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Look at the claims that each religion makes and evaluate the evidence for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:26 PM
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Why would that make any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:17 PM
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I don’t know. This is a niche situation that applies to what? Maybe 1% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:53 PM
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Good morning! ☀️ Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:40 PM
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Lol good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:24 AM
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I hate seeing blood so that would’ve freaked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:24 AM
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It’s alright, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:23 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:22 AM
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It’s alright, thanks. I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:21 AM
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Yeesh. Where the hell were you? 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:21 AM
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Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:16 AM
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Q4A: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever personally witnessed? I’ll go first. I’m a locomotive engineer (train driver in layman’s terms). Last year, I struck a young man who jumped in front of my train (suicide). I felt and still feel guilty sometimes but there’s nothing that I could’ve done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:12 AM
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<image> This is what it looks like when you’re not chosen for raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:33 AM
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<image> Raw attraction is undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:50 AM
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<image> The raw attraction pill is like the 2007 New England Patriots during the regular season-UNDEFEATED.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:59 AM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:01 PM
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Lol but you should be honored because she “chose you in the end”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:46 PM
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Lol I love those people. They give me the fuel to keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:44 PM
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Me to all the people who don’t like my daily posts about raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:38 PM
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<image> Good morning! Just a quick reminder that being called “hookup material” is more of a compliment than being called “husband material”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:23 PM
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CMV:Men should never accept being settled for and should only be in relationships with women who lust after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:27 AM
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Way to dodge the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:16 AM
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The problem is that the guys who are the “toxic ex” sometimes get more lust and raw attraction than the “safe, stable” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:53 AM
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Are you saying that men should embrace being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:50 AM
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It’s up to them. I just think that men shouldn’t settle for being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:55 AM
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I think every man should find someone who’s hot for him instead of someone who has to convince herself to like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:52 AM
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But a lot of men in this forum have said they don’t provide for their gf. So it’s hypocritical. You want to be desirable but somehow you want to date undesirable, cheap women. Because they want to be seen as desirable without leading with their wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:34 AM
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You didn’t answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:26 AM
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It’s not just about sex. It’s about being called handsome. Her initiating sex. Her looking at you with desire. Her sexting you throughout the day. Basically, she should be showing that she lusts after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:19 AM
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<image> Q4BP: Can you understand why a man wouldn’t want to be in a relationship where he’s seen as the “safe option” compared to her “toxic” exs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:18 AM
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The same poster who told me that raw attraction wasn’t real was the same poster who told me that height doesn’t influence female attraction, so she’s either stupid or intentionally spreading misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:15 AM
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A man wanting a woman who lusts after him to his desire is a perfectly reasonable expectation, and anyone who says otherwise is someone who thinks that men should be okay with being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:07 AM
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Growing up as a black kid with mild autism in the hood was like playing a video game on God-tier difficulty. I do feel proud of making it out of those circumstances but yeah, the struggle is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:09 AM
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Brutal but you’re absolutely right. That’s why I post these things. I’m trying to wake guys up to the harsh realities of what happens when you get with someone who doesn’t feel raw attraction towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:17 AM
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<image> 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:08 AM
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It’s not only that, but if I’m expected to approach, court, pay for dates, and possibly provide for a woman it’s going to be for one who lusts after me to my desire. Imagine doing all that for someone who’s only lukewarm about your looks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:04 AM
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If my SO didn’t think that I was the hottest guy that she’s been with, I think I’d bail on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:53 AM
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You can identify yourself however you wish. I really don’t care. But you can’t force me to believe in or support nonsense like “Men can give birth”. That’s where I draw the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:09 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:22 PM
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Alone. I feel like I’m too good to be someone’s “He’s good enough” or to be with someone with only lukewarm attraction to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:10 PM
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<image> Raw attraction vs. #personality. Which is better? The choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:59 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:55 PM
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Hopefully you learned about the importance of raw attraction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:48 PM
