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DATING ADVICEBangtansBabygirl/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 02:02 PM
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I am very soft and not shredded. Plenty of people would consider me fat! But I do carry my weight well and I’m down from a highest weight of about 250. My measurements are 34 27 42 if that’s at all relevant
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 10:29 PM
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This was my first inclination but I started feeling like I was thinking with my bird brain. Thank you for the advice
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 10:27 PM
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I’m 163 right now friend but my weight cycles between 160-165 pretty regularly. I love the gym but I also love to cook and eat. I love junk food too! These things can exist at the same time for me, personally. My boyfriend does not like fitness
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 10:06 PM
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Wow where are you from and are you fucking my boyfriend 😭😭😭 just kidding but no advice just comiserating I’m sorry girl this is the worst feeling
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 09:03 PM
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Not my place to judge him on that
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 08:40 PM
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I’m a little chunky for sure but I’m not too too big. I know how sensitive people get on here about weight but I’m a size 8 and I have a solid amount of muscle from a LOT of weight lifting so I’m not too mad about it
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 08:32 PM
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This is the crazy part!!! We are best friends. We have been since the day we met, same sense of humor, finishing each other’s sentences. I think he’s the coolest and funniest person ever and I know he sees me similarly. He takes incredibly good care of me, I have wanted for nothing since we started dating and I try to do the same for him. He loves me SO intensely and so romantically
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 08:25 PM
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He does engage with the things I like (enthusiastically) I just feel like the physicality isn’t there. He’s a great guy and I love him. I didn’t settle and he’s much “higher value” than me which is why I’m trying to figure out what’s going on rather than just dropping it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 07:11 PM
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Thank you so much for this perspective; your relationship with your husband sounds beautiful. You’re right that I’m internalizing but I can’t help it because I’m such a physical person. I ask him to go to the gym with me, he says yes, then won’t go. I playfully challenge him to a footrace (I used to teach 1st graders I’m a child at heart) he’ll say no or he’ll cheat. We go on an active date, and I have to stop/sit down while he rests. I feel like my physical needs are being rejected constantly, …
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 06:39 PM
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I guess so. I doubt he’s too pussy to just tell me to my face when I ask though
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 05:35 PM
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It’s really upsetting and thank you for sharing your experience as well. I’m listening to the ladies here but more than anything I think I’m just hurt.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 05:15 PM
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I was banned from r/blackladies for posting about the chicken noodle soup I made for my boyfriend on here 😭😭😭
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 10:27 PM
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Not sure, it was about a week after my period, started spotting about a week later (now), period is due next week. I never have early or late periods so I’m feeling weird about it but thank you for the comfort I can breathe a little easier now!
/r/RedPillWives22/01/22 11:15 PM
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I think I’m pregnant. Haven’t told my mom. I can use some motherly support or words of wisdom/advice :-( I’m not in a place to have a baby at all. It’s been about a week and some change since potential conception and I’m spotting, but my period isn’t due for another week and a half or so.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/22 07:56 PM
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I’m trying to help. Shes lowered her standards to the floor and it would be more helpful to adjust her standards in a direction that she doesn’t find compromising to her values. She expressed no racial preference, this is a way to use that to her advantage.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 05:34 PM
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Just a shower thought: what look do you find your boyfriends/husbands/SOs respond to most? Lately I’ve been leaning into a “Disney princess” aesthetic and my boyfriend is going nuts. I always thought his preference was for an IG fitness influencer type (and that’s my look a lot of the time) but I was so surprised when I tried out the look for fun and he obsessed over it.
/r/RedPillWives19/01/22 05:14 PM
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If you are non black with no racial preference you can get a high value black guy being very average. Maybe hang out in more racially diverse areas
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 04:29 PM
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Teased my boyfriend with the idea of me buying a wig today and he laughed so hard I started to feel kinda pissy! Like what if I do want a wig!!! Realized I was being silly because I obviously presented the idea as a joke but I’m half like >:-( now I need a wig For reference I have long curly black hair and any hair change would be way out of line for me, I really love and take care of my hair (it’s my defining feature) so the laughing wasn’t malicious but still!! How do I stop feeling indignant …
/r/RedPillWives18/01/22 10:03 PM
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Have you ever thought that maybe he asks you to do things because he loves you 🥺 it’s not about him being dependent on you it’s about him being able to look at his lunch and say wow 🤩 my wife packed this for me! She really loves me! He doesn’t want you to do things for him because he needs you too (you admit he’s self sufficient) he’s asking you because he wants you too. You’re his wife not his roommate.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 08:08 PM
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I’ve been having GREAT weeks in the gym lately and my boyfriend even agreed to go with me on Saturday! So excited!! :-) nothing too dramatic but I was excited and wanted to share. Trying not to get too giddy and pressure him to go with me more but AHHH I CANT WAIT!
/r/RedPillWives12/01/22 01:28 PM
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Made a chicken noodle soup for me and my boyfriend a few days ago (I was under the weather) and he told me it was one of his favorite things he’s ever had in a bowl. Cute turn of phrase. I was really proud of it!
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 12:39 PM
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