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Yes it can happen to any party, you can do everything right but if theirs no chemistry than it really doesn't matter. Think of them as doing you a favor, you're not wasting any more time, money, effort, etc on them.
/r/seduction20/09/25 06:30 PM
3

Some them are vultures. I think most younger women feel this way but they just don't show it until they get older, than they just let it all out and don't care what others think.
/r/seduction20/09/25 02:02 AM
2

When I was in college actually, there some older women in there taking classes.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:42 PM
1

Some of them maybe legit matches while most are scams/some plot.
/r/seduction17/09/25 10:53 PM
16

As a man myself, it's tough. What I find is that you can't force it, if I have to pull magic tricks out of my you know what, than she's not worth it. If she doesn't like me for me than she is not worth it.
/r/seduction15/09/25 09:46 PM
32

Probably online apps play a role in that, so maybe they are not getting approached but they are gotten tons of online matches.
/r/seduction10/09/25 11:32 PM
0

I admit I have some low self-esteem issues so sometimes I don't always accept the womans advances, but you'll just know through exp. You get a feeling, and you'll know the difference. Will you always get it right? No but through XP, you'll lessen the chances of getting it wrong. Try comparing the 2, once where you got it wrong and the woman was just being friendly, and another time where a woman was flirting with you, you'll just see and feel it, it's a pattern.
/r/seduction07/09/25 03:09 PM
4

It's tough to know the difference between flirting vs friendliness, it's just one of those things where you'll learn through experience, you just know it when you see it.
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:31 PM
1

I'm fallen victim to this myself, where the girl was flirty but actually just friendly or friendly but actually flirty, wait...........I'm already confused just talking about this lol. Never will I fall for that again.
/r/seduction04/09/25 12:23 AM
0

This is my opinion, that's too long 6 dates? I always follow upto 3 date rule, because you know why? Anything can happen after 3 dates including the woman can reject/ghost you and she's gone and you didn't get ot have sex with her, it has happen to me.
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:26 AM
7

The man has to make the move, if you don't make a move, nothing is going to happen. If you wait too long, it usually goes down hill from there, so make your move.
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:18 AM
2

0.5 No joke
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:49 PM
0

Maybe generally older and more experienced women maybe like virigin men or less experienced men.
/r/seduction09/04/24 10:24 PM
1

So you just DM random chicks? How do you find them?
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:54 PM
4

From my experience, if you take too long making a move, it only goes downhil from there. The woman will always wait for the guy to make the move.
/r/seduction06/04/24 03:45 PM
1

They have tons of other guys chasing them.
/r/seduction06/03/24 03:41 PM
1

Did get her number? Hook up with her later. Was she hot?
/r/seduction18/02/24 09:44 PM
5

It feels like one of those movies regarding video streamers asking viewers what they wanted to see and pays them.
/r/seduction06/02/24 02:10 PM
3

I'm going to be honest with you, luck. Right place in the right time, whether it be in college working on a group project, in classes, friend of a friend, etc. From an average man point of view and calculations, I may not get those opportunties to have sex with beautiful women so I must take full of advantage of it.
/r/seduction29/01/24 01:49 PM
1

Agreed, good point. You're better thinking that way than anything else.
/r/seduction13/01/24 07:04 PM
26

It doesn't always work, but you can apply this to other areas of your life as well, like job interviews. For example, if you're an older person applying for an internship and the manager has a problem with your age, just act like it's not a big deal.
/r/seduction17/12/23 01:58 AM
4

Yeah I get what you're saying, I don't know if you mentioned it but back in my day we called "plowing". Meaning if a girl says no to date or what not, than you would keep presisting or "plowing" through it maybe at least a couple of times before letting go and maybe trying again later.
/r/seduction06/10/23 12:54 AM
1

Sometimes money, good career, house, car etc doesn't always help. I've read of stories of men like this in the news and it did not help them, he wanted to date younger women in his 40's but unsuccessful. I don't know what the solution is, luck?
/r/seduction11/09/23 02:36 AM
1

For me, it straight luck, right place right time and also add to the fact that these women are hot but they liked sleeping around a lot and I just so happen to be in the right place in the right time.
/r/seduction16/08/23 01:39 PM
1

