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leangains is another solid sub that helped me with weight loss and muscle gain. I liked the more simple approach and how it was broken down into an easier to follow plan without complicating things. You just need a simple workout routine that you can stick to long term while following a simple meal plan based on your body and goals. There should be some good links and posts there to help you get started.
/r/seduction01/02/25 09:30 PM
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I think you make some good points but another thing to consider is time management. Sure, if you have all the time in the world and nothing to do but spend it with girls, sure, maybe don't next them so easily since you have nothing else to do. But if you're a dude with a life full of interesting things such as hobbies, plans, friends and events, do you really have much free time to spend with someone who either disrespects you or isn't giving you what you want? If I'm not having mind blowing sex…
/r/askTRP16/09/18 12:48 AM
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I cringed at you asking her to leave because you wanted to masturbate to porn. Please never do that again. It's one thing if the girl isn't willing to have sex and you say something like "that's fine, I can take care of myself", but what you did wasn't the best way to handle the situation. The difference between the two is if she isn't interested in having sex but you are, you are showing her that while you may WANT her, you don't NEED her. It's similar to when people give the advice of walking …
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:53 PM
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Part of being a high value man is living your life with integrity and always doing what you say you'll do. This isn't just for relationships with women, but for all areas of your life. If your co-workers know that when you say you'll do something, you'll do it, they know they can depend on you and you're a valuable asset to the team. Same principle with your friends. If you say you're going to do something, your friends know that you are a man they can trust and depend on. To me, that defines a …
/r/askTRP10/09/18 08:35 PM
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It's only been 6 days, it's normal that you would still be thinking about her. But it sounds like you guys broke up several months ago and it was only just 6 days ago that you finally ended communication with her. Why did you do this? Why did you continue to contact her as well as invest time & energy into her after you guys broke up? Imagine where you would be now if you moved on immediately after the breakup? Do you think you'd still be thinking about her, wondering what she's doing or who she…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 08:04 PM
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Man's Search for Meaning 6 Pillars of Self-Esteem No More Mr. Nice Guy Models
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:08 PM
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Wow this is pretty impressive. Care to talk about the tech behind it?
/r/seduction17/06/15 11:15 PM
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It's good to recognize your shortcomings and do your best to improve, but I think if you're always blaming yourself, that can really affect your self esteem. I believe sometimes things just aren't meant to be and even if you've done your best, it just won't work. No need to beat yourself up and take all the blame. Just move on and staying positive.
/r/seduction20/01/15 10:33 PM
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While this is somewhat true, I find it an unhealthy mindset. You shouldn't think if a girl rejects you it's either because you are ugly or have terrible game. There are a ton of other reasons things couldn't work out. Maybe you guys had nothing in common or you weren't her type. Even if you have great game, you still won't attract every girl. My advice is this, if it was a pretty serious relationship, sure, find out what you did wrong so you can correct it in the future. If it was just a short l…
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:55 PM
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Become interested in other people. You're surrounded be students working hard on some amazing things. What is that guy programming? What book is that girl reading? Start taking an interest in other people and what they are doing with their lives. I was always interested in what other people were doing, so I'd walk around the library, see a friend and wonder what they were studying. We would chat about classes a bit then I'd meet their friends and it just builds from there.
/r/seduction20/01/15 04:01 AM
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Jesus dude, there's other parts to life than being tall and good looking.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:58 AM
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Get side tracked but don't use apps like Tinder. I know you are probably working hard, but I think its important to go out and have fun. With friends or by yourself. And by going out, I mean going to a bar or club and just socializing with other people. Don't go out pursuing casual sex, go out to enjoy yourself and to take a break from working hard. Also, great job with being willing to sacrifice other areas of your life in order to get your shit together. If you want success, dedication like th…
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:12 AM
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What did you change.
/r/seduction26/11/14 07:19 AM
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I really liked this. No fluff. No theory. No gimmicks, just the honest truth. It is an uphill battle and you can always choose to give up, but then there is no victory.
/r/seduction09/09/14 06:02 AM
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What has your experience with this been?
/r/seduction03/08/14 01:00 AM
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Do you have the video of Tyler doing that?
/r/seduction23/06/14 07:10 PM
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Can you elaborate why?
/r/seduction23/06/14 06:10 AM
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Yep. Can't wait for it!!
/r/seduction23/06/14 04:02 AM
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My thoughts? You did great, no criticism from me. How did it go later? And I'm impressed she already had her hand on your knee. Yea, not a big thing, but for just approaching and meeting this girl, it's kinda cool.
