BankLanky4014 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as well Have known very rich clients with no game. Have known good looking dudes with great genetics and no game. Frame in the psychology sense of the word combined with game won't trump money and looks. But if your looks and money is 80% of How she is there - you have a very expensive long term prostitute. Probably with below average looks. It's harsh I know. Enjoyed OPs post but self improvement needs to fundamentally be for oneself; when it's for scoring chicks it loses lustre and you slide backwards…	/r/seduction	17/06/24 07:44 PM
4	Get your shit together before you start doing "game" and cold approaching women. This is pick up, right ? Do not wait for any of the OPs hilarious conditions and Just. Do. It Very few women who fuck around a lot are worth any chicken salt	/r/seduction	19/07/23 02:14 AM
6	What are ways that women can increase seduction when they’re not conventionally beautiful? This is simple Men distinguish fairly consciously between who they like to fuck once, more than once and date. The more orientated they feel towards a woman outside of her looks - the more % weighting they give to other factors. Being calm and articulate, Reading, Knowing stuff I do not. Affectionate and Likes to cook for others. Enjoying Humour. 👆Are mine. Nothing is sexier than a woman owning it, herself and knowing it. And no amount of makeup will cover for an Ugly personality or attitude. Yo…	/r/seduction	02/11/22 06:59 PM
1	Does anyone have any tips for overcoming a feeling of inadequacy due to not being physically attractive? Regarding your last point - it's a form of muscle fitness. You must endeavour to fight the feelings of unworthiness. Yes there will be men who are genetically more attractive than you. That doesn't mean they've got game or are even getting their needs met. You mentioned you are "normal weight" Change that. Start lifting and eating better - you will FEEL more attractive which will increase your "worthiness muscle" and women will find you more attractive consequently. It never goes away that feeli…	/r/seduction	01/11/22 09:38 PM
0	Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude. It's because social media + Meghan Thee Stallion + Lizzo = Total Delusional State on the part of modern women. TDS for short	/r/seduction	15/07/22 10:00 PM
-6	Where do you take someone on a date? Restaurant. At night. With a table booked. Then a drink or dessert somewhere close to restaurant; then back to yours if you're attracted to her.	/r/seduction	28/04/22 06:02 AM
1	Fun and flirty topics, questions or games to spice up a date...? You’re over thinking and lack experience. It works. You’re welcome	/r/seduction	04/03/22 06:05 AM
12	Fun and flirty topics, questions or games to spice up a date...? Maintain eye contact. First time she says something you disagree with say “No” Smile. Pause. Maintain eye contact.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 03:34 AM
3	Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit. Reading, lifting weights, walking, meditating, consistent sleep, good nutrition, socialising IRL with friends, exploring Hobby’s. All these and more constitute inner game. Confidence can be faked but not for very long and not consistently.	/r/seduction	24/02/22 11:25 PM
1	If you ask someone out , they say yes, but…. Christian Grey, a sanitised fantasy of a sanitised fantasy, to let women know that they are in step with society’s norms. “Don’t worry - you’re Normal” They even have a contract. 😆	/r/seduction	24/02/22 12:15 AM
1	If you ask someone out , they say yes, but…. 😆	/r/seduction	22/02/22 08:46 PM
3	How could someone in his late 40s gets lots of attention from teenage and early 20 girls? Capitols and BOLD???? Technically unless you’re on TRT, You may be stronger but with significantly less cardiovascular potential. Father Time is the Big Daddy Rest of the points were on point. BOLD haha You’re welcome	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:45 AM
1	Getting lots of matches yet no responses on Tinder Tinder is history channel, Hinge Bumble Instagram If you’re tall and good looking don’t be anything other than direct. It will be (correctly) sniffed as weak. Women smell this like Dogs smell Fear. Lynx Black is You’re friend. You’re welcome	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:43 AM
1	What do i do/say? Clingy and pushy? You were Clingy, Talk Like A Man Even If You Feel Like A Girl. Superb	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:41 AM
-1	What do i do/say? Do not Tell her this. It’s weak. Masquerading as strong. Instead; DEMONSTRATE Slwoly and inconsistent lay by pulling yourself attention; whilst still randomly/whenever answering her txts with LESS WORDS THAN HER, “Cool chatting, chow” “Cool” “” “”” It works. The why would take thousands of words. You don’t need to know why. Kemosabi, it works. You’re welcome	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:40 AM
1	Does getting off the apps actually improve anything? Agree with your premise But it depends what you mean by “better”? Online is harder in lots of ways. Can be extremely time/focus demanding. IRL allows/encourages/forces one to develop the same verbal and social skills as a Date would require. So; it’s Better than online only as far as it is more efficient way of developing a Key Skill. Great online, But shit in person = crap results Great in person but shit online + no in person Game = crap results Figure out where you are Strong, don’t as your b…	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:38 AM
1	Does getting off the apps actually improve anything? And you’ll be handsomely rewarded for bravado/Foolishness 5/10 times	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:25 AM
3	Does getting off the apps actually improve anything? This logic assumes People rationally know What they want What they are attracted to Moment to moment Apps doesn’t keep screen Men for Women, c’mon guys - do the math. Ask ONE of your girl-friends to show you her inbox. Then honestly appraise her profile/SMV YUP. You’re welcome	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:25 AM
2	You should lie more. You’re correct and partially truthful “Date” is a feminist expression because it is vague. It means everything from Anal one nighter to Held hands for 6 months and Vagina reconstruction. Fuck Go out with. Don’t conflate the terms. They get you that way. They will Fuck Chad if he’s tall/good looking/doesn’t give a shit OR if you are a situational Alpha. Check that. Date ? They want good looking Schleb. And they are kidding themselves. But, not there Cats. I love Cats.	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:08 AM