Wish I had moved out for college.
/r/seduction18/10/22 03:54 AM
4

University is generally easier to met
/r/seduction12/10/22 05:06 PM
1

It's easier said than done. I've known guys who have tried, pua, self help, workout, good career/house, etc still nothing.
/r/seduction12/10/22 03:14 PM
1

I've been trying to "improve myself" for years and still nothing.
/r/seduction12/10/22 01:46 AM
2

I got rejected like that too, it was hard to overcome at first and probably still stings but gotta move on to the next. Maybe she get's approached a lot just gives that canned rude response. The harsh lesson I've learned and still struggling with is to never let a previous rejection affect your next approach, you end up with negative talk to yourself like " I was so stupid to that", "I'm a loser", etc.
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:52 PM
5

Oh ok so you found her locally than got her intagram. I thought you found her on Instagram first but it's cool, good for you.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:03 AM
2

Wow I totaly envy you, can I ask yah, how did you do it? How did you find girls located near you?
/r/seduction24/09/22 12:19 AM
1

I had this learn this the hard way with wasted time and money, never again.
/r/seduction19/09/22 11:49 PM
2

Lack of interest
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:51 PM
4

Men have to do all the work, while women just sit back and enjoy the show and look pretty. Now is this fair? No, but life is not fair get use to it. I was given this world I didn't make it so don't hate the player hate the game. I would never say this out loud .because I would be attacked and nailed to the cross
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:43 AM
3

I need help, I need to get laid more. I have this blocking feeling of I'm a worthless piece of crap and no woman would ever want me. I'm not a good fighter so if I can't even defend myself, how can I defend a woman I'm with? I'm so tired of feeling this way, I just want this feeling and pain to go away. I know I have it in my to meet and sleep with tons of girls but it's just not happening, why? It's so frustrating.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:44 AM
1

You must be a good looking cat, no homo. Anyways if girls are calling you cute than that's a good thing.
/r/seduction11/09/22 04:27 AM
1

Is anyone concerned about the slobby guys coming after them? Like I'd get concerned about when I become successfully in career, life, etc that the slobby guy is going to see me, get jealous than try to get me.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:07 AM
2

Women like bad boys/jerks, I know it sucks as I'm a nice guy and women hate me.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:00 AM
2

This, I would cut her off immediately so I don't waste time nor money.
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:50 AM
3

Yup most women have no game, they just sit back and wait.
/r/seduction03/09/22 03:46 AM
1

Sometimes you get lucky on your first try but expect a lot of approaches before anything.
/r/seduction27/08/22 03:10 PM
1

Let her go or keep her on the back burner and move on to other women. Don't feel bad as women have many choices. I use to feel bad for women but when I think about it she probably has many more options than I do so let them be as they don't feel bad for me.
/r/seduction21/08/22 05:11 PM
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Flake her right back. Seriously kick her to the curb.
/r/seduction17/08/22 12:15 AM
1

Women are the gate keepers of sex
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:56 PM
-1

Congrats, you're my idol
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:19 AM
4

In other words, men have to do all the work, gotcha.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:54 PM
5

Just do what women do all the time to men, just ghost them. Don't worry about polite to them as they have many choices when it comes to partners. They didn't feel sorry for me.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:22 PM
1

This really proves that men and women can't really be "friends", and you just proved my point. He's waiting for the right time to pounce.
/r/seduction13/08/22 08:37 PM
1

Their's nothing to be ashamed but I wouldn't mention it though but that's my opinion.
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:23 AM
1

Just say hi than go in for the kill.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:34 PM
1

I think they get off on rejecting men.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:36 PM
10

"Where's the closest starbucks (or whatever store?" than go in for the kill.
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:17 AM
2

Good
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:32 PM
3

How do you know they are checking you out? How old are you?
/r/seduction08/08/22 08:33 PM
1

Medication is never the answer, if you're talking antidepressants for social anxiety. How do I know? I've been on these nasty medications and they do not help but makes things worse. If you want to take something try vitamins such as fish oil, b complex, magnesium, etc. These vitamins barely have any side effects at least not nasty ones like antidepressants like sexual dynsfuction. Only take them for a short period of time like a few months.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:15 PM
2

Congrats! How did you meet her? Cold apporach at a club? I'm hoping to get a gf as well.
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:07 PM
1

Where did you travel to?
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:57 PM
2

Luck, right place right time.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:22 AM
1

