Basicbitchbeige Archive

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3	I've had to tell myself this after cutting a few toxic people out of my life, especially with long-term friends who have felt the need to pat me on the back and tell me that I've "come so far" every single time we speak. It comes off very patronizing and forced. DAE understand what I mean? I had some drama happen last summer. I established one boundary, because something similar had popped up before and I went against my gut. My old college friend’s sexist child of a husband threw a hissy and “cut me out since I was toxic.” More like, I didn’t bow down to his will and he doesn’t have the capacity to apologize to women. At the time it stung because I lost my friend as well. Now I just feel sorry for her that she has to live with that relationship and I have so much more time becaus…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 02:57 PM
25	Stop fucking falling in love with "potential"! My last relationship lasted 10ish years with a one year split in the middle. I knew I wasn’t being treated right, but looking back on it with clearer eyes, I was chasing something familiar. My distant father’s love and attention. So many red flags, never capable of talking about serious things or relationship issues, rarely taking ownership, once he forgot my birthday - he brought me a heating pad in a bag and explained that he was going to get me a heated blanket but they were out. It is wild t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 02:33 PM