BasicsofPain Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Truth	General	BasicsofPain	/r/MensRights	15/12/22 05:29 PM

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-3	Is infant male circumcision, the same as piercing a child's ears? If you want to have an honest discussion about choice, absolutely. My point being, claiming PTSD is beyond reason. Don’t let this forum turn into claiming victimhood and oppression at every opportunity. There are enough groups who believe they have no hope because the system is rigged against them that have allowed themselves to remain victims for generations. Stand against fundamental unfairness wherever possible while looking for avenues of improvement, not only for yourself but other men. Act…	/r/MensRights	17/08/24 04:30 AM
16	A woman secretly undergoes an abortion early in the relationship, feels guilty about it later, but gets encouraged by redditors that she 'doesn't need to tell him at all' Men have no reproductive rights. This has lead women to believe men are little more than helpers or assistants in the child’s life. An ATM who had better do what he is told or lose all access to the child. The courts consistently reinforce this belief system on behalf of women. This would kinda be a natural outcome of that slanted viewpoint.	/r/MensRights	16/08/24 02:37 PM
-13	Is infant male circumcision, the same as piercing a child's ears? I was on board until the “PTSD symptoms” statement. That term has been so misused and has become so all encompassing to the point everyday life circumstances are now claiming PTSD. We have so devalued the term that people who suffer clinical PTSD from actual trauma are seeking treatment alongside folks who have had what amounts to a bad day.	/r/MensRights	16/08/24 02:30 PM
10	Because a few people do bad things, the entire group is responsible. I’ll worry about convincing women all men ain’t violent when women worry about convincing men that all women aren’t using the grossly unbalanced divorce system which services women nearly exclusively to intentionally increase male suicides from the 4:1 ratio to the 9:1 ratio post divorce.	/r/MensRights	15/08/24 05:37 AM
3	Batshit crazy article in The New York Times That whole story sounds like bullshit. Made up in an attempt to solicit sympathy for a fictional event perpetrated by a nonexistent, cookie cutter male antagonist. Women will to anything to elicit emotional responses from their man hating sisters. I call CAP.	/r/MensRights	10/08/24 05:09 AM
2	I’m a 5ft 2in man. When will society forgive me for it? Never. The world does not abide complaints from men. Stop it.	/r/MensRights	06/08/24 08:39 PM
6	Why don’t men discuss experiences of being harassed by women? The world does not abide complaints from men.	/r/MensRights	01/08/24 04:56 PM
3	Has the mental health community ever failed you? The first thing you have to recognize in your mental health journey is this, the mental health systems are designed by and for women. In particular, suicide prevention. All of the emergency services, screening and treatment is designed to give women the best possible opportunity for survival. You will be asked questions you will not easily relate to or may even be completely unrelated to your perception of, not only yourself, but your place in the world. Don’t let yourself be deterred. As long a…	/r/MensRights	27/07/24 03:20 PM
25	What are some mens issues that people usually don't know about Men have been systematically isolated, especially from other men in mentoring roles. It has become common for society to depict ”a real man” as having something to do with a lone wolf mentality. You know what happens to the lone wolf, he dies quickly and horribly. But isolation is a real problem for men and it’s rarely talked about.	/r/MensRights	03/07/24 09:37 PM
2	What are your thoughts on this? Seems legit. Just like women are lashing out against males entering female sporting leagues. The elite female performers are still eligible for the rewards their talent demands while the mid to low performers are pushed out so, yeah, probably true.	/r/MensRights	01/07/24 06:31 AM
27	If a drunk man has sex with a sober women, then can he claim rape? As long as those interactions are judged through the lens of the Duluth model, men will always be viewed as a predator in every scenario.	/r/MensRights	26/06/24 02:22 PM
1	Firestorm erupts over requiring women to sign up for military draft Forcing women into military service weakens the service as a whole while increasing costs to the taxpayer. Seems like a double loss to me.	/r/MensRights	22/06/24 06:16 PM
3	Femcel Gender studies major explains how the men’s mental health movement is “incel propaganda”. Got it. Women ATTEMPT suicide in less messy ways out of deep concern for their loved ones while the ever evil man COMMITS suicide with utter disregard for their loved ones. The demonizing of men continues even after their deaths.	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 02:31 PM
2	How many of y'all just found out this is men's mental health month? Working at a large corporation, like 10s of thousands of employees worldwide. We received and email every day last month for woman’s mental health month. We have received a single email, on June 1 for men’s. I guess that is one email at least but, yeah, 1…….	/r/MensRights	10/06/24 10:44 PM
3	today I realized a brutal truth about males in todays world…nobody cares about us and i broke down in tears earlier This is a universal truth and you should know it already. Men are expendable and always have been. No one is coming to save you and the world does NOT abide complaints about that fact. Once you come to this realization, you are free to become what you are meant to be. You don’t owe anyone anything and that is a gift. Your life is your responsibility and you deserve the rewards you earn from making decisions in your own best interests. Be free brother.	/r/MensRights	07/06/24 10:35 PM
