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Loved this. This reminded me of the original FDS when it started getting popular. Ruthless strategies. I am also from third-world and trying my best to escape being forced into arranged marriage. I would love to be financially independent and never marry but that's difficult here so my next best option is to get a foreigner older rich man. Difficult to find in Covid times so in the meantime I am learning the game as much as I can. I completely agree about not arguing and explaining anything to m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:06 AM
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I don't really blame my younger self and to be honest I never got too attached to any guy because I always knew inside me that they weren't right for me. But I was surrounded by low quality guys. No matter whom I would date, everyone around me (especially other guys) would laugh and make fun saying "you could have done so much better". I knew that but there really weren't many good options around growing up in not so affluent area in a poverty-ridden country and no dating apps and internet aroun…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:09 AM
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Never ever even consider such a thing. I am telling from my personal experience of coming across a stay-at-home dad. Met him at a volunteering group. He made such a big deal out of supporting his working wife and being liberal, feminist, blah blah. Even introduced his wife and kids to us. Then, started the harassment. He started following me on my social media, liking and complimenting my looks. Calling me and trying to impress me with his "connections". I finally had to stop taking his calls an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:01 AM
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I have been involved in volunteering and other activities for years. Full of low value men. Poverty is very high in India. Most engineers, lawyers, doctors are still poor and can't even afford their own house hence stay with their parents lifelong. They go for arranged marriage with village girls who will be perfect maid for them and their parents. They just want to do free timepass with modern city women as side chicks. There are very few men who have any financial stability mostly due to inher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:44 AM
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No chance meeting anyone not online in my country. Men don't cold approach. The only way to date, after coming out of college, is through using online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:48 AM
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At this point I am beyond disgusted with men. I am just upset that I didn't realize this soon enough and used my beauty to get financial independence by now. For years I was trying to look average by dressing down with no makeup, hoping, begging that men see me as a human, see my good grades, my talent. Sure they pretended to care. But even the plain-faced me is too attractive for them and they eventually always become predatory. I don't care if they care about other things about me other than s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:15 AM
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No guy wants to be my close friend though. I have tried and every single time they turn out to be predator. After years of friendship and placing trust on them, they come up with "you are so fucking sexy" text message sooner or later. And of course all of them misled me for years saying they have no such intentions. When I show these messages to my female friends they are a bit surprised as they haven't had to deal with so much male attention. Some say I am too attractive or too nice. Or it may …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:50 AM
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Honest question to you all - do you still believe that men who don't view women as objects exist? Every man watches porn unless he has become an addict and is now trying to get away from addiction by quitting it. What you described as NVM are all men. I firmly believe a man is only as faithful as his options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:02 AM
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Easier said than done. The country is overpopulated. People with engineering and MBA degrees struggle to get jobs even as a cleaner. I did work as an engineer for over 6 years but the pay is so low and the harassment for women so high, it simply is not worth it. As for getting out, Indians have over 20 year long wait time to have any chance of getting citizenship of US. Almost everyone wants to get out of here and men are in front of the queue as they inherit money from their parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:10 AM
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Thank you, sis. You all can help by setting up all-women community centres as I replied to u/nonchalance77. Many many women here are looking for a safe place to go to having to run from their family house due to being forced for an arranged marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:32 PM
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Thank you, sis. Well, I have deep trust issues thanks to my dysfunctional family and female friends who have abandoned me as soon as they got any crumbs of attention from some disgusting man. So I don't think I would like to completely be dependent on anyone even on a woman. What you all western women can do if you have decided to shun men and become female separatist is maybe set up all-women community centres where no man is allowed. Women from shitty countries like mine could also come and li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:30 PM
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If you all feel this is bad, try living in my country, India. Men are just so repulsive here ugh. Unattractive, mama's boys, hate feminism but also shame women who want provider men as gold-diggers. And don't even get me started on the massive insecurity. I am attractive and above average height for India. Even when I have managed to find some guys whom I felt were decent enough for consideration, they do everything to neg, point out my flaws and break my confidence so that I start chasing them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:38 AM
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Some of us don't have much choice. I live in a third world country where women stay with parents till marriage. Parents are pressurising me to get married. I don't want to get arranged married and become lifelong bangmaid to some guy and his parents. So, I am trying to find someone on my own. I still don't really want to get married and want to live on my own or with other supportive women. But that's very difficult here and almost all my female friends have succumbed to pressure and got arrange…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:27 AM
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My belief is "I am single till I am married". Words are just words and people can lie. Men certainly are in no position to complain as most of them are still on the lookout even after marriage. And don't even get me started on their virtual cheating by means of porn. The only thing that worries is me is their ego, violent tendencies and inability to see their own hypocrisy. So many women tell about how they have to deal with the jealousy and insecurity of the guy they are dating. This is frankly…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:27 AM
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Very true. So many men will offer to take care of a woman but don't actually have any intention to do that. They know far too many women are too egoistical, "independent" or "nice girls" to ever accept help from a man. Whenever any man offers to help me, I always accept their offer even if I don't really want it, 9 out of 10 times they are bluffing and will come up with some excuses to avoid actually helping. Women need to understand this and not let men make complete fool out of them each and e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:19 AM
