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| 26 | I'm newly single and 32. I'm going out with a 22 year old tomorrow and I'm curious to know if there is anything I should be mindful of given her age versus mine? | BarronVonSnooples | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 01:54 AM |
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| 1 | Why guys aged 30-40 are usually more desirable to women than younger men.This was the one thing that irked me about your video. You acknowledge that girls are super sensitive to being lied to and yet you're encouraging people to lie. So, what do you recommend someone say to explain away the lie, verbatim? | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Do what you love and they will followNot OP, but absolutely yes to your question. You'll never be happy while sacrificing what you love for anything else, so indulge in it and you will attract people to you due to how happy and fulfilled you'll be. Just how the world works. | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 05:20 AM |
| 1 | OKCupid tips [Online Game]I slay it on tinder and happn but I just started using OKC this week and while I already have over 150 "likes" or whatever, very very few of my messages get a response. Very strange. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 05:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] MFF threesomeIt seems like she would want me to lead the way in finding the other girl, and I'm pretty lost on how to approach that. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 06:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] MFF threesomeI'm seeing a girl right now who would be down for a 3way but I'm not sure of the best way to find the 2nd girl. Any tips? | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Foolproof Guide To Overcome Your Approach Anxiety (W/ Infield)Not sure about hitting on a girl by using a car crash as an opener | /r/seduction | 04/08/15 05:45 AM |
| 2 | My 10 fundamentals of becoming a better self, as simple as possibleI've started doing yoga and meditation, and they have really helped me in this area. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What are your Tinder success stories?I'm in the SF Bay area so we are neighbors only in the galactic sense, but hello! | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 03:56 PM |
| 1 | What are your Tinder success stories?Why would I be exclusive with a girl after a couple of dates? | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 03:51 PM |
| 8 | What are your Tinder success stories?Let's see. I've been on it since roughly the beginning of this year and here are some stats: Matches: 516 at this moment. I'm blessed to be a decent-looking dude with some cool pictures. Conversations: I generally open with some type of funny observation about their pictures or bio. If they seem receptive and cool then I'll quickly suggest meeting up and get their number. If a girl seems very dull or dumb then I won't waste my time, unless she's extremely hot in which case I will give her the be… | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 07:57 AM |
| 46 | This is the most important advice you'll ever read. I call it "The Trick."The ONLY person in the entire world who knows how anxious, self-conscious, depressed, sad, or afraid you are is YOU. Your mind has constructed these walls around your true potential because you've become accustomed to living and acting a certain way. You know how badly you want to break down these walls, and the ONLY way to do that is to engage in activities that are new and scary like talking to women who have their own issues and don't give a shit about you unless you give them one. SO GIVE TH… | /r/seduction | 15/07/15 07:52 PM |
| 5 | [FR] So I just approached a gorgeous girl sitting down with her PARENTS.I wish I had a 10 inch cock and a porsche. I'm going to start using this in conversations about wishing for what we don't have, that's hilarious. | /r/seduction | 11/07/15 04:32 PM |
| 1 | :-)I am absolute shit at getting girls to sext me, what's the secret? | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Eye Contact + Smile got me a dateThat's a rather specific number of days | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 06:54 AM |
| 4 | If you don't take the chance, someone else willThe world doesn't need another coward. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 11:53 PM |
| 7 | I am a female and need advise on how to close with new guy.I was really feeling him so I was doing the hard to get thing Do the opposite of this | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:53 PM |
| 1 | any tips for a confused girl after a 7-hr tinder date?Be direct with him, tell him what you're telling us. He deserves to know that you are attracted to him and want to get to know him better. He'll respect you a lot more for being honest and straightforward. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 03:37 AM |