/r/seduction22/06/14 10:46 PM
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Yea I think the first obvious thing to do is talk to them about that and how they feel. We are pretty close, been friends for years so that isn't an issue.
/r/seduction22/06/14 09:04 PM
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I agree about the last one. It seems like they wanted to further prove what the video was about. Even if the video is scripted, I think it still has a good message that you can go up to a girl and spark a conversation and don't always need to be super high energy.
/r/seduction20/06/14 06:46 AM
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Great FR. Seems like you have the opening up and being vulnerable down. How did you transition into strip pool and how did it go from never have I ever to sex? I've been in a few similar situations but had no idea how to escalate it.
/r/seduction19/06/14 03:08 AM
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This was a really great post. A lot of times it's easy to forget where you started and the progress you made. I also have nights that don't go my way and I get upset. But then I think about where I used to be and how much I've improved and I'm still improving. Nice post. Did you do anything special to improve? Such as writing? Or was it more just going out, getting blown out and keeping at it?
/r/seduction17/06/14 10:30 PM
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Legend has it that if you two hold eye contact long enough, her clothes will actually burst into smoke, and before you, lays a naked woman. But her eyes are also turned to smoke.
/r/seduction17/06/14 07:39 AM
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Mind sharing some of those thoughts? That is something I've thought about recently too. I have a close friend of mine who is great with girls and has no problem sleeping around. I told him about a girl who came on to me, but I wasn't interested and he told me "sex is sex". At first I didn't think much of it, but after I thought about it, I started to think about what I want and why I'm even here (seddit). Am I really here, reading this stuff, posting comments, just to have sex? Even if I'm not i…
/r/seduction17/06/14 03:00 AM
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Fair enough, you did mention that it is up to him to decide if it is what he wants. I just thought it was unhealthy advice and almost goes away from what this whole subreddit is about, but to each their own. What I take away from it will not be what everyone else does.
/r/seduction17/06/14 01:02 AM
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This honestly sounds like terrible advice. Keep hooking up with people so eventually you stop caring? Wow, this is probably the biggest bs I've read in this sub and I would be surprised to see it even on the redpill. Op, I don't have an exact solution for you, but I think you are right, it is a good thing. And please don't take this person's advice. You are a caring person, that is who you are. Nothing wrong with that. You shouldn't seek to change yourself, especially by forcing yourself to stop…
/r/seduction16/06/14 11:45 PM
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I'm not in San Jose, but I might be moving there soon. How do you like it and how is the scene as far as approaching girls and what not?
/r/seduction12/05/14 05:53 AM
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This was a great post and pretty inspirational. Thanks for the wise words at the end. I think you have a great mindset, so props to you.
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:22 AM
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Everyone has to start from somewhere. You definitely aren't broken. It sounds like you have a lot going for you which is a good thing. What I'm worried about is this: "I've literally passed up on so many opportunities, that I'm starting to give up" Why? This just sounds silly. Next time, seize the opportunity and just have fun. It sounds like you are either trying to hard and not having fun with life or you just make this out to be a huge process and everything must be right in order for it to w…
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:53 AM
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Also, it is really a numbers game. Not just with girls but with a lot of things in life. Right now I'm applying for jobs after I graduate, and you know what, I'm getting rejected and turned down a ton. But I realize that if i just give up and start feeling sorry for myself, I'll get know where. All we can do is continue forward, learn from our mistakes and become even stronger. Also, when you finally meet that one cool girl (or 3) and things go great, you won't even remember all the girls who fl…
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:48 AM
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Hate to say it, but it will never be perfect. Nothing in your life will be. It's hard to accept, but it is the reality. You are still putting yourself out there, going for what you want and be proud of yourself. Sure you see people on here like "OMG first week on seduction and I just banged a 10". But ignore those, either they are lying or something, you can't let other people's realities break down yours. I'm sure you've heard this many times, but when you hear about people succeeding, I'm sure…
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:45 AM
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Focus on the process and not the outcomes. You are out there, bettering your life, pursuing what you want and not letting life hand you everything. That takes guts... a lot of guts that not a lot of people do. Give yourself props for getting the 6 numbers. And keep pushing forward. You are going to get a lot of flakes and rejections. Right now, keep doing what you are doing. If you keep getting flakes, maybe start analyzing your game. Are you finding anything in common with these girls and givin…
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:06 AM
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I read this and think it was some really solid advice. It was the cold hard truth, not fluffed with anything. Thanks.