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I have seen this behavior happen in jobs too. Men are so afraid to help female colleagues or even be polite towards them in fear of appearing like a simp to other male colleagues. Same guy who will be polite and fawning over you when alone or with other women around, completely changes his attitude and behaves like a "tough guy" in front of other guys, especially other guys who themselves are bullies. I never understood their behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:25 AM
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My aunt told me a story about a single father who dedicatedly took care of his daughter all by himself after his wife died. Then, one day when she became a young lady, he saw her naked while she was taking a bath and his urge took over him and he chased her all over their house trying to rape her. She jumped out of the balcony to save herself and died. The father came to his senses and realised he has lost what he took care for so many years and was numb with grief. Interestingly, my aunt's conc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:33 AM
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Most of these men are only looking to take advantage of vulnerable women. I have had so many of them proclaiming they think of me as sister, daughter and were totally devoted to their wives and kids so I need not worry about their intentions. In my naive days I believed them and was nice to them, answered their calls, replied to their chats, sometimes even asked their advice on troubling matters. Now, especially after seeing their depravity in lockdown boredom with messages calling me sexy and k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 09:05 AM
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I say don't argue with them and instead tell them that they are are so strong and you sure need their help with lifting heavy objects, paying bills, doing manly tasks. If they refuse to do than question their strength and manliness. Beat them at their own game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:12 AM
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Why are women like this? I see so many who are ready to live like a slave just so that they can tell everyone that they have a man who loves them. And worse is they pressurise other women to do same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:48 AM
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Maybe we can have a friendship commitment like marriage for living together long term. So the women cannot ditch each other just like that for some useless scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:17 AM
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Or else they will try to create false equivalence like "I am okay if my girlfriend watches porn" or "I am not sending my pics to other girls". Like sure those are the same thing 🙄 the point we are talking about is a man watching naked images of a woman. No one wants to watch your naked pics dude, so don't pretend women are lining up for that. It's sad that so many women blindly agree with their brainwashing in order to prove themselves as the perfect "cool girl" and "feminist". I seriously am th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:10 AM
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I was once having this discussion with some male colleagues and they were all joking about how men can't really help themselves if a woman is attractive. While speaking of cheating, they were also desperately trying to shift the blame on the women who gets involved with a married man. Surprise surprise, one of the older married man out of this group has added me on facebook after I left the job and is trying to chat with me about how he misses me and stuff. I haven't replied him but he still kee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:44 AM
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Whenever any man is accusing a woman of cheating, I ask them if they watch porn. They reply that's not real but virtual so it doesn't count as cheating. Then, I tell so they just be okay if their girlfriend/wife shares her nude pictures with other men. They immediately start using disparaging terms for a woman who would do that and term this as absolute cheating. They have zero awareness of their immense hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:22 AM
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What do men even get out of this I would never understand. Risking STDs, pregnancy, "fake rape case" (about which they love to cry about) all for having meaningless sex with a strange woman. A strange woman who has no standards and has sex with random men who invite her over for "cuddles". At this point I feel they just enjoy this disgusting behaviour to make as many women as they can to feel uncomfortable with men and dating in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:13 AM
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Try telling them this fact that they are looking for free prostitutes and they come up with that women are looking for ATM which is a blatant lie. If a woman asks them for straight up money transfer without even meeting them once than they can say she is looking for an ATM. What they think of ATM is women looking to go on proper dates which is what dating has always been about before this hookup culture messed it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:03 AM
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Very true about male friends and pickmeishas. Almost all "male friends" have tried to hit on me or tried to break my confidence with negging after sometime of pretending to be good friends. Men and women cannot be friends, period. Men themselves say this all the time online. It's time women realise this fact. As for pickmeishas, it is very true that even if their man will rape you in front of her she will get jealous of you for "seducing" her man. No sympathy for pickmes. They deserve to be trea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:56 AM
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This. Sick and tired of women who are marrying loser men and doing everything for him (in my culture, they even have to take care of the men's aging parents in addition to everything mentioned above) just for social approval that they have a man. Everytime I open facebook and see some woman marrying an absolute loser of a man who is most times also very ugly. I refuse to like their post and encourage this behaviour. Of course I have received a lot of hatred for still being single but better sing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:41 AM
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I so wish it was a thing women living together in platonic relationships. Most women are desperate for male validation though and even when they are with female friends, they are constantly chatting or talking on phone with their boyfriend, they will leave their female friends for him at any given time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:33 AM
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Yes, I have experienced this. In college, I topped the first semester of my STEM class. One of the guy told me that some of other guys hated this fact and they paid money to cheat in exams specifically so that they can score better than me next time. I was surprised back than why would they do such a thing. Over the years I have realised men just hate women no matter what we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 03:22 AM
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That's a great retort. Men really need to be made to feel how we feel when they ask such questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:53 PM
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It's insanity really but if you speak against it than get ready to be accused of "slut-shaming" or being a prude. Women are so desperate for validation and men are sociopaths and will support anything that benefits even if they have to pretend to be woke feminists for same. When it comes to splitting bills, hook-up culture they are all about gender equality and feminism, for all other things they loathe feminism and keep bringing up "muh biology"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:00 PM
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Word. They show-off their money to impress women and then act surprised when women want some from them. Dudes, pretend to be broke if you want to avoid "gold-diggers". It's pretty easy but you all know you won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:54 PM