| 1 | It may be a crap line but its worked twice now..I don't drink either and am getting damn tired of having to explain it. What do you say about it when a girl inevitably asks? | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else need a break?Get hobbies outside of dating, even stop it altogether for a period. You are placing too much importance on it when you need to be developing yourself as your own person. I came out of a long relationship and after a few months of dating different women nearly every night of the week, it hit me that I was just doing that to compensate for what I had lost. I didn't care about the girls, just that I was going out a lot and that made me feel desirable. But it was also very empty and unfulfilling. I… | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Can't Approach When Others Are NearbyTwo things: one, they don't matter. At all. Two, you have to realize that what you want is vastly more important to your life than what other people may think of you, which they won't because they don't care about what you do as they are busy living their own lives. Your only concern should be how you want to love YOUR life. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 12:58 AM |
| 0 | A little mental trick i use to help me overcome some approach anxiety.You're already limiting yourself by saying that you hope to do this. Simply do it, it's simple! | /r/seduction | 13/05/15 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Anyone in Bakersfield CA.There are a shocking number of hot women in that shithole town | /r/seduction | 10/05/15 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Pick-Up Paradise- Las Vegas [General Advice]Interesting stuff! I live in San Francisco and have tremendous success getting dates off of tinder - I can be out with at least one different girl every day of the week. I'm shit at getting laid, though, but obviously that's my issue to figure out. Anyway, I was laid off from my job back in Feb and have since been trying to find something new. I spoke with a consulting firm today for which I could probably work remotely - perhaps I should say fuck it and take the gig and couchsurf through easter… | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Pick-Up Paradise- Las Vegas [General Advice]Do you deal with much of a language barrier? | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 10:03 PM |
| 1 | AMA - Chris Bale, Masculine IntentWhat he says about the nostril technique is legit, you guys need to be doing it. It will obliterate your anxieties. | /r/seduction | 06/05/15 12:41 AM |
| 14 | How can I approach a group of girls and get away with a number?"Hey guys I'm going to flirt with your friend real quick" Just walk up to them, say that in a confident but very friendly tone, and follow with a quick introduction with your target and "I think you're gorgeous {Name}, are you single? Ok great let's get coffee sometime, here put your number in my phone. {Name} it's nice to meet you, I'll talk to you soon. Have an awesome day/night ladies." That's it. Smile, maintain eye contact with your target, and be that confident motherfucker who does shit l… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Anyone have luck with Plenty of Fish?Thanks for the response! How do you usually transition from being out to going back to your/their place, and from there to getting them in bed? | /r/seduction | 26/04/15 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Anyone have luck with Plenty of Fish?Hey dude. I have massive success in getting dates from tinder but rarely am I able to F-close, especially on the first date. Can you walk through a typical experience you've had in meeting a new girl and getting her into bed that night? I think I'm too much of a nice guy so maybe I'm not setting the stage for sex in an obvious enough manner. Any input you might have would be helpful, thanks bro! | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 11:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got a model/dancer to ask me outBadass. What were the openers you used? That's my weakest point. | /r/seduction | 07/04/15 08:08 AM |
| 5 | How much success have you had with Tinder?I've been single since the end of December and got on tinder almost immediately. I have about 360 matches at the moment, and am going out with girls from it pretty much as often as I feel like, which lately has been at least 4 nights a week (I hate sitting around at home!). I think in a way I use it as a crux to do the work of approaching women for me. I'm a good looking dude and am very confident via text so setting up dates is a snap. I would recommend against un-matching with girls who don't … | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 06:15 AM |
| 5 | SunglassesStrike up a conversation and smile a lot/kino so they get the hint that you're into them. Ask them to coffee on the spot or something else located in a less sunny setting so you can eye fuck the shit out of each other. Then invite her to your dorm room and literally fuck the shit out of each other. | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 11:44 PM |
