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| 60 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexShe is not too comfortable yet for sex. She is on her period. She has traumas and wants to slow it down. She is very nervous about showing her body (insecure) She ate something bad and has stomach issues. She doesn't want to feel "easy" or like a "slut" for doing it so early. It could be a bunch of stuff.. Talk to her and you might find out. No one here can tell you.. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Gone cold after a few datesI don't think the probing of the friend and that stuff would cause a girl to go cold. I don't see that as a big deal, it's a bit weird why he would probe and then share with others, but that's on him, not on you. Another possibility is the nice dinner date. Some girls just don't want nothing serious, and if they see that you are maybe pushing in that direction, they will back off.. Do you think there is something else that could have caused her to go cold? | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 10:39 AM |
| 2 | How to recognize if a girl is interested just form small talkSo true. Listen to this guy. I would just add one more thing to this. A small rejection of escalation now, does not mean it's a rejection forever. It might change in 5-10 minutes, or 5 seconds.. I had girls pull me away to the bathroom after appearing super cold and refusing to kiss me 2,3 times.. And then i find out it was because they don't want their friends to see them.. So, make small escalations over time. If she rejects one, but stays there, try again later. If she rejects and moves like … | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 11:02 PM |
| 10 | older guys getting younger girlsGotta preface this text below with this: This is my personal experience, it may not be the age range but the personality type in that age rage that follows what i wrote below.. TLDR: Be dominant and lead them, but be mostly fun, safe, non-threatening and again fun... I'm your age also look younger, like 22-24.. Dated 2 girls shortly around 18.. And have a bunch attracted to me but i no longer entertain that age range.. Wasn't aiming for them. But they seem to go for me the most Which i don't lik… | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 10:25 PM |
| 8 | Smallest step to take to start to approach?Say hi to strangers, ask for time, anything that gets you away from introverted state to extroverted. Don't judge yourself harshly if you can't say hi to a stranger or ask for time (been there), just reduce it even more. Progress is what matters here, not the size of the step. That's it. Step by step. The simpler the plan, the easier the execution. And give yourself props for each win no matter how small... If you approached 5 people today and you asked them for time, be happy as a mf. Progress … | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How to seduce himMen need variety. There are many ways to bring that. If opening up the relationship is not something you are willing to do, then you have to find ways to well, be different. Looks based you already know you can do a lot. Clothing, make up etc. Behaviour wise, roleplay, scenarios, different settings, places etc. There is also the possible case that you may have gained weight, have lost your energy, etc. and none of these will work. We don't know. You gotta explore together and see what works and … | /r/seduction | 15/11/25 01:59 PM |
| 5 | Best Resources for Beginners?This! Listen to this guy... Action first. Small steps. See where the "hold up" is. And only then go and read some material on that specific topic, and act on the proposed solutions to see if it works. As he said. Some stuff may work for others and not for you. Plus. You can get easily stuck in reading material, comparing theories, diving deep into advanced stuff etc. That is not a good thing unless it's complimented with massive action. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it okay to just chill and go on about your day if you’ve already been putting in cold approaches?It's a very subjective thing. It depends on what each one of us wants out of life, our goals, etc. You can go as hard or as easy as you like. No rules about that. If you regret it often when you don't, well, that tells you what you need to know. If you don't regret it, that also tells you what you need to know. And in either case, you can change both of those to fit what you want out of life.. It's all up to you. My current goal is to destroy any hesitance, so i gotta go hard, but later when I'v… | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Starting cold approachesRephrase the question and see how you feel. Should i wait until i get physically where i want to be, in order to start learning mental and social skills that i desire? To me, the two are separate.. | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Help approachingI'm gonna copy what i wrote on a similar post a while back: Yep...I was in the same situation. Super frustrating, going out multiple times just to come back hating myself for not doing shit, and then getting mad and saying Tomorrow is the day it changes. Tomorrow comes and it's the same shit... None of the classic advice worked.. It felt like I was working against myself somehow.. And that's true.. So instead of pushing against this force, what if that force was on your side. So now you felt so … | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 10:49 AM |
| 10 | Drop the act guys.Damn. Your take needs to come with a warning label ⚠️ Potentially very damaging advice.. Yes being authentic is important and will help, sometimes. Other times, it will hurt both you and others. However. To embrace ones insecurities and just go ahead and show them to the world, and not try to fix them... Not really a good idea... Why? You are at this point going around with an open wound, letting people know about it, and thinking it is all good cause you got great intentions and you are a good … | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 10:36 AM |
| 1 | How to stop telling myself I’ll approach today then I end up walking around for 2-3 hours ?Yes, it's really the only thing that worked for me and reliably.. Everything else was me forcing myself like mad, which does work faster if you can do it.. Slowly things started changing, i became more social, more talkative, more balsy with people in general as well, it became so much easier to approach, to talk to random people, there was noticeably less resistance and much more desire to do it naturally, and so i did it naturally, and it's so so much more different then when you force yoursel… | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 05:16 AM |
| 4 | How to stop telling myself I’ll approach today then I end up walking around for 2-3 hours ?Yep...I was in the same situation. Super frustrating, going out multiple times just to come back hating myself for not doing shit, and then getting mad and saying Tomorrow is the day it changes. Tomorrow comes and it's the same shit... None of the classic advice worked.. It felt like I was working against myself somehow.. And that's true.. So instead of pushing against this force, what if that force was on your side. So now you felt so fucking pulled to approach that you just can't fucking resis… | /r/seduction | 24/04/25 11:12 PM |
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