8	The "women do all the work" narrative has to be one of the biggest social gaslighting campaigns of all time... Feminism only exists at the benevolence of men. Everything, and I do literally mean everything, that makes the world safe and comfortable enough for women to complain about inequality is created, maintained and protected by the very same men feminists complain about.	/r/MensRights	01/06/24 06:00 PM
1	Why do male abuse victims get arrested? Because all law enforcement agencies are still trained under the Duluth model which state women can only be victims and men can only be aggressors.	/r/MensRights	26/05/24 02:28 AM
5	Men are dying on the battlefield but here's why that's a good thing! Imagine if there was an article celebrating men replacing the 70% of female med school students because those females were off dying, for whatever reason. Oh the shit storm that would ensue.	/r/MensRights	20/05/24 05:56 PM
4	Childbirth pain is because of the 'patriarchy' now apparently. I’m so fucking sick of women trying to make men feel guilty about childbirth. That is just fucking biology and it’s not men’s fault women give birth. Just like women don’t feel one ounce of guilt about the fact men have nearly exclusively done the dying protecting society, men shouldn’t feel any guilt about women giving birth. Get over yourselves ladies. You’re not that special.	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 07:04 PM
2	Childbirth pain is because of the 'patriarchy' now apparently. I’m so fucking sick of women trying to make men feel guilty about childbirth. That is just fucking biology and it’s not men’s fault women give birth. Just like women don’t feel one ounce of guilt about the Macy men have nearly exclusively done the dying protecting society, men shouldn’t feel any guilt about women giving birth. Get over yourselves ladies.	/r/MensRights	18/05/24 07:02 PM
8	Boy, 10, kills himself after suffering horrific bullying I can’t help but notice it’s a white male. Had it be a different color/gender/identity there would have been swift decisive action.	/r/MensRights	16/05/24 02:35 PM
3	Is this study legit, it says 14% of college men have committed sexual assault The definition of SA has been expanded to a point it has been rendered meaningless. SA can include: staring at a woman, walking on the same side of the street, approaching a woman in a public space, telling a woman “no”, engaging in consensual sexual activity the woman regrets the next day, unwanted compliments, essentially anything a woman “feels” is SA regardless of that activity meeting the legal definition of SA. These “studies” are beyond reason.	/r/MensRights	13/05/24 09:05 PM
4	The Old Boys Club: What is happening to male spaces? As a pre-teen and teen in the eighties, I recognized this trend as a young man. Traditional male spaces were either forcibly made coed or shamed out of existence. Simultaneously, female only spaces were created because men were “to dangerous” to be in close proximity to women. For 40 years men have been systematically isolated from each other. Boys have been told they are so dangerous, predatory and violent they cannot talk to, be in the same room, or even look at women.	/r/MensRights	12/05/24 01:04 PM
2	Train drivers overwhelmingly middle-aged white men Generally, any system that relies on meritocracy, as it’s primary path to hiring/advancement, will favor men. Feminists know women will be underrepresented in those systems and consistently seek implementation of systems that encourage homogeneous distribution of authority rather than encouraging rewarding excellence and/or talent. The same biological differences that give men advantages in physical endeavors also give men advantages in the workplace. Namely, abilities that allow men to work lon…	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 08:48 PM
5	Why do boys lag behind girls at all ages of education? MPs to Investigate "The Education Committee has launched a new inquiry into why boys consistently underperform compared with girls in educational attainment across all age groups and nearly all ethnicities, and examine ways to improve outcomes." Well, let’s think about this: 1) Educators are mostly women 2) Educational settings are designed for women 3) Educational strategies are designed for women 4) Financial incentives favor women 10:1 5) Campuses are unfriendly to men 6) Women are encouraged to gather into groups 7) Legally, women are favored over more qualified men. We could go on and on. The point being, we have created a system that is designed and implemented in ways that favor women over men at every level. These outcomes are n…	/r/MensRights	01/05/24 03:14 PM
3	Double standards: are men just better at the piano? Every inequitable outcome is immediately labeled “sexism” or “racism.” Show me some disparity in the system other than the outcome and we’ll be right in there fighting on your behalf. Just screaming “this outcome isn’t 50/50!” Is not a valid argument. It’s a child’s argument.	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 08:13 PM
3	Double standards: are men just better at the piano? This seems completely reasonable. The physical advantages men have are often more likely to create disparities in outcome rather than the “patriarchy” we constantly have jammed down our throats. It’s likely to be true across multiple fields.	/r/MensRights	02/04/24 08:09 PM
2	Cop-gone-wild, 28, will get $500,000 PAYDAY after suing city claiming she was sexually groomed by her 'predator' superiors - after she was fired for sex romps with seven officers Women are simultaneously empowered and victims depending on the desired outcome.	/r/MensRights	24/03/24 04:41 PM
