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Yep, and if you were a man trying to date women it would be even harder. We're at the point now in the West that men have to date way down. It's not unusual for a woman who is a cashier at starbucks to be dating a guy who is an entrepreneur. Women want a guy who outearns them (while complaining about wage gap), has higher status, and/or is also relatively better looking. Most women would not last 1 week held to their own standards
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:03 PM
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Considering that women by default use manipulation and game to influence guys, i think it is hypocritical to call guys toxic when they try to flip the script and take some power back. You people have all the power and manipulation skills and you're whining if a guy takes counter measures to benefit himself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:49 PM
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Issue is not my mindset because like me and every guy i know we developed a different mindset after the fact. "the ratio of good to bad men is skewed"- Thats your personal opinion that is not an objective reality. Even if that were true, the number of options cancels it out since among those large number of options is still bound to be a good guy. Contrast that with men however, who have very few options. They can't attract enough options to even have a chance with a good girl, unless you're als…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:52 PM
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The movement to dark triad ideas is the result of the number of men get used dry for their wallets while being deluded about the reality of relationships. TRP only gives them the reality. So you can't attack the actual RP. If women are attracted to dark traid then they are to blame not TRP. Why is it necessary? Because female dating strategy and hypergamy destroyed the family unit, not dark triad men. Its not the 2% of men who are dark triad, its the 50% of women who are attracted to that type m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:34 PM
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I don't need any advice catching fish from a fish itself. If i had the ability to press a magic button which would give me the highest attractiveness to women i would know what to press and it would be far superior to just being understanding and compassionate. "22 out of 25 men are not worth spending the rest of my life with" You still don't understand what im saying. Out of 25 options you still have a far far easier time finding a compatible partner than out of 1 or 2 options. Imagine with 1 o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:22 PM
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How did i not explain it? you're just using buzzword as a buzzword now without explaining yourself. I explained how affirmative action is used to discriminate against qualified male applicants in favor of a female applicant. People have run their own experiments to prove this btw. Hate to break it to you but when a male applicant applies to 80 stem jobs and gets 5 responses, and then chances the name to female of same race and culture and gets 30 responses, there is some serious anti-male discri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:12 PM
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Ok but what is more of a challenge? finding a good partner among 25 choices or finding a good partner among 1-2 choices? Men can't even get compatibility at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:59 PM
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What do you mean? i was very clear i thought that feminism is committing oppression and going against what made us successful initially which is the family unit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:05 AM
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I see what you're trying to say but its missing my point. What you're saying may be a challenge but its not a relative challenge. You're talking about picking a relatively good option among the choices, some of which are bad. Imagine shopping for clothes: theres a variety of choices and you filter through the ugly ones, pick the ones that look best and then try them on. In some cases you can even exchange the purchase for a different item. Now imagine shopping for clothes except this time nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:01 AM
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The condition that men have to be needed to have mating options is not good for the family unit. Not good for birth rates either. It's a problem and i don't see any women acknowledging how lucky they are that their mating options aren't severely limited by their money, status, success, and utility
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:54 AM
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No its more about the fact that men have listened and create social justice for womens issues but the reverse can't even get started since women play ignorant or victim no matter what. Men will generally sympathize with women but not the reverse. That is inherant misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:48 PM
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No, because TRP is ultimately about the truth. Have you not seen the matrix? Feminism has become about lying and manipulation to play the victim or doing unfair things like affirmative action to correct INHERANT biological differences. When a male police officer has to pass a harder fitness test than a female for the exact same job that is oppression. When a male resume applies to 80 engineering, law, or medical jobs and gets 5 responses, and then the name is changed to female and gets 30 respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:47 PM
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So essentially you just confirmed what OP is saying while accusing him of talking out of his ass. Typical of simpery
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:44 PM
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Right on but also feminism attempts to take inherant differences and force equalize them. Such as using affirmative action to close the gender gap in most fields. Problem in doing this is men get completely screwed over. Also taking inherant differences in optimal mating strategy and encouraging behavior that goes against what has kept the family unit alive. The whole "if men can be promiscuous women can too" doesn't need to be abused to the point of destruction of families like what is happenin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:42 PM
