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ConversationBarakaa78/r/seduction07/09/21 05:44 AM
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Your comment had me dying ahahaahahahahaah
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:20 AM
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ive approached hundreds of women. same type of approach each time. some found it creepy AF. and i ended up going home with some of them. the only difference is them, their perspective, their baggage, their preferences. you cant control that. all you can control is you. sometimes youll get a bad reaction. oh well. move on. next. eventually you'll find someone who digs you. I agree with you.. but the issue with telling people that is if someone is an actually creepy dude and doesn't worry about th…
/r/seduction25/09/21 06:22 PM
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What..? 99% of the time a bar fight only happens if you escalate back at the idiot flaming you. Those situations are easy to avoid if you just don't take his bait.
/r/seduction21/09/21 06:12 AM
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Feeling free to express yourself sexually should be discouraged then? Cause your numbers are insane. You're basically assuming you should only have sex with someone in a ltr with 10 being too much.
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:52 PM
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You're trying to come off like a good guy but then slut shaming anyone with a high body count.. lmao
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:42 PM
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I'm 6"2 and weigh 250. I weighed about 265 from weight gain during covid. I managed to drop 15 lbs and put on around 20 lbs of muscle in 7 months or so. I've drastically noticed a difference in the way women regard and look at me. Even though I have a belly still, my posture is great from working out and you can't even tell about my belly clothed because I stand up so straight. I think the biggest change in me has been the confidence. My female friend told me I have almost adopted this confident…
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:18 PM
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Really depends on you. If you still have a chance with her and you approach after she ignored you then you will project neediness and have a high chance of turning her off to you forever. If you happen to see her in public you could smile at her and see what her interest is.. and gauge whether to approach or not. If you think she just forgot to reply (unlikely in most cases) then it could be worth a shot.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:13 PM
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Like many said high value only keeps women interested, it doesn't get them interested.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:08 PM
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If you want to focus on the physical things you can change.. working out, grooming, clothes/style. Working out will make your clothes fit way better.. which will improve your style without even changing your outfits. Honestly not projecting neediness when talking to women and being confident about who you are is the hottest thing about yourself you can do besides those things.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:07 PM
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Honestly most guys are shallow af when it comes to pre-selection through attraction. Not necessarily after they get to know someone though. If you struggle to meet people through situations out and about during the day.. and option could be going to bars etc. Meeting someone in a bar does not have to be a one time thing or a hookup, its still a great way to meet people. And I think alcohol helps people release their pre-conceived notions about beauty. If you're out alone at a bar etc, I think mo…
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:03 PM
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What excuse did you make to get her back to your place? Been reading your posts since you started, hell yeah keep it up. You're one of the few people to post detailed field reports.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:03 AM
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Wow a positive comment! Have been reading a wall of negativity so far lmfao.
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:47 AM
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Yeah of course. My bad I get a bit salty because I see so many people here focus on the shit they can't change instead of what they can lol. And just constantly complain about how much their life sucks.
/r/seduction07/09/21 07:05 PM
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I don't mean that literally, I mean that there's always something you could have done better in every scenario you got rejected. That is what you need to focus on improving. If you just focus on the rejections and adopt this defeatist mentality like many here do, you will be single forever.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:49 PM
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The quote isn't saying she's rooting for you specifically. Its saying she's rooting for her future partner to finally find her. If you aren't that person, fine. But if you don't approach and get rejected by women you will never have the chance to be that person. The quote is just an excerpt from the larger idea of the book.
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:26 PM
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What I learned from a previous book is to have the mindset that whenever you're approaching a girl, that you're gonna be doing her day, because you're expressing your desires in a honest way yada yada. If their facial expressions and body language tell you that it feels like there is something else underlying, whether its your communication skills etc. Even if that's not the case and you're great at communication, I don't think the point of this quote is to be ok with approaching and not expect …
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:23 PM
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I agree with you wholeheartedly, I don't even know if its worth replying to all the negative people anymore lol. The amount of people on this reddit with a permanent defeatist mindset is crazy to me. And so many men here think that you have to be hot to get women and will never change their mind.. lol
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:15 PM
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I agree with that, I think you are ignoring the LARGE percentage of guys here who have never or will never reach the point of having enough self esteem to reach the point of vetting the girl themselves. I think that is the point of this quote, more targeting that demographic of people who don't even have the balls to approach. You have to do that first before you can recognize your self-worth enough to be like oh shit I'm vetting her too.
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:14 PM
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You're assuming women think like men. Looks are important to women not near as much as they are to men. There are plenty of examples in the PUA world of sub-par looking men being good at daygame. What do they have in common in every scenario? A great sense of humor and the ability to tease them and come up with shit on the fly. Getting good at humor and using it quickly in those situations is way more important than being this stud.
