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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile.	Debate	BanditNoble	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 06:21 AM

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1	Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated? There was this study which found that some hobbies are consistently preferred by men, some are consistently preferred by women, and some which were not consistently preferred by either. They found that in more gender-equal societies, the differences between the hobbies consistently enjoyed by the two sexes became more pronounced, but the hobbies that were not consistently preferred by one or the other became more equal. In other words, masculine hobbies were more male-dominated, feminine hobbies…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 06:14 AM
2	Do you think male dominated hobbies and spaces should stay male dominated? For me, it's not a matter of "should be" as much as it is a matter of "will inevitably be". Some hobbies simply attract more men, other hobbies attract more women, and some hobbies are more neutral. It is inevitable when a hobby attracts more of one sex than another that the hobby will be dominated by that sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/26 12:10 AM
6	Why do so many assume this "has much sex = good" "dont has much sex = bad" scheme ? I thought we revered monks because of their single-minded devotion to doing what is good and holy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/26 02:08 AM
0	Define Leagues for Men You know that different women are attracted to different kinds of men, right? My uncle is not a particularly handsome guy. He's fat and greying with a bald spot. Yet he was still able to find a woman, marry her, and have three children with her, and when he started to lose weight, his wife actually confided in my grandmother that she preferred him with more bulk. There are different types of men, but there are also different types of women, and it is a particular type of woman who is approaching…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 07:22 AM
9	It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects him The fact that people like you will boil down having feelings for someone as simply "wanting to fuck them" is a sad, sad indictment of the times. If I like a woman, I don't care if she has attractive friends. I like HER. I want to be with HER. And if she doesn't like me the way I like her, it's okay for me to step back and say "I need space to get over these feelings."	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 10:55 PM
3	Men who ask out a female friend 9 out of 10 times naturally developed feelings for her and didn’t put her in the “fuck zone” Your first mistake is assuming that friendship and romantic love are the same thing. You can like someone as a friend, find them attractive, and still have no romantic interest in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:47 PM
1	Men who ask out a female friend 9 out of 10 times naturally developed feelings for her and didn’t put her in the “fuck zone” Some women have become more attractive to me as I got to know them better. And some women have become more unattractive to me as I got to know them better - and realized they had utterly disgusting personalities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 02:46 PM
3	Society upholds women’s standards of men more than men’s standards of women, because women’s ideal man is someone broadly admired and socially successful, while men’s ideal woman is someone valued almost exclusively by her romantic partner I disagree entirely with your idea that people don't like that "idealised woman" I think most parents WOULD appreciate a daughter who is gentle, agreeable, kind, hard-working, values her family and doesn't sleep around. I think most children would appreciate a mother like that, especially if their father is the strict one. And I think her neighbours would find her pleasant to be around, especially if she's also very community minded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 03:19 PM
0	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. No, actually, it hasn't. This is completely vibes-based history. Most men don't need war to get married. Most men throughout history married women from their local communities. Peasants did not need to march off to France to go and find a wife, because there were plenty of women right there at home. Most men throughout history were also monogamous, with polygamy being both rare and generally restricted to the elites of a society - you know, the people who already have all the wealth and prestige…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 02:31 AM
1	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. "You hate me cause you ain't me" really isn't the argument if you're trying to convince people you aren't juvenile and childish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 01:23 AM
1	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. Sorry, is that supposed to be a good thing, being intimidating? Are women your enemies, and that's why you feel like you have to intimidate them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 01:11 AM
1	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. I'm not calling it juvenile because it doesn't serve women's purpose. I'm calling it juvenile because it's juvenile. Chasing hollow, selfish pleasures while bragging about how it makes you so much better than everyone else - it's beyond pathetic!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 01:08 AM
2	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. I've literally seen people in this very comment section defending that alpha male "top dog fucks the bitches" mentality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 12:26 AM
1	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. His list includes getting a vasectomy, avoiding marriage and avoiding starting a family - and this is supposed to be "high value"? People genuinely listen to this guy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 12:26 AM
1	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. No, I just recognise it's bad for the soul. I feel disgust and pity, not fear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 12:22 AM
1	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. The shape of the penis is proof that we ARE monogamous. We aren't like cats, where the penis is designed to remove a competitor's semen. Our refractory period is long, our sperm count is relatively low, and we struggle to have multiple ejaculations - all of that is a sign that we are not meant to have sex with multiple partners. > Pill discussion originated from sexual strategy, mostly about how to get most and highest quality sex. Turns out to get that you need to have plenty of options, and wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 12:22 AM
