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Look at the claims that each religion makes and evaluate the evidence for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:26 PM
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Why would that make any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:17 PM
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I don’t know. This is a niche situation that applies to what? Maybe 1% of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:53 PM
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Good morning! ☀️ Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:40 PM
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Men don’t seem to realize that we can sense that shit, even if they’re not saying it to our face. People that talk like that when they’re anonymous definitely give off bad vibes IRL. Women’s intuition is no joke. People still pushing this narrative is crazy. You don’t have a “sense”, you just find the guy unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:02 PM
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The last sentence is kind of crazy. Abandoning your kids is a scumbag move regardless of how crazy the mother is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:29 PM
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The only possible way I could maybe do that is if I was married and had kids and got divorced. But then again I’d probably just stay single at that point 🤷🏽‍♂️ I’m definitely not raising another man’s kids as a childless man though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:25 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:18 PM
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Part of the reason why I’d never be a stepdad. https://np.reddit.com/r/ActualPublicFreakouts/s/l8EDkvREuQ
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 07:11 PM
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Not at that time. I lost touch with her years ago so not sure now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:26 PM
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Exactly! If leading a girl on to make her feel like you want a relationship when you just want sex is wrong, then so is pretending to like a guy in order to get free shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:24 PM
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I was friends with a girl who complained about a guy using her for sex once, but also freely admitted to “foodie calling” guys before. I couldn’t believe the hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:19 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/h42jhukcz2me1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aacc4cbbca59f876f25e40a0c3b35796a68a7652 Reminder to guys that if your SO doesn’t think that you’re the most attractive guy that she’s been with, the relationship isn’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:35 PM
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Good morning ☀️ and happy Saturday to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:21 PM
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Whatever floats your boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:21 PM
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Good morning! ☀️ Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:18 PM
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Lol good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:24 AM
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I hate seeing blood so that would’ve freaked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:24 AM
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It’s alright, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:23 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:22 AM
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It’s alright, thanks. I appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:21 AM
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Yeesh. Where the hell were you? 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:21 AM
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Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:16 AM
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Q4A: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever personally witnessed? I’ll go first. I’m a locomotive engineer (train driver in layman’s terms). Last year, I struck a young man who jumped in front of my train (suicide). I felt and still feel guilty sometimes but there’s nothing that I could’ve done.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:12 AM
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<image> This is what it looks like when you’re not chosen for raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:33 AM
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I’ll make sure to keep them coming 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:11 PM
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Reminder to the fellas that the relationship isn’t worth it if she doesn’t think that you’re the hottest guy that she’s ever been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:08 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:19 PM
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Good morning! ☀️ Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:32 PM
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Q4BP Men: How would you feel if your SO felt this way? https://preview.redd.it/gjizf2qsptle1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=54a71f9200e84f38b9f86c4b149de672c299179b
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:24 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/8jhd9gvsvqle1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eea5496ae3ce5817061eede292f2ec7e275505fc Just a reminder to the kings that if she doesn’t think that you’re the hottest guy that she’s been with, the relationship isn’t worth it. Know your worth, kings 👑 Raw attraction is of the utmost importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:53 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:05 PM
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Thanks king 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:57 PM
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Well being that people regularly disagree with my takes and call them myths and falsehoods, I’d say that they are pretty controversial. And you’re free to report me if you think I’m breaking rules 🤷🏽‍♂️ But I will keep doing my thing until I’m silenced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:56 PM
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I’d post the same things even if no one upvoted my comments. It’s not my fault that people agree with my takes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:43 PM
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Being the best poster in the daily threads is tireless work, but someone has to do it 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:38 PM
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Really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:40 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/8fz71fxmgple1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7c5e148fc3896d6e55f3842c2575368e97ad6571 I see there’s a “husband material” vs. “hookup material” thread going on. Just dropping a reminder of why a lot of men see one as a compliment and one as a backhanded compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:06 PM
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Yeah, I’ve had this flair for a while now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:12 PM
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Honestly, I would have to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:53 PM
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I look different? I just changed my profile pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:42 PM
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Good morning! ☀️ Have a great day!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:35 PM
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Nope, this is a fresh one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:31 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/8ipiq1l9xole1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7d7728d831f95ef20fb57adeb0c9c96116c1b781 I was told by some individuals here that raw attraction wasn’t real and that women finding ONS or casual partners more attractive than their long term partners was a myth 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:18 PM
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Good morning! ☀️ Hope today is a good one for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:06 PM
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Good morning! ☀️ Hope you have a good day today.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:06 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:56 PM
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<image> Raw attraction is undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:50 AM
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<image> The raw attraction pill is like the 2007 New England Patriots during the regular season-UNDEFEATED.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:59 AM
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Exactly! Women are encouraged to never settle for subpar treatment, so why should men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:42 AM
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Just a friendly evening reminder to all the kings out there that you should leave the relationship if she isn’t lusting after to you to your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:35 AM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:01 PM
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Lol but you should be honored because she “chose you in the end”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:46 PM
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Lol I love those people. They give me the fuel to keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:44 PM
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Me to all the people who don’t like my daily posts about raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:38 PM
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<image> Good morning! Just a quick reminder that being called “hookup material” is more of a compliment than being called “husband material”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:23 PM
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Raw attraction is one of the most important things that a man can screen for in a relationship. Women are told to not settle, why should you? If she doesn’t lust after you to your liking then you should bail and find someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:23 AM
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That pic is a few years old. I’m turning 28 in 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:03 PM
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This is the closest I’ll come to doing a face reveal
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:38 PM
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What’s the love pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:28 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:24 PM
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Just dropping by with a friendly reminder that if she doesn’t think that you’re the hottest guy that she’s ever been with, then the relationship isn’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:21 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:57 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:10 PM
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Goodfellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:53 PM
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Raider Nation 🏴‍☠️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:14 PM
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Hey, good morning bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:55 PM
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Just stopping by with an early morning reminder that the relationship isn’t worth it if she doesn’t think that you’re the hottest guy that she’s been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:53 PM
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Lol I don’t want to catch any problems for witch-hunting but if you know, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:51 AM
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The crazy part is that I caught a 3 day ban, literally tried to get an answer from the mods as to why and didn’t get a response. Meanwhile there’s a well-known white knight here who openly trolls and debates dishonestly but faces no penalty. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:49 AM
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I post that as a favor to a temporarily banned user who can’t post that himself until he comes back. I don’t necessarily agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:43 AM
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PPD whiteknights be like “I’m neutral but I only agree with BP-coded takes, and I always agree with women no matter what they say.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:36 AM
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Of course he wouldn’t. He’s a white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:33 AM
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I have to learn to stop engaging with these types 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:21 AM