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That's exactly what I tell them. Why on earth should I put myself to time-consuming body hair removal, haircare, skincare, make-up, dressing up, wearing heels if I just want some dude to go 50-50 with? Looking like a gold-digger is a full-time job. I used to shun all these beauty standards in an effort to try and look plain to be taken seriously at work. Still men used to constantly harass me and my previous professional career was nightmare due to them (I used to work in a male-dominated field)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:56 PM
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Great retort about telling them they don't look like the type to attract gold digger! I will use that next time. What makes me frustrated is that dudes like this one pretend to be rich initially and waste my time. Like I asked this guy if he has his own house or lives on rent, he said he has own house and lives in the part of town where house prices are expensive. Later on he admitted something about struggling with his business when we were discussing economy. When he was upset with my reply ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:29 PM
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This is the only way we can change the pathetic state of dating currently. I did same with a guy last week. He was fine looking and was showering me with a lot of compliments for quite some time now. I thought let's give him a chance. He didn't ask me for hook-up but he called women who are looking for provider men as gold-digger and was harping about gender equality. All my attraction to him was instantly gone and I wished him good bye. He still kept trying to chat with me and getting no respon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:48 PM
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I have also noticed a lot of ugly men think themselves as good-looking just because they lift weight or have good complexion or one or two such redeeming qualities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:35 AM
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They are sis. The absolute worst are the men who aren't good looking but think they are because they lift, so now they think they can easily get a 10/10 woman. Who will explain to these dudes that six-pack abs does not compensate for a hideous face?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:32 AM
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High school years are the worst years for women dating wise. The guys withing age range are mostly either fuckboys or LVMs. And the older men seem plain gross and predatory. So, it's better to focus on studies and date causally if you must. After studies are done with, you have a job and money to upgrade yourself, older men don't seem so gross, you will have better results if you play the game correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:13 AM
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Jealous pickmes are the worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:00 AM
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Yeah, he has told me that I can question him as much as I want as that is my right. If any guy is not understanding on this matter I stop talking to him immediately. Have dealt with too many weirdos and stalkers in past to take a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:57 AM
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He stays in another state so that won't be easy for him, although he said he wants to meet me when he visits my state. I always go with the assumption that every man wants to bang and leave so I am always extra careful with them. Long distance isn't my cup of tea, so I will just keep him as a second or third option and keep dating here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:12 PM
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Yeah I understand. But these women are already rich. Now it's all about image building, gaining more status and power for them. And these shady men surely cause more damage than gains. In India we have Chanda Kochhar, who was MD and CEO of India's most powerful private bank and was vastly considered a role model for everyone. Then her husband was involved in a corruption scandal and she was accused of helping him by processing his loans through her bank. She then had to step down from her positi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 09:55 AM
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I am going to tell him I want a masculine, generous man who likes to pamper his woman and shower her with expensive gifts. There. Now he knows what he needs to do to pretend to get some. He needs to give me some 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:40 AM
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Yeah I kind of understand your perspective. If I ever compliment a guy (which I never do, to be honest 😁) I won't like him to reply with a "I know" type of answer. But this guy basically asked her if she knows she is pretty, and maybe she could have used more tact to answer sassily or just said a simple thank you, I do believe that when you hardly know someone it is inappropriate to call them arrogant jokingly. And there are far too many men on Tinder trying to chat up to girls. The dude should …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:40 PM
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THIS. Specially true if you look younger for your age and are attractive. I am nearly thirty and men think I am in my mid 20s. I recently uploaded my pics on social media and got tons of thirsty men complimenting on my looks. I also got asked out by a male acquaintance (who is popular with girls) after he saw my pictures and I turned him down. And all these when I have gained some significant weight in last few months and am still in the process of losing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:04 PM
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I don't even want to marry any man. I love living alone. But my shitty third world country and men here won't let me live in peace unless I am taken and have a man in my life. I cannot imagine living with a man! The thought of sharing a room with a male gives me horror. They tend to be dirty and disgusting. I would prefer to be in a relationship where I see a guy only once in a month. Don't think any marriage will work like that though. I will have to tolerate constant presence of a male in my h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 06:51 PM
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Wish the pick-mes understood this. I have always been nice and trusting towards every woman I interact with yet I have learned to be careful now with pick-mes. I have had a lot of pick-mes hate on me for no reason other that I am an attractive woman with good grades in STEM. This causes dudes to get attracted to me and pick-mes to hate me with a passion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 09:10 AM
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Thanks for the recommendation. Have put it in my to-read list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 07:42 AM
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The mother/sister method will not work on Indian/Asian/ME men. They are very protective of their mother/sister, but very sexist and predatory towards other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 07:25 AM
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Therapy is very expensive here and the last one I visited was no good. Reddit and other anonymous forums are helping me cope and I only tell my true thinking to two female friends in real life. For rest all, I put on an act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 07:11 PM
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But isn't force of contract means the woman is basically obligated to have sex with the man whether she wants it or not? In my country, marital rape is not recognised and men marry women with little education and no careers so that their wives are completely dependent on them financially and can't leave them. So these women are forced to provide sex to them just to survive. If men get validation from such forced sex then I don't see how they cannot get the same from Fembots. Also prostitution is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 08:17 AM
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Male lurkers are downvoting comments from pink-pilled FDS women and upvoting pick-me type comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:52 PM