1	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. This might be waxxing a bit too philosophical, but I think that "alpha male" culture and the male loneliness epidemic are two sides of the same coin, and they both come from the same root: men's overall lack of purpose. I think a lot of men nowadays feel like they don't have a purpose in life, so they either pursue cheap, hollow pleasures, or they completely withdraw from society, feeling more like passive observers than active participants in it. The biggest way to fix these problems would be t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 08:36 AM
4	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. This is why I brought up the reproduction thing. Humans are not chimps. We are not gorillas. We are not other kinds of primates. Our biology and our society are very, very different from other kinds of primates, so it's not really helpful to look at other primates to learn about human society. Especially since other primates are so wildly different from each other, too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 08:31 AM
2	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. That is also true, and I don't think I did a good job of emphasizing that. Women have their own preferences. Even in caveman times, you couldn't just walk up to a woman and ask for sex. Courtship was a thing, and early human women wanted to make sure their partners were capable of looking after them when they were vulnerable i.e. during pregnancy and nursing. If a man spends all his time courting new women, that's time he's not spending finding food for his wives and children. That makes him a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 08:18 AM
4	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. You have to remember we're talking about super early, primitive humans here - the ones that shaped the evolutionary sexual strategy. If you spend all your time with one woman, the rest of your harem is likely to leave and seek out another man. They want to reproduce too, and they aren't going to wait while you focus on impregnating one particular woman. It is more efficient for the women to find new partners than to wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 08:14 AM
3	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. I know that argument sounds logical on the surface, but it's a lot harder than it sounds, especially for a primitive human who doesn't know about things like fertility windows and ovulation. First, you need to attract various women. That requires a lot of time and effort - you can't just plug-walk up to a woman and say "wanna do it?" Early human women would be looking for a partner who is able to take care of them while they are pregnant and nursing, so they're not likely to hook up with you rig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 08:05 AM
3	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. It's not that polygyny isn't real, it's that polygyny in human societies has evolved more as a tool of pleasure and a display of power, not as a biological imperative. In societies where polygyny is accepted, it almost always appears among the elites of that society - the common man is still monogamous. I brought it up to contrast people who believe that "alpha male" system is comparable to polygyny in other primates, such as gorillas. Other primate's reproductive systems encourage polygyny, whe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 07:22 AM
0	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. On the contrary, the reproductive system suggests a lot about relationships, since reproduction is such a major part of male-female relationships in any species. For example, 90% of bird species are monogamous, and a bird's reproductive system basically makes having an active father necessary - far more necessary than mammal species, which have more varied reproductive strategies. You are right in the sense that humans do have much more complex kinship bonds than most other animals, which is a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 06:50 AM
9	"Alpha Male" culture is juvenile. Tell me you never matured past high school without telling me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 06:30 AM
3	Most High Value Men will cheat, and if your Husband doesnt cheat, hes most likely not High Value, and u claiming he is doesnt change the fact that he isnt. Some of us actually love our partners. And a high-quality man wouldn't get "coked out of his mind" in the first place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 02:31 AM
1	Why are Red Pillers so obsessed with status? But the point of having "access to females" is to find mates, not just to have sex. The point is to reproduce, have children, continue the species. Animals, especially monogamous animals, don't seek status for no reason. So if you aren't having children and starting families, what's the point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 12:12 PM
1	Why are Red Pillers so obsessed with status? But I don't want to bang women. I want to bang a woman, singular, in the context of a loving and mutually beneficial relationship that makes us both happy. Chasing tail just seems juvenile, for lack of a better word. It's what you do in college when you're not a boy anymore, but not quite a man either. It's one of those things that you should put behind you as you get older, like playing with action figures or thinking that saying "fuck" makes you cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/25 11:48 AM
–	What is stopping men to be hypergamous like they claim women are? Well, often times, they aren't marrying at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 04:59 PM
1	Holding up your partner to standards you can't meet yourself is not always hypocritical. I can't speak for everyone, ofc, but personally I prefer my partners to have a low body count because that means they take relationships seriously, and probably view sex the same way I do i.e. something very serious you only do with someone you're in a committed relationship with. But I also have a very low body count myself, so I don't know if that counts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/25 01:23 AM
13	What is stopping men to be hypergamous like they claim women are? OP's question feels like it answers itself. If all the women are marrying upwards, then how can a man also marry upwards? All the women who are above him won't be looking at him, they'll be looking at someone even further up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 11:32 PM
1	CMV: Men are not insecure they are just jealous of experienced women If that was the case, you wouldn't have experienced men also saying they prefer someone with no experience, with lines like "a key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock opened by many keys is a bad lock".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 11:40 AM
