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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 22 | Demand what you ask forNah this ain’t it. Source: former server. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 09:55 PM |
| 22 | Pick female doctors whenever possibleI’d record that shit and get a hella lawsuit payout. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 03:39 PM |
| 18 | Y’all, he put a stuffed animal on me.I have stuffed animals 🥺 holds them out to you in offering | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Took a leaf out of you ladies’ books and I feel amazing. Treat yourself right ❤️IT’S A MIX?!?!?! It’s beginning to look a lot like Halloween.... candy in every jar.... but the spookiest sight to see.... is the haunting that will be some ghosts at your door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:11 PM |
| 5 | Took a leaf out of you ladies’ books and I feel amazing. Treat yourself right ❤️I love sour gummy worms!!!!! This is immaculate self care 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Don't marry the first freakin' guy who gives you attention. NSFW due to strong opinion.Can I just yeet myself off the planet? Why can’t people just respect each other like damn. I hate race fetish stuff, just love people and don’t be a d. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:33 PM |
| -2 | Don't marry the first freakin' guy who gives you attention. NSFW due to strong opinion.Yeah that made me raise an eyebrow and feel icky reading that. Like what’s wrong with that at all? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:57 PM |
| 2 | When he says “you’re gonna end up alone/ your standards are too high” it’s because he knows he has nothing to offerI grew up very lonely with no friends. Most of my life has been alone. So I actually ENJOY being alone. If I die alone cool if I don’t cool. Such an empty threat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.I have noticed all of this as well. I have also noticed women on here putting other women down. Like trying to put down their confidence and accomplishments like for example if a poster is excited about a fitness goal like weight loss or muscle gain, it has negative comments. As a big squish woman who used to have an eating disorder, if someone else’s fitness or body goals bother you, that is your problem. And if you put someone down for that, you are just like the scrotes that go out of their w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 01:04 AM |
| 5 | I got flamed for this on tiktok- was trying to spread the fds word in my own way😢I love this!!!!! I have been seeing a small rise of accounts like yours. There are MANY haters but also many silent fans I promise you. 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:15 PM |
| 13 | This is why you must have separate accounts even if you think he's a HVM. You can never be too sure.Ew he’s a total gold digger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:15 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020I’ll try to come up with something good. I have finals right now and gained over 5lbs in quarantine so I am a mess tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 09:23 PM |
| 24 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020I love this sub a lot. But I feel like we have become a meme sub instead of a strategy sub. I have also noticed many pickme posts (by that I mean posts where they refuse advice or posts where the fds rules would clearly be enough info to leave the relationship) and comments. So it’s becoming memes/the relationships subreddit. I contributed to this a bit and have deleted those posts to help de clutter, I am very sorry for that. Sorry if that’s really controversial :(. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 03:23 PM |
| 3 | What should I do?Delete and block him without saying anything. He’s done. At the very least he could have said “I’m not interested in dating right now” or “I only see you as a friend”. He went out of his way to call you ugly and unworthy in his eyes. He went out of his way to hurt you to make you scramble to be something to his king godliness of fuckboi. He lost the opportunity to kind of know you let alone even be your friend. Block him and ghost him also for your sake so you do not internet stalk him and reach… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 04:47 PM |
| 25 | I hate this channelshe what?! I could never even get that dream career for myself and she just.... I’m screaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 04:13 PM |
| 10 | Uplifting story about a HVM in Ethiopia who collects water, helps his wife with child care, and makes injera, all of which are considered the wife's responsibility in their culture. "It comes out of love for her,” he says.They are both great! Rumiya is a HVW because she doesn’t let her pickmeisha friends bully her into doing all the work. And she shares fds values to everyone. What a great couple who will have wonderful kids raised in a more equal and loving home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Too bad that even some biological fathers aren’t like that with their kidsIn my opinion as someone who had parents fighting all the time (my mother was the main abuser, severe alcoholic, mental disorders she wouldn’t properly treat, etc), a parent who is a bad partner is a bad parent. A parent or I guess in this case father who is mean to the mother or neglectful as a partner is not a good parent. They set a bad example for the kids, bring negativity to the house, and make it so the mom can’t give her 100% because her energy and life is being sucked out of her. If the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 02:00 PM |
| 48 | Daily reminder that men are seven times more likely to leave a sick partner than women are. Also, what a major asshole (full text in comments)This may be controversial but I don’t care anymore. People that have relations with people that much younger are pedophiles in my book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 05:04 AM |
| 10 | OooooofBig facts, it’s ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 04:40 PM |
| 18 | OooooofJust ignore them. Whatever you say will never be good enough for them. People like that will be alone and if need be women can continue on with sperm donors and support networks of female friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 01:07 PM |
| 31 | I graduated from university today! :)Congrats!!!!! Achievement Unlocked: College Grad 📚 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:42 PM |
| 126 | Another example of a HVM! This man gets it right.She looks genuinely happy like she didn’t need to fake a smile for the picture, so sweet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Me when a LVM comes nearI’m so happy someone shared this from d&d memes; I saved this earlier because I loved it so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 02:00 AM |
| 12 | I'm bisexual and wondering how I can apply the things I learn here to my relationships with both men and womenI am bisexual as well and was wondering the same thing. Thank you for asking this, Imma follow this post. But always know you’re more amazing than you think. So many women, myself included, put ourselves down when we’re damn fabulous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 09:14 PM |
| 10 | I am trying not to cry I am happyThank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:26 AM |
| 10 | I am trying not to cry I am happyOmg thank you!!! 😭😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:26 AM |
| 17 | I am trying not to cry I am happyThank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:26 AM |
| 9 | I am trying not to cry I am happyThank you so much, I will definitely take your advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:26 AM |
| 15 | I am trying not to cry I am happyI’m just terrified because I always think I am trash, and I am not good looking so I am afraid that will hurt my chances too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:26 AM |
| 0 | Prove yourself for the King, peasant!Guess I am a LVW for having a 4.0 (so far) at a state university. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?Tea is so good! And don’t worry I unmatched him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?Thank you so much! I only said the sex thing because I am a virgin and just don’t want to have sex rn in my life because I am not ready for it yet. But like you and everyone else said I need to hide those cards. I will take what you and everyone said as a bible, thank you so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?“I’ve gotten all of the casual emotionless sex out of the way and I’m looking for some special to take care of yanno?’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?Great advice! Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?That’s fair, I was being a douche and will just be to the point like the others said without being rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 14 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?I’m just dumb tbh, no excuses. And I am not ready for sex at this point in my life, so I try to be honest about it. But I learned from this thread to keep that hidden until a few dates in. But you are absolutely right, and thank you so much for taking the time to help me :). You’re awesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 23 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?I unmatched with him afterwards. But you are right on the money. I struggle with communication alot and I put emojis and crap to set a nicer “tone” which is dumb as hell and I will stop it. And this is the first time I used the Grown thing, I did it at a suggestion of a friend and won’t do it again. Thank you so so so kuch for your feedback and help, y’all are true mpv’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:19 PM |
| 6 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?I absolutely agree, will do so in the future. Thank you so much! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:07 PM |
| 16 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?Thank you so much! I am autistic so I struggle with communication, I will definitely adopt what you said. Y’all are amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Before he was bragging about all the casual sex he had and he wanted a real relationship and to take care of someone. I told him I don’t do sex and I take care of my grown self. And asks to get drinks. But then this happens oml, radio silence after. First time being assertive, did I do ok?Aww thank you! Next time I’ll end at I’m chill 💛. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 02:17 PM |
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