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Reality is depressing. That is why more intelligent people tend to be more depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:43 PM
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He doesn't exactly wants a woman who is okay with it. He just wants a woman. His two options are, either he will pretend to be a non-porn watching guy to her and she believes him and lives in blissful ignorance. The other option is - the woman is completely okay with porn watching and watches it herself too. So he doesn't have a need to hide. He was pretty delusional though. Ugly but went to gym so thought he was a looker. Kept harassing me to give my honest opinion on his looks. When I said tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:04 AM
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Yes. My friend is Indian too. Arranged marriage is a system meant to provide loser men with bangmaids at home while they continue to look for opportunities to cheat around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 03:41 PM
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That would have been easier to do if I didn't see examples after examples of women being treated like dirt by their man for being nice to him. Anytime, I think of giving up being so cold and heartless towards men, some female friend of mine comes crying to me about awfully their man is treating them inspite of them being so caring and loving towards him. Then there are married male acquaintances I know, who post loving statuses with their wives on social media, but complain to me in private abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 07:21 PM
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That's correct. I did the same with him long back and it was a right decision as he turned out to be an utter disappointment. So I suppose only weak or controlling men would bother a woman repeatedly about her make-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:59 PM
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Yeah I did kick him eventually. Not for this reason but because he was weak AF and it turned out to be a great decision as he is now an alt-right supporter who posts about fake rape cases and other rubbish. I just was surprised why he was so against me wearing an eye-shadow and wanted to know if this is something that other men do as I haven't encountered anyone other than him obsessing over an eye-shadow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:56 PM
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Thanks. Seems interesting. Will check out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 06:50 PM
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I hate this too. There is nothing more annoying than a walking Wikipedia. And I am myself a curious person and love getting as much knowledge as I can. But men just love being a show off about the vast amount of superior knowledge they believe they possess. Be it any subject. Like Politics. Sports. Movies. Music. They go into any subject wanting to show how much more they know about it than you. They will ask your favourite music genre and then when you name something they will start bringing up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 08:50 AM
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Men just hate women and want something to whine about them. Joke is that they are also so much sexually attracted to women. What they hate is also their biggest weakness. Lol at men thinking themselves to be logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 08:40 AM
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If you are a Black woman, I would highly recommend to never bother with an Indian guy. Most Indian guys don't even find very attractive Black women like Rihanna attractive. You will mostly be hurt by their attitude. Actually unless someone is an Indian woman, don't bother with Indian guys. They will never pursue anything long term with any woman other than Indian. They just keep sending messages to non-indian women online as they think them as easy and of loose morals. Also their parents will ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:29 PM
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I am from India. It won't matter much as not many Indian guys on reddit. Most are on Quora. I have got some chat requests from Indian guys on reddit when they come to know that I am an Indian woman, but they have been decent so far with their messages and I decline the requests without replying to anyone. I am planning on deleting my comments soon anyways to hide all information. Sex with false promise of marriage is considered rape here. A recent judgement by Supreme Court giving 10 years impri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:15 PM
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I am thinking same thing. This reminds me of my Stalkers. This is why for so many years I yearned for an emotionally unavailable man, because love bombing is scary AF. And this is why I get scared to make men go crazy chasing me as suggested in this sub, as men really can be become very obsessed and violent trying to get what they can't have. I suppose a HVM will be safe as he has too much reputation or money to lose to try anything crazy with a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 08:17 AM
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Maybe it is because I am still young enough in late 20s, but I have always had way more young men interested in me. All of the guys I have dated have been younger than me by 1 or 2 years. People also think I look young for my age. Maybe that has something to do with this but I also like the guy to be a little young than me. I am okay with dating an older guy but he has to be significantly more mature and financially well off than a guy my age or younger than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:31 AM
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This is something that I was wondering since quite some time. I don't want to have kids. But even then I feel it is my responsibility to choose the best man possible to reproduce with, if in case I do have to have children in future (I live in a third-world hell hole so might be pestered by my in-laws and husband to have them in future). I have seen the absolute hell children born to bad and broke fathers have to go through. That is not something any child deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 07:07 AM
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No. I won't allow a guy to pick me up or even drop me on a first date. I use uber or local public transport mostly. I am not planning to disclose my location to a guy until I have met and analysed him several times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 06:30 AM
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Good article. Saving it for reference to show any guy who asks me about feminism. It is so hard to find men who are actually capable of self- reflection. Most parrot the liberal feminism narrative which benefits them and defends their pornsick, abusive ways. Some of the conservative men's view seem to align more with radical feminism theories. I am currently watching some videos of Jordan Peterson. Lib fem hate him but I really like his views on what makes a high value man. I will watch and read…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 12:24 PM
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I suspected the same. I see women all the time on social media and irl proclaiming that that their husband is amazing and their marriage is wonderful, yet I hardly see any men doing the same. What's more I have seen even the few men who put loving photos of their wives on social media, privately belittling their wives in front of other women. Wives are living in absolute delusions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 08:04 PM
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Awesome. I will use this with "All guys ask me for dates. You are first one to be creepy" I hope this shames them to not try this next time with anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:52 PM