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The scenario you posed doesn’t really make sense. All you said was that the woman feels raw attraction towards the guy but his wife is there. Does the guy even notice her? Is he interested in her as well? There isn’t enough information to give an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:38 PM
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I don’t know. I guess she just walks away?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:33 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:26 PM
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I don’t see any complaints anywhere. Just making an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:48 PM
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Who said that I was upset? I’m merely pointing it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:42 PM
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That people should find someone who is deeply attracted to them and lusts after them to their liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:34 PM
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I’m not denying that happy married people exist. In fact, I never did. I purposely used the word “some” in order to not generalize. You claimed that all my ideas were imaginary and I pointed out one example to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:32 PM
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In a lot of your posts I’ve noticed you tend to make a weird dichotomy between “beta male” and criminal. There is much more range than these two options. It is possible to be super extro and a bit cocky but also be nice. I’m not sure what you’re referring to. I don’t use words like “alpha” and “beta” in my posts, nor do I say that only criminals get carnal lust for women. My point is that some women openly admit that they feel a lesser form of lust/attraction for “safe” guys rather than “unsafe”…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:31 PM
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Why would I have to balance that idea? Women can screen for raw attraction too if they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:17 PM
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<image> The same “same and comfortable” marriages where some women even admit that they’re settling on attraction or sexual satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:12 PM
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<image> It’s crazy how some women have this dichotomy where the “bad for me” guys get the crazy sparks and raw attraction but the “safe, stable” guys don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:49 PM
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Well I’m the one who coined the phrase, at least in this subreddit, so that’s how I’ve always meant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:37 PM
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Yes ma’am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:32 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:29 PM
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Carnal, “I want to rip your clothes off right now”, lustful type of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:22 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:19 PM
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I’m not going to argue the point. People have admitted as such lol. It may not be the norm but it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:42 PM
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Some people get into relationships with people that they aren’t attracted to or don’t feel strong attraction to. I don’t know why they do it 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:37 PM
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That’s pretty accurate. Someone who is attractive will probably have a more upbeat personality due to all of the positive reinforcement they will receive as a result. Plus the halo effect helps how attractive people are perceived by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:24 PM
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Ideally, you’d want to be picked for both. But let’s say that I had to choose one or the other, I’m choosing physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:16 PM
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I’m partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:14 PM
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I’ve seen many women admit that they’ve had sex with guys that they didn’t even care for due to him being so attractive to them. That’s way more of a compliment to me than “Billy is not all that attractive but he’s a great listener and good provider” or some BS like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:12 PM
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Nope. But if I had to choose, I’m picking attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:10 PM
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I’d rather be in a relationship with a woman who liked me for my looks only than a relationship where she liked my personality but wasn’t physically attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:58 PM
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I’m pro-choice. I don’t agree with financial abortion simply because sex carries the risk of pregnancy which both parties should know and if you helped make the baby then you should have to provide for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:49 PM
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No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:35 PM
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Being that a woman literally can’t be paternity frauded and it is something that can only happen to a man, why does there need to be some direct equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:30 PM
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I understand that it’s not a perfect resolution and there’s potential to hurt the kid (less so if the kid is younger) but at the same time, I’m not mad if a guy doesn’t want to be reminded of the trauma, betrayal, and humiliation every time he sees the kid and prioritizes his own mental health and wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:23 PM
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Saying that a man is the bad guy for not wanting to stick around for a kid that he was deceived into raising is crazy to me. Whether the guy chooses to stay around or chooses to cut ties, he is the victim and the blame and scorn should be focused on the mother who lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:15 PM
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Women weight personality higher when looking for LTR partners, and because men who are both exceptionally physically attractive and have exceptionally good personalities are rare, often men who pass their looks threshold and have good personalities are chosen for LTRs, and they’re less physically attractive (to the rest of society) than the men who are only hookup material. I found it amusing that someone at least confirmed points 2 and 3 of my daily reminder lol. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurpleP…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:33 PM
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That’s a great idea. I totally support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:04 PM
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Imagine getting down on one knee and proposing to someone who thinks about you this way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:01 PM
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If I hadn’t had those “crazy” sexual experiences, I would actually probably think that our sex was amazing. If I wasn’t such a “sex positive” twenty-something, and let myself have so many experiences prior to meeting him, I’d probably think that my husband WAS the best. It’s like flying on an airplane... the airline might be perfectly fine and get you to your destination on time, every time. Perfectly happy with it. Loyal frequent flier. But then, one day, you get upgraded to first class, and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:41 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:50 PM
