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I've joined the introduction yoga course yesterday evening and even though there were some women, everybody just rushed to leave after the course ended. It kind of felt bad to be honest. If I join there regularly, I'm not sure if it's gonna be like this all the time.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 03:02 PM
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you always get a partner when you aren’t looking for one. But I found my first girlfriend when I was actively looking for a girlfriend or at least a partner.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 10:23 AM
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It was fun and relaxing to read this. Thank you. Unfortunately I have OCD and it's kind of hard for me to get my mind off this. :) I'm using meds but they only suppress the symptoms when I'm using it. Therapy is expensive in my country and I find therapy a bit shallow and narrow-minded. Like, when I say "What if I stay single forever?", they say, "Well, but you've found your first girlfriend, so you can find another one as well." But what they don't think is the fact that some people stay single…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 10:22 AM
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Thank you. I'm happy for you. It takes time to find a good person, and I believe it isn’t just something you find right away especially if you are searching for it. But I was actively trying to find a girlfriend and then via cold approach I met with my ex girlfriend. So I kind of found her right away. And she was a right person too. Therefore, I don't understand why finding someone quickly doesn't work anymore.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 10:16 AM
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Wow. I truly appreciate your kind and encouraging words. you're not needy, you just value true honest connection. This could be true, yes but I might also have some needy parts in my character. By the way, I'm joining yoga to both get a hobby and meet someone. Because if I can't meet someone on the streets (via cold approach) and I'm not allowed to go to clubs without a woman's companionship, I guess the only option left is getting a hobby. I'm also interested in meditation and yoga, so I though…
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 10:07 AM
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So when I met my first GF via cold approach, that was good luck, right? And I was unlucky when I approached women after the break-up since I couldn't get a girlfriend? I did get some numbers and go on some dates but then due to my neediness women ghosted me. But my first GF didn't do such a thing. Is this both my fault + luck or just luck? Or maybe I didn't come across with someone who would accept me regardless of my neediness, this is another possibility, isn't it?
/r/ExRedPill15/10/25 01:06 PM
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Both.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/25 05:35 AM
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Most of the people on the streets do have partners. Are they lucky? Is the majority of the human population lucky and minority of them is unlucky? And luck means coming across with people who will like you, right? And, what does determine this notion of luck? Some sort of a fate or a super power?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/25 08:15 PM
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They probably don't work for the majority of men and it didn't work for me either.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/25 07:15 PM
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What exactly does this urge feel like? Is it need for sex? Cuddling? Conversation? Fear of losing another girl/woman that I'm kind of flirting and then going back to square one. Why is that so bad? Are you afraid of loneliness? Or something else? I am afraid of being single. I don't want to be single while most of the people can easily meet with the opposite sex and get into relationships with them. There's also the need for sex here.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/25 07:14 PM
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Wow. Just pure prejudice and judging. People(?) like you can't even let others be honest and look for advice and help, can you?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/25 12:55 PM
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