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ConversationBasalt_of_the_Earth/r/seduction04/07/21 04:45 PM
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6

Exactly. It’s better to be outright rejected than unsure.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:03 AM
5

It’s a form of virtue signaling.
/r/seduction06/07/21 05:27 PM
1

Have you ever read the Talmud? It literally states that our Lord and Savior is “boiling in a cauldron of semen.”
/r/RPChristians05/07/21 07:59 PM
1

Are you serious?
/r/RPChristians05/07/21 07:58 PM
1

https://youtu.be/gJbFG9c9MlY
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:36 PM
5

The girl’s testing your confidence when she says this, and she’s attempting to break your masculine frame in doing so. Someone who’s insecure or not very confident would almost certainly be bothered hearing a girl he’s out with talking about another man being attractive.
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:27 PM
2

False. It’s meant to cause an insecure reaction.
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:24 PM
3

Dude, you’re an idiot if you don’t realize this is a shit test. LOL. They’re trying to get you to react or break frame.
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:23 PM
11

Good one. I’m using that next time.
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:13 PM
2

Ok a very simple hack is to walk up and say “Hi, we haven’t met yet. My name is ___.” Doing this reframes the entire situation and makes it seem like introducing yourself is the normal thing to do (which it is, as there’s nothing wrong with being social and friendly).
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:08 PM
1

Exactly - this is coming from the assumption that a man takes action and actively works on self-improvement.
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:37 PM
2

Make eye contact and have a normal, relaxed smile on your face.
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:36 PM
3

Ok, well to get experience you must take action. That’s all you need to do - take action and fucking approach these women giving you choosing signals and signs of interest. Just walk up and literally say anything to them. Then ask them out for some type of activity.
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:52 AM
2

No, dude. Chill. The average man’s SMV peaks at ~35.
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:04 AM
1

To eliminate any awkwardness, I’d just go to the convenient store and buy a small pack. I realize the guy theoretically should have the condoms and whatnot, but I feel that’d get rid of the pressure.
/r/seduction21/06/21 11:54 AM
1

I’m about to start attending meetup events and going out to bars on a weekly basis.
/r/seduction14/06/21 10:31 PM
3

Fuck being a victim.
/r/seduction11/06/21 12:46 PM
2

Eye contact for longer than a few seconds is a good indicator of interest, and especially so if the girl smiles.
/r/seduction07/06/21 08:31 PM
4

You need to be places where single women go to and watch for indicators of interest.
/r/seduction06/06/21 10:30 PM
1

No, it’s not thirsty. I wouldn’t worry about that at all. Just say, “hey, you’re cute.”
/r/seduction06/06/21 04:39 PM
2

You’re coming off as needy and it sounds like you’re developing oneitis.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:27 PM
1

I would text her back in a week something like “Hey, Saturday afternoon I’m going for a walk around the park and grabbing a coffee afterwards. You free to come with?” If she’s down she’ll come, if not then just move on to another girl, bro.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:23 PM
2

Just be 100% honest and make your intentions known within the first 30 seconds of talking to a girl. What’s the worst possible outcome? Oh, she doesn’t like you or isn’t single? So what? Approach another girl.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:17 PM
3

I’m always 100% honest and make my intentions known from the start. I’d suggest something like “hey, just wanted to say that I always thought you were super cute.”
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:14 PM
1

Sounds like you have some anxiety, bro. No worries, as I have a little anxiety as well. All of that can be dealt with, handled, and overcome. It sounds like girls do find you attractive from what you’ve stated, but you’re the one who has to make the move and escalate.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:12 PM
1

Yeah… Sycamore Brewing during Food Truck Fridays (or any weekend, really) is where it’s at. I’m still trying to lose another 5-10 lbs I put on during the lockdowns and then I’m gonna be back out approaching women.
/r/seduction05/06/21 07:57 PM
2

Right. The point is one must be after their purpose/on their mission when they go out and perform their regular daily activities. But if you run into someone while performing these activities, then it provides an opportunity to approach. You were not simply going out of your way to find women to approach, however.
/r/seduction03/06/21 03:47 PM
1

Agreed. OP, do this ^
/r/seduction03/06/21 09:19 AM
2

Lmao, why yes.
/r/seduction03/06/21 09:18 AM
3

Yeah. This. Plus, they could be insane and you could pickup on that within the first few minutes.
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:38 AM
3

Go grab drinks or coffee near your place and then invite her back. (She’s dtf.)
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:37 AM
2

I mean, until you’re in a serious relationship, it’s highly recommended that you see other women since she’s likely still seeing other men.
/r/seduction01/06/21 05:15 PM
3

Oh my fuck.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:21 PM
6

Good point, bro. Everyone has a niche and one simply needs to find where they fit in the best.
/r/seduction29/05/21 11:51 AM
5

Yeah. I don’t give a crap.
/r/seduction27/05/21 06:07 PM
2

People definitely were having more sex back then compared to now and multiple studies show this.
/r/seduction27/05/21 06:05 PM
4

It doesn’t debunk anything, since outliers don’t define the median.
/r/seduction27/05/21 05:56 PM
1

I’d suggest meeting for a drink or coffee and then trying to segue into her coming over and listening to music, watching a movie, etc. I’ve had success with that, but logistics are also crucial - it’s obviously easier in a larger city where you can find a coffee shop or place to grab a drink within walking distance/a short Uber ride back to your place.
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:26 PM
4

I like that reminder a lot. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction29/04/21 10:35 PM
2

I normally wait for girls to give out subtle indicators of interest (IOIs) and then approach. However, there’s been several occasions where the women probably hadn’t seen me yet and I approached without receiving any IOIs and some of them led to much more than just conversation at the bar.
/r/seduction29/04/21 10:34 PM
2

I agree.
/r/seduction27/04/21 09:18 AM
1

I’m wondering if there’s some type of “meetup group” for single guys who want to go out drinking or whatever and also be wingmen for one another and help pickup women?
/r/seduction24/04/21 07:33 PM
3

Oh, I’ve experienced this with literal gigantic sized ones and it was 5/10 on the pleasure scale - but maybe I’m a weirdo.
/r/seduction23/04/21 11:26 PM
2

Visually yeah, and especially so if she has nice tits. “Nice tits” is the keyword here tho lol
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:11 PM
3

No worries, bro. Better to learn sooner than later!
/r/seduction23/04/21 05:13 PM
6

Tbh, it doesn’t feel nearly as pleasurable as it looks.
/r/seduction23/04/21 05:10 PM
4

It’s your confidence and the vibes you’re putting off that’s a factor and is what’s attractive to women - not your race.
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:48 PM
3

Super random question, but do you know if there’s any resources to help guys find wings/other dudes to meet up with and do approaches with?
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:37 PM
1

I would definitely figure out something witty to say back to whoever attempts to roast you or turning the roast around on them. Aside from that, just laughing it off and shrugging will work, but you don’t always want to do that. It depends on what’s being said, too.
/r/seduction23/03/21 09:34 AM
0

Do you go to specific areas of the city you live in?
/r/seduction06/03/21 12:03 PM
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