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| 8 | What is your most arbitrary “deal-breaker” when contemplating a serious relationship w/someone?Same girl for the second one. I absolutely HATE beards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Do dating age men have any interest in having a friendship with a woman who is solidly nailed down?I am a 28 year old girl who has male friends. I know for a fact my male bestie and I do not have any attraction to each other and we help each other finding suitable partners. When I was with my ex for 5 years the friendship never changed. So yes, ofc they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 11:03 AM |
| 1 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?I'm trying to work with him for solving the issue. And I wouldn't even have an issue with him having a dislocated shoulder all the time - if he wouldn't insist on still being able to do all the stuff he can't. Example: we went grocery shopping and had 9L of water plus a shopping bag. He dislocated his shoulder carrying the water (5min walk home left). I said I would take it, because he was visibly in pain. He protested and also insisted on carrying the bag. Which is just stupid. Why punish yours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?He says it's because absence from work (we're in Germany, so that's a no-brainer. Our boss would be super understanding) and he's also afraid of hospitals tbh. He would need surgery for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?Yes he is - his shoulder dislocates almost daily and it would be fixable. He doesn't wanna go and also doesn't accept help when he's hurting like hell. That's majorly unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 07:06 PM |
| 4 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?Uuuh, you make it seem like going to the gynecologist is fun for women?! Which, it is not. Also I think it's completely unattractive that my boyfriend doesn't seek medical help. It's the most unattractive thing about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | 'Too many muscles is unattractive' is a crockI actually find that repulsive. Got a good friend who really wants to look like that and he always looks at pictures of his Ideal - I'd never date a guy like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?We already got too many people. We could do just fine with less new ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Bold of you to assume. And you're wrong. I have been with shorter guys before and it never bothered me at all. My current partner of 4 1/2 years is exactly the same height as I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Huh, that's a new one for me. Thanks for the clarification (: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Nothing wrong with the guy I replied to. But OP and some others have been saying crazy things here.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?I have some coworkers who are religious. They've been fucking around but want a virgin (or low n-count) to marry.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?You just butchered that poor guy. Great job! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?I'd like to know the answer, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?I've been reading this comment chani for the past half our now (it's early am here) and I almost lost my sanity. Thanks for your point of view (: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:22 AM |
| 0 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?Can you elaborate please? I don't know what about being a bisexual man would be a turnoff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Why Do You Think Most Men Instinctively Care About N Count?I do not, in fact, like tall guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?For my bf and I it's the opposite: I can just stop and be fine a little why later, why he boils on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialI'm not really sure why you should pay for a stranger at all. I would never expect a guy to pay on a first date, or ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:38 AM |
| 9 | Women who HAVE in fact dated or married a Red Pill Man, good experience/relationship or negative?Ofc the first impression is based on looks, but as soon as there is a relationship involved, the looks become more of an afterthought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What kinks are a dealbreaker for you?She probably offered because there's so many guys who want that and she wanted to sound like a good option for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Leading women on for sex is exactly as moral/immoral as TwitchThots or Only Fans girls taking money from simpsI agree. If a man tells me he doesn't want a relationship and still goes on dates with me, we're probably FWB. So I take him by his word and will see the fancy dinner as a friendship thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 09:17 AM |
| 5 | Lesbians, what's your take on FDS?So I'm hetero - that makes me excluding all women and I'm a misogynist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | What are your standards in a partner?-close to my own age (27) -open-minded (no racism, homophobia, ableism, etc. - left leaning) -basic hygiene is a must -either not drinking or only occasionally drinking -not wanting kids with me (I can't have them) -positive outlook on life in general -can have actual deep conversations (don't even have to agree, just being able to talk without fighting is great) -attractive to me and attracted to me -being able to pay his own bills -have a job -have friends & hobbies -not too clingy, but still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?On the street, in public transport, through hobbies, mutual friends, work, at bars (don't even have to drink for that one).. That's what I can think of on top of my head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I said I don't know any who would. Not that they don't exist. Not shaming anyone here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I didn't say I would. I am not a prude by any means, but since I got older, people are just not interested anymore I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I'm slightly overweight (we're talking about maybe 5 - 10kg), I dress in my uniform (if I go out outside of work it's jeans and T-shirt), I don't get asked out at all, so why be selective haha I count as one of the guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I wasn't comparing genders. But I don't turn down many people. I never turn down anyone, because, frankly, nobody tries to come onto me. And I'm not ugly - I am very average. A bit more muscles than the average woman maybe, but the guys I know see me as one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 08:33 AM |
