Barefootrunner101 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Before the divorce I had to sell off my musical career to pay bills. Here is the last picture of 30 years of being a musician. The day the music died (for me). Now what?		Barefootrunner101	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/20 09:42 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Looking into calling it quits Who cares how much it costs financially. 22 years of hell then your dead. She’ll find another simp real quick	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 03:21 PM
10	Feels like the last 8 years was a hypocrisy You’re just a patsy for her. She targeted you to support her now she wants some more stuff	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/24 03:09 AM
7	It’s crazy how little rights we have have as fathers. The most important thing is that she finds some other idiot to torment. A fresh new hell awaits you everyday until she is gone	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/24 11:08 PM
2	Divorce coping This was well thought out Chris. Thank you	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/24 02:59 AM
1	I’m frightened That’s what they do... I’m sorry for you, but happy your out cause your life will turn aground. Mine did... oh boy did she go after me, but the best thing is going to sleep at night with out her there to comfort me and make me forget the hell. Had to wake you up the next day.... I’m sooo happy now.. broke but happy!!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/11/20 06:17 PM
-1	WhatsApp divorce support group for men Zoosk is a dating app with loose women. You d highly advise getting back in the horse	/r/Divorce_Men	16/11/20 08:18 PM
-4	Wife told me she was a lesbian and here comes the divorce Thank Alissa Milano and her MeeToo movement. Women have been running the game for a long time. That’s why they call it the oldest profession. Women after money and babies then see ya John, and who can blame them? Society treats women like shit and under pays them, enslaves them and trades them. I steal from the white man too if I were born a woman cause trying to make it with college and all that is a long shot It’s like Adam and Eve eating from the tree of knowledge... once you have the knowled…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/10/20 09:49 AM
-2	Has anyone divorced their wife due to her being infertile? I see someone in here doesn’t have kids and disagrees	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/20 10:39 PM
-6	Has anyone divorced their wife due to her being infertile? Ask any woman if they would feel more complete having a baby and being a mom than just being a woman. The whole point of a ovulation is to procreate so don’t come round here Karen. This a safe place for boys.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/20 10:35 PM
-12	Has anyone divorced their wife due to her being infertile? A woman is supposed to have babies. If she can’t, there’s a part of her that’s not participating at being fully woman. Once she realizes that she will freak the F out. Don’t tell her infertility is the reason. She’ll fight like hell to keep you. I went further than you and went through IVF fertility treatment and still got a divorce. It was exhausting and I thought of suicide often.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/20 09:56 PM
5	Asking for a divorce She’s trash. Have the city pick her up on Wednesday. Imagine what you can do with out her around.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/20 08:52 AM
1	What I wouldn’t give to know the Why You guys are missing a huge thing. In addition to hormones and chemicals, women are extremely influenced by their peers. The “Mee Too” movement has made every woman a victim. Their sorority of hate puts pressure on isolated wives who want to be like their Instagram model friends... Society is telling women they don’t need us.. and what’s funny is that Trump has already installed over 200 federal judges that will take more of their rights over the next 20 years... The days of finding a nice quit …	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/20 03:16 AM
2	Thinking of leaving wife and kids but... Therapy hasn’t helped any couple I’ve ever met in my life. She’s lazy. Her moms lazy and your lazy. Either get out or get in... I would get out if your not happy	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/20 08:57 AM
2	Struggling Stop doing it. Move on... she knew what she was doing and is not your friend. She was a frienemy... she thought you were dumb and that she had your number. She’ll keep doing it and it’s not worth your time or life.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/20 08:49 AM
2	Need to know how to protect myself in dovorce Just give her the car and save money on the side to pay for something cash. Then she’ll owe you. I’m military and if I had not got everything completed before 10 years she would have got my pension here in California. Don’t wait.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/20 05:54 AM
7	Quality of life post divorce worries I would give different advice. File for bankruptcy. Spend all your cash or save it in cash and plan to loose everything. She’s going to live better than you because if gender discrimination and you have to adjust your ego. Life isn’t fair. She’s going to end on top for a while. Move on, get laid so you can get your mind off it and start looking for hobbies that have nothing to do with all this to get your mind off it... it takes years to recover but you can do it	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/20 03:55 PM
-1	Best books on Divorce for men...? The Bible. The alchemist by Paulo cuhelo. You could write your own thoughts and work out is the beat thing.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/20 05:17 AM
1	Seeking budget tool to learn how I should be prepared budget if I end up single again Why don’t you untuck your balls and go for her half.. women do it every day.. they take us for money then blame us for having a heart attack. You won’t need to budget because you’ll have nothing. Keep your cash and spend what you want. They usually destroy us, our bank account, everything until we wisen up	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/20 05:15 AM
1	Forgetting and Letting Go of HER expectations It’s easy.. she’s a bitch. She’s got you in her web.... struggle to get out?.... only if you use your brain... gotta get out	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/20 05:12 AM
1	Before the divorce I had to sell off my musical career to pay bills. Here is the last picture of 30 years of being a musician. The day the music died (for me). Now what? I “sold” all the gear so this is all I had. My neighbor down the street took it so my e if I ever get an instrument again I can visit. No use having a musical chair with no instruments	/r/Divorce_Men	05/06/20 05:00 AM