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<image> Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:24 PM
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are you a virgin? have you not heard of any average guy ever having casual sex before? I don’t remember ever saying or even implying that an average guy can’t have casual sex. Can you point out where I did?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:38 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:22 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:37 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:06 PM
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I agree with you. The unfortunate thing though is that a lot of what inspires raw attraction comes down to genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:35 PM
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How long does lust last? I had something like this a long time ago..still not over that guy. I had a guy like that too… oh it lasts… it lasts years and years 😆 I still think about him sometimes and it’s been 5 years Same boat girl. Same boat. Hate this because he has so much power over me I am dying I was once you. He was a college football player, charismatic, very VERY attractive, well spoken, intelligent, nice body etc etc. Anyways, putting That Man™️ on a high invisible pedestal landed me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:28 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to en…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:15 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to enter…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:10 PM
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I thought it was time to add another one 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:13 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to enter into …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:09 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:59 PM
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Seems like you’re putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:31 PM
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I trust that my dick is clean but I have no interest in tasting semen 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:01 PM
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I’m on his side. That’s disgusting. She’d have to wash her mouth out first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:59 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:40 PM
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You’re welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:12 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:35 PM
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<image> Why is “wild passion” reserved for “toxic” guys for some reason? The “safe, stable” guy ends up getting a less intensified form of attraction. I’m certain that her current partner doesn’t elicit raw attraction within her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:30 PM
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Judging by the last sentence, he’s aware of this. I don’t know if that makes it better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:31 PM
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<image> Back with another edition of raw attraction vs. #personality. Which is better? The choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:18 PM
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It’s a spectrum. There’s no one true answer. But that could be one form of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:42 PM
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To each their own. What I think doesn’t matter if he’s happy. But I could never be in such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:39 PM
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Raw attraction=raw, carnal, “I want to rip your clothes off right now” sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:32 PM
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My wife doesn’t find me physically attractive, but she and I are deeply, madly in love regardless. She fell in love with me for my brain and because I make her smile. When you find a love that isn’t based in physical attraction, it’s honestly the best kind of love there is. I don’t feel threatened by better looking or more masculine guys because I know that’s not what she looks for in a partner. I know she chose to love me, rather than having some accidental chemical based response to my physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:29 PM
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I’ve read many comments like this and it stings every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:10 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Advice/s/Ej2PilJgEj I think you linked it in a comment last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:05 PM
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<image> Poor guy. He definitely wasn’t chosen for raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:59 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:31 PM
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Damn. I’d be bitter and angry at the world if I looked like that, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:19 PM
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If you can’t inspire raw attraction in your relationship then the relationship isn’t worth it. #RAOB
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:30 PM
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SCCY CPX-2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:22 PM
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Any gun owners here? I purchased my first firearm the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:21 PM
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That’s up to you. Do whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:15 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:03 PM
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I once had a girl accuse me of touching her inappropriately once in school just because some bullied put her up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:41 PM
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Having a girl pretend to like you or ask you out as a joke is one of the most ruthless things a young guy can experience. Still stings to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:10 PM
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Good afternoon! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:08 PM
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Male validation is easy to attain for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:48 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:23 PM
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Unfortunately, you’re right. It’ll be harder for some guys to find someone who feels raw attraction towards them. But I think being single is less degrading than spending time, money, and energy towards someone who only sees you as the “reliable” or “safe” option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:33 AM
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If she doesn’t lust after you then the relationship isn’t worth it. Raw attraction or bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:28 AM
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 <image> “I aspire to be the safe, settle down option for my SO after she’s done messing with the “sexy, exciting” guys!” - Said no sane, self-respecting man ever. Raw attraction reigns supreme once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:53 AM
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Their values and attitudes regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:55 PM
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I never understood why people care if a guy doesn’t want a woman who’s slept with a lot of guys. I thought we were all entitled to our preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:46 PM
