BatteredAndBedamned Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to handle an aging b*** wife Op doesn't seam to be the type that is "in control" of a relationship. This is also a reprehensible and disgusting view of heteronormative relationships. No one should be "in control" of the relationship. They should be in control of themselves and the way they choose to continue a relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/26 07:39 PM
2	How to handle an aging b*** wife It does seam that op is not the most enjoyable partner to have based on the statements they made	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/26 07:38 PM
1	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? I am the one who "walked out", my spouse was completely blindsided, or that is what she says. I chose to believe that she was just blind. I had complained for years. I had attempted to communicate my wants and desires directly. She never listend. These days she blames it all on me. No matter how it goes, someone gets painted as the bad person. I have empathy for her, I don't like that this caused her pain. My emotional investment was long over by the time I said I was done. I had had the opportu…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/10/25 05:57 PM
2	Has anyone else dealt with a destroyed sex drive even though they are happily with another partner? Find a sex and relationship therapist and do the personal work to grow and heal from your difficult experiences.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/25 06:17 PM
3	Did anyone else lose their sense of attraction? Yes, I had this issue too. I went to therapy and worked on myself. I spent time learning to love myself again and to accept who I am and where I am at in life.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/24 04:12 AM
3	If you ever get lonely and just want to interact with some people I sing at open mic nights every week and I took up social dancing. I get to interact with people, and I am not so touch starved, it's working for me so far.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/11/24 08:09 PM
1	Why are men so bad at making friends? Yes, making new female friends when you have a current romantic partner can be very difficult. It has a lot more to do with your own relationship, though, to be honest. It's an unpopular opinion but, for me personally I would end a dating relationship if my partner took exception to close female friends. I do however explicitly state within the first few interactions when meeting new female friends that I am only looking for friendship. There are exceptions to all things. If I am dating a woman …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/08/24 04:42 AM
1	Why are men so bad at making friends? So hear me out, why not fill up your social calendar with female friends instead? And no, I don't mean just the attractive women. Some of my absolute best relationships in life have been with female friends. True friends, people who actually valued me as a human being and not just an entry in their "friend zone" roster. I have learned a lot from them about life and what it's like to be a woman. They have learned a lot from me and what it is like to be a man. We have both benefited from each othe…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 05:12 AM
1	Guys who initiated the divorce and did NOT get cheated on, what’s your story? 30s M married to 30s F, 11 years. Sever emotional abuse and neglect. Sexual abuse and neglect. Only now, at the end while I go through therapy and reflect on the life we had am I starting to understand the full extent of what was inflicted upon me.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/24 05:58 PM
2	Dating after divorce Honestly, I wish I could feel romantic interest in any woman right now, but it's going to take a while to feel good about a romance again.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/24 08:22 PM
2	Ever wish she cheated? All the time. I wish she cheated years ago so I would have called it quits much earlier	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 07:21 PM
2	Losing my cool Preach brother. I look forward to finalizing my divorce and dumping this toxic crap and never looking back.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/06/24 06:49 PM
5	I hate my wife I guess I was not clear. I am advocating that OP starts caring more about themselves and starts on the process of leaving behind this relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/24 09:03 PM
-3	I hate my wife Why did you marry this woman in the first place? There were signs when you were dating, you chose to ignore them. I realize this hurts a lot and being ignored sucks, I feel for you. Why are you continuing to choose this woman as a life partner? You cannot beg someone into loving you. They have to choose it themselves. I understand that life has happened, things have been said, it's hard to come back from the hurts when the foundation was not solid in the first place. Why not ask your wife to get…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/06/24 07:40 PM
2	Acknowledging an important day I think your heart is in the right place if you are struggling with this. I understand as I am leaving my wife and I am still very much in love with her and care for her. Nothing good will come of this, yes, you want to be caring and supportive, but imagine where this might go. You are better off taking a moment of silence to send some positive thoughts and energy into the universe for her and then continuing on with your life.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/24 06:07 PM
3	What bucket list items are you planning on doing when you get divorced what's a bj ... cries quietly	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/24 11:11 PM