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Is getting a hotel worth sex to you guys? I'm still a broke college kid but $50-60 for a room doesn't even seem worth it to me. Last week I almost got a hotel with a girl after a movie because she wanted to pay for it, but I was pretty tired at that point and didn't want her to spend the money either.
/r/seduction08/06/15 01:00 PM
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You don't seem interested in leaving people better than you found them. What gave you that impression? :(
/r/seduction14/04/15 11:40 PM
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I'm not planning on sleeping with any of them, but when it's happening, well, it's happening you know?
/r/seduction14/04/15 10:32 PM
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Now that said, there are only 24 hours in a day, so I have personally found that seeing more than 2 or 3 with any regularity is tough. Still, you definitely have time to give these various relationships a shot since they are so early on in the process. This is very helpful. A lot of girls think that after a period of time in an open relationship, you’ll come around. That like “all guys,” you just want to have your cake and eat it too. Explain that you aren’t looking to trade up. Openness is a pr…
/r/seduction14/04/15 07:47 PM
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Ahh ok, that complication is the problem haha. I'm most likely going to sleep with some of them, and I wanted to ask here before I do that if I should do something differently. I'm not planning on sleeping with any of them, but when it's happening, well, it's happening you know? My biggest concern is with the three girls that are all friends. I'm thinking about either dropping all 3, or hooking back up with Girl #4 and acting like nothing happened with the others.
/r/seduction14/04/15 07:14 PM
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You think so? This is what I need help with. I don't know where to start.
/r/seduction14/04/15 06:55 PM
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Stay nice, or don't, if you want to change it's up to you. If you want, I propose a challenge to you. Next time you sleep with a girl, slap her. On the ass, on the face, doesn't matter. You said you're confident, just own that shit and see what watch what does. Give her the 'Do nice guys slap you in the fucking face?' look.
/r/seduction19/11/14 05:48 AM
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Yeah man, paint the life you want to live. Be that guy that slays pussy. When you're sitting next to a girl and don't know what to do think and ask yourself 'Hey, what would a guy that slays pussy do in my situation right now?" "He'd probably sweet talk this girl, get closer to her, and make some strong ass eye contact" And then you do it. Sooner or later you become that guy.
/r/seduction19/11/14 05:40 AM
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Yeah man once you internalize the concept of kino, after some practice it becomes natural. The kino escalation ladder is a great place to start and can explain it better than I can (a quick google search). Basically, this escalation ladder is sort of like a check list as you escalate your feelings with the girl. It starts out with an introductory hug or wave or what have you, and as the conversation escalates you become more interested in the girl. I'm usually asking myself questions like 'Is th…
/r/seduction19/11/14 05:22 AM
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I've been in your situation quite a few times. My answer is to fake it till you make it. I know it's cliche and you've heard it a hundred times, but it's what I always did in those situations and it always worked way better than I'd expect. How you fake it is up to you personally, how I did it was by usually acting like the whole thing was a game. I'd think, "I'm going to invite these girls over and see if I can make them X," For this we'll say make out with each other. Then I'd act normal but f…
/r/seduction19/11/14 04:50 AM
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Holy shit same.
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:44 PM
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It takes practice. I thought the same thing for awhile but I found out I just needed to be more aggressive when texting. Sarcasm works a lot too if the person knows me well. For shit like tinder I try to keep conversation brief and let them know my intentions, usually. Having some good pictures makes all the difference too.
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:37 PM
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Good to hear that it's just not just me. I was talking to my buddy yesterday and mentioned I wasn't trying to smash every girl I talk to right now, and got the expected 'pussy is pussy bro' response. I've been meeting most of these women at college parties and a few in my classes. Haven't tried going to a coffee shop or library, just walk in to a coffee shop and sit next to a girl on her laptop? I'll try it later today
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:13 PM
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I know what you mean by being direct and honest, I consider gaming to be her side of the escalation ladder. So, her control of it as well as mine
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:51 AM
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This is the same thing /u/NoiseTherapy said, I'm going to try it and see how it works out. Thanks for the input, it's strange since the media frames guys as the ones always interested in sex right out of the gate. Some months it's true, but usually, eh.
/r/seduction04/11/14 10:04 PM
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True that. It'll probably help escalating too. I can consciously pull back, but the better a girl is at gaming in general the harder it is. And I think with actively working on this, we'll get the hang of it pretty quick so don't sweat it. :)
/r/seduction04/11/14 09:25 PM
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This sounds fucking hilarious lol.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:32 PM
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How do you accurately measure BF? I had it measured in HS for wrestling a few times but it was pretty wild in range. One year it was like 7% and I had to have a doctor's note, then like a month later it was ~15%.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:31 PM
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I think you're right, I'm going to add her on snapchat and might just leave it. She was really attractive in my opinion, but the lack of chemistry made the sex kind of weak.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:28 PM
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Ahh yeah those dates happen pretty often for me too; Sometimes it just isn't there. 'booping a female friend' lol!