2	Why are men forbidden to vent about how awful dating has gotten? Because the world doesn’t abide complaints from men. One of the male social paradoxes. Men are expected to stand up for themselves and get what they earn but can never ever be perceived as having complained about inequity or unfavorable double standards.	/r/MensRights	24/03/24 04:16 PM
9	The loss of men's spaces, and who it hurts most. Well no shit. I’m old enough to remember the 80s. Even as a pre-teen and teenager I remember noticing it was socially bad for men to gather with other men. Traditionally male spaces were either forcibly co-opted or protested until they shut down. Women only spaces were created because men were to “dangerous” for women to be around while male only space were publicly discouraged and shamed. 2 generations of males have been told everything a man wants is bad, unjust and immoral. Men are dangerous …	/r/MensRights	02/02/24 05:51 PM
1	Rant: Women should be held accountable for their part in the sex trade since they are the majority of pornstars and prostitutes. IDK fellas. Men gotta take some level of accountability because, despite what womanists might have you believe, the future depends on men. If men stopped paying for sex, both IRL and online, the industry dies. If men stop banging every girl that gives it up for free, hookup culture dies. If men stop marrying low quality women with poor behavior, we breed out the low quality women. If men stop simping for attention seeking thots, attention seeking behavior ends and maybe ends social media as a by…	/r/MensRights	01/02/24 11:22 PM
23	Why So Many Young Men Are Abandoning College Degrees 1) We have socially stigmatized men in education 2) Campuses are dangerous places for men 3) Educational styles are not geared to men 4) Fewer economic incentives for men 5) Men are less willing to incur debt	/r/MensRights	11/01/24 04:48 PM
3	Incels: a new study. In the fifth slide, they mention “hostile online misogyny” I’d be curious how that is defined. Most mainstream media would consider this Reddit “hostile online misogyny”	/r/MensRights	29/11/23 04:00 AM
1	Being a good guy in this generation isn’t worth it IDK man. The nice guy argument is a tough one. Like, what is a nice guy anyway? I would submit the current definition is a man who caters to women, trying endlessly to gain the favor of those women. Is that really a “nice guy?” I would suggest, using that definition, those guys are actually douche bags. Using “niceness” as a means to get something in return, from a woman, is devious and dishonest. And most women can actually sniff that out pretty quickly. Well, where does that leave us and what …	/r/MensRights	04/11/23 04:16 PM
1	"Don't draft our daughters", an interesting take. Guess who's gonna have to be super duper privileged again if TSHTF? The fact is the vast majority of women cannot pass the watered down female physical standard much less the male standard. Even if women are eligible for conscription, there’s little actual risk as only a statistically insignificant number would ever see combat.	/r/MensRights	18/10/23 01:39 PM
1	I transitioned to man when I was 26, and discovered his hard it is to be a man. Now Imma tell you men how to be better men. Blah blah blah. One stupid cliche after another simultaneously claiming female oppression and male privilege while presenting himself/herself as the victim of both. Martyrdom at its finest.	/r/MensRights	09/08/23 01:25 PM
1	Decorated feminist author Jessica Valenti writes "feminists absolutely, without a doubt, do not hate men", proceeds to hate men And, it’s fucking Monday. What else is new?	/r/MensRights	25/04/23 05:54 AM
1	Another accused student commits suicide. Parents sue. These stories highlight 2 things: 1) The accusation, regardless of voracity, permanently damages the accused which is the desired outcome of the feminist agenda. 2) Females consider suicide while males actually commit suicide.	/r/MensRights	18/02/23 07:53 AM
7	Anyone else feeling uncomfortable around the gym lately after that latest tik tok trend where girls film themselves to catch any men that glance at them for a second? Eyes front and looking at the floor is what they want from men. Sounds like something someone would require of a slave…….	/r/MensRights	05/02/23 04:16 AM
1	Online misogyny set to be outlawed (Uk) Criminalizing speech that offends feelings. Let that sink in.	/r/MensRights	05/02/23 04:10 AM
11	Women are openly allowed to hate men anywhere and anytime they like!!! Why? I may be a little older than some users here but I’m old enough to remember the 80s very clearly. There was a 3 pronged attack on men in the 80s. 1) Women invaded male spaces demanding equal access. 2) Woman only spaces were created excluding men based on safety. 3) Male spaces that couldn’t be successfully invaded were vilified until the space was closed or it became so socially reprehensible no one could attend. Men have been systematically isolated and silenced into soul crushing loneliness a…	/r/MensRights	15/12/22 06:39 PM
117	Posted by a female relative of mine. Ridiculous, right? We’re becoming a slave class. Forgotten, used, dismissed.	/r/MensRights	14/12/22 06:58 AM
1	new psychology study So, essentially, all men are mentally ill. Got it….	/r/MensRights	13/12/22 11:04 PM
23	Feminist glossary in one of the most influential newspaper re-defines sexism as affecting only women (and more) If a dude wrote this, his atoms would be shamed across the universe. Open misandry is socially acceptable and encouraged.	/r/MensRights	13/12/22 05:27 PM
11	Once again, the UN diminishes men's problems by hyperfocusing on female suffering, while causally dismissing male suffering. 81% of all murder victims are men but women are ones to worry about…..yeah, makes total sense.	/r/MensRights	25/11/22 04:03 AM