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My wife slips into criticizing my driving from time to time. My reply is always the same and it works every time: "Why am I driving this car?" "You know why you're driving blah blah" "Do you trust me to drive this car?" "blahb lahb labh" "Do you trust me to drive this car?" "Yes I trust you but blah blah blah" "Okay then. Let me drive the car." If she ever tells me she doesn't trust me I fully intend on pulling over the car and getting into the passengers seat. It won't ever happen because she h…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 02:01 PM
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She flat-out rejected me. She was not even interested in stroking me for a minute. She complained she was tired, she wasn’t sexually minded, was focused on the baby, etc, etc. Fine, I will wait. I told her I would never ask again This doesn't work. Women don't need sex like we do - they need emotional comfort and drama. So in this interaction you: A) Didn't get what you needed. B) Gave her exactly what she needed. The correct response when she declines sex is to not react at all and go do someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/14 01:38 PM
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This video is of a bunch of dudes that aren't respecting the unwritten laws of SMV. Hers is high - theirs extremely low. Whether that is due to income/race/whatever doesn't really matter. This video is getting a ton of controversy because it starts to drag TRP into the light a bit. A lot of BP dudes can't understand why they shouldn't be able to say hello to someone they're attracted to. The women can't say exactly why this is creepy - just that it is creepy. Explaining why it's creepy ("I'm unc…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:11 PM
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Hmm.. I do not - but it was actually toward the end of shark week.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/14 05:41 PM
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I mean - congrats on the sex. We think you're wrong because it's been proven time and time again that love is not all you need. Loving a woman unconditionally is not enough to make her want to have sex with you consistently. In the eternal words of Drake: "She might say she love me, she don't love me like she say she love me." We think you're wrong because we've all been in your shoes, you've been with this girl for I'm guessing like 6 months now, if that? You're talking to a bunch of dudes who …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/14 05:07 PM
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I'd rather have amazing sex once a month where she wants it super bad than spend my energy trying to convince her to let me fuck her every day. I don't think MRP is what you think it is. It isn't convincing her to have sex every day - it's convincing her to want it super bad every day. You've convinced yourself that wanting your woman to want you is a bad thing. I'm guessing it's because you're failing - and I'm going to guess you're failing because you're walking around stoned talking about lov…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/14 03:16 PM
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It's not something that my wife would even try to do. I think if he fixes the real issue(s), specifically that she doesn't trust and/or respect him, things like the computer will go away completely.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 04:52 PM
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there are guys who grow muscle fairly easily, Nope. There are not. Anyone that has visibly impressive muscles worked hard to get them. They may lie about it, but I promise you the work was put in. Thats why you see bodybuilders hook up mostly with bodybuilder/fitness chicks, theyre the only ones that get tingles from big muscles. That's not true either. The reason you see bodybuilders hook up with fitness chicks is because to become a bodybuilder your life must revolve around it. A normal person…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 04:50 PM
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How many people posting to this sub do you think have competitive bodybuilder physiques? This is a strawman argument. The advice to lift and "get muscles" is extremely vague and in no way demanding that you get to ~7% body fat and ultra-vascular. I sometimes think people don't understand the amount of effort it takes to get to this. The truth is it doesn't fucking matter what women think of Frank Zane because only a tiny fraction of a percent of people that workout regularly will ever look like …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 01:08 PM
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Gotta cosign /u/blank0sz9 OP - I see that you're a very very busy man. You need to give yourself an hour and a half a day at the gym 4 days a week. It does so many things for you. It gives you something that you can tell your wife you're going to do. "I'm going to the gym now." The changes in your body composition will do wonders for your confidence and she will become more attracted to you. The internal motivation that comes with watching numbers go up is also amazing for you. Additionally it's…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 12:16 PM
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I really don't think it's possible to avoid it. I think it's important to stay cognizant and recognize when it happens. Even if you're unable to convince yourself that AWALT... look out for that moment - and it will come - when she proves to you that AWALT. My oneitis shattered when my girlfriend (now wife) went up on stage to dance with a DJ at a club because he waved her up for a second. Hypergamy at it's finest. I make way more money than this dude - he isn't more attractive than me, but shit…
/r/askTRP21/10/14 12:30 PM
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How do you personally set the line that mustn't be crossed? Very interested to hear this as well. Hoping that one of the elders around here can offer up some wisdom. I don't necessarily mind listening to my wife complain about her job or what ever other drama she has cooked up in her life, but if it's something I shouldn't be doing I'd like to know how to identify which is which.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/14 06:32 PM
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I started going regularly to the gym. It worked out well for 3 weeks. lol. edit: I'll try to be more constructive. When you've been doing all of this for 3 months, it still won't matter. When you've been doing it for 6 months - a few people may notice that you're changing. When you've been doing it for a year and a half, and it's no longer "something you're doing", and it has become a part of you - then and only then will real change happen for you. You still aren't going to be "alpha" - at this…
/r/askTRP20/10/14 05:24 PM
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If this is real it sounds like he's either trying to quit porn or masturbation. A lot of places will tell you that you have to quit everything for a certain period of time in order to "reboot". Whether or not it's necessary, or if it works - I don't know. Obviously he isn't going to tell his wife this. It would be crippling to his frame to admit it - and godlike for him to just one day be completely free from porn and masturbation. Actually nothing about this thread is surprising or confusing to…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:13 PM
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There's a whole underlying tone here of disdain for your wife that I don't get. Do you feel like you married the wrong woman? Do you feel like she isn't good enough to be your first officer? If so - you already know what to do. If you think she is worthy then you need to realize that you're being angry at her for being a woman. That is a ridiculous thing to be angry about. You have step 1 down - recognizing a shit test when you see one. Now you just need to dismiss them for what they are. Whatev…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/14 01:26 PM
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These are probably the biggest problems that I have in my marriage right now. I naturally don't give a fuck about these things. If it weren't me and my wife eating at the restaurant I wouldn't have given a shit if they were closing. It never would have even occurred to me that I was being "rude". My wife says that she hates this about me. She's on the complete other end of the spectrum and is always trying to be nice to people - wants to give beggers money, etc. I don't stand for most of that sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/14 04:54 PM
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That makes so much sense. I'm still working on this whole thing. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/14 03:12 PM
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Letting her bully you into doing something you didn't want to do was your failure. Fuck. You're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/14 03:00 PM
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Finished eating and let her go ask for the box? I felt that letting her go and staying at the table would have been an abject failure for me as a man and captain of the ship.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/14 02:45 PM
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~10 years ago when I was in Navy bootcamp we had a big "class" that was essentially an opportunity for a bunch of banks to make their pitch for us to use them for direct deposit. Lots of young men who are getting ready to have their first taste of real money. The Navy requires direct deposit and so you have to choose a bank. You could, of course, use one of your own - but 75% of 18-19 year old kids don't have much experience or interest in banks. Every single "representative" of these banks was …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 04:52 PM
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Had to register a TRP throwaway to cosign this. Additionally, OP you may need to actually talk to her about sex. As always, be careful how you frame it. You need to explain to her that you are a man that needs to fuck something. Not starfish sex or disinterested blowjob. You want her. You want to fuck her. You need to show her this also, but this is the one thing that you may need to say verbally.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/14 03:11 PM
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