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<image> Just another reminder of what could happen when you aren’t selected for raw attraction. Also, as far as compliments go, hookup material>>husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:57 AM
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Not in my experience. I’ve only seen roast beef jokes on the internet but I’ve heard jokes about uncircumcised penises online and IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:17 PM
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Woman: “I think uncircumcised penises are gross and unsightly.” Man: “I think vaginas with “outie” labias are gross and unsightly. If one of these statements offends you and the other doesn’t, you’re a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:13 PM
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I would not date someone who previously rejected me or wouldn’t have dated me back then, and I definitely wouldn’t date someone’s baby mama either. If I’m not a “real man” because of this then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:35 PM
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IRL and online. But I forgot, nothing online is ever real. Well unless it fits the narrative of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:57 PM
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And the “beta bux” shit is literally shit. I don’t agree with everything that the RP says but I definitely believe in AF/BB. I’ve seen too many examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:54 PM
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Very true. All of the positive feedback that comes from being attractive and knowing it would definitely affect personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:34 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:27 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:23 PM
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Lol sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:11 PM
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Better to be single than to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:10 PM
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If she describes past flings as “hot”, “exciting”, or “sexy” and uses words like “safe”, “boring”, or “stable” to describe you then I have some bad news for you, bro 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:06 PM
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Belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:05 PM
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I think men would have a better experience dating if they selected for women who desire or lust after them instead of seeing them as the “safe guy” or wallet, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:02 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:49 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:48 PM
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Like you really think the dude who’s racked up 6 cares if the girl he just spotted has a n count of 2-7?! Statistically speaking, that’s an average body count. The standard for what constitutes as a high body count is different from guy to guy, but I’d be willing to bet that most guys would prefer their SO to be underneath that whether they’re a virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:10 PM
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The idea that only virgin men care about body count is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:13 PM
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They’re white knights. Those same men don’t criticize any preferences that women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:07 PM
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But rejecting a short guy is a-okay I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:45 PM
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Q4M: What’s the best compliment/ego boost that you’ve ever received from a woman? Years ago, I had sex with a girl and the condom slipped off inside of her during the act. She got a little upset and then said “You need to get bigger condoms, you have a big dick not a small one”. That was like 7 years ago and it still lives rent free in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:35 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:46 PM
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It’s not a significant factor. I’m going to refer to another comment that you made to answer this. “I tend to refer to my lived experiences over some reddit posts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:20 AM
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That’s objectively false lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:50 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:47 PM
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That’s the same person who tried to tell me that height wasn’t a significant factor in heterosexual female attraction. I think it’s safe to say that she doesn’t know what she’s talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:42 PM
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Bro, in my opinion, being perma single is more dignified than being with someone who’s lukewarm about you at best, and sees you as “good enough”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:39 PM
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You’d be surprised at how many people would tell this woman’s partner (upon him being upset or insecure at reading this) that he should be happy because “he won” in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:34 PM
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My best was amazing, but he was a total narcissist and always talked about how being exclusive was dumb. We dated for a year and he was close friends with one of my friends, who we never hung out with together, because we always hung out alone. His house was apparently too gross to have people over so I never saw it. My current partner may not be the best, but we met in my mid-30s, after I’d been online dating forever and after I’d slept with too many assholes who were good in bed. But he introd…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:31 PM
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Man easily. I would never want to deal with periods or childbirth. Or the looming threat of sexual assault/rape. But if I could be reborn as an attractive and neurotypical man, that would be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:04 AM
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I always find it weird when a guy asks for dating advice and people say “become charismatic”. I’m pretty sure that’s something that comes from a lot of positive experiences and social interactions. How is an introvert, especially one on the spectrum, supposed to just become charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:11 AM
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Well that’s certainly a take, but it doesn’t reflect my real life experience so we’re going to have to agree to disagree on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:15 AM
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You’re denying that height is significant factor when it comes to attraction? My bad, I forgot the phrase “short, dark, and handsome” exists lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:47 PM
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<image> How out of touch do you have to be to have a take like this? Being tall hurts your dating chances? 🤣 Yeah, and being an exceptional high school football player hurts your chances of playing at a D1 college. Can’t believe 10 morons upvoted that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:34 PM
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I hate the fact that I was bullied for a lot of my childhood. I think I will carry a chip on my shoulder for the rest of my life because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:46 PM
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