| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Anger is spiraling out of control. | BaronVonNrx | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 01:36 PM | |
| 4 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas) | BaronVonNrx | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 04:19 AM | |
| 3 | Need help | BaronVonNrx | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 04:18 PM | |
| 2 | Monk mode | BaronVonNrx | /r/askMRP | 20/03/17 03:04 PM | |
| 2 | Asking for nudes | Basic Question | BaronVonNrx | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Stage 2-3 sex question | BaronVonNrx | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 04:03 PM | |
| 0 | Getting over oneitis? | BaronVonNrx | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 03:46 PM |
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| 1 | Sudden lack of a Driven MindsetNo I said naturally as in eating lots of celery, broccoli white cap mushrooms etc | /r/askMRP | 18/01/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Sudden lack of a Driven MindsetI’ve been trying to naturally raise my T for years now. Heavy lifting Pine pollen Aromatase inhibitors by the handful Vitiman D Zinc Turmeric Etc At this point I am tired of shit tier results and always fighting the low libido and depression it’s a real struggle with the job I have. At this point I am just ready to blast T | /r/askMRP | 18/01/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | No time for lifting?I home gym it at 9:00pm Guys that wake up at 5 something, when do you sleep? | /r/askMRP | 07/11/17 06:48 PM |
| 3 | No, Plastics Are Not Lowering Your Testosterone Levels - Real Science Explained InsideThe problem is that is that society as directed(by media, academia, corporations etc) has apparently no desire to find a solution for lowering sperm counts and lowered testosterone in western men. It is not much of a leap to conclude that it's intentional. (As demographic displacement of the founding stock of western countries by third world immigrants is an obvious objective) as is creating a more docile male population. There is a massive demand within the male community for increased testoste… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Weight loss AdviseI get that, I've never taken them myself, just as a forum that focuses on the physical so much I am surprised it's not discussed more. | /r/askMRP | 28/03/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Weight loss AdviseIt just gets harder and harder as you age. With all he talk about lifting and upping one's physical smv I am surprised test and steroids aren't discussed more here. | /r/askMRP | 28/03/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Feel you've been lied to? Who do you blame?Traditional western Christian society was built up to control the baser (and very harsh) nature of females in order to make civilization work. Those traditions were dismantled by commie Marxists in a goal for world power. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/17 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Foreplay while caveman-fucking?I've found that girls want someone to show them what to do.. i.e. moving their hands where you want them, moving their bodies around, not giving them an opportunity to think about what they may need to be doing. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 04:54 PM |
| 13 | Sex tips for beginners?If you want throat cancer I guess. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/17 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Pulling your hand and joining in the toilet?Girls talk, men act. She put her hands on you, put your hands on her. Say something about how cute she looks, then make fun of her about something. Keep it simple, physically escalate, don't waste time as it will get awkward. Take her hand then lead her somewhere more isolated then start kissing her. They are giving you an open invitation, this is a literal fuck me now type sign. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Pulling your hand and joining in the toilet?You don't ask, you just start doing it, pretend you have been there before. You get hard no's then stop. A girl doesn't put herself in the bathroom with you unless she wants you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Pulling your hand and joining in the toilet?"in the end" "I asked" You already blew it by then and just kept blowing it | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 05:48 PM |
| 9 | Pulling your hand and joining in the toilet?JFC.. look these girls think you are hot as fuck. They are going out of their way to get alone with you. A normal man would figuratively rape their willing body. However you are clueless so they instead feel awkward and realize you are beta as fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Wife is starting bc pills today...My wife a was dried up moody cunt on birth control. Get her on as low levels as possible is my advice. | /r/askMRP | 07/03/17 08:10 PM |
| 0 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?Perverted comments early are a great way to polarize. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 06:14 AM |
| 2 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?Meh, it's light rail. | /r/seduction | 07/03/17 06:05 AM |