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CMV:Men should never accept being settled for and should only be in relationships with women who lust after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:27 AM
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Way to dodge the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:16 AM
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The problem is that the guys who are the “toxic ex” sometimes get more lust and raw attraction than the “safe, stable” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:53 AM
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Are you saying that men should embrace being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:50 AM
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It’s up to them. I just think that men shouldn’t settle for being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:55 AM
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I think every man should find someone who’s hot for him instead of someone who has to convince herself to like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:52 AM
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But a lot of men in this forum have said they don’t provide for their gf. So it’s hypocritical. You want to be desirable but somehow you want to date undesirable, cheap women. Because they want to be seen as desirable without leading with their wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:34 AM
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You didn’t answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:26 AM
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It’s not just about sex. It’s about being called handsome. Her initiating sex. Her looking at you with desire. Her sexting you throughout the day. Basically, she should be showing that she lusts after you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:19 AM
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<image> Q4BP: Can you understand why a man wouldn’t want to be in a relationship where he’s seen as the “safe option” compared to her “toxic” exs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:18 AM
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The same poster who told me that raw attraction wasn’t real was the same poster who told me that height doesn’t influence female attraction, so she’s either stupid or intentionally spreading misinformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:15 AM
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A man wanting a woman who lusts after him to his desire is a perfectly reasonable expectation, and anyone who says otherwise is someone who thinks that men should be okay with being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:07 AM
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🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:19 PM
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If you’re a man and you’re not being lusted after in your relationship, you should leave. Women are always being told not to settle, why should you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:10 PM
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they’re saying that the things you propose men look for are not common and are straight up unrealistic for a lot of men. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:26 PM
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If it’s socially acceptable for a man to have to approach, pay for date, court, etc. it should be no problem that a man expects a woman to lust after him to his liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:21 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:44 PM
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African-American
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:19 PM
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The amount of pushback I get for essentially telling men to not settle for being settled for is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:12 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:25 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGPHtIqpo8B/?igsh=MTZhbWFpZGQyaWJ6Mg== I was told on this subreddit that this never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:56 PM
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Growing up as a black kid with mild autism in the hood was like playing a video game on God-tier difficulty. I do feel proud of making it out of those circumstances but yeah, the struggle is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:09 AM
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Brutal but you’re absolutely right. That’s why I post these things. I’m trying to wake guys up to the harsh realities of what happens when you get with someone who doesn’t feel raw attraction towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:17 AM
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<image> 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:08 AM
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You’d be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:15 AM
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It’s not only that, but if I’m expected to approach, court, pay for dates, and possibly provide for a woman it’s going to be for one who lusts after me to my desire. Imagine doing all that for someone who’s only lukewarm about your looks lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:04 AM
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If my SO didn’t think that I was the hottest guy that she’s been with, I think I’d bail on the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:53 AM
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https://nypost.com/2025/02/23/sports/steve-smith-sr-accused-of-cheating-with-ravens-marching-band-member/ Poor husband in this situation. I can almost guarantee that he wasn’t chosen for raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:01 PM
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What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:22 PM
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You didn’t answer. You made a claim with no proof to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:14 PM
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The original comment was asking why those 3 takes are seen as sensible while mine isn’t. You’re the one who asserted that those takes are backed up by real life and mine isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:04 PM
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But.. but raw attraction isn’t real!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:02 PM
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Yeah, you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:58 PM
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Okay, so where’s your proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:48 PM
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27
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:40 PM
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Lol it would be more honorable to just admit that you were rather than play whatever game you’re trying to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:35 PM
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You’re deflecting from the topic with these trivialities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:26 PM
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OP meaning original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:23 PM
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I’m not a drinker so I don’t have one 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:18 PM
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The OP asked why are some takes seen as sensible while others aren’t. You’re the one who asserted that the first 3 were backed up by real life experience and mine wasn’t. Can you prove that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:18 PM
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Well excuse me 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:11 PM
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I’m bored and off of work today. AMA!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:07 PM
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The burden of proof was on you Mr. “The other three are corroborated by real life and real dating experiences and yours isn’t”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 06:05 PM
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That wasn’t a callout, it was a baseless assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:42 PM
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This guy is more committed to defending women than I am to posting about raw attraction, and that’s saying something 😳 But then these types will claim to be neutral 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:27 PM
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does “never approach men because they would approach you if they were interested” sound as crazy as “if he didnt want to rip your clothes off the instant he saw you he obviously isnt interested?” Well that’s a strawman of my position.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:26 PM
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You claim that it’s just a hot take written on the internet, but I’ve heard that take in real life and have experienced it myself. Now you’re just going to say “I don’t believe you” or some variation. So what’s the point of going back and forth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:23 PM
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You can believe me or not believe me, I really don’t care either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:21 PM
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How are they less wacky? Explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:18 PM
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I’ve heard all three takes in real life from different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:17 PM
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“Real world experience” 😂😂 Of course you defend the women’s talking points, white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:14 PM
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So why is it sensible to believe that a man who splits bills with you isn’t attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:13 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:06 PM
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I don’t know. I’ve never seen a woman upset that a man slept with other women faster than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:49 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:43 PM
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Exactly. People literally want men to be okay with being settled for or not lusted after to their liking. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:40 PM
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Women: “Don’t approach men, if he won’t approach you then he isn’t attracted to you. Approaching men makes you look desperate.” Women: “Don’t split bills. A man who’s attracted to you will put in the effort and pay.” Women: “Don’t chase men, it makes you look desperate. A man who’s attracted to you will chase you.” Me: “A woman who had sex with other guys quickly but makes you wait and jump through hoops first probably isn’t all that attracted to you. Screen for raw attraction.” Why are the firs…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:32 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:26 PM
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The haters and whiteknights will never prevail against me ✊🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:51 AM
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Nope. Maybe you’re thinking of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:37 AM
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Whiteknights won’t touch this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:36 AM
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This can happen if you don’t screen for raw attraction 🤷🏽‍♂️ I guarantee she never talked to her husband the way that she talked to Steve in those texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:23 AM
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Women can have expectations that men approach, court, and even provide for them and that’s perfectly fine but I advocate for men to screen for raw attraction and I’m the bad guy? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:23 AM
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I feel for the poor guy. I think I would lose my sanity in such a situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:20 AM
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You can identify yourself however you wish. I really don’t care. But you can’t force me to believe in or support nonsense like “Men can give birth”. That’s where I draw the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:09 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:22 PM
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Alone. I feel like I’m too good to be someone’s “He’s good enough” or to be with someone with only lukewarm attraction to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:10 PM
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<image> Raw attraction vs. #personality. Which is better? The choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:59 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:55 PM
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Very.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:43 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:12 PM