1	What constitutes separation in California? Not just that, I’m a veteran so she would get free healthcare, education, and disability the rest of her life paid by tax payers. You!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/20 04:16 PM
4	What constitutes separation in California? Yeah bro.. your stuck with the life time gig cause you don’t have the balls the get this all done in 6 months. That would take leaving her. Dealing with all that, courts and hopefully not but probably lawyers. I would love to tell you different but you have to file paper work and actually separate. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. If you can sell everything fast and you want to, then do it.. but no way she’s going to let you off the hook in California. My wife planned the same strategy a…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/20 05:19 AM
2	Calling the lawyers tomorrow. You sound like her trickery has taken a toll on you. Lots of girls don’t want their hair in the internet. Not! Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	13/04/20 05:51 AM
1	Start of divorce Counseling doesn’t help.. so the good years are going over.. be happy you had them and enjoy the memories. Guys will come and go with her.. eventually she’ll find someone uglier than you who will put up with her shit. That’ll drive you mad for a bit, but be grateful. The stress of being with her will make you die young, then she’ll have some other old man to sponsor her. He’ll sit in your chair, screw your wife, and put his feet in the table. She’ll spend your money and your life will be a memor…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/19 05:15 PM
1	Hell my fellow divorced bachelors. Ex is in an emotionally bound. Should I intervene? I used to think that way.. then I went to war and got my ears blown off.... I’m still a god man but everyone else thinks I’m a freak... don’t place your values higher than your sense of survival	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/19 05:07 PM
1	Hell my fellow divorced bachelors. Ex is in an emotionally bound. Should I intervene? Continue being a Goodman. I just think your worth more than all that. I was the same with my ex till long time later when I realized how much I was giving her was draining me	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/19 03:47 AM
2	Hell my fellow divorced bachelors. Ex is in an emotionally bound. Should I intervene? Asking her to honor onto things provides a huge connection and pretends that’s she responsible when she’s not. Adult decisions can only be made when YOU decide to stop pretending. There are 3 roles of abuse. The victim, the persecuted, the rescuer. If you are any of those, you are in an abusive relationship. Tied finances is an excuse to justify actions that are contradictory to your mental health. Slaves had lots of financial responsibilities to their masters yet they still figured out how to c…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/19 06:12 PM
4	Hell my fellow divorced bachelors. Ex is in an emotionally bound. Should I intervene? I can’t get all the way through your thread because it reminds me too much of the drama being married.... I’d say your still too close to her cause you write like bitch. Keep getting more distance until you write like a man so the rest of us can understand you and help. It’s good to care for others.... but keep growing .. your still caught up in her con webs of drama	/r/Divorce_Men	20/12/19 05:13 PM
2	Wife wants a divorce due to no connection. There’s someone out there who would worship you... dump her trite shallow boney ass and get with your future wife.. drop this couch potato Netflix jerk who wants a better man... your the best she can get with her dry personality..	/r/Divorce_Men	17/12/19 06:41 AM
1	Almost divorced Why mess the process up cause of a few bucks. She’s going to loose that job anyway.. stay the course honey... the price of freedom is too much Also... what’s her phone number?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/19 07:43 AM
1	Wife asked for a separation, what now? Your acting like a victim and your the persecuter... so cheaters always cheat... FYI so the next time you cheat in the next girl, you have to live with the guilt. First you cheated, then you wanted to get it off your chest and told her? Next time live with the guilt. She’s taken enough from you. I hope she stays away from you and find someone who loves themselves. Counselors don’t work, just hard work.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/19 07:37 AM
3	Happy it’s over and I have full control of my life without the fear of having another man’s child or divorce rape . Happy I played it smart and cool and initiated the paper work first . Happy I didn’t let my anger get the better of me . Gentlemen plan your escape , execute , and stay leveled. Congratulations for your freedom	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/19 01:48 AM
0	Shell of who I once was You might have been a jerk. Are you still one? Dreaming about someone else living your life? Grow up.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/12/19 02:54 AM
1	marriage not recorded She sounds like an idiot and cute... lol... my kind of match...	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/19 06:43 PM
3	marriage not recorded What’s her phone number?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/19 03:03 AM
1	Parental alienation is very real People come and go.. men die young... we’re here to be used and discarded like how we make others feel	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/19 03:25 PM
1	Costs her nothing. Me: I'm going to have to file for Bankruptcy As long as women make less than men they will continue to try to gain resources to balance their inequality.... since that’s not going to happen anytime soon.... Stay single. Don’t marry. File bankruptcy and start over now	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/19 04:48 PM
1	I gave up today also, or rather, I opened my eyes. Yes! Congratulations... you’ll feel so much better real soon... I promise	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/19 06:53 AM
1	How to bring up divorce with wife? Counselors don’t work....trust me.. just start planning for war... you’ll have to rebuild your life... your little Desiree for freedom means she has to completely start over her life too .. So don’t blame her when gets more than half.. you have your opportunity to plan now.. if your a nice guy and see what she thinks about it... what do you think she would do?.. Imagine she came home and said “I was thinking about getting some fat cock cause yours is soo old and gross... but I didn’t want to hur…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/19 06:50 AM