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^ perfect example of what I'm talking about It is trivially true the top thought leaders are majority men. This is true in almost any major area of science, or social sciences. What's funnier, this person knows this inherently, so the backup is... Surprise! Systemic sexism. It's definitely not possible women are just different, it's sexism! And then the false dichotomy presented. Either youre a sexist or you think women aren't thought leaders because sexism. This isn't debating, it's narcissisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:50 PM
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I think debates with women (particularly those who frequent this sub) are pointless. They are more concerned with defending team women from the big bad men, than having a logical discussion. There's a reason great debaters are mostly men. If you want to learn gender dynamics, just go outside and critically think about what you see, most everything here is noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:40 PM
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wage gap is a myth Wasn't aware speaking basic facts is red pill now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:49 PM
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Not on purpose, but the profiles of 30+ women do tend have the vibe that she has some axe to grind or has a list of demands, etc. All in all just doesn't seem worth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:50 AM
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In typical PPD fashion, create ridiculous male strawman, attack said strawman. Extrapolate to men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:13 PM
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Women are impressed by men with high body counts, not the body count itself. Nobody really cares what women say they like about men. With few exceptions, it's mostly nonsense. We know what they like because we aren't blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:43 AM
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Lmao. Yeah I don't think it's men who have problems not being jerks about their preferences. Women will literally become angry when approached by guys they deem unattractive. Men don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:36 AM
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I find the desire in modern society to try and make women seem as impressive as men in every way so bizarre. They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 04:31 AM
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Do you have an actual rebuttal to the data? Didn't think so. Instead it's somehow an issue to simply illustrate the shallowness of the female gender. There is no think. We know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:28 AM
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This is absolutely false. In fact 138k might be lowballing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:25 AM
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90% of womens complaints about men can be reduced to apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:17 AM
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Google okcupid attractiveness curve. Basically women view the 80th percentile of men's attractiveness as "average"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 08:26 PM
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Sorry but that's what the data says. Your feelings don't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:48 PM
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Hard disagree. There's no laws on the books targeting men but there are clearly many institutional and societal systems that are. Divorce proceedings, affirmative action, diversity efforts within companies, curriculum tailored towards women, decreasing college enrollment among young men, the list goes on. My company fired 30% of an org that was 40% women. Not a single female was laid off. But feminism is a business now, so the "oppression" can never die.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:47 PM
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Asian women is most desirable I think. White is right up there though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:40 PM
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And I'm saying women have no clue what average is, which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:31 PM
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Oh they care, but it's a Chad / prince charming or bust attitude. I got no issues with that, but it is funny to see them complaining about there being no good men when they are basically unhealthy overweight hermits whose personality is the latest reality tv show
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:29 PM
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Well yeah the guys u swipe right on can afford to treat you that way. The people who can't afford to do that aren't attractive to make the cut. And your definition of a "regular" guy is almost certainly not regular. Women choose on these apps, and it's funny you try to blame all men for having poor discernment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:27 PM
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Are all women hypocrites for dating men who make more money than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 06:23 PM
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Check any study about reported race preferences in dating. Or you know, go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:04 PM
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How is me laughing at a statement I found preposterous trolling? Are we not allowed to laugh here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 12:03 PM
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You do realize that this is most women right? Most non-black women would never date a black man for example. This also applies to men (to a substantially lesser degree)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:26 AM
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Sure keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 11:12 AM
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More extreme strawmanning to make an incorrect point as per usual
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:00 PM
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Looool
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:59 PM
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I think some women can offer good advice, but they are rare. No woman on PPD gives useful advice for men that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:57 PM
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women are just people If I had a dollar everytime someone said this meaningless statement id be Jeff bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:43 AM
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It would be hard to argue that this wouldn't have massive affect on society. Though tbh it's pretty easy these days to get the number anyway. If they don't show it by their mannerisms, they'll just tell you flat out anyway. Multiply that by 3 and youve got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:32 AM
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Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:37 AM
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Like I said, different reasons. And no women absolutely have an easier time getting companionship, that's hardly debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:27 PM
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Oh it happens, just far far less frequently, and for much different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:19 PM