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I actually found the tactics nothing new. Even before I knew the red-pill, I have sensed guys using these tricks on me all the time. Even without knowing what they are doing exactly, I could understand they were playing some game. Trying to use women's empathy and need for emotional connection to hook her. The negging one is the most common. Funnily for me, it reduced my attraction to them. A guy, who I was initially attracted to, used same type of negging techniques on me and later asked me. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:38 PM
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I am definitely going to try them on guys. Let's see how it goes. They don't have as much empathy as women, so I suppose the tactics won't be as effective. But it's always fun when the hunted becomes the hunter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 07:32 PM
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Same here. My first boyfriend, who I thought had a lot of potential to turn out successful in life later on, turned out to be a mediocre earning alt-right supporter. At that time I doubted my decision to break up with him, but as I see him now, I am extremely happy with my decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:42 PM
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Most guys keep telling stories about how some girl is chasing him like crazy. While I agree some are true, especially in school when girls are immature and don't know better, I know majority are just lying. Why men think women are going to get fooled by their lies? We all know how hard it is for a guy to get girls interested in him unless he is super hot or super rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:28 PM
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Right? I have seen some weird stories on reddit. In RPW, someone mentioned that a super rich guy they know lies to women he dates that he works as a low-wage worker to test the women's true nature. And only reveals his true income after he is convinced of her. I call bs. Why would a man lie about something he has that women desire so much? That would be like a woman purposely posting ugly photos of herself on dating apps to test how many guys are actually attracted to her inner beauty. All guys …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:50 PM
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Is it true though? Men say they can cure their onenitis after they start dating other women, but I have read from many men on dating sites that they were never able to let go of that one girl they truly pined for. I had many such orbiters and still have some of them. Part of it is because I have always been cold and unavailable to men due to my my problematic childhood, so they get even more attracted as the saying here is. I wonder if they ever got over me completely. Some of them are dating/ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 01:06 PM
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Hi, I am an Indian woman and I am around your boyfriend's age. From what I have observed, men at that age prefer to date and marry women of around same age. They only marry much younger girls if they are getting married through arranged marriage. In love marriage, men look for someone who will share their interests, will be a good companion and they get ego boost that they managed to get a woman by themselves. Arranged marriage feels like settling to them anyways as they couldn't get a woman by …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 12:36 PM
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Good observation. I masturbate only when I feel the need for some excitement or when I am having trouble falling asleep. On days when I masturbate more than once, I feel kind of weak so I never overdo it. I have had frustrations when I lived in a shared room because I never got to masturbate when I wanted to especially when trying to sleep. Now I have my own room and I can easily control my masturbation frequency, I never felt this overwhelming urge to masturbate continuously that men keep sayin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 10:20 AM
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This is what I have experienced with men as well. They try to be good and control their sexual urges but they fail mostly. Even fathers, brothers have a hard time controlling their urges around their female family members especially if they don't have deep connection with her. I sometimes have to stay connected with ugly, old men for career or networking reasons and I keep thinking what can I do that this man thinks more of me as a daughter than a hot young chick. I have heard many people saying…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 10:00 AM
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I would go with ALL Moids just trash. Girls are just trying to hold on to the less trashy ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 09:41 AM
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They even try to manipulate women to feel sad for them for being a pornsick thirsty guy. Like "boohoo life is so frustrating. At least let us have our porn. Let us enjoy watching humiliation of women. We are vey nice otherwise and are looking for our one true love but you mean women won't give broke and ugly but nice guy like me a chance" like why? If they were in that woman's place would they give someone like them a chance?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 01:12 PM
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Once my male colleagues were justifying company hiring more males for the night process as company will have to incur additional costs for providing security and transport to female employees at night. I joked that all women's security issues will be resolved if men are not allowed to get out of home at night. And then my male colleagues started calling me feminazi, man hater. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 01:04 PM
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Men truly believe that if a man goes violent due to lack of getting enough sex, it's women's fault. They total legit see no problem with male sexuality or behaviour. Bring up something like prostitution and men will immediately defend it saying that without prostitution there will be more rapes because men need sex, it is how nature made them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:31 PM
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Sexism for men means their dick not getting the pleasure they feel entitled to. Number one complaint of women is getting too much attention from unwanted men. Number one complaint of men is not getting enough sex or not being able to harass, stalk, rape women without facing consequences now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 08:24 PM
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Once a guy was convincing me for weeks to try sexting and after giving it a try, I couldn't do it. I was laughing at the role-play texts he was sending and replied him that this was not my cup of tea. He then said he was just testing and knew I wouldn't be able to do it because I am a good girl unlike other bad girls he knew whom he wants to transform into a good girl like me. Guys are weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:47 AM
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That's a good point. Next time a guy brings up trust issue, a woman could use this point about phone getting hacked to counter that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:40 AM
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Did she try telling people that the photos were photoshopped and not hers? I know some women deny the photos being theirs, and in some cases, the photos are actually photoshopped so some people might believe them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 06:38 AM
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A lawyer guy once told me that he is defending two men accused of raping minor girls. I asked him if both of them are actually innocent. He says one of them actually did commit the crime and he wasn't sure about the other man's innocence but he doesn't think anything wrong with taking their cases. He wants clients to get started with his career. This shocked me a bit as I thought of him as a decent enough guy who is pretty socially and morally conscious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:53 PM