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:21 PM
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Good advice man I think you're right. I kind of give in to sex pretty quick, if a girl starts kissing me I'm not the type to stop her.. Maybe I should work on that.
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:14 PM
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Could be there was just no chemistry there man, it happens. It sounds like she was shy, so a lot of your night will be spent making her more and more comfortable with you. It's harder to do that and it's a bit exhausting on your part, but a gradual escalation is still the key to making it a good night for the both of you. On the other hand, if she was uncomfortable with you even starting kino with her (it's important for you to have tried!!) like a hand on the shoulder or you guys getting close …
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:08 PM
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I think this is good starting advice, but eventually it's important to understand that it's fine whether she likes you or not. When you move to this point you'll be able to gauge how much she likes you and see more of what you can change. For example, saying she likes me and going for a kiss will work a lot of the time but sometimes she just needed 5 more minutes with you before she got to that point.
/r/seduction27/10/14 07:57 PM
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I'm not like an expert or anything but I've gotten past most of my AA in the last year or so.
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:50 AM
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To justify not kissing her? I doubt she would have denied it, but like I said she's good friends with girl crazy, and I know sleeping with her definitely wasn't worth it. I had the thought in the back of my head like if I kiss her, she's going to want to go really slow and I don't know if I was willing to deal with it all.
/r/seduction25/10/14 11:31 PM
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Depends on how open the girl is, but joke around after you meet her, while in line for the movie or whatever. Get the kino rolling. Then try to cuddle during the movie, and turn it up a notch near the end. It's a scary one so that's an easy excuse, if she's down. (She said she loves scary movies, if she isn't immediately put off by you not looking like your pictures, you're pretty much golden) Basically, escalate the ladder faster than normal to get laid that night. And also, don't bitch out. Wo…
/r/seduction23/10/14 11:23 PM
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I might tonight, and yeah I was thinking doggy like /u/AllMenDrip said. I'm trying to get with a couple of other girls in the same class so idk how this will play off with it. Problem is every time I've gone to message her I just rub one out and change my mind.
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:25 PM
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Mind blowing how true that is
/r/seduction23/10/14 03:07 AM
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That girl sounds pretty awesome. Good on you for sticking through it, I'm doing the same shit as you! With practice of course, you'll get better at keeping the conversation active (to avoid having her lose interest). My AA is pretty much gone at this point, except for stopping girls that are walking the opposite direction as me. That's like the only issue, it's just so unexpected for the girl I feel like I'd scare her.
/r/seduction23/10/14 02:34 AM
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Think of it this way; life is meaningless, so who cares if you are or aren't cool. You aren't special compared to girls or friends, and they aren't special to you. It's an equal playing field so no one is going to come and show you how small you are. The only time you're smaller than them is when you let that happen, so believe in yourself and make yourself a cool guy.
/r/seduction22/10/14 11:42 PM
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I'm by no means an expert, but I can see a few things you could change. I feel like she wouldn't say 'when you meet the girl of your dreams' if she was interested because she's insinuating that it's not her. But for the conversation, try to frame it in a way where she is validating herself for you. But don't be a dick about it, if that makes sense. Act like your time is valuable to you (even if it isn't) and that she should try to show something to keep your interest. On the same note, have a go…
/r/seduction14/10/14 07:59 PM
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After a brief look at your conversation I feel like you were participating more than her, and when she said the 'girl of your dreams' comment that was a hint that we was losing interest. That's just my take on the subject though. As far as reopening girls, I think it would depend on the circumstances and something you'd probably have to decide for yourself.
/r/seduction14/10/14 07:42 PM
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Wow. From the boxing/wrestling to the wow to the yelling parents, sounds just like me. The only difference is I that I played wow for awhile and wrestled in total for about 5 years. Yeah man, I REALLY know how you feel and all I can say is that your mind is stronger than you think. Look at your life as objectively as you can, and look for areas that if you improved you would be happier. If you can't change it, try to ignore it (maybe get into exercising or meditation to do this). So, keep approa…
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:49 PM
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Same situation as you bro. Since I started college, I lost a huge majority of my social circles. I've been making some friends lately around campus and cold approached some guys on longboards (I have my own) but other than that, it feels like I'm limiting myself. Haven't really gone on a date in a few months, though I've had two girls DM me on twitter that saw me around campus (not entirely interested). To summarize, my biggest challenge is, like you, cold approaching. I walk by cute girls all t…
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:06 AM
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Agreed completely. Unless you're a serial killer, then you may want to rethink things first.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:40 PM
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Ok. Now what if the girl is a tease? Just drop her? For example, fun to hang with but all around shitty at texting back. I know a girl that does this, and when I run into her at a party or something she asks why I don't talk to her. Last time I told her straight up she doesn't text back, which sounds like the right thing to say. Would you agree? I mean in this case she pretty much brought the subject up and I'm being honest.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:38 PM
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I'm 18 here, most of the people in those classes are in their 30s and 40s. Unless I can't find the right ones. Still though, don't most of those girls only mostly hang out with other girls? Mixed groups are really rare for me.
