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Yeah but I don't have anything else I find interesting.
/r/seduction25/10/25 11:29 PM
1

My life is nothing but work (in a kindergarten) and spending my freetime watching movies and playing video games. Alone or with buddies. There's nothing I do (except work) which keeps me busy and unable to text a lot. And even if I pretend to... I am the one constantly thinking about them not texting back
/r/seduction25/10/25 09:25 PM
18

Yeah but I got nothing going on because I'm boring
/r/seduction25/10/25 06:15 PM
3

Yeah I hope I find that girl eventually
/r/seduction11/10/25 10:04 PM
15

My father died when I was 10 and my mom was an alcoholic. She died when I was 20. I never felt protected and safe by them. It was mostly my grandparents and yeah, I always had to function. Honestly throughout my entire chuldhood and school life... I just wanted to be a part of something. To be liked by those around me. But when that didn't work I became distant and isolated myself. Nowadays I have only 2 "modes". Overly nice and selfless... Or completely shut off from everyone. I genuinly think …
/r/seduction11/10/25 04:33 PM
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I am way too nice and honestly kind of a doormat. And I'm a 27 year old virgin. Even when I get close to making it with a woman she loses interest because I'm always available and there's no thrill. I tried to change it but I simply can't get out of it. It's just who I am. I always get replaced the second someone else steps up who has an attitude. And in the end I congratulate her for finding someone she likes instead of being mad because I got replaced. I don't know... I just don't have any sen…
/r/seduction11/10/25 03:37 PM
2

Bold of you to assume I have enough self worth to see any woman as "below my league". Generally I think it's kind of a terrible way to think of people? "Just good enough to sleep with" is not really nice for anyone really
/r/seduction03/09/25 12:23 AM
1

At least some women want you. Luxury problems
/r/seduction12/08/25 09:37 PM
22

0 women and no relationships. What am I even doing Here?
/r/seduction20/06/25 11:19 PM
1

We'll see. Plenty of problems to solve to even get to that Part...
/r/seduction11/06/25 03:00 PM
1

Phew this actually freaks me out. I'm a 27 years old virgin. I also have phimosis and no doctor in close proximity to get a circumcision. If a miracle happens and I somehow ever get the chance of that changin... And I then have ED or something like that I'm honestly giving up entirely. Because then I'm convinced the universe just doesn't want me to have sex.
/r/seduction11/06/25 02:50 PM
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No no I get that. I just envy you guys... Being freaked out over a dry period like that sounds much more bearable than trying to come to terms with why I have never gotten laid at all. For you guys it's probably just a matter of time before you're back on track.
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:49 AM
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It's always funny to see people bringing up such numbers while I sit here as a 27 years old virgin. I mean, I know where my problems are and I'm not even close to getting laid any time soon. It's just amusing when people act like 6 months or a year are a lot
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:20 AM
9

Preach
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:09 AM
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I'm 27 and in the same boat. My biggest issue is that I just can't perceive sex or any form of intimacy (starts with hugging/cuddling already) feels like it's this huge special thing I just wasn't invited to. Kinda like the parties all the cool kids had during high school. I wasn't there. And I just kind of feel left behind. So many people made their experiences. They know what they want and like. What a partner should be like. Not just physically but as a person. While I'm here like "I don't kn…
/r/seduction29/05/25 09:56 PM
1

Simple. Because I don't like myself. I wouldn't date myself either. Now you would say "then Go ahead and turn your life around so you would". And you might be right. But my depressed ass can't get out of bed most days. I simply don't care about myself and if I'm alive or not. That's just it. Therapy and medication don't really help. And I tried to shoot my shot. But it only made me see that I am right about myself. It's not meant to be for me.
/r/seduction13/04/25 12:32 AM
1

Yeah I'm currently quite self deprecating honestly. Trying to get that out of my system but it's hard.
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:57 PM
1

I'm currently working on including regular swimming into my weekly schedule. Currently I manage to do it once per week but my goal is to increase that. I had some weeks of 2-3x but couldn't keep it up. Therapy is something I am trying to get but it's very hard to even get one...
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:41 PM
1

Hmmm I never thought about it like that.
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:21 PM
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I am doing that for the past 3-4 months now and so far didn't really get anywhere. But we'll see. Let's just say the issues go deeper than that and are serious mental health issues. I just really hope that one day it gets even a bit better.
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:54 PM
3

This makes sense. But I know that at my current level I couldn't do it.
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:38 PM
2

If that's true I'm done for. I'm just not a dominant or confident guy.
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:25 PM
2

Guess I don't have either
/r/seduction21/02/25 06:47 PM
3

In which world is it easy to find a fuck buddy?
/r/seduction21/02/25 06:34 PM
4

At least you tried. That's more than I can say for myself.
/r/seduction17/02/25 01:34 PM
3

The problem for me personally is: I know about all of this and I don't respect myself. I hate myself. I'm trying to get therapy, I try to work on myself. Both physically and mentally. But I just don't have it in me to talk to women unless I have to for work or appointments. Or like a waitress in a restaurant. But it's quite dry and business only. Rarely even make eye contact.
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:52 AM
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0 seconds. Never had one lol
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:53 AM
1

I'm working on all of these things, really.
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:58 PM
1

Yeah I know that tbh. My self love is non-existent and never has been
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:26 PM
1

I wish I would be successful with women. It's not that I never tried. Just Not at bars or anything. I'm just not desirable or anything. I'm not really a religious man so it's not by choice that I'm a virgin
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:08 PM
1

I respect that. I just can't imagine it myself. 27 yo virgin. Never go to bars or anything.
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:53 PM
1

I guess? I'm really not in the loop in that regard lol.
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:23 PM
1