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if you’re not chad why the fuck would a woman give you commitment free sex? Thanks for proving the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:27 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 01:14 PM
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Try your best to maximize your attractiveness in every possible avenue. That’s the only advice I have. It sucks, don’t get me wrong, but that’s the only solution I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:45 PM
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I advise every man to screen for raw attraction. If she doesn’t lust after you to your liking, you should find someone who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:42 PM
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“I’m not with you for your looks but instead” would be the end of the relationship for me. Raw attraction or bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:36 PM
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Hopefully you learned about the importance of raw attraction as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:48 PM
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The scenario you posed doesn’t really make sense. All you said was that the woman feels raw attraction towards the guy but his wife is there. Does the guy even notice her? Is he interested in her as well? There isn’t enough information to give an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:38 PM
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I don’t know. I guess she just walks away?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:33 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:26 PM
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I don’t see any complaints anywhere. Just making an observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:48 PM
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Who said that I was upset? I’m merely pointing it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:42 PM
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That people should find someone who is deeply attracted to them and lusts after them to their liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:34 PM
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I’m not denying that happy married people exist. In fact, I never did. I purposely used the word “some” in order to not generalize. You claimed that all my ideas were imaginary and I pointed out one example to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:32 PM
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In a lot of your posts I’ve noticed you tend to make a weird dichotomy between “beta male” and criminal. There is much more range than these two options. It is possible to be super extro and a bit cocky but also be nice. I’m not sure what you’re referring to. I don’t use words like “alpha” and “beta” in my posts, nor do I say that only criminals get carnal lust for women. My point is that some women openly admit that they feel a lesser form of lust/attraction for “safe” guys rather than “unsafe”…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:31 PM
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Why would I have to balance that idea? Women can screen for raw attraction too if they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:17 PM
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<image> The same “same and comfortable” marriages where some women even admit that they’re settling on attraction or sexual satisfaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:12 PM
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<image> It’s crazy how some women have this dichotomy where the “bad for me” guys get the crazy sparks and raw attraction but the “safe, stable” guys don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:49 PM
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We’ll just have to agree to disagree. But given how many women self-report that they don’t find many guys attractive as is, I do feel that most women have the capacity to feel raw attraction (for the right guy).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:56 PM
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I think most women have never felt that way for the average man. If someone like a young Leonardo DiCaprio walked by them then I’m sure they’d say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:41 PM
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Well I’m the one who coined the phrase, at least in this subreddit, so that’s how I’ve always meant it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:37 PM
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Yes ma’am.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:32 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:29 PM
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Carnal, “I want to rip your clothes off right now”, lustful type of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:22 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:19 PM
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I’m not going to argue the point. People have admitted as such lol. It may not be the norm but it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:42 PM
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Some people get into relationships with people that they aren’t attracted to or don’t feel strong attraction to. I don’t know why they do it 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:37 PM
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That’s pretty accurate. Someone who is attractive will probably have a more upbeat personality due to all of the positive reinforcement they will receive as a result. Plus the halo effect helps how attractive people are perceived by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:24 PM
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Ideally, you’d want to be picked for both. But let’s say that I had to choose one or the other, I’m choosing physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:16 PM
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I’m partnered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:14 PM
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I’ve seen many women admit that they’ve had sex with guys that they didn’t even care for due to him being so attractive to them. That’s way more of a compliment to me than “Billy is not all that attractive but he’s a great listener and good provider” or some BS like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:12 PM
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Nope. But if I had to choose, I’m picking attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 07:10 PM
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I’d rather be in a relationship with a woman who liked me for my looks only than a relationship where she liked my personality but wasn’t physically attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 06:58 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/26qa4sgkxbke1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2a36b500b9f2ad7a5f058f91fbcdda831f6a016d Raw attraction vs. #personality. Which is better? The choice is yours. 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:32 PM
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This is what men mean when they tell women to pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 05:15 PM
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It sucks because the “safe, stable” guy she eventually ends up will never be able to inspire this type of attraction and lust within her. Hell, she even admits that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:17 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/c22cfnzvfbke1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=945cad9d0a29e364e817cd8d281298a4f72e8bbb The raw attraction pill is undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:57 PM
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He caught a 30 day ban but I’m not sure about the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:35 PM
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I am the “raw attraction” guy. I’m posting this as a favor to a temporarily banned user who can’t post this himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:29 PM
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Daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:46 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:24 PM
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Can you even point out where I’m complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:23 PM
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I’m not bitching, just stating my opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:11 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:39 PM
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I’m pro-choice. I don’t agree with financial abortion simply because sex carries the risk of pregnancy which both parties should know and if you helped make the baby then you should have to provide for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:49 PM
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No it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:35 PM
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Being that a woman literally can’t be paternity frauded and it is something that can only happen to a man, why does there need to be some direct equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:30 PM
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I understand that it’s not a perfect resolution and there’s potential to hurt the kid (less so if the kid is younger) but at the same time, I’m not mad if a guy doesn’t want to be reminded of the trauma, betrayal, and humiliation every time he sees the kid and prioritizes his own mental health and wellbeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:23 PM
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Saying that a man is the bad guy for not wanting to stick around for a kid that he was deceived into raising is crazy to me. Whether the guy chooses to stay around or chooses to cut ties, he is the victim and the blame and scorn should be focused on the mother who lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:15 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/bg37becb55ke1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7ea367fa3bc87f0df8dceae7cc492e8eed62ab56 Just a reminder to the fellas that this could be how your future partner thinks about you if you accept being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:43 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/eitnsf7bu4ke1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cd24e48d4f719f42f3f032d5ef3d698a97eaa9f6 Q4A: Do you agree or disagree with her take? Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:41 PM
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Also daily reminder that it’s okay for men to cheat but not women. (Not necessarily my view but posting as a favor to a banned user)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:14 PM
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Best of luck to you! Check back in with your progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:04 PM
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Imitation is a form of flattery.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:01 PM
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You know it! They may have temporarily silenced me but I’m back now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:01 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:46 PM
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Women weight personality higher when looking for LTR partners, and because men who are both exceptionally physically attractive and have exceptionally good personalities are rare, often men who pass their looks threshold and have good personalities are chosen for LTRs, and they’re less physically attractive (to the rest of society) than the men who are only hookup material. I found it amusing that someone at least confirmed points 2 and 3 of my daily reminder lol. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurpleP…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:33 PM
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That’s a great idea. I totally support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:04 PM
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Imagine getting down on one knee and proposing to someone who thinks about you this way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:01 PM
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If I hadn’t had those “crazy” sexual experiences, I would actually probably think that our sex was amazing. If I wasn’t such a “sex positive” twenty-something, and let myself have so many experiences prior to meeting him, I’d probably think that my husband WAS the best. It’s like flying on an airplane... the airline might be perfectly fine and get you to your destination on time, every time. Perfectly happy with it. Loyal frequent flier. But then, one day, you get upgraded to first class, and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:41 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:50 PM
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Why get with a man that you feel is boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:06 AM
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Why don’t you? You’re free to post that stuff. I post for the males.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:22 AM