Let her go
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:10 PM
2

I got banned as well, lol. I don't think I said anything bad but apparently if they don't agree with your comment than you will be banned lol lol lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/22 05:55 PM
2

Totaly agree.
/r/seduction19/05/21 01:55 AM
4

Try 10+ years dry spell, but congrats.
/r/seduction05/05/21 01:12 AM
1

Yup I agree
/r/seduction21/04/21 04:35 PM
2

Good job!
/r/seduction04/03/20 08:03 PM
1

I’m so happy for you.
/r/seduction18/02/20 01:23 AM
10

True, no matter how busy someone is if they are truly attracted to you than they will make time to see you even if it's just for a moment.
/r/seduction09/02/20 06:22 PM
12

You're right its not, I've only had one woman who was willing to talk to me several nights a week for at least 45 min, wow.
/r/seduction03/02/20 01:42 AM
10

I don't hate pick up, but there are just somethings that don't work for everybody.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:19 AM
1

It's tough some people like myself can't take rejection well. I end thinking in my head I shouldn't have done that, said that, etc. I do agree with you, in an ideal world, I'd rather go for it and get rejected than not go for it at all but of course there are exceptions.
/r/seduction29/01/20 02:13 AM
9

All of that, fear, rejection, etc. I’m hoping she would pull me in to her lips but didn’t happen. I’ve learned that a woman will give you all the IOI’s in the world but it’s all you to the make the move. It doesn’t help that If your painfully shy.
/r/seduction26/01/20 11:17 PM
13

Meeting good but I also have trouble with the next step which is making the move. I freeze and don't lean in for the kiss.
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:35 PM
1

Here is my 2 cents, I understand that you may get attached to a female and that you want to date her badly but you must get over her. This may take time though so take that time, get over it and move on with it. Just like other others have said on here, she is or will eventually have sex with other men so forget it, it's time for you time have sex with other women. In the end, that's what she wants for you to move on and have many sex with other women.
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:42 PM
2

wow ok.
/r/seduction25/01/20 11:38 PM
1

True
/r/seduction18/01/20 05:42 PM
1

It's tough letting go sometimes but I know that she has no problem rejecting me. I also know that she is already banging other guys so the hell with her.
/r/seduction18/01/20 04:53 PM
5

Older women have approached me and it felt great.
/r/seduction17/01/20 03:17 AM
2

Right on!!! Do it!!! and I should too!
/r/seduction14/01/20 02:28 AM
1

It's hard for me too, especially if you have already low-esteem. I try not to take it personally as we all reject people. It's still tough though.
/r/seduction11/01/20 02:39 AM
1

Wow cool
/r/seduction04/01/20 01:09 AM
1

I agree, if I have to pull magic tricks out of my a** to impress her than she's not worth it at least not gf material.
/r/seduction02/01/20 02:50 PM
7

As a painfully shy guy, you gotta direct with him. When it's time to make the move, realize that he probably has a million things rolling through his mind, so maybe make it a bit easier for him and go for the kiss with him. Just pull him to your lips.
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:49 PM
1

Right on, I need to adopt this mindset.
/r/seduction29/12/19 02:03 AM
1

Yup here, I've had the luxury to have sex with older women as well in college (has class with them). I've had sex with college girls not many. Most of my lays have been through luck.
/r/seduction25/12/19 06:01 PM
2

I'm the quiet introvert type even in groups. I think it's pretty hopeless for me as I couldn't even game an older woman once, just couldn't close the deal, now how much of a loser am I? I'm lost. I wish I could help you there but I was sarging, I was completely drained before the end of the night and had to force myself to approach and most ended badly.
/r/seduction25/12/19 06:23 AM
3

Word, sex can be overrated. It's just sex, something that humans have been doing since the beginning of time. My problem is that I'm putting sex up on a pedal stool and it needs to stop.
/r/seduction25/12/19 06:19 AM
1

Also for the longest time I've felt guilty about having sex with women, especially older women. I mean they are someone's mom, daughter, etc. The more guilt I felt the angrier I got and it's just not the path I want to go down. PUA techniques never really worked for me, it was more about inner game if anything. I'm going to work on stop feeling guilty about sex as humans have been doing it since the beginning of time so nothing to feel guilty about.
/r/seduction25/12/19 06:17 AM
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