| 21 | How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive?Be attractive and confident. the other day I was on a business trip. I had been at a boring bar got drunk and was waiting for the light rail. A girl across the tracks asked me how my night was. Well this got my attention she was probably a 6. Anyway, I told her I was drunk as fuck and that she has really nice tits. I then walked across the tracks to her said she was super cute and started putting my hands on her. She immediately invited me to smoke pot at her apartment. Simple as that. Be attrac… | /r/seduction | 06/03/17 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Millennials are 48% more likely to have sex before a first date"About equal". Are you high? It's 90/10 rule..basically 90% of the women are fucking and 10% of the men, which comes to 1/2. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Millennials are 48% more likely to have sex before a first dateWhat a nightmare modernity has become. Women with more than 10 sexual partners can't stay married and are far more likely to be unable to conceive due to pelvic inflammation during their sloot years. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Talking - why you shouldn't do it and why you sometimes shouldThings are actually quite good. Sex frequency is up, actually had the wildest sex we have ever had in our 20 years just last week. I've realized that everything is on me, she isn't like the typical wives in this sub. I have zero respect for women as a gender and think they should be completely disenfranchised, but with that said, my wife is an exception to the rule which I tried to explain before. Anyway I've internalized certain behaviors, how I deal with shit tests etc that have made them disa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why Does This Work? [Online Dating]Saying "No hookups" implies that you have had lots of hookups and you're past that. You are signaling high value and pre-selection. | /r/seduction | 01/11/16 10:03 PM |
| 1 | So, this just happened. How did i handle it? (Picture)"Don't objectify me." Are you a male feminist or something? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/16 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Uncontacted Amazonian Tribe Member Gets a Girl...Goes Hunting...Girl Sleeps With His BrotherFamily forming and buy in by beta males into a tribe/nation etc is a basic requirement for civilization. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 05:08 PM |
| 20 | Uncontacted Amazonian Tribe Member Gets a Girl...Goes Hunting...Girl Sleeps With His BrotherIf you do not control female hypergamy you won't have civilization. We are where we are today because societies did control female nature to a degree. We are experiencing the degeneration of civilization because all restraints on female nature are being removed. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Question about sex with the wife?"She knows I won't cheat on her." This is your problem imo, this isn't approved MRP and I got shit on because of it, but this is a problem I had. Imo dread does not work if your wife knows you won't divorce her no matter what. Imo you must make it known that you are willing to break things off. I am not saying threaten her or make an ultimatium, I am just saying she needs to understand that you now see cheating/divorce as an option you are theoretically willing to exercise. Dread was having no a… | /r/askMRP | 19/09/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Talking - why you shouldn't do it and why you sometimes shouldIt wasn't a threat, it was an implied future possibility if our marriage stayed status quo. Look as I said, it was reframing the status of our marriage where divorce is a possible eventuality if things don't right themselves. I am a radical traditionalist and had expressed to my wife the disaster that is divorce for children for over a decade. I needed to reset the ground rules which I believe I have done. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/09/16 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Talking - why you shouldn't do it and why you sometimes shouldWithin that dichotomy I am much closer to #2 than #1. Also I didn't jump to level 10, I simply reframed the relationship we have (one where divorce was out of the question to one that divorce was a future possibility). My wife would never initiate divorce on her own I am 90% positive of that. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Talking - why you shouldn't do it and why you sometimes shouldyour greatest leverage which is? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Talking - why you shouldn't do it and why you sometimes shouldLook, my relationship has always been based on divorce not ever being an option. I was simply reframing the marriage as one that can and will end if things don't change. I didn't threaten her, it wasn't an empty threat, it was simply making it clear that I am willing to break up if things don't change to make me happy, I was not remotely emotional about it, I wasn't pleading, I was simply stating the facts of my position on the marriage. This is something I have never remotely touched. Now I fee… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/16 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Talking - why you shouldn't do it and why you sometimes shouldI plan on doing a write up after I have more time under my belt based on how my verba has turned out for me. With that said, I did have a talk with my wife. After running mostly up to stage 2 dread for 6 months to a year I had little to no response from my wife. I was stuck with the belief that dread would not work if my wife did not think that divorce would ever be an option I would consider(which I had made clear to her in he past). I felt that I needed to change this. After disconnecting from… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/09/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Well I already had a talk with her explaining my unhappiness and it's made me feel at peace and now I can move forward with my map. She had no clue that I was not happy with the state of the marriage she thought it was just a temporary thing because my mother is in town. I will provide an update after a while to see how it's worked out. It's been a relief for my sanity though. | /r/askMRP | 01/09/16 06:20 PM |
| 14 | Girlfriend wants to shave her headShort hair on women is cultural Marxist clap trap. Women are supposed to make themselves beautiful not ugly. It's part of the cult of the ugly. Next thing she will want to make her hair purple or green, get problem glasses and identify as pansexual. You need to put your foot down. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend wants to shave her headTell her if she shaves her head you are done with her, if she has a problem with that next her. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/16 10:11 PM |