I have way too many issues to even start casual hookups. But still, I just can't imagine it anyways
/r/seduction28/01/25 01:00 PM
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I'm honestly kinda imoressed that you were just able to fuck girls you didn't really care for. Sure, I don't have game and I'm stilla virgin. But I just know I would never let someone physically close without knowing and liking them first. Doesn't mean love or something. But there has to be a connection for me
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:26 PM
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I am in a very similar situation, only worse because I never even had a date. But I know my brain is wired badly and my mental health hinders me a lot. Getting an escort would "give me proof" that I can only ever have sex if I pay money for it. And that wouldn't improve my lack of confidence and self esteem really
/r/seduction27/01/25 12:52 PM
1

Honestly? I don't know
/r/seduction26/01/25 03:35 PM
1

Tbh I think once you're in such a rot you just sub-consciously give off a vibe many women just feel instantly and they don't feel attracted to. I know for example that I am super insecure about and around women. Just a lack of experience and the experiences I made were soul crushing. So I have nothing to fall back on mentally that makes me come off as someone who knows his worth around em.
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:42 PM
1

Working on my mental health (seeking therapy and all) since that is just a huge burden. Going swimming regularly to be physically a bit better. I am slightly overweight but that's not really my issue. Just need to feel better. And I just wanna make friends. I barely have any, regardless of gender. My self worth and confidence are extremely low. I try to go out more to places I enjoy. I'm a nerd so it's mostly the movie theatre but strolling to the city before and after is still a way to see peop…
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:40 PM
1

Currently I would bet lots of money on that tbh. Still got a long way to go to even be remotely close. Sure I'm willing to work for it and improve what I need to. But luck definitely was never on my side so I remain very sceptical
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:30 PM
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once I do. Bold of you to assume that will ever happen.
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:00 PM
1

Dude I never got laid ever. Try that
/r/seduction26/01/25 11:50 AM
2

A couple per week? I have zero in 3 months
/r/seduction19/01/25 10:11 AM
15

Damn I can see myself using all of them lol. I never had a single date at almost 27 so there's that.
/r/seduction18/01/25 06:39 PM
1

I know. But it's hard to do. I wish I could just love myself.
/r/seduction16/01/25 11:47 AM
0

30 matches in a week? I had 0 Matches in 3 months.
/r/seduction16/01/25 07:33 AM
1

No one is giving me love either
/r/seduction16/01/25 07:17 AM
3

My biggest issue is that I just noticed I never felt true love. Yes I had crushes. Yes I was obsessed with a woman before. But that's because of my mental health and me being super scared about abandonemt and being left alone. I assume that I have BPD and I'm getting that checked. I don't love someone. I want their attention and I'm mad when I don't get what I want from them. It's selfish. I currently can't help it but I have to work on it. I despise myself
/r/seduction15/01/25 06:15 PM
7

Works everytime
/r/seduction14/01/25 06:47 PM
4

Been there, done that. Still cried alone.
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:19 PM
76

I lie in my bed and cry alone mostly.
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:06 PM
15

I have Reddit and that's it. I hate all this Instagram/Snapchat/TikTok bullshit
/r/seduction14/01/25 12:47 PM
2

It's good, I get it. The example isn't half bad. It's obvious tho that your childhood has a huge importance for how you turn out later.
/r/seduction13/01/25 10:21 PM
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Could be. My dad died when I was 10. I've never been a masculine guy and I've never had a gf. I think it's still possible to learn all that through other means but it's much harder.
/r/seduction13/01/25 07:58 PM
2

That's mostly because I am kinda mad about being a single virgin at almost 27.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:06 PM
3

I am currently trying to go running and swimming multiple times a week. It's not much but I'm getting there. It's only been close to a month now though so I didn't notice any changes yet. But yeah I'm trying to improve in that area. I'm also working on getting therapy and other help. I do want to be better. But it's currently just super difficult to get in a different headspace.
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:51 PM
3

Yes and quite honestly, the real world sucks. I don't know these social things. I am honest and wear my heart on my sleeve. I say what I think and feel and that mostly leads to others being overwhelmed and losing interest.
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:03 PM
4

I had it once that a woman had sexual interest. And because I never had that I kinda freaked out internally and managed to make her not have that interest anymore in like a week. I end up in the friend zone but my self worth is so low I don't believe I deserve even that. That's my biggest problem
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:01 PM
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True I also lack male friends. And believe me I am working on myself. It's just a long fucking process with very little in return thus far.
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:59 PM
0

You're probably right. But I'm not even thinking about making someone stay if I can't make someone want to know me in the first place haha
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:52 PM
2

Wow I am a terrible Hunter then
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:43 PM
1

Probably yes. I'm really not good at that
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:34 PM
1

This is right. And something I have to work on. I tend to always fantasize about potential futures and what not.
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:33 PM
3

I mean, I can see the truth in that. But I know I can't really compete due to massive mental handicaps I have. And I have been exploited by women a few times now when they seeked validation and knew I was pretty much a doormat. I'm just not feeling like playing a game. I am genuine, I am myself. But so far that only lead to very onesided "friendships" which I'm tired of
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:10 PM
1

I don't really have social circles aside from being at a workplace where everyone but me is taken anyways. But to me it just would feel very forced to actively go for something with strangers. And I just wouldn't be comfortable
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:07 PM
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To me the thing is just... It's kind of a game I don't want to play. I just want to have someone around I can trust and to tackle life with as a team. I don't want to score with multiple women and be a womanizer or something. I just want to be happy. And I'm an emotional introvert, depressed and sensible 26yo dude who never had a gf, a kiss or anything. I never believed in dating and flirting as a game to work on. I think it's silly because human interaction should be genuine and honest.
/r/seduction13/01/25 02:12 PM
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