BasicDesignAdvice Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	Wife is angry and doesn't know if she can see me sexually	Basic Question	BasicDesignAdvice	/r/askMRP	12/08/23 04:14 PM

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13	If you go to bars solo, should you lie about why you're there alone? Even better is that's literally why you're there. If you meet someone, cool. If not, you had a good time.	/r/seduction	19/09/24 12:50 AM
30	What are some tips or quick fixes that actually had a big impact on your life? It sounds stupid, but many times throughout the day I repeat the things I want to believe or be true about myself. For example for awhile I repeated "I eat healthy" over and over and over again. Sometimes two or three dozen times a day. After a few days when I went to grab a late night snack "I eat healthy" would pop in my head and I would stop myself. After doing it for weeks I didn't even entertain unhealthy food, I just stopped with zero effort. I do this with all kinds of shit from "I'm a se…	/r/askMRP	18/09/24 11:43 AM
2	I finally got laid, thanks for all the advice! Those people are lying, especially at your age.	/r/seduction	06/08/24 11:59 AM
8	Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels? The goal for any guy should be to have fun, accrue experiences, and get to know people. If you do that you'll meet women of all kinds, and those women can be in many places, but just upscale cocktail bars. OP is asking about how to get sex, that's on them.	/r/seduction	04/08/24 05:31 PM
39	Over 40 years - what are your experiences with sex in hostels? This boils down to "have money." Not everyone wants to go to high end cocktail bars all the time. I would love to travel cheap and a bit gritty. I've had enough of what you are suggesting.	/r/seduction	04/08/24 03:45 PM
3	Why is it that I can pretty easily get 10-20 matches per day on hinge and 30-40+ in a big city but 95% lead to absolutely nowhere? Don't even bother with the conversation. Just open with options for a date. "Coffee or ice cream." That's it.	/r/seduction	29/07/24 01:19 PM
1	Why not just become a Passport Bro? Family court appears to favor women because so many men don't even try. Most men who petition for equal custody get it.	/r/seduction	27/07/24 06:36 PM
10	Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteem Nice. Another one I try and do daily is a decision matrix where I write three columns. First is the limiting belief, second is the new belief I want, third is the evidence to support my new belief and/or what success would look like. I think of it as installing a new program to my thinking. For OP it would be: Woman are toying with me. Women want me and are interested They touch me, flirt with me, give me backrubs, hang out with me, these things are because they want me	/r/seduction	20/07/24 04:28 PM
75	Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteem So whenever they flirt with me I feel like they're just toying with me and I end up pushing them away This is classic shit you dig in through therapy. There was a pattern of some kind in childhood that installed a mindset you can't shake today. This is a mindset thing. There is stuff you can do not it all boils down to learning how to think different. Part of that is digging into and releasing the past, part of it is changing your thinking in the present, and part of it is imagining new thinking…	/r/seduction	20/07/24 01:53 PM
6	What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy? They're fixated on looks because that's an easy way to shift blame away from the many other things people can do to be attractive.	/r/seduction	09/07/24 10:05 PM
3	What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy? Ugh that is the worst. I remember once seeing a drunk girl at a party and there were probably ten dudes staring at her like meat. It was getting really fucking weird so I found one of her guy friends and got her of there.	/r/seduction	09/07/24 10:02 PM
8	What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy? I knew this insanely creepy dude in college. Not bad looking but average. He had no problem approaching women, its just that within five minutes they were repulsed. They were almost always receptive to start though. Learned a lot from that (probably) serial killer.	/r/seduction	09/07/24 09:59 PM
1	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Books, podcasts.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 04:09 PM
4	Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond? Tell a Dr you can't get hard and aren't interested in sex and think you may be low T. They'll probably test you. If not you can order the tests yourself online and go to a blood clinic. They send the results to your address.	/r/seduction	07/06/24 11:24 AM
7	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? If it's the third+ date definitely.	/r/seduction	30/05/24 10:43 PM
2	Wife has love letters and photos hidden away of her ex I have things from my exes too. Whatever. You have bigger problems.	/r/askMRP	25/05/24 02:10 AM
2	guys who are 24+ and/or well past/done with any education/training, where and what types of social settings are you meeting women? Listen to the mating grounds podcast "Helping Joe" series. The early episodes are all about dating apps.	/r/seduction	22/05/24 12:56 PM
3	guys who are 24+ and/or well past/done with any education/training, where and what types of social settings are you meeting women? Take classes or join social groups women participate in. I know a dude in a kickball league and he meets women there. Improv class is an amazing place to meet women.	/r/seduction	22/05/24 12:55 PM
1	Why do i pull only fat girls? Your profile probably sucks.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 11:09 PM
1	Slept with 20 women in one year: Truing to deal with bad effects Get involved in social clubs and activities. Let a relationship happen naturally, if not, you'll have fun.	/r/seduction	12/05/24 01:41 PM
