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If she's asking you to buy her a drink, you WANT the conversation to end. And the correct response is "I don't buy girls drinks in clubs". If she asks why, "That's just a rule of mine".
/r/seduction10/07/23 01:21 PM
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My first tip would be that every guy has a hope of getting a girlfriend
/r/seduction16/10/22 11:21 AM
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When it happened it was bc it was very clear from the start that the girl liked me, it progressed naturally until we were alone by chance and we made out. Sounds like you don't want to wait for things to happen and you want to make things happen. The answer is to simply ask her out on a date, just the two of you then invite her back to your place. I've gotten 3 girls in one social circle by doing this. I've missed out on girls too, but at the end of the day I knew if she was interested or not.
/r/seduction14/10/22 10:40 AM
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You have to be in the moment to really master it. Look up Nick Sparks - How to have a Conversation Like a Man. As far as texting, this is where so many guys fuck up. Trying to game women on the phone. Texting is purely for setting dates. And stop texting women the day you meet them. Wait a week. Look like you have things that are more important than her. If you can't do that you're already too desperate. When you do reach out, progress the texting to a 15 minute phone conversation, allowing her …
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:46 AM
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The difference between being a friend and lover is escalation. That's where you choose whether you want to seduce them or not. And if you want to, you do it as soon as possible. The reason there's mostly advice for random women and whatnot is because trying to holla at a girl in your social circle is quite risky. You'll have to deal with how weird things can get if she rejects you. This is why it's far easier to use your social circle to meet women who are not part of that circle. Also, you shou…
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:32 AM
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I was responding to him as someone that doesn't know enough to just "have fun and enjoy" his time with a girl. If he did, he probably wouldn't have asked the question. And who said I don't want to talk about it, you find out about a person the more time you spend with them, naturally. Not as part of some planned game. As with women, being a mystery to them is part of the attraction. The OP had a follow up that had nothing to do with this specific game they mentioned so it's deeper than that. You…
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:32 PM
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I'm my opinion when she kissed you on the neck I would've teased her like "In public? Behave yourself" only because it's no point in doing any of that stuff on a date because you can't fuck her right there. When you got back to her place YOU we're obviously the one doing most of the thinking. She knew her place was messy. Obviously she didn't mind letting you see the place because she invited you over. If you're not comfortable fuckin in front of the dog tell her to put it in another room or the…
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:03 AM
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I wouldn't play this game. This is an easy way to find out everything you want to know about eachother within minutes then where does that leave you? What are you gonna talk about on dates? Or when y'all hangout? It'll get boring fast. I would say something along the lines of "Well I can't go telling you everything you want to know about me. What are we without our secrets? I'd prefer not to know yours either. It's more fun that way."
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:40 AM
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Women give horrible dating advice. They don't know what they want
/r/seduction11/09/22 07:44 AM
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Yeah those should definitely be easiest. They're the traditional women that every man wants. You just gotta have your shit together, now that part is easier said than done. In the West you gotta have your shit together AND Then Some. Look, if you're having a hard time with Eastern women, never EVER date Western women. They'll make your head explode. Now if you say you have an easier time with Western women, ya lying bruh
/r/seduction10/09/22 01:43 PM
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If we're going to talk like men instead of sugar coating shit, you gotta make them feel like you're better than them.
/r/seduction10/09/22 01:23 PM
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If when you say Eastern you're talking about Italy, Europe, or wherever tf they speak all those different languages, it's actually far easier to get women there. I've met a lot of them while being a Bouncer for years. As long as they found me attractive I was just blunt and confident. I was actually surprised at how forward they were. Here in the West, and I mean America, is where you have to really know game like not looking too available even when you are, how much to text, call, how many date…
/r/seduction10/09/22 01:15 PM
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Well it's been a few days or a week or more already. You should've asked her out by now. Then you wouldn't get hung up on these texts. You can always respond "definitely" then ask her out. But if you just want to give her free attention or you just want someone to talk to you can keep messaging her online
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:45 AM
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Self improvement. Health, Finances, and social status.
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:57 AM
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You must be the guy that wrote something like this the other day. Then you used that "I look even better in motion" reply and actually used it. That shit was dumb. But yeah bro stop trying to seduce a girl online when she's already part of your social circle. It shows a ridiculous lack of confidence. When you see her in person again, ask her out on a date but not in front of everyone. Move from there.