18	We live in a Post-Alpha world where “red pill alphas” are nothing but mythologized male whores. How does someone manage to be this confident and this incorrect at the same time? Alpha males in primates (which don't exist in 70% of primate species, by the way) don't get their position by being rapists. Female primates flock to alpha male primates for protection. You're ignoring three very important biological facts here: One, alpha females and competition between females also exist. If dominant male primates were all a bunch of rapists, the females wouldn't need to compete amongst each othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/25 07:01 AM
1	Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irl Honestly, almost nothing political that gets talked about online is talked about IRL. Online it's all Israel-Palestine, Taiwan, immigration, the male loneliness epidemic, the rise of fascism. Meanwhile the last IRL political conversation was about how the supposedly Left-Wing government was cutting a specific type of disability payment, and ended with everyone essentially agreeing "the (moderate left) Party is just the same as the (moderate right) Party". Not very politically engaged, but it was…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/25 08:22 PM
4	Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent women Guys, guys, society hates men and I can prove it! Posts a link to the SCUM Manifesto	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/25 01:12 AM
54	Schopenhauer proves that even when society bends over backwards to privilege men, they just can't help but resent women "This proves that men resent women" - and it's some fucking nobody's insane ramblings, who most men would disagree with. Also, fucking LOL that men in Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia aren't "getting pussy". There's a reason those countries have such high birthrates. What do you think is going on, immaculate conception?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 05:40 PM
-1	Why do men want a trad wife. I dunno, office work is pretty shitty...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 05:17 PM
9	Why do men want a trad wife. To be fair, the alternative was forcing women to be financially dependent on men. I wouldn't want to be financially dependent on someone even if I loved them - imagine how much worse it was for women stuck in marriages they couldn't stand or were coerced into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 05:16 PM
7	Why do men want a trad wife. Around 20,000 women were punished with the tonte after the liberation of France, at least as far as we know. Of those, less than half (42%) were punished for "Horizontal Collaboration" or having relationships with Germans, and not all of those relationships were sexual: some were punished simply for being friendly to the Germans. The other 58%, incidentally, were punished for denouncing resistance fighters, giving away secrets to the Germans, voicing pro-German or pro-Vichy opinions, voicing ant…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 10:27 AM
32	Why do men want a trad wife. I don't want a tradwife myself, but holy shit, this is like a child's parody understanding of what adults are like. "Once you're an adult, all you talk about is work and taxes". AFAIK, the reason why conservatives support the traditional "man works, woman housekeeps" structure is so that while the man earns money, the house is looked after and the children are taken care of by someone who implicitly supports their development. If all the housework is done by the afternoon, and dinner is ready wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 10:07 AM
2	Pick Me Girls are not respected by men. Women are not jealous of them. Using a con artist who claimed to be Danish royalty as your example is... pretty pathetic, to be honest. That's like falling for the Nigerian Prince scam. That's the best example you can think of? Other than that, this feels like some stream-of-conscience ramblings. Like, yes, men don't typically commit to whores. Men also don't like when their partners deliberately withhold sex from them. What does either of that have to do with pick-mes, and how is that contradictory? And unless I missed a mem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 02:50 AM
1	Why do men need women? But that's the thing: emotional labour originally specifically meant labour i.e. work. It used to mean the work done by teachers and psychiatrists and social workers - jobs where you have to swallow your real feelings and express a facade. An electrician or a brickie can express frustration or annoyance, but if a psychiatrist hears someone talking a load of crap, they'd lose their wages if they said "don't be such an idiot", and a teacher can't very well say "I hate you stupid ankle-biters" to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/25 01:25 AM
0	Why do men need women? What you and radfems call "emotional labour" 90% of the time is just "looking after for someone you care about". I hate how that word has been bastardized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 11:04 PM
6	Why do men need women? Honestly, I agree with you, but I think it's funny that you say this, but another "red pill" guy is saying that needing women for anything except sex and reproduction is "beta". I don't know what "red pill" means anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:51 PM
3	Why do men need women? The "beta" has a family, a companion, and a reason to live. The "alpha" is just some dude who could replace women with jacking off. The "beta" is definitely winning in this scenario.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:48 PM
1	Why do men need women? Why would I want to have kids with someone who I didn't see as a friend and companion, though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:47 PM
8	Why do men need women? You're saying women have no uses except for recreation, but fucking a doll is "weird incel shit"? Buddy, you're already halfway there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:41 PM
20	Why do men need women? Because you can't row a boat with one oar. Men and women make up half of society each. How is any society supposed to function when its two halves are utterly hostile to each other and refuse to work harmoniously together?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 10:39 PM
12	Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twenties I'm sorry, why should we be working ourselves to the bone for pennies on the dollar? Why should we be working until we are "emotionally and spiritually" exhausted? That's an absurd expectation to have on anyone, especially now that money is getting tighter and prices are going up. We have to grind and scrape and pinch every penny, and for what? For nothing at all. And I'm sorry, but you're saying you're a millennial - if you were a young adult during the 90s, you were in the best economic decade…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 08:12 PM
