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| 3 | As an above-average Indian, am I at an advantage or an disadvantage if I move to a foreign country?Can you elaborate why these specific cities give an advantage? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/21 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Spent a weekend with LTR. Bored out of my fucking mind+Multiple other issues.True + I have a scarcity mentality too. Lost my virginity too late, not with her but just a couple years before I met her and kept her around because covid amplified that scarcity mentality. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Serious question, not kidding- why do all women ive interacted with look like they are mentally ill? What the hell?"Look"? No. Many but not all of them. But spend a month getting to know them? They all are. Not only women but a fair share of men are too. Here's my past thread on it https://archive.is/J8HTs | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | How to reject girls you meet online?Trolling? | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to reject girls you meet online?one became absolutely crazy, she threw raw eggs at my door and said mean things on the phone. Yup this is what I want to avoid. Both the girls I rejected replied with long flaming texts | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 08:02 AM |
| 3 | How to reject girls you meet online?mature We are talking about women here | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why the book Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus is blue pilled? I read it last night and found it pretty read and echoing TRPCan you elaborate your reasoning behind it and suggest an alternate red pill approach? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why the book Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus is blue pilled? I read it last night and found it pretty read and echoing TRPthe book is quite red pill, but the methods are more bluepill...guys who follow the book might be living in their wife’s frame How would you set the ideal frame for the guy based on the psychology and communication differences between the gender? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain why the book Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus is blue pilled? I read it last night and found it pretty read and echoing TRPit has a consistent theme of focusing a lot on your partner and giving them what they need covert contracts - “if I do this, she owes me that” Behaving in a way that seeks to be validated, and is done to get a specific reaction (sex for example) Not really? For either of those statements...didn't feel like that while reading through the material. Felt he has kept it very focused on the psychology and communication differences throughout the book. I don't think he says that if you as men do X -> … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP's opinion on the book Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus?Got any source on this? Seems like the first wife divorced, then he wrote the books and then married second wife and was with her till she passed from cancer | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | I notice a drop in libido and erection quality whenever I'm focused on work and grinding hard. Help?No, no flu like symptoms. My work is not very physical | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I notice a drop in libido and erection quality whenever I'm focused on work and grinding hard. Help?Thank you. Definitely something I had decided to try. Will actively meditate and practise mindfulness and see how it affects things. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 2 | I notice a drop in libido and erection quality whenever I'm focused on work and grinding hard. Help?I feel you bro. If I am chilling, I find even the 45 year old thrashes so attractive but when I'm in work mode, my focus is singularly on work alone. Like I could be out on a date and be thinking hmm I wonder what margins this restaurant gets or atleast in this overly analytic/business mindset where women are no longer women and just variables of some kind. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I notice a drop in libido and erection quality whenever I'm focused on work and grinding hard. Help?Good catch. I think you're right. It's not grinding hard at all. Somedays it can get very tedious, be frustrating, require a lot of focus or be very mental but its anything but 'grinding hard'. You're right. How I should had worded is that on days when I work 4-6 hours instead of not working/working 1-2 hours, I face this issue. I think partly its because the work stays on my mind much longer. Like even if it is technically only 4 hours of work, I spent 3 hours spread over the day just thinking … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | I notice a drop in libido and erection quality whenever I'm focused on work and grinding hard. Help?Definitely. There's some role of cortisol but my work is very chilled out actually. I work whatever hours I want. Simple style computer work. Just 3-4 hours at max | /r/askTRP | 03/10/20 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Anybody feel women into performing arts(dancers, musicians) are literally undateable?far too wild to ever be LTR material, and far too un-feminine to be of any interest. She is very fun, loud, wild, and exciting. Which makes for an awesome friend - not partner. I think you just summed up what I was trying to say in 4x the words. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/20 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with 3yrs LTR and feel devastated. Feel like I made a colossal mistake. Did I?Then here is the problem with your premise of this post The sex was good and genuine, but the problem was that she wanted it way less often than I did Her sex not being too high is not a problem by itself. Like you say she "wasnt the wildest or horniest" is not actually the problem and can often be seen as a green flag for an LTR. But if her libido is too low and you LTR'd a girl with too low a libido and causes severe mismatch with your high libido then you ignored a major red flag and should h… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with 3yrs LTR and feel devastated. Feel like I made a colossal mistake. Did I?How was the sex initially in the relationship? Did it start all hot and steamy and then slowly decline over time or was it flat right from the start? