Do you even reading comprehension. I used the example of the US so as to not make a broad sweeping generalization. Kinda like you did with your overly kind statement. Once again, your condescending tone has been noted.
In the U.S. at 12:00am, on your 18th birthday, you are responsible for your actions. Regardless of how you were raised. Bad parenting is an excuse, not a reason. Your condescending tone has been noted.