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| – | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardIf women wanna shame men for wanting younger women? Thats fine. But the same women must be okay with men shaming them for wanting guys that are 6'0+ and make over 100k a year. Either both are okay or they are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 10:57 PM |
| 17 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.I feel so bad for that guy. Probably thought the found the "one" only for her to reveal her true colors when she trapped him. Yet some women and even some white knights men will downplay or even outright defend this type of predatory behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:23 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingLooks like this post is being brigaded by women and white knights. Men were constantly told for the past 30 years of this spiel "Just be yourself, be respectful to women, have a good career and make good money, you will find yourself a decent woman" Men did their best and even when trying to start a relationship with a women on their "level' they were outright rejected or jerked around by a woman who didn't want a relationship but liked the attention. It's a open secret many women are constantly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 06:05 PM |
| 11 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.As a gay guy (or at least a BI guy with male preference) don't you think as a lesbian you may not be able to completely gauge a hetero man's feelings? It's a bit of a open secret that some modern women have somewhat unrealistic standards compared to men. Which end at the usual Don't be too fat Don't have a weight around your ankle like huge debt or a kid under 5. Be respectful, honest, and loyal Vs women who have a sad tendency to shoot their shoots for the same guy who is usually 6'0+ Makes ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenI will that when it comes to race and dating? Menare at least somewhat more accepting. I see more white men with black women then I see white women with asian men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:04 AM |
| 7 | Every Man Can be in the Top 20% to WomenIndian men are downright not even thought of human by some women. Asian men? Unless they look like K-Pop stars, they are invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themThat's fine. But I do wish that women would realize that men value youth just like how women value height and status from men. If you're 35 and you try to hit up a guy your age that has an amazing career, mature, and being easy on the eyes? Don't get too upset if he ignores you and chats up that 27 year old sitting across the bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:24 PM |
| – | American men are becoming disinterestedHarsh but true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Most Marriages Need Systematic Cultural, Societal and Economic Constraints to SurviveWasn't there a issue of Swedish men marrying women from outside of the country? I believe it's still going on at the moment in time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/25 10:01 PM |
| 4 | This subreddit is all about statistics until it makes men look bad.Some people don't like to talk about female on male or female on female abuse for some reason... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 05:31 PM |
| 14 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.Toxic masculinity does exist... but so does toxic feminity. We need men and woman to help keep each other in balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 04:43 PM |
| 3 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenIt is when a good chunk of women have unrealistic standards. That graph from OK Cupid where women rated 80% of men as under average, speaks volumes of which gender needs a ego check and which one needs a ego boost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 10:21 PM |
| 74 | Everything I want but he's a Trumper.The amount of average of looking guys with decent jobs that would literally DIE for their woman? Are thought as doing the bare minium. Yet the stud that is 6'2 with a dead end job and doesn't care is usually given a free pass by these types. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/05/24 04:56 PM |
| 86 | “Why do top tier men ghost me?” Answer at the end.Typical women wanting superman and clark kent walks by them all day long. Plenty of amazing guys would love to settle down with but because he is a bit short or his job/career pays well but isn't "flashy"? He gets ignored and even mocked. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/05/24 07:16 PM |
| – | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?For starters? UNREALISTIC STANDARDS. If a guy comes out or here and says he wants a girl that is 5'4, 23 years old and be a stay at home mom? Chances are quite a few people will call him out and say he deserves to be alone. But for a woman? If she says she wants a guy that makes over 100k or more a year, has a house, while being is 6'0+? There is a higher chance people will wither support her or at the worst ignore it. Here is an awful example on height (and of course its Bumble) https://www.evi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 06:55 PM |
| 59 | Fooled him for 5 years, then finds out child is not his. I can’t understand why he is upset? Why are men so self-centered? - by u/mustangfrankYou lied to him for 5 years and believe it or not? Men want to continue their lineage, not support some other random guy you fucked with. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/04/24 03:23 PM |