| 2 | So, what's the average MRP captain's politics?Fashy, alt-right, reactionary | /r/askMRP | 30/08/16 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Yes I've gotten IOIs in front of my wife but she never worried about me whatsoever because I was against divorce on principle. She would have hadto see me with my dick in a girl to get the picture. I didn't lay out any ultimatums but I did tell her I wasn't happy with the state of our relationship and would continue to work on myself to make it better. I told her that I can't control her I can only control my self. I implied that if I can't fix the relationship to meet what I expect that divorce… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/16 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Anger is spiraling out of control."Trial separation," dude as I have been trying to point out, my wife didn't even have a clue that I had a problem with the state of the marriage. Still people claim I am wrong and that "of course she knows." Well I had "the talk," with her last night and she was completely caught by surprised as I expected. I'll make a post about it once I see what becomes of it, good or bad. My important question still stands. Does dread work if the wife doesn't think divorce is ever on the table? I was making … | /r/askMRP | 30/08/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Framing the topic of anger spiraling out of control implies that it's an acknowledged problem does it not? | /r/askMRP | 30/08/16 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I want her to know that our relationship is broken enough that I am making it my goal to fix it. I want her to know that status quo is no longer acceptable to me. I want her to know that this is my mission and if it fails we are done. I want her to feel invested in its success. I accept that she likely won't change much of her behavior. I do want her to know that there is a clock ticking somewhere however. Anytime in 21 years if I tried to talk about problems in our relationship, she would go si… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Thanks I do need to kill my ego. The thought of divorce has really sent me down a bad road. I don't want to negotiate with my wife, I don't expect her even to say anything(she won't). She'll cry. I just want to tell her that shit is broken and needs to be fixed. I need to think about your suggested approach. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Anger is spiraling out of control.My close friend left a year ago but is coming back next month which will help. I need to develop more friends. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Thanks for your full response The existential dread required for sexual urgency is just too great for some women, and if yours gets too high she'll just implode, let you leave, and find somebody else to be comfortable with. I believe this is very very very very likely. She doesn't dread losing me because there has been absolutely no threat of me leaving, ever. I also do not believe she has the slightest idea as to how to make me want to stay if I wanted to leave. My wife never dated anyone befor… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I was doing well handling shit tests either AandA or STFU until I realized that I have to put divorce on the table. Since I've done this my anger has been exploding internally and I yes I am DEERING all over the place. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I intend to continue with my dread schedule, I just need my wife to understand that I am heading to the exits and its up for her to make me want to stay. I feel like I am heading for the exit and she won't ever know I am leaving until I am gone.(I would rather it not ever get that far for my kids sake) Her father just up and left her mom one day and caught her mother completely off guard. I think my wife would be the same. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I had 2 twenties in my wallet the attendant didn't have change $20s. As for her wallet I don't know where that came from. My wife gets pissy about the most ridiculous shit. She is just being testy for tiny reasons just as I am getting angry because our confrontations have been building and there has been no resolution to any of them. I don't think I am pesky but she is getting for testy about if I touch her stuff. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Will dread work if she doesn't believe I would ever divorce her? | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I think she would freak out if she lost me, she is an introvert and knows I make her life magnitudes easier than most men would. She very much enjoys the situation she is in and knows how bad single mothers have it. She is just comfortable and thinks things are fine as is. I believe she values me but doesn't believe she has to pay for what I bring to the table. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Yes I am angry at myself and the situation I have put myself in and my anger is getting worse. I control my emotional tantrums externally but internally I am having trouble. I don't scream or yell but I did tell her I was very angry which I haven't done in probably a decade. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.Well I do have a winter hobby, I ski. I believe I have game, I am in sales and can make friends I just don't like to. I understand I need more hobbies and more friends and need to learn how to have fun. Just the other night I told my wife to meet at a local bar after I got off work. I gamed the bartender and had her fumbling her words, forgetting what she was supposed to do, giving me special treatment and giving me IOIs. I also struck up conversations with 5 other people.(give me a cookie). Thi… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.It's officially 18 in my state; my children prefer me by a large margin and it would devastate them. But your right I haven't developed a divorce plan. The idea of divorce is going to scare the crap out of my wife she would never go through it herself ever. I need to have a serious talk to her so we can fix things together or I move on myself. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 02:52 PM |