/r/seduction02/07/14 10:33 AM
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The way you said that pretty much blew my mind. The two problems I'm having though are finding those first few friends, and getting those people to invite you to their social circle so eagerly. My friends barely have much social lives themselves.
/r/seduction02/07/14 10:27 AM
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The only problem now is the seeking out your companion part. All of my friends aren't passionate about anything because they're stoners. I don't know where to find people that actually want to do shit like workout and set up events. My friends just get fucked up and play video games so I have no way of finding quality people. I'm 18 right now as well so most people can't get into bars yet. I'm starting classes at a community college soon so it might get a little better, though most people at com…
/r/seduction02/07/14 10:21 AM
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People actually practice expressions in the mirror? My smile just looks creepy in that scenario haha.
/r/seduction02/07/14 09:45 AM
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That's spot on, it's mostly when people are around strangers.
/r/seduction22/06/14 02:10 AM
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I think you're right in that I'm kind of afraid to make them dislike me, and at the same time was raised to be overly polite. 90% of the girls I'm hooking up with probably know each other through friend of a friend at least, so I usually think I'll get a reputation for the guy that's a manwhore if I'm more aggressive all the time. Either way, I think it's best if I escalate more and am less awkward about it in general (though the girls being shy doesn't help that).
/r/seduction21/06/14 11:01 PM
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I'm working on it brother, escalation is probably the biggest downfall for me right now. Once I get faster at climbing the ladder I think my results will skyrocket honestly.
/r/seduction21/06/14 10:57 PM
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Yeah that sounds kind of typical for what happens. I'll give you an example, like a week ago I went to a movie with this chick. It was scary, and I didn't ask permission before putting my arm around her but it definitely wasn't a smooth transition. Then we walked out to our cars and were just bullshitting. I was trying to play it cool basically but from the way we were standing and everything it was hard to escalate, so when we were talking about what we could do I basically asked permission by …
/r/seduction21/06/14 10:54 PM
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Fuuckkk bro.. that's me right now. 18, and probably the few girls I hooked up with I usually asked before I made a move. This is probably why girls never go past one night stands with me
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:13 AM
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I learned a hard lesson recently relating to your first tip. Most of what you say doesn't matter, it's all about how you made them feel usually. However people can use your words against you if they desire, so to an extent what you're saying can matter. Basically, just don't talk about other people unless it's ALWAYS in a positive light, even if it's constructive or not necessarily negative. For both approaching and continued relationships with people, I'm sure you hear it all the time but it's …
/r/seduction13/06/14 11:07 PM
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In all relationships/friendships make sure the value you get from eachother is flowing 2 ways. I definitely agree with this however finding quality friends that follow this is pretty difficult in my opinion. It may be the cynical side of me talking but it seems most people only want to be friends with you because of what you can provide them with.
/r/seduction12/06/14 08:29 AM
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Preparing yourself for a fight will find you one though? That's not true at all man and really harsh for you to say. I've been into combat sports since I was little and I've been in zero serious altercations, and I know I'm not the exception.
/r/seduction12/06/14 08:26 AM
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Where do you go to approach usually? This was at the mall, anywhere else? I'm in a smaller spread out city and the mall is the only place I've gone out just to try cold approaches like this, it was difficult finding girls near my age (18). You're making a lot of approaches a week though compared to me, and I need fresh contacts so I might just start following your lead!
/r/seduction04/03/14 11:54 PM
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Same here. The ladder was on the side of the cube and the horse was next to some flowers next to the ladder
/r/seduction10/02/14 08:54 PM
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I think we have a good connection, and we can have conversations on just about anything. There's just a point where I feel myself getting attached and so I give myself a little space. I want to remain independent as much as possible, and I guess she can sense when I give myself room. I'm honestly thinking about cutting my losses and ending this relationship anyways. Its been about a month but I still just don't think I'm ready for one, at least maybe she isn't the right person. It's hard because…
/r/seduction05/02/14 07:04 PM
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Yeah exactly. I can open up in way if they ask.. Like I'm not afraid to say something to them and I'm not hiding anything, but I don't make myself emotionally vulnerable on my own. She's brought it up before and just said I'm a great people person but I'm reserved with my emotions with her. I just feel like I can't get attached because I know it's not going to last forever.
/r/seduction04/02/14 08:45 PM
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What about when you have the opposite issue? Where I underinvest because I know there's an abundance. I'm in an open relationship now and I'm struggling to expose myself in a sense
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:57 PM
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In all of the 4 relationships that I've had, each time they were the one to push the relationship and I knew them all for at least a month before we made it exclusive
/r/seduction23/01/14 03:53 AM
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I feel you man. Right now, especially after all of the experiences I've had with them, relationships are pointless. I just really can't see a reason for them if you can have all the benefits of one without going into a relationship.
/r/seduction22/01/14 08:31 PM
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