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Yes, but not in the area of dating. If a young woman has dating issues in the current era, they must be either terribly ugly or extremely unpleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:59 PM
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I don't know if you knew this, but most bluepillers (and a good portion of red pillers) have no fcking clue what they're talking about. They don't care about being logically consistent. They care about feeling good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:54 PM
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The result of too much choice. There's always something better, until there's not. I know many women like the ones OP described. Still waiting on prince charming when they are 28-35. But according to the PPD feminist cheerleading squad women will be fine with wine and cats instead. If that's true, great. I have a good feeling that it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:47 PM
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Women don't want men with emotional issues that don't benefit them. Men are willing compromise and try to fix or work with women's emotional problems, even if they are detrimental to him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:36 PM
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I think the idea is that since women are by and large the primary selectors for their partners, and initiate divorce more often, they have outsized influence on this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:11 PM
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Lol I really wonder when women will realize that a large majority of the most desirable men agree with many of the core tenets of RP, but are smart enough to not talk about it, unless with close male company. Women are awful at actually understanding men. It's why the woman ending up in a toxic relationship is a common trope. The only one surprised is her, everybody else knew he was toxic. But tingles > all and you know how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:49 PM
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I casually watch mental gymnastics as a hobby. This place gives me endless content.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:28 AM
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Or maybe, we follow the science. And the science says women find hot guys more interesting, even if they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:19 AM
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"different things". In case anyone has trouble deciphering the womenspeak, these "things" are hot dudes. And while she is only one example, we already know most women select for this primarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:16 AM
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Women on a grand scale are incapable of the honesty men desire. But if they were, yeah I think less men would be frustrated with their dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:46 AM
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Bruh there's a pink pill now? Can we stop with this crayola box of pills, none of this is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:17 AM
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Okay you're clearly a bit unhinged, have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:01 AM
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I'm not a part of any of these communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:59 AM
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Cult? I think you may have confused me for someone else, im not red pill, I just thought the rage was amusing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:53 AM
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^ how triggered people get when you suggest women should have accountability. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:50 AM
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There are several reasons why this data isn't super valuable. 1 women lie down, men lie up 2 a global pandemic 3 sampling size and cohort I do love how the bluepillers love to talk about data, but only when it seems to support their world view. Mention the heaps of data that indicates otherwise, won't hear a peep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 01:07 PM
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Wrong. married men aren't healthier. Healthy men tend to get married. Women aren't bestowing men with some magical potions to improve their lives. Women marry successful men. You've have cause and effect reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:18 PM
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Won't stop PPD women from claiming otherwise. Somehow having many options is worse than none at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:31 AM
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Tale as old as time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:27 AM
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Maybe you should accept that you're wrong and you don't have any actual sound arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:22 AM
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hard to figure out women I've never found this to be true
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:22 PM
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some confidence I'm honestly still amazed, given what we know now, that people still believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:59 PM
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You predicted the "men suck" responses perfectly. Which is thoroughly dumb as you said. Women do prioritize sex, just with very attractive individuals. Due to social media and dating apps it's much easier to find "chads" to bang to fulfill their desires. Ideally they lock them down, but until they get older, it's Chad or nothing. Men's behavior had changed in response to trends, they are not the cause of them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:08 PM
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Breathe, don't be annoying, don't be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:54 PM
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I have almost never seen an attractive female with an average guy. The other way round I see all the time. But given how women rate men's attractiveness, it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:53 PM
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Rights? None. Privileges, a few. But women also have privileges over men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:48 PM
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tendency of being aggressive toward your gender Absolutely untrue, but nice try slipping that in there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:44 PM
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Thank you. Every week new mental gymnastics to explain the gross imbalance in the dating market. They just want Chad, because he gives them the tingles. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:35 PM
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Women are not just people, they are women. You can't gloss over this distinction. And many of the stuff you mentioned women will deny so it's not that mainstream is it. I'm not even rp but you are over trivializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:14 AM
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It is fun to see the depths that people (mostly women) go to preserve self image. I would give up on trying to learn anything here, and focus on the dog shit arguments people make 24/7. It's fun to shred them apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:10 AM
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men tend to do more crying You can't be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:03 AM
