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| 6 | I think my wife might be baby-crazy and I'm afraid of being trapped in a loveless marriage with a high-conflict woman who constantly guilt-trips me and isolates me from family.I figure it's a trauma reaction - or at least it was for me. If my first experience in an elevator was it malfunctioning and falling uncontrollably hundreds of feet repeatedly - making me feel the worst terror of my life - I'm pretty sure I would be leery of all elevators. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/11 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Circumcision: Maiming infantsI had it done to me when I was a baby, and up until the day my son was born a year ago, I was prepared to have him cut too - it happened to me, what's the big deal? Then I met BattleChicken Jr... After he was real in front of me, I changed my mind completely; He was a little person, and I ACTUALLY considered having a doctor cut into a part of his body and cause him pain over a tradition. I stopped seeing it as something harmless and started seeing it as ritualized mauling. I decided then that if… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/11 07:26 PM |
| 6 | I think my wife might be baby-crazy and I'm afraid of being trapped in a loveless marriage with a high-conflict woman who constantly guilt-trips me and isolates me from family.BPD is incredibly scary to live with. I know when I started to date my wife (who is awesome, not BPD) I was terrified she was going to turn on me and start acting crazy like my BPD mother - it was my only frame of reference at the time. My fear didn't say anything about women in general or my wife, it said something about me trying to protect myself from a kind of woman who would go out of her way to destroy me. When you've lived with it once, you want nothing more than to avoid it like the plag… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/11 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I think my wife might be baby-crazy and I'm afraid of being trapped in a loveless marriage with a high-conflict woman who constantly guilt-trips me and isolates me from family.Speaking as a child of a woman with BPD where my father divorced my mom at 5, growing up with a BPD mother was incredibly difficult. If you have a kid with the woman and you get divorced, the children will be strained severely - the mom will take out all her frustrations on the kids rather than you; Often, she may take out her frustrations on you THROUGH the kids (by either abusing them or badmouthing you to them) Don't have a kid with the woman, especially since you see the writing on the wall … | /r/MensRights | 05/07/11 06:50 PM |
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