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THIS. I work in STEM and guys here are so arrogant and think they are doing something so special like making the next big search engine, while all they do is copy-paste some lines of code from stack overflow for their bully boss. And the superiority complex they feel over women. My God! I was only girl coder in my team and guys used to constantly belittle other women's intelligence and work in front of me. If a woman is not a good coder she is automatically a dumb woman and thus low-value woman …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 07:37 PM
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This is actually why I had stopped using all social media accounts a year ago because of incessant harassment and stalking by low quality, desperate guys. I now have to go back to using them to promote my new online business but I dread psychos tracking down my location. I will have to hide all my location history from all my accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 08:02 PM
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I have had insecure men desperately trying to control me, belittle me, belittle other men to me. I now realise how stupid that whole "give a nice guy a chance" thing is. Because I did that all the time and got massive depression because of it. I felt something was wrong with me. I was hurting these guys, making them so insecure. And top of all of that I was physically repulsed by them. I blamed myself for so many years. Only now I realise that those guys were desperately trying to hold on to a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:00 PM
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I tried standing for my friends only for them to lie to me and go and start a new relationship and completely trust some moid, who is obviously faking love to get in their pants, only to later come crying to me about how suicidal they are feeling now. I tried to tell my friends to stand up for themselves in abusive marriages only for them to distance themselves from me for trying to sabotage their marriage. I used to feel very bad for all women and try and do whatever I can to help and support t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 08:06 PM
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I don't think women, like the one in the picture, are victims of patriarchy. Sure patriarchy affects all women and men. But women like the one above use patriarchy to earn brownie points with men and put other women down. Recently a jealous wife in my company spread malicious rumours about me because her husband had hired me and sometimes used to compliment me. I kept my distance from her husband since the beginning as I knew she feels insecure because she is quite unattractive looks wise and me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 07:21 PM
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Thanks. I will try it next time. Let's hope they take it well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 06:06 PM
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I checked out girl profiles in my area from a guy's tinder account. While most of the girls were attractive, 90% of them have bland profile bios with words like Sapiosexual, Wanderlust thrown in and the song 'Senorita' set as their anthem on linked Spotify account. Guys also joke about this on social media that girls have basic and similar tinder profiles. So probably that is why a lot of them don't pay any attention to a girl's profile and straight away ask generic questions. I would suggest sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 05:16 PM
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I live in a third world country, India. Men absolutely adore their own mothers here to the point where it comes across as incestuous. They also are over protective of their sisters. Yes they won't consider even their mother and sister's advice on matters like finance, career or politics but on feminism and women issues, their mothers and sisters are only women men will take seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 03:00 PM
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Fortunately for me, no ex has ever treated me badly. I have always been pedestalized by men and I keep saying the same thing to whatever new man I meet. Sure they try to shame me for bragging, but if they feel they have a chance, they still chase me. Thanks to this sub, I realise I am using right technique.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 09:18 AM
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I have decided to compartmentalize men when I get back in the dating scene. I am late 20s so will look for younger guys in their mid-20s with good looks, hot body for sex. Early to mid-20s guys are in their prime looks wise. For long-term relationship, I will go for men my age or one or two years younger or one or two years older than me. They have more financial stability and emotional maturity. For money and financial success, I will go for men older than me. So it goes like this - the younger…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 07:46 AM
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So much truth in your reply. The mental gymnastics men go through to defend their consumption of porn and prostitution is astounding. They know vast majority of women are doing it out of poverty or drug addiction or are forced into it. Male depravity for sex is the reason I cannot see them as human beings deserving of any empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 08:18 PM
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Many women come to watch his stand-up as well. Here is one of them where he is describing how he once acted all disinterested to a beautiful Delhi woman he met and caught her attention because beautiful girls always expect attention to be given to them. She gave him her number and agreed to a date with him, he spent a lot of his time listening to her meaningless gossip and spending half his monthly salary on the bill, she comes to his house at end of date but when he moves in to kiss her, she fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:00 PM
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Once a colleague, who publicly always compliments me for being very smart, told me in private that I sometimes come across as bossy and men don't like taking orders. I laughed and told him that I didn't know he was so sensitive and got hurt by a woman giving orders playfully. Later on whenever we discussed any topic of how some people overact on things, I always teased him that he himself is a good example of being over sensitive 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:40 PM
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In India, it is no longer restricted to just toxic reddit communities. A Local comedian has made it a pop-culture phenomenon "Sakht Launda" (translation: tough guy) Every guy here has already seen his videos on YouTube and many use those same tricks irl. Although the comedian makes it clear in his stand-up that he uses those tricks to try to get girls because he has an ugly face and a low wage job so he has no chance with girls any other way. So high-value guys should consider it beneath them to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 04:13 PM
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I was thinking of asking a man before we started dating what his opinion is about red pill and PUA. My assumption is that this will make him aware that I know how negging works and he won't try that shit with me because frankly speaking I no longer have time and patience to deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 09:11 AM
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Arranged marriage results in overpopulation and a huge increase in low quality males which leads to increase in rapes and violence against women as well. India is an example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 08:46 AM
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Ugh! Like literally. They surely cannot be that dumb to not know how much attention attractive women receive on social media or dating online, but even then they appear completely ignorant when the topic comes up and try to shame us for bragging for saying the obvious truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:18 PM
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Great points!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:11 PM