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:56 AM
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First off, if you knew she had a boyfriend and you were not willing to be the side dude, you should've never did your best to seduce her. Next thing, don't make her your girlfriend at all. If she'll cheat on him, she'll cheat on you. If she leaves him for you, she'll leave you for somebody else. And last, if you do reach out to her after telling her that you two have had your last conversation, she may talk to you, but she'll never respect you. Everytime she does some dumb shit and you try to pu…
/r/seduction10/09/22 10:51 AM
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Here's the solution, don't listen to their problems. Are you trying to seduce them or be their therapist?
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:48 AM
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Literally all the posts in those subreddits are like the one you just posted. Just take a look, you'll probably find a community of people you can vent these things to
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:45 AM
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I suggest not texting them unless it's to meet up for another date. Keep all out-of-person communication to a minimum. When they text you, take a while to respond and only carry a short conversation. Seduce in person.
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:43 AM
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You may be better off posting in r/Anxiety or r/ptsd then
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:38 AM
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Guys that want a direct line of contact to a girl instead of being a fan by liking all her posts and leaving heart eyes like a simp
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:03 AM
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I say forget about getting girls in HS. In High School, the number of girls you attract is based mainly on your social status. What you should do is keep going to the gym getting in better shape, work on your looks and learn game while preparing for college. You can YouTube all of that stuff and pick content creators you like and relate to. Get a job so you're not the typical broke college student. In college you can literally trip and fall into some pussy. Go to a college with a campus and loun…
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:01 AM
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Lol good question
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:20 PM
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Ah, the good old cock blocking friend. She usually looks like an NFL Linebacker at minimum, in a terrible mood, and just there to fuck up everyone else's happiness. I remember dealing with one of these then trying to befriend her like they say you should do and turned out, she liked me. She wanted me all to herself and I wasn't attracted to her being maybe 250 lbs so I left with neither. As men, we're supposed to never let them effect our mood. But I hate the cock blocking friend so much, I tell…
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:11 PM
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Lol Leo got that shit down pat
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:58 PM
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Crazy how I gave him mad props for that line and he's just stuck on the fact that I don't agree with everything else. This is the kind of guy that gets butthurt when a girl he made out with doesn't text him enough.
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:56 PM
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I am very chill. Stop raping bitches
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:07 PM
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She said she's a virgin that wants to wait till marriage, how much more resistance do you need? Lmao. Don't get arrested my guy
/r/seduction07/09/22 02:01 PM
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Bro I've been trying to say this on every cold approach post I've seen. Even had arguments with guys that think they're pick-up artists and I've only been here for days. But you said it fast better than I can say it, I come across a little aggressive sometimes. I wish this could just be pinned for all cold approach and opener questions.
/r/seduction07/09/22 12:27 PM
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If you say so but it doesn't sound like it. The rest of my lines outside that one line is how you do it though
/r/seduction07/09/22 12:09 PM
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It's sounds like you met her online, if so, keep talking to more girls online and try to meet them. Cast that net out everyday then you wouldn't care what this one singular female is up to.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:57 AM
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Sometimes, you are just not her type, don't fret. No guy out there is every woman's type. This is the only line that matters, you don't need like 10 different scenarios. Don't complicate things.
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:55 AM
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Now look, I wouldn't take any woman's word in this day and age that they're a 26 year old virgin. This is not me being an ass but if I believed everything women told me, I'll be one of the most confused men on the planet. I wouldn't challenge her either. I would pull back on all non sexual attention. Sometimes women tell men they're not comfortable having sex with them because they're already fuckin somebody else and they don't wanna feel like a slut for fucking you too. She's happy with just th…
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:49 AM
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^ you don't wanna do this, that's like... rape, if I read it correctly
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:02 AM
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Don't focus on the wording too much. Don't memorize lines. Just tell her you want to take her out and ask what's her availability. Don't choose the day before she tells you when she's available because if you say Saturday and she says Sunday then you switch to Sunday, It makes it seem like you have no life.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:59 AM
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First, stop going on group dates, hangouts, sessions, whatever you want to call them. Atleast until you got da draws. You won't be building any sexual tension with her if her attention is spread out over a group of people. Also it's easy to tell which girls just want attention by asking them on a date, which you did, then having a 3 date rule. If y'all haven't had sex after 3 dates, just drop her. Never call them out on this, your actions speak louder than your words.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:55 AM
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This reads like you know the answer already but you aren't exclusive without fuckin, or even after that. Do your own thing and never reach out to her. If she likes you, she'll reach out to you. When she does, make a date.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:30 PM
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I would go cold and not interact with her at all in my free time and when she's says those dumb jokes, act like she doesn't exist.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:25 PM
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"Well you look familiar". If she responds like she can't tell the difference between you and a bug, just forget about her. If she doesn't respond at all, forget about her. If she does respond, ask her how's she's been, then follow with a joke and conversation.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:20 PM
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After she became avoidant, did you stop reaching out to her?