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Same here. Call me insecure, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:58 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/1n1e6neofeje1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=266a4f7e6eb9626d9115f3a48d353458fb8c1fd8 The raw attraction pill remains undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:53 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/9wx0rj7qadje1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d3a8cf096db0dc30eab01b20344520330b1f6661 Good afternoon! Just a reminder of what a relationship can look like when one isn’t chosen for raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/6xjrsfxhkcje1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4c30513f7af82c647f1f7447841c99c244138723 Raw attraction is key 🔑. Reminder to the fellas that if you aren’t chosen for raw attraction, odds are that she HAS felt that way about someone in the past and you WILL come in 2nd place attraction wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:37 PM
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<image> Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:24 PM
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are you a virgin? have you not heard of any average guy ever having casual sex before? I don’t remember ever saying or even implying that an average guy can’t have casual sex. Can you point out where I did?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:38 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/zv2ul02m07je1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1e0a8df2ef3515ab7d3e625e3fecd3d36688acf In terms of compliments:hookup material>>>husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:56 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:37 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:06 PM
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I agree with you. The unfortunate thing though is that a lot of what inspires raw attraction comes down to genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:35 PM
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How long does lust last? I had something like this a long time ago..still not over that guy. I had a guy like that too… oh it lasts… it lasts years and years 😆 I still think about him sometimes and it’s been 5 years Same boat girl. Same boat. Hate this because he has so much power over me I am dying I was once you. He was a college football player, charismatic, very VERY attractive, well spoken, intelligent, nice body etc etc. Anyways, putting That Man™️ on a high invisible pedestal landed me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:28 PM
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“Chadfishing” kind of proves them right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:17 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to en…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:15 PM
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Nope. Pregnancies and periods don’t sound appealing to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:36 AM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to enter…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:10 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. ⁠As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to enter in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:15 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:15 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/qic8jgld1eie1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dcb0e1e879f191c6a868d0c20a8ac23ccac09652 This is why a lot of men view “hookup material” as a better compliment than “husband material”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:29 PM
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Raw attraction is key 🔑
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:50 PM
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I thought it was time to add another one 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:13 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. As a man, your ability to attain commitment-free (casual) sex is a bigger indicator of your level of attractiveness than your ability to enter into …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:09 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:37 PM
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I agree. A woman thinking that you’re a player or that you have the potential to be one is definitely a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:34 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:32 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/cvodfik8yyhe1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=086ffe178b1f33b5a692ff583e1b9f4defc3b61b Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. Raw attraction is key 🔑
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:44 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:59 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ox4gqkwzxshe1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a4b16c1f97e232a10d124940c6f7741e047c299 Being in a relationship where I’m viewed this way is nightmare fuel. This is why raw attraction is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:32 PM
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They recorded him because they sensed his good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:57 PM
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Seems like you’re putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:31 PM
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I trust that my dick is clean but I have no interest in tasting semen 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:01 PM
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I’m on his side. That’s disgusting. She’d have to wash her mouth out first.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:59 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:40 PM
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I appreciate the shoutout 🙏🏽 more daily reminders coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:50 AM
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<image> Raw attraction vs. #personality Vol. 163748
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:54 PM
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You’re welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:12 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:35 PM
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<image> Why is “wild passion” reserved for “toxic” guys for some reason? The “safe, stable” guy ends up getting a less intensified form of attraction. I’m certain that her current partner doesn’t elicit raw attraction within her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:30 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:57 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:55 PM
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Does she compliment you frequently? Does she look at you a certain way? Is she affectionate? Does she initiate sex often?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:27 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:21 PM
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Those guys were making more passes at girls and I don’t doubt that being a reason why a lot of the girls in these situations go for those types of guys. But I also believe that a lot of those young girls go for those types of guys because they are attracted to thuggish behavior. A guy who isn’t a thug is just a lame, boring square to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:59 PM
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I’m curious what shun means to you? What does that mean here? Examples? Calling guys who don’t fit the “hood” or “thug” stereotype as lame or corny. I’ve had girls call me a nerd to my face before and I wasn’t even academically gifted or anything, just because I didn’t carry myself a certain way. And I’m curious if those girls you’re thinking of were mocking you or shunning you more than the “stereotypical boys” were? Because if not, it’s not a factor that aids your point. The guys were bad with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:26 PM
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Tangentially related on “choose better,” I always find it weird when girls from the hood or from disenfranchised socioeconomic communities are blamed for dating the boys she grew up with, played tag with, shared homeroom with, went to church with, played in the park with, etc. As someone who’s from a “disenfranchised socioeconomic community” and who grew up in the hood, it’s because some of those same women will shun and mock guys who don’t fit the hood stereotype and will also complain and blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:30 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:27 PM
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Judging by the last sentence, he’s aware of this. I don’t know if that makes it better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:31 PM
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<image> Back with another edition of raw attraction vs. #personality. Which is better? The choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 06:18 PM
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It’s a spectrum. There’s no one true answer. But that could be one form of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:42 PM
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To each their own. What I think doesn’t matter if he’s happy. But I could never be in such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:39 PM
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Raw attraction=raw, carnal, “I want to rip your clothes off right now” sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:32 PM
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My wife doesn’t find me physically attractive, but she and I are deeply, madly in love regardless. She fell in love with me for my brain and because I make her smile. When you find a love that isn’t based in physical attraction, it’s honestly the best kind of love there is. I don’t feel threatened by better looking or more masculine guys because I know that’s not what she looks for in a partner. I know she chose to love me, rather than having some accidental chemical based response to my physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:29 PM
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I’ve read many comments like this and it stings every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:10 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Advice/s/Ej2PilJgEj I think you linked it in a comment last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:05 PM
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<image> Poor guy. He definitely wasn’t chosen for raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:59 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:31 PM
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But I get mocked for pointing out the importance of raw attraction 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:29 AM
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Thanks bro 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:21 PM
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Religion is the adult version of make believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:21 PM
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Sometimes the truth hurts 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:15 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:04 PM
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Big facts. Some women will even admit that their best lay or most attractive guy was a “bad boy” or “toxic” guy that she used to be with and that the relationship with the “safe” guy doesn’t produce the same level of intensity or “sparks”. Some women will never feel raw attraction to the “safe option”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:47 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/0gara8y426ge1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aaef7b45ebb978342dca8ad8e60e07f364688595 Comments like these reinforce why men don’t want to be seen as the “safe option” and why raw attraction is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:31 PM
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No problem bro ✊🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:35 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:26 PM
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Someone that I knew from my childhood got sentenced to life without the possibility of parole at the age of 24 for taking part in a murder. Sometimes I remember him when I think that life sucks. I think I would off myself if I was in his shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:32 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/xbzi31ooqyfe1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a0c7a6d5d166d640410e94a79755818612c1aba4 Raw attraction vs. #personality. Which is better? The choice is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:54 PM
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“The reason why you struggle in dating is because women can sense your bad personality!” https://www.ladbible.com/news/us-news/deadpool-killer-wade-wilson-sentenced-death-x-rated-pictures-621405-20240828
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:24 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:40 PM
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People say all types of stuff here. I meant on a more mainstream sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:19 PM
