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Outer Game BarVegetable1512/r/seduction20/07/22 10:46 PM
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Sometimes results come in bunches. Maybe your next 43 approaches you'll get 10 numbers. Anyways depends also how you define approach. If you say hi to a girl or try to stop her and she keeps walking, does that count as an approach? Because realistically a lot of people don't want to stop and talk during the day time for a multitude of reasons. 43 approaches is actually a small sample size...
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:34 PM
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There is more to a man's attractiveness than physical looks... confidence, vibe, communication skills, social status, financial status etc. Or perhaps you're going after the wrong demographics if women? For example if you're a shy nerd picking up girls in clubs will be hard and that could explain your struggles.
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:25 PM
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Struggle is a relative term. Most men probably well over 90% don't really struggle. Getting laid once in a while or with average looking girls is fine. Problem is today men want to sleep with models on a regular basis which for most is not realistic given their relative lack of social, aesthetic and financial status. There is only so few beautiful women and so so many guys chasing them. In our parents' generation most people accepted the reality but today social media makes people live in a drea…
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:25 PM
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Cockblocks are a real thing. Very often your target is interested or at least on the fence about you and her friends derail it.
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:26 PM
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Good advice bro! I have approached much in years and relied on OLD recently but I'm back to day game and it's slowly getting more and more comfortable.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:58 AM
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40 approaches is nothing I've been getting good success from OLD recently but quality of girls on OLD is mediocre and I'm not talking about looks so I'm doing some day game too. I've done some approaches last few days talked to 15-20 women and only even tried to close like 2. Day game isn't hard or harder than other types of game. It's just that when you approach on the street/mall you're approaching married/committed girls, girls in a hurry, girls not in the mood, girls who don't find you as th…
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:32 PM
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From my experience girls will rarely ghost you for being asking too soon. If you're too boring and never ask though, it can fizzle out. Girls ghost for hundreds of reasons a lot of which have nothing to do with you. That said texting should be lighthearted but at the same time directed towards a phone number and scheduling a date.
/r/seduction04/07/22 02:12 AM
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Good post. A lot of quality women who make good wives will not put out easily. And I agree that guys who won't wait out of principle are missing out on some potentially great relationships.
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:57 PM
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On one recent girl I literally kissed her our of the blue as she was talking and said "You talk too much!" Being spontaneous works like a charm. Better than waiting for the perfect moment which just builds anxiety.
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:56 AM
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It's sad that most men's standards are just about looks. The truth is a woman's character is the most important. A gorgeous girl who is a piece of shit human being is worthless for anything more than a one night stand. Worthless... If anything, standards should be higher but based less on looks.
/r/seduction26/05/22 04:08 AM
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If the girl is his gf, then absolutely cut them both off. However OP said they weren't official. Does his friend even know it's his girl or he has feelings for her? That does play a bit of a role here. If the friend knows then cut him off. And cut off the chick cuz she's obviously not into having a relationship while he has feelings for her and that's recipe for further heartbreak.
/r/seduction14/05/22 02:37 PM
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OP your success rate is very much expected and although you probably have things you can optimize this low % is not indicative of you doing anything poorly. The thing is when you approach girls on the street or in the mall you are approaching every women you like. Statistically speaking the majority of women are not available at the time you approach them. Either they have a boyfriend, not looking to date, not in a good mood, in a rush doing something etc. Most of the time the reason you're "rej…
/r/seduction29/04/22 09:26 PM
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First of all, 22 isn't old. I was 24 when I lost my virginity and it was at your age that I made an effort to change. My friends weren't really ladies men but they had some sexual experiences and I had none. I don't necessarily know your sticking points but my main ones was that I had a terrible fashion sense and that I was extremely introverted. Once I started dressing well with a f-boy haircut and approaching a lot of women in bars and clubs I started getting some results... kissing and grindi…
/r/seduction20/04/22 05:13 AM
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Wow some of the creep scare advice in this thread is what makes guys hesitate and causes approach anxiety in the first place. Here's a reasonable take: every place is perfectly ok to meet women and yes including dance classes. Obviously don't hit on every single girl during the night because girls will notice you getting rejected. Generally with dance classes, there's plenty of regulars so a lot of girls you will see again. If it doesn't work with a girl but you see another, just say hi to her a…
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:31 AM
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Just start... approach, say something and go from there.
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:07 AM
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There is no rule. Just do it! Better to take a shot and miss than not take a shot.
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:25 AM
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If she suddenly unfollowed you, it could also be she got back with her ex or started being serious with another guy and at that point you could mess that up for her if he finds out. Super hot girls or stunners aren't really that "hard" to pick up. They just aren't single very often so you only ever have a very tiny window of opportunity. All guys find her hot so she wouldn't stay available long...
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:22 AM
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It's possible they were just playing and weren't actually game for anything. I've had girls flake after texting very sexual stuff. Not saying that's what happened for sure but they might not have even serious.
/r/seduction22/03/22 03:25 PM
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DM me. I live in Sauga and I can be your wing. I also wanna cold approach.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:11 AM
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