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Man defends girlfriend, she flips out and becomes terrified of himDude. Your girl should be on her knees right now thanking you for saving her life and fighting for her. I don't know if this a recent development or has always been the case but I notice that, whenever something bad happens or when a woman feels bad due to any reason under the sun, that bad mood gets projected on her boyfriend/husband. As if the bf/husband is responsible for it or has to help her get rid of that bad mood. She is partly taking our her bad mood and feelings on you right now. Even … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Mod Notice: Reddit may ban The Red Pill in the next wave of SJW censorship. Immunize yourself by bookmarking our official off-Reddit site, TRP.REDAh. If TRP goes, I leave reddit. I anyways had narrowed down my list of subreddits to very few meaningful ones with TRP and askTRP being the most visited ones. I also kept a reddit client on my phone just so that I could read longer TRP posts with ease. The official reddit client is cancer anyways. If TRP goes, both the desktop and mobile client get a boot. And I am sort of wishing it happens because honestly, reddit is awful at this moment of time and TRP is one of the very few reasons I'm stil… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/20 06:47 AM |
| 1 | A discussion on the purpose of lifeThere is a sense of accomplishment and control you feel when you're hunting or gathering your own food, building your own house, and realizing your life is in your own hands and not dependent on any outside force. This is a desire that cannot be satisfied in modern society. All of us rely on corporations to provide these necessities so long as we complete specific and meaningless tasks for them. Most people are deprived of knowing what it's like to be truly independent, with some more affected b… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 08:05 AM |
| 1 | A discussion on the purpose of lifeThe way our minds are wired, we are drawn to "our purpose" for emotional reasons Are you implying that everyone comes up with a different purpose of their own which is shaped by their childhood and current situation? Look up books like "Blink" by Gladwell, and "Subliminal" by Mlodinow Will do. Blink is already on my list, will add Subliminal to my list too Well one form of ensuring survival is having the approval of the group...So when we do things with the aim of "our purpose," we are trying to… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Ex texted me that she's fucking other guysWhat platform is she messaging you on? Whatsapp or insta/fb? | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Anti-Love Non-fiction suggestions?Here Be Dragons: The Psychological Problem, Cause & Cure Thanks. Not sure if its exactly what I am looking for but looks like a good read. So will read it. By the way, what are the fiction recommendations you came across? I find that a well written fiction can be as good as a non fiction book to change your mindset. I just search 'anti-love books' on google and these are the results that came up https://www.redonline.co.uk/reviews/book-reviews/a521768/anti-love-books/ https://www.goodreads.com/s… | /r/RedPillBooks | 15/06/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Anti-Love Literature suggestions?The Rational Male talks a lot more about behaviour, psychology, SMV , the dynamics of the male-female relationship, alpha-beta dichotomy etc. Not exactly what I am looking for | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Anti-Love Literature suggestions?Yes I know. But aren't there full length books written on this topic? Like the one I mentioned up there. Ones specifically talking about blue-pill love and discussing it from various sociological views? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Main plate just told me she's worried how much she loves me and about a guy she really liked asked her outThank you for the detailed reply Also goes without saying that she also wanted to up her value in your eyes, and see how you react to another male competing for her. Whats the ideal response to this? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Main plate just told me she's worried how much she loves me and about a guy she really liked asked her outThe ask out part or her declining him? She's also in regular texting with her exs by the way | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Father died, girlfriend left me shortly afterWere you two living together? | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 09:38 AM |
| 3 | Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?Right off the bat ask them about their family. If the dad isn't in the picture just leave it at one date Good point. I can attest to most of them having some parental issue. Either one of the parent not being in picture. Or the dad being an alcoholic, domestic violence etc | /r/askTRP | 27/04/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | TRP and cheating on your platesYes Indian. I didnt mention it in the OP because I didnt want comments on me being a crybaby for being an Indian. But being an Indian plays a big role in this. The kind of game mentioned on TRP is very difficult to run over there. Plus living with parents due to financial constraints up until your late 20s is a big issue too and shapes your game a lot. I've met women who say they're okay with casual arrangements but trust me the whole overt and covert plate management system recommended here is … | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 07:09 AM |