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:59 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Part of me realizes that yea, it won't always work out and to be upset about that is a terrible way to go about life. I enjoy spending time with her and think she is an awesome girl. I should just enjoy the time with her and not expect anything out of it. I think part of what is getting to me comes from some things in the past. I've been interested in girls in the past, only to watch them hook up with my friends, so I think I still have some of that insecurity, self doubt …
/r/seduction20/03/14 05:32 AM
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I really liked this advice. One thing I'd like you to expand on is the last part. At what point do you move on and what point is it giving up? If you are interested in a girl, and she has hooked up with you in the past but has recently been rejecting you, should you just move on? Or keep working on her? I have a friend of mine who is really solid with girls. And I explained the situation to him, and told him "Oh well, it sucks right now, but I know there are plenty of girls out there" And he has…
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:36 AM
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If you are really into a girl, have hooked up with her in the past, then she starts seeing a guy, how do you deal with flipping the switch of losing interest in her? I guess you need to just come to terms that you can't be with every girl you desire, but this has been happening to me, and I want to be this girl's friend, I'm fine with just being friends with girls, but I made a move on her last night, got shut down and I'm having some trouble dealing with it. Also before you say it, I am seeing …
/r/seduction20/03/14 04:33 AM
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Sure, it is way less frustrating, but you are just waiting for things to happen for you instead of going out and getting what you want/deserve.
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:31 PM
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Very well said.
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:23 PM
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I feel like one of the most important thing to take away from all pickup stuff is just having confidence in yourself and enjoying your life. If this is the way you live your life, how can people not want to be around you? I don't think you need techniques or routines or advice on how to escalate if you are just confident with yourself, honest with what you want/do not want, and pursue this. It doesn't come naturally to everyone though, so don't be hard on yourself. My advice would be to move awa…
/r/seduction06/12/13 08:47 AM
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What's weird about approaching girls and telling them you thought they were attractive and you had to introduce yourself? ... Nothing. You are demonstrating that you go for what you want. You are giving a compliment and as long as you aren't being overly aggressive like chasing these girls down or not taking a hint, you are fine. I think the fact that you are worried about being creepy is a sign that you won't be. You are worrying too much about what others are going to think of you but the more…
/r/seduction05/11/13 07:51 PM
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It doesn't happen often. I think my profile helps more than anything.
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:41 PM
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Haha yea, that was kind of unexpected. After the three of us started talking about canoeing and the outdoors, I mentioned I'm part of a group on campus that has about a dozen canoes at a cabin about a quarter mile away so we could go anytime. They instantly got excited to go, but after we started walking, it was too cold so we went to another bar. Would have been fun though!
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:40 PM
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Great post, but self-improvement isn't a journey from Point A to Point B. Its from Point A to DEATH. Never stop improving yourself and growing too comfortable with something. This comfort is when we stop learning and just start living day to day, same old things, same old interests. My step-dad is 62 and just picked up sailing a couple of years ago. The guy loves his life. He is well-off and could easily live his life comfortably, but where is the fun in that?
/r/seduction22/10/13 05:49 AM
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Thank you. I honestly never viewed height as a problem until I came around here and people kept talking about it.
/r/seduction14/10/13 09:17 AM
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I think it is important to realize that you can't fully control how people will precieve you. Some people will think you have balls for approaching, some will think you are a creep and others won't think anything of it. Sure you may get rejections, and a lot at that, but you'll also have some successes. I think if you go about it the right way, are respectful if they reject you, and are genuinely nice, you have nothing to worry about. And another thing to think about. How else are you going to m…
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:03 AM
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I think you make some great points in this. But I think you over-exaggerate that eventually you'll meet that cute girl in class so just let it happen. Don't you think this could be a harmful, lazy way of thinking? It's like thinking "Why approach that cute girl, or bother trying to flirt with her, if I'll see her tomorrow". Well sometimes that doesn't always happen, and you'll be left thinking what if. I do agree that you should ease up on cold approach and be wary of where you are doing it, but…
/r/seduction08/10/13 12:23 AM
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Why not?
/r/seduction08/10/13 12:10 AM
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Reminds me of this: http://youtu.be/adI-QnpYBT4?t=1m46s You aren't afraid to voice your opinion and people see this confidence.