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Except being attractive is what makes women orgasm. You wrote so much and said literally nothing except women like casual sex with hot dudes. What a revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:05 PM
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Damn, you are extra based today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:00 PM
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A "nice guy" is a convenient designation for an unattractive man who shoots his shot. Instead of just saying he's too ugly, you make up something about him "faking" a friendship to get into your pants. Boom, you get to reject a guy for being ugly but to everyone else you're shunning a "creep".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:09 PM
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That's why I said "on average". Lonely women exist, but there are far far less of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 06:54 PM
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Women and actual empathy is a rare combo. women have a tough time understanding how much lonelier the life of the average man is, so they can't relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:52 PM
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the best looking man who feels shit about himself will not be able to attract women Lmao. I really wonder what it takes to be this delusional about the world. Like either you live under a rock, or you're blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:07 PM
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complete unknown Lol no. It's just the reasons tend to clash with people's personal delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:04 PM
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Men don't give a shit about women getting matches on tinder. They think it's stupid when women say they have such a hard time dating. Comparatively, it's easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:45 PM
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Almost all women have many options
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 04:57 PM
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Both are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:19 PM
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I think the biggest hurdle for women is unironically their personality. if as a woman in the current climate you desire a partner and cannot find one with the endless avenues available, you're probably a bonafide loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:18 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:31 PM
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All data would imply the opposite. Dating is hard because women find a large majority of men unattractive despite themselves being painfully mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:13 PM
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All data would say otherwise but you seem fond of sticking your head in the sand so you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:11 PM
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Some things were easier in the past. And some things were harder. That's not really an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:36 PM
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As usual, you have cause and effect mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:19 PM
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Every man desires chads lifestyle. Average men do not expect nor require it. Average men are content finding someone at their level who likes them back and isn't a terrible person. This is apparently too much to ask these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:08 PM
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Most people come here to try and defend team women/men as a proxy for defending their own life. So they'll say anything or have whatever opinion. Men are shallow, women have it so tough in dating, attractiveness doesn't matter, blah blah blah. But if you're an regular guy in real life, not a bluepilled woke warrior white knight, or a loser internet radfem who frequents fds or PPD, it's clear as day how things work. No dumb strawmen arguments are going to convince them about bluepilled bullshit. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:05 PM
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Lol, either incredibly stupid or just very dedicated trolling. Impressive either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:06 PM
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Oh I get it you're a misandrist. Cool cool. Have fun with that I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:02 PM
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It really goes to show people will just believe what they like no matter what. Women care more about personality This has been debunked to high heaven and back. No, they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:24 PM
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I figure you must be fairly old, because you seem out of touch with modern dating. Most guys pass Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:22 PM
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Yes they do. A lot. Statistics show women date up. That by definition means men date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:20 PM
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Lol you seem upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:18 PM
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Lmaooo Breathes in LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:12 PM
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It would never work. Dating apps are built to please young women (they are the valuable customer needed to make men spend money). Women desire tinder like apps, because they for the most part value physical attractiveness above all else. There a reason even the personality and traditional focused dating apps like okc and CMB have all ended up as tinder clones. It's what women want. Easy access to attractive males without much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:11 PM
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No, men are not as shallow as women in this regard and the studies have shown that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:15 PM
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The irony of this statement is palpable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:13 PM
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a women making 30k is happy with a man making 30k This is provably wrong by looking income disparity in marriages. Probably more wrong factoring income disparity in all relationships. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:07 PM
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Or maybe they want different things at different times, or perhaps those aren't the same men saying those things. I swear half the women trying to debate men's points on this sub try to deconstruct an argument for a "gotcha" that is intellectually void or an insane strawman as a desperate attempt to win a point for team woman. You're not that smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:05 PM
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All evidence points to the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:07 PM
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Aren't jokes supposed to be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:53 PM
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You know according to tinder swipe rates, this isn't even that much of an exaggeration lol. Women who are slim and educated (like, actually educated, not a useless degree) have insanely high standards. I speak from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:53 PM
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Women are shallow and your comment is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 04:48 PM