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Yes but its a complete betrayal of the average man who essentially built the society which enables this luxury to turn around and treat them like unnecessary lemonade
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:37 PM
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Standards are relative. The average person becomes less attractive when better options are introduced. So the problem is assuming that these highly attractive options will commit to them. And women aren't pressured into anything in the west in 2025. They are the only ones who can sleep with or test drive almost anyone of their choosing with very few repercussions. Many of the lack of repercussions like birth control btw were created by the "patriarch" they complain about so much. If men are upse…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:35 PM
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There was never a golden age for men that i can think. And we are now living in the golden age for women who can explore freely, openly, and endlessly with any guy rich tall muscular cool and any profession thanks to social media/pills, feminized careers, etc. It is like being able to test drive infinite cars without consequence. They have it made but what surprises me is that this apparently isn't enough because they still claiming to be oppressed victims of the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:28 PM
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Europe has tons of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:24 PM
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Im failing to see where women have trouble meeting guys? Every social setting i witness not just my own they are bombarded with relationship offers, sex offers, compliments, free attention and validation and even vacations parties and free drugs. If women truly still think that is difficult then we have a problem with snowflakery. Contrasted with average guys who have to actually earn status, vacations, parties, validation and partners it is ridiculous assertion that BOTH have trouble. They are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:24 PM
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But theres a key difference: TRP is about finding the truth. Female dating strategy is only securing the superficially best option even at the detriment of the family unit. Sure TRP can be used badly. But its more about levelling the playing field and the truth may be brutal but necessary. The issue isn't dark triad its the fact that it's attractive and selected for. You cannot take a normal guy and make him dark triad either unless something really bad happen in his life. So we are not at risk …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:19 PM
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You have realized the truth of the game. Not purple but red. Red is the truth blue is the delusion. A couple of things i will add: The relationships market is like a seesaw: the more options women have, the LESS men have. By exercising hypergamy they are screwing over the family unit and promoting greed and status above virtue. This for sure coincided with release of social media and related online markets for socializing. In other words Tinder and instagram greatly boosted the SMV or average wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:09 PM
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Dating and by extention most things involving relationships with other people. I see alot women will reject a guy for example because he doesn't have a degree or graduate degree. But these same women only got the degree after some guy took them in and gave them free rent and food. If a man benefited like that he'd be called toxic abuser but when women do it they are still somehow victims lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:55 AM
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Adding: It's not because of the relationship privilege, its more the fact that their privilege is at mens expense. Women having much more options comes at the price of men have much fewer options. To a broke person, almost any job would seem decent, and to a rich person most jobs would seem unappealing. That doesn't detract from the fact that its because one is broke and one is rich
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:48 AM
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They don't just deny it, it gets flipped and they get all the credit for being victims of inequality. But what about the inequality in one of the fundamental hierarchy of needs which are relationships? And for this male simps are largely to blame. What i don't see though is a lot of women accounting for their role and manipulative power. Being able to date successful guys, have guys pay your college, inviting to the best parties and social circles for free everywhere you go is one thing. But tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:37 AM
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That's just at the most superficial level, ofcourse they have casual sex easy. But most men aren't even complaining about that solely. It's the expectations women repeatedly have that shows the privilege. Its the idea that the guy is always wrong, the zero accountability, and the high expectations of wealth what they bring to the table. A guy will view himself as an unprivileged victim because he's universally rejected and unsuccessful with no easy way of changing that. What i have seen a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:07 AM
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Because they are both fighting for the victim identity even if they aren't a victim. Denying men's suffering and the mass drug overdoses and self deletions related is just emotional abuse. And in situations that men clearly have serious issues in particular, women still want to steal the victim card. But for these guys who are lonely and unsuccessful, can't just date into success, and can't get a house, spouse, or family any time soon; the last thing they want to hear is a girls with 30 guys int…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:59 AM
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Scroll up and read what the original commenter said. That has already been proven with science not emotions. You want to tell me about bitterness? you wouldn't last 5 days in my shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:03 PM