1	guy (23m) misinterprets girl’s (22f) interest Easy She believes you rejected her. Don’t try to work this out woth logic ma man. Stop there son. You’re into her. Cool. Before next class say to her directly and calmly “come here for a second” Lead her a little away from every one else s d just say. “I don’t want to study with you; let’s go for a coffee after class instead” Then Smile. And SHUT DA FUQ UP whilst looking her in the eye. You’re welcome	/r/seduction	22/02/22 07:04 AM
1	If you ask someone out , they say yes, but…. What about a Bad Person with Good intentions ?	/r/seduction	22/02/22 06:57 AM
0	If you ask someone out , they say yes, but…. Do not do this. Why? Because it doesn’t work. Why? Because it puts the Burden of making the date happen on her. Okay why is this a problem? She doesn’t like this KKKkkkkkk Sure But Sofie-Fuck-Face said Sofie is NOT your friend. She doesn’t even like herself. Sofie doesn’t exist. Millions like her do. I’ve probably saved you $499usd on Insta-Guru-His-Wife-is-a-Chubster You’re welcome	/r/seduction	22/02/22 06:56 AM
1	What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women? Why wouldn’t you value a woman “like that”? What IS Instagram anyways? She is at the epiphany stage - and you’re balling…. You said “28 is old to me, Bruh” indicating I) you easily bang younger chicks 2) and ? She is a status symbol to you. You are a success object to her. This is the way of things. Given your attributes though - it’s still Feminism that is informing you that you should tolerate a 28 year old. 25 years ago, 21 year old you wouldn’t have even considered it unless she was famous. …	/r/seduction	22/02/22 06:32 AM
1	What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women? Is she? Or were you made to believe this. Should we rank the Age over her Model status? What kind of Model? That term just means Instathot. Except if she, actually, you know WAS An instathot you would have replied “OnlyFans Model” It’s not a personal criticism Shroom. Just be cautious whose pornography you’ve been taught to think you desire.	/r/seduction	22/02/22 05:34 AM
1	What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women? Lol.	/r/seduction	22/02/22 04:20 AM
1	What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women? She’s 28.	/r/seduction	22/02/22 04:19 AM
1	What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women? You don’t need to share interests with a partner. This seems to be a popular myth. I’ve had lots of enjoyment from partners who were different to me and knew different things. The polarity can be the attraction.	/r/seduction	21/02/22 01:12 AM
1	What should a 21 year old guy who is attracted to women who are older than him (25-45) do to attract those women? Will be almost impossible to attract an older woman for long term unless she is less physically attractive than you. It’s how it goes. Women tend to date around 2-7 years older than themselves past high school	/r/seduction	20/02/22 09:50 AM
6	Is a workplace a bad place to approach? Bad idea Homie. Too much Risk not enough reward. Let Them hit on you, you can give them your number…..but if anything goes Normal (note Normal!) it WILL go Wrong and you’re screwed. If the job is easily replaceable: go for it.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 10:20 AM
1	[deleted by user] 19 year old college students are attracted to tall, obscenely confident males. Just how it is. Develop that confidence through learning body language and conversational skills. It’s a fake it until you make it thing. But it’s hard work and involves rejection. Remove the barrier to the rejection- your dating apps. If you’re getting dates and that many Tinder likes you’re probably good looking. And shy can work well with Women. Less so with younger women. By 30-35 you’ll be absolutely balling and …	/r/seduction	16/02/22 08:49 AM
1	How do I(M19) approach this? If you’re sure of the look? A date suggestion is not the way to go. You’re probably relaxed in her company. Talk some more. Sit next to her on the couch. See if she is giving you the same look. If so; move in for a Kiss.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 08:45 AM
1	But what if the reason I’m so depressed is BECAUSE I’m lonely? Wrt hobbies and passions. That just needs you to be honest. Pick something you feel is low risk at first; Maybe you’re great at sports? Do more of the at Perhaps you have musical abilities? Do that etc. With some success you can up your risk factor. And KEEP doing this throughout life. You’ll be happier both within and without romantic relationships this way.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 08:42 AM
2	[23M] How do I stop obsessing over the prospects of dating? In this order: Weights Nutrition Walking Meditation Reading The Rationale Male, Rian Stones’ YouTube channel (mid watch) This is to develop your GENERAL confidence. You need to destress about your lack of sexual experience. It’s a catch 22, I know. But it won’t be (Long-Term) the hindrance that lack of confidence will. You can catch up. Lastly, I believe you’ll develop better in context of sex within a relationship. There is little sexually to be learnt from ONS, as fun as that can be. These are	/r/seduction	16/02/22 08:35 AM
2	Why would she give me her number and not reply :/ You were a bit too keen by texting same day. Women are deeply sensitive to this. You did things well. When she “accused” you of being super smooth - you could have replied “Yep, I’m Literally The Worst” She was playfully teasing you.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 08:27 AM
4	Transitioning from being voluntarily friendzoned to being a potential partner ? If you are seeking a relationship with these Women; you need to reframe how they see you. Men chase women consistently and validation is everywhere online. Yours isn’t necessary. So spare your attention for Actual friends and women who are interested in you. Go to the gym, practice being social (talking with colleagues, cafe/restaurant staff, general interactions). Some of these girls may already be interested in you? You don’t say your age, but, if you’re still quite young, you may not yet have…	/r/seduction	16/02/22 08:24 AM