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:10 PM
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I don't think he was saying that all women are rooting for you specifically, he's saying it in a more generic sense that women don't want to be alone, they are looking for that guy that's perfect for them and if you don't get out there and approach you will never have the chance to be that guy. Of course there are women who like women and people who "aren't currently looking for a mate". Although most of the women when they say they aren't looking for something right now actually mean you just d…
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:08 PM
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I think that's true, but I also think its up to the man on dating to build initial attraction to even REACH the point where you can see if you have any sort of connection with a woman. If you don't have the balls to approach and not be awkward/turn her off with your interaction, you will never have a chance to see if you have a connection with someone. I think this is more the point of the quote.
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:04 PM
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I agree! I myself am 32 and am getting into dating after being single for 4 years. I'm relatively new to this reddit, but that's one thing I keep noticing over and over. All of this men struggling with women aren't approaching. Or many men here will approach a few times, get rejected and adopt this defeatist mentality like "well I must be ugly I'll never get women" etc.
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:02 PM
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I don't think I explained it well. I guess I meant that with many rejections there's something you could have done better. There's always something you can do better, something about your personality, wit, humor etc you can improve to change how the interaction went. Not having a defeatist mentality is what I was talking about, which seems rampant here.
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:59 AM
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I tried some full body programs and the recovery time is just too long for working all those muscles so frequently. I have heard the same thing from other people though. I know Jeff Nippard has recommended full body too, I just felt like the recovery time wasn't enough for me.
/r/seduction07/09/21 05:34 AM
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Do you work? Cause between the gym and studying for school you should still have plenty of time to do other stuff. You have a great mentality though wanting to prove all those assholes wrong.. Your virginity doesn't mean shit, but the way you go through life and having confidence in yourself is going to determine you success with women in the future. If you don't think you are that attractive face-wise you should continue working out and lurk in /r/malefashionadvice and learn how to dress. Do ev…
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:52 AM
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Ayyy PPL crew. Best way to maximize newb gains and fast-track growth
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:45 AM
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I think he means just doing daygame, stopping a chick walking
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:23 AM
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That will be a huge turn-off to many women. They will think you aren't confident in yourself and your age. Showing any sort of lack of confidence is the quickest way to turn a chick off. I feel like if she's already into you and you say it sure.. but the conclusion most women will draw from that, even if you say the filter thing, is that you lack confidence.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:20 AM
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You can approach anyone, but you will have the most success if you noticed her expressing some sort of interest in you. Your rejection rates will be a lot lower with those women. It takes some practice to notice that shit. I think its something that women know inherently and men are blind AF when it comes to noticing signals.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:58 AM
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I don't think its specific hobbies or skills that attract women but more the fact that you lead a fun and exciting lifestyle and you don't need her for it to be fun. When women see that your life is already fun without them they gravitate towards you because they want to be a part of it.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:56 AM
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Completely agree.. I think it something that's underestimated when it comes to working out. The way it makes your clothes fit can increase your attractiveness a lot. Some people consider fit even more important than the clothes or style themselves.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:53 AM
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You can compliment her, but it has to be something genuine and not about her body shape or 'you're hot" etc. When you compliment her looks or her being in shape you're telling her you're interested sexually immediately. You don't want to tell her you want her. Your entire goal when picking her up should be getting her interested in you so that she wants you. If you express crazy strong interest at the start most of the time it will get a rejection. She's going to be wondering why is this guy so …
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:48 AM
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Its also more attractive to women if they think you came up to talk to them for some reason other than they're hot. They want to have value outside of their attractiveness.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:41 AM
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Thats the thing, you will have more success picking up women if you pretend like she isn't hot. If you tell a chick how hot she is at the beginning you're immediately putting her on a pedestal and shifting the power dynamic to her. She'll realize she controls the situation and most likely be bored/standoffish realizing you're just like every other guy. You don't have to compliment her to pick her up. The hotter she is, the more compliments she gets every day from men and the less they mean to he…
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:40 AM
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It sounds like you might be talking to shitty men as well. A large part of creating that tension is up to the man not you. I think women can reciprocate it, but it's usually up to the man to create it and keep it going. Something easy you can do in real life is touch them, whether their arm, leg, etc. Touch is one of the best ways to create tension and let them know you're interest. If a woman rest her hand on my thigh and we're on a date I immediately realize she's interested and try and keep s…
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:34 AM
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I would never open with talking about her figure or how attractive she is. The hotter she is, the less likely this is to work. You're telling her that you are only interested in how hot she is and its more likely to make her put her bitch shield up right away when you do it. If you compliment something like her hair, shoes, earrings etc its a lot more safe to open with something like that. Stay away from anything sexual as you open. There's going to be people on seddit that disagree and say they…
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:30 AM