| 9 | Women shame men for having preferences that they (women) can easily meet.There are some double standards when it comes hetero men and women having standards. Woman can ignore or even mock a guy for his height and no one bats an eye. But if a man blows a woman off for the size of her breasts or her weight (which she can change) some people are almost ready to fight. Thankfully with the internet people are starting to become more aware of this and are calling both sides out. But yes you are allowed ti have "standards" but when it comes to things that man/women have lit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 60 | Funny how older women encourage younger women to be independent and make their own choices except for when they date older men. Man exposes how this is infantilization.So many women over 30 (especially over 40) are now jealous they aren't young and beautiful anymore. We all know or heard of a story of a 18 to 21 year old girl in class dating a guy that was close to 30. But now that the tables have been flipped? They can't stand it. Being a young beautiful woman is playing life on easy mode, but it doesn't last forever. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/01/23 06:40 PM |
| – | Even the most average girl still expects you to “woo” and convince her you are worthy of her attention, and this is why even above average men have grown tired and many even given up on actively datingThe main fucking problem is all the dating websites and I say this as a gay (or at the very least a bisexual with a male preference) Especially Tinder and Bumble. But I do feel that OP has a point. https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/cigdei/okcupid_study_compared_with_tinder_study/ But seriously though? Get off or take a break from dating websites. Some of the people you see are likely in the top 1% of attractiveness and/or lifestyles. It can mess with your self esteem and perception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:42 AM |
| 40 | Coping as an inspin, step 1: buy a dog. Step 2...What is she expecting? Sympathy? Does she not know of the millions of men who are ignored by the rest of the western world? Why else do you think most of the people complaining about the quarantine and being lonely were women? I mean have you heard the stories of men getting compliments from random women and remembering it for years? Suck it up buttercup. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/03/22 10:12 PM |
| 38 | Lots of negative energy here! Sounds like this ladúsach needs some… Reiki!Why do women(especially short women, 5'0 and under) think that their future sons will get their dad's height of 6'0 an over? It's entirely possible her first boy will end up 5'5 and then her daughter ends being 5'10. Genes don't work like those shitty romance novels they read all day. No your kids are most likely not gonna inherit his green eyes, your thick wavy hair, his plump lips, and your flawless skin. Never mind that fact genes can and do skip a generation. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 28 | Beach bailed before bells because bliss boulevard became beyond beguiling, building bitterness - boring beau better bivouacWhen she hits her 40's? I have a feeling she is gonna regret it even more and this guy will end up being "the one that got away" From what I have seen here? I already feel more bad for the guy than this woman and her shallow interests. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/01/22 08:22 AM |
| 29 | 'Why would we want warmth?' Wicked wife wonders what went wrong with wedlock.So is this what you guys mean about a woman's "tingles"? I feel so sorry for this guy, as he might be feeling like he found his one in a million woman and she secretly feels like this!? The stuff of nightmares. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/11/21 08:31 PM |
| 38 | Literally "As I get older, my standards INCREASE and I avoid red flags, but I feel no attraction"This sub is making both prepared and nervous about dating. But on more serious note? When people say "chemistry"? What they it really to say, This guy is intelligent, kind, trustworthy and can help me with all of my needs but not all of my wants. Just be more honest people! It will save many of us from heartache. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/11/21 04:33 AM |
| 40 | "How do I tell my rich and successful guy friend who has been pursuing me for years that I will never date him because he's not Chad?", says the woman in her 30s.I hate how a man is thought as unworthy if he can supply a woman all of her NEEDS but not her WANTS | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/10/21 06:05 PM |
| 19 | Smokes weed everyday but don’t you dare ask her to smoke and chill.I merely see a bunch of red flags here. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Who's the incel now? (A warning to white knights)Oh. So this is where that "fried ice" comment came from! I wish I could give you silver or gold my friend, but reddit awards are simply not worth it. So have these instead and thanks for soon to be legendary term for the contradictory feelings and desires woman have. 🏅🥇🏅 | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/06/21 02:30 AM |
| 28 | He's perfect... But I gets no tingles 😢This classy lady will come to regret her decision in a year or two. Not only guy has to have all these amazing qualities... but he has to be "exciting" on top of that!? The 30's are gonna be really interesting when all this attitude comes crashing down and marriage rates plummet. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/06/21 05:30 AM |
| 13 | Women: “You must have a lot of money because I know my worth!” Also women:Lol woman don't care if the guy is a bastard. As long as he is tall,handsome, and makes great money. Why else would 50 shades of grey be so popular with the ladies? Imagine if the guy was 5'2 300 pounds and lived in his mother's basement? The movie would have become a horror film. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/06/21 08:50 PM |
| 2 | People are allowed to have ridiculously high standards if they want to, even if it doesn't suit your own tastes.This sub is basically r/enlightenedcentrism with the usual reddit crowd pretending to be neutral but once again putting the finger to one side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 07:13 AM |
| 14 | Speaks for itselfEven when picking a man women feel the need to one up each other and at the same time seek approval. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/05/21 05:33 PM |
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