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#JustLVMThingsBarbiquette/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:39 PM
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This happened to me as well. It was easier for a while to believe it was an accident, because it’s better than believing, admitting it’s rape. Denial is a form of defense of the mind. Months later, after a lot more abused, it dawned on me that it was NOT an accident and it was HELL, I sobbed for hours. Feeling better now but denial was conforting while it lasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:52 PM
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The guy boasts about languages he speaks, can’t even spell the first word properly. Also « beaucoup French » doesnt mean shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:02 AM
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If men flirted like birds: « I built you this beautiful house » I’ll do that sensual dance that I’ve been practicing for a whole year just to impress you I gathered all these pretty rocks and other things you may like If birds flirted like men : « I showed you my dick, please reply »
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:41 PM
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My ex LVM once saw me in the street when we were still dating. he came behind me and ass slapped me. I hadn’t seen him so I turned back with my elbow in the air, ready to break some teeth. Oh how I wish I hadn’t restrained myself when I saw his face, he really deserved my elbow in his face, boyfriend or not this is so inappropriate ! I believed I was being assaulted FFS !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:14 PM
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Haha ! This should be the answer to any scrote talking to us that way. Every single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:50 PM
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When I started using OLD (at 30, nearing 31) I would look for men older than me because I thought men my age would go for younger women. The youngest I would go was 34. After a while I changed it to 30, and met a guy younger than me who had just turned 30. And he’s an amazing partner who treats me like the queen I am. The funny thing is that my two previous long relationships had been with men older than me who were toxic af and I still didn’t make the connection. The last one was 12 years older…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:14 PM
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I already had a HVM in my life when I discovered FDS, but it helped me A LOT to come to terms with 2 long relationships with LVM that affected my self esteem and mental health. I got out of three horrible years of depression with the help of women only, that sorority was REALLY healing for me. I truly believe us women should support each other a lot more because that queen energy is everything. Thank you kind strangers & sisters of the internet for this beautiful unconditional support in navigat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:18 PM
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This warms my former pickme heart. I’m in the process of forgiving myself and your post helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:32 AM
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That’s horrifying...those men are sociopaths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:28 AM
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You planted a seed, it will take time to grow. It took me years to get out of my pickme ways, even with amazing friends telling me what was wrong. I took me therapy to get there, but I wouldn’t have gone to therapy if it weren’t for their harsh words. Thanks for doing the work queen, don’t give up !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:23 AM
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We should make a meme with that last sentence « Bang dada dang, da queen has entered »
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:59 PM
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Radiant queen vibe ! I love her make up, outfit and mentality !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:50 PM
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This here. The fact that men feel entitled to hurt the sex worker just because they paid is actual proof that prostitution is paid rape for the vast majority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:40 PM
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Oh but sex work is work, and it’s sooo empowering right ? That poor girl, my heart hurts reading this. I hope she gets out of prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:37 PM
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Unlike those women who are super bossy, I can change a tire #girlboss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:45 PM
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This ! I was about to feel empathy, cuz he sounded human and all but it just stopped there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 08:43 AM
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Steady/reliable (especially work related), empathetic, committed These are qualities that apply to both the partner and the future father. I don’t like ambition as I have a bad experience with an ambitious LVM. He was always looking for more, more success, more projects, more money, more fans (he’s an artist). He was always waiting for someone better than me to come round the corner. I love how my current bf is content with everything he has (steady job, few trusted friends, and amazing gf).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:05 AM
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You should have know he was bad news because he’s f *cking old. Sorry, stopped reading after that. I dated a man much older than me. Spoiler alert: he was an NVM. All of these old scrotes dating much younger women are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:07 AM
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Is your ex my ex ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:03 AM
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I think they actually feel threatened by how gorgeous we can look with make up. Like somehow they can’t live up to our standards, calling us « high maintenance » because we look fine as hell. That’s on you scrotes. Maybe they like « natural » women because they think they won’t have to take care of themselves and dress nicely. I dated a few LVM who felt threatened when I glowed up and wore heels (I’m really tall) and felt that they were « not enough ». You know what ? I should have believed them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:59 AM
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I’m a feminist and I love your rant. The part about the single mums is harsh, but only because it’s true. As a mom who had a baby with a POS LVM, I know I should have vetted more. I leveled up and now my HVM will have to marry me if he expects me to bear his child, and that’s by far the f*cking least he can do if I’m going to wreck my body, health and put my financial safety at risk to give him the absolute honor of being a dad to my child. No contract, no baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:54 AM
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I agree, but although they might be eager to call you their girlfriend, it still doesn’t mean much. It’s very easy to be a girlfriend, even more so a forever girlfriend. I feel like the men here are fine with « you’re my girlfriend and let’s leave it at that ». I feel weird having a grown man talk about me as their « girlfriend » when I’m an adult woman with a child...but my (French) HVM agrees and I’m counting on a proposal before the end of the year !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:13 PM
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France has such a strong pickme culture (they love to put libfem pickmeishas as « feminist tokens » in the gvt) that it’s refreshing to see such a book. Here, the 50/50 culture is anchored and all past men in my life were LVM. Signed : a French ex-pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 04:57 PM
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