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Average men do not run into people interested them. Average men are not noticed in that way. You don't have any idea what is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:05 AM
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Game is a myth in the sense that it cannot turn someone average into attractive. Like personality, its only useful at the fringes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:04 AM
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He's talking out of his ass. He's the resident white knight here. Average men do not get the opportunity to reject women very often if at all
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:00 AM
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No. Average guys do not get approached. They don't live the life you described at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 01:50 AM
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You know u look really dumb quoting this study without understanding it. What percentage of women message men period? Spoiler: a small percentage. So no, you're wrong again on this point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:25 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:22 PM
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Try going outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:26 PM
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Woman on PPD complaining about men not handling the truth. Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:26 PM
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This isn't a smart or insightful rebuttal. Please stop leaning on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:36 PM
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Holy shit white knighting has really hit a new level. Women's dating problems are trivial compared to mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:32 PM
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I really wonder when ppl post absolute nonsense like this they really believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:25 PM
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Women find 80% of men unattractive. Men are the ones who need to lower standards. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:08 PM
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This is satire right? Please someone tell me it is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:34 AM
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When women say they are attracted to intelligence what they really mean is they want a Chad who wears glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:06 PM
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No men have problems with the gaslighting that women are less shallow than men, they are far more shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:53 PM
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No men have problems with the gaslighting that women are less shallow than men, they are far more shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:53 PM
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No men have problems with the gaslighting that women are less shallow than men, they are far more shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 05:53 PM
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The carousel does not function the same way for men and women, because men and women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:30 PM
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username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:27 PM
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Most men do not have the luxury of considering women who make a lot of money since their standards are in space.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:26 PM
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Yeah, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 10:42 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 08:08 PM
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Remember guys, it's always mens fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:11 PM
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It's more Apex fallacy then anything. You have to realize most women don't even notice the bottom 80% of men. So when they say men only want sex they are talking about these top men who obviously aren't settling down for just anyone. In the end you have a situation where women assume if they can sleep with a man, they can lock him down. Resulting in the "men only want sex thing". Tbh I don't think these women actually care, they'll go been to being pumped and dumped the next day anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:09 PM
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Game is 99% tied to looks. No amount of social suave is gonna score you a good looking girl if you're ugly. Cue the "I have a short friend who slays...." comments in 3....2..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 04:18 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:52 PM
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I feel like half the posts on this forum are people creating strawmen and then attacking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:40 AM
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Not wanting to date a slut isn't paranoia, it's common sense. Being wary of different treatment isn't paranoia, it's common sense. Paying attention to the past isn't paranoia. Like wtf is even this post? Yeah turns out actions have consequences. Unfortunately many women realize this too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:35 AM
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Provably incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:24 AM
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Dating apps that are more personality focused exhibit the same behavior. Women are far more shallow than men when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:23 AM
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/endthread
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 06:20 AM
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No, not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 03:17 PM
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Forgot the footnote: Most if not all qualities listed are optional if sufficiently attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:29 PM
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That women care more about personality than men do. This is a massive lie. In fact most things that complain about men are things they do 5x worse. But then what I actually realized is that when women complain about men, it's about very attractive men, who can do whatever they want and face no real consequences with women, and it all started making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:54 PM
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It's been said many times before, but being an ugly woman is better than being an average male in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 02:46 PM
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misandry is ok because reasons What a shit take
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 12:38 PM
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they value personality much higher Hahaha, good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 06:42 PM
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Imagine thinking women actually select men they fuck based on values. Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 02:04 PM
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Follow rules 1 and 2. If that isn't possible not much really. Easy sex is reserved for women and physically attractive men, with a few exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 02:49 PM
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Ah, yes of course, its all mens fault