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https://hp.reddit.com/r/psychologyofsex/s/WdaVM7DdBE They would’ve blew a gasket if the genders were reversed in this comment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:11 PM
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These types of guys and guys who comment compliments and heart eye emojis under random girls’ pictures are the lowest of the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 03:21 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:50 PM
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So basically everything that doesn’t fit the narrative that you want to push is a LARP. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:31 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/8Ci95T3Zh3 Is the reply a LARP? Are the upvotes LARPs too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:21 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/uf1j7yshfkfe1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c8dcbc967a0efa98794f6d1b5b9d2499f05f27fe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:46 PM
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Is it fair to say that a guy’s ability to attain commitment-free sex (casual, ONS, FWB, whatever you want to call it) is a bigger indicator of his level of attractiveness than his ability to enter into an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:50 PM
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The minority don’t make the rule. Most people in general have higher standards as a whole for relationships than 1 night stands. So you kind of contradicted your attempt to make a rule for everybody How do you know this? Shouldn’t that be the central focus of your rule then. The only non negative outcome of a situation where she’s not also choosing you for personality is a purely sexual relationship. Most guys want to also be chosen for personality so your rule is pretty much useless Ideally you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:49 PM
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What if she’s choosing you for both attraction and personality? I’d say that’s a good thing. What if she doesn’t view you as hookup material because she views hookup material as somebody she could easily walk away from and she views you as somebody she’d want continual sex with? I never said that it was an absolute thing. But just as there are women who think this way, there are others whose physical standards are higher for casual than LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:33 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:27 PM
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I hear you and I agree to an extent. Unfortunately a lot of guys will never experience raw attraction. But I think guys should at least be aware of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:37 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/dkwonusjhgfe1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c1622d597b6426393febbea0328620800ab18ad1 I feel bad for the poor sap who this individual will eventually settle for. Fellas, never settle and never be settled for! #RAOB
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:30 AM
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Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:08 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/u0ai6yssrdfe1.png?width=1290&format=png&auto=webp&s=c6b12dc2d7bf8e75132d830cfe446d0114400171 Raw attraction vs. #personality encapsulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:22 PM
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That’s the goal 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:48 PM
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Thanks bro ✊🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:19 PM
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No problem man. I’ll keep them coming 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:10 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:57 PM
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Questions on the AITA sub be like “My husband just punched me in the face. AITA if I seek a divorce?”. Like of course you’re not the asshole. Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:26 AM
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Damn. I’d be bitter and angry at the world if I looked like that, ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:19 PM
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If you can’t inspire raw attraction in your relationship then the relationship isn’t worth it. #RAOB
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:30 PM
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This hypothetical guy wasn’t chosen for raw attraction if he had to wait and other guys didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:06 PM
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Doesn’t mean that they don’t have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:44 PM
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It’s not entitlement. A guy would be totally justified in feeling a certain way if a woman hooked up with other guys instantly but made him wait. See how well it would go over if you told a woman that you took other women on lavish first dates that you paid for after you not only took her on a first date to Applebees but you also made her split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:35 PM
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Depends on how attractive the guy is to the particular woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 02:00 PM
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The former.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:51 PM
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Appreciate it brother 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:51 PM
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Thanks my guy 🙏🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:50 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:37 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:34 PM
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Lol nah, it’s all black.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:30 PM
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SCCY CPX-2
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:22 PM
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Any gun owners here? I purchased my first firearm the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:21 PM
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That’s up to you. Do whatever makes you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:15 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:03 PM
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I’d try to convince her otherwise because I want my first boy to be a JR.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:03 PM
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I can’t understand how you can read a study like this and still spew “just world” nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:40 PM
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Isn’t there also a study that says that bullies are more successful with women on average than their bullied counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:30 PM
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🤣🤣 There’s one poster who this directly applies too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:37 PM
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They really are annoying. There’s guys in this very subreddit who will never disagree with a woman but go back and forth with the male posters all day. It’s crazy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:30 PM
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I’ll never understand what some guys get out of white knighting on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:27 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/1hhc38bqjree1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa6dc4a49b2194159d3af2b29c5a74942f02a9c6 This is such a crazy take that I almost think it’s satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:38 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:07 PM
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I once had a girl accuse me of touching her inappropriately once in school just because some bullied put her up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:41 PM
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Having a girl pretend to like you or ask you out as a joke is one of the most ruthless things a young guy can experience. Still stings to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 05:10 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:10 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:04 PM
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People here mock me, but that’s exactly what I’m talking about when I talk about the power of raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:45 PM
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average men are in relationships, they are not models, why is that? How can that happen? Yeah, relationships. The looks bar is generally lower than hookup. Which is my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:03 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/2itkb5srveee1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=32028fa492cd5e615ee17f85e1804c7379e1d459 Raw attraction reigns supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:02 PM
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I’m thinking about adding a 3rd reminder to my daily comments about the importance of raw attraction. Any ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:42 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:31 PM
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Raw sexual attraction doesn’t exist. Yeah, and I just looked out of the window and saw Moses and Santa Claus holding hands and walking down the street. Since we’re both saying nonsensical things apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:21 PM
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How exactly does screening for raw sexual attraction hurt romantic opportunities?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:16 PM
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Good afternoon! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:08 PM
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Ghosting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:00 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:39 PM
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Male validation is easy to attain for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:48 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:23 PM
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Unfortunately, you’re right. It’ll be harder for some guys to find someone who feels raw attraction towards them. But I think being single is less degrading than spending time, money, and energy towards someone who only sees you as the “reliable” or “safe” option.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:33 AM
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If she doesn’t lust after you then the relationship isn’t worth it. Raw attraction or bust.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:28 AM
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 <image> “I aspire to be the safe, settle down option for my SO after she’s done messing with the “sexy, exciting” guys!” - Said no sane, self-respecting man ever. Raw attraction reigns supreme once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:53 AM
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Their values and attitudes regarding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:55 PM
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She didn’t describe her current partner as hot. She described the other guys as a “rollercoaster of hotties”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:55 PM
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I never understood why people care if a guy doesn’t want a woman who’s slept with a lot of guys. I thought we were all entitled to our preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:46 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/gmarwg7aqsde1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=35b1091d2c28e26313541efd566dde2fd74f8109 Raw attraction reigns supreme once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:32 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:34 PM
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It was just a matter of applying for the position and getting lucky. All of the major railroads have their own schools where they teach you how to be an engineer, so there’s no need to go to trade school or anything. Once you get done with the classroom stuff, you get on the job training shadowing an instructor engineer until you’re proficient enough to operate on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:46 PM
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Railroading. I’m a locomotive engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:38 PM
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I’m not saying that it’s a good idea for everyone but it worked out for me. I’m 27 and I make six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:35 PM
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Passenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:34 PM
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I’m a locomotive engineer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:30 PM