/r/seduction06/04/13 03:13 AM
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Great report. I liked how you added in tips, but next time, I would try to differentiate them from the normal text, so it is easier to read. I'm interested in what happened next.
/r/seduction03/04/13 07:53 AM
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Good advice. I've had some success from OkCupid, but I'm running into one problem: I've messaged a couple girls who say they are moving to my area soon. With one girl, we were talking back and forth for a while, but I couldn't ask for a date because she isn't here yet. I think I am going to ease up on the messaging until she moves here and then message her again. Any advice on this? Thanks
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:23 AM
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What exactly does she need? The connection with a past lover? I broke up with this girl at the start of summer, so around 6 months ago. It was sort of a mutual break up, but she did take it a little harder than me. We didn't speak all summer, and when we came back to school, I would see her around and would always want to talk to her and say hello. I felt like we were an important part of eachother's lives for so long, how could I not try and talk to her. Apparently I was wrong, and she just bec…
/r/seduction09/11/12 04:00 AM
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I think this is a pretty new and refreshing point of view. I do have one question though. If you are the one to break up with the girl, hurting her in the process, wouldn't the best thing be to leave her alone and not talk to her? I feel like it would be mean to "break someone's heart" and then try talking to them again. Other than that, great perspective.
/r/seduction09/11/12 02:44 AM
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I don't know if this is simply because of dress. I bet it had more to do with social circles.
/r/seduction10/10/12 05:22 AM
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I wouldn't take the beer, its probably Natty Ice.
/r/seduction09/10/12 05:21 AM
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Nothing wrong with that. I have definitely went home with some girls I wouldn't have if I had other options at the time. It just motivates me to go out and find other girls. I would honestly forget about this girl though. Just rereading it makes me cringe. I can't believe you were treated like that by some hb6. You sound like a great guy and you definitely deserve better.
/r/seduction08/10/12 07:25 PM
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While you had some success, it doesn't seem worth it. I feel like she disrespected you quite a few times, which in my book, would mean forgetting her and moving on to a better woman. She brought a friend to your date. She told you about how some guy rejected her that she loved (wtf is that? I would have ignored her starting then), she constantly called you out. She told you she was going to purposefully blow you off because she was hoping to go home with that Robbie guy. Let me re-phrase that. S…
/r/seduction08/10/12 04:41 PM
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It is good that you are able to realize what you did wrong/could do differently and hopefully you can adjust accordingly. This is the importance behind constantly approaching and putting yourself out there. Keep up the good work!
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:31 PM
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First off, nice job! The first one is always tough but you did it. Now turn this into confidence that you really can do it, it feels awesome having success and use that as fuel for your game. Now, I just want to add a couple of things. First, what the hell have you been reading for 6 months and still "told her she doesn't want anything to do with me 'cause I'm a fucking weirdo and inexperienced fucking loser." Come on man, what the fuck is that? I know we have all been there, at the point where …
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:09 PM
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I would definitely recommend going to see a therapist and working out these issues. Once you inner happiness and peace, the important stuff like how you present yourself and your confidence will come naturally. You won't need anyone to lay it for you. Here is a good example for you: I've struggled with acne for a really long time, and it really messed with my confidence and eye contact. I remember at one point, I could hardly hold eye contact with people because I always thought they were starin…
/r/seduction30/09/12 07:34 AM
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Despite your lack of success with women, I think you had a great night. You went out, approached girls and actually tried, which is way better than what a lot of guys do. The fact that you got rejected so much is a great sign, it means you are going out there, putting yourself into a new, uncomfortable situation, and going for it. Now just keep it up. Get used to that lack of comfort, accept it and embrace it. Put yourself out of your comfort zone and own it. Great job!
/r/seduction30/09/12 06:45 AM
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It really depends on context with escalation. I'd say if you are in class or out in public like the library, I wouldn't escalate physically too much. Once you go on a date or are hanging out outside of the college setting, then start the escalation then. As far as the approach, I've had great luck sitting next to girls in class and just sparking up a conversation with them. Usually starting about the class and then moving from there.
/r/seduction30/09/12 06:17 AM
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I wish he provided more information about College Daygame. He pretty much just said don't go around hitting on girls and ended it.