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:46 AM
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My thoughts are he's out of touch with men who actually struggle with dating. Being a hero to women does nothing or at best gets you friendzoned if you aren't attractive enough. The game has changed and so has society
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:44 AM
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None of these wiki links work for me, not sure why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:37 AM
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I seriously have no idea wtf all these terms mean, I'm new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:37 PM
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? What does that even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:05 PM
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I rarely see this, unless it's a mixed race relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:41 PM
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If you're a woman or an attractive male it's never been better. Tbh if as a woman you can't find sex or commitment you really most not have much going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 01:33 AM
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Looks - 4-6 not sure tho Success - 10 Status - 6 Social skills - 7
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 09:24 PM
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That's one way of looking at it. Btw it's not the actual number is the issue, is that it's indicative of undesirable qualities. I haven't met many well adjusted women with n counts in the triple digits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:02 PM
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Yeah I should have clarified. Things even out a bit as women get older
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:01 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 06:00 PM
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You're a guy, n count doesn't matter that much. N count means very different things for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:47 PM
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Nope, it's very easy for women to get both sex and commitment. Unfortunately, average men don't really register on the average women's radar. They try and get commitment from Chad, who doesn't want or need commitment from them. Then you end up with posts like this and "where are all the good men" etc blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:45 PM
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You sound very secure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 03:40 PM
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Yes, because most of the time they are more concerned about coming off looking good rather than being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:51 AM
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Yes, men are turned on by a much wider range of physical characteristics then women. There was a pretty good OkCupid excitement in this. You could also just go to a club. The guys girls are trying to hit up share all the same traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:48 PM
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I've never heard anyone say both these things. I'm sure those two things have been said by separate men though. This is the root of your confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:47 PM
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I'm not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:42 PM
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Don't have a real response so you resort to name calling. Nice. I'd relish in winning this argument, but it was so easy that it would feel wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:58 PM
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You can call it an excuse, I call it disincentives and economics. On a broad level, if something becomes more expensive, people buy less of it. Getting a girl in recent times has become more "expensive" in a sense for the average guy. So the time these people would be spending courting potential gfs, is now spent on hobbies, including videogames (which is a very accessible hobby)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:38 PM
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NY, LA, SF. where most young rich people are. Money in this new social network empowered dating market doesn't mean much. If a girl can't see you being on her Instagram, she's not dating you. Being physically attractive is almost everything these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:31 PM
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I don't play videogames. they are still picky. The data also supports women being very picky. you dont seem to know what your talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:34 PM
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Yeah this isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:48 AM
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Collapse? Not anytime soon. Degrade? Possibly. I think men will continue to respond the same way they have over the last few years. More videogames, porn, and other entertainment, less trying to impress women that aren't worth their time. I mean it's getting pretty bad out there. I have friends worth multiple millions and they have to settle for absolute uggos just to get laid. Just isn't worth it for them a lot of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:40 AM
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Chad is an attractive male and nothing more. You're the one creating Boogeymen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:08 AM
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This is some gold tier mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 02:07 AM
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Most of the problems listed for women are barely even problems lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 05:36 PM
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Or doing both?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:21 PM
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This is a really roundabout way of saying women don't date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 10:55 PM
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Sapiosexual = likes Chad with glasses 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:59 PM
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So first you could imagine and now you have a close friend that is exactly that. press x to doubt.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 12:03 AM
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I can also easily imagine a unicorn walking down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:36 PM
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That is what I have observed, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:57 PM
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In general no. Attractive guys that I'm friends with, sometimes. Since all the girls treat them very nicely, they won't realize she was hitting on him unless its really really obvious. But it's not like it matters in the end, when girls get the tingles they tend to keep trying until they get a firm no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:30 PM
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Just workout and groom yourselves guys, it's really that simple. I know plenty of 5'7 not white guys who slay Sure you do. I've also run into 3 unicorns this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 03:25 PM
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Aren't enough top men to go around. They'll prefer casual flings with them rather than the alternative (until that's no longer possible)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 12:13 PM