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Not going to college was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. Not having student loan debt to worry about is awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:25 PM
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“Why don’t you listen to what women say about their preferences? You’re listening to what other men tell you that women like!” “Okay well this video is made by a woman and it says that short men are unattractive and shouldn’t exist, and it has millions of views and hundreds of thousands of likes, as well as many women in the comments agreeing. “No! Not like that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:36 PM
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Short man: Women saying mean things about short men online really hurts my confidence. Reddit: Who cares? The internet isn’t real life. Also Reddit when it comes to a guy lamenting his dating woes: Of course you’re single! I can tell just by reading your post that women can sense your bad personality/misogyny/desperation!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:28 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/M6sYdTHCxa Well I’ll link you to the comment, you can tell them that they’re wrong and or lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:05 PM
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Oh okay, so basically what doesn’t fit your narrative can just be disregarded. Never mind that people can be more candid under the anonymity of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:57 PM
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It makes me happy to see that a lot of the girls who used to make fun of me are single moms now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:55 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/y6f43f7oukde1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7d73f19966653a8970c16b547fae9260dfe40e41
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:02 PM
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Thanks man. Have a good weekend 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:58 PM
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Happy Friday! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:54 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:18 PM
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<image> Just another reminder of what could happen when you aren’t selected for raw attraction. Also, as far as compliments go, hookup material>>husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:57 AM
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Not in my experience. I’ve only seen roast beef jokes on the internet but I’ve heard jokes about uncircumcised penises online and IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:17 PM
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Woman: “I think uncircumcised penises are gross and unsightly.” Man: “I think vaginas with “outie” labias are gross and unsightly. If one of these statements offends you and the other doesn’t, you’re a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah, I don’t engage with them either. But I’m glad to see that I’m not crazy and that others have noticed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:04 PM
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Is it me or are there are certain “male” posters here who seem to take the woman’s side on every issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:58 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:41 PM
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Imagine being her current bf (if she has one) and reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:01 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/6nrw8a38pzce1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ce530f8ba9f0101b67102a1bf4cb823ae9f1a09b Given the amount of women who self report that their attraction standards for hookup/FWB/ONS is higher than their attraction standards for relationships, I am inclined to believe that “hookup material” is a bigger compliment than “husband material”. Raw attraction reigns supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:55 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:35 PM
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Do you have a SO? Tell her that you were physically repulsed by her when you first saw her. Let me know how it goes 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:49 AM
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I’d prefer to be with someone who wasn’t physically repulsed by me upon first sight and didn’t only get with me after being cheated on, but I know that that’s a crazy request in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:22 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/i162o7e27wce1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9b90133c1c7c25b7d60f21da0b8c7e3c98fdf1f7 Men who are chosen for raw attraction don’t get talked to this way by their SO. Raw attraction reigns supreme once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:08 AM
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I’m only presenting the information. You’re free to disregard it 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:05 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:56 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ymrzfy00vmce1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eed366db98744d73aac9c603b7fe0d2b4c64fd73 I was told that the idea that some women find hookup partners more attractive than LTR partners was a myth 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:44 PM
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There is no assurance because they don’t see it as an issue. Their logic is “she’s with you now so you won” LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:34 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/p5yk1cb2dlce1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f54f6407eb3d535e8c10ace86671618b325e9faa Why does it seem that for some women, “wild passion” is reserved for the “toxic” guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:42 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:30 PM
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I would not date someone who previously rejected me or wouldn’t have dated me back then, and I definitely wouldn’t date someone’s baby mama either. If I’m not a “real man” because of this then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:35 PM
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IRL and online. But I forgot, nothing online is ever real. Well unless it fits the narrative of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:57 PM
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And the “beta bux” shit is literally shit. I don’t agree with everything that the RP says but I definitely believe in AF/BB. I’ve seen too many examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:54 PM
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Very true. All of the positive feedback that comes from being attractive and knowing it would definitely affect personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:34 PM
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Good morning! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:27 PM
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I figure that most guys who are okay with it either never experienced genuine desire or just feel as though they can’t get anything better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:34 PM
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If you can’t inspire raw attraction/genuine desire in your SO, is the relationship even worth it? I certainly don’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 11:21 PM
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No shit it’s not the same. I’m poking fun at how redditors can understand that outside factors and things that one has no control over can influence one’s life negatively or positively in anything else BUT dating (specifically for men).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:51 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/rant/s/RdMqBhkY4y Just less lucky. That’s really it. Who were you born to and where. those are the determining factors. Reddit when it comes to the financially well off vs. the underprivileged: “It’s not fair to call someone a loser based off of this metric! A lot of rich people just happened to be born into a privileged family through no doing of their own. Unattractive man: “I’m struggling in dating due to factors that I can’t control.” Reddit: “What are you talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:42 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:23 PM
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Threesomes, gangbangs, or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:16 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/5v38gahlp0ce1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e649a3cfec2465a0c47728cc3bfa7c2b1ad348c3 Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction. I’m not the one saying it! 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:15 PM
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That isn’t really relevant. The point is that I gave him the money when I could’ve either told him no or ignored him and kept walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:37 PM
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Exactly. I think most people who’ve been in a relationship for long enough have consented to sex that they may have not wanted in that moment just to satisfy their partner. But it’s insane to claim that I was raped in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:34 PM
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Because it takes agency away from the woman. She still consented in this scenario. If a homeless guy on the street keeps pestering me for money, and I decide to give him $5 just so he can leave me alone, can I go to the cops and claim that I was robbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:29 PM
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Even so, that’s still not rape. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:23 PM
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I mean, there wouldn’t be many men left though. Like for real cause if you’re counting everything that’s rape including coercion, begging, and not getting full enthusiastic consent, we’re talking like what, 90-95% of them? I saw this comment in the cesspool known as TwoX. So begging counts as rape? Creepy behavior, sure. But rape? If scammers call me every day and I get tired of it one day and just give them my credit card information so I can be left alone, am I a victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:17 PM
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Thank you, sir 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:00 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:57 PM
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40-50 bodies and judging by her posting history is polyamorous. What a prize!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:52 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:18 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:11 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:35 PM
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They attacked his hairline and implied he would never get anyone because of his short height and hairline. This can’t be true! I was told that personality is more important than looks and height, and that if you’re constantly rejected by women it’s because they can sense your bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:01 PM
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Lol sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:11 PM
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Better to be single than to be settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:10 PM
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If she describes past flings as “hot”, “exciting”, or “sexy” and uses words like “safe”, “boring”, or “stable” to describe you then I have some bad news for you, bro 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:06 PM
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Belt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:05 PM
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I think men would have a better experience dating if they selected for women who desire or lust after them instead of seeing them as the “safe guy” or wallet, but that’s just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:02 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:49 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:48 PM
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Raw attraction wins once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:39 PM
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As long as it needs to be done 🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:19 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:18 PM
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<image> Prime example of why men take “hookup material” as a compliment/flex. Obligatory not all women, but a lot of women require raw attraction to see a guy as hookup material and have a lower attraction threshold for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:40 AM
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That’s exactly how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:31 PM
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I’m black too and I understand that people are going to be uncomfortable no matter what I do. I’m not crossing the street for anyone. They can cross if they feel uncomfortable 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:23 PM