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:16 PM
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Bruh you don't do relationship speak, EVERRRR, even if you want to be her boyfriend. Your job is to pursue and her job is to ask for the relationship. Just keep having fun until she brings it up. Then you can say "I'm not too interested in a relationship right now but I'm open to the possibility"
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:51 PM
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Tell her "okay, We don't have to go if you don't want to, it's cool, hit me up if you wanna go out some other time". Now the ball is in her court. Never reach out to her again. If she hits you up after this it should only be to make a date.
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:46 PM
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You took her out 2 times already so you pursued her and showed her that you like her. Stop texting her. Wait for her to text you first and if she never does, leave her alone. If she does text you, keep the conversation short, maybe 10-15 minutes and make a date.
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:41 PM
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Might want to see a psychiatrist or something. You could literally be a psychopath and no book is going to help with that.
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:34 PM
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You didn't explain how she's acting distant. You said you've been texting and she seems excited to go out again so what has changed?
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:32 PM
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Doing things you enjoy and saying something to a girl around you? Then you don't know what day game and cold approach is. Chill with the PUA terms.
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:18 PM
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If you're talking to her already then don't stop talking to her for a week lol. I would not text her until I'm ready to make a date. If she texts me, I'd answer a couple hours later and only text for like 15 minutes. Can't be too available, availability kills attraction. It's a trade, sex for time. No sex, no time.
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:58 PM
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Well put. Am I high or did this person say they're interested in a long relationship?
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:24 AM
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If you tell her you're interested in a long relationship it comes off as needy. The relationship will happen naturally and you should let her suggest it. Don't be the one to ask and don't assume she's your girlfriend.
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:22 AM
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You don't need "day game" or to "cold approach". Get your fashion, fitness, and finances in check and go out to do things you enjoy. Beautiful women are everywhere. When you see one at one of these activities, just mention something about the environment you're in and have a conversation. Nightclubs and bars are literally the worst place to meet women especially if you don't like going to those places.
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:20 AM
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"idk what I want yet I have to know you better" literally means "idk what I want yet, I have to know you better". Men don't talk in code and expect you to read our minds, that's women's specialty. We say what it is. Also there's too much game playing here. The chemistry was great then you said you gotta go but you're not ghosting him? Then where are you going? How did you expect him to act when you came crawling back? Then you cancelled your plans for a date. Then when he texted you, you ignored…
/r/seduction04/09/22 08:09 AM
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He can do both. Both are important. It's not that big a deal.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:00 AM
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This question you posted is one of the biggest problems in dating. Women that only want to be approached by men they're attracted to vs men that constantly approach women that show no sign of interest. This won't stop until women, as a whole, accept that this is in men's nature and men, as a whole, get better at telling the difference between her being friendly or her being interested. All you can do is be polite while rejecting because there's some crazy dudes out there. The older and washed yo…
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:45 AM
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I wasn't really trying to bash you but this story is just all over the place I'm gonna try to explain from memory because I'm not gonna keep pressing return to read that post. The girl you liked said she has a girlfriend. She basically turned you down not only saying she's not into you but she's not even into men. Even if she is, why deal with a girl that's gonna lie about something like that? But you kept poking and prodding. Can you see a picture of her girlfriend? Weird, she doesn't even know…
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:28 AM
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It's a good while. But it shows her you have a life and it avoids messing it all up before you even get the date. If you're talking everyday until the date, I'll tell you one thing. Ain't gonna be nothing to talk about on that date.