| 0 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I am having a very hard time killing my relationship, this is me struggling with that process. I have an extreme aversion to divorce. "Love of my life." I just don't want to fuck up what I do have and risk fucking my kids over. Thanks for the bitch slap, I have to come to grips with accepting my relationship is dead and move forward. I came here too early most people have already had "talks" with there wives about their relationships to no avail far before these stages. I've never even had a tal… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Anger is spiraling out of control.I am still stuck at thinking that dread will not work if my wife doesn't believe that in the end I would be willing to leave her. I was handling shit tests much better when internally I never considered divorce as an option. Now that i am starting to believe it has to be an option, I am raging inside. Outside I am quite stoic outside of telling her I was angry at her, she doesn't know why. She had trouble sleeping tonight as did I, so I am sure she had to think of it some. I feel like she needs … | /r/askMRP | 29/08/16 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)Yeah it certainly is funny, I just suppose I am not translating my situation well in my posts. | /r/askMRP | 28/08/16 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)I don't know what to make off this. We really aren't like that at all. | /r/askMRP | 27/08/16 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)She spent the last two days devastated and giving me the silent treatment with extreme butt hurt. She now knows I was angry at her which she likely had zero clue about. I concede how the framing looks bad for me here but I believe it was actually a good exchange and turned out in my favor. She thinks I didn't get her something cause I was angry and me acknowledging that shows that I am willing to say I disapprove of her behavior. I'll have to see how it goes when I see her later. I am still waff… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)I am not where I need to be so me not getting her a gift comes off as being lame. Also I have been with her over 20 years so I can't just naturally be alpha I have to work toward it. As for why I am being a better man I have always implied I was doing it for myself or trying to emulate the platonic form of what it is to be a Man. She has said I look fine and don't need to go to gym. I ignore and continue implying it's for me or for someone else other than her. Women are children and should be tr… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)I don't see how, I flirt with girls that aren't my wife all the time. I am in sales and do quite well and feel I have always been at least better than avg at reading emotions. My wife is not a normal case. I know that sounds trite but I believe it to be true. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)There is no power play going on, I know you think there is but there isn't atleast by my mother. My mom says things in a way that many people take offense. It's like she has tourrets. You don't get mad at someone who has tourrets you just say, yeah she says means things, there is nothing to it other than that. My wife is being a pussy. I attempt to joke with my wife about the stupid things my mother says in order to diffuse and show that I agree with my wife that it's less than appropriate. Ther… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)Yeah I've read a lot and there are a lot of conflicting opinions on such issues. losing frame, exposing weakness Did I? It appears she thought she got nothing for her birthday because I am a doofus. She knows I like her. Now she knows I didn't get something for her because I was mad at her. I acknowledged my anger and explained that my anger shouldn't get in the way of certain obligations of respect etc. She knows I care about her and I should give a birthday gift to those I care about even if I… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)It's complicated; my mom isn't being a bitch my mom is being herself which makes my wife bitchy. My mom says things in a way that makes my wife crazy. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)I didn't and that's how I felt about it. But granted I am not where I need to be and essentially making her hate me for not fulfilling my role as a (dutiful blue pilled husband) doesn't do me any favors. So I sent her the follow up message about being mad at her and how I need to not be a child and letting my emotions dictate my actions. I think someone made a good point. She hears it from all her friends "what did you get, what did you get?" By her not getting anything it reflects bad on me and… | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)Lots of assumptions here. My "mommy" isn't bossing anyone. My "mommy" just says and does things in a fashion that irks my wife. They are quite innocuous in themselves. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)Thanks I sent her this I should have gotten you a gift, I was angry with you and see now how short sighted that was. It was an irrational way to act. I am working on being a better man; I should not let my emotions make me do something so childish to people I care about. She responded with this That's nice why were u mad I forget? Why r u up? I didn't respond it was 5:30 | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)I've been on my wife's side in regards to my mother. I hate obligation gift giving, but my significant other has ingrained expectations so it's always a disappointment for her when I get her jack squat. Granted we went to a very nice resteraunt. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)Not really, no. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)I agree totally about gifting, I hate obligation day, it's why I always fail so badly on such days. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)We went to the nicest resteraunt in town. I was pleasant and fun. She was being a rude bitch to me because my (visting mother) is being too honest about her opinions and is making my wife crabby and bitchy who then takes it out on me. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Giving gifts (birthday, anniversary, Xmas)She was being a bitch the last few days and I didn't feel like rewarding bad behavior and I generally just didn't care. I edited my original post to offer an honest response to her so if I get her a belated gift it's out of obligation not out of some weak place. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/16 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Asking for nudesWhy have you tolerated this for so long? Oneitis? Chivalry? Commitment? I am better than my parents who are on their 3rd marriage? Kids? Pride in not quitting? Learning to not care? Her fits like this don't happen that much but they are piling up at the moment because my mom is being more honest about her opinions than usual and because I am pushing back against her. I don't want to blow up my marriage because of my kids but I am entertaining the idea for the first time ever. | /r/askMRP | 25/08/16 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Asking for nudesI didn't help her with the Sandwhich because she was rude as fuck about it. All she has to do is say "Hey could you help" "Darn they put mayo on it, can you help" There are a million pleasant ways she could ask instead it was "Why didn't you offer to wipe it off?"followed by "So you can't wipe it off?" X2. Her tone was very rude. Essentially (hey asshole wipe it off). I am always polite and expect my kids to be polite, it's common curtesy even when angry. My point about her lack of apologizing i… | /r/askMRP | 25/08/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Asking for nudesAt the moment my wife is giving me silent treatment. She is very pissed off angry/sad, not sure. When my wife gets really upset she doesn't talk she sits or lays in bed and won't talk. If she were to talk she would just cry. She was angry at me about the screen door and some other things. It was particularly windy the other day. I didn't close the screen door completely as I was in a rush to work. Anyway she wanted to berate me about how I must make sure the screen door is closed. I said yeah wh… | /r/askMRP | 25/08/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Asking for nudesI think she is the 1%, of course I've asked for her smiling face and she sent me a pic she took with a niece days before. Or she will send me snap chat selfies with awkward filters. | /r/askMRP | 25/08/16 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Asking for nudesShe doesn't, it was a complete lack of effort; I should have said it was her foot still inside her sock and shoe. You're right though with your idea.. This is what I said back to her image. "Oh look at that sexy exposed ankle, sure is getting hot in here" And she responded with "Huh?" | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Asking for nudesThis is how I think my wife's mindset is on this topic. Sadly she spends 3 or so nights away from home so I would like to have some sexy banter with her. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Asking for nudesAlthough I am the only guy she has ever been with I have internalized that, if her favorite country star asked her to send nudes I am sure she would find a way. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Asking for nudesShe's extremely prudish and doesn't like her naked body so not sure she would do it even if she was absolutely crazy for me. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Asking for nudesI only said I don't want to after she has been rude and is acting bitchy and cold. I want her to act a certain way. She has prudish hang ups and doesn't seem to desire me but does do other things to show she is interested. She is always extremely wet when I initiate and patterns some of her behavior based on what I want (dress, hair). | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Asking for nudesIn the meantime don't ask for another fucking thing from her. Ok that's what I was looking for | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Stage 2-3 sex questionthe gift link On this note, my wife has shown some desire or intent to please me. I've told her how much I like long hair and she has spent the last 4 years growing it out. I've told her how much I like braids. She now braids her hair often. I've told her that women should dress femininely, wearing dresses etc. she made an attempt to buy some and wears some occasionally. I recently mentioned that she should get more piercings. (I didn't say where). She tried putting earrings in a second hole she… | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Stage 2-3 sex questionYeah that's fine, I was under the impression that I was supposed to be pushing for it. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Stage 2-3 sex questionI understand, I am in no way perfect and can improve but I am a very good model for my boys. They perceive their mother quite justifiably to be the one out of sorts. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Stage 2-3 sex questionThank you that was the answer I was looking for. I was under the impression that I am supposed to be initiating constantly. So I just do it when I want and if she says no act like I don't care one way or another. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Stage 2-3 sex questionSo if I don't feel like initiating cause of her attitude I don't? I've seen people comment that you should be initiating every day? | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Stage 2-3 sex questionI understand I am not attractive to her I am trying to work on that but who knows if I can succeed. We have three boys teen to toddler so it's tough logistically to do anything before they are in bed.. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting over oneitis?I am putting in the work what I am asking is can I be who I need to be if I am unable of being willing to let her go? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Getting over oneitis?No we are still married and l don't see us ever being divorced unless I initiate it, however she doesn't love/desire me she only likes me as a father. I need to become a man that she loves or leave her but I don't know if I could leave her because of my OP. Can I become the man I need to be if I can't be willing to break ties if need be? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Need helpPeople were clearly butt hurt about me using the term "plebs." As for the divorce comment, my point is that my wife knows that I don't believe in divorce, I am suggesting that I need to just make her know that divorce is not something I am against(in theory). Dread levels won't work if she knows I would never leave? My wife has seen me take drastic position changes before so I think I can pull it off. I am not suggesting I tel her that divorce is something I am considering for us as a couple now… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Need helpThank you; you get it. Yeah I am past nihilism. alone in Montana My kamarade is moving back next month so that will help. Iron strengthens iron it's why I tend to argue back. It seems pretty clear to me now that I need to convince my wife that divorce is no longer verboten and I need to clear level 3 dread which based on my personality is probably my biggest challenge. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Need helpWell my position on divorce has nothing to do with religion it's based on statistical analysis and granted my emotional inability to imagine my kids raised by another man. I do not believe that my wife would be willing to go through with a divorce however so that's not a big concern. The good news is that my intellectual position on divorce can change just as my past intellectual positions can and have changed when introduced to new information. So while continuing to escalate my dread I need to… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Need helpLook I am not trying to be an ass or anything, I am and continue to be honest about who I am. I am and was merely trying to understand where I stand in my relationship and how to fix it. I think I am a bit of a unique case. People came out swinging calling me a lying faggot. I want to fix my relationship but I do have hang ups about divorcing based on my positions on affects on my posterity(which clearly doesn't go over well here). I'll stop posting in my thread. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Need helpAre you suggesting that my intellectual position against divorce based on its affect on my children is rather me just hamstering to avoid having to deal with losing my wife? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Need helpI have told my wife many times over our relationship that divorce is not a road we would ever take. Will the normal progression of dread work if she knows I won't nuke the marriage? My question is do I need to condition her to think that divorce is on the table? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Need helpY'all are a sensitive lot, I don't get all the butt hurt. I am an elitist, I believe in human biodiversity, I am a mysogonist, I don't think women have agency, I think global warming is mostly a scam. I think women shouldn't have suffrage or generally the avg person at all. I said "plebs," who cares? I don't identity with the avg beer drinking, football obsessed person. I can but I have to put on an act. People like me exist, not everyone is the same. People are genetically different, am I allow… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Need helpYeah I did, i'am also a Monarchist. I don't jerk off. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Need helpThat article makes a very good point. I don't produce anything tangible. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Need helpThank you | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Need helpIt was a pol party with lots of her coworkers, I was referring to something more intimate. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Loss of Interest?When you stop fapping altogether you can lose libido for over a month sometimes longer. It will come back stronger than ever but you have to get through that period. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/16 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Need helpYou may be right but it was never an emotional statement it was an intellectual one. I am extremely conservative/traditional at least intellectually not always in action. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Need helpI've never once argued how wonderful I am. I know who I am, I know what most of my faults are; I don't know how to overcome all of those faults but I am trying. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Need helpGood point, thanks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Need helpIt's not a position out of weakness it's a don't fuck up my kids or I'll kill you kind of thing. I also used it to make her know how I stand about if she tried to cheat. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Need helpHe was calling me a faggot and asking me how much jizz I drink. I am supposed to take that seriously? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/08/16 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Need helpstatistics are for fags. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 09:43 PM |
