BanceLutters Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	“Woman were the perpetrators of one sided Domestic Violence 70% of the time in heterosexual relationships.” Study. I respect you a lot for that	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 04:28 PM
8	Only could a man get SAd and still be blamed on the way he reacted… Gotta be honest I am with you on everything you said but the "harmless" part. I think the emotional damage of something like that can cause (even in grown adults that mask their uncomfortableness by laughing or smiling) severe trauma in some people (me for example). I had a rough life and was not able to fully develop and understand my sexuality until in my late 20s. I wanted to have a one night stand, even tried (couldn't perform because of not being comfortable enough) and afterwards I felt so…	/r/MensRights	29/06/24 12:28 PM
3	Rape has no gender Love that you were able to find your truth and still live a life that allows you to find even more 🙏🏽	/r/MensRights	24/06/24 11:25 PM
18	Twitter Misandry: Ugly Boys Should Be Aborted Instagram comment sections are the worst	/r/MensRights	18/06/24 06:56 AM
197	Woman finds out she's having a boy, wants to abort it at three months Isn't this basically eugenics? Aborting children based on their genetic makeup?	/r/MensRights	30/05/24 01:14 PM
8	Why do feminists expect men to control how other men behave? Women need to look inside themselves to find out why we don't give a shit anymore	/r/MensRights	25/05/24 07:54 AM
3	I suspect I have been drugged by my friend's sisters and his mother while in sleep and they took my pictures. Is there any way to lock or maybe block the door? Or setting something up that would make a loud noise when they open the door so you would wake up?	/r/MensRights	07/02/24 03:23 PM
0	Something that alot of people on this sub need to hear Because OP is not trying to convince anyone that feminists are nice and it's not worth arguing over a point that was never made	/r/MensRights	30/01/24 02:32 PM
10	False accusation and AI There is already research going on and I think there are already methods which could help with this. Basically the idea is to have a kind of signature that can be used to confirm the origin of the data. Obviously it's more complicated than that regarding Internet privacy and such but we are not completely doomed yet	/r/MensRights	29/01/24 03:12 PM
2	i feel suicidal about my gender? I am struggling with this myself :/ For now I am trying to work on my own mental health and when I feel like I can handle calm and rational discussions, I try to challenge people's views by calmly explaining my views and I've had some great experiences where people actually started thinking how their actions affect people. That is the only way I feel like I am actually doing something helpful for now 😅	/r/MensRights	07/01/24 10:25 PM
9	Society transformed me into a monster. This comment makes me think that you behave like a monster willingly and use him being a monster as an excuse to not care. If you are a good person you can be good to anyone no matter what your personal opinion of them is. Ever heard of mental illnesses?	/r/MensRights	07/01/24 09:55 AM
6	All negative comments about my appearance in my life were made by women. Can't say this pattern is true for me 😄 My ex loved my hair and hated me for cutting them short. My mum always hated my beard but during quarantine after already cutting my hair to a 1cm buzz cut I completely shaved my beard and took a funny picture of it. After that she never hated on my beard again 😄 I've had a lot of men from older generations tell me to cut my again grown out hair and beard so there's that too :D Generally I'd say most of the girls that liked me were very attracted to my bea…	/r/MensRights	05/01/24 04:35 PM
3	Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women? I'm absolutely with you! Nobody should need to be forced to join the military but if nobody wants to, the attacking force has already won. I don't want to justify any of it but I could imagine that from a military perspective, drafting incompetent men over incompetent women still seems like the better deal. Could also be my own bias but I generally don't think that the gender itself is the main reason why they don't get drafted but rather strategic decisions. But now that I think of it, it would…	/r/MensRights	21/12/23 09:50 AM
3	Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women? Not really having a strong opinion on this topic but wanted to share my experiences and thoughts. I've done voluntary military service for a year and there were also a few women in my basic training (also voluntarily!). There were a few women that were better soldiers than most of the other men but there were also women that were more of a hindrance and made being a soldier feel more dangerous. When doing long marches, there was one woman that started crying because her feet hurt. Then one of th…	/r/MensRights	21/12/23 09:24 AM
3	I'm a woman, and I'm angry. I'm coming to the source to ask for advice and insight. I personally would just like someone that listens, actually cares and does not give me the feeling that my pain is too much for them and I should better deal with it on my own	/r/MensRights	16/12/23 08:36 PM
14	Pushing back Why base it on gender instead of individuals? A waitress is genuinely nice? Tip her. A waiter is genuinely nice? Tip him Someone is an ass? Don't tip, write an honest review and go on with your life	/r/MensRights	05/12/23 09:39 AM
4	What rights do you believe a man is entitled to in this situation? A child's brain starts to develop during pregnancy and is affected by what the mother is experiencing. If she didn't want to give birth to a child, it will be a terrible time for her and I assume it won't be too well for the child either	/r/MensRights	27/11/23 09:42 PM
5	Looking for help with a survey on the treatment of genders by modern movies Is there any way to be notified when the paper has been released? Would be interested in the results	/r/MensRights	13/11/23 12:06 PM
7	What would you say are your main issues with feminism? Do you agree with any aspects of it? The last statement is so sad	/r/MensRights	06/11/23 05:39 PM
3	Sextoys I think your answer is missing some nuance. While humans have the ability to choose their actions consciously, we're still animals and are kind of limited by our bodies and brains. E.g. our autonomous nervous system can make you anxious which limits your brain's ability to make informed and thoughtful decisions as its goal is to decide as fast as possible to keep you safe. Depending on one's experiences, this could easily happen for example when you don't want to look weak because you were made …	/r/MensRights	27/10/23 11:21 AM
0	Women only trains and buses? There's nothing to take back I think. Women have serious issues, men have serious issues. Maybe this is a naive perspective but I believe that the main issue is that people are not happy and want to be happier. I think it is human to expect others to change so I can feel better but I also think that this won't work as everybody is also free to do what they want. So my only option is to change my own perspective or behavior if I want to be happier. Surprisingly this mindset actually helped me bec…	/r/MensRights	05/10/23 02:18 PM
1	As a woman, how can I be more aware of men and their needs? From what I see and my experience it seems like you're doing all that is needed. Just being open and interested in men's perspectives, asking genuine questions about what they are going through and reflecting on that can lead to a better understanding of their situations and might help you decide how you want to act around them. To me personally it's hard to interpret, articulate and express my feelings which makes it harder to actually reach out to people. Most of the time when I try to reach o…	/r/MensRights	25/09/23 03:03 PM