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:10 AM
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I was a bouncer for years. After my shift I would go to bars that were still open and talk to girls. I was telling him a simple way to just approach the girl he likes without having him memorize 10 different openers. You're right choosing signals is a buffer for rejection. That whole get used to rejection is bullshit. If men just made smarter picks they wouldn't have as many problems getting women. You don't have to stare at a girl to see that she likes you, it'll just happen naturally with a si…
/r/seduction04/09/22 01:06 AM
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Right, because if not, he'll be a guy waiting for a bunch of signals he's never seen before
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:56 AM
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I agree with you there but some signals go without saying.
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:42 PM
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Don't message her. That's doubling down on you can only be confident online. If you still want to try regardless get her number in person when the vibe is right. You can easily say you were kind of nervous but you didn't want to make things awkward and you'd like to hang out sometime without a gym audience.
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:27 PM
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Solved, good stuff
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:57 PM
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It got awkward because you had the balls to open a conversation with her online but in person you hardly spoke. The whole story makes it sound like you came off lacking confidence or you were too nervous to hold a conversation with her. Then you leaving without acknowledging her made it ULTRA awkward bro lol. This might be a L because you only get one first impression but don't just act like she doesn't exist now. Just be friendly as if you've spoken to her before, which you have. Maybe it'll le…
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:48 PM
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I'll focus on the girl I like the most that likes me back and talk to her. Sounds like you have conversation handled already. And I'll be friendly to everyone around but I'll tease her more. Avoid looking like your trying to hit on every girl because then you just seem thirsty. It's better if they're hitting on you, be polite. Before the night is over I'll exchange numbers. Hit her up a week later unless she hits me up and I'll invite her out for drinks
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:30 PM
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Man I meant like on her way back or whatever in that general area is where you may not have to run through her linebackers just to say hi
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:21 PM
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I gotchu homie
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:30 PM
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Yeah if you don't try to get her contact info she's either gonna think you're not really interested or you have no confidence. I understand you feel shy and nervous because you're just starting but to get over that, you have to accept that you have to go to the next base eventually or you'll just be the guy that's great at talking to women but never pull any. Don't ask for her social media, get her number. You're a man not a fan. The more you do it the easier it gets.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:29 PM
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Most important thing is choosing signals. Is she looking at you and actually holding eye contact, did she smile when y'all caught eyes? Is she purposely trying to be near you? Women usually make the approach easy. Then go up and talk to her. There's ways to talk to specific groups and everything but if you want to stay out of your head just approach the one you like when she's alone. Like on her way to the bathroom, bar or catching some air outside or something.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:23 PM
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You have to keep pushing things forward. I mean how often do you just ignore or walk away from girls that are doing everything to show you they like you? Lol. I've seen a few times in this post. If it seems like she's interested, hold a conversation with her. Make her laugh and find out a few things about her. Talk more about her than you do about yourself. Before you part ways, get her number. Use that number to get her on a date. Use that date to invite her over. Invite her over to... I think …
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:17 PM
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This post makes it sound like you actually don't know what you want. Wanting a girlfriend because the women you smash tend to cut you off just reeks of neediness. So what, when you get a girlfriend she's not allowed to stop talking to you because of a commitment? I think you should practice keeping the girls you sleep with in your rotation just like you practiced getting laid, then see how you feel.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:12 PM
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I think you said that better than I could've said it because that was a long ass paragraph of fuck ups. I'll just chill and let the incels downvote me for being blunt.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:02 PM
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If you're a leader of wolves your pack is gonna die out, cause you're dumb as hell
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:09 AM
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No problem
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:50 AM
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It's because you're talking to her too much for too long. If it's casual, y'all don't have to speak everyday. And when you do it can be 15 minutes instead of an hour. A few texts is fine and don't be the one to text first everytime. Keep the same energy you had when you met her, which is easier to do if you're not constantly in touch with her. Give her a chance to miss you. This makes the experience all the better when you're actually in her company. When you're not with her, you're doing someth…
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:22 AM
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It doesn't have to be a week, her phone works too. Get it?
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:26 AM
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Mastery is not thinking with your head or your dick. Mastery is not thinking at all.
