BathroomExisting2511 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What do men get for paying for the first date? A guy "trying to impress" the girl, as if shes the prize This analogy makes no sense. Nobody tries to impress the prize, they try to impress the judge (woman) so they win the prize (a second date).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 10:40 PM
1	JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat) I never understood people acting like it's so difficult and unrealistic to expect people to do (I've lost 100 pounds myself fyi). Then you do know why it's hard, or else you would've never gotten that big in the first place. Ex fat people always trying to pretend like they're better than everybody, I stg.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 10:35 PM
1	JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat) I feel great! You won't for long unless you change your weight. So many fat activists go "my health is perfect actually" in their late 20s and by their mid 30's they have a shitload of health problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 10:32 PM
1	JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat) There are lots of skinny male celebs in Hollywood No there aren't. They're thin and fit, not skinny. Skinny types are like Michael Cera who are always typecast as the unattractive nerd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 10:29 PM
1	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success This guy is literally selling dating self-help books lmfao. He's framing men not being able to date as being a men-only problem so that he can be their guru and they'll buy his courses to teach them how to also become an "ex-Professional Party Boy". Anybody that listens to this guy is a fool, he's a literal snake oil salesman and everything he says is to make guys feel like there's something wrong with them, so they'll pay for his "help". Stop buying into these idiots' scammy sales tactics, they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 10:26 PM
2	Improving adult education is the secret to convincing young women to pair up with young men and have families That's not true, children historically have been raised by their community, where the men and women also worked. The idea of a man leaving off to go to a job while the woman stays at home and raises the kids and does housework has not been the case for the vast majority of history or cultures. I actually think we're finding that this concept of both parents leaving off to their "careers" is hugely toxic for society and child-rearing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 09:50 PM
1	I've never understood why famous male celebrities chose to date/marry other female celebrities In addition to the comments about social circles, wealthy / powerful people often marry for status. You don't gain status by marrying someone that's a nobody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 09:30 PM
1	Are men more romantic? I agree that men give gifts more often, but how often are they truly thoughtful gifts, something their partner actually loves and wants, and not just basic "Here's a shiny object" mating ritual like magpies do? Men absolutely give superficial courtship gifts more often, but is that really romantic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 09:26 PM
1	Are men more romantic? I watch things I’m not interested in with him because he enjoys it. Now THIS is a truly romantic gesture. Anybody can buy flowers and chocolates, but spending time and doing something you don't like, but you know your partner likes, takes significantly more care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 09:17 PM
1	Everything In Relationships Ultimately Comes Down To Power For Men 100% agreed, power dynamics are for kinky people's bedrooms, not the rest of the relationship. Some people here have been watching way too much sigma male grindset Tiktok and think that's real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 08:52 PM
0	Everything In Relationships Ultimately Comes Down To Power For Men relationships and sex being closely related to power is a very common talking point outside of niche spaces like this What spaces are those because I've literally only ever heard people in niche *pill spaces talk about sex and power like this. Oh and movies, of course, but that ain't real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 08:50 PM
1	You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith. I think, OP, that you're thinking about this the wrong way. Men (especially young men) think women have unrealistic standards because of dating apps, because on those apps they actually kinda do. This does not translate into real life, where personality, sense of humor etc. can all make a short guy charming and suave, but in our modern society, outside of school, where everybody is kinda shitty, egocentric and juvenile inherently, there are very few spaces left for men and women to interact casu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 08:12 PM
1	Cuck fetish is to men what CNC kink is to women Hnnng love me some good CNC porn, the smooth movements, the sounds, it's just all so beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 08:07 PM
1	There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficient And should be Absolutely they should, but wider society is still very much entrenched in the man = provider, woman = mother dichotomy. That's pretty much all it is, anything that deviates from that is "weird", like stay at home husbands. Shouldn't be that way, but it still is unfortunately. I actually have a friend who's a stay at home husband, and he often feels guilty for it, like he's putting to much responsibility on his wife - even though he had no problem being the sole provider earlier in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:44 PM
2	People misunderstand the idea of "stop chasing women and focus on career and life" But do you need a partner to live a socially vibrant life? As you age, you absolutely do. Social opportunities start to decline heavily as you get older. Being a single man or woman in your middle-age can lead to absolutely crushing loneliness, because there's just nobody else your age to hang out with, that isn't busy with their families / partner. There's this common idea on the internet of the independent, single, middle-aged man/woman who has all this money and time and is going on adventure…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:38 PM
-8	Women got educations and careers and now they don't have time for men You're patting women on the back a little too much. Women aren't magically smarter or harder working now, universities and companies are investing significant money into attracting and supporting them, because a high percentage of women in the classroom / org chart looks good to investors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:26 PM
1	There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficient I really would love it if someone told me why, if its OK for a man to spend lots of energy on making money in their 20s that its wrong for women to do the same? Ask yourself the inverse and you'll have your answer. Why is it okay for a woman to not focus on her career in her 20's, but it's frowned upon for a man to do the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:21 PM