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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Too Awkward to be sexy? | Basically_Merican | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:12 AM |
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| 2 | I need some helpMental toughness and forced confidence. The best decisions I've ever made seemed risky and spontaneous and in in charted territory and I am a planner who likes to know where things are going. You just gotta go for it, you have to tell yourself that you don't want to live in this in between "Should I or should I not?" and if you go for it and she likes into it, WIN! And if she's not? That's okay. Things might be awkward at first but in time they'll fade away. Don't let it eat you up, rejection is… | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 08:00 AM |
| 1 | (FR) a girl asksd me for my phone number...advice?Yeah I'm 17 so understood, but I mean yeah find out what she's into and use it your advantage and compliment her personality or intelligence. That worked for me when my boyfriend used it. I'm really passionate about being an activist and early on he would bring up an issue or something and then he'd say something like " Wow you have such a giving spirit" or " I'm not going to lie I find it really attractive, your passion that is" don't be scared to push the envelop a little just kind of drop lit… | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I hate admitting thisGain confidence, love yourself and keep your confidence. Not only will you be happy on your own but girls are magnets to truly confident guys (and yes faking confidence will ultimately bring you true confidence). The best relationships I've had in the past were the ones when I stopped thing about dating and focused on my happiness and was just casual with guys. I'm currently in a now 7 months relationship with a super confident guy that I usually wouldn't go for slid into my DMs asking about my … | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Too Awkward to be sexy?Thanks, that's something I believe I can handle and was helpful haha | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:53 AM |
| 0 | [Texting] What are your best conversation starters?My boyfriend honestly slid into my DMs like so : Can I ask you something ? Me: Yeah, sure Him: Why are you a democrat, also don't I know you from somewhere ? (We we're mutual friends in middle school and I'm sure he knew that and he also looked through my profile for something to ask me about and I'm a big democrat and activist etc.) Oddly enough he's a big republican so that was my question for him, so we somewhat modestly argued in the beginning... 8 months later I don't think we've gone a day… | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:51 AM |
| 1 | What is wrong with me?Guard your heart, I had a similar problem that often left be heartbroken. I was casual and happy for a while then feel head over heels into it and they'd just fade away and I was left in shambles. When I say guard your heart that's probably not what you really want to hear but I know it's nearly impossible but guard your investment in the relationship. If she seems to pull away, don't try to do all this grand shit to ring her back-if she's going to start cutting back, cut her back. I don't want … | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Girl is giving me the cold shoulder for no reason?Some girls embody the stereotypical hormonal bitch (not calling her a bitch necessarily) and I have always seemed to be friends with the worst of them. Some of my friends have done almost exactly what she is doing to you to other guys and I've ask one in particular about it and basically she first denied there was even anything going on. I can't give you an exact accurate answer. She could be into you but doesn't want to admit it to herself or anyone so cutting you off works. Also Girls more so … | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:30 AM |
| 1 | (FR) a girl asksd me for my phone number...advice?The best first dates I've ever been on have been more like hangouts, like casually getting something to eat-everyone likes to eat and it's even better to go enjoy food with someone you enjoy! You could just casually bring it up to her like "Hey do you want to eat Mexican tomorrow? " , if you cook yourself just be like "Hey I'm cooking this, do you want to come over and try it ?" I'd say these are just safe ways to ask out a girl I mean she seems interested so you have a pretty good chance. I hop… | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Too Awkward to be sexy?Not just males response, women hit me up with your sexual advice as well | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:13 AM |
| 1 | how do you deal with getting a bad reputation because of picking up women?My boyfriend had that reputation, well I guess even after dating for me for 7 months somehow still does. I'm not going to lie I interpreted my boyfriends reputation as more of a ladies man that just happened to date a lot of girls and found it rather attractive. So just make it positive, use it to your advantage, it could honestly help you get girls. The girls who look too into your "bad reputation" are a waste of time anyway. | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 07:10 AM |
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