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MRAs have self created problems. Every crime has false accusations. Many people are arrested on suspicious terrorist activities and false intel, yet no one is forming groups like Terrorist Right Activists to fight for them. False rape accusations will stop when men stop trying to put their dicks in everything they can, but we all know that's never going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:00 PM
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Everytime a man tries to shame a woman that she will end up alone, show them all the multiple reports from different countries showing single and childfree women as the happiest group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 09:07 PM
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True. I tried for many years to educate women through my facebook but men would brigade there like they are doing it here. And feminist groups allowing men is the biggest problem why women cannot be educated properly. Like men all the time always say that they don't want to be friends with women and all men unanimously agree with them and whatever women comes up to oppose that is called silly for not understanding male need for sex. The same thing I posted on my facebook in response to a questio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 08:31 PM
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In my country we have a dating app called cougar dating exclusively meant for younger guys to find and meet experienced, mature and single older ladies. Many young men prefer aunties over young girls here. I am in my late 20s now and ever since I started dating I have always received maximum attention from men younger than me. Most of them don't even know or care whether I am younger than them or older. My divorced aunties, who are in their 40s and 50s, also get plenty of attention from men and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 07:22 AM
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That's why get rich. Either by yourself or by getting money from thirsty moids. Money gives you freedom and security from continuous harrasment by depraved, pornsick men. You don't have to tolerate or deal with them anymore once you are rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:39 PM
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I am sexually inexperienced but I don't want to discuss that with my dates. Women here get hymen reconstruction surgeries as most men want virgin wives. I am aiming high value though and if he insists on a virgin, especially if he isn't one, that will make him a low-value man in my eyes. Also regarding being smart, that's something that I have going on for me as I am from engineering with top grades and a corporate career and also volunteer for political and social causes. Men keep saying they n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 08:44 PM
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Thinking back to my student days and a guy I dated, your advice seems correct right now. At that point I thought he had potential. He was a bright student in STEM. But he was not good looking and he kept being jealous of me, most prettiest girl in our institute, getting attention from all other guys and whining how he can't do anything for me right now because his family is poor. He used to keep taking me to free hangout places and once tried kissing me at one such place. I live in a conservativ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 07:43 PM
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At the very least, men could have attempted to improve their looks for making themselves more attractive. Women have been grooming, doing make-up, spending money on skincare and haircare, undergoing painful waxing, hair removing, even surgerical procedures to make ourselves more high-value. Men are not willing to do anything to increase their value and just whine about why women won't give them more sex. And these whining comes from both incels as well as ugly, bald, fat tummy married men whose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 03:31 PM
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Yes, give online dating a shot. There women have much more options to choose from. But don't lower your standards and vet carefully as a lot of guys are just going to pretend to be something they are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 03:25 PM
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Just read two comments there. To paraphrase one of them - women here are used-up whores who fucked alphas in their prime party days and want to now marry betas for their money Another comment is shaming a 25 year old virgin woman, who is waiting for the right guy, commenting here for being delusional and having too high a standard That explains the male mentality to you. They will shame women for everything. I wish this sub was present when I was a teenager. I believed the traditional advise tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 03:19 PM
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Yes, that would be interesting. Dating advise for students. I chose completely wrong guys during my student days. I thought I chose them well. I didn't accept proposals from the attractive guys or guys who had lots of dad money as I thought they would be fuckboys. I accepted proposal from the seemingly smart, studious guys. Never worked out as they knew I could do better than them and had constant jealousy and insecurity. So, maybe we should come up sometimes for young girls to choose carefully …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 03:02 PM
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Agreed. I have to re-train my mind. It's just that one of a guy I was dating previously got so clingy and borderline Stalkerish to win my affections, following me everywhere, giving me gifts he couldn't afford, giving his bank details to me and everything, wanting to leave his workplace and join mine, threatening suicide if I didn't give him affection and validation everyday, that I became scared of any man showing me love and affection after him. And started getting attracted to emotionally una…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:21 PM
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The red-pill and PUA community is causing huge issues not just in western societies but even in conservative ones where dating is just becoming popular and acceptable. Read about the popularity of "Lakht Launda" (translation: tough guy) in India. Every guy is trying to act all tough to seem indifferent and has this "impress me" attitude towards much higher-value, educated, attractive, English speaking city based women. The fact that this leads them nowhere and they end up in arranged marriages w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:07 PM
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Just go through the required reading in the "About" section of this sub. You will find very useful threads which explains everything in detail. Basically this sub is in response to the various PUA, Red Pill strategies that low-quality men have come up with to have sex with as many women as possible. The suggestions given in this sub will weed out low-quality fuckboys, who lie to multiple women that they want long term relationships but are only looking for free sex. Just look at the anger and br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 01:33 PM
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True. Their ego loves to chase a woman and the minute she fully gives her love they start losing interest and motivation. So don't ever idealize or love a man too much. Not just for your sake but for his sake and society's sake too. When a woman loves a man too much, he loses motivation to improve himself or his career and becomes lazy and starts being abusive towards her and chases other women. When a woman stays cold and a little distant and gives him affection selectively, man stays motivated…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 01:21 PM
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Those terms are inner jokes among women. You are too young to understand anything posted here. Concentrate on your studies, looks and grooming skills. Those are the things which will help you get a high-quality woman, if you want one, in future. Stalking women only reddit subs is guaranteed to make you a miserable, lonely incel (Google that term if you are not aware of it) when you grow up. Choice is yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:29 AM