| 4 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I don't know a single man who would view the drug addicted, homeless prostiutue an actual option for sex. If you do, I have good news for you - you can have sex at every corner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 08:30 AM |
| 6 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I, as an average woman, do not have all the options for sex everybody seems to think I have.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:47 PM |
| 7 | Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women?I don't agree. My sex drive is pretty high, and I love sex with strangers. But I don't like tinder because I can't feel the vibe of the person I'm talking to. And without that, there's no attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?I am, actually. But I'm agreeing with you. You never said anything about "all guys" but about those, who are what you fittingly described as "man-children". I have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?Codependency, to be honest with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/21 06:10 AM |
| 2 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?Unfortunately I got a guy holding me back :( I'm doing more than one job, my primary, which is in the field I learned and then some union work - if I can prove myself a little more I can go to a union university and will be able to do a great job in union work. That's my dream. If my boyfriend wasn't there I'd probably already be there, though :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 09:29 PM |
| – | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?That would be the absolute dream for me. (: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 10:08 AM |
| – | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?I'm career driven, but not wealthy yet (: | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 10:07 AM |
| – | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?YES. I want his help, not his money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 10:55 PM |
| 0 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?Ofc, that would make him even more attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | If a guy is willing and able to commit to you but you are higher up the social/economic ladder than he is, does he still have a chance? and Why?I'm somewhat of a "workaholic". If this guy would help around the house while I'm working, that would be great. So if he would work as much as I do, that wouldn't happen. So I'd be good with dating "down", if you wanna call it that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home?I think it really depends. I grew up in a household where the chores were pretty equally split. My dad would always do household chores, just like my mom would. My mom would complain faster about for example socks laying around, but all in all they were putting in the same amount of effort. I am with a man who is not clean. I am living in my own apartment, but I do the laundry, the kitchen, the bathroom cleaning at his place. There's no outdoor chores where we live. I have been with a guy in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/21 07:56 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?My whole life is a fucking Rollercoaster and it's leaving me exhausted most of the time haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:41 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?I know a lot of women who do approach men. Just because you don't get approached it doesn't mean we don't. Maybe you hang around the wrong places? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 11:40 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?Thanks, I find myself to be exhausting lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 10:56 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?I met my boyfriend through approaching him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 3 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?I'm a pwBPD, so that wouldn't phase me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?You can not possibly know that haha. I usually go for the guys who do not approach women, because I like the nice, shy ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:44 AM |
| 3 | How do you explain the apparent lack of women?If I see a man who I am attracted to, I just approach him. I do not think it's necessary for the man to approach the woman anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/21 06:26 AM |
| 2 | (Parenthetical) Recognition of domestic violence against menIt's just baffling to me how society and a therapist at that could react like that | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 11:22 PM |
| 2 | (Parenthetical) Recognition of domestic violence against menPreface: I am a woman I once hit my boyfriend. It was a really bad thing for me to do and I won't excuse it. I went to a therapist because of it. I told her I feel bad about it. Her response? "He probably deserved it" Did he? No. Did I ever see that particular therapist again? No. You probably know what I'm trying to tell you here. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postWell said. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 08:51 AM |
| 4 | Knees touching when sitting side by sideOnce I met a guy who actually asked before he kissed me. I still remember him fondly (there's an ocean between us) and I was so in love. It was the best way any man treated me ever. Also you're only 14 years old, you should stop writing bullshit on the internet or you'll be one of the guys we girls tell horror stories about to each other. | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 01:12 PM |
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