Well in most US cities with international airports, I'm pretty sure you could find a chic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:37 PM
1	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone So why do some westerners constantly beach about this like a lost whale pod? Shouldn't they be happy that all the losers, incels, broke dusties, niceguysTM, misogynists, creeps, and bad personality-havers are leaving and leaving them alone?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:31 PM
0	The "Nice Guy Finish Last" mindset is inherently misogynistic and shows a lack of personal accountability. Okay fine. Let's accept all the feminist/bluepill premises of social media: Women have perfect intuition. They're attracted to virtuous men with good personalities and repulsed by bad men with bad personalities. They can immediately detect creepy misogynistic dangerous niceguyTM incels with bad personalities and avoid them like the plague. If all this is the case, then why do we also hear feminists, progressives, and MSM talking about an "intimate partner violence epidemic"? How can this happen?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 06:29 PM
1	Dating market is monopolised by women and the infinite choice they've. Men will mold themselves to suit women and most men being jerk narrative is fake. Many men aren't interested in dating either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/25 02:01 PM
1	This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men here Same goes for the women on here. They're not a good representation of regular women and not good people to get advice from. Overall, I've concluded that the best way to get women is to do the opposite of anything that Reddit, social media, and MSM advises. Reddit leans left. And, despite what Redditors will tell you about Trump voters being incels, there are higher rates of marriage and child bearing among Republicans than Democrats in the USA. According to the Washington Post, in 2022, c. 38% o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 08:49 PM
9	Dating market is monopolised by women and the infinite choice they've. Men will mold themselves to suit women and most men being jerk narrative is fake. How can women have infinite choice if the male population doesn't vastly outnumber the female population? In the older age ranges, in particular, women outnumber men. Then add in women being picky, and the potential dating pool of men shrinks even further. I'd say women have a relatively limited pool of men when it comes to monogamous relationships. They only have unlimited choice when it comes to casual sex, especially if they're not picky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 08:36 PM
2	What do you guys think about extreme age gap relationships? Is the woman in her 20s an adult or not? If she's an adult then its her choice to date a guy in the 60s if she wants to. That is, unless you want to bring back the patriarchy and force women in their 20s to pair up with guys their own age who are designated as suitable partners by their families.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 07:37 PM
1	What do you guys think about extreme age gap relationships? And also don't put them in prison for crimes anymore. If 28 year olds are childlike infants who can't choose to date older partners, then treat them like juveniles if they commit serious crimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 07:36 PM
2	What do you guys think about extreme age gap relationships? I'm not the penis police. If you want a society where people have sexual freedom. then don't get buttmad when some people exercise that freedom in ways you don't like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 07:35 PM
7	Lonely guys just dont like people but hate the feeling isolation brings. Its funny that there's this narrative about incels being a bunch of right wing conservative guys. In reality, statistics in the USA show that Democrats are more likely to be single and childless while Republicans are more likely to be paired up and having kids. That shouldn't be surprising either when you look at the fact that the leftie woke types are the ones who are constantly going on with weird anti-heterosexual BS: LGBTQ, cut off 8 year old boy's dongs and give East German swim team hormon…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 07:19 PM
2	Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are not Did people who voted for Trump really think he'd take away women's rights? That fearmongering rhetoric mostly came from the leftwing. I think a lot of people voted for Trump cause they didn't want the government flooding their neighborhoods with foreign illegal immigrant gangbangers, or letting biological males play sports with their daughters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 03:20 PM
1	Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are not You seem to be suggesting that men should vote progressive cause high status conservative men don't like them. Well the problem is the progressive politicians are also high status men and women, and they also hate poor people, regardless of their virtue signaling. The progressives are a bunch of rich elitist motherfuckers who don't give a fuck about disadvantaged people. They just pretend they do, but will fuck poor people up just as bad or worse than the cons will. Therefore I would suggest tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 02:49 PM
0	The Plummeting Birthrate Is Only Really Going To Only Affect Feminist Women. I mean this is basic common sense. Feminist type women aren't having kids, but conservative women are having a bunch of them. Conservative Christian evangelical type women are having kids; Mormons are having kids; Christian immigrants from places like Philippines and Nigeria are having kids; Muslim immigrants are having lots and lots of kids; Orthodox Jews are having lots of kids. So who will be left to support the progressives as time goes on? It seems to me that some immigrants who are otherwi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 06:18 PM