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In SF they are called 49ers. 4s who act like they're 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 02:55 AM
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Believing data = lunatic. Lol ok buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 01:47 AM
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I'm not sure why you are referring to me in particular. I do ok with women. And nowhere have I complained. I'm just not stupid as to not understand this simple fact. Just because this is true doesnt mean you must resent women. It sure as hell hasn't changed my ability to attract women (perhaps it's helped actually).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:45 PM
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Yes, hence the maximize what you got. If you've got everything but were just overweight, that is very different than somebody who is very short or of certain race etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:36 PM
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Yes the reason men have trouble with women is because they don't like them enough 🙄 Geez this sub sometimes. Women are shallower than men, get over it. There is nothing wrong with understanding this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:34 PM
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Because that is provably true. 90% of what makes an attractive men attractive are largely immutable. There are numerous data points to back this up It goes without saying you should do the best with what you've got, that's hardly profound. But that's not going to turn you into a "Chad"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:44 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 05:03 PM
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creeped out Some can, and many more won't be. Vegetarians Loool. Dietary preferences has rarely kept a girl away from a sufficiently attractive guy, especially on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:07 PM
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It's not being defensive. The downvotes are from people who know it's bullshit. It doesn't really matter if you break any of those rules if you follow #1 and #2. It's like girls putting "no hookups" on their tinder profile. All for show.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 11:48 AM
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I never said those anecdotes are acceptable. I'm not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:14 PM
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Ah yes your anecdote is truth. I have been convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:40 AM
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You seem quite out of the loop. They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:38 AM
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it's because they're below average Statistics do not agree with you. Considering there are far more sexually inactive men than women (especially among the younger population) it follows it is women who are shooting out of their league, not men. Women however, are perfectly fine being in a rotation and mistake being a quick lay for being on an attractive man's level.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:36 AM
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I envy the blissful ignorance of people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:22 PM
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Men should do what they want. You can excuse poor behavior from women all you want, I'm not gonna do the same. There is no indiscriminate rage, only indifference and understanding. Of course, to women this is "red pill rage".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:34 PM
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This different women different tastes thing is an absolute meme
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:33 PM
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Based, and genuinely surprised it's coming from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 10:17 PM
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I feel many people around these parts will have no issues telling people to work harder to get a relationship, and yet will also get hissy when someone says poor people should just work harder to become rich. Women are bleeding heart liberals, until it comes to the dating/sex, where they are rugged capitalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 08:45 PM
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They call them 49ers for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:30 AM
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Both can be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 01:28 AM
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Whatever the underlying biological reasons are, yes men are still more romantic than women. Just because it's rooted in biology doesn't make this any less true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:43 PM
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It's pretty much ad hominem to avoid having a real discussion. It's used by many of the PPD regulars, especially when suggesting women these days aren't perfect in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 06:37 PM
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"1-3% varies for each woman" This actually isn't true at all. There are a very narrow and common set of characteristics attractive to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:50 AM
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Yeah this isn't true. Over half of relationships are started online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 07:46 AM
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More relationships are started online than not. Seems like you're the one who needs a reality check?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:36 AM
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Yup this sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:35 AM
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Yes it does. In fact it’s the perfect control. Nothing changes but the pictures. And yet, 10-100x more matches. Which is 10-100x more chances for a date. This isn't a brand new concept, the effects of physical attractiveness in dating is well documented. Not sure ppl are so bent on trying to say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 01:32 AM
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Whether a man is a "nice guy" or a nice guy is 95% based on how attractive he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:28 PM
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Yes, I don't think there exists a single experiment where physical attractiveness wasn't the strongest indicator for sexual success. This is of course true for both men and women. But for men the effect is much more pronounced.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 12:33 PM
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The average woman can easily fill as much time in her schedule as she wants with dates with men as attractive or more attractive than her easily. The average man can snag 2 dates in a week if hes lucky, and she probably won't be a looker. You need to be quite attractive as a man to mimic the dating experience of the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 01:05 AM
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You really shouldn't ask this to women in a sub like this. Most women here are more concerned with saving face and as such will claim they would be ok with it to make some point about women's lives being harder. Admitting privilege is anathema to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 04:07 PM
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