BarrelMonkey Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	I got rejected for the first time.[Field Report] Call me an adrenaline junky, but I love that feeling. After building up AA and finally going up and talking to her, I have so much energy to do stuff I don't even care what the outcome was. It's like chugging an energy drink. I could not fight the feeling so I embraced it!	/r/seduction	04/07/13 07:06 AM
2	[FR] First field report... Maybe you should have given more time constraint to the HB9. Also from your FR, I gathered that you didn't isolate her. That was probably, as you said, the reason why she wasn't in the moment. Going in and dancing with her and introducing her to your friends could have solved your DHV problem. Her seeing that you can have fun without actively seeking attention with cheesy "magic" tricks would have definitely helped. Great FR! Keep up the sarge, TheWilliamsKid!	/r/seduction	28/06/13 02:06 PM
1	How to get this "nice guy mindset" away? Everyone is selfish, but some people convince themselves that being super nice will make them feel better, because they made other people feel better and that is true to an extent that is GREATLY exaggerated. Try being on the receiving end and see how it feels.	/r/seduction	27/06/13 09:44 AM
2	Haven't closed in months, but I'm feeling confident and getting comfortable with opening. What's next? I think you have some kind of preconceived notion of a "legit date", which you seem to be holding on to, that's dictating your post #-close actions. Over-thinking may be the cause of bad text game, because it gives off the sense of neediness and outcome-dependency. I text girls when I'm bored at work and want to do something afterwards that doesn't involve sitting home and playing Rift, but I can just as easily get together with some friends, which is what gives me outcome independence. I'm not …	/r/seduction	27/06/13 09:33 AM
7	[FR] Lucky run in with an HB9.5 and HB10(not strippers) in a strip club that started off pretty great, then took a turn for the worst. Chasing after a girl is usually not recommended in the first place. If you must chase her, then you could make it seem less obvious by going in and starting to talk to the staff like the girls weren't even there at first. Then have your friend defuse the blonde while you banter with the brunet. Mostly it's about being outcome independent though. Interesting FR. Follow your username!	/r/seduction	26/06/13 09:09 AM
1	A simple but incredibly effective tip When I see a girl looking at me, I take that as the first IOI. I then do this ridiculously over-the-top wink at her. If she giggles and / or winks back that's 2. I then go in and try to get the third IOI, after which I crank up escalation with the intent to close.	/r/seduction	26/06/13 08:56 AM
2	FR: From Facebook add to F-close in two days Agreed! There were several definite IOIs, that made it clear from the start. Props to SDM19 for persistence, although "So how's your love life...?" sounds more like a start to the "birds and bees" talk your mom would give you, but a good FR nonetheless.	/r/seduction	26/06/13 08:45 AM
4	[FR] Why the right wing man is key. People pay real money to get advice like this on the field. Try to learn everything you can from this guy. It sounds as though he is willing and capable to help and you seem to be open to it so props to both of you!	/r/seduction	22/06/13 10:07 PM
2	[FR] Learned a ton in one night out This is something I too strive for when it comes to going out. For me it's not so much about pickin' up women as it is meeting new and interesting people. If those people happen to be women it's even better, but I'm not putting myself in this frame of sharking out a place for the women and that reflects very positively in the way I interact with people and women especially. Almost a "Tao of Steve" sort of way of thinking. Cheers to your good night!	/r/seduction	23/01/13 09:12 AM