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Nice, fellow Belgians. Ghent represent!
/r/seduction03/04/15 10:52 AM
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I tried this with a female wingman, and she said it seemed as though I was looking at her bobs. Needless to say I don't do that any more.
/r/seduction18/02/15 10:35 PM
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True. ALWAYS just assume she is single until she says otherwise.
/r/seduction18/02/15 10:27 PM
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Totally this! Just act like you would with any other girl.
/r/seduction24/01/15 06:03 PM
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I did pick up a girl using my business card once. However I don't do that any more for two reasons: a lot of girls want plausible deniability. They don't want to be the one to take action. They want to be able to say "it just happened, I'm not a slut". That's the reason most girls don't make the first move. I have a nerdy job that is known for a relatively high pay, so I don't want to attract girls who are after a guy with money and don't want them thinking I'm a nerdy guy before having gone on …
/r/seduction11/01/15 10:27 AM
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Swimming and fitness together make up those seven times. But no worries, I have a capable trainer and I have a shit ton of experience of my own. I even used to train 10 times a week a few years ago. Those fitness sessions are primarily used to train some of the 'neglected' muscle groups, not really for 'bulking'.
/r/seduction30/12/14 12:55 AM
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Read Models Increase my number of workouts from 4 to 7 times each week Start competitive swimming again Go out more Be more decisive at work Start going out on my own Get out of the mental block I seem to have in the last 2 months (ever since my grandfather passed away on a night I was out sarging) I'm still not quite sure if doing these things will be enough to get in an alpha mindset. I have 2 more days to figure out a more detailed plan and besides that, I'll just keep on searching for other …
/r/seduction29/12/14 11:06 PM
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Yes. I call it project alpha. Goal: Be more confident.
/r/seduction29/12/14 10:19 PM
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And you don't want those women who judge you just by your looks
/r/seduction23/11/14 12:50 AM
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It's <20F!!! How hard can it be to do a ... cold approach?? Yeah, you heard me right the first time. But seriously, I'm guessing outdoor ice skating rinks are a fun place. And besides that, I still go to clubs in winter.
/r/seduction19/11/14 07:01 PM
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In my experience, the moment I buy girls stuff (for instance drinks), they lose interest.
/r/seduction28/10/14 06:16 PM
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I had 'okay' date which turned out great on the second date. I had 'great' date where the girl didn't want to see me again afterwards. Just go for a second date and see how that one goes.
/r/seduction07/10/14 06:34 PM
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Or you could buy it
/r/seduction07/10/14 04:17 PM
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Thanks for these additions. I didn't know the contamination risk was limited to only 7 months after outbreaks. Of course this can still make you vulnerable if your partner had a small outbreak and didn't notice it. Do you perhaps have some sort of further reading? I have been looking into reducing my herpes vulnerability.
/r/seduction05/09/14 05:39 PM
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I read somewhere (from a trusted government website) that if your partner has herpes, there's a chance of 2% to be infected if no sores are showing AND you are using a condom. So keep that in mind.
/r/seduction05/09/14 04:16 PM
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The key is that it's only awkward if you think it's awkward. Just smile and keep talking.
/r/seduction03/09/14 07:51 PM
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Truth #4 gives me hope. I only started learning game half a year ago and was finally starting to be successful with women. But I'll be graduating in 3 weeks and starting my first job and I am worried about finding girls. I mean at university there are a lot of parties with a lot of hot women but when I start working, I'll probably only be able yo go out at most once or twice a week during the weekend. So I hope I can still find some sweet parties and I'm afraid women might not be as sexually wil…
/r/seduction26/08/14 06:33 PM
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This is what I do. I assume a girl is single until she says otherwise.
/r/seduction23/08/14 07:07 PM
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Weird. No one ever gave me shit about it. Maybe the way you handle these comments makes a difference?