3	Do girls ever go alone to night clubs? Can't tell if serious or not.	/r/seduction	27/04/24 11:58 PM
1	ED without "help" from wife What soundtracks?	/r/askMRP	15/04/24 04:55 PM
5	How could I be more seductive as a “good guy”/“goofy” and be more confident. Read Married Man Sex Life Primer	/r/seduction	10/04/24 06:20 PM
1	I trained an AI to help me flirt better Same	/r/seduction	09/04/24 07:55 PM
6	I (24M) had a girl (22F) over but all we did was talk from 8 PM to 3 AM Keep moving closer. Touch her a little bit. Say "I want to kiss you" if you didn't feel comfortable going straight for it.	/r/seduction	07/04/24 05:11 PM
2	How is post divorce life for you guys? If you want to keep the house clean do it for yourself. This reeks of covert contact.	/r/askMRP	06/04/24 06:58 PM
5	Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates? Same. Finally bought a guitar at 40 because "why aren't I doing the things I want to do?"	/r/seduction	06/04/24 06:55 PM
10	Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates? For whatever reason, people approach me all the time and talk/tell me about their daily lives I think it's an energy thing. I used to be like this because I was super chill and relaxed. As I got older I became more stressed and nervous day-to-day and that stopped. Working on getting back to that version of me.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 06:37 PM
15	Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates? This is it. Even after a woman says "never in a million years" a large group of dudes will just. Not. Stop. Believing and hoping for something.	/r/seduction	06/04/24 06:33 PM
2	Why do I get attention from girls at parties but not in everyday life? People expect to meet people at parties and bars. That's it.	/r/seduction	05/02/24 05:32 PM
1	Outcome independence Jfc are you a teenager who just read The Tao? This is just begging for validation.	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/11/23 07:22 PM
20	Wife wants to go out with no explanation Going out isn't a problem. My wife and I both go out and do shit on our own. For example going to the pub to watch the game. Its the not telling you where that is the shit test.	/r/askMRP	01/11/23 07:51 PM
-1	Wife is angry and doesn't know if she can see me sexually Ya. I get it.	/r/askMRP	13/08/23 05:25 AM
1	Why you need to learn more instead of just railing against feminism Socrates was known to ask question of his detractors, and in doing so would bring the light of his argument to his opponent, and learn more about the situation himself. its never ceased to amaze me how well this tactic can work. whenever i have a conflict at work where a colleague is against my idea, i always come back with questions and a lot of the time we both learn something. more than once this process has made me change my own stance, particularly when dealing with someone who isn't articu…	/r/MensRights	23/06/12 09:27 PM
8	Saw this on Facebook for the first time. #15 absolutely flabbergasted me. 15 also presents a situation where a girl being mad at her boyfriend is never something the girl is personally responsible for. its always his fault no matter what.	/r/MensRights	23/06/12 08:46 PM
3	Exposing Feminism: The 30 Years' War Against Men a lot of things start off that way. as soon as something becomes large enough that people can see a way for it to benefit their own wants and needs it tends to be subverted. or, the original founders stick around long enough to be just as dependent on that system. a good example is the Susan Komen foundation which today seems more interested in building it brand than it does funding cancer research.	/r/MensRights	23/06/12 08:42 PM
4	TIL Only 66.8% of American men had a job in 2010. That was the lowest level that has ever been recorded in all of U.S. history oh please yourself. you brought up a completely unrelated topic to this conversation. XY working is a responsibility, XX working is a choice. you didn't not say all women. this is a totally generalized statement without it.	/r/MensRights	08/05/12 01:32 AM
1	TIL Only 66.8% of American men had a job in 2010. That was the lowest level that has ever been recorded in all of U.S. history i'm not arguing this point. my point is that its unfair to say all women have a choice in whether or not they want to work these days.	/r/MensRights	08/05/12 01:17 AM
5	TIL Only 66.8% of American men had a job in 2010. That was the lowest level that has ever been recorded in all of U.S. history i actually disagree with that. i know women who don't work because they care for the kids, but every one of them worked hard at their job before they decided to care for their kids, which is okay. you can make your choices, but sleep in the bed you made. i also know men who have done the same. i also don't know a single woman without kids who isn't working. though i don't know how much that has to do with environment. i have always lived in heavily urbanized areas.	/r/MensRights	08/05/12 12:11 AM
1	Disproportionate veteran homelessness -- women make up only 7.5% women don't see as much combat. the problem with a lot of homeless veterans isn't that they don't have tools and resources available to them, it's that they have seen things and are changed. not everyone is able to cope with that.	/r/MensRights	24/10/11 06:17 PM
2	Male feminist Micheal Flood repeatedly defines equal rights for abuse victims and father's rights groups as "anti-feminist". the term feminism precludes equality. it quite clearly states in its name that it is a pro-women ideology.	/r/MensRights	29/09/11 05:13 PM
2	Blogger suggests that tediously long books are only tolerated when they authors are men (xpost from books) if waste is part of the artists statement, then it is not bad, it is his/her intention. super fast cuts are a huge no-no in film making. Aronofsky used them in Requiem beautifully. its not about rules, its about breaking rules when you can and when it works. blogger telling us that one of the twentieth centuries finest authors is a 'bad writer' is adorable.	/r/MensRights	11/08/11 08:20 PM