| 2 | TRP and cheating on your platesThank you for sharing. I feel for me, my game is loose or atleast not the high value alpha game. More of a connect emotionally and then escalate sexually in congruence to that sort of game. I still bang within a few dates and am redpilled overall but I also know my game isnt what it should be. I feel this happens because I was a virgin up until last year at 26 and grew up with a scarcity mentality, living with parents, low SMV but strong inner game and in a conservative prude third world country… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | New girl, LMR, self conscious about her body and my ED?Hey. Did you manage to diagnose and solve the root of your problem? Is it still an issue for you? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | New girl, LMR, self conscious about her body and my ED?I get hard perfectly fine lately even without Cialis and get good morning wood. I take 10mg just to be on the safer side. I doubt doubling the dose will help Already meditate too. Not regularly because I can't find the time for it but I should do it daily Therapy idk man. Everything works fine after the initial anxiety wears off. It's only the first 2-3 times that things are rough | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | New girl, LMR, self conscious about her body and my ED?You mean Viagra lasts only 4 hours. Cialis lasts a couple of days | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | New girl, LMR, self conscious about her body and my ED?I also pop half a cialis pill with a new girl but that doesnt help either because I am afraid its more mental than physical. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 08:11 AM |
| 1 | I feel really jittery, uneasy and unfocused if I don't meet no girl even for a couple of daysRecondition your body to work on who you are as a person rather than what you can stick your dick in. Which is exactly what I'm struggling at. Even if I do go out with my mates or boardgaming or music gigs, the next day I feel just as jittery and withdrawal symptoms. I am also with good girls I have connections with. Both have a great career and are artistic, well read too. How do I recondition myself to not lose the drive for life while also not losing the drive from women? I want a balance. I … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I feel really jittery, uneasy and unfocused if I don't meet no girl even for a couple of daysI want to but not able to. That's the gist of it the post I made actually | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Alright. Done | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Also stop accepting « I’ll let you know « Yes I've been getting quite a few of those. What's the best way to deal with the I'll let you knows? | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Thanks. Definitely using this double booking strategy henceforth | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?You didn't sound like a dick at all to me. I've gotten that before that I'm too serious on texts. And your opinions sounds good like a couple of other people have mentioned. If they ditch once or twice without serious efforts to reschedule, then it's a next | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Yes please. That would be helpful | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?I'm from a third world country so sadly wit, humor doesn't fly well here. Although I do start with a lot more spark than this and I'm also not inclined to put a ton of effort in texting given how flakey the women are | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Except she never did and we never met | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Alright. Thanks man. So hypothetically when you double book. Do you cancel/postpone the date at 10 if the one at 7 shows up? One flake is fine,too many from one woman is a sign she has you on the back burner. Noted. Will drop a girl to back burner if she flakes more than once or twice and doesn't take the initiative to set up a date from her side | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Seems like you aren't giving off much of a spark vibe I do initially. I start off with a very fun and humorous vibe and good conversation Hard to tell but maybe you're overpursuing? If a woman flakes and she doesn't offer an alternative then I actually don't offer another date. She's simply not interested bro. If she wants anything it's on her to come back. Yes I too feel I'm currently overpursuing. I'll stop this. This is a double edged sword though because to girls it probably is not a big dea… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Getting matches & numbers on dating apps but the same are not turning into dates. Opinions & change of strategy?Text chain? Each one of them is a different girl. Those are 5 different chats with 5 different girls | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Dating lawyers, advocates or women in authority?More than the shit testing my concern is if they seek revenge after breakup or so | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 09:20 AM |
| 6 | Ideal diet for better erections?Seems to be like every other cherry picked Go Vegan documentary | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Ideal diet for better erections?I dont watch porn at all | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Ideal diet for better erections?the viagra diet Tried Cialis. Works well most of the time. But sometimes I'm erect a 110% on it and sometimes say like 85%. So ofcourse there seems to be other factors at play. I feel diet is one of them and I'm looking to fix it Edit: Also EQ is a direct indication of heart health. So I feel one should be equipped with the right knowledge for that | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Ideal diet for better erections?Diet isn't going to do shit for you EQ seems to be a good indicator of heart health but I disagree diet not playing a role Start a cardio routine Already do. I lift heavy everyday and walk for about 5-7 kms everyday. Sometimes its a slow leisure walk, sometimes HIIT style running to get the heart pumping but the routine is already in place Also occasionally drink beet juice. On a supplement routine of vit d3 5k iu, k2, mag, zinc I don't have bad EQ but its not ideal either. Alright in the bed to… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 06:49 AM |
| 7 | What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom?Noted. Thank you for sharing | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom?Good point. Another thing that is coming to my mind as I go through all the replies is to account for how good or bad she is overall. If she's bad at everything, next. If she's fairly decent at most thing and has a good attitude but is bad at a thing or two, coach her. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 04:57 PM |
| 2 | What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom?Perfect. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 04:21 PM |