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:42 PM
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When you start things off by saying "Hey this is random" or "Not to be creepy" or "I hope this isn't offensive" I think it frames the conversation in that way. Its like when you say "Hey, I hope this doesn't offend you but" or "Not to be racist but" what you say after usually is racist/offensive and the person will perceive it that way. It would be best not to say any of those things. You are a guy complimenting a girl, it is a natural thing, there is nothing offensive, random or creepy about it…
/r/seduction17/09/12 02:30 AM
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"I thought you looked interesting and wanted to come find out if you really are" "You caught my attention and I had to come say hello" "You had a gorgeous smile, why are you so happy?" There is a lot you can use.
/r/seduction14/09/12 05:26 AM
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While this is great on paper, we are talking about a situation where some guy pushes your girl, trying to spark a fight, and his three friends are waiting for you to react. Yea, you would want to fight back, but what do you do when you are outnumbered?
/r/seduction14/08/12 07:09 PM
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I'm definitely interested.
/r/seduction14/08/12 06:01 PM
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What would a good response be for a guy pushing your girl? If these guys are just there to start a fight, but pushing my girl, I'd find it hard to resist hitting them back.
/r/seduction14/08/12 05:57 PM
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Wow, I've read many quotes about women, life and goals, but your last line was great. "women are not the ultimate answer. They are the ultimate gift to an ultimate life" ~stubsbigtoeoften2
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:58 PM
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The problem with that is she lives 8 hours away. I want to keep the sexual tension/interest going so she will want to either visit me or go on another trip with me.
/r/seduction07/07/12 05:48 PM
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You are right, I shouldn't let this thing get to me and (I think) I'm doing a good job of not letting it. But I don't think its time to just move on and forget about her. I don't think this situation is over and I would like to know if I am correct in thinking this.
/r/seduction07/07/12 03:57 AM
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And by other people, I mean people on other forums online. Her best friend told me that B wanted to bone me hard. I'm probably over thinking this all, but I really don't want to be the loser who just gets used in the end, which I've had happen numerous times before.
/r/seduction07/07/12 03:42 AM
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K actually just responded to my text asking how everything was so we will see how this goes. Thanks r/seduction. I owe some of this to you guys.
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:29 AM
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I'm 21 and K is 22. Thanks. I'm currently trying to hang out with her again, so we will see how this goes.
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:28 AM
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It was an amazing weekend. And you are right, I shouldn't worry about her and just start meeting other girls. K was amazing, but I need to move on. I'm hoping this success with her gives me confidence to move on.
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:28 AM
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Can you elaborate more on having them put you on a pedestal? I feel like in a lot of situations, if I wasn't working for it, nothing would ever happen and the either the girl would lose interest or another guy would come get her.
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:19 PM
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I've read that a great way to practice this is to write down a list of everything you want in a woman. Things like: -She has to be adventurous -She has to like Chinese food -She has to be friendly to people etc Once you know what you want in a woman, when you are first meeting one, you can ask them questions so they have to qualify themselves for you. If they don't meet your pre-requirements, then its their fault and you can just move on.
/r/seduction06/06/12 03:17 PM
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So, are you saying guys shouldn't approach girls they find attractive in public? Seriously? If you see someone interesting, whether it be a cool shirt, a beautiful face, or they are juggling chainsaws, why not approach them and get to know them. It doesn't have to be a nice pair of tits that caught your attention. It could be a nice smile, they carry themselves well, they are doing something interesting, etc. Let them know they caught your attention, and you are someone who enjoys meeting new pe…
/r/seduction01/06/12 08:41 PM
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The Escalation Ladder would be a great read. Lots of useful advice. If you guys are making out, you don't want to rush things, which can ruin the moment. I like to slowly start touching her in non sexual places. Her neck, her arm, belly, legs, back etc. Just get her used to you touching her. Then start kissing her neck and nipplin on her ear to get her more aroused. Then, once you have her more turned on and comfortable with your touch, you can start to slid your hand up her shirt. I wouldn't go…
/r/seduction24/05/12 12:02 AM
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I think eye contact and body language is huge. I have made tons of friends that are girls in all of my classes, but I have never had good EC or Body language, so I think I send them "mixed" signals. I'm working on maintaining confident eye contact so she knows I'm into her.
/r/seduction19/05/12 02:25 AM
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I have experienced that verbatim. I have a slight AA, but once I approach, I feel fine talking, and I would consider myself a very social person. I've been rejected before, and it doesn't bother me at the time, I usually feel great that at least I tried. Then, once that "high" from the approach and interaction wears off, I feel that lonely, disconnected feeling. I also start to question my looks, personality and everything. I wish I could give you an answer or fix, but I am still searching for o…
/r/seduction19/05/12 02:22 AM
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