| -1 | Need helpI didn't say it was too redpill to threaten divorce or lie to my wife. I said I am too redpill to actually push for a divorce as its statistically very bad for my kids who I value more. I have to convince my wife that divorce is a possible future but it's not something I want at least till my kids are old enough to handle it. If I was so miserable that I wanted to shoot myself it would be a different story. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 09:23 PM |
| -1 | Need helpMeh.. I have a hard time associating with people on surface level things I don't care about; it's something I have to work on. My social/political interests don't line up with 95% of people so I am not interested in interacting with them, it's something I have to work on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 08:37 PM |
| -1 | Need helpNo, I am in sales I have good social skills, idk everyone says it's hard to meet people here (low population mountain state). I think we just aren't very approachable people. We don't associate well with plebs, it's something I have to work on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Need helpYou're so alpha, can I be your friend? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 07:54 PM |
| 0 | Need helpOh look at me and how many friends I can make in 3 days. Sucks to be you. Your point was? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Need helpWell the question was does dread work if there is no ultimate threat of divorce. As someone pointed out I am still at 0 dread because there is no sword of Damocles hanging over the marriage. But yeah I still need to advance to creating my own life. Seems easier said than done when have work and three kids I spend a lot of time and effort on. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Need helpWe aren't miserable and toxic, our relationship is far from perfect but it's still better than the normal modern marriage because I am a superior father. In a divorce my kids would choose me if they had a choice and imo I would be able to find a quality mother. I just can't guarantee that outcome and would prefer not to risk it if I can avoid it. Life isn't all about me it's about doing the best for my posterity. It's a balance imo which I know isn't MRP approved. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Need helpI've invited a single friend over to my home 5-6 times and one couple who never returned the favor. I've never been one to have a lot of friends, I need to change that but it goes against my INTP ways. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Need helpHurr durr.. Good for you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Need helpGreat idea on the trump suggestion. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Need helpThis is the thing we have no social friends, we moved to a new state 3 years ago and literally no one has invited us over to their house. I don't know any of the husbands of my wife's work friends. Actually we have never been invited to anyone's home for dinner in our lives. Its weird as my parents seemed to do it often and it seems that people do this. I am a sociable guy(I am in sales) but I am introverted by nature and my wife is pleasant. You say it's simple, but it doesn't seem to be. You a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Need helpyou're boring Yes we are both introverted and "boring." I would rather talk poltics/philosophy and have never been the "fun guy." Thanks for the activity suggestion. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Need helpzero dread You are exactly right, I need to make her think I see divorce as an option, perhaps. The problem is I've been showing her stats on divorce, single motherhood, how bad riding the CC is etc for years and years. Both of our parents are divorced multiple times so we both know how destructive it can be. This is my predicament, we both know that divorce is destructive for kids. Is it possible to create dread outside of the threat of divorce? If I flirt with her friends and other women in fr… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Need helpStatistically divorce fucks up children, it has epigenetic affects on children making them more r-selected which leads to more impulsive behavior etc. I am also far too redpill to allow some shithead raise my kids and fuck them up. I have always been of the belief that I would rather tell my wife I would rather kill her than divorce her.(she knows this) Now this doesn't mean I wouldn't be willing to break off all physical activity with her and seek a gf. However would it be best that I just try … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Need helpYes I wasn't very impressed with that book honestly. With school starting I will be pretty busy with handling my kids actives so it will put me face to face with more women I can game. I understand I need to get involved with something, it seems much easier said than done. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Need helpMy original reason for getting fit was to make myself the best I could be(iron pill) I was still hoping it would build more attraction within my relationship which as of yet it hasn't done. I've never done anything to imply to her that I am getting fit for her. As for telling her it isn't a "fucking marriage." What exactly am I asking for there? We can't negotiate desire right? Am I supposed to demand she text me, talk to me and fuck me? I also value my kids lives to much to go through with a di… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/16 04:41 PM |
| 2 | r/deadbedrooms sidebar: which books have you read?I can't handle this much straw manning. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/08/16 04:31 AM |
| -2 | Advice for girlfriend who won't give Blowjobs?huge Hillary supporter Trash | /r/askTRP | 14/08/16 05:22 AM |
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