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Hypergamy (women's dating strategy) is not egalitarian. I've yet to know a single girl who doesn't act on hypergamy which is essentially abuse of sexual power over men. It would be like if men abused their physical power to get what they want. Difference is one is illegal and one isnt but still destructive
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:38 AM
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The problem is your past boyfriends don't determine the general trend, which is that men will date a fatter woman and a broke woman etc. Whereas women will only date a specific man. That's not egalitarian sorry. You probably couldn't last 3 days in truely egalitarian society
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:35 AM
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Right, must be nice to be on a moral high horse and judge a bunch of guys for this stuff. Im sure they could also look at you and find flaws but they don't do that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:55 PM
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The point is you're not egalitarian then, because men don't get to be that selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:53 PM
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It's crazy but most of them are completely unaware. They just fire up instagram or go to a bar/club and instantly get to choose from the best looking, most interesting/successful guys. Instead of acknowledging this, they seem to look down to the average man since they can sleep with a way above average man. However if they gender swapped chances are they'd be even worse at getting dates than these men they look down on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:11 AM
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Very insightful. Men are stuck in the rat race of self improvement if they want to own a house, have vacation, and have a faithful girlfriend. Women can work at 7-11, be 100k in student debt, have no game, and only need to slap on revealing clothes every now and then and men will hand them a house, career, and an interesting quality life. My only issue with this is that they will then victim blame men for not being viable options when it's a literal rat race that they themselves would never succ…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:06 AM
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I feel sorry for your husband
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:00 AM
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You are a walking contradiction. There is nothing egalitarian about this post. You want equality? stop judging and discriminating males who don't 100% conform to your insane standards
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:58 AM
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You probably wouldn't last 2 days as a man. How would you like if men looked at all your attributes and judged your entire value based on one perceived flaw?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:56 AM
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Quit virtue signaling. You are one single anecdote that doesn't refute the generality as a whole. This has already been proven regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:55 AM
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Exactly! case in point. Glad you finally understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:08 AM
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You can't really prove anything in sociology or psychology and this issue is considered unethical to study. Not going to post direct links but men high in dark triad personality traits were shown to be more attractive. And idk why you want proof when it's literally common sense: Never seen a bully, sociopath, or narcissist that had any trouble getting laid but i know plenty of nice guys who are borderline virgins. Im not trying to hate on anyone but that is the reality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:14 PM
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Im referring to the loneliness related to the topic. And i didn't suggest forcing anyone to have sex so idk where you're getting this from. If anything there's not really a solution it just sucks for these men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 01:43 AM
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And your point being that is bad? that is the most important thing to keep the species going
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:53 AM
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When so many girls are attracted to the 3% of bullies, narcissists, and sociopaths as proven by science btw, my questions on how this propensity for violence keeps respawning for many millenias is answered
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:49 AM
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If it's culturally enforced that is not a violation, only if it's law enforced. Sometimes people have to go against their nature for the betterment of the community.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:45 AM
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It's not a competition but men's issues get downplayed and victim blamed for whatever reason. The fact that they're having so many more issues with loneliness and self harming but then having it equated with a much more minor issue is probably just modern misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:33 AM
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"It's not that difficult to understand" says the person who doesn't even understand it themselves. What exactly is harder about handling a relationship for them? If you actually studied relationships like I do, you'd know that generally the male partner has to bring way more to the table including money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:29 AM
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Trying to use a man's profile really opens their eyes but women aren't going to do this and will remain victim blaming men. I had this argument with a therapist recently: she blamed my interaction for my lack of success with OLD. I had to politely inform her that she's wrong seeing as I didn't even get the chance to interact at all. The best teacher is to live the experience and I've read stories of girls trying to help a male family member or friend out with their dating profile which just resu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:27 AM
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Willing is not the same as fine with. I'd argue this causes issues for them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:56 PM
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