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This is a good reddit post as an example of what talking to everyone does. The gym is notoriously hard to pick up women if you approach and hit on them, but this guy does it from just talking to everyone. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5zpzbx/heres_how_to_game_girls_in_your_gym_and_get_laid/
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:26 AM
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It's not your "line" that isn't working. Its the conversation afterwards. You could open with the funniest thing in the world but you still have to escalate the conversation and keep her interested for x amount of time in order to close. I've seen plenty of men here good with women say they just open with "hey". Seems like its your conversation skills that need practice and not the opener. The only way to improve is just start approaching more and more. As you say dumb/uninteresting shit you wil…
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:23 AM
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I agree with you, a lot of the gurus I've seen are socially awkward AF. I think the best way to get better at daygame is just practice. You will learn from your own mistakes and what works better and doesn't. I've lurked on this subreddit for awhile and notice that many people fall into the trap of just studying forever and never getting out there and approaching.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:14 AM
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I don't think you will get over this problem without just approaching more and more. There's some mental issues to work through for sure, I still have some of the same problems as you. But just approaching/talking to everyone you meet/see helps a ton. (not just women) I've recently started doing the "talk to everyone" shit and it has helped me feel less nervous with women by a long shot.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:09 AM
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Have you read models? I think its one of the best books for people who have anxiety/mental issues with women. It really breaks down WHY you feel that way and how to start fixing it.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:05 AM
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Another thing to keep in mind is diet. If you aren't eating a calorie surplus you aren't going to get "jacked". You'll pack on muscle but it'll be slower and you will stay more cut.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:04 AM
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You're saying women don't like in shape men? Lmao. Regardless of the muscles portion of it, working out shows you care about yourself and lead a healthy lifestyle, and that in and of itself is attractive to women. I agree on your thoughts on cold approach, there's no substitute for practice.. but its scientifically proven women like muscles lol.
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:56 AM
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There is literally no amount of jacked you can get that will hurt you with women short of steroids. Even if there is a small subset of the population that don't like buff men, there are way more that do. I don't think anyone here will ever say the gym has hurt their chances with women. (Well, a few might, we have some people here who will never take responsibility here for their lack of success with women and always blame other stuff) Me personally.. I've been back in the gym for about 6 months …
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:53 AM
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I mean eye contact isn't going to do anything by itself.. you still have to approach, have a personality, etc.
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:13 AM
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LOL I know exactly what you mean. I don't think that's your problem though, its them being insecure in their manhood. When shit like that happens you just don't take the bait. If you don't escalate the situation no one is gonna have a 1 way fight with you, unless they're mental. Actually the dumbest shit to look in someone's direction and they're like "wtf is your problem you wanna go bro?!?!"
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:25 PM
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I think that's the issue with a lot of the RSD folks in general.. They do whatever they can to market first and foremost. There's many reviews out of people getting coached in day game with them and RSD people sucking at applying what they teach. Have read multiple accounts of RSD people straight up creeping out women.
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:00 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EI3JwsvHwwU found the video. Basically people who did field shit with him said he was worse than new people just getting into the game. If you read the first youtube comment it kind of sums up the video.
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:44 PM
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I'd have to find the YouTube video but the guy has kinda been debunked as full of shit AFAIK. And caught in a lot of lies. I'd go with someone else.
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:53 PM
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That's something that's talked about in models as well. To get in the habit of looking everyone in the eyes all the time as you walk to read interest , and make women break contact first.
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:44 PM
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Yeah Im actually hoping walking them downtown will give me some help with daygame LOL. Cause i'm about to be practicing a lot.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:35 PM
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Yeah i'm def going to make one. I'll let you know. I have 2 huskies so it gives me something to post, lol.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:32 PM
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Have you read models by mark manson? He describes a lot of the shit you're talking about. You feeling all of those emotions, the reason why you feel them and how to conquer them etc. Good book.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:27 PM
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I do events with instagram models, so I casually post pictures I take (not a pro photographer clearly lol). Intent is social proof to do more events Ahh makes sense lol. I'm currently retired at 32 and going to school to move onto a new career. I'll be moving to my city's downtown (700k pop or so) in Oct. I'm about to be going out to nightlife a LOT. Because I don't have to work I will probably be focusing solely on improving my game til May when I graduate. I'm starting to see the use of instag…
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:30 PM
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You also completely changed my opinion of what an insta is supposed to have. I was thinking of constantly updating and maintaining it etc.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:26 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I'm working on getting in shape as you lmao. I have the muscle but still have to cut about 20 lbs. Good looking dude. I understand the appeal and story of all the pictures except the ones of the woman. Is your intent to make them wonder who they are? To me it seems like it tell them you're in a relationship or something.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:19 PM
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I have been seeing this a lot. As someone who had no Instagram at all, wouldn't it be weird to start one and have all of my pictures uploaded at once, since you can't backdate? Also, when you start friending women you'll have legit 0 followers. I have heard that no Instagram is better than a poor one, how do you feel about this?
/r/seduction03/09/21 10:45 AM
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