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1	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them Perhaps. But that is not the question. The question is do men, all things being equal, care how much their SO makes? Does it matter if a wife makes more or less? No. It is insignificant, as long as the family is good. Women, on the other hand, will QUITE OFTEN admit that they would not date a man who makes less than them, and often will require a potential mate to make significantly more than them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 05:31 PM
1	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them I clearly, CLEARLY stated that, as long as the family unit isn’t negatively affected (I.e. could afford the change) most men wouldn’t care. The question here is about preferences in mating partners….not real world application. ANY and EVERY circumstance or preference we discuss can come with an asterisk. For families where both parents NEED to work to support the family and either spouse decides to just stop working….I would expect there are greater problems in that relationship. However I’m the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 05:01 PM
1	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them I’m not reacting to the fact, I’m reacting to how you choose to describe it. You choose to say men rely on their wives income. I could easily say women rely on the husbands income. Why not just say couples rely on both incomes to make ends meet? You’re the one choosing to bring gender into your fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 04:21 PM
0	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them I wasn’t commenting on the facts of your point. I was commenting that you said “most MEN rely on their wives income” instead of saying “most FAMILIES rely on the mother’s income” Very telling the words you choose to try and make your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 02:19 PM
1	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them There is a difference in being anonymous online where there are no chances of repercussions and doing it in a real world, real life setting. Most people at some point become the worst version of themselves online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 01:22 PM
0	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them You’re clearly trolling so I’ll leave this comment alone	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 01:20 PM
1	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them Yes, looking a woman in the face and telling them “maybe you should lower your standards” always goes over well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 10:51 AM
1	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them Honestly….as long as the change didn’t put our family in some kind of drastic situation…if we weren’t some relying on that money….most men…the vast MAJORITY of men wouldn’t give a crap and actually would be supportive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/23 10:50 AM
2	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. You’re kind of missing the point here. A family is a unit. The mother and father are a team. There are certain things that have to be done by someone, anyone, in order for the family to survive. Make the money Clean and care for the home Raise the children All of these things HAVE to be done, and the article does not rank any one of these as more important or more valuable than the other. They are simply saying “okay, for the family to be good and functioning, what all work needs to be done and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 09:08 PM
1	Why should women want traditionalism? What's in it for them? To be clear, both my fiancée and I are in high-earning careers. I’m simply trying to give you another point of view. Okay, you are taking a HUGE leap from someone saying they want a traditional wife, to saying “why should women give up the vote”. Those things are NOT the same. A woman taking the traditional position of wife is a choice they are making. They are saying “I love and trust this man, and I will take on this role while he provides, and in this way we will raise a family”, just as the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:34 PM
1	Would you agree that a lot of Red Pilled men suffer from the Madonna/whore complex? You are absolutely wrong here, and I wouldn’t take any of Freud’s “theories” with anything but a huge grain of salt (or is that cocaine??) I love my fiancée deeply. I treat her like a whore in the bedroom. She is a lady and pure arm candy when we are out and about. She is also a virgin (we do other stuff besides vaginal intercourse) It is only relatively recently in history that men and women would be open about their sexual desires and needs. Men would go to whores because they needed something…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:17 PM
1	Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average. I don’t think so. The argument is often made that stay-at-home mothers are working just as much and just as hard and it should be recognized. Okay, if that is the case, then all work should be lumped together: work that pays the bills, the work to clean/repair the home, and the work to raise the kids. Note here we are talking about overall hours doing work. Not what you are paid for that work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:06 PM
1	Men using women for their bodies is basically the same as women using men for their resources (money, status, attention and so on), in terms of how it feels. So something can be mutually consensual and also one member can feel used afterwards. A man with great game hits on a woman at a bar and they are having a great time. They end up having amazing sex. He never calls or responds to her texts. She never sees him again. The sex was consensual, but the woman can still feel used. I can ask a woman out, she can easily make me feel like we are clicking and both having a great time. I can pay for the entire date and leave thinking this was great and we ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 08:01 PM
1	Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day. So what is the problem that you are trying to solve for? Is the problem you are trying to solve the fact that women are flooded with messages and can never be sure of the man’s intentions? If that is the case then your solution here actual solves nothing, and let me tel you why: Multiple studies, including studies done by dating apps like OKCupid using their own internal data, shows that the entire universe of the women on these apps find 80% of men unattractive, and only swipe right on ~30% of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 07:36 PM
1	What is 1 specific thing The Red Pill is wrong about in your eyes? Starting with point 2: Women do have the upper hand in the dating game, and most women will admit that openly. From men being (typically) required to make the first moves and run the risk of being shamed if they weren’t found attractive enough/smooth enough, to the pressure of planning and executing a fun and interesting first date, to generally speaking being expected to pay for not just the first date, but the majority of the courtship phase, to being the gatekeepers to the fulfillment of the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 07:19 PM
1	What are some good standards men could have for women they date? MOST men don’t have a scorecard or list of requirements that a woman has to tick off in order to stand a chance. By and large yes, most men want a woman that they find attractive (whatever that means for them) and is fun to be around/interesting. After that MOST men don’t focus on “green flags” but red flags. Basically men want a woman they find attractive, who is fun to be around, appreciates them as a man, and isn’t a pain in the ass/overly needy/overly dramatic. It’s pretty freaking simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 07:00 PM
2	Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response. Have you asked WHY they don’t want to do it? Exploring/trying new things is part of exploring your body and your interests. I’ve tried many many things in the past that I wouldn’t do with my fiancée because I tried them and didn’t like them. What in the world makes you think just because they did it in the past, they did it because they wanted to? My fiancée dated a complete ass-hat before me. She let it go on so long, much longer than she should have. And he was incredibly sexually selfish. Eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 06:51 PM
2	Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for? So all of this is subjective to the man you are talking to, but for MOST men that list isn’t DEFINITIVE (depending on your definition for each of those). So let’s take this one at a time: Fit: for most men “fit” here describes just being height/weight proportional, while having a feminine energy about you (again these things are subjective to each man…no two men will look at the same woman and rate these categories exactly the same). MOST men just don’t want a woman to be obese. But a woman can …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 06:47 PM
28	CMV : As a Man i believe using Game and Manipulation is immoral, but i believe u have to do it because otherwise u cant compete, and this is actually sad. No. This is not how dating works for men. MOST women can wake up in the morning and, as long as their standards are a bit lax, can with almost absolutely certainty be sure they are coming home with a man, some man, whoever they choose. 30% of the men on dating apps are taking 80% of the dates (and sex). To OP’s point, there was a time in my younger days where I could be reasonably sure that if I wanted sex that night I’d be able to find a fairly attractive woman to have sex with. Maybe 60% certa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 06:23 PM
0	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them Most women, a very significant majority, will not date or marry a man who makes less than them. That is just the reality that men understand. On the other hand if I’m a successful man working 60-70 hours a week making my money, I don’t give a damn how much the woman makes. If she is a baller as well that’s a pleasant little bonus. But they could also make $27k working at a non-profit. Doesn’t matter to me. I don’t know you…but IF you are a woman and you think about an hypothetical partner who wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 06:14 PM
0	Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching them Not superficial?? It is very well known that 6’0” is the magic height number for men to reach. And that’s not even something a man has control over. There is even a new fad where short men with money are having their legs broken and extended using medical devices in order to add inches to their height. All because they can’t find a woman to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/23 06:10 PM