/r/seduction23/08/14 07:05 PM
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Good for you to want to embark on this journey. Make no mistake. It will be a journey. An epic one. You won't get good overnight. It will take time and you will see a gradual increase in your skill. And most of all, it will make you happy. Try not to do this for the girls but for yourself. Try to improve your life and the image you have of yourself. To start, read the sidebar. This will contain all the info you need. And a last pointer: go out and approach. Fail and try again. Over and over. Don…
/r/seduction23/08/14 06:59 PM
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Better here. I'm not a fan of the advice they give at r/relationships
/r/seduction23/08/14 06:53 PM
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I do this. No one cares. They might mention it is strange once. And then it never comes up again. I just drink soda and have fun. All alcohol does is make you not care. I trained myself to not care without alcohol and have as much fun as everyone else. I still take my first dates to a bar and often even order chocolate milk. They do not care. Ever.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:56 PM
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Where I live (Belgium), calling something a 'date' sounds weird to the girl. However, I have the impression that this isn't the case for the US. Anyway, I would say to just escalate. Forget she has something with this other guy because the way you say it, it doesn't sound like it's something serious.
/r/seduction19/08/14 04:26 PM
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This is great advice. And keep in mind that Facebook is someone's best representation of themselves. Obviously you'll only post pictures of you doing cool stuff. This doesn't mean their real life is equally awesome. The way I see Facebook, is that it's like an advertisement for myself. I'll only post cool stuff so girls will say "that guy look interesting, I have to meet him". Everyone does this at least subconsciously.
/r/seduction16/08/14 04:03 PM
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My female friends say the same thing: "you can't go looking for girls, someone will come along when you least expect it" My past half year of conquests proved them dead wrong.
/r/seduction15/08/14 05:59 PM
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I have the feeling you are really over-analysing. I don't know the answers to all your questions and I actually think you don't need to know them either. Just give off a fun vibe and try to enjoy yourself. All these things will work out if you just go out and practice talking to girls. A big tip: I have also been on vacations with like 12 hour bus rides with complete strangers. What I do to get a party vibe going and talking to people is that I bring wine to drink and hand around. Where I come f…
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:26 PM
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This! Also, 4-5 interactions aren't that many! Try to talk to more girls. A lot more. Of course some will have a boyfriend and the chances of encountering 5 girls with a boyfriend in a row are relatively high. Just talk to, say, 1 girl each day. After 2 weeks you will have met enough single girls. And it's okay to talk to girls on the street, they don't have to be in your classes. Just make sure you increase your chances by increasing the number of attempts (= the number of girls you approach).
/r/seduction05/08/14 05:47 PM
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I also do this. I say: "We should meet again. Give me your number and I'll text you." Easy as pie. Just make sure you don't ask! Just say it like you believe there is no reason why she wouldn't give you her number. You'll come off as really confident.
/r/seduction27/07/14 09:52 PM
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You made me rethink my life. Thank you for that. I might consider a different relationship model. Just need some more thinking. Anyway, really nice post.
/r/seduction26/07/14 12:15 PM
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The app still works, I use it myself. However, I can't be 100% sure it's still undetectable.
/r/seduction25/07/14 06:48 AM
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I don't think it tells them. However I'm not 100% sure. Edit: so apparently it doesn't tell them, http://www.socialediquette.com/2013/07/05/beware-snap-save-and-snapgrapple-on-snapchat/
/r/seduction23/07/14 08:09 PM
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Search for an app called snapsave. This will allow you to save snaps. I won't be the guy who got naked pictures and then wasn't able to save them!
/r/seduction23/07/14 08:02 PM
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An hour about your WOW account?! I'm impressed. I'd love to see that.
/r/seduction14/07/14 12:39 PM
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With me it's the fear of STDs I guess consciously. But I'm sure I have some subconscious reasons also.
/r/seduction21/06/14 11:38 AM
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Exactly this. And be yourself. If she doesn't appreciate that, then she isn't right for you.
/r/seduction20/06/14 10:53 PM
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I try to not let it get to me. Some nights are just better then others. Take a shower and try again next night out. Greatness is born from picking yourself up time after time after you fall down. Good luck!
/r/seduction20/06/14 10:50 PM
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My best friend had read the game (I didn't know this at the time) and was trying to copy the stuff in it, although without success. At a given night, he started talking to 3 or 4 women by just saying whatever. Usually when that happened, we all just looked at him and smirked. "He's doing it again!" Usually, he'd get shot down after 1 or 2 minutes. So basically, we were all being huge AFC's and I remember thinking: "If I wanted to talk to women, I wouldn't have these problems and it would go perf…
/r/seduction20/06/14 01:14 PM
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I usually just send a text saying: "You can always send me a text if you have trouble finding ...(the bar you agreed to meet up or other venue)." I'm not sure if this is the 'correct' way of doing it, but I'm okay with that.
/r/seduction20/06/14 12:26 PM
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