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Q4M: Do you feel the need to cross the street at night if there’s a woman walking ahead of you? I just recently found out that this was a thing. Personally I wouldn’t, because I have no ill intent and I’m just minding my own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 10:57 PM
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Thanks 🙏🏽 at least someone appreciates my posting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:52 PM
3

Tough crowd today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:42 PM
2

Objectively? Probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:41 PM
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I like being lusted after 🤷🏽‍♂️ it may not be special for you, but you can’t make that judgement for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:39 PM
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I was on this rollercoaster for about 5 years with dozens of dudes. It was the same ride every time. It only cooled off for me during the pandemic when I finally deleted the apps (tinder was my go-to as well) and was forced to confront myself. Now I’m in my late twenties and in a long term happy relationship that’s completely different than the rollercoaster of hotties I was on before. He’s sweet, calm, reliable, predictable, and loving. At first I felt bored and missed the rollercoaster but onc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:28 PM
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I wish every woman thought like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 04:20 PM
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How long does lust last? I had something like this a long time ago..still not over that guy. I had a guy like that too… oh it lasts… it lasts years and years 😆 I still think about him sometimes and it’s been 5 years Same boat girl. Same boat. Hate this because he has so much power over me I am dying I was once you. He was a college football player, charismatic, very VERY attractive, well spoken, intelligent, nice body etc etc. Anyways, putting That Man™️ on a high invisible pedestal landed me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:58 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:37 PM
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Like you really think the dude who’s racked up 6 cares if the girl he just spotted has a n count of 2-7?! Statistically speaking, that’s an average body count. The standard for what constitutes as a high body count is different from guy to guy, but I’d be willing to bet that most guys would prefer their SO to be underneath that whether they’re a virgin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:10 PM
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The idea that only virgin men care about body count is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:13 PM
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They’re white knights. Those same men don’t criticize any preferences that women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:07 PM
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But rejecting a short guy is a-okay I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:45 PM
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Q4M: What’s the best compliment/ego boost that you’ve ever received from a woman? Years ago, I had sex with a girl and the condom slipped off inside of her during the act. She got a little upset and then said “You need to get bigger condoms, you have a big dick not a small one”. That was like 7 years ago and it still lives rent free in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:35 PM
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Well I’m talking about the OP. The people saying that you should be like that with guys who have never even shown signs of being abusive are just paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:22 PM
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This isn’t saying what you think it says. In the post, it specifically says that it’s directed towards people in an abusive or manipulative relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:16 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 02:22 PM
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My bad, I forgot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:16 PM
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That’s your personal standard though. Not all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:13 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/z0ies77fzsae1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=56fcb34aef1dc3037fce525d7ac94bbed6387f04 “I aspire to be the safe, settle down option for my SO after she’s done messing with the “sexy, exciting” guys!” - Said no sane, self-respecting man ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:11 PM
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Even if we were to grant that, relationships often times can start from a hook up. Plus I’ve seen many women admit to the fact that their physical standards for casual are higher than their standards for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:09 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:49 PM
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<image> Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:35 AM
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<image> If you’re chosen for #personality and #stability instead of raw attraction, you’re in danger of this happening to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:08 AM
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<image> Has anyone done an Ancestry test before? These are my results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:49 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:46 PM
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It’s not a significant factor. I’m going to refer to another comment that you made to answer this. “I tend to refer to my lived experiences over some reddit posts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:20 AM
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That’s objectively false lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:50 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:47 PM
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That’s the same person who tried to tell me that height wasn’t a significant factor in heterosexual female attraction. I think it’s safe to say that she doesn’t know what she’s talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:42 PM
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Bro, in my opinion, being perma single is more dignified than being with someone who’s lukewarm about you at best, and sees you as “good enough”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:39 PM
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You’d be surprised at how many people would tell this woman’s partner (upon him being upset or insecure at reading this) that he should be happy because “he won” in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:34 PM
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My best was amazing, but he was a total narcissist and always talked about how being exclusive was dumb. We dated for a year and he was close friends with one of my friends, who we never hung out with together, because we always hung out alone. His house was apparently too gross to have people over so I never saw it. My current partner may not be the best, but we met in my mid-30s, after I’d been online dating forever and after I’d slept with too many assholes who were good in bed. But he introd…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:31 PM
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Thanks brother ✊🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:07 PM
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Happy new year! Just dropping by with your daily reminders that ⁠Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. ⁠Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:04 PM
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Then this doesn’t apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:54 PM
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<image> Prime example of why raw attraction is so important. Her husband is a nice, kind provider and was clearly chosen for #personality. Meanwhile she is fantasizing about other men and has no “spark” for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:43 PM
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If a guy is handsome enough, he doesn’t even need game. Women might even approach him. And for him to seal the deal, you’d already have to be receptive towards him anyway. That’s the power of raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:56 PM
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I will keep spreading the message. You’re free to keep scrolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:52 PM
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A lot of those vigilante predator stings don’t result in arrests, but they are entertaining to watch though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:20 PM
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What if you’re in a relationship that started off as a hook up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:18 PM
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The kind of person she’d have sex with just for the sake of it, with no promise of commitment. Ideally, most men would want to be both hookup and relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:11 PM
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Just dropping by with your daily reminders that Being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. Generally speaking, if she hooked up with other men in the past but doesn’t view you as hookup material, she’s #settling on attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:03 PM
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I remember opening up to my first gf about the fact that I was bullied a lot in elementary and middle school. Then one day we got into an argument and she told me that she wishes that I would’ve killed myself back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:11 PM
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People will tell their kids that belief in Santa Claus or the Tooth Fairy is silly but then turn around and pray to an invisible man in the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:54 PM
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The sad thing is that for some guys, that’s their reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:11 AM
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Man easily. I would never want to deal with periods or childbirth. Or the looming threat of sexual assault/rape. But if I could be reborn as an attractive and neurotypical man, that would be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:04 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/qyy0p8z683ae1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=843263cd62e8754891441bf945a30e04bcc7bfc7 A lot of women admit that their physical standards for hookups/FWB are higher than their physical standards for entering a relationship. This is why a lot of men take “hookup material” as a more flattering compliment than “husband material”.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:36 AM
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That’s a very charitable interpretation. But again, if that sounds flattering to you then more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 06:09 PM
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Yes. I don’t want someone who feels like they’re settling on attraction to be with me. Especially if they have to not sleep with me too soon to avoid getting the ick from my looks. But if that type of relationship sounds fulfilling to you, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:54 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/04m83uj7x0ae1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=83e670b6fb8fe4cf8f09fcb5ee937752801606fb Just dropping in with your daily reminder that being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. In today’s example, the advice giver is advising a woman to give guys who normally wouldn’t catch her eye (meaning less attractive) a chance because their #personality could possibly grow on her. She also advises her to not sleep with them early on so as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:51 PM
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I’m inclined to agree with you given the amount of times I’ve seen things like “Looks are priority for casual” and “Of course I’m going to go for the hottest guy I can get for a ONS”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:42 PM
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If you’re a guy who can only have sex in the context of a relationship, and not casual/FWB, what does that say about your level of attractiveness? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:07 PM
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We got married at 20 & 22, I have to admit I wasn’t looking this closely at these qualities at the time. I married him because he is the kind and has a pure heart. He still does & I know he will make a great dad in the future. This is the result of being chosen for #personality instead of raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:23 PM