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I look at profiles to verify if it's a moid profile, and most often than not it's a teenager or a post-wall moid. No surprise here either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 10:15 AM
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Also here's an article about how administering testesterone reduces emotional intelligence in women - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3044405/ There are multiple studies showing women suffer more depression related mental health disorders while men tend to have more autism related disorders in mental health especially after hitting puberty - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4478054/ It just makes sense. Women were built to nurture their offspring so we have more emotions…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 07:05 AM
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You are young and probably come from a dysfunctional family. It is understandable that you have a great deal of empathy for people. You do not wish to ever hurt anyone emotionally as people have hurt you. You probably believe in Karma. I was same as you and I still find it hard to put my self-interest before others. But the world is not a good place girl. Do not show so much empathy to others, especially to men. They will say any lie to get access to a woman's body. They will make you believe th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:52 PM
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Some of them are funny with their delusions though. Yeah but I am bored now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 04:02 PM
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I think we should stop calling ourselves feminists altogether and refer to ourselves as pink-pilled women instead. Modern feminism have been hijacked by pick-mes, clueless privileged women, low-value moids wanting access to women and trans right activists. Also the term "liberal feminism" sounds good to people as liberal denotes something positive. "Radical feminism" name gives bad vibes due to radicalisation being associated with violence related to religions, particularly Islam. We don't preac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 11:02 AM
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I wish every girl everywhere would be reading this. All PUA and game will be rendered absolutely useless. Men will be forced to work on themselves and and treat a woman nicely to have any chance in dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 09:34 AM
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I am trying same thing. Not there yet. I wish there was a sub like this for pink-pilled women with tips and success stories on how to earn more money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 09:27 AM
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I really applaud your patience of even having a conversation with men on male-female dynamic. I tried doing it but every time I read their depravity, makes me seethe with anger. I am glad this is a female only space. I would say, don't feel bad for turning down a man. Don't feel bad for a man ever. The minute a woman shows any amount of compassion for them, they want sex with her. So limit your contact with low-value men as much as possible. Men insist on seeing women as objects, so no reason wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 09:17 AM
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Yeah because where I am from, most guys will never even agree to take such a test let alone together due to societal stigma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:23 AM
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Yeah married men are absolute no. I see girls in my city stating all the time on tinder that married men swipe left yet married men are so desperate that they would buy tinder gold and keep lying on their profile to not be caught. Also in my conservative culture, most of these men's wives are homemakers so it is not obvious if they are married or not from their social media. And I am not comfortable visiting house of a guy I am not in long term relationship with. Not sure how to filter married m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:18 AM
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Nice tips. Couple of questions - Do you meet your FWBs mostly online and if yes do they straight away suggest a hook-up or you follow the usual advise of going on dates with him first and making him pay before agreeing for sex? Also, what about fear of STDs - Do you ask them for a test before sexual encounter as suggested by OP? And even then he could be in Fwb with other people so how do you keep yourself protected?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 10:12 AM
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I am glad you gave honest feedback. These kind of men think they are god's gift to women and need a reality check. Too many women would just say that she wasn't feeling it and ask him to remain friends out of politeness. This doesn't help them learn and put in more effort next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 09:49 AM
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Arranged marriage is out of equation for me as all I will get are low quality men because a deadbeat dad means no dowry and low status in our society. One goal I always had in my mind was - Work on my career and save enough money to move to a developed country. I have worked for over five years in corporate sector and have amassed enough wealth now to start an online business of my own and if that succeeds and I get rich, I may very well move abroad and then start dating there. The fear I have n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:08 PM
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I never tried this approach before but thinking of giving it a shot. I also don't require model-tier guys, I am a coder so mostly get attracted to techy, intelligent but average looking guys. I almost always went on dates with classmates, guys from friend circles who I knew for quite some time, developed attraction and then said yes when they asked me out. Things don't work out because I am sort of a stacy and those guys feel they are not good enough for me. So thinking of giving richer guys a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 07:16 PM
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What about physical attraction? If a financially stable guy is not physically attractive to you intially, do you still go on a date with him and let the attraction develop?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 02:22 PM
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How did the other guys, whom you were also dating, handled rejection and you getting married to someone? I also want to date multiple guys until I find someone suitable but afraid of male jealousy and their violent tendencies to extract revenge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 01:04 PM
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Yeah I plan to do that soon. Reading some of the dating strategies already posted first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 12:18 PM
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This. I am tired with women propagating cliches everywhere when it comes to female dating strategy. Just look for a good man? Well yeah, every guy thinks he is good. How do we determine he is actually good and worth our time? That's why me need to discuss what works and what doesn't in general with men. Note I said in general. There are obviously exceptions but they are just that. Exceptions. Men have so many outlets to learn ruthless strategies to exploit female psyche and don't hesitate a bit …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 08:36 AM
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I have observed this too. I am pink-pilled so pretty cold towards men but some of my friends trust their boyfriends/husbands and disclose their emotions to them and men find it super annoying. The thing is I am called heartless by men for not showing them enough emotions. So what is a woman to do? As long as she stays cold the guy chases her with everything he got and wants her to show him affection and emotions, the minute she does that he finds it annoying and lose interest in her and start ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/19 06:24 AM
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