| 15 | What to do with girls who are bad in the bedroom?If she isn’t experienced and doesn’t know what to do, maybe coach her. Tell her what she’s doing right, and to do it more. I experienced two instances of this. Both of them were inexperienced. More than 'a doesn't know what to do', it was a case of 'does not want to do'. Maybe my SMV was low, maybe it was them being feminized, maybe it was them being inexperienced, I dont know the cause was but both were bad in bed, reluctant to give a blowjob at first and when they did give head, it was below p… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/19 04:06 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Confusing fail at her placeI'm sorry to hear that. Hope you find some way out or atleast make the best of the current situation | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 05:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Confusing fail at her placeWhy is a lady like that your wife? Why are you married in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 04:52 PM |
| 10 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?Thanks Sherlock | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?That's exactly the plan. Looking at cheap places in South East Asia, eastern Europe, Russia and south america | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 02:13 PM |
| 13 | Is it just me, or are Indian/"brown" girls particularly shit-testy and overtly hypergamous?What a timely post. Indian here and would like to share my perspective on this and so wanted to vent on this topic. Firstly u/xsealand21 's reply is so on point. What he has said in the comment took me a long while to come to realization for my self and it is very true. The gender ratio is about 48% female and 52% male but even get as bad as 45% female and 55% male in a lot of parts of the country including cities. This is bad in itself. Now in this 45% percent or so, a large large percent of th… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Can someone have a look at my Tinder profile and share a few critiques and pointers?Thank you. Decided to not share the links and dox myself based on this comment. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Can someone have a look at my Tinder profile and share a few critiques and pointers?I already do. Looking at tinder as a supplement to my day game. Not a replacement. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Arguing with a feminist. Don't. You don't get paid for it.I'll one up on that 48 Laws of Power: Win Through Your Actions - Never Through Argument | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | So the weirdest shit happened to me today during and after having sex with my GFThank fucking god. Only sane answer in the entire thread. Everyone is screaming cheating but no I think it's a good thing. Maybe she missed him. Maybe emotions built up or pent. Not saying cheating is not a possibility but I highly doubt it. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys really just ignore it when girls send you selfies of themselves?Noice | /r/askTRP | 04/06/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Is left earring gay or is I right earMy name Borat. Welcome to Jackass | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 09:57 PM |
| 10 | "who's dick is that?" during sex by ltrHR Dept: "Who's dick is that?" | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Unmarried couples living apart have the highest levels of sexual satisfaction while married couples are among the least satisfied, finds a new German study (n=3,207) of sexual satisfaction among seven relationship-status groups. Only unmarried individuals with no partner scored lower than married.I have heard this thing a lot of times. Could you explain what should be the correct method to setup the research such that we don't end up with the correlation proves causation fallacy? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Conflict between the love we want to be loved vs the way women can love usExactly my point. Hence my question why desire something like this? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Conflict between the love we want to be loved vs the way women can love usPaging /u/whisper and /u/IllimitableMan. Would appreciate your replies if you consider this a worthwhile discussion | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Got laid for the first time. Very 'meh' experience.Fair enough | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Got laid for the first time. Very 'meh' experience.Yes I used condoms. I couldn't even tell if I was inside her when I penetrated her and when I flopped out | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Fuck this hurts so badLooking at the other posts under the rant/vent tag, it seems they offer something useful to learn from along with the rant. OP's post does not provide any such value. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/19 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Fuck this hurts so badThis does not belong here nor on asktrp. I know the want to vent because I often feel like that. Not having the right place or people to vent to. So instead, be a man about it and accept and move on. Congratulations on the bitter truths and realities that you discovered for yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/19 02:21 PM |
| 1 | My experience in an Austrian brothel: a totally different worldWhy did you delete it off the main sub? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Whenever I play games with this girl I'm dating, I win almost all the time. Is her losing all the time just making her feel bad?How much free time do you have on your hand that you are playing multiple types of casual games with her, both old and new, on a regular repeated basis with her? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | My experience in an Austrian brothel: a totally dfferent worldStill expensive though. Once more countries legalize it/more competition and the prices come down then definitely a viable option. I am such a cheap fuck, spending $20 for 8 hours at a hotel (yes I'm from third world) for sex and cuddling with my gf seemed expensive to me. Maybe 500 euros is not much for you guys, but us in the third world it feels like a ridiculous price. Normal dating and sex ends up being much cheaper for us. I know this post is not for people like me but still | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/19 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Workout question: as a man, how do I build an attractive butt?In pussy | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 01:30 PM |
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