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I always find it weird when a guy asks for dating advice and people say “become charismatic”. I’m pretty sure that’s something that comes from a lot of positive experiences and social interactions. How is an introvert, especially one on the spectrum, supposed to just become charismatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:11 AM
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Well that’s certainly a take, but it doesn’t reflect my real life experience so we’re going to have to agree to disagree on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:15 AM
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You’re denying that height is significant factor when it comes to attraction? My bad, I forgot the phrase “short, dark, and handsome” exists lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:47 PM
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<image> How out of touch do you have to be to have a take like this? Being tall hurts your dating chances? 🤣 Yeah, and being an exceptional high school football player hurts your chances of playing at a D1 college. Can’t believe 10 morons upvoted that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:34 PM
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I hate the fact that I was bullied for a lot of my childhood. I think I will carry a chip on my shoulder for the rest of my life because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:46 PM
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Trying MDMA is definitely on my bucket list.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:09 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/0r2cphucyt9e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=08b93cae1a33ac3ac3cbfedfc7566194a62cfb14 Happy Sunday, folks. Just dropping by with your daily reminder that being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 06:23 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/0t8xmwt3ys9e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=251245b9fa0d2138e6c1a5fc0286122c85f48893 Generally speaking, if your SO would LTR you but not hook up with you (despite hooking up with other men), she’s #settling on looks and attraction. Don’t hate me, I’m just the messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:01 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/7rlb8ndrio9e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=243239c9e3b9bf0a5d1d4d035eb8bab9756f6530 If you’ve ever wondered why a lot of men take hookup material as a bigger compliment than “husband material”, give this a quick read. Raw attraction reigns supreme over #personality once again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:08 AM
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Will do 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:57 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/k9mp39nyum9e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fcde3f4f10c08152df2c2ef04f4f55ca48a96753 Dropping in with your daily reminder of why it’s better to be chosen for raw attraction rather than #personality. Find someone who views you as relationship AND/or hookup material, gents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:32 PM
1

The situation that you posed wouldn’t be considered murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:15 PM
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I don’t understand how people who oppose the death penalty support Luigi Mangione.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:00 PM
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I’m sorry to be blunt- but many women view short men the way many men view an overweight/fat woman- as not an option. For smart, educated and pretty women, she will feel “what do I lack that I need to date a short man?” It’d be diff if they were friends first, but on a dating app? You’d have less luck. My advice to you? If you’re young enough, go to school and study hard, get a job that is appealing to women, that signals stability and education. I’m a Dr so I’m around doctors of all ages, and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:29 PM
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If “unsafe” means chosen for sexual desirability, and personality and to not be seen as “good enough” or a wallet then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:19 PM
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Good for you I guess? Everyone doesn’t like being designated as the safe choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:06 PM
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“Yeah, you maybe the exact opposite of the guys that she has a history of dating, she may not ever initiate sex with you, and she’s not as affectionate with you, but she’s with you now so you won!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:05 PM
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This is why I advocate for guys to find significant others who actually show desire and lust towards them. Avoid single mothers and women who have a history of dating “toxic” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:02 PM
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Imagine busting your ass through your 20s in order to end up in a decent career and have a decent amount of success only to get with someone who sees you as the “safe choice”. Nightmare fuel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:58 PM
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I think the “good enough” guy is often the one who will be there for you through the highs and lows of life, the one who will hold you when you cry, who will make you laugh and who will be a loving, stable father to your children. They might have a bit of a belly, they might not be the most charismatic person in the room and maybe they have an odd fashion sense. But they’re someone you can build a life with. Prince charming might be fun when you’re young and single. Swoon-worthy, even. He’s ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:29 PM
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Ouch. Definitely adding some of these to the collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:02 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/n46famtwnb9e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4b21b392a9c3e6e5dd31212c91438107f9f6189 Just a late night reminder that this is the type of relationship that you will get from someone who chooses you based on #personality instead of raw attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:54 AM
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I actually respect this. At least she’s being honest and not spouting that “height doesn’t matter, it’s about having a good personality and respecting women” or some happy go lucky BS like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:19 AM
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This Luigi shit is different. Grown ass women simping over a goddamn murderer, defending him, saying his personality is great, crying because they matched on Hinge but he never replied, proudly declaring that even after the murder, they’d still gladly fuck him if they could. See, I’m okay with accepting that this is just how the world works. But when people lie and try to gaslight guys and say that looks/height/race don’t really matter and it’s all about personality, even if we have REAL LIFE ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:09 AM
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I have zero doubt you take this poor me attitude into your interactions with women. They can smell it a mile away. The difference is he probably doesn’t. I saw this comment in a thread on another sub about a guy noting that his taller friend was receiving more female attention than he was. Why is it like pulling teeth with some people to get them to admit that height and looks matter in the dating world? Dude made a perfectly reasonable observation only to be met with “It’s your bad attitude, br…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:45 AM
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I thought 20 was high lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:44 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/isznnpebt99e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1357197280b7e95e31b48796dee89b667108352a This is one of the craziest things I’ve ever read. Imagine dating a woman with a 200+ body count, feeling uncomfortable upon learning of it, then convincing yourself that you’re actually the one who has the problem for being uncomfortable with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:40 PM
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”Safe, stable, reliable [and] dependable” are compliments. They are things that make good traits for a partner in a loving, healthy, long term relationship. Who would want a spouse that makes them feel unsafe, is unstable, not dependable, and unreliable?They are not mutually exclusive with being desired. Most men want to be seen that way and also be seen as exciting, sexy, and attractive. Notice how she didn’t use any of those words to describe her husband. The woman in the quoted post also said…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:34 PM
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I don’t think there is a single man on the entire planet with an ounce of self-respect who would take this as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:21 PM
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Wrong. Men want to be seen as desirable option whom a woman feels attracted to and lucky to be with. Not the safe, stable, reliable, or dependable option after years of messing with “party guys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:17 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/upbaop1bh89e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=062f8de072f617d57aed9c55210fecc83391b325 Just dropping a reminder of why being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality and #stability. Notice the adjectives she uses to describe the “party guys” and her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 06:12 PM
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Who said that they didn’t? You know what else most guys want? To be validated sexually and to be seen as attractive. Most women aren’t hooking up with people that they don’t find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:16 PM
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Yeah, most men would definitely be insulted to hear “I would have sex with you just for the sake of having sex, without the promise of commitment” 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/n1dootmje09e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=34dbf4c5193f86f8c5220a0c4578ffd0a19fcb5f Even Google AI knows that “hookup material” is more of a compliment than “husband material”. Look at the adjectives they use for one vs. the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:00 PM
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You’re free to keep scrolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:30 PM
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She’s with you for everything except sex. While it’s important, it’s not everything. So she had a previous lover who knocked her socks off, and she told you to not try and measure up to that, but she can still enjoy what you have. Lackluster sex isn’t a reason to trash a whole relationship. Basically the worst thing she did was be too open in her honesty. She’s decided to take her sexual fulfillment off your hands but addressing it herself through masterbation. Many women aren’t married to “the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 04:25 PM
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OP, I understand your point. You noted that she dated the attractive hunks. I think that not only did she know that you were a good guy, but her “20 year old shallow self” may have known that she was out of your league, however, I think her “safe” may have also meant that you being the opposite of her exes. You see, those “fire fighters or sporty” types of guys always seem to attract “other” women. She knew there was no competition for her with dating you. She also knew with her “20 year old sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:10 PM
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This doesn’t apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ein707hzvs8e1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=855afdfe4ccd32e606f75934f1cf0c7cb69830a1 Just another example of why being chosen for raw attraction is superior to being chosen for #personality. According to this individual, you can be a great guy and even then, she’ll still reminisce about the fun, attractive hook ups that she had in the past despite the fact that they are “awful” guys. For anyone wondering why “hookup material” is more of a compliment than “husban…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:45 PM
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Agreed. I want to be chosen for attraction first, everything else is secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:56 AM
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Yeah my ex and I could not physically keep apart, maybe it was the eyes, the ways we breathed in each others directions? I truly can’t say but very few people make me that hot and bothered. My now partner turns me on it’s just in a different way. It doesn’t make me love him any less it’s just different and sure I miss the passion but not the instability that accompanied it. Maybe it’s settling maybe it’s growth, regardless I’m happy with him (my now partner) and that’s all that matters. What it …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:38 AM
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