| 15 | Any ideas on what to say when a girl says "So, what now?"Kiss her. | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Go skydivingThose are things you have to develop bro! The only way to develop them is to practice. So, go out and start practicing. Right now! | /r/seduction | 01/04/15 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm newly single and 32. I'm going out with a 22 year old tomorrow and I'm curious to know if there is anything I should be mindful of given her age versus mine?Good shit bro! | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 04:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm newly single and 32. I'm going out with a 22 year old tomorrow and I'm curious to know if there is anything I should be mindful of given her age versus mine?Awesome advice, thanks very much. | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I'm newly single and 32. I'm going out with a 22 year old tomorrow and I'm curious to know if there is anything I should be mindful of given her age versus mine?I appreciate the response, thank you. | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I'm Sick & Fucking Tired Of Not Being Able To Approach Women. Give Me A Task, Anything, To Get Me Moving In The Right Direction. And I Will Do It Tomorrow. I Promise.looking forward to your update! | /r/seduction | 17/03/11 01:04 AM |
| 3 | I can't do this...The only person on this entire planet who knows you're nervous and insecure is you. That's it. For all those hotties on your campus know, you could be a confident fucking stallion and how lucky would they be if you CHOSE to approach them and invite them into your fucking awesome world? College is THE BEST place to reinvent yourself and being that you're only a freshman, you are fucking primed for such an event. Tell your old self to fuck off and go take charge of your life. | /r/seduction | 10/02/11 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Altering your behavioral patternsPractice by being conscious of it. That's it, really. When you're talking to someone and find yourself speeding up, slow down. Don't over-think the issue or its solution. Take time to form your opinion and your conversational partner will be aware of it. | /r/seduction | 30/12/10 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Are there sedditors who are naturally attractive, athletic build, and good looking, that really need PUA material?I'm a good-looking guy (I've been offered modeling contracts), but I am not naturally confident. I am generally introverted and often succumb to social anxieties if I don't first kick my ass into frame. PUA material has taught me the importance of being comfortable with myself and how that will lead to more successful interactions. Also, don't worry that girls aren't approaching you - it's a rare guy that doesn't have to bother with opening the women he's interested in. Hit the gym like you mean… | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Share some of the openers you used under the 3 second rule.In Vegas a couple of weekends ago, I spotted the single hottest girl at XS (HB11 status) and said fuck it. She was with a group of MMA guys in one of those ensconced seating areas at the periphery of the dance floor: Me: After making eye contact with her, uses index finger to do that "Hey come here" move - "Are you allowed to leave your little pen there?" "Her: Smiles "I can do whatever I want." Me: "Cool then come dance with me right now" Her: "But I'm safe up here!" Me: "What!? You're in VEGAS… | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 01:25 AM |
| 28 | I met a girl at the gym and asked for her number. She didn't give it to me. :/"you do things outside of the gym, right?" "yeah" "cool, give me your number." *spoken confidently, friendly, etc | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 06:50 AM |
| 2 | Seddit I'm doing a 3some saturday! And it's all cause of you!that's when you throw down the massaging | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Seddit I'm doing a 3some saturday! And it's all cause of you!LMR? | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Friend of a friend on facebookI was thinking, just have a party for any reason and make sure she comes. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 02:50 AM |
| 3 | OKC: "Casual Sex"down to fornicate | /r/seduction | 14/10/10 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Making out with HB8's comes like second nature to me, but I can't seem to close for my life.That, and how hot a girl is can be VERY subjective, so given the lack of uniformity the numbers sort of lose any meaning. | /r/seduction | 07/10/10 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, I present to you Seddit's Weekly Challenge #1Yes, this gives us incentive to actively utilize the information contained within Seddit as opposed to simply analyze it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 09:07 PM |
| 22 | This...We do it because we enjoy talking to women and feeling confidence. You know how you feel when you see a super hot girl and you can't imagine building up the courage to even talk to her - much less get her number or even take her home? Imagine being the kind of guy which that kind of girl feels the same way about. THAT's why we do this. This isn't solely about 'how to successfully hit on women', this is about reaching the highest levels of self-realization so you can lead your life in the directi… | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Gentlemen, what do you think about a weekly 'assignment' to focus on?you'll find happiness at the edge of your comfort zone There is SO much truth to that statement | /r/seduction | 24/09/10 08:40 PM |
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