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:23 AM
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Wait a week, then text her again for another date. If she likes you she should hit you up before then. If she doesn't hit you up, text her to make the date anyway. Don't date her over the phone.
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:17 AM
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To start a conversation? Yes it is. Along with Social Status, I'd throw that in there too.
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:24 PM
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Talk to her on the phone then get her on video chat as soon as possible to make sure she's the girl in her profile. If you think about it, you've progressed her from dating app, to text, to phone, to video chat. If she ain't comfortable enough to go out with you by then, she's wasting your time. On the video call, ask her out during the conversation. You don't want to take too long to meet her because you'll risk her thinking you're not confident. You also don't want to waste your time with a ca…
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:01 PM
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You just copied a line from my second reply and asked me something about my first reply? So I don't get what you're trying to ask
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:10 PM
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Ah ok, I don't really believe in cold approach unless she's just so gorgeous I have to say something. I just look for choosing signals and say hello in my natural day to day life and see where it goes. So I ain't got a answer for this one.
/r/seduction02/09/22 12:04 PM
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Don't subscribe to that mess up til you learn bs. The quickest way is to learn from a dating coach. Not a pick-up artist, a dating coach. There's plenty on YouTube, pick the one you like best. While you're learning you can be working on yourself instead of approaching women and they'll naturally gravitate towards you.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:55 AM
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I'll just answer your question plus a lil bonus. Don't respond that last text, stop texting again once she doesn't respond to you. Wait her out. Don't drop everything to respond, finish what you're doing first. Don't always be the first person to reach out, leave it in her hands too. Actions like this will show her that you and your time is valuable.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:51 AM
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Well, it sounds like your body is eligible for track pants. Keep wearing those.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:10 AM
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Depends on your body shape. If your ass still poke out in some track pants, first off that's wassup, and you're good. If not, you can always do leggings instead. Them tights with the stripes will drive a man wild. End of the day, you're situation is a little different because you're in a relationship. If he's cool with it, then just keep doing you.
/r/seduction02/09/22 11:05 AM
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That was a... very detailed response, but yeah you mostly get where I'm coming from. I mean you don't want to dress like a hobo because you're still representing him when you visit him. People that he knows, will see you. But you don't have to look like you're on a fancy date. Just be presentable.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:59 AM
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Well yeah if she's a virgin then you just have to go at her place while making her feel comfortable. She'll get more comfortable the more time she spends with you. You still would've made her feel more comfortable if you just asked her what she meant so y'all can have a conversation.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:53 AM
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Never take "possibly" or "I'll think about it". She say some shit like that, you just tell her nevermind. Why? Because you like to make concrete plans with people because you can just make other plans. Be cool about it though, it's no big deal. Tell her to let you know when she's ready to chill, then DON'T ASK AGAIN. The ball is in her court. Girls that truly like you will find time to spend with you. If you keep asking, that's begging. If you beg, you're telling her that she's more valuable tha…
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:39 AM
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You can simply ask her what she means lol. Don't do it now but next time she ask some shit like that and you don't understand what she's asking you. Make her make you understand.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:24 AM
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Don't respond. Do you want tactics or long game?
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:20 AM
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Are you sure you loss your urge to smash when you're asking this question on Reddit? Seriously. Anyway, I haven't met women that get dressed up to come to my house, they always wear something comfortable. The sexy stuff is under the outside clothes. You never know, could've been lingerie, a thong or whatever. Long as she's cute and wear something presentable it shouldn't matter. If she went full on bum mode, that's another story.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:10 AM
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All that matters is if you can get a good number of the women you're attracted to. If you're being this picky but not sleeping with any of them, your standards are too high.
/r/seduction02/09/22 07:40 AM
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He's probably still reading pickup artist books. He hasn't received the cure yet
/r/seduction02/09/22 03:10 AM
2

Simple. Work on your fashion and fitness.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:37 AM
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I mean, the point of having a girlfriend in the first place is to have an exclusive intimate relationship. If you're going to do nothing but talk about stress and feelings, there's friends and therapy. Basically you're thinking too much. It's in man's nature to be sexual and women's nature to want to be sexually dominated. If you're horny, just make a move on her, she's your girlfriend, not your coworker. Besides, do you think sex is going to stress her out more? No, it'll do the exact opposite.
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:36 AM
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