44	MAGA is proof that men will stand up to feminists when they actually give a damn about issues, which clearly isnt men’s issues. The majority of White women also voted for Trump. Let's not pretend Trump won just because of men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/25 03:45 PM
1	CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truths I think it's interesting that your example for men is young onlyfans girls and loli people, cause AFAIK, those two groups fucking HATE each other. Like genuinely despise one another. I think the OnlyFans example is very different though, because that's about seeing an actual human being, and that raises some very concerning questions like "if it was legal, would these guys be looking at a 16 year old, a 14 year old, or even younger?". So while I get what you're saying, I think the OF example is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 08:00 AM
5	I think all women would be happier single I have, in fact, even been sexually satisfied with zero women. Our sex drives really aren't so insane that we have to have sex, or we die. If a man says he needs multiple partners, then quite frankly, he lacks self-control.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/25 12:51 AM
2	It's not going to get better Historically we used to burn people for owning a copy of the Bible and justified owning human beings for having different levels of melanin in their skin, what's your point?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 12:58 PM
9	It's not going to get better Comparing gender roles to slavery is wild. "Men and women performing different roles in society is exactly the same as legally owning a human being and forcing them to work under threat of torture". You know it's possible to have gender roles that aren't strictly enforced or compelled, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 10:21 AM
1	Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights. You need to take the willingness to use force into account here as well. You can have power theoretically, and also be unwilling to use it. That means that there won't necessarily always be a patriarchy - it's just that men, as a class, would have to refuse to use force against women. And I honestly think, in Western countries at least, that we're actually a good way there. At least, I can't think of any egregious examples of non-criminal men using force against women to prevent them practicing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 07:21 AM
8	Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternative Except it's predominantly younger men who feel this way: men who've never actually been in positions of "primacy and supremacy".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 11:02 PM
66	Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternative Modern men are caught between an ideology that's a hypocritical mockery of their struggles, and an ideology that is downright hostile to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 10:02 AM
3	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. I'm sorry, but these numbers still look huge to me. A third of women have tried anal? 10 percent of young people on college campuses are having sex on any given weekend? Like... One in ten? I'm still young enough to remember high school and we had classes of like 20, 25, sometimes even 30 people. That means two or three people per class were having regular casual sex. That feels like a lot to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 07:26 PM
1	Women Prioritize Validation Over Resolution — and That’s a Problem But what if their opinions aren't valid? Where do you go from there? Validating an invalid opinion isn't resolving the problem, it's just kicking the can down the road.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:52 AM
1	Men are the slaves of their sexual desire, this imposed sexual desire must be completely eliminated When you say "men are slaves of their sexual desire", you very much are implying that men can't control their sexual desires. A slave is controlled by their master, even if they resent them. And if you acknowledge that men can control their sexual desires, why on earth would we need to eliminate sexual desires? Surely having control of the desire is the best, since we can benefit from its good sides while avoiding its bad sides?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 11:51 PM
2	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Okay, actually, there's a great example. In many cases in the south, White Women were directly responsible for the oppression of black men. That doesn't mean the women weren't oppressed, but it does mean that white women were responsible for oppressing black people, while also themselves being oppressed by someone else. However, a wealthy white woman almost certainly felt the effects of patriarchy less than a black woman did, or even a poor white woman. And any benefits that a black man had were…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 08:46 PM
2	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. You started off so well with point 1 and 2, and then you just taper off. First of all, fallacy of relative privation. Just because someone else has it worse, doesn't mean the situation OP talks about isn't bad. It is possible to be opposed to two things at once. Like, you wouldn't go up to a homeless guy and say "oh, you're homeless? Womp womp, some people are homeless AND disabled. Suck it up, buttercup", now, would you? Second, what is that logic? It sounds like you're implying that ALL women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 07:58 PM
31	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Why do you assume that women don't play a part in keeping men like Trump in power? Are you forgetting that a majority of White women voted for Trump in the last election? "If women are victims of the patriarchy, why do they support patriarchs?" - that's you. That's how you sound.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/10/25 07:32 PM
–	The avêrage man has no reason to promote womên’s rights I support women's rights because I want the women in my life to be free and happy. Those women aren't thought experiments. They aren't hypothetical. They're real people whose lives are affected by having these rights, and I wouldn't be doing my job as their friend if I didn't advocate for their rights. That's my reason anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 10:38 AM
1	The only criteria to loving a man. Yes, you need to accept that men aren't women - but everything else you said was nonsense. I've been in relationships like the kind you suggested. They were utterly miserable. Whenever I turned her down for sex (because, contrary to popular belief, men are not always in the mood), she took it as a personal insult, acting like that meant I didn't care about her anymore, that I must have been interested in someone else. Ok the contrary, the women in my life who I like the most are my friends; the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 08:11 PM